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| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidWooing a mate is all about presentation and dishonesty, sadly. I usually have horrific social awareness and would get attached to people very quickly. Thankfully, the last woman I ever hooked up with just agreed to assume we were dating. By two weeks we said “I love you,” and by seven months we were engaged. When you do get that special person, everyone that came before them (be it a causal hookup or past relationship) comes across as a “practice run” for the real deal. If you told me six years … | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidHonestly, the hardest part was looking past my own desires and my shyness. Trying to speak to women I was attracted to would cause internal panic- not as bad as actual panic attacks, but definitely within the realm of an anxiety attack. But once I started talking, normally I was okay and could hold interesting conversation for as long as we had to speak. Don’t get me wrong, there were a lot of fuck ups too or times I dropped the ball or where I didn’t really hit it off well with the person. My l… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidIf you’re doing everything legitimately, you aren’t trying to fake any part of the relationship journey for the reward and you present yourself as an open and honest person who is interested in another person, then there’s not much else that can be done from there. It either happens or it doesn’t. Sorry if that pisses you off. Playing the dating game super aggressively doesn’t look good, either. I hope you have better luck | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidSo much so that someone simply saying “treat women like people” has sent you in a fucking tirade. You can fake interest in them, feign concern for their well being, and pretend to be interesting all you want. All it does is create distance- most humans can detect when someone isn’t being genuine, and it comes across as creepy and or unsettling at best. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidNo, you don’t. You can ‘know’ all sorts of shit, that doesn’t mean you understand and/or internalize that info successfully. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidI’m fucking autistic and have severe adhd. I’m not an exception, I’m barely even a functional human being. I just treat women like people. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidI have autism. Aspergers. I also have severe ADHD. I’m generally considered to be very intelligent and very funny. I struggle to connect emotionally with most people, but that tended to make my conversations seem a bit more interesting. I honestly just kept it up because I was hoping that eventually, someone would decide they would like me for more than booty call. I was right. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidYou’ll never get anyone by feigning interest. When your entire life is fucking fakery, you send off nothing but red flags and alarms bells so that EVERYONE knows to run for the fucking hills. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidBullshit. Women are human beings. They like having sex because it’s fun. If you want a relationship, then act and behave like a functional fucking person or at least try your best to not be a fucking douche and you’ll get one pretty fucking easily. I started having sex at 16. Between 16 and meeting my wife, I slept with 22 different women and had 3-6 long term relationships depending on your definition. I met my wife at AGE 20. They’re just people. There’s no mystical secret. Act like an interes… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll.Can confirm, been single for a year on thanksgiving and haven’t had sex in seven months. Kill me | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll.I’ve never cheated on a single person because I’m a stubborn asshole who wants the moral high ground. This situation super blows- so I instead tuck away the fact I could fuck the other one, and choose the one that was nicer and/or more interesting sexually. Push comes to shove, you can always just leave to chase after the other one. Pardon the anecdotes to come, I picked my ex of six years for another off and on series of months as I knew it would be, but she was a freak and she happened to want… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Got the confidence, good enough looks but can't form a sentenceWell my problem is, when I see what I want, i get extreme tunnel vision which is why I have trouble forming the sentences. Not that my sentences aren't elementary or stuttering or anything, it's just that I don't make any sense or I seem creepy | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Got the confidence, good enough looks but can't form a sentenceIt's my prescription..? | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 09:05 PM |
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