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| 15 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky“Women risk a lot.” Few men would disagree. Yet women CONTINUE to choose poorly DESPITE recognizing those risks. If women want a boyfriend/husband/father of their children to stick around and help RAISE those children and take care of her, maybe… just maybe… prioritizing a man’s height, “rizz,” “vibes,” “chemistry,” looks, social skills, etc… isn’t the way to go. Women prioritize the superficial and are surprised when the few men they feel “the spark” with have plenty of other women who also “fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”"Everything you do is self inflicted when it comes to making relationships." So do you also apply this logic to all the women who claim they were "tricked" into having sex with/dating/marrying said "bad boys," toxic men, and narcissists? Because there's no shortage of women complaining about the men THEY chose of their own free will and agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 39 | GoT and shaming of men's sexualityI think the issue Martin brought center stage with his novels that has unfortunately been near normalized today is paternity fraud, which is a near effortless crime that women routinely commit and society is loath to punish them for. Heck, society will actually reward women for not only cheating on men, but also tricking him into raising and financially supporting a child or children that are not biologically his. The courts rule “in the best interests of the child” which just so happens to shie… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/26 02:20 AM |
| 15 | Red pill "logic" applied to men shows the absurdity needed.“Then I look at the people doing the most damage in America. The list is overwhelmingly men.” You know what all those awful male politicians, billionaires, tech bros, grifters, etc all have in common with the average toxic, abusive man? They’re never lacking for women. O.J. Simpson murdered his ex-wife. He still had women involved with him after he got out of prison for a different crime. Chris Brown has beaten multiple women, before and after Rihanna. Women still pay a thousand dollars to meet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:16 PM |
| 17 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Man-whores exist because women are attracted to them. Women reward the bad behavior they complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:01 PM |
| 1 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?I imagine given that 70% of divorces are filed by women, the men who didn’t want to get divorced are trying to find a silver lining to their upended lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:19 PM |
| -3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.He wasn’t liberal enough to entertain Lizzo at her heaviest and caught plenty of side eye for marrying a woman 16 years his junior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 11:13 PM |
| 20 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards“It’s only logical to look for traits that indicate that you’ll be less likely to be screwed over.” Yeah, like him being a minimum of six feet tall, that’s definitely the type of man who’s going to remain loyal and help raise his children. The taller the man, the better the father, it’s science. Or his “rizz” and “chemistry.” The ease with which he flirts with you, knows all the right things to say and when to say it, that’s a guarantee he’s never going to be checking out other women, entertaini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.“Men need to call out other men.” Oh, they do… but it’s difficult to make an impact when toxic men are never lacking for women. The existence of groups like ‘Are We Dating The Same Guy’ shows the reality of horrible men who have scores of women interested in them. Why should other men be intervening in the choices women make of their own free will? It’s like when the police arrive at a domestic violence call. The cops separate the man and the woman. The man’s been threatening her with violence. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:41 PM |
| 7 | The Graham Platner scandal shows decency doesn’t matter in datingThe aggravating thing about liberal women is that when it comes to dating and marriage, they’re not that different than conservative women. The hypocrisy of liberal women is that so many apply the buffet principle of cherry picking what parts of “progressivism” and “equality” that they want with regards to dating and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves.This is no different than the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” effect. It won’t change unless some catastrophe or war completely upends society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:26 AM |
| 11 | There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't workHuh? The Left primarily champions the notion that “women can do no wrong.” That there’s nothing a woman need do to improve herself, she’s perfect exactly as she is and it is society that must “step up” to meet her “needs.” It might not be a strictly financial grift, but it definitely panders/coddles/tells people what they want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:42 PM |
| 21 | Feminism uses "gender inequality" to distract from class inequalityLet’s not forget how women have so much purchasing power… they’re not worried about having to financially support another human being plus offspring for decades. After graduating college I remember being perplexed at how many more women were living on their own than men, despite the narrative being that women are paid less than men. Well, when women’s lives are subsidized by men by way of their meals paid for, their vacations paid for, and various other expenses being picked up by men, they tend… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/26 05:54 PM |
| 35 | Why are men shamed for using porn?It’s interesting that porn is blamed for unrealistic expectations that men would have for women, but I’ve yet to see society do a deeper dive than the usual podcasters on what things are responsible for unrealistic expectations that women have for men. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 25 | Good News: A New Study Finds Most Men Are Not ToxicThere’s only a small portion of the male population who are terrible people and women flock to them as if they were the only acceptable sexual partners imaginable. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/26 05:33 AM |
| – | Even if the Red Pill doesn't understand philosophy or the history of gender essentialism, it doesn't change the fact that its worldview is fundamentally conservative.It’s amazing how “conservative gender roles” as they pertain to women are seen as a negative thing by modern women… yet unsurprisingly they have zero problem enforcing conservative gender roles on men. The man paying. The man protecting. The man providing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.“Sometimes they can become insecure.” Gee, I wonder why, in a society in which divorce is initiated by women the majority of the time, why some men might be even warier of a scenario in which she’s that much more likely to leave. Marriages where wives out-earn their husbands have a notably higher divorce rate. Female breadwinner households make up roughly 16 percent of couples, but account for up to 42 percent of all divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 01:51 AM |
| – | You have to be comfortable with the idea of getting cheated on to be in a relationshipWomen love to cite “studies” that claim that men cheat more than women but when you bring up mandatory paternity testing across the board, all of a sudden “there no need for such useless and degrading requirements.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGThe most important part of those AWDTSG groups is that it exposes what men already knew and many women deny; that women all chase after the same men. The same players, the same narcissists, the same bad boys. They love to claim that women aren’t a monolith, that women don’t go after twenty percent of men, that women “can smell a man who’s putting on an act,” and all the excuses they tell the world and themselves, and yet we have groups like AWGTSG that shows their actions and their words don’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:36 PM |
| -2 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equally“Her body, her choice” also comes with *her* consequences. If you have a buffet table and you choose the cookies and cheesecake and tiramisu because they taste better than the broccoli, asparagus and beets, you’re free to do so. You just don’t get to complain about the consequences of eating less healthy food. No one forced you to eat the processed food full of sugar and extra calories when right next to it were healthy food options. Women just want to cling to “flavor isn’t a choice” with regar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Gay people are more compatible with each other than straight ones.The funny thing about women “not feeling safe around men” is that so many choose men who display aggressive behavior with the physical strength to easily overpower them, and they frame it as “he’ll protect me from other men,” when such instances likely pale in comparison to how often women are in danger from their own intimate partners. In other words, the men they choose of their own free will are often the ones who abuse and beat them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.“The types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.” There’s far fewer of those than there are men taller than six feet and earning a minimum of six figures. If you go to any majority progressive city, San Francisco, Seattle, Portland, New York, Los Angeles, etc, the vast majority of women there who profess to align with liberal and “free from gender roles” mindsets STILL expect men to pay. When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:11 PM |
| 7 | I don't know how anyone can argue in good faith that dating apps aren't easier for women than menThat’s because women are ALSO being offered houses in real life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?"think it’s harder to have empathy for specific men’s issues when it feels like you can see the solution to their problem, you suggest solutions, they don’t do it and then they continue to bemoan and blame women for their issues." This is fair as long as it's equally applied to women. These days, there's a LOT of pushback against the solution of women "choosing better," because women know that one of the tenets of actually choosing better is to select for character over superficial traits and it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn’t special.Women routinely recategorize sex as alternately “special” and “not special” as it benefits their perspective at that moment, just like many of them do when it comes to equality and traditionalism. When she cheats on her boyfriend or husband, then sex is “nothing special.” When she routinely declines her boyfriend or husband’s sexual advances, the sex he desires “isn’t important.” When it’s something a potential partner obviously wants from her, then she suddenly understands it’s “something speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:30 PM |
| 17 | Being single is different for men and women.What makes these guys gross? They committed two inexcusable sins… they weren’t tall enough and they were “boring.” If they were tall enough and were exciting yet would give her black eyes, no “icks” there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Is a Man’s Worth Still Measured by His Paycheck?Not *just* by his paycheck, but also his height. His race. His body. His “rizz.” His social status. His hair, or lack thereof. How many other women desire him. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/26 08:00 PM |
| -1 | Women have little intent.Women relying on “vibes” is why they all claim to have dated or married narcissists, ended up in abusive relationships, or became single mothers. A man doing the same would be just as foolish. He too will pay for “going with the flow.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | It's totally ok to be superficial and selfish in datingYes, men AND women can be as superficial as they like when dating/having sex/getting married… they just don’t get to cry foul when they eventually reap the consequences of choosing poorly. Just like idiots who choose to purchase a tiger and keep it as a pet because of the exotic/dangerous factor and play victim when the tiger mauls them or other innocent bystanders, when women fixate on height, looks, aggressiveness, chemistry, etc… and ignore character, loyalty, kindness and empathy… women will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:18 PM |
| – | Why did I start getting more women by implementing toxic, narcissistic and manipulative behaviors?And when you ask women why the men who are considered among the worst human beings alive… Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Chris Brown, Bill Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, etc, etc, are all never without willing women and in Cosby and Weinstein’s cases - only without them because they went to prison, women claim those are outliers. O.J. Simpson had women still interested in hi after he murdered his ex-wife and her boyfriend. Women married convicted murderers Oscar Ray Bolin, Ted Bundy, Charles f-ing Manson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeJust imagine if they *avoided* those bad relationships to begin with. But hey, six foot three, plenty of swag and monthly black eyes are preferable to under five nine, a 9 to 5 job, and those terribly boring and predictable bouquets of flowers, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:44 AM |
| 29 | Most US States Do NOT Allow Lifetime AlimonyLifetime or not, alimony is bullshit. We can’t fathom the idea of forcing a woman to still have sex with her former husband but we have zero problems turning men into slaves by forcing them to work more than they ordinarily would to provide for their former wives. When women talk about “smashing the patriarchy” and “fighting for equality,” I notice they have little interest in doing away with certain sexist and traditional laws and customs that overwhelmingly benefit women. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 3 | "Women should take me as I am!" is men also being picky like women if he's not likable.I remember a Chris Rock stand up line about the difference between men and women lying. He said men lie the most but women tell the biggest lies. A man's lie is that he was at his friend's house when he wasn't. A woman's lie is "it's your baby" when it's another man's. When it comes to pickiness and the "demand" to be taken as they are, there is no comparison. Women will turn down a man for not being over six feet tall, something that is completely out of his control, but become angry if a man d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:00 AM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?“So we get to pick men we want to spend our time with.” Yes, and then you complain about those very men you picked and how they “tricked you” because they turned out to be toxic abusive narcissists whom plenty of other women are fighting over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?It’s interesting… your father sounds like a horrible man and yet your mother and then another woman found him attractive enough to put up with his crap. He wasn’t a respectful man, he wasn’t a loyal man, yet he still had more than one woman, so the problem isn’t the incel boogeyman but rather the type of men that women do choose. Women like to claim “attraction isn’t a choice.” Bullshit. Harvey Weinstein, a rather ugly and overweight man had a conventionally attractive wife prior to his prison s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Given all the single mothers out there, the amount of women who claim to have been dating/married to narcissists, the increase in domestic violence, it’s very clear that women are putting their trust in the wrong men. That might just have something to do with women prioritizing “rizz” and “game” and the almighty spark/chemistry. If those things are so important to women even though they poorly predict his trustworthiness… that’s on those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:45 PM |
| 8 | Redpill guys will do anything to get women except being respectful to women.If being respectful to women was a component of women’s attraction to men, you’d have a lot of explaining to do beyond the customary excuse of “men hide who they really are until it’s too late.” Nah, women immediately size up men when they meet them. They claim that their intuition can tell them who’s a misogynist, a player, a conservative, etc. There are plenty of respectful men out there. Women just aren’t attracted to the traits they claim to be attracted to. That’s how you get groups like “a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:33 PM |
| – | How would RP government change society?The first thing to do would be to take a sledgehammer to the divorce industrial complex. No more alimony. Intensely scrutinized child support spending audits. Mandatory pre-marriage counseling as well as pre-divorce therapy. Social needs to be willing to yank children away from dysfunctional parents AND penalize the parents for their role in worsening the children’s lives. Oh, and mandatory paternity testing, retroactive to whomever the oldest people alive are. Expose the cheaters, men and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.You mean the men that women *choose* to have sex with have not been the most reciprocal sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags.Forget sexist men getting more women… men who are BULLIES get more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:32 PM |
| 51 | Why are the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups still going strong years later? Paola Sanchez and Blake Milbrand need to face lawsuits for keeping these groups going.… because despite women’s protests to the contrary, they ARE all dating the same guys. Hell, it’s part of what attracts them to those men in the first place. That he’s desired by other women. Men don’t give a damn about social proof, if we find her attractive, that’s enough. We don’t need consensus buy-in from our fellow men to decide such things. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/26 09:13 PM |
| 33 | Why Smart Men Keep Choosing the Wrong Partner - Alison ArmstrongThe difference is that when men choose the wrong partner, he has to own it. No one is coming to save him. No one is telling him that he was “just young and dumb.” No one gasses him up and tells him he deserves an even more attractive woman with bigger breasts. He certainly won’t have a new partner the next week. He won’t be showered with compliments and attention from women waiting in the wings. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/26 02:33 AM |
| 89 | TIL in Georgia there is a mandate for paternity tests for child support cases. In 2025, about 40% of cases were negative for fatherhood.We can’t hold women accountable without it. As I haven’t cheated, haven’t committed any crimes, and plan to do neither, I’m okay with mandatory paternity testing. I also want it to be retroactive, to expose cheating women AND men. I’d like nothing more than to see the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” crowd crumble over the results. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/26 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't care“But what does "choose better" even mean if there's no "better" to choose from?” This makes the majority of men roll their eyes. “Choose better” means to choose men who are loyal. Dependable. Of good character. It doesn’t mean taller than the last man you dated. It doesn’t mean wealthier than the last man. It certainly doesn’t mean someone with better “rizz” than the last man. The traits women have convinced themselves are SO important in men are just like a man prioritizing hair color, breast s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 04:33 PM |
| 31 | I hate that some people make it seem like most men don't have to be scared for their lives unlike womenAnother irony is that the men who are doing the killing are often the types of men whom women are attracted to. Hybristophilia is far, far, far more common in women than in men, and women don’t care about that disparity at all. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/26 04:56 AM |
| – | young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol.A portion of the conversation being had lately is due to the last Presidential election in the USA. The Democrats lost what most people thought was a sure thing and during the postmortem examination the fact that a lot of young men voted for Trump not because they supported him so much as he and his party weren’t against them as much as the alternative. The discourse around young men and men in general seems performative… once the Democrats win in 2028 (Republicans have NOT been doing the best j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 08:15 PM |
| 71 | ‘My first husband was killed in the war. I’ve been left without a husband!’ the woman shouts at the draft officers, trying to protect her second husband from mobilization.Huh? Hillary Clinton told me that women are the primary victims in war. I can see that now. Her first husband died, and she replaced him. Now her second husband might die as the first did, defending Ukraine from the existential threat of Russian aggression and I now realize how difficult continuing to live is for her as the primary victim. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 23 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesIt’s very clear what he’s riled up about. Look at all the women furious about basketball player Klay Thompson cheating on Megan Thee Stallion. The man is a known serial cheater with hundreds of women competing to be the next woman he cheats on. Screaming “don’t tell women to choose better, men need to BE better.” That’s no different than the idiots who own exotic dangerous animals who are surprised when a wild animal behaves like… a wild animal. They wanted a dangerous creature to behave like a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 8 | the compliments seem to be endless but yet still single?“Compliments.” That’s like women on Kendra G and Kevin Samuels’ shows bragging about how many proposals and engagements they’ve had. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many other men under the women are wonderful effect and why is so hard to pull them out of it?I have a close male friend who used to embody the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” mentality. Then his wife divorced him not because of anything he did or didn’t do, but because she didn’t want to be married anymore. Now he only sees his children on weekends. While he isn’t red-pilled, he definitely does not white knight for women anymore. It’s hilarious that women get angry about “being pedestalized,” in their own words, but their position of power in society comes from the fact that m… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/26 06:13 PM |
| – | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseThe best part is when women make those online videos yelling that they (women) don’t need to choose better, the bad men they chose need to “be better.” That’s hilarious. It’s like women’s version of “the hooker with a heart of gold” trope that some men fall for. Those men are hung up on the hooker’s physical attractiveness, but foolishly believe “he can change her.” Why? Why try and change a hooker into a housewife? It’s the same damn thing with women and the toxic men they think will “step up t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.I’m actually going to disagree with the OP a bit. What you say can be true, but is not applicable across the board. While we’ve all experienced women who are all about extracting resources from men, and are often able to do so from a wide spectrum of men, we also have seen with our own eyes women who will cheat on their loving husbands who provide for them with men who have nothing material to offer, but is able to give them that almighty nebulous “spark” that their husbands do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | An 18 year old woman can't date a 60 year old because "her brain isn't fully developed"I love how women can simultaneously believe that girls/women mature faster than boys/men and have incredible “intuition” and agency when it comes to dating and mating - when they feel they’re getting the best deal out of it - yet the moment they feel that they’re not the one winning… they were “groomed.” Their brains aren’t “fully developed.” They were “tricked.” They want power without responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/26 06:40 PM |
| 15 | Red Pillers idolize the wrong men“You choose to be gullible.” Now apply this same response to all the women who claim that the abusive men THEY chose, of their own free will, “tricked them.” You can’t crow about women’s “incredible intuition” that strangely only seem to help women avoid “boring,” “predictable,” and “socially awkward” men and yet claim “you just don’t truly know a man until he’s gotten you so invested that you can’t leave,” which is complete BS because women have zero problems leaving men the majority of the tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than women“The guy leaves the house.” That’s certainly an interesting way of describing how “she divorced him and expects him to keep paying the mortgage for a house he no longer lives in.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 09:37 PM |
| 21 | this shit is getting oldWe all feel you. The thing to remember is that while women fear the ugly man in the dark alley so much, the irony is that they have the most to fear from the charismatic men they gravitate towards and let their guard down with. The best thing we can do is hold the men who do harm women accountable but remind women that we cannot do that if women continuously keep choosing those very men and giving them the opportunity to hurt them. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 194 | "Young women feel a lot more negatively towards young men than the other way around"“How dare these young men not all be taller than six feet and not earning six figures by the time they graduate college and can rizz us up and have ample free time to wine, dine, and take us on an Instagram-worthy lifestyle!” | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 04:11 PM |
| 79 | Why is it that a woman wants you to fufill and stay in your gender role but she doesn't have to?… because they’re hypocrites. They pick and choose from the buffet table of equality because we men sadly have allowed them to. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 06:48 PM |
| 37 | Most men do not subscribe to toxic masculinity traits, study findsIn my observation, “toxic masculinity” is perpetuated and performed primarily because it is rewarded by women. There isn’t a dictator or criminal on the planet that doesn’t have women throwing themselves at them. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 05:07 PM |
| – | Romance dramas or movies targeted at women are harmful to societyThe irony of what you’ve described is that while women often expect that cinematic level of sacrifice and effort from men, they not only ONLY want it from the few men they are actually attracted to, and detest it from the men they aren’t attracted to - they eventually resent it from the men they’re attracted to who give it to them. Women are never satisfied. Chris Rock had a great joke about how a woman could have a man with a chocolate dick that ejaculated money and she’d still find something t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:20 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't there more pushback from women toward women who encourage the male behavior they hate“Women are not a collective.” Except when they choose to be. During the MeToo years women were definitely a collective and also treated men as a collective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:07 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most guys don’t fail in dating because of looks or status.. They fail because they don’t understand banter."When you banter, you’re subconsciously signaling how you’ll handle real disagreements in a relationship. If you fold, get awkward, or become passive aggressive, it tells the other person everything they need to know." Really? It tells the other person *everything* they need to know, huh? Politicians are GREAT at banter. It sure doesn't mean s--t as far as them keeping their promises, delivering results, or maintaining any loyalty. "Banter." All those men out there who left a woman or women as s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:29 AM |
| -1 | Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any group“If a man dates you just for sex…” Gee, perhaps it might be in women’s best interests to you know, choose better then? By all means, keep believing that you can find those incredibly faithful six foot tall, six figure earning men with “rizz” that just grow on trees everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any groupI dunno, last I checked the ten richest women in the world obtained their wealth through divorce. There are more homeless women than men. There are far more men paying women’s bills than women paying men’s bills. “What does sexual power even get you as a woman.” Sadly, it gets them a lot of attention, opportunities, and lifestyle subsidies by the stupid thirsty men they exploit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:26 PM |
| 10 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isHeh. It might help if women stopped telling men that pitiful excuse/lie of “we should be friends first.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:30 AM |
| 16 | We're not lowering standards to get a boyfriend, OK?If she had married in her twenties or thirties and had kids, she’d be divorced now. Not because her husband cheated, or abused her, or anything of the sort. Because he committed the worst sin of all to women. He was “boring.” He didn’t excite her. He didn’t “put her in her place.” He simultaneously gave her everything she said she wanted but couldn’t read her mind to give her what she truly wanted but never told him she wanted… because what she wanted was for him to pay all the bills and parent … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/26 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"We can easily see just how much a stay-at-home spouse’s contributions are valued by women themselves if we look at the amount of women who want a stay-at-home-spouse. What’s that? Few women want that? Few women want to support, house, and feed a man whom they’d expect to do all that hard work that women brag about when THEY do it, yet if a man wants to stay at home… he’s a “bum.” A “leech.” A good for nothing “man-child.” This right here is one of the multiple double standards in life, one that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:45 PM |
| 11 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipHeh. OP is fifty and his fiancé is nineteen. “He gon’ learn.” Have fun when she divorces you when she’s got plenty of years left in her to enjoy spending your money while you’re dealing with aging issues and thought she was your “ride or die.” Enjoy the DiCaprio lifestyle while you have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 09:39 PM |
| 8 | The Preeminence of Place in Pursuing a Partner“Boring as fuck.” And that right there, ladies and gentlemen, is why there are so many single mothers, abused women, murdered wives/mothers, etc, etc. Because that is what women prioritized over all else. It’s no different than a man’s desire for large breasts or blonde hair, the difference being everyone sees such shallow preferences exactly as they are, and not hidden behind “chemistry” and “the spark.” It goes to show how easy modern society has made life, that “boring” has become the worst t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:06 PM |
| 17 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.… it IS more likely to get them laid. Studies have shown that men who are bullies have more sex than men who don’t bully. While women repeatedly declare that sex is not a reward that men can earn, it’s not hard to figure out that bad men have zero incentive to change their behavior when they realize that despite or because of their bad behavior, women respond positively to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 11 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”Can you imagine if we applied women's logic to the workforce? "Well, John here is the hardest worker, he sacrifices and helps everyone and is a solid person. Michael barely works, comes in late, leaves early, and never helps his coworkers. Let's pay Michael the same or more than John." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:10 AM |
| 25 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”"Most women know exactly if they can see any sort of relationship or future with the guy after a few hours of knowing them..." Yeah, their intuition there has been *stellar,* given that they all complain about the toxic, abusive narcissists they ended up choosing out of all the men out there. How is it that a woman can reject a hundred dudes and always choose the one who treats her poorly, beats her, and leaves her a single mother? It's like the complete opposite of great aim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:07 AM |
| 26 | Women At Greater Risk Of AI Job Loss, Study FindsThose companies were giving women a false sense of superiority and I for one am fine with them having had a taste of “the good life” and then having it stripped from them. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/26 09:55 PM |
| 25 | But I feel like I don't have a choice! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenMen who want to settle down? No, women can’t settle for those terrible men who are “predictable,” “boring,” and “nice.” Women would rather be given black eyes by an exciting man than flowers by a boring man. That’s how spoiled women are in today’s modern society, that the most important thing to them is their need for entertainment/excitement/drama. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/03/26 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.It’s funny that women have such a problem with what DiCaprio does… unless they’re the young women who shamelessly throw themselves at him in order to enjoy the benefits and lifestyle he provides, however temporary. Then, it’s okay, until he replaces them with the next younger model. These young women aren’t being taken advantage of. They know exactly who he is and what they’ll get out of it and for how long. What he does is no different than what most women do to most men - treat them as disposa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:05 AM |
| 2 | "Nice" is neither a synonym of "good" nor necessarily a positive trait.Women: "Nice is neither a synonym of good nor necessarily a positive trait." Also Women: "We face SO much domestic violence (by the men we chose) and SO much emotional abuse (by the men we chose) and don't you know that being a good man is the *bare minimum* (it's not, for women the bare minimum is: he must be attractive)?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 03:23 PM |
| 24 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you“Hugely exaggerated,” huh? It’s strange that actually psychologists report a whopping 5-6 percent of the population, with 50-75 percent of them being men… and yet to listen to women, they’ve ALL dated or been married to an abusive, asshole narcissist. So are women exaggerating here or just lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 04:32 PM |
| -2 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argument“Degenerate sociopath,” huh? Interesting how so many women miraculously choose those very degenerate sociopaths to procreate with, out of all of the men out there. No one forced her to choose those men who get them pregnant and bounce. Her body, her choice, her consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?I love it when women act as though their bare minimum is about character, integrity, loyalty, etc in the man they’re choosing. It’s not. Women’s “bare minimum” is a man’s height, race, “rizz,” and income. They prioritize the superficial and embrace the just world fallacy when it comes to the arena in which women get to choose… and then cry foul when they experience the negative consequences of their own choices. There wouldn’t be so many single mothers if women’s “bare minimum” were about a man’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 04:12 PM |
| 40 | Casual sex benifits men more than women“Practice a lot more caution.” That’s great that women are able to filter for height and lack of confidence, but strangely has trouble filtering for players, abusers and narcissists. “But those men are experts at tricking women!” Men agree, but they are constantly reminded that it’s not up to US to police women’s choices. If we did, we’re called controlling, jealous, insecure. Her body, her choice, and her consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenThe funniest part of “women regretting casual sex” is that they have only themselves to blame for it. As they enjoy crowing about, “women screw who they want, men screw who they can.” As the choosers, they determine who gets in… and then they want to complain about the choice THEY made, of their own free will. Women are like employers who hire bad employees because those employees interviewed well, and later realized why they interviewed well… because those employees were constantly applying to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Are Social Media Comparisons Raising the Bar for "Masculinity" Unrealistically?That’s something I think the majority of men and women can agree on. A rare win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:55 AM |
| – | If its men's fault for not being able to get a date, then its women's fault for getting "used"“Choose better?” Oh no, can’t expect women to do that. You see, the men that THEY want, the tall exciting men with “rizz” and plenty of women all vying for their attention… THOSE men should change their womanizing ways (which ironically is what attracted her to him in the first place) and be a monogamous, loyal partner. It’s the equivalent of a man who’s only attracted to a blonde bimbo stripper type, and he expects her to magically transform into a loyal suburban housewife. I recall a great quo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:40 PM |
| 20 | As if men are not victims of online violence? Seriously?“It’s said that poison is a woman’s weapon.” While there are plenty of women who engage in physical violence, often emboldened by the fact that if they attack a man, he’s going to restrain himself whereas she is under no such obligation, there are definitely other forms of violence. Women can easily deliver a hurt to a man worse than a hundred black eyes, and she’ll face no consequences for it; cheating on him and passing off another man’s child as his own. If we truly lived in a patriarchy as w… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction“Observation is a very unreliable teacher.” It sure doesn’t seem to work for women; they’ll observe a man who has three baby mamas and believe that she is different and he won’t up and leave her the way he did them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:24 PM |
| 13 | single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy”Very much this. Those single mothers are ungrateful and they likely have a bunch of similar friends helping endorse the narrative in their heads that those men are “lucky” to be raising children SHE made with another man and bailing her out of her poor decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:53 AM |
| 12 | Over 20,000 upvotes for this misandrist victim-blaming on /r/all. 95% upvoted.“Just respect women.” Oh, so he wants his son to be a monk or a cuckold. Cool. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 54 | Women prefer meaningful work to well paidIt sure is a lot easier to pursue “meaningful” work when you’re the gender who can bank on your life being subsidized by the other gender. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 01:05 AM |
| -1 | Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibilityGiven how many women out there claim they’ve dated or married narcissistic men, how wrong is it to claim that women are clearly filtering for traits that don’t exactly reflect a man’s true character? Loyalty is laughably not a trait women look for in men. If it were, they wouldn’t gravitate towards the small group of men that their fellow women are all chasing. It’s interesting how women will claim that all men are “dogs” in one breath and in the next cry about how the tall, muscular guy who kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:44 AM |
| 9 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.There definitely ARE men who dehumanize women. However, what are most men expected to do about it… when those men who dehumanize women are often REWARDED with attention, sex and love from women despite and because of those men’s bad behavior? Seriously… women want the good men they ignore to do… what? Have a group pow wow with the bad men that they, the good men dislike already, to “clean up their act?” Why would the bad men change who they are, when their bad behavior is ATTRACTIVE to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Does a woman want a toxic/alpha man up until their first child? Then they want a provider, man due to hormonal changes?What’s funny about your last sentence of children getting burnt as well is how society will always use the “best interests of the child” excuse when it comes to forcefully correcting MEN’S behavior but refuses to use the same logic to correct WOMEN’S behavior. Like, isn’t it in children’s best interest that mommy not be a whore, have affairs, etc? Yet society lets her completely off the hook. If there’s one place I’d want to unleash every negative trait of Trump’s it’s on the biased family court… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/26 06:17 PM |
| 5 | “Men will treat you as well or as poor as you let them” is a mindset that absolves men of accountability.This is true, and yet values are often not high on the priority list when women choose men, given the divorce and domestic violence rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:51 AM |
| 19 | If "all men" deserve collective blame, then shouldn't "all men" deserve collective credit?“Success has many fathers, but failure is an orphan.” There was a great comic book series called ‘Y: The Last Man’ and though it had some feminist themes, it was well written, solid art, and the story was consistent and compelling. Set in a world in which every man but one died suddenly, it showed that when women are left in charge, they are often no better than the “evil” men they replaced. Our society’s infrastructure collapsed of course, as those who toil to keep the lights on for the masses … | /r/MensRights | 17/02/26 11:04 PM |
| – | We should try to convince women to appreciate non-financial value in male partners.It’s hilarious that women don’t value a man who can take care of the house and the children… yet when it’s women handling the house and children, all of a sudden it’s “the hardest, most never-ending and undervalued workload EVER.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:40 PM |
| 16 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairInteresting how “it’s just money” when it’s men spending their money on women. It’s never just money when it’s HER money on the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:10 AM |
| -10 | Most male-female friendships are built upon a foundation of female deceptionI love when people talk about women as “humans with their own agency.” It’s hilarious that the concept of “women having their own agency” disappears the moment it’s inconvenient to the narrative. Then it’s “he tricked her.” He “pretended” to be something else. He “manipulated” her. He “wasn’t like that when she met him.” There’s this insidious expectation that women are only responsible for her choices when they yield the outcomes that benefit them. When women make poor decisions, all of a sudde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 04:11 PM |
| 24 | What makes a man creepy? Is the term creepy overused, or is it warranted?Strange how awkwardness and being “off” trigger alarm bells but players who know exactly what to say, how to say it, and when to say it, those guys pass women’s “intuition tests” and later on women act surprised that these men who aren’t awkward or seem “off” turn out to be… players. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable"Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable." I guess that's the difference between men and women. Men *value* a woman being "just" decent and acceptable. Men find those traits to often be RARE amongst many women. Conversely, women think the narrow range of men they find attractive should just automatically *also* be "decent and acceptable" because women feel they DESERVE attractive, wealthy, and charismatic men who will also be faithful husbands and good fathers,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Women's in group preference is more important than you thinkI normally would agree except I’ll point out that women did not vote as a monolith in the 2024 US Presidential election. It could be an outlier, and given how things are going economically I would expect a different outcome in less than three more years, but I’ll give women as a group that caveat. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.“Women are not mind readers.” Really? Because women take a whopping 3-5 seconds at best to decide to swipe right on a man on dating apps. Likely less time to swipe left. Women pride themselves on their “intuition” but when it goes south, suddenly they’re “not mind readers?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:43 PM |
| 26 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.… the single mothers CHOSE those uninvolved men. No one forced them to pick those particular men. They chose them because they valued their superficial and surface level traits over properly vetting them for character and values. Women CONSTANTLY cry about how much more difficult their lives are than men. How men only worry about rejection and humiliation when dating, having sex, and marriage, whereas women have to worry about pregnancy, abuse, and being murdered. So if the stakes for women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:29 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone had an honest conversation about men's rights with a woman?‘Tis blasphemy to utter the forbidden phrase. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/25 10:49 PM |
| 9 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingThe US military is rife with physically fit men married to overweight women, obese women, and morbidly obese women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:07 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Not to mention the ultimate insult… those women married those men for what they could provide, securing what they needed… and then those women cheat on their husbands with the men they really wanted. Win-win for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:02 PM |
| 11 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedWomen: “If men don’t want to get a woman pregnant, keep it in your pants!” Men: “If women don’t want to get pregnant, keep your legs closed!” It’s funny how society only espouses one of these refrains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:52 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessWomen do seem to love that Jeff Bezos and Matt Damon wifed up single mothers. Too bad that the demand for successful men willing to marry and bail out single mothers from their poor decisions vastly exceeds the supply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:23 PM |
| -1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toIt’s funny. No one forced any of those actresses who exchanged sex with Harvey Weinstein for roles/jobs/fame… and yet society claims “he coerced them.” How? No one will force you to have sex with a fat and unattractive Hollywood producer if you don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitLet’s not forget - women choose the men who are the least likely to commit. Women seriously believe that the few men they all want - over six feet tall, earning a minimum of six figures, head full of hair and “rizz” to spare, who has women throwing themselves at him - is going to be satisfied with only her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:24 PM |
| 15 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?It’s quite telling that unlike most men, women would prefer an exciting man who treats them poorly than a boring man who treats them well. The majority of the men that many women deem as “the devil” currently, Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Andrew Tate, etc, do not lack willing women. Ho to any maximum security prison with men incarcerated for violent crimes and they have plenty of women visiting them as their wives and girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Guys overestimate the percentage of men who can get away with being assholes.And what’s hilarious is that women flock to that ten percent and all later cry about having “dated or married a narcissist.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:52 PM |
| 22 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"A lot of women sure seem to sense “good vibes” from men who later give them black eyes, so I laugh at the concept of “vibes.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Interesting. The women who slept with Harvey Weinstein weren’t obligated to do anything either. Yet they cried foul after they willingly exchanged sex with an unattractive and obese man for fame and fortune, and then sent Weinstein to prison after those women secured their goals. They too made a choice with someone whose expectations they had to meet in order to get what they wanted. Yet they’re somehow victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?You see, a woman is somehow strong and empowered, and more mature than men her age, but also simultaneously weak, and without agency, and certainly cannot be forced to bear the consequences of her own decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irl“Men contribute as little as possible to childcare.” Correction: the men that women CHOOSE to procreate with - out of all available men - contribute as little as possible to childcare. Women just refuse to admit they placed more importance on height, looks, and “rizz” over character, values, and stability when it came to choosing a father/fathers of their child/children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:45 AM |
| 20 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menVery much this. You won’t find a man lying and saying BS like “bigger breasts means she’ll be able to feed my children better.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:02 AM |
| – | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menIt’s funny, given the domestic violence rates… the amount of murdered wives, the single mother epidemic… whenever we hear about this vaunted “women’s intuition” and how women can “sense toxicity” and detect “bad vibes,” I’m like… really? Really? It certainly seems to fail them more often than not… or isn’t the more likely case that women are able to tell who’s not “exciting enough” or who doesn’t know how to tell them “all the right things?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | No one is happy and it is everyone's faultIt certainly wasn’t most men who demanded women be allowed to have their own careers and the need for dual income households. Men who were against “women’s liberation” were labeled misogynistic, exploitative dinosaurs. So what do we have today, instead of the traditional, sexist nuclear family in which the man worked in the rat race and the woman worked in the home? You now have a society in which everyone except those few men and women at the top who are able to somehow have and keep “everythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Men are more misandrist than women will ever beHeh. You ought to look up how many women voted for Trump in 2024… they actually helped squash the narrative that they’re the “benevolent and kinder” gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamy“Sometimes benefit from it?” Ha. Women are drawn to their bad behavior like flies to garbage. Then when those women experience the (gasp!) negative parts of his bad behavior… the cheating, the black eyes, the abuse… all of a sudden they have the audacity to act shocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:17 PM |
| 10 | The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands“They need to stop trying to change men into better men.” Or… they could try choosing better men from the start. This doesn’t mean taller men. It doesn’t mean richer men. It doesn’t mean a man with even more women after him. It means screening for character, values and morals, but we all know that’s not actually what many women prioritize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:30 PM |
| 16 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?“Dating is dangerous.” Well, women had sure better stick to their criteria that helps screen for dangerous men, like height, “rizz,” confidence, income, and looks, right? Let’s not forget the “he has to be strong enough to protect me” mindset… one that is rooted in traditionalism and patriarchy but that even the most staunch performative SJW liberal woman in San Francisco clings to. Women would rather be mauled every other weekend by the aggressive pitbull they choose than have a timid golden re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:24 PM |
| 35 | The "bare minimum" remark by women and feminists boils my blood.The best part about the “bare minimum” expectation of women is that it goes out the window…. when the man is one that they want badly. The one they’ll throw a decade-long marriage away for a month-long fling. Those types of men that women truly desire actually do the rest of us a favor. They expose women’s honest behavior and prove that the narrative they hide behind - that although “men and women are equal” it’s women who are morally superior. There are thousands of women who wouldn’t spend a h… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/25 04:06 PM |
| 17 | women wanted equality but why are they offended now?I’ll be fair here… not all women wanted equality. Most women alive today were not part of the movement for “women’s liberation” and the “sexual revolution.” That said, they are more than happy with much of the current status quo. They get the benefits of legal and basic societal equality, but they also get to selectively choose what parts of gender equality they want to keep or discard, and oscillate between being empowered or a victim as they see fit in the moment. THAT is the rub, right there. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/25 03:43 PM |
| 60 | How the rise of DNA paternity tests is tearing communities apartIt's not the paternity testing tearing families apart, it's the cheaters, men AND women who are tearing families apart. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/25 08:43 PM |
| 12 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.The best part is when women bitch and moan about the horror of being approached but when men offer the alternative - that perhaps women should be the ones to approach instead then - all of a sudden there’s ZERO desire to change one of the last bastions of “traditionalism” from the gender that has done everything to destroy their gender roles and expectations yet ensure that the other has to adhere to theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:51 PM |
| -1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Funny… women sure don’t seem to avoid the wrong men like the plague. They flock to them like flies to a carcass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.“We both know that’s not how it works.” Agreed. Because the deadbeat man that newly single mother chose of her own free will is already screwing the next soon to be single mother. Why? Because he exhibits the qualities that women prioritize over all else, and character and responsibility take a gigantic backseat to the more important things for women, like height, swag, excitement, rizz, and the almighty chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Oh, men definitely, DEFINITELY blame the men who are knocking women up and leaving them single mothers. Here’s the problem… it doesn’t matter if good men blame bad men, or if men AND women blame bad men. Why? Because women will continue to choose the same bad men, regardless. Short of incarcerating the players, there will be no dent in the rate of single motherhood, and in fact, there are plenty of female corrections officers who’ve been caught having sex with the prisoners. “My body, my choice,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman more… and who chose to willingly spread her legs for that “loser?” Funny how women are able to discern which men are boring, lack confidence, don’t have that “rizz,” but they’re forever astonished at how they constantly get knocked up and abandoned by the guys who had that “spark,” huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreWell said. It’s very telling that despite the fact that women initiate and file for divorce 60-70-80% of the time, society goes all out trying to explain that yes, this is true, but here’s why it’s never their fault for the divorce rate. I disagree with DeSantis in Florida about some things but his abolishment of lifetime alimony took some balls and I’m damn glad somebody took a stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Heh. Let’s have mandatory and retroactive paternity testing nationwide. I hope someone hacks those Ancestry and 23andMe databases and exposes just how many fathers have been unknowingly raising children their wives had with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:18 PM |
| 18 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.“That men don’t also fuck around in their youth.” The average man doesn’t have a fraction of the sexual opportunities that an ugly woman has. Most men don’t get to sleep around. Some don’t want to. Most cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:15 PM |
| 46 | As a Woman, I’m Tired of Seeing Men Treated Like TrashThank you for this, and for speaking up on our behalf. Men appreciate someone saying it out loud and acknowledging our side of the story. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/25 12:14 AM |
| – | AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It.This isn’t the only thing I’ve noticed with Google’s AI responses. There’s definitely a pro-woman bias when you type in questions or prompts about dating, marriage, and divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there"Women are cautious around men." Given the domestic violence rates, they're obviously not cautious around the *actually dangerous* men. But hey, at least the man who slaps her around isn't unattractive, socially awkward, or short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:56 PM |
| 7 | You wouldn’t be so confident if you were your brother“Listen to what actual women have to say about the matter.” Nah. How about instead of listening to what women say we observe what they do. Men have observed women repeatedly choose abusers, players, narcissists, criminals, etc. Men have observed just how much women pedestalize “the spark” with a man who gives them black eyes over the “boring and predictable” man who works overtime to save for mutual retirement. Talk from women is cheap, self-serving, and all about crafting their public persona. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:27 AM |
| 7 | why do men complain about women liking bad guy, when they literally have a fetish for crazy women?… because men have to own the consequences of their poor choices in women. No one gives a damn when men are assaulted, abused, robbed, etc by the women they chose, of their own free will. No one forced him to “stick his dick in crazy.” Women however, seem to think they should be able to keep having relationships with the type of men who beat women regularly, but not be beaten by him. They think they should be allowed to own a wild tiger as a pet and are shocked when that tiger doesn’t act like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 01:22 PM |
| 137 | Women being seen as the default judges to a man’s moral worth needs to stop“You can just be a good person” is the most galling, because women like to act like being a “good person” is the “bare minimum” when they’re LYING. Women will spend thousands of dollars to meet Chris Brown for a minute and take a photo with him. He beats women like he does it for a living, and women FLOCK to him. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.Here’s the irony… I agree that “not all single mothers are the same.” However, the fact that SO many of them RAISE their “standards” after they’ve had one, two, or more children AND expect the man who DIDN’T father her children to pay for her and those children’s lives… that’s the rub. There’s a quote that’s been going around, that “it’s crazy that a single man with no kids needs to make six figures to date a woman with kids” and it’s accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:10 PM |
| 17 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.“Turn the never faithful player into a committed husband.” How’s that been working out for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here“Socially incompetent.” Given that the majority of violence against women is perpetuated by their own male partners that they chose, mind you, perhaps “how well he talks to me” might not be the best criteria to judge men on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:00 AM |
| 28 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them."Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men." Bulls---. Men absolutely "care" about those bad men... we don't like them at all. Yet, those bad men are *never* lacking for women. Women FLOCK to bad men. When men speak up about those bad men, we are labeled "jealous," "insecure," "lacking confidence," and of course... "incel." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:20 PM |
| -4 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?The funny thing about relationships being physically riskier for women, is if you observe the type of men many women choose, you’d be forgiven for assuming that many of them wanted to be beaten as much as humanly possible. In the news there’s a teenage woman who was murdered by her boyfriend because she refused to get an abortion… you look at the picture of the boyfriend and you immediately think “that’s not someone I’d want my daughter to be dating.” Women have the right to choose whichever men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 01:51 AM |
| 15 | Why is taking care of yourself as a man still seen as “unmanly”?A lot of it has to do with women expecting men to magically be. They don’t want to know about the painful, two years long leg lengthening surgery a man suffered through to be the height a “good man” is supposed to be. They only want the end result. It’s no different than women expecting men to bring home a six figure salary, but somehow only work thirty hours a week to do so. Now women will claim that men expect them to wake up early, shave, shower and put on make up only to jump back into bed s… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.Damaged men do exist. Women create damaged men, women choose damaged men, and then complain about damaged men. Women, instead of choosing better men, think the men they like should “strive” to become better men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.It (men lying to women about relational intentions) happens to women because women keep going after the good looking men who don’t care about a relationship with you. He knows he’s good looking. Of course he’s “confident,” you women keep throwing yourselves at him no matter what he does. He lies, cheats, pumps and dumps and women flock to him. What on earth is his incentive to remain monogamous? While women are grinning about having (temporarily) snagged a six foot tall handsome man with “the sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 68 | It's weird that the media is supporting Ukranian women who abandon their families.The best part of that is when it’s men saying that exact same thing… it’s somehow “misogyny.” The EXACT SAME THING. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/25 05:51 PM |
| 2 | 26% of Women feel their careers are hurt more by having babies than men's careers are…I’m not going to give a damn about women’s gender parity with regards to how having children affects their careers until we address gender parity with regards to dating, sexual opportunities, marriage, and the divorce industrial complex. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/25 03:13 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"“Qualities of a partner…” Yeah, it’s amazing how many toxic, abusive narcissists just so happen to somehow qualify as a potential partner to women when so many other men who aren’t toxic, abusive, or narcissistic don’t qualify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 13 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were told“Men have always cheated.” No, the men women are most attracted to cheat. Plenty of men would never cheat. But they’re “corny.” “Boring.” “Predictable.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:03 PM |
| 23 | The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hitTHANK YOU for saying the obvious. Very much this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:20 PM |
| 3 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherNo, there is no guarantee. However… given how it’s currently going, with every woman seemingly all choosing men who turn out to be toxic abusive narcissists… perhaps trying to choose men who aren’t so many women’s “type” might be a good place to start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 7 | The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays meWomen have options, men have responsibilities. It’s nice that a woman can choose to work. Men have never even gotten to think about it. He knows he has to work because no one gives a damn about him nor is willing to provide him with basic needs. He doesn’t work? He doesn’t eat. No roof over his head, no nothing. Only modern women can see being provided for as some sort of “oppression.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesWomen: “Men need to hold other men accountable for how they treat us!” Men: “Why?” Women: “Because men lie and cheat and abuse us, and leave us single mothers!” Men: “Did anyone force you to choose those men?” Women: “No, no one tells US what to do!” Men: “So out of all the men out there, you chose the ones who lied to you, cheated on you, abused you, and left you single mothers?” Women: “You see, we deserve to choose the package those men come in but we don’t want the bad behavior that comes wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trash“Their own shitty decisions…” Says the gender who act like they didn’t choose their abusive, toxic, narcissistic ex-boyfriends/husbands/baby daddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:34 PM |
| 10 | Both red pill & blue pill advice encourages men to be sociopathicAccording to women, they’ve all been able to date, marry and divorce the same small percentage of actual sociopathic narcissists in the population, despite claiming that “not all women go for the same small percentage of men.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 5 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA“Choosing better” for men already exists… as shown in the fact that society doesn’t give a damn when men are done wrong by the women they chose. There’s countless shelters for battered women. There’s no such equivalent for men who’ve been financially raped. There’s always an army of women and men who’ll rally around the woman who finally had enough black eyes to see that his height, swag and abs weren’t worth the price. The men who have to move back in with their parents because she got the kids… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 07:10 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world?“Men who think it’s alpha to use, hurt, and string along women.” Question… given how there’s so few men who “measure up” to women’s high standards, and the men that women do choose usually are handsome, tall, have “rizz,” and are generally seen as “alpha types,” why are women so mad when these men, who are often the ONLY men women deem worthy of interacting with, treat women so poorly? “Women don’t owe men sex, relationships, etc, etc,” right? So why do women think that these rare men who are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:12 AM |
| 21 | Constant VictimizationThe best part is that these women are “victimized” primarily by the very men they choose of their own free will. It’s the height of entitlement for women to expect all the good men they ignored to intervene and save them (physically, financially, emotionally, etc.) from the very men they did choose. Imagine if the police refused to respond to domestic violence calls? “Your body, your choice, your consequences.” Choose better next time. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 03:23 AM |
| 28 | Movies depicting cheating wives/gf’sCheck out Tyler Perry's 'Temptation.' There's a fantastic comeuppance scene at the end. It's unfortunately fiction... in real life, women who cheat are often rewarded by the universe instead of punished. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/25 03:34 PM |
| – | Men who ask a girl out asap are hated, men who start developing feelings after a full-fledged friendship are also hated and are seen as nothing but deceivers, so what's this goldilocks zone where the girl won't be put off by them?… men disappear from her life or switch up their tone out of self preservation. They had hopes and aspirations of a relationship with a woman they thought highly enough of to ask her out. If it took them a while to muster up the courage to ask her out, then she obviously meant something to them. These men weren’t looking at her like some random woman whose looks they fancied. When these men are rejected, they take it hard. They take it personally. They shouldn’t, but no one can control another p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 09:24 PM |
| 327 | why do women lie about rape?Why? For the same reasons anyone, man or woman, adult or child lies about anything. In order to benefit from it or deflect blame and consequences. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 12:26 PM |
| 39 | Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage?Marriage benefits men so much that countless women have to hound their boyfriends for years into proposing to them so they can have the privilege of having their children taken from them and their wealth plundered because she became… “unhappy.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 01:03 AM |
| 67 | How is it fair that a working wife doesn't want to contribute financially?… except consequences. They abhor negative consequences for their poor decisions. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/25 01:50 PM |
| 9 | Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why:Who has it worse, the unemployed job applicant who can’t get a single interview or the employer who has hundreds if not thousands of candidates who’ve all submitted their resumes and are eager to work for them? The applicant and the employer both have work to do to better their situations, but I’m pretty sure most people would agree that the employer’s position is the more enviable one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 06:15 PM |
| 23 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?Because there are women AND men who genuinely believe that there should be zero consequences for women’s decisions/actions. They believe women should be able to hit a man without any expectation of reprisal. Men know if they decide to take a swing at a another man, that they’re inviting a physical response. Yet women are insidiously emboldened by the “traditional gender norms” that they claim to hate yet hide behind whenever it’s convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:34 PM |
| 22 | How many of the pro-male women youtubers you think are grifters?My take on it is… even if some are grifters, it’s likely not all of them, AND… if what they’re doing helps improve society to stop eating, breathing, and sleeping the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” narrative… I’m all for it. We are inundated with “the message” that the majority of men should pay for the bad actions of those who women are attracted to, and I’m sick of it. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems“Male promiscuity.” Most men aren’t promiscuous, due to some not wanting to be, and because the majority of men don’t have the ability to be. Women on the other hand… anyone want to bet how much chaos mandatory retroactive paternity testing would introduce into society? Sure, it would “only” expose cheating that resulted in children, but it would go a long way to obliterate the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 4 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personAt least when it comes to liberal women, you can easily challenge their just world fallacy nonsense by pointing out that Donald Trump, Harvey Weinstein, Elon Musk, Chris Brown, Jeremy Meeks, Bobby Brown, etc, have all never been lacking for women’s attention. When you ask a woman to describe her ideal man, his “goodness” or character maybe comes up to the number ten spot, and only after she realizes everything she prioritized was pretty shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 11:42 PM |
| – | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personAt least when it comes to liberal women, you can easily challenge their just world fallacy nonsense by pointing out that Donald Trump, Harvey Weinstein, Elon Musk, Chris Brown, Jeremy Meeks, Bobby Brown, etc, have all never been lacking for women’s attention. When you ask a woman to describe her ideal man, his “goodness” or character maybe comes up to the number ten spot, and only after she realizes everything she prioritized was pretty shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:05 PM |
| -1 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.Those men who abandon their children? Yeah, they’re bad men. Yet… women chose them. And guess what? After he abandons her and those children he made, other women will still want him. Why? Because he’s tall enough. Charismatic enough. Knows what to say, how to say it, and when to say it. As long as women prioritize the superficial in men, they will get what they “deserve.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.Heh heh. Don’t forget, when women complain about men being “bad fathers,” point out to them that THEY picked those men to be fathers. It’s hard, being a woman, to reject a hundred men and still choose the wrong one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | After what I found this is why men moved rightI don't agree with your example... in this case, she has a reasonable expectation of not being followed as she shops. When it comes to women blaming men for their own poor decisions, it's usually correct in the context of women choosing bad men as partners and then expect society to bail them out of the consequences of their poor choices. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 11:37 PM |
| 10 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsHeh. You must be new to the hypocrisy of women. Don’t you know that if a woman does anything a man “shouldn’t,” it’s perfectly fine and acceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | It's brutally unfair but so many women refuse to date a man under 5ft 8in OP: More male hate."Women don't select for abusive men." The f--k they don't. So it's just some sort of incredible coincidence how *every* woman has dated or married a "narcissist" then, huh? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 01:18 PM |
| 70 | Men have it harder in dating than women doMost men and women understand the often brutal job market. It’s tough to get hired, between employers’ unrealistic demands, the lack of communication, the instant electronic rejection, the multi-round interviews, etc. This is universal to men AND women. So when women try and debate men about who has it harder in dating, sex, and marriage, ask them who has it harder? The employer or the applicant? Case closed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | To some degree, women should accept that men find their sexuality annoying sometimes. It's only fair.Here’s the thing, if you could get the majority of women to vote on say, the issue of men approaching women, soliciting them for sex, catcalling, etc, and that if in exchange for women being expected to initiate while men would be expected to remain passive, and men agreed to the outcome… Women wouldn’t agree to it. The few dating apps like Bumble that dared to flip the script has failed. Women want to have their cake and eat it too. Take away the response that “men wouldn’t agree just get angry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?“Women take a lot of risks in a heterosexual relationship.” And yet… quite a few seem to have a knack for choosing the most abusive, violent, and awful men possible. But hey, at least they filtered for the most important things, like height and “chemistry.” Those things definitely indicate “long term successful relationship.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 5 | It's brutally unfair but so many women refuse to date a man under 5ft 8in OP: More male hate.A woman would rather be in a relationship with a six foot tall man who gave her the occasional black eye than be in one with a five foot seven inch tall man who did everything he could to love, protect, and provide for her. Women have the nerve to deem men the shallow gender. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Why Not Protect/educate 18 year old women more?Pretty much this. Society can try and educate young women about how much likelier single motherhood and various types of abuse will befall them if they insist on following their tingles but free will is an awesome thing. They just need to remember that the freedom to make such poor choices does not mean they are immune from the consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:51 AM |
| 23 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?And when the dark triad men hurt and abuse them, they cry foul. Like… you chose them. You chose them over all the good men who wanted a relationship with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make senseSo… women have baggage because of other men. I agree. Here’s the key part. “Other men.” The men those women chose. The men those women chose of their own free will. Choices have consequences and women continue to believe that they ALL deserve the same small percentage of men, despite the fact that the only way to do that is to share the same damn men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:03 PM |
| 16 | Women's Attraction is not ComplicatedIt’s hilarious when women are attracted to dangerous men despite women collectively being terrified of dangerous men, and expecting these men to not be dangerous… to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 04:40 AM |
| 68 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)“Things should go back to how they used to be.” When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 19 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Women are able to easily dodge “boring men” but abusive and violent men? Like moths to a flame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:20 PM |
| – | Women are right to exclude hordes of men from sex and dating“Too many bad options exist in modern dating.” And it’s hilarious how many women are drawn like moths to a flame to those bad options. If you listened to a group of men bitch and moan about how “all women are stuck up, fake gold diggers,” it doesn’t take a genius to realize that maybe, just maybe, those men are choosing a certain type of women that maybe they shouldn’t. Choices have consequences. Yet when you listen to a group of women bitch and moan about how they’ve been dating “toxic abusive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as well“You are pretending that it is a woman’s choice only.” Well, I guess we’ll hold our collective breath in anticipation of women being willing to support stay-at-home husbands then. Sofia Vergara is worth an estimated 180 million dollars. Yet she still wants a man who makes as much or more. Oh, and he has to be taller, handsome and in excellent shape too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:54 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?“… and are therefor more discerning.” Oh. I guess that’s why every woman is complaining about all the narcissists they’ve been dating and marrying. Discernment my ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:58 AM |
| 10 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them“Men offer nothing to women.” Let’s take away the police, let’s end all taxpayer funded safety net subsidies, let’s cancel all spousal support and child support payments enforced by the state. Then we’ll see how all the “who needs men” types change their tune. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:41 AM |
| 25 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.“Assumes people can perfectly judge character from day one.” Oh please. Women think they can judge a man’s character from a damn photo in one second. “Character.” As if that’s even on the top ten things in a man most important to women. These attempts to pretend women aren’t as shallow as men is ridiculous. “Attraction is complex” is womanspeak for “how can I have the man who will cheat on me be loyal to me?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:20 PM |
| – | Treating Most Women Good will end up being a failed relationshipIt’s hilarious how easy it is for women to leave a man who is “boring” and “too nice,” but they have SO much trouble leaving a man who beats her and abuses her. Women love to use the excuse about how “he wasn’t like that in the beginning,” and “he lured her in, and before she knew it, it was too late.” Bullshit. Man is too short, he’s not even worth a first date. Man can’t afford to pay for her vacation, he’s kicked to the curb. Man shows vulnerability, ugh, got the ick, he’s shown the door. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 10:46 PM |
| 8 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament“Or behave like shit.” Yeah, that’s why women are lining up to pay celebrated woman-beater Chris Brown thousands of dollars for an opportunity to meet him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 60 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentThere are studies that have shown that bullies have more sex than those bullied. Think about that. Women reward the very types of men they often complain about. They would rather be in a relationship with a “confident” man who bullies others, hurts others, abuses others, than with an “unconfident” man who does none of those things. That says a lot about them as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 07:07 PM |
| 6 | What are signs that a man is desperate from the get go ?I know. It’s far better to choose the man who doesn’t exhibit any of these “needy” traits and instead knows exactly what women want to hear. There’s no chance he’s honed his ability to tell a woman all the right things through practice and experience. Then, when he’s had his fun and knows he’s going to move on while she thinks she found “her soulmate,” she gets to go on her “all men are players” rant and how they “only want one thing” blah blah blah. That’s obviously better than some “desperate”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for women“Then they find out what men are really like.” No, they find out what the few men they are attracted to are like. You know, the ones with that all important height, swag, status and “rizz” are like. The men with women lining up for them. The “good men” women are always asking to find. Women find out what those men are like, and are surprised that those men with those particular qualities that attracted women to them aren’t the best husbands or fathers. Choices have consequences. A man chooses bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerNah. Maybe if irresponsible people weren’t so sure of having the government forcing other irresponsible people to fork over money to support their children, irresponsible people would learn to make better choices in partners BEFORE they have children with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 06:28 AM |
| 16 | Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world“Most modern men need to do the same kind of work.” It helps if women picked men based on their character traits to be a good father, but somehow so many women keep front-loading the “more important things” like height, charisma, and chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:34 PM |
| -2 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for women“An absent father or dad.” Was she in an arranged marriage? No? Then SHE chose HIM. “It must be hard for women, imagine rejecting fifty men only to choose the wrong one.” I bet he had that “spark” though. I’ll bet she loved their “chemistry.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sum“What happened to personal responsibility?” That’s a question you should direct towards all these women who magically keep choosing irresponsible and selfish men as partners/boyfriends/husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Women link a mans romantic invisibility with a moral or character flawWomen aren’t looking to actively date men who “hate them as a gender,” but quite a few end up dating, marrying, and divorcing men who will abuse, cheat on them, beat them, and sometimes leave them. It’s like, what’s worse… that old racist white man who mutters about “non-whites moving into his neighborhood” yet keeps to himself, or that seemingly progressive “Karen” who smiles to the new minority family’s face but eagerly calls the police to enforce whatever BS wrong she thinks needs to be right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 04:59 PM |
| -2 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Women being good judges of character? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 06:24 PM |
| 15 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleOh yeah, the only guy “worth her time” because he’s six foot something, attractive, charming… no, he definitely wouldn’t be pursued by any other women who share the same narrow range of what they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:05 AM |
| -1 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.Oh please. There are, at any given moment, PLENTY of single men who aren’t toxic and would be good choices for a healthy relationship. But they’re not tall enough. Not attractive enough. Don’t have that all important “rizz” that women value over every single character trait her parents and grandparents would have told her are actually essential to a successful marriage. Toxic can come in an unattractive male package. We do not deny this. However, given the statistics of the very small number of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:23 PM |
| – | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyAsk those women who think have capitalist and “just world fallacy” beliefs about men and women when it comes to dating, love, sex, and marriage to explain Donald Trump, Chris Brown, Elon Musk, Nick Cannon, Harvey Weinstein, etc, and ALL of the non-celebrity men who are REPEATEDLY chosen by women, over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 09:20 PM |
| 5 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowHeh. Women collectively deciding between another Trump Presidency or the absolute horror of sleeping with average men? Another Trump Presidency it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 04:01 AM |
| – | What experiences influenced your views the most?Well, he already knew the men were trash, it was just eye-opening to see just how many women flocked to that trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means?As a man who has served in the US Army as an infantryman and seen combat, I would not say you are accurate when it comes to connecting empathy with bravery and confidence. I saw bravery from less aggressive men whom some thought would fold under fire and I saw cowardice from men who exuded confidence and competence… until the bullets began to fly. One of my big pet peeves with the “masculine confidence” that many in society value is that it can override all other logic and instinct to the point … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 09:17 PM |
| -3 | Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means?Very true. However, no one gives a damn when men choose poorly, it was his fault and he was “thinking with his junk.” When women choose poorly, everyone rallies around them and tells them “they did nothing wrong” and that she should face zero consequences for her decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 09:07 PM |
| 11 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.There are men who go “harpooning.” Men pay money to indulge in “feeder fantasies.” There is no such equivalent for women. Women might settle for an overweight guy who makes her laugh, owns his own home, etc, but she is not sexually attracted enough by him to seek his equivalent out in the wild the way some men who have that fetish do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:31 PM |
| 8 | If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”.Exactly. Women don’t want to be told to “choose better,” they can experience the consequences of continuing to choose men based off a very narrow field of traits that obviously gives them the tingles but never seems to have a lasting effect. I mean, sure, there are men who are six foot tall, in shape, handsome, who make decent money AND are good men… but there’s not enough of them. Not by far. And it’s that last one, them being the good man, that narrows it down even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:34 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeOh no! A passive man who needs mothering or an aggressive man who gives women black eyes? Is society better or worse given which one is chosen more often by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The redpill cant detect bad men unless its super obvious."And it seems the manosphere have never heard of the phrase “Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing”." And it seems most women haven't heard of the concept either, though in this case, he's not trying to be a sheep. The guy who knows he looks like what women want, who has practiced and honed his approach perfectly, who has all that necessary "rizz" and "spark" that women go crazy for... women don't stop to think *how* he got so good at telling them *everything* they want to hear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:27 PM |
| 8 | You can’t expect women to take men’s issues seriously, when you point out inequities but never go into the context of itNot to mention… who benefits from those men who are working harder and longer, taking risks and making sacrifices for the higher pay? Women. Whether she’s a girlfriend enjoying living with him rent free or a wife who doesn’t have the responsibility of keeping a roof over her head and food on the table for the rest of her married life, it’s women who receive the benefits of men’s labor. There are plenty of men who would have rather worked a “creative job” or something “meaningful and fulfilling,”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 12:14 AM |
| -3 | Women don't know themselves or what they wantWhen men do go after attractive vapid bitches and reap the consequences of such foolish choices, they pay various prices for those poor choices. No one cares about the men, they could have chosen better, but “attraction is complicated and non-negotiable,” according to women. Yet when women constantly choose the abusers, thugs, bad boys, and players, and reap the consequences of those poor choices, all of a sudden it’s on society to swoop in and rescue her from her those poor choices. The simp to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 06:36 PM |
| 0 | The main people mentioning women’s intuition are men who victim blame women."Ah yes. Because it's only those dudes who beat their partners. It's only those dudes who cheat. It's only those dudes who don't take care of their children. /s" You know what ALL abusive men have in common? The women that *chose* those men, of their own free will, chose them over PLENTY of good men who wouldn't have abused her, hurt her, cheated on her, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Again, people should stop conflatimg women romantic preferences with morality.Yes, but when men suffer the eventual negative consequences of choosing that “hot mess,” society doesn’t give a damn. He made his choice and no one is coming to help him recover his money, repair his property, or help him with any emotional damage. However, when women choose the “bad boy,” and suffer the eventual negative consequences, there’s no shortage of people and organizations ready to step in, rescue her, provide for her and the child she had with the bad boy who predictably wandered off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:25 AM |
| 14 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?Oh, just the divorce rates, initiated mostly by women, the increasing amount of single mothers, domestic violence rates, women all complaining about their ex-boyfriends and ex-husbands being abusive, a cheater, toxic, a narcissist… It’s pretty safe to say women vet poorly. Now, do men vet poorly as well? Yes. However, as women repeatedly point out, a woman has “more to lose” than men when picking the wrong partner, yes? A man can be financially destroyed when he chooses poorly, but a woman can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:43 PM |
| 50 | I went on a date last week with a 45 year old woman who was proud to say it’s ok for women her age to have sex with a 17 year old because it’s a man.“Men have the power.” I came of age in the 1990s. I support and understand the LGBs… I am ambivalent on the Ts. That said, I like that the existence of MtF and FtM have brought about discourse that helps dispel this myth that men “have the power.” How many women who are now “men” feel any semblance of power? And if men have so much power, why would they, the “oppressors,” choose to become “women?” | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 03:53 AM |
| 17 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?No, you see in a world in which women demanded to be free of “women’s roles,” that’s a “man’s job.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:07 PM |
| 23 | The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men."A man who couldn’t even protect himself and his woman in a fight for their lives?" So... how often do men and women couples find themselves in a "fight for their lives?" I would venture it's a lot less often than the more common scenario of women being battered by the very men they chose as romantic partners, who while having those impressive muscles and dominant personality traits, more often uses them *against* his girlfriend or wife as opposed to using them to defend her. But hey! *Nothing* … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:24 AM |
| 130 | Women are complaining that men don't approach them anymoreOh no. It’s the very predictable response to the past three decades of women being angry with men for having the unmitigated gall to approach them. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/25 05:17 PM |
| – | Confidence is the main tool con men use, and it makes women more vulnerable to manipulation"It's disgusting victim mentality and will never get you anywhere in life." I beg to differ. A lot of people, men AND women have gotten far by promoting themselves as the victim. Victimhood is currency, like fame. I do agree with you regarding women acting as if they have ZERO responsibility for choosing the men they do. If they're not in an arranged marriage or part of a religious cult, SHE chose HIM of her own free will. The freedom to choose also comes with the responsibility to vet. No one d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 04:16 PM |
| -1 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too“Plenty of men simply opt out.” And who continuously chooses the type of men who opt out? Filtering for character over race, height, “rizz,” and the first ten things on a woman’s list that rarely includes responsibility or decency might be a good start. It’s hilarious when women will say “all men are pigs and cheat,” but when she meets the six foot tall handsome guy who works in finance with a six figure salary and has visible abs… no, she thinks, HE won’t cheat on her. Not the guy that every ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Some patterns I've observed in female attraction towards men & female dating strategiesThe dual mating strategy is the most insidious to me. It’s the ultimate “have your cake and eat it too” and it’s very one-sided. I can only think that the male equivalent of a single mother would be a guy with six figure debt, given that it takes a cumulative six figures to raise a child these day, according to the experts. Does anyone see single women being willing to date and marry men with such debt, knowing that she is expected to help pay off the debts HE incurred, to include his spending o… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 02:28 AM |
| -2 | You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as menI would like to put the infidelity argument to the test. Let’s have retroactive paternity testing across the USA. I have zero doubt that the majority of people against this idea would be women as opposed to men. I do realize this would not expose cheating that occurred without a child being conceived but it’s a good step in the right direction. A shame France has outlawed any possibility of this. I guess they know the inconvenient truth, deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:03 AM |
| 3 | What people fantasize about and realistically want will always be different.It’s definitely hilarious how of ALL the men women get to choose from, on dating apps and in real life, they without fail choose narcissist after narcissist… when narcissists make up 1 to 2 percent of the population. What are the odds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:06 PM |
| 15 | Got fired, colleague got promotionExactly. There are women out there who can play the game of thrones quite better than many men can. They know the law and social norms are stacked in their favor and their well-timed one accusation can destroy a decade’s worth of hard work and dedication. There’s nothing in a man’s toolbox that can do to women what they can do to us, legally. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What ways do you condone women using to choose better?It will never happen. You could show women projected statistics of a dynamic in which they have to approach men first and as a result, sexual harassment and sexual assault dropped 75% and they collectively will still refuse to give up their current power as the passive gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 08:18 PM |
| 18 | The average single female spends $3,736 in one month or 116.9% of her income after taxes.Of course. Why do women spend more than they earn? Because they know at the end of the day, they can and will find some sucker of a man who *didn't* take YOLO vacations, didn't attend expensive concerts, didn't buy designer clothing, etc, to marry her and provide a roof over her head and pay her bills in the end. Men are the ants and women are the grasshoppers. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring themNot to mention, the concept can be specifically applied to women who got pregnant by the exciting bad boy in her youth yet expects the type of men she ignored in her youth to “step up” and financially support her and her bad boy offspring (because naturally, he left her to go fulfill other women’s “needs”) and she was PREDICTABLY left a single mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 25 | How is it legal that I have to pay my wife’s lawyer to build a case against me while I still pay for everything else?“I’m not saying OJ should have killed her… but I understand!” - Chris Rock | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average men“Female attraction is complex.” No it’s not. All you have to be in order to be attractive to women is to be a narcissist, given that ALL of their ex-boyfriends and ex-husbands are apparently narcissists if you listen to women, who claim that the bar is in hell for men, yet their “instincts” never seem to be able to filter those men out. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 06:16 PM |
| 88 | Urine analysis had to be observed by femaleDo you think there would be ANY chance that it would be allowed if you were to reverse the genders? Not a one. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureNot around any US military base. There’s no inverse in the USA, a place where men have the same kind of pull that women enjoy everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 05:18 PM |
| 41 | Most men have terrible dating advice. Being bitter is not the gold standard of attracting women.“Being bitter is not the gold standard of attracting women.” Well, judging from how the majority of single women describe their ex-boyfriends and ex-husbands, one could conclude that being an abusive narcissist is the gold standard of attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 07:11 PM |
| 13 | "I can't be with you unless you say it is an objective fact that women have it harder than men."It’s a shit test and she’s showing you her true colors. Tell her you won’t lie to her and walk away. If you cave on this, even though you’re telling her what she wants to hear, she will simply continue to hold other, equally ridiculous ultimatums over your head throughout the relationship. If she doesn’t want to be with you, then let her go. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/25 03:48 AM |
| 8 | How plausible is the type of man you want?And yet… so many women will declare their ex-boyfriends and ex-husbands are narcissists. Those same men the women screened for “emotional maturity.” Are that many men out there incredibly skilled actors or are women intentionally ignoring red flags because they didn’t want to compromise on their threshold for height, race, “rizz,” or other superficial traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 01:49 AM |
| 14 | The contempt that Reddit has for "tech bros" is oddWork From Home Return to Office | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 02:01 AM |
| 9 | Paternity by Estoppel - Don't date single mothers - take DNA tests immediately after birth.“If a person has consistently behaved as a parent and the child has relied on that relationship, the court may decide it's in the child's best interest to preserve that.” I’ve love to see this “logic” applied to a situation that benefits a man. If a woman has consistently behaved as a wife and the man has relied on sex within that relationship, the court may decide it's in the man’s best interest to preserve that. Funny how easily and eagerly everyone is to TAKE TAKE TAKE from men and give to wo… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/25 07:51 PM |
| 9 | The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcy“They are choosing freedom, selectivity, and happiness.” Yeah, seeing all the women paying $1000 to meet and take pictures with serial abuser Chris Brown at his Breezy Bowl events about sums up what women really want. No more “settling” for “boring” average men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 09:15 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they wereSame here, only in West Hollywood. It’s very flattering and I didn’t feel the need to make him feel bad or wrong for approaching someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:36 PM |
| -6 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with"Are you together enough to truly be a decent father and provider and partner?" A decent father. A provider. A partner. Yeah, given the domestic violence rates, the rate of single motherhood, abused children... women have been doing a *bang up job* with the freedom of choice they enjoy. "Would you fold if your girlfriend or wife was attacked or threatened?"How likely is this scenario versus the men women choose who attack and threaten *them?* "More men than ever are single because they are not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 06:21 PM |
| 15 | Maybe men should stop caring about women and their issues?We as men should help when we can, and know when they’re a lost cause. Women are quick to declare that they’re adults and can make their own decisions. This is fine. However, when they choose bad men and then expect other men to rescue them from their poor decisions? That’s where we draw the line. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 04:55 AM |
| – | It is entirely on men to meet women’s expectations. Women should not have to lower their standards“It provides women the freedom to date who they want and go after the type of men they genuinely are attracted to.” Yes, women are the selectors. There’s few men who would argue with that. You’re right. Yet a lot of the men women are attracted to are straight up toxic/abusive/narcissists, though you only hear that from women after they’ve “escaped” from the very men they chose of their own free will. Women want to choose who they want? Sure, enjoy. However, when the guy you choose who met your “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 06:32 AM |
| 35 | Ukraine has a problem no one is talking about – young women are leaving in drovesAmerican women *love* to claim that they don't need to be included in the selective service/draft, because if the USA was ever at risk, so many women would voluntarily fight. Yeah... they'd be just like most Ukrainian women... fleeing to safety while the men are sent to the meat grinder. Or... they'd be like the women of Europe who slept with the Nazis in order to "survive" while their countrymen were lined up and executed. "Wartime monkey branching." | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | men hate things they cause“Single moms wouldn't exist if men didn't abandon their kids or actually used condoms.” The men complaining about single mothers aren’t the men who those women chose who “made” them single mothers. Those women chose those particular men of their own free will… “So stop coming after woemn and come after other men lol.” Why? Why should the men women ignore gang up on and threaten the men women choose to “be better?” Those men know they don’t have to improve themselves in any way, because women kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:44 PM |
| -1 | Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally.“When men break up with them.” Women initiate divorce 7 times out of 10. I would bet women initiate breakups at the same rate, possibly more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:04 PM |
| 7 | Women are held more accountable than men are by redpillers“Men who hoard women.” Those few men obviously enjoy the attention of the majority of women, but you’re ignoring the other side of the equation; that male/female attraction is so unequal that so many women throw themselves at very few men. There are social media groups like “Are we dating the same guy” that are made by and for women, who never seem to connect the dots… that because they have such a narrow range of what is attractive enough that they’re all going for the same few men, the players… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How can women make dating/relationships better/more fair for men?The problem with what religions teach in modern times is that it still holds men to their traditional gender roles and responsibilities while simultaneously lifting any traditional gender roles and expectations from women. I don’t agree with the whole “men deserve a virgin wife per Andrew Tate talking point” but in 2025, I would put good money on the majority of women having three to four times the body count of the men they’re marrying. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 09:36 PM |
| 6 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?“Everyone else would help a wheelchaired person unto a bus. Everyone else also cares about our climate, political tensions, their closest relatives, overall suffering, tries their best. Everyone else considers everyone else as a legit human being.” This is utter BS. Politics aside, there are plenty of men who do NOT meet this “basic threshold for human decency.” Full stop. I’m tired of this women’s talking point that being a “decent human being” is the bare minimum with regard to sex, dating, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problemVery much so. If anyone needs a very clear cut example; prior to World War 2 and the Vietnam war, very few asian women in the world would have been attracted to white men. At the time, they were “the other.” Once Japan was defeated and white American soldiers and sailors were stationed there for the ensuing occupation, interracial marriages began to occur, same as during and post-Vietnam. Today, you can walk into any restaurant in San Francisco and see more white men/asian woman pairings than wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 04:08 PM |
| 19 | “Who set the system up” is annoying when discussing men’s mental healthYeah, I notice most women aren’t terribly upset with “the system” when it provides for them via the expectation for men to keep a roof over their heads and food on their tables, or when it takes money from other men via taxes to support women. “Who set the system up?” “Who has no problem with the system when they benefit from it?” | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 06:04 PM |
| -2 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testThe worst part is, people will care IF you don’t trust her, but if you DO trust her, and you find out the kid isn’t yours later, people won’t care. They’ll tell you that DNA shouldn’t or doesn’t matter. That if you were a “real man,” you’d carry on and just keep raising the kid and smile at your cheating lying wife. It’s utter BS, but the unfortunate answer is to simply get the kid tested quietly. There will never be mandatory paternity testing… the societal impact, implications and “problems” t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 07:07 AM |
| 13 | What did you expect, feminists?I’m heartened that the majority of people on that subway with Daniel Penny appreciated him intervening in a dangerous situation and refusing to go along with the default train of thought amongst some in NYC to throw him to the wolves. The women on that subway car spoke up and supported him, it’s an encouraging sign, though yet a reminder about how much men’s worth depends on what he will do on behalf of women. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 03:58 AM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise“That they simply know what's better for an entire gender than that gender knows themselves…” Well, judging from the domestic violence rates, women are doing a great job at choosing men. OP wants to say women can/should choose whatever type of men they want? Sure. Just don’t come crying to society when those men, with the traits they value so much, abuse them and somehow “become narcissists” and “toxic” when those same women walked past a hundred good men to fight over the man who cheats on her,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 04:04 PM |
| 15 | Why is a Woman’s Body Her Own, But a Man’s Body Belongs to the Country?I laugh when people who are against women having to sign up for the selective service/potential draft in the US promise that if the USA were in dire straits and absolutely needed to be defended, that we wouldn’t need conscription; that US citizens, including women, would gladly join to defend the country. Yeah, Ukraine has proven that when it comes to the women’s side of that scenario, they absolutely do not “step up.” Right there, you have an existential threat to your country, and the women ha… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Raising children an unpaid job!Far more women have these things, provided by men, than any men have, provided by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 04:10 PM |
| – | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsThis. This right here. Chris Brown has had no lapse in women throwing themselves at him AFTER he beat Rihanna to a pulp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:30 PM |
| 49 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags“Those are bare minimum standards.” Yeah, sure. That must be why so many incarcerated violent criminals have their wives and girlfriends visiting them in prison. That must be why women lust after Chris Brown and Jeremy Meeks and any number of well-known-to-be-violent men. That must explain why the majority of abusers of women are the ones in relationships with them. A man being good, kind, and faithful is NOT the bare minimum for women. Him being attractive enough for her is the true bare minimu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:27 PM |
| 4 | When a man asks, “What do you bring to the table?” I immediately get the ick.It’s funny how women, who constantly complain about “heteronormative systemic patriarchy” have zero problem with demanding men live up to their traditional gender roles while simultaneously refusing to live up to women’s traditional gender roles. They cherry pick the parts of equality that only benefit them. When it comes to what the man and the woman “bring to the table,” it is the man who isn’t allowed to ever stop bringing his share in whereas the woman can simply decide at any time to stop b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:15 PM |
| 16 | Is getting along with women really that hard? Why do many men on here seem to have trouble?Regarding number 2… “most women are not racist…” nah. There are a LOT of racist women, with regard to dating and marriage. A racist white man will marry outside of his race far more often than a racist white woman, but who gets to hide behind the presumption of innocence/morality? Many asian women are racist in that they either only date/marry white men, and refuse to consider their own men. Black women can be racist, but they have begun to be willing to date and marry men who aren’t black, thou… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/25 03:52 AM |
| 21 | Adult Men of Reddit, What will you guide a teen boy about girls of our age?Yup. Don’t listen to what they say, pay attention to what they do. Also… the world will not end when she ends it. They’re young, and they will make mistakes and suffer setbacks, no matter what. Be resilient. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?Also, women have the luxury of choosing education/career fields that interest them, rather than it being something lucrative enough to support a family, because that expectation is thrown at the husband/father. While there are some women willing to support an artistic/creative man who is unable to bring in a lot of money, they are very much in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:53 PM |
| 18 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesI disagree with taking away any woman’s free will to choose whomever she wants to be involved with. That said, women have the right to choose whichever man, woman, etc, but with that right comes the understanding that it’s your choice, AND your consequences. Women want to date drug dealers and criminals, bad boys and players? Go right ahead. However, don’t be surprised when these bad men do bad things. This excuse that every bad man is an Oscar-worthy actor who is able to fool women who are cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Society always shame men for dating younger women—asking why he can’t find someone his own age, even labeling him a groomer. But no one questions women for wanting a man older than her. (To be clear, we're not talking about minors here. We're talking about two adults)The answer is always “women are wonderful, and can do no wrong.” They are simultaneously innocent, hapless victims and strong, independent women with agency whenever it fits the narrative. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.She sure sounds like someone angry that she’d chosen poorly. 😂 I get it, men choose poorly as well, and get angry too. The difference is, no one gives a damn about the man who choose poorly, but society is supposed to fall on their knees to help the woman who choose poorly recover from her poor decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 55 | Russia: 'Dream' female teacher is jailed for violent sex acts on male pupil, 11, after victim's mother discovers naked selfies she sent the child. OP: WTF is going on with female teachers.I wouldn’t use the word ‘infallible,’ because that word would mean a woman cannot make a mistake. Having sex with underage boys isn’t a “mistake,” though society definitely likes to act like cheating women just accidentally trip and fall onto a dick. Look at the language when media outlets report male teachers and female students versus the opposite. The male teacher “committed statutory rape.” The female teacher “slept with her teenage student.” | /r/MensRights | 15/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.Very much so! Race is far more important to women than men. There are far more women than men who have strict racial demands for dating and marriage. They then hide their racism behind “preferences.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problemSocietally it’s because we’ve made it so those women who are willing to share the same few men are still able to take/receive resources from the men they ignore/ignored. The stepfathers, local government, etc. She’s fine with the attention and sex with the unfaithful attractive man as long as other men are providing what he does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:31 PM |
| 25 | Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problemI don’t buy that men cheat more than women for a second. I’m not saying that some men don’t want to cheat, but the difficulty between the genders with regard to accessibility is night and day. The hoops most men have to go through in order to cheat, compared to women, who could easily accomplish in one week the body count of the most attractive man in one year speaks for itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 28 | Is it just me or the lyrics of female pop singers become more "separatist"?I distinctly remember the Destiny’s Child song ‘Independent Women’ when it came out. I was in college and would observe young women driving off campus in their expensive cars that their fathers had obviously bought them, blaring the song from their speakers like an anthem. It’s easy to be “independent” when men subsidize your life, whether they’re family, a significant other, or via the state. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Former 'teacher of the year' learns fate after admitting to sex crimes with students: A former award-winning California teacher has learned she will spend the next 30 years behind bars for sex crimes involving underage boys.I will never understand the women that do this. It’s a good example of how narrow their criteria of attraction is to men. Google her. She’s an attractive enough woman, there are PLENTY of single men her age, of all races, who make as much as she does or a little more, who she could have given “a chance.” Was f—-ing two underage teenage boys really that more “attractive” than the horribly unexciting men her age? Could have chosen from a hundred thirsty suitors on a dating app 24 hours after setti… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/25 07:10 AM |
| 3 | What is a real manThat about sums it up. It’s all about what benefits women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Good genetics, otherwise IVFYeah, but the man in this case is STILL expected to financially provide for and raise a child that's not his. SHE gets HIS help to raise HER offspring, which is also from another man. That's a great deal for HER. I love how women talk a big game about how "DNA shouldn't matter" when it it comes to paternity fraud, yet here they are, the gender that is supposedly less shallow than the other, trying to once again figure out how to get a man (who's willing to marry them and help raise children) to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 04:48 PM |
| 35 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.OP: “But we’re supposed to read minds, right?” Men: “Welcome to our world.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 02:15 AM |
| 64 | Women who out-earn men report less satisfying romantic relationshipsChris Rock once quipped that “a man could have a chocolate dick that ejaculated money and she’d still find something to complain about.” | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 04:03 PM |
| 35 | Sky News talks to female inmates. Prison for women bad, prison for men good.Liberal women: “No one is above the law!” Also liberal women: “We shouldn’t punish women with prison time. That’s for those awful men. Not for women who are wonderful and can do no wrong.” Liberal women: “We demand equality!” Also liberal women: “Not like that.” | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 03:53 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?This. THANK YOU. The same people who look down on “nice guys” and are able to so easily recognize their “evil motives” of… being kind and accommodating to women for the purpose of… having a relationship with them (the horror!) are somehow completely blinded by the men who actually harm them after charming them. Is it that great being able to avoid “the dud” when you can’t avoid “the thug?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:51 PM |
| 0 | The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projectionThe main valid complaint from men about women being so selective is that women should be selective, BUT they’re selective about the wrong things. If a woman wants a man to remain by her side throughout pregnancy and to help raise their child… why do they pick the men that multiple other women are throwing themselves at? If he’s six foot whatever, handsome, good career, and has “rizz” or swagger… just what are the odds he’s going to remain faithful, or even stick around when he’s that much in dem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”Women are indeed incredibly privileged in dating, sex, marriage, and divorce. “When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedSee, you are being honest there, that a man has to be physically attractive to a woman as “the baseline.” Many other women insist that “kind and considerate” is the baseline, which given the domestic violence statistics, shows that to be a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:21 PM |
| 18 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedA 2022 Pew Research Center study found that 63% of men under 30 are single. This figure is significantly higher than the 34% of women in the same age group who are single. So yeah, some men are guilty of throwing away a good woman… but judging by the numbers, there’s not quite than many of them who can or do, given how many more single men there are than single women. Let’s not also forget that women initiate the majority of divorces (up to 70%) as well as the majority of breakups. Don’t even ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Is a military draft coming soon?It’s absolutely hilarious to me that despite it likely being the most effective obstacle to the USA perpetually going to “war,” politicians still refuse to include women in the selective service/draft. Aren’t women able to “do anything a man can do, and do it better, and in heels?” In the US military, men and women are paid by rank and not gender. Yet it’s still not equal pay for equal work because the standards are typically lowered for women, though the current dumpster fire of a SecDef does w… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 04:09 AM |
| -1 | There is no just world fallacy; men think being rejected or overlooked is a statement on their goodness, not women“Every woman wants a guy who is nice/kind.” Ah. That must explain the domestic violence rates, you know, in relationships and marriages. Because women listen to their intuition and prioritize a man being good. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 04:25 PM |
| 33 | "Women receive so many compliments that the slightest insult impresses them. Men receive so many insults that the slightest compliment impresses them"“It comes from a shallow place.” Isn’t the women’s cosmetic industry worth trillions? A 2017 Today article says the average women spends $200k on makeup in a lifetime. When it’s the “right man” noticing them, all of a sudden compliments about their physical appearance doesn’t come from “a shallow place.” | /r/MensRights | 22/04/25 06:48 PM |
| 8 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingMen: “We’ve been told how much women hate being approached by men, perhaps women should be the ones to ask men out and upend rigid gender roles in society.” Women: “Nah. We’d only ask out a very small percentage of men.” Men: “So then what men complain about is true, that women only find ten to twenty percent of men attractive.” Women: “What? That’s not true.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:12 PM |
| 44 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenSociety sure would be better if women could "smell" the actual important traits about a man instead of "insecurity." There's a great meme that says "a woman's intuition is never wrong." "WAY too many single mothers for *that* to be true." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:43 PM |
| 11 | The biggest problem keeping so many people single is simply that there is a lack of a social continuity post-college/high school.Well, there is work, which prior to all the backlash and criticism, was where a lot of men and women used to meet, date and marry. But, much like… EVERYWHERE else, many women just don’t want men to have any societally allowed chance of approaching them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Women need to be choosier than menHere’s the thing with “women need to be choosier than men.” Yes, they do AND they are, more often than not - but they choose men based off ultimately useless criteria. None of these factors that women are picky about are instrumental in them obtaining a partner who will commit to them, who will be a good husband, or a good father: His height. His race. His “rizz,” “swag,” or charm. Yet aside from his income and social status, these three factors, two of which are completely out of his control, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 04:11 PM |
| 50 | “just respect women and maybe you will date one” is poor dating advice because it perpetuates an “action-reward” that directly ties to dehumanizing and removing agency“Respect women.” That must be why Chris Brown is never single. Because he respects women big time. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:52 AM |
| 28 | "I always see average men dating..."If you want to see the most extreme end of that imbalance, visit any city right outside a US military installation. You will absolutely see thousands of unemployed and underemployed overweight and obese women married to physically fit and mostly… kind of… financially stable men (they can at least provide shelter and food, perhaps I’m being too generous with the description). I hear the dating and marriage prospects outside the bases in Alaska and Fort Polk/Johnson in Louisiana are some of the wo… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/25 08:52 PM |
| – | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.You are absolutely correct, but it’s not just dating. It extends to marriage and divorce. Women expect/demand a financial safety net to be provided either from her ex-husband or at the expense of the state post-divorce, but no such equivalent exists on behalf of men. Another huge issue pointed out by the usual podcasters is that women “want a leader, but are often unwilling to follow.” They cherry pick what parts of equality they like, and discard the rest, content to hide behind the safety nets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.It’s not what women say more so than what they do. Women say a lot of the “right” things, especially publicly. They’ll tell their families that they’re looking for a “gentleman who treats them well and would be a good father.” They’ll tell their most trusted friends they actually want “a hot guy who puts her in her place.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 08:23 PM |
| 7 | Denmark Moves to Women’s Mandatory Military Service Sooner Than Expected ━ The European ConservativeHa! American women are always pointing out how the USA should follow various first world European countries’ lead on “equality” and social safety nets, but I guarantee you they won’t be advocating for this one. “Equality” is merely a buffet for American women, whereas “equity” is a force-fed enteral feeding delivery for men. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Temptation Island Shows Moral Character Has Nothing To Do With Dating Success For MenLet’s test that hypothesis about men cheating more than women. Mandatory paternity testing nationwide. The only people who’d be against it would be those with something to hide. Sure, it will only expose those affairs that resulted in a birth, but I think that’s a good starting point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 02:05 AM |
| 110 | 95% of people shopping in Whole Foods during working hours are women.The best part of all that, is that to reward him for all that backbreaking work, dedication, and pre-career educational effort, in the event of divorce, HE gets to subsidize HER post-divorce lifestyle, whereas there is no such obligation on her part. Forget sex. Divorced women aren’t forced to head over to their ex-husbands’ houses or apartments and cook, clean, knock out errands, etc, but divorced men have to hand over part of their lives (the time they exchanged for money) to someone they’ve n… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?No one is forcing all these women to be choosing all these “deadbeat men” either, but here we are… Oh that’s right… all these men are “master manipulators” who didn’t show their true colors until after it was “too late.” They’re all Oscar-worthy actors who were able to say all the right things to trick the perpetually innocent woman. It’s strange how women’s intuition is able to weed out men for so many “reasons,” like if he’s too short, poor, too nice, boring, too awkward, lacks confidence, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.Yeah, like Chris Brown, a confident man with his shit together. He beat the stuffing out of Rihanna in 2009. “Since 2010, Chris Brown has publicly been linked to Karrueche Tran, Rihanna, Draya Michele, and has children with Nia Guzman, Ammika Harris, and Diamond Brown.” Let me guess, none of those women had any idea about his past, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 04:18 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?This phenomenon speaks to observing women’s actions as opposed to their words. Despite saying they want equality, it’s a fact that many women want to have their cake and eat it too, cherry picking the parts of antiquated gender roles that they like and discarding the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:53 PM |
| 23 | Why do Ukrainians care more about their national identity than about their own men?Don’t forget all the Ukrainian women who fled. One never has to even look at actual data to intuitively know how few women are actually in the fight. A quick google search shows that there are currently 62,000 Ukrainian women serving in uniform, but only 4,000 of them are deployed on combat zones. In comparison, 4,000 is the realistic number of foreign volunteer fighters, of which 99 percent are men. 1.8 million Ukrainian women fled their country, which we’re told needs every able body… in compa… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 07:01 PM |
| 50 | "Are we dating the same guy" Facebook groups. Valid Safety Check or online harassment?I think the best thing about those “are we dating the same guy” groups is that it helps prove the 80/20 rule and it’s women who are proving it through their own actions by complaining about it. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 05:53 PM |
| 12 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSMore men aren’t abandoning dating apps because women have been able to collectively make it impossible for men to approach women in person. Women don’t want men to ask them out in public, in private, at work if they’re coworkers, at work if the man is a customer, at work if the woman is the customer, at the gym, on the bus, while she’s walking, while she’s shopping, when she’s in line at Starbucks… At the club? No, she’s just there to have a good time with the girls, don’t you understand? At the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenThis is true… however, when these men are financially ruined and their lives made a living hell due to their poor choices in said women, SOCIETY DOES NOT CARE ONE BIT. These men are not coddled and collectively told that it’s not their fault. There are no women in their orbit willing to offer a sympathetic ear, validation, or sexual opportunities to “get over her.” There’s certainly no white knights of either gender willing to publicly shame these horrible women and tell them off for mistreating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What women really wantIf you listen to women complaining about the very men THEY chose… somehow, they’re ALL assholes/narcissists/f—-boys. Interesting how awful the men they chose over other men (those awful men without rizz) turned out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Ain't THAT the Truth?! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenThe funny thing is, she can get an in shape guy with steady income and benefits looking like that, she just needs to move to the nearest town outside any major military installation. They won’t make six figures but they’ll have BAS (food), BAH (housing), and she’ll have the place to herself a third of the year when he’s in the field. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/03/25 05:36 PM |
| 29 | If you think men are terrible for abandoning their kids, actually call them out.Here’s the thing with calling bad men out… a lot of men DO call them out, but the moment they also point out that those now single mothers willingly chose those same bad men… all of a sudden we can’t possibly criticize the choices she made of her own free will now can we? If I pointed out a population sample of men who complained about routinely being financially drained by skinny, large breasted, artificially tanned, Fox News blondes… is it not possible that although these men shouldn’t have be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | the political upheaval that we are noticing these days is also a result of misandryI REALLY hate that he didn’t have that answer ready. That would have completely changed the subsequent narrative of that news cycle. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Can white men finally stop complainingReform the family/divorce courts and sic their own DOGE to the child support/alimony divorce-industrial-complex. Introduce actual equality and ensure proper audit and oversight over the government reaching into men's pockets to hand it over to women with zero accountability. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/25 08:18 PM |
| 23 | Men are turning against "women’s rights" in record numbersTee hee! That’s just a “societal preference,” no one is forcing men to take the initiative, pick up the tab, or absorb the loss. “Whomever asks, pays,” and we do ask, it just so happens to be as rare as a three-eyed fish. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/25 09:24 AM |
| 1 | The astounding hypocrisy of females praising rappers who openly disrespect them but demand ‘equality’ from regular menWomen haven't stop throwing themselves at Chris Brown... they would rather be slapped in the face by a rapper than given flowers by a "lame." | /r/MensRights | 01/03/25 09:21 PM |
| 26 | Advice given by Reddit: "Find an old and lonely man who owns a home."Don't forget her cheating on the guy who did everything right... because it's all about *her* happiness, don'tcha know? Women: "Why can't we be financially provided for by men we don't find attractive and also whore around with the small portion of men we do find attractive? Is that too much to ask?" | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 09:03 PM |
| 74 | Woman who had male students child didn't tell her husband that it wasn't his so the husband thought it was his kid (paternity fraud)The fact that we have to hope the divorce is in his favor given that she: Lied. Cheated. Tried to pass off her student’s child as her husband’s. is quite a sad commentary on which gender is favored in the courts. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | The New Orleans terrorist was financially struggling and has gone through three divorcesI agree. He kept getting royally screwed over by the courts, BUT… he was not an innocent good husband either. Not to mention, he got married three times. You get burned once, you could blame it on inexperience. Three times? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. It does also say something about the women who were attracted to him to marry his crazy ass. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/25 03:59 PM |
| 16 | It’s Time for Democrats to Woo the Man Vote“How the US won’t vote for a female Presidential candidate.” It’s funny, the Democrats had a pretty big opportunity to do just that in 2020. They instead chose… the rich old white man. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/25 07:44 AM |
| 22 | Mom-of-four brutally executes her three young daughters before shooting herself… this is something I would like to see investigated and exposed. It’s not exactly subtle, how the media spins things to the tune they want sung. Fox News will always play up say, a white woman having been raped by a black man, and NBC or the Washington Post will of course play up any instance of a black criminal being killed by a white person, preferably a cop. Something that definitely argued for the “uniparty” theory that it’s all owned by the same entity and thus, controlled opposition, is w… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/25 09:35 PM |
| 40 | Married 16 Years, None of 3 Kids Are His—And Even the 4th Born During His Lawsuit Against Wife Isn'tNo, no, that only matters when it’s women who refuse to adopt children because “they want their own biological children.” When men find out years later that she passed off another man’s kids as his, he’s supposed to “look past biology and think of what’s best for (her) children.” You know, basically reward her for her infidelity, lies, theft. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/25 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Society is in denial about the problems lonely men face"Women choose and they usually choose the wrong guys." This would not be such an issue IF the good men they ignored for those wrong guys weren't the ones expected to be the clean-up man. Women have free will, same as men, but women expect to be free from the consequences of their own choices. When a man chooses a woman poorly, no one is coming to save him. When women choose men poorly, all of society is expected to bail her out of the situation SHE chose. To hell with that. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 06:19 PM |
| 11 | Child support is the biggest injusticeI’d like to see AI overseeing an ex-spouse’s spending with that child support money. I don’t like the sledgehammer that Musk and DOGE are applying to the US government but damn if it isn’t satisfying to learn exactly how badly our taxes are being spent. Anyone getting child support should have sufficient oversight to ensure it’s spent properly. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What are the BEST rebuttals to this common feminist argument?Women themselves claim “behind every successful man is a woman who made it possible,” so there’s that. Think of every man who’s a leader/dictator/captain of industry and ask yourself if they’ve ever hurt for a girlfriend/mistress/wife, etc. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 04:33 PM |
| 18 | Why are women’s hormonal changes excused but men’s hormonal changes demonized?It’s all part of the “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” mentality that society has indoctrinated about the past five or six generations of western people, if not more. About the only thing a woman can do that society won’t passionately defend is if she kills her children, and even then… there will no doubt be talk about “what drove her to such evil” with the expectation that the answer is “her husband/boyfriend/baby daddy.” | /r/MensRights | 20/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 13 | While men are dying on the frontlines, women are busy making money on Onlyfans“Sure beats dying.” Yup, and it obviously beats doing ANY other possible job. We’ve had it beat into us over the past thirty-five years that “anything men can do, women can do better, and in heels.” Yet, I’m pretty sure women make up the vast minority of soldiers serving in Ukraine as well as the vast minority of casualties. We hear in the US, time and again that if we were invaded, we’d see the “protectiveness” of American “momma bears” and the reality is likely to be clearly different. Instead… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/25 09:00 PM |
| 13 | Angelina Jolie walks away $80 million richer after Brad Pitt divorceI’m disappointed in Trump for a lot of reasons, but given that Trump likely feels that he’s had to pay out more than is fair during his divorces, I was seriously hoping he would have taken a sledgehammer to America’s divorce industrial complex via purging it of biased and misandrist/misogynistic judges alike. Enough of state-enforced robbery that enriches women out of men’s pockets. It happens enough “voluntarily,” we don’t need the state intervening. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/25 04:29 PM |
| 10 | What challenges do men face that often go unnoticed?I don’t think it goes completely unnoticed, but the challenge of being expected to be able to financially support not only yourself but from one to three or four other dependents, some of whom may not even be biologically related to said man, is an expectation that is thrust upon men as if were something anyone could do. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/24 11:39 PM |
| 0 | A reminder that conservatives are also gynocentric, just In their own way.Well, both political parties believe that men are the expendable sex, but only one outright demonizes us as a whole, and will eagerly play Beyonce’s “Who Run the World? Girls” song (which they do in some ways) while simultaneously acting coy and powerless when it suits them. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | A reminder that conservatives are also gynocentric, just In their own way.That is definitely how it feels. Your quote is the new “vote for the lesser of two evils.” | /r/MensRights | 10/12/24 03:52 PM |
| 13 | we aren't equal and this sucksThis! Very much this. I don’t monitor social media but I do watch YouTube and the amount of women who are out there having the time of their lives on a man’s dime is staggering. One podcaster, I forget who, once said “all women have to do in order to get on a yacht is look pretty, whereas the man has to work hard in order to buy the yacht.” | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 17 | Sweden’s ‘soft girl’ trend that celebrates women quitting work OP: Imagine how men would be attacked in the media if the genders were reversed.No kidding. That’s what I laugh about when society claims that women “gave up their professional careers” to become stay at home moms. No… many of them hit the lottery by choosing a man who was willing to subsidize them for the rest of their lives. How many MEN have that opportunity? To not worry about earning enough for rent or mortgage? To never worry about their next meal? Women call that “controlling.” | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 04:13 PM |
| 60 | Sweden’s ‘soft girl’ trend that celebrates women quitting work OP: Imagine how men would be attacked in the media if the genders were reversed.To women, this is “modern oppression.” | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I’m not tryna throw anyone under the bus, but I’m tired of feminists cherry-picking misogyny. Either call it out across the board or stop. Why do black and Hispanic men get a pass for misogyny in today’s overly politically correct world?While white men have definitely become western society’s punching bag, I assure you that long before the 2024 US Presidential election, black and hispanic men have been accused and shamed for their “misogyny” as well. In fact, an irony is that while the exit polls and demographic data of who voted for whom seems to show that black men voted a bit more lockstep with black women than any other ethnicity, black men DEFINITELY take a beating socially by feminists. They’re accused of everything from … | /r/MensRights | 05/12/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Gay man fights for pardon after he was jailed for being LGBTQ+ in the military 30 years agoThat is some BS. I know 95% of the LGBT crowd doesn’t like Trump but I doubt he’s as anti-gay as his public MAGA persona suggests. Fingers crossed for his pardon, a government apology, and something for restitution. It pisses me off when criminals are awarded big money because they were injured by police officers trying to arrest them. Those caught up in “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” witch-hunts deserve compensation far more than criminals. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/24 04:09 AM |
| 23 | Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’“The wage gap.” The very feminists who keep regurgitating that tired narrative are the same ones who despise capitalism… yet they ironically fail to see two things. One, that many women hate capitalism… until they realize they absolutely support it when it comes to women and their choices in men, sex, relationships, and marriage. All of a sudden, there’s zero talk of equity, and women’s version of equality is whatever benefits her in any given situation. Two, given how they will rail about how c… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/24 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Feminist want equality. So, are you ready for the real male experience..?Pretty much. Women will complain about having to “settle” for food from McDonald’s as men simply go hungry. That’s the difference between women and men. Women see the food as unappetizing and unhealthy, while simultaneously not giving a damn that men are starving. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/24 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Almost got caught up with a single momYou know the sad part about the ubiquitous stepfather scenario we’re all aware of? It doesn’t take much on the part of the mother to make it better. All she has to do it respect the man who was willing to do what the men she chose over him refused to do. Be grateful for him. Appreciate him. Cherish him. None of that is impossible… it doesn’t require money. It doesn’t require advanced education. It doesn’t require herculean physical exertion. Yet it is apparently too hard for many women to accomp… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 64 | UK: Mother who falsified newborn's DNA test to stop the biological father seeing the baby is jailed for 32 months. She got pregnant again in bid to avoid prisonShe got pregnant again to avoid prison. Despite what so many women claim, there are definitely things worse than pregnancy and raising a child to eighteen years. Prison is one, going to war is another. Plenty of female soldiers perfectly timed their pregnancies to avoid deployment. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 02:10 AM |
| 22 | "Vulva Diversity" is now a cause... but intactivism for men is still a fringe belief...Women out there worrying about how their vulva is perceived, meanwhile they’re judging men based off their height… I wonder which gender is having bigger problems with what the other cares about? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/24 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Sage Advice To Younger Men About Dealing With LabelsDon’t forget “fascist.” These words and their spike in common usage don’t happen in a vacuum. Focus groups are created and used specifically to research and choose which words will illicit the right response based on the think tank that commissioned the research wants. On the right, the term might be “demoncrat” or “libtard.” On the left, it’s been “fascist” and “Nazi” lately. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 04:08 PM |
| 13 | People saying "men cared about the economy more than the women in their lives" are peak female privilegePretty much this. When a man loses his job or can’t earn enough to keep her in the lifestyle to which she’s become accustomed, his girlfriend or wife will just monkey branch. She’ll always be able to land on her feet, because she’s siphoned away his money, or her money that she gets because they live off his money, the government will always pick her up, and she’ll be coddled. There’s no population of women willing to pick men up and dust them off, take care of them and provide. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 12:16 AM |
| 37 | Please, stop caring about women saying they’ll “stop fucking men”Pretty much this. They laugh and giggle when asked about men’s loneliness and how the majority of men go without sex, all the while even a woman who’s objectively a three can have an active sex life equivalent to a man who’s an eight… with zero effort. You can’t threaten men by withholding sex… when they weren’t having sex with these men anyway. Chad and Tyrone might feel a slight dip, maybe… but the average men who voted this week? They have no power over them. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Democrats, 72 MILLION is your fucking wake up callI agree. I didn’t dislike Harris for any of the usual fearmongering reasons the Left drums up. The only thing I wanted her to get dunked on was her whole “are there any laws that affect men and not women” BS. That said, I want Trump’s next administration to take an axe to the unfair divorce courts and family courts. There is an entire divorce industrial complex that exists in western society and I want it torn down. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What is going on in the Two X chromosomes sub Reddit? Why are they panicked and calling all men Incels?When women try and use sex as a reward/commodity despite claiming they never do that, and when a huge swath of men are ignored by women for not meeting their ridiculous expectations (hence, no sex)… just what sway did women think they had over men who didn’t want to vote for a candidate who blames men for all the world’s ills? I’m pro-choice, but I agreed with another person pointing out that taking abortion away in some states merely put women on the same playing field as men. If a man doesn’t … | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 16 | Why man-child is a meme ?“Man child.” Tell me again, which gender is the one expected to financially provide for the other until death? | /r/MensRights | 05/11/24 03:41 AM |
| 243 | Trumps appeal to men that the media just doesn't getThe Democrats have been asking how “minority men” can vote for a candidate who “demonizes” them. The Democrats do that to all men save the LGBT variety and wonder why men are sick and tired of being their socially acceptable punching bag. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 06:58 PM |
| 6 | In South Korea, how is it misogyny if sons are favored over daughters but if its the reverse, it's because daughters are better?They called what you said sexist… yet they will hope for the exact situation you laid out to occur. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/24 04:03 PM |
| 46 | Why aren't we talking about the real reason male college enrollment is dropping? (Spoiler: the reason is “male flight”)One of the funniest things about the whole “women are more educated… getting more degrees… enrolling in college” talking points is that while all three things are true, they don’t tell the whole truth. Women are more educated… sure, but in what? The country doesn’t need nor have reason to employ the amount of women who studied art appreciation, history, psychology, communication, etc, in jobs that have no need for that type of education. Women are getting more degrees… sure, and are they able to… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/24 04:45 AM |
| 46 | Why do "socialists" look down so much on the manosphere?A huge irony here is that when it comes to sex, dating and marriage, liberal leaning men and women who hate capitalism will spout talking points that make them sound EXACTLY like a conservative talking about “bootstrap-ism.” Exactly the same points. They have no problem with free market capitalism… when they benefit from it sexually and securing a provider. For everything else, they want socialism. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 11:03 PM |
| 86 | Why do American politicians suck up to women voters but never male voters?Women are able to volunteer because most of them have their lives subsidized by men. It’s like how there are apparently now more single women homeowners than single men homeowners. Just how is that, when women constantly bring up the “gender pay gap?” It’s the same reason why more grown men live with their parents than grown women. All women have to do is move in with a man, and save on rent/mortgage. Relationship ends, they always have back up men and safety nets. If men had their meals, bills,… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/24 03:47 PM |
| 149 | Sis, Are We Dating The Same Guy? Facebook groups paused as admins fear legal risksSo… are women ever going to address the elephant in the room with regards to how so many of them all end up pursuing/falling for the same men? They thumb their noses as the “misinformation” that the majority of women only want the same 20% of men, but these Facebook groups sure say otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How true is the statement that more than 25% of women are raped?If it were true... if one out of every four women were getting raped as much as some claim, women would collectively just remain at home clutching a knife or gun. I don't believe it for a moment. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 12:15 AM |
| 44 | Society underestimates how quickly young boys are told to matureThere isn’t a little girl or elderly woman and everyone in-between alive, who was ever expected (based off the reproductive system they were born with) to work their entire life to provide for a dependent spouse and offspring. Not one. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Texas art teacher, 51, who was 'mean to the girls but nice to the boys' is arrested for sexually abusing male student.People don’t accept it because they’ve bought into the notion that “women are wonderful and can do no wrong.” This woman… like every single teacher who’s been caught with their underage students, deserve zero sympathy. Some of them are ugly, but the majority could get any legal 18-55 year old man with about minimal effort for any sexual needs. It takes zero effort for them unlike men, and they choose the boys that cost them their jobs and land them in prison. That’s proof right there of the 80/2… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 04:13 PM |
| 75 | Pregnant mom pops The Big Question. Successful man responds.No, no… that’s cisgender heteronormative patriarchal oppression. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s wrong for a high body count man, to want a female partner with low body count?It’s not wrong, but it is hypocritical. That said, the average man cannot amass the body count of the average woman. It’s rather unfair (which is life) for a man who’s been able to play the field to enjoy his man whoring and then expect a good girl to marry him, similar to women who YOLO’d and lived it up and then looks for a responsible man to financially bail her out of her poor decisions. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/24 04:45 PM |
| 5 | USA: Men have to register for the draft in case of war but women don't.Here’s how much faith you should have if women are ever included in the draft; in 2005, as the 101st was preparing for their second deployment to Iraq, hundreds of female soldiers were magically pregnant just in time to avoid going. Now, a lot of those women had signed up after 9/11, knowing that going to war was a huge possibility. Sure, for some it was simply time to start a family… but for the rest, they understandably chose nine months of growing a baby and eighteen years of raising said kid… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 04:13 PM |
| 23 | Movember has gone woke! Movember CEO Michelle Terry pledges collaboration aimed at imposing 'healthy masculinities' on men and boysLet me guess the definition of “healthy masculinity.” The man fulfills all traditional gender roles that women want him to. The man is not allowed to do anything that he perceives as desirable or enjoyable unless it does not contradict him fulfilling traditional gender roles that women want him to. The man shall not have any expectations whatsoever of any woman at any time in any way. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 02:02 AM |
| 10 | Asian parents are biased against sons, not daughtersOh, this isn’t a racial/ethnic thing. You’ll find a lot of favoritism towards daughters in white families as well, from both fathers and mothers. In college many of the students who were young women were driving cars they clearly could not afford on their own while the young men drove what they saved up to purchase or went without. Young men have to live with multiple roommates to afford rent while young women are subsidized by their parents so they can enjoy their privacy. Now, did two asian co… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/24 05:13 PM |
| 29 | Ukrainian draft dodgers should not get social benefits in EU countries, says Polish foreign minister (OP: Note that female ukrainian refugees would still get benefits unlike the male ukrainian refugees)It’s funny how we never hear women chanting for “equal rights for equal responsibilities.” It’s the most galling then they try and use the “who’s going to repopulate the country” excuse when they’re the exact same ones who act like them having children (you know, kind of how nature works) is akin to being a human broodmare in their ‘Handmaid’s Tale’ fantasy. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/24 05:10 AM |
| 6 | Utter NonsenseI'm going to guess that "any man who doesn't step in to save the STRONG AND INDEPENDENT woman" is also not a man to the same people who can't define what a woman is. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 02:09 AM |
| 422 | Mr. Beast's newest "challenge" video featuring a Men vs Women survival challenge was heavily rigged in the women's favorIt’s fairly obvious that any “challenge” that shows women being the equal or superior to men is only ever championed when it’s to benefit women. When it doesn’t, it’s dismissed as “not representing all women.” Case in point; female soldiers have graduated the US Army Ranger School, which women say is proof they can keep up with the toughest of men. Fair enough. However, if you use their accomplishments as say, proof that women should then be included in the selective service/draft, all of a sudd… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/24 03:54 AM |
| 55 | Prosecutor wants a man who is NOT the biological father to still pay child support ($16,000 in arrears)I say, f—- “the best interests of the child.” Just because the child is innocent doesn’t mean the man is “guilty.” Carrying a baby to term for nine months does not equal eighteen years of earning enough money to support the adult doing the work AND an adult and a child who don’t! Now, I know society will never let women and children “fail,” but if society did let them fail… maybe we’d finally see a change in women’s behavior with regards to their “reproductive choices.” If we end their financial… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one that thinks the Pink Tax is dumb.I remember being in the US Army and our chain of command demanded and enforced weekly haircuts for all male soldiers. For the few female soldiers in the battalion, no such demands or enforcement existed. Sure, a woman’s haircut costs more than a man’s… but women aren’t expected or forced to get them anywhere near as often. Forget the costs, think of the time one has to wait in line, coordinating an appointment, this one task disrupting every single weekend of your life. It trips up male soldiers… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/24 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Why do many men lack self worth so much?… and that’s the infuriating part. Cherry picking all the benefits of traditional values with none of the responsibilities or reciprocity. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 04:07 AM |
| 28 | Why do many men lack self worth so much?There is a huge elephant in the room with regards to liberal women blaming white men for all of society’s ills, but yet these same women are often found romantically involved with… white men. From politicians like VP Harris to AOC, to entertainers like Mindy Kaling or Taylor Swift, they all love to denigrate white men, but they all favor them as well. I would love to see a documentary or something calling it out. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 10:08 PM |
| 21 | Spain: Man handed 15-month jail sentence for assaulting his partner avoids prison by changing sex so that he cannot be punished for gender-based violence. OP: Spain hates men.I agree. He shouldn’t escape justice, BUT… he didn’t create these asinine SJW laws either. I look forward to seeing more of these unintended consequences in the USA that just might make the public reconsider their rush to embrace anything “pro-woman” that feels good without fully realizing the likely repercussions. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/24 05:12 PM |
| 130 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceThey will bop along to and agree with a song titled “Who Run the World? Girls” and then pretend that they have no power. They absolutely do have power and it’s infuriating that they pretend they don’t when it suits them. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Fell out with friends over the stupid bear thingIt’s remarkable that you are a man, who is obviously LGBTQ-friendly, tolerant, open minded, and your trans friends are willing to throw away your friendship because you rightly point out the hypocrisy of certain women. Like, there’s no pleasing people unless you toe the line of progressive liberalism, at whatever they’ve moved the goalposts to at this very moment. There’s NOTHING right wing about J.K. Rowling at all. I guarantee you she hates Trump and his ilk with a passion. But because she’s a… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 01:30 AM |
| 3 | What’s your response to the “wage gap”?Ask them if they believe that capitalism is about greed. They’ll say yes. Ask them if they think corporations, businesses and employers would ever part with one more cent than they had to for labor expenses. They’ll say no. Ask them what corporations, businesses or employers would voluntarily hire men and pay them more… if they could pay women less to accomplish the same job. They’ll begin to fume. There are NO men who are so “pro-men” that they would hurt their bottom line by paying men more mo… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/24 05:35 AM |
| 21 | When divorce payouts favour a man, it’s a problem according to media.Exactly. It’s just like how they only want to abolish the draft when it might inconvenience women. That said, I don’t think anyone should be floating their ex-wives or ex-husbands. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 09:22 PM |
| 7 | "Teaching boys to treat women properly."It IS telling how some women would rather die, than have anything remotely sexual be “taken from them.” As if the man who saved her life has never seen breasts before. What is SO special about hers’ that not seeing them is more important than surviving atrial fibrillation following an accident? | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 51 | Men are told to respect and care for all women without even knowing them. Would women without a father, son, brother or husband care about a stranger man the same way?Nope. Men’s problems aren’t for women to care for, but women’s problems require every man to stop and devote all their resources to solving. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 03:59 PM |
| 11 | Two teachers are arrested in the same high school. The epidemic continues. Silence from media.Pretty much this. It’s not about whether we would have wanted it or not, because some of us definitely would - it’s about the double standards with regards to consequences, both socially and legally. Heck, I guarantee you there are underage women/girls who definitely enjoyed a sexual relationship with an older male teacher, as long as he was attractive - but in the eyes of the law, he’s definitely in the wrong, and so too must the women be held accountable. In fact, I have even less sympathy for… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 13 | Do we live in a patriarchy?It's funny how men being providers, paying for everything, protecting women, etc... THAT'S never seen as a negative thing. No women renouncing "the patriarchy" when they expect their bills to be paid for and lifestyle subsidized, or when men die for them. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 01:56 AM |
| 31 | Balding, 40 y/o woman would like height verification to avoid lying men only 1 inch taller than her.Forty years old... and she still prioritizes height. I mean, we all understandably get frustrated when women have outrageous financial expectations, but we kind of understand the concern given the economy. But height? Really? At age forty? A woman would rather be domestically assaulted by a Chris Brown than lower her "standards" to be loved and cherished by a Peter Dinklage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/07/24 01:36 AM |
| 62 | Why when a women speaks it’s empowering but when a man speaks its mansplaining?WomenAreWonderfulAndCanDoNoWrong | /r/MensRights | 01/07/24 01:20 AM |
| 14 | Yet another overweight kween demanding 6ft and 6 figures.Time for her to reach out to Dr. Nowzaradan. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/06/24 03:25 PM |
| 20 | Single mom with kids clearly from different fathers wonders why her future husband is still hiding.If only women could accept men who aren’t at least six feet tall the way they expect men to accept them with one, two, three, four children by other men… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/06/24 03:18 PM |
| 8 | "Misandry is not the same as misogyny."Pfffft. Sure, some men do kill women, overtly. However, some women do kill men, covertly. A man will straight up shoot or stab a woman who’s wronged him. A woman will use every weapon at her disposal to drag a man who’s wronged her through the coals, through the streets, put him in prison, etc. She prefers a death of a thousand cuts. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/24 03:17 PM |
| 5 | What's up with the benevolent sexism theory?It’s funny just how few, if any, women reject “benevolent sexism” when it affects their bottom line. Sure, a feminist woman will easily turn down an opened door by a man with a snide comment and put him on blast via TikTok, but just how many of them are fighting to accomplish at least 50-50 when it comes to paying bills, rent, mortgage, when the stakes are higher? Likewise, there are always a lot of women willing to march to “end the draft” as opposed to “include women in the draft to end that p… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/24 03:42 PM |
| 34 | Fatherhood is criminalizedNow, I agree that taxpayers as a group shouldn’t be on the hook for the children of irresponsible men and women, but neither should financial responsibility be placed on innocent men either. If the government had the balls, they’d issue an ultimatum to women; if men can be held responsible for “not keeping it in their pants,” so too should women be expected to be held responsible for “not keeping their legs closed.” In fact, we should have any child support tied to a mandatory paternity testing … | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 05:34 AM |
| 7 | It feels like the rental market is so much easier for women. I've been trying to find a room through spareroom for about a month now and anything decent is 'female only'In her case, her experience comes from working in show business and living in a show business area. Los Angeles is full of people trying to “make it” while they’re young enough to eke it out. They’re usually attractive enough to have a very active sex life. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 05:14 AM |
| 18 | It feels like the rental market is so much easier for women. I've been trying to find a room through spareroom for about a month now and anything decent is 'female only'Well, that’s alright when it discriminates against men /s | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:59 AM |
| 6 | It feels like the rental market is so much easier for women. I've been trying to find a room through spareroom for about a month now and anything decent is 'female only'This is too right! My favorite roommate in Los Angeles was a woman. Zero awkwardness or overlap of our private lives. She choose me because of my clean background, reliability, and personality. She admitted she specifically didn’t want women because women… bring home men. Different men. Lots of them. Most men can’t do the same with women. Hence, fewer individuals you don’t know in your personal space. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Realistically, which of the two main 2024 presidential candidates are better advocates for men's rights?I agree with you, but it’s not overwhelming so. One of the things I expected from Trump, a thrice divorced rich guy, would have been for him to take a sledgehammer to the one-sided family/divorce court system. An end to alimony, child support with intense scrutiny, etc. Give men, supposedly with all their male privilege, a fighting chance in a country whose women boast a 60-80% divorce initiation rate. If DeSantis hadn’t fizzled out, and he becamr President. ending alimony nationwide, I would ho… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:41 AM |
| 43 | Women have significant advantages compared to men when it comes to getting modern resources.According to former vice president of production for Paramount Pictures Lindsay Doran, an earlier version of the film ‘Ferris Bueller’s Day Off’ included a line by Sloane to Cameron during the parade scene when they are discussing their future that resulted in very low scores from young female viewers during test screenings. In the scene, Sloane said, "A girl can always bail out and have a baby and get some guy to support her." "Girls hated that line," Doran recalls. Oh. They hated that line, hu… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 04:05 PM |
| 159 | 100+ Million Leftover Women In China Realize Their Degrees Mean Nothing To Men.Women’s education would be valued more by men IF said degrees resulted in any tangible financial benefits to the man or relationship/marriage. As it stands, HIS money is HER money and HER money is HER money. It’s not a joke, it’s not just a cliche, it’s straight up fact. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 02:21 AM |
| 28 | I don't understand why, in a theoretical world where abortion is fully legalized, men can't also chose to walk away from unwanted pregnancyThat’s a very good take on it. I am pro-choice, but I agree with those who see it as killing a baby. I think the world is overpopulated and that without abortion, we’d all be worse off. That said… I’m not voting on abortion rights as a single issue as a single man. I too am “meh” on it. If men have to face consequences when they have sex, so too should women. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/24 01:55 AM |
| 9 | A lot of workplace higher-ups continuously complain about how chit-chat is counterproductive because it holds back efficiency and just going about doing the job, in my all of working life so far I have only seen explicitly men[and especially low-status or unattractive] men be penalized for this ruleHow many women are under the pressure to be the sole or majority breadwinner compared to men? How many men divorce their wives because she lost her job versus how many women divorce their husbands for not being able to provide? When a man can’t earn a living, he has no safety net. There’s something like 3 or 4 men to every 1 woman who’s homeless. That’s some male privilege right there. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 04:04 PM |
| 14 | Serious question: What would be the equivalent of a draft for women?Here’s my individual take on this. I served as an enlisted infantryman on active duty in the US Army. On my first deployment I participated in the Iraq invasion and returned there roughly a year and a half later. In between deployments, the base I was on consolidated the various physical training routes into one gigantic “freeway” at which the four combat brigade teams on post would see each other at some point, whereas before each brigade sort of stuck to their own areas. Now, the division had … | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 05:27 AM |
| 10 | Sexual Desires Outside MarriageYou need to communicate with your wife. Just as we men rightly complain when women expect us to be mind readers, neither can she help meet you in the middle and work on the sexual portion of your marriage without being open and honest. Has she gotten fat? Dressing slovenly? Find a gentle way to tell her, but you still need to say it. Marriage isn’t for those who can’t talk to their own spouse honestly. Put in the work and nurse your marriage back into good health. Good luck! | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 04:15 PM |
| 5 | The Importance of Physical Attractiveness to the Mate Choices of Women and Their MothersOne of the problems with this fact is that it’s an additional hurdle for most men, but not most women. It used to be a somewhat even “trade.” Men were concerned about a woman’s attractiveness and women were concerned about a man’s ability to provide. However, when you realize that many women want 100% of their demands in a man whereas most men would be floored with a woman who meets 60-70% of his criteria, you end up with a horrendous imbalance for the relationship market. | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 53 | since I pay all my own bills due to being single.Very much this. Throughout college and after, I observed far, far more women with the YOLO mentality. The men were finding roommates or renting a room in a house while more women were spending a greater percentage of their earnings on their own apartment. Women would take more vacations, dine out more, basically spend more. I doubt they were putting much of anything towards retirement. That’s their future husband’s job. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/24 05:23 AM |
| 34 | I genuinely don't know what else to do“5’11” is just how women say “6 feet” but hope they appear less shallow. It’s just like women saying “80-90k” a year in salary… they want to say “100k” but don’t want to face any (completely logical) criticism over their greed. They all want the same few men, to the point where they join internet groups like “Are we dating the same guy” and have the gall to act like MEN are the superficial gender. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Anti-incel sites radicalise incels way more than any incel sites, here's why:The best part is when women say if they’re going to be abused, it might as well be by an attractive man. That there tells you on her list of priorities, a man’s height, looks, and “rizz” are more important than anything else if she’s down with abuse. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about "social justice" feminists sticking to rich men while despising the very poor men they are supposed support?About the same as the women of ALL ethnicities (save Black women, as they’re the least likely to go for white men) who say that straight white men are the cause of all evil in the world, BUT… these same women, railing against colonialism, racism, “the patriarchy,” capitalism, etc… and they date and marry… white men who make more money than them. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 01:53 AM |
| 9 | Just a reminder that women don't love men. They love moneyI’m going to disagree. Many… don’t even love the top ten-twenty percent of men. Oh, they WANT them, at the superficial level. They want their lives paid for, they want Instagram bragging rights, they want to be a center of attention based on who they “bagged” or married. And then what? They divorce these men. Supermodel Giselle Bundenchen (whatever) divorced Tom Brady. Hugh Jackman’s wife divorced HIM. These guys are objectively the men we believe have no problems with women and yet they too get… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 04:04 PM |
| 18 | That's not what "family man" means, Example #678268Don’t forget that she’ll quickly enter her “I don’t feel like having sex anymore/it’s too uncomfortable to have sex/hormonally, I can’t have sex anymore” phase, while he’s paying for everything for the rest of HER life. It’s the ONE thing men desire from their women, and not even selfishly, as most men want their woman to enjoy it as well… and they can’t be bothered with it. Oh, but he still needs to pay. For everything. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/24 05:51 PM |
| 14 | That's not what "family man" means, Example #678268She’s “undecided.” I’ll bet that means she’s weighing the negatives of being pregnant and giving birth yet again versus the potential of ensuring her next man is legally and financially tied to her for the next eighteen years whether he likes it or not. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/24 05:47 PM |
| 8 | What are mens rights activists still fighting for?Very much this. There is definitely a huge gulf of experiences between western women and women who are actually oppressed. We should remember this so we don’t pull an “all women” card. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 26 | What are mens rights activists still fighting for?To have all the “privileges” of men without any of the responsibilities. Pretty much that. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/24 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Selective ServiceThe problem with that is women use that to their advantage when convenient. They love touting the few women who can and do excel, who make it through the toughest training the military offers - and use those few women as an example for ALL women, when the narrative calls for it, and only on their terms. They want admission to voluntarily do anything a man can do, without the responsibility of being forced to like a man. The irony is that these same women actually have the men they hate - those o… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Social programming don't work on anti social menAnd women reward these dominant men DESPITE women saying they despise these men. As we usually say here, observe women’s actions instead of listening to what they say. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 04:08 PM |
| 20 | 2023: The phrase, "toxic masculinity" gains continued popularity, and single women wanting a male-partnered relationship report increased difficulty in finding one. Hardly a coincidence.Women demonize men’s sex drive but it’s the only reason many women have any leverage in the world at all. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 04:12 PM |
| 22 | A reminder that terms like conservative and religious should be taken with a silo of salt.I definitely agree with you - there are hypocrites on both sides politically, of both genders. This particular woman has shot herself in the foot though. It’s good that she seems like she’d get along with her political equal, but does HE want to take on her AND her FOUR CHILDREN? I think that gets a hard pass from liberal and conservative men alike. Women in general just don’t seem to see it from the man’s perspective. I have no doubt that the number of women financially supporting children that… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/24 08:22 PM |
| 3 | 3 Kids, different dads, divorced twice, does OF, on alphabet soup of Meds. BTW NO MEN UNDER 6 FEET TALL. I HAVE STANDARDS. MODS Link does not work https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/322678/3_kids_different_dads_divorced_twice_does_of_on_alphabet_souI would say from her multiple relationship and t-shirt, she was married to at least one soldier or servicemember. I would also say, judging from height being her primary requirement for a mate, ESPECIALLY at the stage her life is in, that she is never going to get what she wants, let alone what she needs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/24 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Imagine if the genders were reversed.Someone should make one of those two panel memes showing that woman being all proud and smug about her choosing to risk herself being near a bear over a man and the next panel showing her being mauled by a bear and two men with rifles backing away because they don’t want to be sexist by intervening because women are strong and independent and don’t need no man. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/24 04:10 PM |
| 11 | Despite all the talk blaming men about objectification and beauty standards, I've noticed most men in my life are very accepting of all types of women including their weight, body shapes and faces. Most women I know are very critical of man's appearance as well as his status.“Not all women want a specific thing or feature.” Sure, not all women. But a majority of women? Yeah. It’s been pretty proven what the majority of them want. Six foot minimum height, six-figure minimum salary, six inch minimum… and don’t forget they they also want status, ambition, “rizz,” etc, and that’s even prior to factoring in race, religion, and politics. Now, can they all get that? No. Yet, society tells these women that they can have it, and to accept anything less from a man is a traves… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 06:14 AM |
| 13 | Poland says it could send tens of thousands of 'military-age' Ukrainian men back to their home country to fight RussiaThose 60,000 should be lauded for stepping up where others fled. However, that's *less than 1 percent* of the female population of Ukraine prior to January 2022 compared to how many men who stayed - that definitely blows my plucked out of thin air ratio out of the water. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 01:29 AM |
| 12 | Am i crazy to think that most women are also shallow but not tagged like that? Like they would definitely be interested in a man if he is tall or has big d, but if a man would date a girl just bcoz she got a great fit bod.. or big tits its shallow?Yup. It’s like the “Tinder Swindler” thing and how his “victims” said they had an “instant connection.” Yeah, I guess that’s what women call “private jet money” these days… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 11:12 PM |
| 48 | Poland says it could send tens of thousands of 'military-age' Ukrainian men back to their home country to fight RussiaOh, they’ll eagerly point out the one woman volunteer serving to every… hundred men serving and think women as a whole are “equally contributing.” The best part is when they themselves hide behind excuses that during peacetime, they would have decried as “misogynistic” and “sexist,” such as “you need women to repopulate your country” and “women aren’t suited for war as well as men are.” The EXACT SAME things they get angry about in peacetime becomes their shield in war. It’s just like how the li… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/24 04:04 PM |
| 103 | Whenever women whine about men caring about body counts, remember that over half of them wouldn’t date a virginThey judge these men… but they still have sex with them, and then complain about how these men won’t commit. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 04:15 PM |
| 22 | I Lost Status When I Transitioned from Female to “Male”Well, privilege is invisible to those who have it. Not to mention, quite a few of those privileges don’t even require anything from those people but for them to exist. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 02:25 AM |
| 4 | What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships?It’s honestly going to depend some on the environment the man is in, and just how much worse loneliness might seem versus principles and self respect. If you’re in Los Angeles, California, there’s plenty of other women. If you’re near Fort Wainright, Alaska on the other hand… The numbers really screw men over. If I recall correctly, there is only one major metropolitan area in which single women outnumber single men, New York City. However, hypergamy and the high cost of living pretty much cance… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 14 | Ukraine 🇺🇦 forces younger and younger men to be killed every day in the meat grinderI’d love to see a good YouTube short video that shows scenes of Ukrainian men glancing at pictures of their wives and girlfriends in their helmets, who then die in combat, intercut with Ukrainian women who fled elsewhere living their new lives in safe conditions, holding hands with the men they met in other countries. You would put that old jingle “anything you can do, I can do better” over it, or perhaps a Ben Stein like voice droning on about male privilege and the “wage gap” and how women are… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 02:07 AM |
| 156 | Single women buying more homes than men is seen as "good" but not a growing gap that needs to be fixedDon’t forget that many women’s lives are financially subsidized by men. While their rent, food, and other bills are being paid for by their boyfriends, the women who aren’t spending their own money on frivolous things are squirreling it away in their “escape funds” or saving for property. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/24 02:48 AM |
| 34 | Woman realizes that improving herself decreases her chances of finding a partner.Exactly! It’s not men disqualifying women who earn more, it’s women disqualifying men who earn less. All the first, second, third wave feminism in the world, all the DEI programs and pro-women legislation for the past sixty years… and women still cling to those parts of the “patriarchy” that benefit them. Not one of them has the self-awareness to realize how much they actually agree with many of the conservative extremists they hate. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/24 01:59 AM |
| 11 | I'm a single mom. I date - but I don't date single dads.What amazes me the most about single mothers is the apparent lack of gratitude and awareness they seem to exhibit. Stepfathers are saints, in my opinion. Saints that are s—t on by some of society who thinks that because they got with a single mother’s “package deal,” he knew what he was getting himself into. I would accept that logic… IF it were equally applied. Women get into relationships with known abusers all the time… and they’re treated with kids’ gloves when it comes to time to bandage th… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else bothered by mens issues being dismissed as a result of “the patriarchy”?They’ll claim “female privilege” and “chivalry” are simply “benevolent sexism” but are unsurprisingly not trying too hard to dismantle those “patriarchal gender roles” that benefit women. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/24 03:56 PM |
| 20 | If all men around the world stopped working for a day, what would the effects be?I can understand your point, but I’m going to bet that in a lot of those scenarios, if you took away the money those same women received from either their former romantic partners as well as the taxpayers, they would indeed change their tone. As Bill Burr has said, it’s rather convenient that women began fighting for “equality” once the infrastructure that men built was advanced enough that they could do the jobs men could do, but only the ones in air conditioned offices. They’re obviously extre… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 04:05 PM |
| 21 | Another woman teacher RAPISTI remember having a conversation about the biggest difference between male teacher and female teachers when it comes to statutory rape, besides the disparity in public response and legal punishments. For some of the male teachers, having a relationship with their students might actually be the only chance they have - with a girl. Due to their teacher/student relationship, she is possibly the only positively receptive attention he gets from the opposite sex. I’m not condoning his actions AT ALL. … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 02:50 AM |
| 16 | And don't forget to bring Solo and the Wookie.There's a great YouTube channel run by Kendra G. I swear, 95% of the women coming on there, hoping to attract a potential man, all follow the same script. They have one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight children, more often that not ALL BY DIFFERENT MEN, and they all want a "God fearing man, six feet tall, a provider who makes six figures." You might think they're paid actors, but when you observe their mannerisms and personalities... no, sadly they all seem very genuine. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 25 | Virgin fake news outlets vs chad wikipedia with true info"Women are more often killed by a current or former intimate partner." In other words, that vaunted *women's intuition* doesn't really work that well then, does it? So women are killed by the very men they CHOSE, as opposed to those evil "incels" and men who give them "the ick" that they ignore. Interesting, that. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 10 | Child support and extreme hatered towards men ."Can't keep track of something that is never paid by most men to begin with?" Let's see the numbers. The amount of child support paid by men to women versus the amount of child support paid my women to men. Yet another "gap" that's never brought up. We can take it one step further. What about the amount of wealth in general that flows from men to women? How did the richest women in the world "earn" their money? The answer is by divorcing their husbands. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/24 05:37 PM |
| 21 | Part of the reason for education gender gap is that young men need money more than young womenEvery single poor choice a woman makes in life, at least in western society, they feel confident in making because they expect to be bailed out/saved by men as individuals and taxpayers as a collective. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/24 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Why does everyone find it funny when men almost lose their genitals?I forget which comedian riffed on it, but he was comparing the Lorena Bobbit mutilation of her husband’s penis and the public’s reaction to it and said that if a man had cut off one of his wife’s breasts and threw it away, we’d have had a national day of mourning for that breast. I think it was Chris Rock. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 02:28 AM |
| 30 | Why does everyone find it funny when men almost lose their genitals?I forget which comedian riffed on it, but he was comparing the Lorena Bobbit mutilation of her husband’s penis and the public’s reaction to it and said that if a man had cut off one of his wife’s breasts and threw it away, we’d have had a national day of mourning for that breast. I think it was Chris Rock. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?"Divorce is some of the worst shit that can happen to you on most fronts in adulthood. Especially for women." "Especially for women, huh?" That must be why they initiate divorce 70-80 percent of the time. Because they *don't* come out ahead from it. By and large, it's women who push for marriage. Then, by and large, it's women who push for divorce. The wedding industry and the divorce industry just LOVE it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:30 AM |
| 40 | It's time that society starts to recognize that career women deserve alpha chads“His money doesn’t impress” her, but she and the majority of women still demand it. The ones who don’t want to have children demand their men make much more money than them. The ones who had children by other men demand men make much more money than them AND be willing to spend it on children who aren’t theirs. The ones whose children are grown and out of the house still demand their men make much more money than them, to ensure they (the women) never have to downgrade their lifestyle. It all re… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/24 06:02 PM |
| 21 | Geremi Njitap: Ex-Cameroonian footballer DIVORCES wife of 12 YEARS after finding out he is NOT the father of her twinsAgreed. I wonder, how many men versus how many women are unknowingly supporting/raising/paying for a child or children that’s not theirs? It’s the “gap” you will never hear talked about because we can’t dare to “impugn” the defaulted status of “women are wonderful and can do no wrong.” | /r/MensRights | 25/03/24 01:56 AM |
| 30 | Cop-gone-wild, 28, will get $500,000 PAYDAY after suing city claiming she was sexually groomed by her 'predator' superiors - after she was fired for sex romps with seven officersCan ANY of us imagine a scenario in which this outcome would be remotely possible if we switched the genders involved here? | /r/MensRights | 22/03/24 11:31 AM |
| 43 | The cartoon coyote is running at full speed but seems to be slowing down...On the Kendra G podcast, they’re ALL carbon copies… multiple children by multiple men, all of them entrepreneurs with three “side hustles” who want a “provider type man” willing to help them “build an empire.” Oh, and he needs to be six feet tall making six figures, of course. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/24 01:15 AM |
| 9 | Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men“Traditional gender roles only apply when they want them to apply.” Pretty much this. Cherry picking “equality” as they see fit, with the demand that the fluidity to do so is embedded in each woman’s psyche. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodI would love that very scenario included in a ‘Gone Girl’ type movie, just to hear all the “women are wonderful” types to melt down over the scene. “Women would never do that!” Never…? | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 02:24 AM |
| 27 | Ukraine needs 500,000 military recruits. Can it raise them? OP: Article in commentsThere’s a LOT of people in the USA who are all gung ho about fighting Russia and supporting Ukraine. You’d think some of them would sign up in droves, no? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 11:00 PM |
| 32 | "Women and Childrenism" is Really Getting Out of Hand.It’s also amazing how what’s in “the best interests of the children” ALWAYS just so happens to benefit the mother and shield her from any negative consequences of her choices/actions. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/24 07:07 PM |
| 25 | I am tired of lowering my ambitions for weak men"Women have made no progress is developing strategies for telling these men apart." Well... they don't make any *effort* to try and filter men for the qualities that matter, that's why. Height, swagger, income, social status, clothing style, "confidence..." Out of all those attributes, only one - income - is understandable in the context of a man being able to provide for a woman as a husband/father if and when she's pregnant and out of the workforce while raising children. The rest is as superf… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/24 11:20 PM |
| 48 | If women really wanted financial equality then why won't they marry someone who makes less than they do? They blame it on men's insecurity but men have to earn more to be loved, pay for dates, and to just be seen as a man.I can agree with you. Chris Rock once said that if a woman met a man with a chocolate dick that ejaculated money, she would still find a way to be unsatisfied by it. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 08:32 PM |
| 104 | If women really wanted financial equality then why won't they marry someone who makes less than they do? They blame it on men's insecurity but men have to earn more to be loved, pay for dates, and to just be seen as a man.One of the current big podcasters addressed that very issue, that women basically want a drug dealer as a partner. They want us as men to be able to earn a lot of money, but simultaneously also have the time and freedom to do whatever she wants him to be able to do. Doctors can’t do this. The unemployed can’t do this. However, certain celebrities and certain illicit professions can do this. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Why does talking about the issues men face, especially when it comes to society immediately make a man an incel?What do so many women like to say? “Privilege is invisible to those who have it.” Funny how they never apply that to themselves. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 03:35 PM |
| 18 | Rest in peace, Calvin WangSomething I find hilarious about the “Are We Dating The Same Guy” groups… have women ever collectively realized the biggest reason such a thing even exists is because they’re all chasing the same small percentage of men? Does it ever click in their heads? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 83 | Your reminder that Cardi B has drugged and robbed men, and still makes millions with no repercussions.When women have counter-argued Cardi B with me and bring up Chris Brown still having a career after he beat Rhianna to a pulp, I remind them that Chris Brown’s legion of fans who keep spending their money on him are… women. Not men. Women. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 03:57 AM |
| 10 | Does anyone here ask their girlfriend or potential girlfriend about who they have slept with?You will never know the true answer. You will likely not want to know and have those thoughts of all those other men putting it to your girlfriend/wife, which will drive you crazy. What’s important is properly vetting her in every single way you can about what matters without having to outright interrogate her on a subject she is going to downplay. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 05:00 AM |
| 17 | Gay and bi men are usually anti-men and pro-women.I agree, gay men definitely seem to respect the institution of marriage more so than so many straight men and women as well as lesbians. It’s possibly because they were often at the forefront of fighting for gay marriage rights. Regardless of gender roles within said marriages, if they are honoring their vows and respecting their partners, they are already doing better than a lot of miserable straight people and lesbians. I have thoroughly enjoyed the “talking point” proven through divorce stati… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 03:59 AM |
| 85 | More Single Women Own Homes in the USA than single menInteresting that there’s no outcry for “equity” in this arena, or any in which women outdo men, huh? It certainly can’t be because during much of their lives, women are subsidized by men. If women were constantly paying for men’s meals, entertainment, vacations, and even day to day bills, perhaps they wouldn’t be able to save enough money to begin homeownership. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I was puzzled by younger women’s reaction to Barbie. It turned out Gen Z men held the answer“She epitomises what many young women want to be – powerful but joyful, financially independent, patently not in need of a man but having zero trouble getting one.” “Financially independent.” It’s funny… a man’s plan to be financially independent is for him to study hard, make perfect choices, work 80 hour weeks… to maybe make it happen. There’s no woman coming to save him from poor choices. No woman willing to share her retirement plan with him. Certainly no “patriarchy” trying to coddle his de… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 02:15 AM |
| 22 | Question for any anthropologists out there: In what society has this behavior been considered "traditional"?“Flexibility.” That’s woman-speak for a man should be making $100k, but only have to work 20-30 hours a week for it. Women absolutely s—t on men who are 9-5ers and actually do the work necessary to keep society running day in and day out for less than 70k a year. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/24 04:01 PM |
| 31 | Question for any anthropologists out there: In what society has this behavior been considered "traditional"?Never forget that the whole “strong and independent” mindset is NOWHERE to be found in the courts. If we could turn off the enforced-at-gunpoint transfer of money from men to women, there’d be a LOT fewer women beating their chests about how they “own their own home,” “take care of their kids,” and “don’t need no man.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 26 | Therapy most of the time doesn't work for men, and here's why.I have to slightly disagree with this take. I have spoken to several psychologists/therapists in my day and two were men. When it comes to the part that we men prioritize, the plan of action to solve said problem, it’s on you - the subject/patient to make it clear that you seek a solution or course of action to solve or attempt to solve said problem(s). If you make it clear that doing something about one’s problem is the ultimate reason you’re seeking therapy, the right therapists will oblige. Y… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/24 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Marco Rubio Introduces Bill Requiring Biological Fathers to Pay Pregnancy Expenses: "Ensuring fathers are financially responsible for their child is an important step toward engaging fathers in family life"Sure, this is fine. As long as it's coupled with mandatory paternity testing. If it requires invasive testing that makes the mother-to-be uncomfortable, she can opt out and wait for the child to be born to test for paternity but until then, no financial assistance. If she cannot figure out who the father is, that's on her. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | My divorce and my plansYeah? I think people who are rewarded financially post-marriage are crazy/evil, as is the system that enables them. Thank the gods the OP found proof. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/24 02:54 PM |
| 13 | Is it just me? Any woman who "stands up for a guy" seem fake?I hate to agree with you, but I do. You can be opposed to someone’s ideology but be surprised when you agree on an issue. Let’s take Hannah Pearl Davis. Even if she’s a grifter, why are people so eager to call her defense of men as grifting but not the countless men and women who “white knight” for women as a monolith as grifters, only with a different ideology? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 07:56 PM |
| 11 | Men please account for the unpaid labor you are owed. This includes anything related to the automobiles, repair and maintenance of the home and outdoor work.Perhaps if we created and broadcast an awareness commercial with an interracial couple, white wife, black husband, juxtaposed with everything the man is expected to do while the woman just keeps demanding more, will people get the slavery angle. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 06:24 PM |
| 24 | How to teach men around the world to stop simping and give undue power to women on social media?The issue is… how do we accomplish this? Women’s answer to the single mother epidemic is for the types of men they’re attracted to, to be better. That’s not going to happen. They have zero incentive to be better because women flock to them because of their negative traits. It’s funny how they never say “we should teach our daughters to choose men better based on worthwhile criteria.” It is completely unfair for society, the church, etc, to keep trying to encourage the good men who were NOT any w… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 04:19 PM |
| 37 | Is it true that women initiates most divorce because it is men's fault ?Ah, so you too have heard modern society’s favorite chant. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 14 | Taylor Swift takes on the patriarchy! Superstar, 33, says money fuels the patriarchy and her $1bn tour and movie are redefining the male-dominated economyTaylor Swift is free to undergo any racial and gender reassignment surgery and live life as a cisgender man, of any ethnicity she chooses. Will she? I doubt it. She is the epitome of the most privileged creature on the planet, a very attractive and talented caucasian woman. Even if you stripped her of her voice and business savvy… she would still be able to live a life most men of any background couldn’t touch… and it would be handed to her. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 08:23 PM |
| 20 | Why do feminists blame beauty standards on men? They say things like "we have to wear makeup" and you "wouldn't make it a day in heels"I once dated a very attractive woman who loved to dress up often. She loved her high heels and I told her that while she looked very put together in them, they really didn’t enhance my attraction towards her at all. I let her know that in the long run, wearing heels can lead to serious health problems later on in life and that I didn’t want her to suffer from them for the sake of fashion. She and I are no longer together but I hope with age she’s realized they’re not important and certainly not … | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do You Feel Obligated To Protect Women As Men?Honestly, it depends. Can I actually solve the situation? As in, if you’re not a trained fighter, even more than one assailant puts the odds against you. None of us are John Wick. If you have a pistol on you, are you willing to give up your right to own it as well as face prison time for any charges from “brandishing” to discharging a round into one of them? Are you ready to face the media shitstorm if you and the potential attackers of this woman are of certain different ethnicities? Look at fo… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 16 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.The funniest thing is… it’s clearly not the bare minimum. The divorce and domestic violence statistics clearly show that the criteria women truly choose men on… it’s not “being good.” | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 04:07 PM |
| 30 | Sarah Dawn Moore thinks men struggle when opening up because they're "whiny little bitches"That’s disappointing to hear, her content is usually very understanding of men’s issues and unique problems. It’s like that meme about what men are told when they express their frustrations about life (improve yourself, do this, do that) versus what women are told when they express their own frustrations (you’re perfect exactly as you are, men need to be better, etc.). | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Are feminists and gynocentists evil? Or are they just stupid?They are not stupid at all. They know they have their hands on a lot of levers of power. It’s how they’re able to simultaneously be heroines and victims at the same time, moving the needle as it best serves their narrative. If they were stupid, they wouldn’t have waited until society and technology advanced to the point where they could have their cake and eat it too. Beware those who can play the long game, because they usual win. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 07:22 AM |
| 4 | Lots of comments around Taylor Swift are misogynistic. But is she herself misogynistic? [serious]It would be hilarious if we could prod the SJW types to spark a “Taylor is racist” movement against her, because she only dates the most privileged white cis men. Let’s do it, let’s give her (admittedly very good) PR team a workout. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 02:43 PM |
| 26 | Why are men not entitled to rest and recovery?It is amazing how doing “the right thing” always just so happens to mean “whatever the woman wants/needs/demands/benefits from.” “Think of the children” they say, which just so happens to house the ex-wife and keep her fed and clothed as well as the kids. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/23 04:38 PM |
| 12 | Body positivity for menThat one is hilarious. It’s just like women who advocate for “redistribution of wealth” and are hard core Democrats but will only date or marry a man who makes more than them or a six figure income minimum. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Why objectifying men is okay?We men are objectified by women daily, but on height, income, status, etc. One of the most hypocritical things women do is complain about how wrong capitalism is and how so many people don’t get a fair chance at the basics of human happiness… and then demand a six foot plus muscular man who makes six figures or more who has a six inch or more penis. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What rights do you believe a man is entitled to in this situation?I definitely agree with no flip flopping. It’s wrong for a man who abandoned his child to expect to just waltz on back into that child’s life when it’s convenient for him or when the heavy lifting has been done by the mother. Now, if women would choose the men they procreate with by looking for their character as opposed to the myriad superficial traits that obviously rank higher than character to them… the subject of abortion and child support and such would be the outlier as opposed to the nor… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 03:48 AM |
| 143 | Women can travel for almost freePretty much. Privilege is invisible to those who have it. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 11:19 PM |
| 44 | What rights do you believe a man is entitled to in this situation?Exactly. It is her body and her life that will be completely upended for those months of pregnancy and post-birth. We as men shouldn’t ever be able to force a woman to carry a baby to term, no matter now much one might want to be a father. Now, that said, I also agree that if the man wants nothing to do with said child and waives all rights and connection to the child… he should be able to opt out of any and all support. As Dave Chappelle said, “if she can kill it, I can at least abandon it.” | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:25 PM |
| 13 | What's up with male family law judges?There’s a divorce-specialized lawyer, Marilyn York out of Reno, Nevada who did a good Ted Talk about what she’s seen with regards to men being royally screwed over in divorce. I nominate her as Divorce Czar of the USA. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 01:57 AM |
| 9 | „Men can’t handle strong independent women“ is the same thing as „women don’t like nice guys“They can simultaneously do anything a man can do, until they don’t want to, and then fall back on every single excuse that if said by a man, would be construed as “misogynistic.” For example… women now serve in the U.S. Army infantry branch as enlisted AND officers. They’ve even made it to the 75th Ranger Regiment, which most men can’t do. Women will crow about “girl power” and cheerlead about these women’s accomplishments as if they were indicative of every woman’s potential, but when you bring… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 01:58 AM |
| 305 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportTo paraphrase Chris Rock: “All these women talk a big game about being strong and independent. I don’t know a single woman who doesn’t need a few extra thousand dollars a month.” | /r/MensRights | 22/11/23 04:03 PM |
| 117 | Why so many men simp for women and not the other way around?The male to female birth ratio is roughly 50-50 and that does not lead to great outcomes in a society rampant with hypergamy. I used to be critical of black men with regards to the amount of children born to black women out of wedlock… until someone educated me that over half of black men age 18-35 have NEVER fathered a child. Think about that. If you have 100 women who’ve given birth to a child… the men who fathered those children have done so with MULTIPLE women, and yet society demands the me… | /r/MensRights | 21/11/23 11:42 PM |
| 28 | if most women are attracted only by a tiny minority of top men, how most men find dates at least once in their lifetime?Don’t forget, a woman being attracted to a man and being aroused by him are two different things. A woman will be attracted to a tall, wealthy man who treats her right… but she will STILL cheat on him with the bad boy whose body and attitude give her the emotional high that her provider husband, even with his height and wealth, does not. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Husbands Getting Red Pilled TooIt's not about "forcing" a woman to stay with her husband "just because." It's about how easily a woman will file for divorce from a good man because she's not "happy," marriage vows be damned. There is a serious divorce-industrial complex in western society. If divorce wasn't so devastating to men, it wouldn't be the hot button issue it is. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Why do men value female facial beauty so much?Well, both men and women usually expect to look at each others’ faces eventually… I don’t care for Lizzo at all, especially with her hypocrisy finally exposed, but I will admit, she has a very pretty face that is wasted due to her unhealthy and obese body. There are a lot of women out there who won the genetic lottery (you see it in their faces) but who’ve squandered their overall potential by being addicted to food. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/23 09:12 PM |
| 13 | Husbands Getting Red Pilled Too“Windows for intimacy.” Can you imagine if we men decided that we were only going to pay the mortgage “when we felt like it,” or when “we felt our wives had done their part?” | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Husbands Getting Red Pilled TooYou know what’s funny? Women have no problem divorcing good men, but they’re too afraid (for their physical safety) to leave bad men. Let that sink in. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 11:56 PM |
| 15 | Husbands Getting Red Pilled TooYou know what’s funny? Women have no problem divorcing good men, but they’re too afraid (for their physical safety) to leave bad men. Let that sink in. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Single moms / lack of father figureLove him or hate him, given his multiple marriages, divorces and affairs, I did hope that one of the things Trump might have accomplished during his Presidency would have been to address the horrendous divorce culture and industry in the USA. He obviously would have been addressing it from a selfish standpoint, but I don’t see it as being selfish to not want to be taken to the cleaners by a woman who is no longer your wife, does nothing for her former husband, but HE is expected and forced to co… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/23 11:30 PM |
| 5 | How do you think 'be a man' has challenged specifically you negatively?Honestly? The expectation that as a man, I am not only supposed to be 100% self sufficient, but that I’m also expected to provide for a woman and her children in the case of single mothers, of which there are a LOT. I’m expected to provide for a wife while she and I are married, but also in divorce. Plenty of women will cry foul about capitalism’s evils and how the deck is stacked against us as workers in western society, but have ZERO qualms about holding their men to “sexist, outdated and seem… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/23 02:04 AM |
| 63 | Not sure why, but watching this made my stomach heave. Too many pictures of dead and dying young Ukrainian men, fighting for their homeland. Meanwhile, the strong independent Ukrainian women ...Men are seen as disposable. The vast majority of women can more easily replace a husband than the vast majority of men can replace a wife. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/23 04:11 AM |
| 13 | Alimony HypotheticalWhy are you mortgaging a major “rest of your life” decision against a SINGLE DAY (the wedding)? If you and your fiance can’t afford the wedding you want, then… you don’t get to have it. Giving your potential MIL that power over you, to finance a day it sounds like you already dread seems ludicrous to me. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/23 03:55 PM |
| 9 | can i be liberal and an mraYes. People can have viewpoints that clash at times. That’s how we’re people. Part of being human. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 03:50 AM |
| 41 | Single moms on the rise is men's faultNo, you can’t say that. You and everyone else are definitely allowed to shout that men “should have kept it in their pants” however. That one is always permitted. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/23 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Pearl Davis again on the problem of chivalryI hear that more lately about Pearl, but how is it any different than those that grift on the “accepted narrative” than women can do no wrong and are wonderful no matter what they do? I’m glad she’s out there counter-arguing on men’s behalf. If she builds a social media empire because we’re willing to consume her content, big deal. I don’t agree with her on everything… I certainly don’t believe that men should be allowed to cheat just because they’ve put in so much effort to improve themselves, … | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Pearl Davis again on the problem of chivalryI fully believe that if we as a species had a birth ratio closer to 1 man born to every two women, women would be just as happy and miserable as they seem today, but far, far more men would be happier and there would be much less simping. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Do you feel online dating is alienating the sexes more?Never gonna happen. The narrative is that “women are wonderful” and can do no wrong. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Why is it when a man are often rejected, it's because they're either misogynistic or an incel, but when a woman is often rejected, it's never their fault but because "men are chauvinistic pigs"?You left out the best part, the ending to your anecdote… That woman goes back to the abusive boyfriend that now-deceased hero tried to save her from… and society is fine with her decision because how dare you try and deny a woman what she wants of her own free will. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/23 09:41 PM |
| 38 | Is it just me, or are people extremely forgiving of female cheaters?Nothing you said was wrong. It is one of the biggest double standards that persists in modern relationships, though it sadly pales in comparison to the double standards men face in divorce. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 03:43 AM |
| 16 | When it comes to personal wealth gained prior to marriage, men need to strategize more like womenIt is rather hilarious how women will claim with a straight face that men benefit more from marriage AND divorce than women, yet… who demands marriage more AND initiates divorce more? 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 06/10/23 03:37 PM |
| 20 | Men and even women are uncomfortable critiquing womenI have a buddy who grew up conservative but with age now leans highly liberal, the exact opposite upbringing and path as myself. He believes so fervently in the “women can do no wrong” narrative that it even put him at odds with his parents, who like him are devout church-goers, when they voiced their opinions that the actresses who traded sex for opportunities from Harvey Weinstein weren’t victims but just ambitious women who regretted their choices years after they’d attained their goals. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 89 | Have you noticed men seem to be the one group who liberals don’t mind discriminating against, and actively encourage it?There’s a great meme/tweet capture that has a woman tweeting that “a woman’s intuition is never wrong.” A man tweets back “way too many single mothers for this to be true.” | /r/MensRights | 28/09/23 02:29 AM |
| 3 | bad fathersHow to solve the issue of bad fathers? I would say that’s on women. Women choose the men who become fathers. If women choose said men based on superficial traits instead of his character, that’s on them. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 05:38 PM |
| 2 | I was in a Left Wing subreddit and someone responded to me with this, and I'd like to get your guys' opinion on it. Do you feel like this could ultimately explain why Men are treated harsher in general?Exactly. Remember back to January 2020 when Trump had the US military strike an Iranian General and the public was freaking out? YouTube channels and the like began to interview women about potentially being drafted and I can’t think of a single woman who didn’t have an excuse as to why she all of a sudden couldn’t “do anything a man could do.” All those women owe the fact that the country drags its’ feet on including women in the draft to the same men they despise: conservative, often Bible-thu… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/23 04:07 PM |
| 59 | Bill Burr asked a good question once, why don’t feminists support female sports? Almost every woman is a feminist shouldn’t the WNBA sell out? Why do they blame men for the gap in pay or enthusiasm when women don’t show up?This makes even more sense when you listen to women who have married doctors and lawyers and then complain about how long these men have to spend at work. They live in a fantasy version of reality in which men should be able to make $150,000 a year only working 32 hours a week AND be able to take time off whenever possibly to whisk her away on a vacation she can post on Instagram to impress… whomever. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/23 11:18 PM |
| 6 | How Do Men Hold "All The Power?"It’s funny how women will bop along - completely without a hint of irony - to Beyonce’s “Run the World (Girls)” and declare, with certainty that men only get to positions they obtained thanks to the woman in their lives, then turn around and feign victimhood and helplessness. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/23 11:09 PM |
| 14 | UK: I'm a single mother of two and I'm dating a man I'm not attracted to - am I wrong to marry him for financial stability?The issue most men have today is that women across the board don’t stop with wanting safety and financial security - most also demand physical beauty as well. Over the past sixty-ish years, men’s expectations of a future wife hasn’t changed that much, if anything their “demands” have lessened. Meanwhile, women’s demands of a future husband have skyrocketed, from the financial to the physical, from the emotional to the intangible. Yes, the single mother in the OP’s article is deigning to possibly… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 04:53 PM |
| 326 | Young men today feel they must be six feet tall, make six figures, and have six inches downstairs to get a girlfriend—so many have given up trying… and that’s the type of inequality you will never see women marching against. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 03:47 AM |
| 7 | But why should a woman need to ask, though? A Real Man should keep his latest bank statement stapled to his forehead… and/or they were in college/university specifically to be around and have the opportunity to find a potential husband who would use their education to go on to be a good provider. They were getting their “MRS. Degree.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/23 11:28 PM |
| 4 | But why should a woman need to ask, though? A Real Man should keep his latest bank statement stapled to his foreheadThe show ‘South Park,’ whose creators lean conservative but have always skewered all sides, had an episode a while back, ‘Goobacks to the Future’ which was about illegal immigrants from the future. The kids, Kyle, Stan, Eric and Kenny, all realized the negative effects quickly, but the adult, Randy, kept behaving like the usual progressive. He was ALL FOR the “migrants” until the end, when he lost his job to one. Cue the “racial slurs” from Randy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 55 | In order to help my sisters fight the patriarchy I no longer finance, subsidize or otherwise financially support women who are not in my immediate family. And I encourage all men to follow. Cmon. We can do this!Women only have the freedom to choose jobs that interest them and not worry about pay because they know and expect they can rely on a man to be the breadwinner and make up the difference. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Read: Y: The Last Man.Yeah, until they come after you for child support, you awful, awful man. /s | /r/MensRights | 24/08/23 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Vivek Ramaswamy took a veiled swipe at single moms during the GOP debate tonight. I chuckled to myself and thought it was refreshing. Anyone else notice that?If you incentivize something… you should expect more of it. Anyone ever seen that MTV show about teenage pregnancy? They all think they’re the one who’s going to “make it work.” | /r/MensRights | 24/08/23 05:32 AM |
| 57 | Why are feminists the first to say “man up”?Women, who were shielded from going to war - by men, used to pass out white feathers to men who didn’t enlist/weren’t drafted, to indicate that the women found these men “cowardly.” | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Bathrooms favor womenDon’t forget that in a pinch, women also reserve the “right” to use the men’s restroom but men had still not use the women’s restroom. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | MeToo/Time's Up Are a Hate MovementDon’t forget how they did Tara Reade. Feminists wrote articles in which they outright stated that they believed her, but “for the good of the country” they were still voting for Biden. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 07:31 PM |
| 9 | Single mom lays bare her Dual-Mating Strategy in a short conversationAnd… imagine how many other women those same four baby daddies are leaving presents behind with as well. “Women’s intuition” is utter BS. Apparently the only thing it helps women avoid is boring men. You know, men who don’t excite women with their stable personalities or dependable jobs and lack of “game.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/23 03:37 PM |
| 18 | Why did so many people start to like amber heard again and feel "sorry" for her?Time heals many wounds. Women still flock to Chris Brown, after after he’s continued to abuse women post-Rihanna. Before he went to prison Harvey Weinstein still had women willing to have dinner with him, even after all his accusers publicly banded together. Women still visit their abusive husbands and boyfriends who are in prison. Short memories. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/23 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Lonely Asian men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynistic“Erode outdated gender norms?” It’s funny how the outdated gender norms that favor women aren’t ever the ones “western society” wants to get rid of. 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 03/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 3 | I just found that Chuck Derry AMA and, oh my God, it shows why men are never seen as victims.It sure would be a shame if some down on her luck woman could be paid to falsely accuse Derry of sexual assault and we all get to see just how far he’s willing to #BelieveAllWomen. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 04:17 PM |
| 29 | Ken’s rights? Our research shows Barbie is surprisingly accurate on how ‘men’s rights activists’ are radicalisedImagine if we could get these women to admit that them wanting men to still take on traditional provider responsibilities in the age of “equality” means they agree with the far-right/ultra-conservative side. They’d blow a gasket trying to wriggle out of that one. Then get those women to realize that in the age of “equality,” they actually have the far-right to thank for the lack of desire to force women to sign up for selective service just like men. Ka-boom. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 04:06 PM |
| 36 | Latest CDC stats: 80% of all suicides in the US are men/boysThey will tell you with a straight face that women suffer more from men after divorce, including financially. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 14 | She admits to making up kidnapping story. Tell me again why we must believe all accusers.Eh… people automatically believe women of any race. The “women are wonderful and can do no wrong” effect is quite progressive that way. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The have and have nots in datingIt does seem hypocritical… except when we tell women the same thing, same scenario, just with the genders flipped, women cry “misogyny” and “how dare you” and “we shouldn’t ever have to settle.” Regarding attraction, far more men are physically attracted to a wider pool of women, whereas women are physically attracted to a much smaller range of men. That right there is where men lose and women win. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 08:50 PM |
| 34 | If men in Ukraine are forced to go to the military, why aren't the women forced to birthing kids out in a facility? oh but that's slavery? THEN WHAT IS THE CONSCRIPTION THEN?? 😆We all most recently saw the collective response back in January 2020 when people thought World War 3 was going to kick off. There was certainly no “march for an inclusive draft” there. No talk about how great “diversity” would be to win that potential war. My biggest beef is that women want to crow about how they can do anything men can do - when they want to. There are hard charging women who have proven women can make it through Ranger School and there are some who’re serving in combat arms r… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about revenge porn?It’s not right, no matter how awful that person has been to you. Man or woman, it’s wrong. Remember, we chose that person, no one forced us to pick a bad partner. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 12:23 AM |
| 13 | Overweight mom of 6 wants a tall, athletic man to move in and take over where her ex left off.Can anyone imagine the ridicule the male version of this woman would achieve from women? I can’t even imagine how bad a man would be to come close to her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Wife used me to immigrate and after she arrived, she left meThree brothers came to pick her up that she’d never mentioned before? There’s a movie starring Nicole Kidman called ‘Birthday Girl’ the OP should watch when this is all less fresh in his mind. OP, we all feel for you. At least you saw her true colors sooner than later. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 7 | 19-year-old man beaten in moving car for over 4 hours, stripped naked, beaten with cricket bat and beer bottles, given electric shock and cigarette burns, forced to smoke ganja(cannabis), money stolen, nude video uploaded by ex-girlfriend (19)Reverse the genders and this would be on the front page from London to Los Angeles. The NFL would take a knee. The victim would be interviewed by Ellen. Writers, actors and actresses would break the strike to film a “ripped from the headlines” Law and Order: SVU episode about her attack. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/23 04:02 AM |
| 13 | Standard Single Mom Profile #164,898Yup. Sadly, there are enough examples in real life of good men bailing out single mothers as well as higher profile men like Matt Damon marrying a single mother (who to be fair, honestly brings a lot less drama than most Hollywood wives) that women consciously know they stand a good chance of finding Mr. Back Up Plan, the guy they wouldn’t have given a second glance at if they weren’t saddled with children by Chad or Tyrone. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 30 | Men being Blamed again“Ambitious” and “generous.” I wonder if the data analysts at online dating apps can tell us the percentage of women’s profiles that use these two words. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 04:21 PM |
| 40 | Woman gives oral to fuckboy she just met, but delays sex for months with a gentleman. (post by @RouteClearance)Oh, and the guy who had to put in the work will still be putting in the work long after she decides she doesn’t feel like having sex anymore. The man is expected to fulfill all his “duties” as a husband until he dies but a woman doesn’t have to do a thing if she doesn’t feel like it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Why many women prioritise their partners' jobsNot to mention, whereas a man will share and spend the money he earns on the woman he’s in a relationship with, rarely does it work the other way around. That’s the primary reason why how much money a woman earns doesn’t matter to a man. It should matter, but because the man know she’s going to save her own money/spend it on herself, it’s a moot point. Such male privilege, right? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 01:00 AM |
| 20 | Sex education lessons must engage boys and young men in order to tackle "a scourge" of sexual harassment and violence in schools, according to a group of MPsThey used to be an unbiased media source twenty years ago, but you can now see how they lean just like all the rest. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 03:58 PM |
| 66 | Gal Gadot Rebukes Hollywood's Misogyny Narrative: Moviegoers "Do Want To See Movies With Women, If The Story Is Good"I didn’t need the sidekicks Wonder Woman collected in the first film, but thought it was excellent otherwise. The second one showed us that Patty Jenkins is a good director (having only seen two of her films, ‘Monster’ and ‘Wonder Woman’) but ‘WW1984’ showed us she cannot write. ‘WW1984’ had all the right ingredients but the wrong cookbook and chef. I will really miss Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman if James Gunn is recasting. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/23 07:16 AM |
| 6 | Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signs a bill ending permanent alimonyWell! As someone who thinks this potential future President has been making quite a few mistakes, I am very pleased to see this completely rational action from him! | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 06:25 PM |
| 8 | What's the male equivalent of riding the carousel?As in, the consequences after doing so? I suppose for men it would be like a man spending every dollar he earned from age 18 on, on nothing of long term value, having no assets or retirement and yet as he’s balding, gaining a generous gut, and loses interest in anything that would bring in an income, he suddenly expects someone of the opposite sex to step in and save him from his poor choices? Or maybe he had plenty of opportunities to marry a good woman who had wife qualities when he was young … | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 03:53 AM |
| 75 | Physical Attractiveness is the Strongest Predictor of Initial Romantic Interest in Both Sexes; No Evidence Personality Plays Any Role, Part 2 (Olderbak, Malter, Wolf, Jones, & Figueredo, 2017)Interestingly, many women will tell you that they’re looking for kindness, empathy, romance, intelligence - as the baseline. That in order to date or marry them, the man must first be “a decent human being.” The amount of domestic violence statistics says otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/23 04:18 PM |
| 49 | "You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet."There’s never any “strong and independent women” to be found in any divorce court, are there? After a divorce, men are expected and forced to continue to give money to the woman they are no longer married to, because SHE wanted said divorce, and there are only a handful of women who are forced to give anything to men they are no longer married to. If “the Patriarchy” was real, how do those who believe in it reconcile those facts, given that there are more male judges than female judges? Oh, and … | /r/MensRights | 22/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 18 | It's funny how single moms with poor market value can still come the dating market with an attitude.Incredible. That’s what it takes for women to finally drop their height requirement. Heading towards fifty. Having four kids with two on the way. Not exactly looking too great. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 26 | Carol rejects responsible nice guy and gets impregnated by an "abusive deadbeat". A kid and 4 years later, responsible nice guy rejects Carol.She thinks she deserves a chance with the responsible guy because it unfortunately happens enough in reality. With a near 50-50 male to female ratio in western society, and with it being skewed in women’s favor in China and India (to be fair here, THAT gender imbalance is not the women’s fault, but rather their society’s fault), it’s the law of averages that with more women coming out as lesbian, more women who reject marriage/relationships in general, more women being left pregnant by Chad and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/06/23 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Marry Him: The case for Settling for Mr. Good EnoughIt’s so fortunate than the courts and laws can always force a man to hold up his traditional obligations, financial and otherwise during and after a marriage but you’re a monster for even pointing out that there is no such equivalent for women. How much different would the divorce industrial complex look if one side of the divorce wasn’t rewarded for ending it? | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 04:05 AM |
| 13 | Tired of tradcons telling me I should be forced to pay child support and fight for my country just because I was born a guyThere is a graphic novel series, ‘Y: The Last Man’ that depicts the societal breakdown across the globe due to the sudden death of every male human (I forget if animals were affected) on the planet save one, and two male astronauts in space. I enjoyed it, as a story. It does have plenty of “girl power” moments, but that’s to be expected given that they’re the only gender left standing. Per your statement, the women in this fictional reality do realize that it was indeed men who were keeping ever… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/23 10:39 PM |
| 9 | Looking for movies featuring strong men being great father figures. Suggestions?Laurence Fishbourne as “Furious Styles,” father to Cuba Gooding Jr’s character in ‘Boyz in the Hood. He teaches his son about the world and his place in it as a man. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about this study where the only thing that seems to decrease the sentencing disparity between the sexes is to have more female judges?There should be no problem with more female judges. Plenty of male judges are responsible for the horrendous anti-male bias in courts. Impartial and fair judges should be appointed, regardless of gender. I nominate lawyer Marilyn York out of Reno, Nevada to be the new family court czar of the USA. Google her TED Talk… excellent points. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 08:39 PM |
| 13 | 'Stop being boys, be human': School captain calls on his peers to stand up on sexual assault“Bro, that little kid wrote that our tolerant views and fight for social justice is just a way for us to crush puss!” | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 04:10 PM |
| 28 | It's hilarious how these moms will casually mention being pregnant and then discuss travel plans, like Bitch you just got creampied by another dude and you want me to fly you around the world!?Why is this “dual mating strategy” not called out more, and publicly? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/05/23 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Women’s privilege in child supportWhy don’t you just press that “male privilege” button you were born with that the feminists insist you have? | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 05:08 PM |
| 43 | European Space Agency study suggests that NASA should send an "all-female" crew to Mars because women are more "efficient" than men and need less resourcesMore efficient than men and need less resources, huh? Guess they never saw that ‘Survivor’ tv episode that set up men and women in competing groups. On a serious note, I do believe that there will definitely be cases in which an all-female crew will perform well, but it won’t be because of their sex, it will be because their personalities and ability to place the mission first will have been screened thoroughly. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Louisiana man wrongly convicted of rape released after 29 years in prisonGood for this man. I hope his false accuser is taken for everything she has. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 04:12 PM |
| 19 | The New York Times portrays a convicted criminal who endangered thousands of lives as a loving mom. Meet the 'new' pre-prison Elizabeth Holmes.There’s a caveat to the “women can do no wrong” belief… the moment that woman is of a certain ethnicity, and she is detrimental to another “marginalized group,” then, and only then will she be punished in some way. Case in point, an upper middle class white woman is typically the most protected and untouchable person in western society…. until she calls the cops on a black man walking his dog in a park. Another point, a working class black woman is typically regarded as the most disrespected per… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/23 04:16 PM |
| 25 | The AI blocked me for the debating female privilege… if Oprah Winfrey, AOC, Ketanji Brown Jackson, Maize Hirono, Beyonce, Kathleen Kennedy, and Megan Rapinoe all magically woke up tomorrow in the bodies of average white men who work as coal miners as the sole breadwinners for their families in West Virginia, not ONE of them would voluntarily keep that “male privilege” if a genie appeared and gave them the choice of remaining in their white male bodies or returning to the ones they were born in. NOT ONE. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/23 06:15 AM |
| 8 | Wife kills husband after he makes shocking discovery about their sonI would love to see the societal fallout from mandatory and backdated DNA parentage testing across the world. If we’re going to hold hospitals accountable for the handful of babies they’ve accidentally switched without malice, and make them pay for it, then the same should be done to those women who have done the same to men. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/23 09:59 PM |
| 11 | VICE admits that a double standard exists, celebrates it“She can’t complain…” In what world? She absolutely can and will complain if and when the “wrong men” look and she will be supported by white knights, the sisterhood, and society in general. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/23 04:10 PM |
| 19 | When you date a top 10% guy - Better BachelorReading between the lines, she and her friends are asian. Her white ex-boyfriend was smirking because he knows that asian women throw themselves at white men. It's not HIS "yellow fever," it's HER "white lust." | /r/MensRights | 16/04/23 09:13 PM |
| 26 | Woman wants a relationship while keeping her Onlyfans, but won't date men who accept her work. (post by @Seagram7)What the hell? So she wants… fried ice? 🙄 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | What do women really want ?Her “dream life…” probably some “eat, pray, love” BS financed by her soon to be ex-husband. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 04:34 PM |
| 64 | France: Achraf Hakimi's a PSG footballer is going through a divorce: Wife seeks half his fortune but discovers he owns nothing. Everything is in his mothers name.“If you need a pre-nup, it means you’re already thinking that our marriage might fail.” - the future ex-wives who file for divorce 70-80% of the time. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Comment made by NZ minister of family/sexual violence “white CIS men cause all violence in the world” - NZ PM says there is validity in her statementHmmm… perhaps we can arrange for her to be dropped off without any security detail in any major US city neighborhoods lacking white men and we’ll see if her worldview isn’t broadened. May I suggest parts of Chicago, Baltimore, Detroit or Memphis? | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 10:21 PM |
| 8 | It has been illegal to pay women less for the same job since 1963. If it is so prevalent why aren’t more people fined, sued and companies shut down.Exactly… these same feminists will rail all day long about how awful capitalism is, and how greedy corporations are, then turn around and claim that these same bottom-line-obsessed corporations will just automatically pay men more because… they’re men? Their logic implodes. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 06:57 PM |
| 8 | It has been illegal to pay women less for the same job since 1963. If it is so prevalent why aren’t more people fined, sued and companies shut down.Chris Rock made a great point about this in his latest special, not directly about how women have it easier, but how there are areas in the USA in which you can find tons of women going to yoga at mid-day, on a weekday. They’re being financially supported by their hard working husbands… that’s some of that male privilege right there I tell you. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 13 | "Dating sucks as a single mom! Waah!" (@Typo-MAGAshiv)Mark my words, there will definitely be an animated Disney princess who is somehow also a single mother someday… Disney is going to pander because single mothers buy tickets too! At that point, all I can do is sit back and eat popcorn as today’s activists get threatened by the activists of the future, calling them “robophobic” and “Nazis” for not being pro-human/machine marriage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/03/23 06:08 AM |
| 13 | "Dating sucks as a single mom! Waah!" (@Typo-MAGAshiv)… that “find a good mate” part sure doesn’t ever seem to be part of some women’s programming. I mean, who would have thought that a man’s height, looks and swagger weren’t traits that would lead a woman to believe he would be a good father and husband? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/03/23 06:02 AM |
| 9 | Could be the wrong sub but looking for advice. I’m 19. Got a letter from the selective service telling me to register.It’s part of the “fight for equality” that isn’t given much effort on the feminists’ part. It’s kind of like an obese person who keeps making New Year’s resolutions to exercise and not once trying. I mean, they’ll talk about it every so often, but they’d rather make it so that everyone is okay with being fat rather than putting in the effort to show up at the gym like the men. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/23 03:37 AM |
| 20 | Clips of Justin Bieber Being Repeatedly Sexualized as a Teen Are Going Viral on TikTokIt was VERY satisfying to see him bring the “receipts” to prove she was lying. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 05:40 PM |
| 111 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent Research… and women will claim, with a straight face, that it’s men who benefit from hookup culture. No. Certain men benefit. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 04:05 PM |
| 23 | UK: Female who bit her boyfriend's nose off during 'date night from hell' is Spared JailThere isn’t a man alive who wouldn’t be in jail and guaranteed prison time if the genders were reversed. | /r/PussyPass | 20/02/23 08:35 PM |
| 14 | Bill Maher blames men for online dating apps and social media. Despite all the evidence that women use social media more.Women don’t want to be approached anywhere… unless you are exactly what they’re looking for, at that moment. They control the supply much easier by taking it all online, and they have a never ending demand at their fingertips thanks to our more global culture. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone recommend any movies that are based on women being toxic?Tyler Perry’s ‘Temptation.’ It does do right by the good man though. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 07:17 AM |
| 72 | The sick double standards of body "positivity"Comedian Bill Burr did a great bit about how other women aren’t even genuine about cheering these overweight and obese women on… it’s not even about “empowering” each other, it’s about reducing their competition for men’s attention. There definitely are men who actually prefer fat women, far, far more than there are any women who are attracted to fat men, but Burr was right; the fewer physically fit women there are, the pickier they get to be, while the overweight and obese women can keep on eat… | /r/PussyPass | 06/02/23 04:08 PM |
| -1 | The Fatherless Crisis in AmericaThis take is NOT garbage. One of the most glaring common denominators in the fatherless crisis is WHO is chosen to be biological fathers. Who does the choosing? Women. Given the amount of fatherless children out there, 25-35% depending on whose studies we cite, I would say that the wrong men are chosen. The criteria that those women who chose those men to have unprotected sex with obviously ignored the most important one; will he be a good father/husband? Do I excuse the men who fathered childre… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/23 08:04 PM |
| 43 | Where are all the financially stable and hard working men for a divorcing mom of 3?Uncle Sam’s money was our money. I bet women wouldn’t be as quick to divorce nor be as smug about their “independence” if the government had to rely on taxing only women to give financial support to these women. If alimony and child support were outlawed overnight, there’d be a lot less “strong and independent” types… just like they’re nowhere to be found in court. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Am i going to have to pay for her offspring? Also does anyone know a estimate of how muchOP is lucky he’s found this out now, giving him some time and room to maneuver. He also has the money to fight this properly. On behalf of the men who’ve been screwed over by women and the world barely shrugged in response, we wish you a just and fair outcome, OP. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/23 04:00 PM |
| 34 | $451 child support payments from $1,670 biweekly paychecks?The judge’s gender should seem like a point of concern… but there are definitely more male than female judges and plenty of male judges have screwed men over in court. I would LOVE for that men’s rights’ divorce attorney, Marilyn York in Reno, Nevada, to preside over all divorces in the USA. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 01:39 AM |
| 6 | "A misandrist feminist might complain about men online but a misogynistic male can shoot up a school because he doesn't get laid."I cannot understand why any kid in school in the USA today would risk being shot by those they’ve bullied. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Denmark calls for mandatory military service for womenOh, we all remember their reaction to a potential draft back in January 2020… all of a sudden “equality” didn’t seem to matter as much as “well, who’s going to repopulate the country” and “men and women have different strengths and we wouldn’t be as useful on the front lines.” Those last two of their favorite excuses are the EXACT same things they rake men over the coals for saying when the threat of the draft isn’t over their heads! | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 04:09 PM |
| -2 | Denmark calls for mandatory military service for womenEveryone likes to say this, as if we had an army of robots in the wings to do the fighting for us, but the reality is, even in the most necessary of wars, such as Ukraine currently repelling an invading force, they’re forced to rely on conscription in order to fight back, though one could say they’re not even able to do so adequately without massive foreign assistance. The most “righteous” war ever, World War 2, was won by the allies, who were able to do so only because they fought with mandator… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Why is being a young white male so hard??Honestly? It’s because society has learned that trashing white people/white men is profitable with little to no blowback. Do white men have it good in some areas? Definitely. Did you have anything to do with your inherited advantages? No. Right now, today, there are people abusing slaves on the African continent, in Southeast Asia, and likely India. None of those particular slave owners are white, but society will look at you and make a snap judgment, which many white people do as well. They’re … | /r/MensRights | 28/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 12 | Remember, calling an old person's body "disturbing" is not body shaming if the person is not a womanI remember when nude statues of Trump were created and became popular for his detractors to snap selfies with, and of course the majority of them posed in a manner to emphasize his crotch. I wonder… if the roles were flipped and nude statues of Hillary had popped up across the country, just what the acceptance would be of her detractors taking pictures with said statue in less than suitable poses. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/23 05:20 PM |
| 36 | Woman Fails Her AuditNah, it’s her who wants white all over HER all the time. These women are always loudly “progressive,” but their dating history typically only has one type… the same white chad they denounce on social media. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/23 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Why do women always have to “marry up?” In college most of my class was girls putting males down who were their equals. They always said they deserved to marry up like to a professor or Doctor. Why isn’t an equal partner good enough?“45% of women will be single and never married in the near future.” … and whose fault will that be? Men. Men will be blamed. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/23 02:07 AM |
| 2 | What Is Toxic Masculinity To You?“Toxic masculinity” is like Gozer. It’s whatever they want it to be. It’s rather amazing how men paying the rent/mortgage, paying most or all of the bills, continuing to uphold the traditional roles of initiator, protector, provider, etc, aren’t seen as “toxic.” I wonder why. /s | /r/MensRights | 21/01/23 11:36 PM |
| 35 | I posted on a marriage thread about my wife's effort in the bedroom vs mine an it's all my fault apparently!I believe one of the problems with regards to men’s needs and women’s needs is that society and the courts only deign to enforce men to meet women’s needs. No one cares about men’s needs. I think there was one case, one case in which a man was able to successfully sue his wife and the man she was cheating with for “emotional manipulation and abandonment.” The only reason he was able to do so was video/audio proof of her malicious comments on her soon to be ex-husband’s emotional devastation. Wel… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 4 | A Guy Asked Her Out And She Turned Him Down, But After Her Friend Said He Had Money, She Agreed To Let Him Take Her Out For Dinner Because She Likes That He's RichDude should have told her to pound sand when she came circling back. She showed her true self the first time. That’s honesty right there. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/23 02:18 AM |
| 27 | Body positivity seems too onesidedI think Bill Burr called out women on it recently; he basically said women encouraging other women to be as fat as they want was reducing her potential mate competition. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/23 06:53 PM |
| 32 | Hmm..Not just normal. It's behavior that is cheered on and encouraged. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/01/23 11:42 PM |
| 47 | She has the perfect husband, but he is still not perfect enough.I too have noticed some things hardwired into women, regardless of their social conditioning/politics. The most hilarious is the feminist women of all races who rail against the “evil white patriarchy” but who all date and marry… white men. They don’t even register their hypocrisy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/01/23 09:46 PM |
| 2 | A man with minum safety in the process of laying high tension electric wire.When are feminsts going to fight for equal representation in this field of work?“Most women can’t do that bruh.” No no no. Haven’t you been listening to the narrative? “Anything men can do, women can do better, and do it in heels!” Not quite, said the teenage male soccer players who easily defeated the professional women’s soccer team. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/01/23 04:30 PM |
| 5 | For whatever guy needs to see thisThis exactly. Whenever people are incredulous about why there are individuals who lie about being raped, sexually assaulted, assaulted, etc, the answer is that victimhood is currency. You are rallied around if you claim to be a victim. You are given a platform. Sometimes they achieve financial support, sometimes political support. Played right, it can be lucrative. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 04:03 PM |
| 17 | Eight Teen girls charged with murder of Toronto homeless man.Anything men can do, women can do better, and in heels! /s | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 04:10 PM |
| 21 | Eight Teen girls charged with murder of Toronto homeless man.I guess it depends on how YOU would feel if a 13 year old killed one of your family, perhaps set your home on fire, and had the audacity to act like “they couldn’t possibly understand their actions or consequences.” Most incarcerated teenage criminals were hardly on the path to becoming some scientist who was going to cure cancer. Old enough to murder? Old enough for the consequences. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 04:09 PM |
| 8 | women only night clubDon’t forget that ‘Charlie’s Angels’ movie by Elizabeth Banks… all men’s fault there too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 05:49 PM |
| 8 | Men, what do you think of Kevin Samuels?RIP Kevin Samuels. He should have become bigger than Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey combined, but he was taken from us way too soon. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/22 08:14 PM |
| 15 | Posted by a female relative of mine. Ridiculous, right?and with zero expectations of anything reciprocated in return. “How dare you!” | /r/MensRights | 14/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 50 | USA: Woman learns her dad isn't her biological father after a STRANGER texted her to get a DNA testThere’d be a huge uptick in divorces and domestic violence after mandatory paternity testing became law. If it were something that only men were going to be tested for, the response would be “only those with something to hide would be against this.” When it comes to women, no, no, we have to “think of the children’s best interest,” which conveniently helps shelter the mothers’ welfare as well. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/22 01:52 AM |
| 13 | Paternity fraud: WA father discovers son’s paternity, two years after death. He paid a total of 110000 dollars of child support for 18 years for a kid that wasn't even his.To invoke Chris Rock again in this thread… “I’m not saying he (O.J. Simpson) should have killed her (Nicole Brown Simpson), but I understand!” The jury selection would be forced to omit most men on account of complete lack of sympathy if the non-father had physically harmed the mother in any way. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 6 | The fuck?Some men are able to cheat easily. Why don’t we combat any misinformation and trust the science and have everyone mandatorily tested for DNA parentage? I wonder how many men would protest such an undertaking versus women? | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/12/22 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Now that she's "too old to be jumping from one person to another", she wants "stability, consistency, respect and loyalty". Funny these were the same traits such women rejected back when they said "Being nice is the bare minimum".“Being nice is the bare minimum.” This is a straight up lie. The domestic violence statistics for men physically abusing women contradicts this big time. “Nice” is not the bare minimum. Being what the woman wants, physically and emotionally, THAT is the bare minimum. “Nice” isn’t even in the top five contenders for what’s important to her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/11/22 12:29 AM |
| 7 | Serious Question: how many of you know someone who got lied to about being pregnant to get the dude to marry her, and then *oops* she wasn’t so pregnant any more? F/U question: how are guys so *dumb* to fall for this?You’re asking why men are so dumb as to fall for a woman lying about being pregnant? After two decades or more of their lives being taught that they need to “believe women” and that women can do no wrong, and “who would lie about such a thing?” /s | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 03:58 PM |
| 25 | The women of TwoXChroWhoremosomes are complaining about selfish jerks who don't care about their sexual pleasure. So sad that the women who say "You're not entitled to sex" aren't getting the orgasms they think they're entitled to.The YouTuber Pearl of JustPearlyThings will constantly bring up just how small a percentage of the population (at the national level of whichever country she’s addressing) these six foot tall, six figure earning, men of their dreams are. It’s a very small percentage, but their criteria is demanded by almost every single woman polled. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/11/22 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Believe all womenAsk Charlotte Proudman (what an ironic surname) what her stance is on Tara Reade. There sure was a LOT of hemming and hawing over that particular accusation. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 07:06 PM |
| 5 | A coincidence maybe, maybe not. How do I discuss abortion with my partner without getting the old "My body my choice, end discussion"On the OP’s best day, it would be hard to find a sympathetic jury. He has zero proof right now. I’d be secretly recording the audio of a conversation between him and his girlfriend about the entire story and making damn sure she verbally agreed to what happened, and even then I know that would be inadmissible for one reason or the other. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Men of reddit - Do you find it frustrating that female co-workers can wear a broader selection of clothes compared to men in the work place.“Intolerant of any criticism of women.” You’ve just summed up modern western society. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is?“What the f—- is ‘accustomed’ to?!” - Chris Rock, ‘Bring the Pain.’ | /r/MensRights | 16/10/22 08:21 AM |
| 23 | Oof“I’m done playing games.” Do all these women know they’re all using the same autofill feature? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that anytime a man voices frustration with anything in regard to Men’s Rights it is suggested he “hates” women?They’ll disagree with you for saying it but after they’ve been dumped by the exact type of men you’re describing, then they will absolutely agree with your sentiment, but only when it comes from them or the sisterhood. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 14 | Abuse is Abuse no matter the gender right? Apparently not for woman because they are the only real victim here.I don’t have Twitter, but if someone here does, please tweet back at Women’s March and ask them “What about Tara Reade?” All the MeToo and Time’s Up supporters sure forgot about the sisterhood then… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 13 | The Delusions of The Most Privileged Demographic. Apparently the left doesn’t care about womenThey could, I dunno, work the same jobs as men. You remember the jingle, “anything you (men) can do, I (a woman) can do better!” Obama even said women can do any job a man can do, and do it in heels. Well? We’re waiting… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 9 | Search "Body Positivity" on Google Images and see the results for yourselves. It's not "body" positivity it's "female" positivity.Yeah, sure… when I see the male equivalent of Lizzo being championed in the media for his “confidence” and being “healthy at any size,” while also publicly desiring Scarlett Johansson without being called “entitled,” then I’ll give those dad bod articles some credence. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 04:04 PM |
| 35 | What usually happens before you see pregnant moms on dating apps.The amount of violent criminals who have wives and girlfriends visiting them in prison is astounding. What do we think the ratio for of women attracted to male prisoners versus men attracted to female prisoners? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/09/22 08:21 PM |
| 11 | If we should say #BlackLivesMatter instead of #AllLivesMatter because black people are getting killed at higher rates, Why isn’t it ok to point out that black men are being killed at higher rates than black women?What you say is true, that most white people are killed by other white people. It’s also true that most black people are killed by other black people. The first fact will be roundly accepted and used as a point to encourage white people to stop fearing the black boogeyman. The second fact will be shouted down as being racist, fascist, whataboutism, etc, etc. As it pertains to the BLM folks, most communities don’t go out and burn, loot, and destroy their own cities when criminals who share their … | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | A Cathartic Moment Calling Out Some Women On Their Double Standards: Personal AnecdoteIf the divorced woman’s ex-husband was SO terrible, what does that say about the choices she makes? | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 45 | Believe all women, unless there is video evidence to the contrary. The celebrity edition.I do recall the instant amnesia a lot of people feigned when Tara Reade accused then-former-VP Joe Biden of sexual assault. Something about “for the greater good, we must cast this woman aside.” | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 07:03 AM |
| 177 | AOC predicts she won’t ever be president — because Americans ‘hate women’Her own party had the chance to back a woman for President in 2020. They didn’t, which is on them. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 24 | Alimony is unfair because it only considers the financial side of marriage (explained below). Do you agree? If not why?I would argue against even temporary alimony, as the majority of divorces are initiated by the wives, who’ve likely also been squirreling away their husband’s money in anticipation of the split that they’ve planned for months or years, while the soon to be ex-husband gets blindsided. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Why do men carry more responsibility regarding birth control?This is true. However, if one says “women are in control of whom they open their legs for…” You won’t find the same support with regards to responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Norah Vincent, Who Chronicled Passing as a Man, Is Dead at 53I read her book a few years ago, it should be required reading in any gender studies course and provide a counterpoint to “the narrative” that is pushed. RIP. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Serena Williams is upset she doesn't get paid to be a mom.Exactly. Would Taylor Swift or Beyonce be willing to trade places with a blue collar White man working as a septic tank pump operator living in Paducah, Kentucky? Didn’t think so. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | "We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars, but we won't. We're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off." - Tyler DurdenLaziness is a part of it, but worse is the culture of instant gratification and the expectations that the average person has as a result of being able to more intimately see into the lives of the well off and famous. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 8 | MRA shower thought: I know we don't live in a patriarchy. Alimony exists. Court orders that require ex-wives to continue cleaning ex-husbands' houses do not.We all know that excellent Chris Rock set about men, women, and how only one side owes the other something post-divorce. We need these judges who pander to women for whatever reason to be put through the same wringer that most divorced men have gone through. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 14 | Pregnant mom has no more time for games.She had plenty of time for games… with him 🤔 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Entertainment IndustryIt is definitely a huge over-course correction of the “damsel in distress” portrayals of the past. People have thankfully been calling out this trope, known as the “Mary Sue” character. They’re certainly not very relatable characters, but it allows some in the audience to pretend that they too could be that perfect. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 15 | It's not sexist to expect someone working in the service industry to be kind and courteous or smile when doing their jobI agree. I don’t need or want enthusiasm unless they’re passionate about the job; some folks in hobby stores or back when there was a Tower Records used to enjoy answering questions from customers. Nothing wrong with a neutral face in customer service, though a friendly one is certainly preferable if genuine. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 01:38 AM |
| 47 | Dad drops son at school then vanishes after learning he’s not birth fatherThe child is innocent, yes, but so is the man who thought he was the father. If society keeps covering for women’s paternity fraud by crying “won’t somebody please think of the children,” then women will continue to get away with this, as they have since time immemorial. One of the most popular TV shows in the world, ‘Game of Thrones,’ started off with the very plotline of what happens when a woman commits paternity fraud. A whole civilization brought to war because a woman tried to pass off her… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 05:21 PM |
| 88 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.“What is the difference between him and an animal,” she asks? I’d guess if an animal killed their partner over multiple cuckolding, there would be no animal kingdom justice system to punish him over it. Chris Rock’s timeless bit about OJ Simpson can be applied here… “but I understand!” | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 06:27 PM |
| 45 | The Only One Setting Back Abuse Survivors Is Amber Heard (And The Media That Propped Her Up)Isn’t the UVA fraternity due one very public apology from Rolling Stone, that hack “journalist,” and the false accuser once known as “the victim?” Still waiting for that one. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 11:10 PM |
| 15 | Amidst talks of body positivity Shoe0nHead points out some hypocrisyHeart attack. Dude looked healthy as heck, so it was hard to believe. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 09:23 PM |
| 64 | Amidst talks of body positivity Shoe0nHead points out some hypocrisyRIP Kevin Samuels. We lost a great advocate and a good man. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 26 | Why isn't the phrase "he should have kept it in his pants" never used to women who want to abort their baby?This. To say anything about a woman’s choices, many of them poor choices, gives you the title of “incel, misogynist, Nazi, etc.” | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 02:04 AM |
| 11 | Discrimination against men when finding shared housing.If feminists could turn it around on a situation in which a male tenant discriminated against a female tenant applicant, there would be no such “understanding.” He would be digitally tarred and feathered. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/22 02:11 AM |
| 15 | ~90% of child support goes to this mommy's needs.Don't forget the hot sauce afterwards. ;) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/22 01:04 AM |
| 13 | On the left : Ukrainian women who fled the war, left the men behind and made Tinder accounts in a new country. On the right : men who died to protect Ukraine.Oh, don’t forget “benevolent sexism” and women’s “gilded cages.” Never forget when women used to hand out “coward’s feathers.” I rolled my eyes in ‘The Patriot’ when Heath Ledger’s love interest gave a speech in church imploring the men to fight. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 13 | On the left : Ukrainian women who fled the war, left the men behind and made Tinder accounts in a new country. On the right : men who died to protect Ukraine.When the subject of the draft comes up, all of a sudden women want to fall back on these “Handmaid’s Tale” fantasies and excuses that they were previously protesting against Any port in a storm, these women. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 04:10 PM |
| 11 | Kevin Samuels Just Died of a Heart Attack @56.Please let this be false. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 07:18 AM |
| 24 | an article on why men shouldn't be able to financially abort : spoiler it would make it hard on women!!There are NO “strong and independent” women in divorce court. All that feminist energy evaporates when “free” money is just waiting to be extracted. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 06:21 AM |
| 44 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.Some men do make fun of shorter men. But these men also don’t cancel shorter men just for existing the way a lot of women do. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 22 | You don't want to raise children you're not related to? Pure evil.It’s no big deal to women… until the hospital mixes up their biological child with someone else’s… then there’s hell to pay, lawsuits, firings, and sympathy. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 8 | [46-F] Mom wants "the chemistry". HER: feminine. YOU: use the brain, physically fit, >175 cm, tender, classical values, and a wish to care. Line up, boisTrue, true! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/04/22 03:44 AM |
| 44 | [46-F] Mom wants "the chemistry". HER: feminine. YOU: use the brain, physically fit, >175 cm, tender, classical values, and a wish to care. Line up, boisLate forties… still hasn’t figured out that height isn’t the best way to find a good man. That and “chemistry…” what women tell themselves, that they must have rom-com professional writer-level banter along with a meet cute story straight out of the Hallmark Channel. Oh, and a job that pays well enough that the man is expected to be able to vacation two months out of each year. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 33 | Mexico implementing fleet of women-only intercity busses.So let me get this straight… it’s bad when men exclude women from anything… but when men are excluded - that’s considered progress? | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 19 | females going to draft your thoughts?Ever notice how there are never any “strong and independent” women in divorce court? Strange, that. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 06:19 PM |
| 23 | Homes for Ukraine: Don't match female refugees with single men, UN says“Something something privilege is invisible to those who never realized they’ve had it.” 😏 I just shake my head when women complain about being invisible when they turn forty/continue to age. “Welcome to being a man.” They will absolutely pretend that all the attention, opportunities, perks they got in life wasn’t at all privilege, but rather, “benevolent sexism” that they somehow just never passed up. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 01:48 AM |
| 26 | Homes for Ukraine: Don't match female refugees with single men, UN says… but they’ll happily tax single men and use that money to pay for such programs that demonize men and treat women as above reproach. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 01:43 AM |
| 17 | Anybody else here scared by how widespread the "believe all women" thought process is?Heh heh. I think #BelieveAllWomen had to take a tactical pause when Tara Reade accused Biden of sexually assaulting her. The efforts of those who had been eagerly frothing at the mouth to paint Supreme Court Justice Kavanaugh as an attempted rapist with zero evidence all of a sudden had to switch gears because “the greater good.” It was glorious to watch them squirm. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t guys keep their hair going into the military but the girls can?I really want to join for the benefits but not at the expense of my hairLook, is it a double standard? Absolutely. If you enlist, however, you are not going to care as you progress from civilian to soldier. You will be so exhausted, hungry, and sore that if and when you are told you can get a “high and tight” for graduation, you will not care at that point. When you get to your first unit, your chain of command will either influence your grooming choices or not. You will eventually have more leeway. If you want to sport Navy SEAL worthy hair, drop a packet for Range… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/22 06:34 AM |
| 48 | Woman who received lifetime ban by airline says she is sorry for outburst so vile on flight it had to be diverted. In a letter shared with a local newspaper, she blames her actions on severe mental health issues, heavy drinking on the day and being in an abusive relationship for 10 yearsYou know… I see this excuse from women a lot… that they “were in an abusive relationship.” What does that tell us? If man after man said that they were in relationships with women who were gold-diggers, while we would be sympathetic to him… the common denominator was that it was he who kept choosing materialistic women. It’s incredible just how great women’s radar is at keeping them away from “boring” men, but is absolutely never working when it comes to abusive men. Yes, I’ve heard all their ex… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 08:38 PM |
| 98 | Without exception every defense of Will Smith's violent assault I’ve personally heard so far comes from women.… but never the silence of women. All the women in Hollywood who knew of and helped, encouraged, benefitted from Harvey Weinstein’s actions… they all got a pass from the public and the media. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 13 | How could Brian Banks get convicted and spent 6 years in jail if there was no proof?Sometimes not even that, in the court of public opinion. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 08:28 AM |
| 13 | working wives sharing the costs of living“Your honor… my husband was SO terrible to me, that he paid for everything during our marriage and I expect him to continue to pay for my lifestyle after I divorce him while I will not do a single thing in return.” | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 12 | working wives sharing the costs of livingThat sure sounds like “toxic masculinity…” That women can prefer to not be the primary breadwinner. Truly, a black eye for “equality.” | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 73 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.It’s interesting how when it comes to enforced obligations from a “common law marriage,” it’s pretty much one-sided. The man is expected to financially provide for the woman, but she is under zero obligation/expectation to do anything but take his money or resources. Equality my ass. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 41 | How a transgender Ukrainian man escaped Russia's invasion: 'I painted my nails violet and wore Mom's shirt to look more girly.'Sure sounds like some “male privilege” right there… 🙄 Or is it “toxic masculinity?” Hard to remember which buzz phrases disappear when the bullets start flying and the bombs start dropping. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/22 05:15 AM |
| 20 | Men are guilty until proven innocent in the eyes of the public and even when innocent, the public doesn't careDon’t forget the Duke Lacrosse Team and the Fraternity at UVA. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | TIL that women are oppressed through voting.Ha… the most liberal of US Democrats weren’t even willing to back a woman politician in the most recent primaries leading to 2020. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 5 | [39-F] I'm seeking love in all the wrong places… I'm neurotic, needy, and dysfunctional. I'm uninterested in sex so if you like porn, swipe left. BTW here are some pics of my totally normal stateShe wants a guy who’s gentle and edgy, and probably has to read her mind as to when exactly he’s supposed to flip a switch? 🙄 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Apparently men don't deserved love and women don't have too high standarts“Saving and investing?” Don’t you know that’s a man’s job? Many women’s retirement plans are simply to get married. Not all, but quite a lot more than men whose plans include being married to a wealthy woman. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 193 | Ukrainian soldiers stopping cars and 'yanking out any man aged 18-60 to conscript in army'. Being forced at gunpoint to fight.The feminists tell us that if one’s country is threatened, there’s still no need to draft anyone because there will always be willing volunteers. They use this point to try and downplay any need to include women in the draft. Sure… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 35 | A girl said to me at work day "I'm all for feminism and women's rights, equal rights but if WW3 happens thank god it will be the men first, I don't want to fight in a war"Equal until s—t hits the fan? Try equal until the bill arrives. Many (not all) women can’t even clear that hurdle. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 8 | I have a question about the draftWhen women pass Ranger School and have made it into the 75th Ranger Regiment, the feminists use that as an example that women can do anything men can do. Not only that, but it proves that women could have done it all along, but “patriarchy” has been holding them back. Okay, fair enough. However, if you then say “women can do anything men can do,” so let’s include them in the Selective Service/potential draft, then the excuses pour in about how not every woman is built for war, who’s going to hav… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 04:48 PM |
| 8 | [36-F] after being treated like a piece of meat by Chad, now it's time to be in a proper relationship, like dating for marrying, no time to be wasted: bear in mind you need to be 14 requirement lists to applyI agree, it is a list of demands, but in a sea of profiles in which you have women who are twenty five with three kids and are very out of shape, her list is reasonable to me. I’m fully aware that she could still have a racial requirement, height requirement, and income requirement, but while she does not offer a list of what she brings to the table, to me, her with no kids and is in shape and I would hope no debt… that’s a good start to me. But that’s just me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 28 | 25 year old mother of FIVE spawn says you ain’t worth her time if you’re friends with a “hoe.” The mattress on the floor of that pigsty is getting full!Five children by twenty-five years old… that’s an assembly line. 😔 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Stereotypes of male prisoners vs female prisoners in the mediaI thoroughly enjoyed ‘OITNB.’ It was excellently written, cast, acted, and produced. It did humanize the majority of the inmates, but to its’ credit, it did the same for the guards, which you wouldn’t expect to see given the show’s politics. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 08:22 AM |
| 20 | No more games. Who’s going to raise my daughter???You got to hand it to her… she didn’t demand a certain height in her profile. That’s something these days… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 83 | There’s a lot to unpack here.She can talk about the Bible all day but sure forgot to follow some of the advice found in it… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/22 11:25 PM |
| 24 | At age 28, she is done with hook ups and she is ready for real dates. I wonder what changed?It would be hilarious to see a debate with a typical feminist and drop the “attraction gap” issue as a subject. Heck, make their heads explode by challenging their “wokeness” and ask about women practicing “sexual racism” compared to men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/22 04:01 PM |
| 36 | What Really Happens to Sexual Desire During Marriage?—Study finds women's sex drives drop after marriage and this causes relationship problems, not the other way aroundIt’s funny how within the normal heterosexual relationships in which the man is the breadwinner or primary earner, HE isn’t allowed to lapse on HIS end of the marriage. The man can’t suddenly say he doesn’t feel like keeping a roof over their heads or food on the table. Can you imagine if he could do that, but just felt like he wanted to hand those resources off to another woman who he really connected with? I mean, he didn’t want to shelter and feed his own wife and kids, but rather, someone el… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 06:06 AM |
| 13 | Woman who fits "leftovers" and "damaged goods" flairs asks the Big Question in a very brief post that reveals she wasted her best years with a bad boy she chose.… “you nice guys just want to be kind to women because you think women will reward you with sex!” How awful. Men want to have sex with you. Oh no. What predatory behavior. Stop. 🙄 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 98 | Woman tells Tinder 'date' she had seven kids; goes to national newspaper when it doesn't go well...Not to mention the “you go girl” types telling her that it takes an incredible woman to have seven kids. No it doesn’t! They just have to spread ‘em and have the taxpayers pick up the Labor & Delivery costs. Seven kids, multiple fathers, unmarried with a waitressing job? Who are they kidding when they throw this false positivity at her? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/01/22 12:37 AM |
| 93 | Woman tells Tinder 'date' she had seven kids; goes to national newspaper when it doesn't go well...… as a waitress, her house that she keeps five of those kids in is at taxpayers’ expense, no doubt. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 14 | I need an example of a woman systemically oppressing men. It could also be a group of women or a women lead/centered/dominated organization/grouo oppressing men or discriminating against them.The divorce industry… granted there are many men involved in the profiteering off men getting screwed in the courts as well, but by and large, the end results are often men being systematically oppressed by pro-women rulings and awarding. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 27 | Does anyone know when we will get out of this “woke” phase?Gender roles are considered sexist? You mean traditional gender roles for women are sexist. Women expecting men to uphold their traditional roles, while adding on modern roles, is perfectly fine. “But men expect women to work these days!” Take that complaint up with your feminist predecessors. If today’s men are held accountable for what men did decades ago, then so should women. They cannot have their cake and be able to eat it too. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 17 | Discrimination while looking for a place to rent?It’s definitely here in the USA as well, for example, all over Los Angeles. I think they get around anti-discrimination laws if it’s for a room in a house or a second bedroom in an apartment or condo. I can only imagine the immediate outrage that would occur if all those “no men need apply” ads turned into “no women allowed.” The double standard is real. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 31 | Female students at university flirt with older male professors to get what they want.Well, woke society seems to frown when it’s men who use either their inherent physical strength to intimidate or their positions of power to get what they want from women… you know, the gifts and tools at their disposal and all that. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Can we just have a discuss on the unrealistic expectations women have for men?Don’t forget the “oppressed” and “gilded cage” narrative. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 187 | Have you noticed that even the slightest criticism of women gets met with the term “incel?”Yup. It’s their automatic “Nazi” or “racist” card, thrown out immediately like some argument ender. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 42 | Thousands of Friendzone Fionas agree that no one treats them better than the dude they don't want. This confirms that many women reject men that they KNOW are better than the jerks they chase.“Spark of dominance?” I say, that sure sounds like some toxic masculinity right there. 😏 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Imagine the outcry if every time that the word "girl" in the song "Run the World (girls)" was replaced with the word "guy"Heh heh. Does no one remember that other Destiny’s Child song “Independent Women?” No doubt millions of women who were absolutely not “independent” jammed to that song and had zero self reflection. Someone once said on this group that “interestingly, there’s never any strong and independent women when it’s time to discuss spousal support and child support during a divorce.” | /r/MensRights | 20/08/21 04:44 PM |
| 14 | Tinder Files: You Need to Man Up & Deal w/ Someone’s Else Kids! And in Return You’ll Get…. Nothin’I agree with some of what you say, but an important thing you leave out, is that while a woman might marry a man she’s not sexually attracted to, rest assured she can still cheat on her husband with the men that do give her the almighty butterflies... and that guy didn’t have to provide for her for the rest of his life either. All she has to do is not get caught. I would happily throw every cheating man under the bus (I despise cheating) via mandatory paternity testing at birth, if it meant expo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Remember Metoo figurehead and actress Asian Argento who sexually assaulted 17 year old actor Jimmy Bennett. Response from fellow Metoo leader Rose McGowan? "None of us know the truth of the situation and I'm sure more will be revealed. Be gentle."I’m willing to give McGowan a pass on this... she’s helped torch those virtue signalers who’d helped cover up for Weinstein for years and been passionately speaking out against MeToo hypocrisy, especially when Democrats turned their backs on Tara Reade because believing HER wasn’t politically convenient. Should we be championing actors and actresses, people who knowingly enter a very vicious and tit for tat career? Probably not. But no one is as perfect as today’s society expects them to be. I t… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are websites like only fans just super depressing?I will never argue that barring being a very ugly woman, most women can live an easier life than men. That said, we as men are the primary consumers of OnlyFans’ products. Their financial success is due to men, and with free porn as abundant as oxygen, OnlyFans’ success is our own fault. Vote with your wallets as best you can. If we refuse to fund their lifestyles and it forces them have to do actual work just like the majority of men, their support will dry up. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 12 | Friend zoned 'the one' then slept around for 9 years. Now aged 35 and over 50 tinder dates later, where are the good men?You’ll never hear women complain about such inequality. 😏 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 11 | 290,000 people in South Korea sign petition to require that women have the same military obligations as men. President office says we need to ask women if it's OK.An interesting thing with your comment about needing women to “replenish the population.” If you said that same sentiment without the qualifier that you’re against drafting women for that very reason, I guarantee you the same women you might be trying to protect would crucify you for reducing them to “broodmares,” and you’re “basically advocating for a Handmaid’s Tale” future. Yet in early 2020, when the possibility of a war requiring a draft seemed very real, there were quite a few women who su… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | Some women just refuse to take responsibility. For what really is a shared responsibilityActually, there is a law that regulates men’s bodies but not women. The requirement to register for the Selective Service, aka the potential Draft. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | The equal pay they don't want you to see or be an activist for...Simple economics... like the pay difference between the NBA and the WNBA... | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 08:06 AM |
| 5 | The tourist specialWhat Tlaib seems to conveniently overlook is how many BLM and Antifa rioters had their charges dismissed or weren’t charged at all. | /r/PussyPass | 25/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Mandatory Paternity TestsTell the naysayers that paternity testing is the ultimate non-political fact check. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you, an actual news article based on whether or not Women should be eligible for a military draft. Success of this would mean the first area of true gender equality - but as the article says, "US women may soon achieve a level of equality not everyone wants".It’s not about society being uncomfortable with women killing but rather women being killed, or, worse to them, raped if captured. Modern western society would rather allow a dozen men to die than one woman to be raped (and still live). | /r/MensRights | 08/06/21 04:22 PM |
| 31 | A quote my friend found that really resonated with me:Conversely, no man forces a woman to make a life altering decision by initially helping her conceive (see how that language works, instead of “him getting her pregnant?”)... Yet pregnancy is always seen by some as something the man does to a woman, despite it being a mutual act, as you said, as long as it wasn’t rape. It actually has a LOT to do with women. Do you think all the laws in place that benefit women were created by some sort of evil patriarchal system? These laws had the input and inf… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 284 | Both sides in a relationship can and probably should change. But why one side who refuses should be ashamed while the other side is a hero?But wait, it gets better; if and when a man changes for a woman, she RESENTS him for it. She is angry that he changed, because that means he didn’t “stand up to her.” What the hell... | /r/MensRights | 16/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Woman forced Dogecoin millionaire to ejaculate inside her at gunpointEven though it has names and locations, there’s only three hits for the story and one is Lipstick Alley... this is fake. Come on guys, women can often get the same results without having to pull a gun. They’ve been doing it for a long time... It’s likely a way to namedrop “dogecoin.” | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 03:17 AM |
| 46 | Women initiate 70-80% of divorces. So - are men just bad? Are we born bad? If so well then dang! Oh well :-( Sucks to be us. Gosh - sorry women! But come on, that seems unlikely. So if we are not all born "bad", yet 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women? What is going on here?Vows be damned... Women have too many societal and governmental safety nets that cushion their fall when they hit that eject button. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 12:33 AM |
| 14 | CMV: The only reason paternity tests aren't mandatory at birth is because this would benefit men more than women.He trusts his wife now. Divorce courts are littered with men who trusted their wives. You never truly know the person you married until you meet them in court... | /r/MensRights | 05/05/21 05:40 AM |
| 16 | NYC will stop criminalizing prostitution. Wait, did I say prostitution? I meant they'll stop criminalizing female prostitutes. Men who solicit are still criminals. Thanks NYC! 👍So... drug users are still criminals but those who sell them are not criminals. Got it. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 9 | Amber Heard faces prison time if found guilty of falsifying evidence against Johnny DeppIt’s almost as if ‘Gone Girl’ had an alternate ending... | /r/MensRights | 14/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 37 | I know my worth (and also have a burning desire for a pampered lifestyle)This can’t be real. This is the equivalent of a man who is penniless, bald, overweight, and whatever race(s) aren’t in demand by women... asking for a Margot Robbie. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/21 06:13 AM |
| 29 | The #MeToo movement did nothing to change Americans' personal views on issues like sexual harassment and workplace discrimination, according to a new study based on surveys from 2016 to 2018. "We did not find any change in sexist attitudes on average. None," said a professor from Vanderbilt.It sure didn’t matter to all the Biden voters after Democrat Tara Reade shared her sexual assault story... all of them who were outraged about a man accused of sexual assault being in the White House... voted to put a man accused of sexual assault in the White House. “But our candidate sexually assaults less!” That’s the best they can muster after being so absolute on the subject. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 28 | How Friendzone Fiona begins her journey towards WAATGM.The other tired refrain from women regarding not wanting to date/lose a good male friend is when they turn around and pre-reject other good men who they just met, but say “they want to be friends first.” Like what the hell? Let’s just call it what it is... them never being satisfied. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Objectification of menIt’s not a fair trade by far. As a relationship or marriage grows older, it’s typically, but not always the wife who becomes less interested in sex. Her looks fade, which is natural and if not weight-related, is understandable. However, her expectations in terms of lifestyle don’t decrease, but rather increase. Meanwhile, the husband, typically, retains his sex drive and desires/needs. If his wife isn’t interested in sex with him, society sees it as the man’s problem... or not even a problem at … | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 20 | Who says women never lie about rape?I can’t believe Salon published this back in 1999. I guarantee you this would never have seen the light of day under their banner for the past ten years... | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 06:12 AM |
| 32 | I find online dating during the pandemic difficult. My friend just sa…Not to mention, in high school, college, and after... women are the ones chasing older men while they dismiss men their own age as “immature” or “just starting out.” They have disdain for men without disposable income. These same women have the gall to demand men their age when the women reach a certain age... as if the men are just supposed to forget how they were ignored? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/04/21 07:50 PM |
| 87 | Hispanic-American single mom looking for a 6foot tall, white, blue or green-eyed, country boy to take care another man's offspring and buy a whole bunch of land in Texas to settle down on. Any takers?Women get a huge pass on their racial preferences... Judging from online dating statistics, women care a lot more about race than men when it comes to dating and marrying. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/21 06:43 AM |
| 29 | 41 year old single mother of two looking to settle down with her "wingman for life" barks out orders how you should act and demands you acknowledge her existence within 24hrs or less. Bonus Aubrey Hepburn quoteOver forty with two children and still hung up about height... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Man avoids getting financially ruined by a single mother and Reddit is not happy.This is EXACTLY how the narrative goes. Women owe men nothing, but men owe women x, y, z, and a whole alien alphabet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/03/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | "The only thing you really need to know is that my daughter will always be number 1." - famous last words of a perpetual single mom.Careful now... can’t be saying anything that goes contrary to “women can do whatever they want, when they want, with whom they want.” I would hope if all that financial assistance from government dried up and the lack of social stigma went back to proper shaming, we’d see far less single mothers in another generation. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 115 | Tall Chads form an orderly line to go punch nazis with this 45yo short professional feminist. And stop wondering why she is single.Forty-five years old and still hung up on that height requirement... if that’s what’s important to her as she passes middle age, hope she finds happiness. 🙄 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 86 | Court forces man to give sperm to ex-wifeCan anyone see the reaction from a gender-flipped scenario? Would a man ever be given the “rights” to an egg from his ex-wife? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you look like a combination Jesus/Viking? Then you can get this ambitious lady if you have enough time to go through the laundry list of requirements. She offers plenty of opportunities to spend your money.I notice her list of requirements start off with what’s most important to her. Tall Self confident Ambitious This is why I laugh when women act like the baseline is “a good person.” That’s not the baseline. Their baseline is tall... tall enough to show off to their peers. Because height always ensures a man is a good partner. rolls eyes | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Listen lady, this isn't build a man. (repost)How come she isn’t cancelled for her racist “no asians” line? Isn’t that how it works? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 17 | After being too long with the wrong men, and 4 kids later, she now wants to elevate and build a family. Any gentleman here that can make her laugh when she is sad?It’s not misogyny; it’s calling out bad behavior and not falling over ourselves to keep rescuing women from bad decisions they made as adults of their own free will. They’re absolutely free to make every bad choice they could make in life, but we believe they shouldn’t be bailed out of the consequences of their choices. That only begets more bad decisions and the cycle continues. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 13 | 6 stryng indypyndynt beauties want to know where they can find a good man 🤣🤣🤣These women do not intimidate good men, or men in general. It's that these women, making the money they do, expect a man to make *more* than them. Men know this, see them, and self-delete themselves from the potential pool. Let's not forget women's height requirement on top off all that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | ‘Factually Impossible’: Justin Bieber Refutes Assault Claim, Posts Evidence He Says Proves It’s FalseAgreed! | /r/MensRights | 24/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 4 | There you goShe has a good point... but it's interesting to note that if white men are so terrible, why do all women of all ethnicities except black women flock to white men? White women I get... but asian, hispanic, etcetera... they all brag about dating/marrying a white man. | /r/PussyPass | 21/06/20 02:44 AM |
| 30 | Funniest line “it’s hard to meet people.” Aka “I can’t pair bond.”"Men their own age?" You sure don't hear women complaining about that in high school, college, and their twenties... then it's all "guys my age aren't *mature* enough." "Guys my age don't have any money/status/experience." Then when they're older, they expect the men *they* ignored to circle back to them because that's when the women are ready to "receive" them? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 236 | Local five guys changes men’s bathroom to gender neutral while keeping women’s exclusiveMen typically won't go into women' restrooms because unlike when women go into men's restrooms, there can be consequences if men do it. Public shaming, security called, physical confrontations, etc. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/20 06:30 AM |
| 4 | Two "accidental" pregnancies? With two different men? She didn't abort at least...The sperm donors are very much half-responsible. That said, SHE had the ultimate say, not the men. She had the ability to nix those children at two major points. 1) Before she let the guy come in her without protection. 2) Once she realized she was pregnant. She could have taken Plan B or had an abortion. When will women realize that the types of guys who have all that confidence they're so enamored of, says all the right things, has multiple women attracted to them... are typically NOT the type… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Went all in and have been left all out!You became your now ex-wife's THIRD husband. (Ex-husband) THIRD. Husband. (Ex-husband) THAT should have clued you in. I have sympathy for you, I do. I typically side with the man in these situations because men get screwed over so much, in dating/relationships/marriage/divorce, and then the courts. But dude... you married a woman already twice divorced with three kids... even if she and the three kids were on their best behavior before and after marriage... that's just not something to touch... … | /r/MensRights | 22/11/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Male vs Female traditional gender rolesI've heard of cowgirls just like I've heard of female infantry soldiers... It's funny, but you just don't see too many of either. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 16 | Tell that to the men who died from other violent men (which we are three times more likely to be victims of by the way). Also, she says that like women aren’t held on the same standard.Pfffttt... women REWARD violent men. You ever see a prison documentary? It seems like every criminal in the USA has a wife, girlfriend, or side piece, and sometimes any combination of the three. A woman would rather be in an exciting relationship in which she's knocked around a bit by a guy who gives her the tingles than in a "boring" relationship with a stable and productive guy. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/19 05:23 AM |
| 5 | My wife left me and took my two children and turned them against me. I left the Australia and don't pay child support in protest.Any chance your friend can move to your current location? It sucks, but you'll be no use to him in prison (where they'd put you if you were an US citizen facing the same thing overseas). He'll die while you're in prison AND your ex-wife will gloat about your choice to return. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/19 07:52 AM |
| 20 | 'There's tremendous shame in being undesired, it devalues self esteem'Are you kidding me? "It was my friend’s husband who was no longer interested in sex, not my female friend. She confided in me that they had had sex only two or three times in the past decade. A few years after her affair, she found the courage to leave her marriage, and is now in a satisfying relationship." Can you imagine what the reaction would be if you switched the genders of the bolded part? She found the "courage" to leave her marriage... AFTER HER AFFAIR? I am disgusted. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/19 06:06 AM |
| 2 | It is already a female dominant world, men just don't realise it.The ratio of male-to-female politicians and CEO? How about the ratio of men to women in the Armed Forces? Or in sanitation/sewage? How about firefighting? Logging? Oil platform work? | /r/MensRights | 16/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 3 | When the guy defended himself he got harassed by like 10 peopleWomen think they can do whatever they want because they believe they shouldn't face any repercussions or consequences. People shouldn't go around hitting *anyone* But men, when women hit you... hit back. Remember, we live in a world that preaches equality, that gender doesn't matter, and anything a man can do, a woman can do better. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/19 06:20 PM |
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