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How is me focusing my vitriol towards the ~1,000 perpatrators and not 62 million people "Downplaying" Because your entire point was that the group is extremely small and that you're unlikely to ever come across one of them. That's a very textbook example of downplaying. What did you say that you'd consider vitriolic? It's not always a man. In fact, When you Look up DV and Sexual Assault statistics, they're not drastically different, in many cases, women are actually leading negative categories. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 06:58 PM
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This isn't about me "I for one am a bit fed up of men getting told to approach women" Well that's interesting. Women would have to reject fewer annoying unattractive men. What evidence do you have that annoying unattractive men would approach less if women approached more?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/26 07:10 PM
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Incel has lost it. No it hasn't. The definition of incel is still someone who's involuntarily celibate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 05:34 PM
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Mistake and failure are not synonymous. I didn't say they were. Just to be clear, I wanted to avoid the element of entitlement with you, because I knew you weren't engaging in good faith. Why have I said that you think I'm being disingenuous about? Oh please, that was an obvious dog whistle. Why would you want to focus entirely on the lowest common denominator when it is obvious they aren't representative of the entire group. Maybe because they're a strawman that's easier to attack? So I made th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 05:32 PM
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The words are synonymous with each other. If "worthy" is good enough for the conversation then "deserving" should not be construed as encroaching on someone's autonomy either. No shit they're synonyms but there's a difference in framing. It's like the difference in mistake vs failure. You specifically said you wanted to avoid the element of entitlement, well I'm telling you one way you can do that is to use worthy instead of deserve. This is a conversation about context and nuance among people, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 08:17 AM
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I am defining "deserve" as a measure of inherent human worthiness, not as an entitlement to another person's autonomy. Then you're misusing that word, and specificizing it as being "worthy" of love instead of "deserving" would fit the point you're trying to make more. It conflates the "desire for a connection" with "demanding sex" specifically to shut down empathy. This is often because those are the types of conversations/spaces that incels are creating and repeating. There are definitely a num…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 11:52 PM
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imagine making up a scenario to win an imaginary argument. Your comment was really dumb, is what I'm saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 09:10 PM
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Its meaning has been widened into nothingness. Not widened, it's been completely flipped to mean the opposite. A similar example but in reverse would be "stan" which was originally negative, and is now used to self describe. But 'racial injustice' was not removed from it. It's still there. You think the people who use woke in it's modern context believe that there is racial injustice happening? For incels, "involuntary celibate" is totally removed. This is a much better example of a word that's …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 09:06 PM
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it also implies that this particular person doesn't deserve having such a connection. Define what "deserve" means to you in this context. Incel-targeted rhetoric almost never focuses on the lack of a meaningful connection Hard disagree. Most well intentioned incel advice boils down to therapy, self improvement through self love and making connections in real life with friends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 08:25 PM
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Yes true, but it did not lose its core defining principle like incel did. I'm really curious to see your explanation for how a word used by black political groups as far back as the 1920s to warn people of racial injustice didn't lose it's core defining principle when it started being applied to tv shows and movies casting minorities?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 07:15 PM
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Perhaps it is, but that's the data we have, which women consume ~40% of pornographic materials. This is what I'm talking about though. Pornographic materials includes still images, text, etc. If you limit it to just video the percentage of women can drop below 20% depending on region and other factors. There's also studies showing women's most searched/consumed categories are violent porn(bdsm) and Faux Incest. Do you have a link to any of those studies? it's statistically impossible to think th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 04:18 PM
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Do you want to mention why you disagree? I think you're looking at this from a perspective of what would be easiest for YOU instead of being objective about how people interact. What your asking for wouldn't actually fix anything for you. Like what do you think would fundamentally change for you if women approached men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 04:01 PM
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You'll never see someone as prominent as Ana risk taking on someone who's actually sincere and capable of handling the debate. Who would you suggest she debate on this topic?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 11:00 PM
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So, of those 5 million unique users in february ~2 million were women, 3 million were men. It's pretty dishonest to take the gender breakdown for a mainstream and well known site like pornhub and apply it to motherless. To put that in further perspective, you have a 1 in 138,000 chance to be struck by lightning. You are more likely to be struck by lightning 19.5 times, than come across someone who was an active participant in the "Rape Academy What point do you think you're making?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 10:03 PM
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All you have to do is look at reddit, in which toxic feminist abuse of men goes completely unchecked. Entering those subs and trying to make a rational argument, is basically asking for a punishment beating. You consider this equivalent to the complaints people have about the manosphere? the people really hurt by the toxic womanosphere are women themselves. They become bitter and twisted My dude.... cmon lol. Have you been to any red pill/manosphere spaces?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 07:28 PM
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I don’t know why we don’t simply define rape as forced physical interaction with the perpetrator’s genitals. Few questions. Who is "we"? Why do the genitals have to be involved? Also are you comfortable with the possibility that your new definition would massively increase the stats of rape on both sides, but overwhelmingly from men towards women? Debating the definition of rape is just rape apologia. Then you disagree with the original paper and most state laws on the subject. Differentiating “…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 06:45 PM
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Not all of them, but it's a lot of casual misandry being thrown about like 'kill all men', and 'all men are trash' There's nothing casual about either of those statements. It's exactly the same as how racist white folks used to talk about black people. Used to?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 05:50 PM
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Agreed, I'm also fed up with going to work when I think work should just come to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 05:48 PM
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That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average I don't see how it proves that at all? and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date. This would be also be true in reverse if men were more introspective or honest about what they want in a partner. Guys don't place enough important on incompatibilities they have with women they date and focus on what they like instead because they treat relationships like a require…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:43 PM
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Savanna Stone gets called a pick-me online all day, everyday. But she's not being called that for "simply not wanting to participate in hating men openly"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:59 PM
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You're missing the performative aspect of it. Simps aren't the male analog to pick me's, fake feminist males are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:53 PM
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This argument would be a lot stronger if you weren't using it on a comment mentioning pearl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:49 PM
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I meant that it's an extremely expected comment, that's why it's a comment one could expect here. I don't understand what's not clear about that. I'm pretty sure it's a comment you could expect anywhere so that's what threw me off. I mean, you could have that silly argument about the fame of a person who isn't a singer and isn't supposed to fill an arena solo I think it's an extremely valid point that klay's fame is contextually tied to the warriors and the nba. Without it he falls off pretty ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:47 PM
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Exactly the comment one could expect here I have no idea what this means Btw, it's a knock against her "GLOBAL POP STAR" case. Okay. It's still a weak point for the reason I explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:37 PM
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She could barely fill an arena in her EU tour locations. Three concerts in europe were canceled because of low ticket sales. I don't think this is much of a knock against her since klay would struggle to sell out a stadium, let alone arena if he was just showing up by himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:23 PM
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Sigh, time to explain economics to a woman. 🙄 The concept of value is completely independent of economics so this doesn't make sense. That’s LITERALLY the definition of value. That's the definition of economic value. Obviously something can be high value without being high in cost so the monetary aspect isn't required. The market determines what’s high or low value, not you. You're talking about supply and demand, not value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:01 PM
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There are people who are surprised and people who aren't. If you are in the latter category maybe get some insight on this from those who aren't. You mean there are people making videos where they "called it" to get some extra views because they're not interesting enough to tune in otherwise. It's like repentant Trump supporters who couldn't see any of this coming. Maybe its a good idea to listen to the people who could just for the sake understanding. Why do you think I'm shocked or confused ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:03 AM
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He can find dozens of women that look better than Megs at any local mall. Or really anywhere where there are women who are not old as fuck. She is so ugly. My dude. You spend your free time creating ai porn, your brain is actually cooked when it comes to women's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:56 AM
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Just listen to these guys talk about it. Why? Everyone you listed are beyond irrelevant when it comes to entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:35 AM
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How it doesnt apply ? Because they're specifically talking about a situation in which the guy is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:48 PM
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Then he's not lying about wanting an LTR and it doesn't apply to this. This really isn't that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:00 PM
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What are you basing that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:47 PM
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Women like to say they wear makeup for themselves but this is cope. Women can absolutely put on makeup but they won’t get the same results as when they put it on Doing it for themselves isn’t the same as saying they do it for men. Women will put on makeup even if they’re just hanging out with other women they’re friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:42 PM
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But they can’t handle with the shoe is on the other foot now You think women are upset men don’t want to date them? What are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:02 PM
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You mean the way women constantly denigrate short, bald, or broke men? Men also constantly denigrate short, bald, or broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:00 PM
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Did you really miss the whole era when people were pushing back on the fashion/magazine industry for beauty standards? You must have lived under a rock during the 90s-00s. You mean the time models and actresses were taking drugs, starving themselves and using eating disorders to be unnaturally skinny? lol Pushback against that is what made you believe you couldn't say you like big boobs? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:55 PM
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It was literally on the same article you linked. Do you think that changes the date something gets published? Here is the one from the actial marines website. Notice how there are separate standards for men and women. That is the official government website. This is genuinely embarrassing. There is a standard physical fitness test that they use for all members regardless of combat role. The PFT is non combat and has different requirements for women which is why it's listed there. Did you not not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:00 AM
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I mean, literally yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:25 PM
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What leads people like you to tell people they are wrong when you know perfectly well that you don't know what you are talking about? I think that's something you should have asked yourself before linking an article that's over a year old and using out dated information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:25 PM
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and military then. Still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:41 AM
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Likewise with firefighters. This isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:53 PM
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No I just dismissed their comment out of hand You didn't dismiss their comment, you tried to directly reply to it with a counter point lol They made a specific claim and you responded with an anecdote about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:32 PM
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There is never a logically coherent reason to do anything. ...what? lol It's raining outside If I go out in the rain I will get wet unless I take an umbrella I don't want to get wet Therefore I should take an umbrella when I go outside Please explain how that's NOT a logically coherent reason to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:28 PM
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You didn't actually counter anything they said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:51 PM
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It's not that red pill creators are or aren't toxic, It's that their negative interactions with a subset of women causes them to look for an alternate theory/method to date There are people who have never had a negative interaction with minorities yet still consume racist content and hate minorities. It's not always a reaction. Sometimes it's learned behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:49 PM
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If I say "X is true" and you ask "WHY are you making an issue out of X," it's a different topic. You're not saying "X is true", you're saying "X is an issue". Asking why is completely valid and on topic. Just focus on the claim being made. You're making this extraordinarily narrow for a debate. Do you, or do you not agree that generally speaking in the West there is a taboo against making statements which are unflattering to women as a group? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:45 PM
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If you want to concede my point and discuss a different topic, please first tell me why and I will consider it. ? I'm literally discussing your topic. I'm asking WHY this is an issue. If you can't articulate why this is an issue, how am I supposed to engage with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:43 PM
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I should have said "issue" not "problem" I do think it's a problem, but that's beyond the scope of my post. Let me be more direct, why is that an issue I should care about for you? If this were a more general discussion board, I would point out that there are other groups for which there are similar taboos. But here, you bring up those other groups, your post gets deleted. So is your issue that it's taboo to generalize minority groups vs majority ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:20 PM
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The problem is not that people argue back, rather, the problem is that people impose negative social repercussions. Why is that a problem? I am simply pointing out that there is a taboo against saying anything which is unflattering to women as a group. There's multiple groups that you can say that about. Why are you singling out women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:31 PM
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ok cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:21 PM
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You’re assuming that for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:18 AM
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I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:17 AM
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This thread alone proves you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:40 PM
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No it doesn't. They're not suggesting the man change his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:38 PM
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This 100% didn’t happen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:48 PM
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Suggesting a guy try dating other men isn’t a homophobic insult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:47 PM
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can you give me a couple examples of movies which (1) primarily cater to male fantasies and desires; and (2) the protagonist's female love interest is NOT a "plot device" as you put it? Edge of Tomorrow, Groundhog day, the Before Sunrise series, High Fidelity, Lost in Translation, True Lies, Mr. and Mrs. Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:05 PM
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it doeset matter what my perspective is How would you know? Have you tried having a different one? the fact is that men are far less worth sexually than women, men are less desirable, they are less valuable overall Even if that were true, we're not talking about a serf class and fuedal lords. We're talking at most about general differences between each other's experiences. People aren't throwing trash at you on the street. some men don't have issues with being the inferior, less desired party, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:53 PM
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It's not a line, you have some really serious issues on display in your posts. The dynamics don't need to be changed, your perspective does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:11 PM
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Your post history is extremely concerning dude. You should think about getting some professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:00 PM
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From the perspective of feminists, this is a problem. Everything is supposed to be about women, all the time. Ugh, you were so close. The issue with the trope has nothing to do with men's needs or desires, it's the act of reducing the female character to a plot device in order to fulfill them. You don't NEED the manic pixie character for any story that serves as a male fantasy and it's inclusion can often make the overall story weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:56 PM
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“You just want some non-threatening but exciting woman who sweeps you up while you do nothing” I don't know where you got this from but that's not the problem people have with manic pixie girls in media. Women are never judged for their arrested development like we are so they don’t see the projection here. The "manic pixie" aesthetic/trope doesn't have anything to do with arrested development.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:40 PM
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yes I agree that women broadly don’t want or like me Can’t imagine why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:06 AM
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America could easily pull this off, but it’s like this by design. The bread and circus is too good for any meaningful change to come. Okay, but I don't think this is really relevant to anything we're talking about then. A list of the highest paying professions in the US are overwhelmingly from medical field. These are highly valuable and useful skills for a society. That's largely because the actual highest earners aren't paid wages, they make their money through stock options and equity. Even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:55 PM
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People who want to build a stable and prosperous nation? I'm not sure if you're arguing for or against america here. It might not be directly correlated, but there are strong overlaps. Strong overlaps like what? Correct, and that’s not a good thing. So then you agree with my original point that value to society has nothing to do with pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:47 PM
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By your logic misandry has never existed and racism ended when the civil rights act was passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:23 PM
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Who do you think actually produces more value in terms of usefulness to society? Who cares? Pay isn't based on value or usefulness to society. EMT's and firemen's usefulness is incalculable, but they're basically middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:11 PM
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You’ve literally been raging about this in this thread for 12 hours straight at this point dude. You need to take a break. Drink some water and take a nap or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:20 AM
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Because it's a sign of narcissism which does overlap with anti-social behavior. Absolutely nothing about that sentence indicated narcissism lol What he's trying to say is that those men that hog all the attention, often care little about the collective, they often think about their own gain only. They don't care if they are making other people uncomfortable, specially men, because they are the competition. OP seems to be the only one uncomfortable with it though. Isn't it more likely it's his is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:52 PM
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I'm not using it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:25 PM
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If you walk into a room and act like a complete douchebag and start hogging attention, you will get rewarded for it while the respectful guy will get overlooked. What we are saying is that it's stupid. Women go for the exciting guy who dominates social situations and then act surprised when that guy starts exhibiting the same antisocial behaviors You're contradicting yourself. If the group rewards the guy who is exciting and dominating social situations, then he's not exhibiting antisocial behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:26 PM
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Is it possible that the reason for this is that you find dudes more attractive than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:58 AM
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What the fuck is "decent facial structure" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:52 AM
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I know this is a fake story but Your friend had 3 conversations with her and didn’t ask her out. He didn’t lose her to some athlete because he never gave her a chance to pick him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:38 AM
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They tell you they're hanging out with some friends come to find out there was a boy there and then they get mad at you and say why are you mad I told you I was hanging out with friends Are you dating people in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:18 PM
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Was temporarily banned for calling out misandry. Was that the reason the mods gave? It looks like accountability has flown out the window Accountability for what? Yes, a mistake was made. His intention was to orgasm. He tried to orgasm during sex, and he failed to orgasm. Failing to do something you are trying to do is literally a mistake. A mistake is based on judgement, failure is based on results. They're not related. You can do everything correctly and still fail, like setting a goal of runn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:49 PM
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That’s not attraction. It’s desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:28 AM
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Yes, I think there are more women who vehemently do not give a shit about men than who make a point of advocating for policy that would help them That might be true, though I’m not sure how you would even measure that. It’s not relevant to my point though, I’m talking about a specific claim you made, not whether there are more or less women who advocate for men. Each time I’ve said this you change your argument to something more vague and easily defendable. It’s not something that’s put to the q…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:12 AM
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Women having a strong opinion on any of these things are incredibly niche. That's not really relevant, I'm talking about your claim that one is more common than the other. I do think this is true. But I'm comparing two marginal opinions that aren't on the radar for most people. How many threads on this sub do you think you would need to go through before you found a woman saying we need a war to get rid of excess men? and how many threads would it take before you found one where a woman is again…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:11 PM
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Then it would be his fault since its largely his responsibility. No, because fault implies that a mistake was made. If I am responsible for something being done, I take on the fault for its lack of completion Only if you think it needs to, or should be done. Relationships aren't a competition that should be keeping score and assigning blame though so this wouldn't apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:08 PM
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It’s more common to hear a woman saying we need a war (semi-ironically) to get rid of the excess men than it is to hear one saying the draft should be abolished You don’t actually think this is true do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:25 PM
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I don’t think it’s anyone’s “fault” but I would say it’s largely his responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:49 AM
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So I'm guessing that's a no? The person I’m directly engaging with in the story said not to argue with women. No they didn't lol. That's your interpretation of what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:46 AM
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Is English your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:51 AM
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I don’t think you actually read their comment before replying to it because what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:51 AM
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I disagree, if you look you violated their autonomy This is such a weird fringe take that it's not even worth discussing. The vast vast majority of people do not think looking at someone violates their autonomy. there is no difference, you still ogled her ass and objectified her regardless of how long you did it for Looking is not equivalent to being "ogled" and understanding why that matters is the exact opposite of objectification. You can indeed appreciate and comment on people's bodies/looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:44 PM
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The fact you had to make that comparison with a significantly larger window proves me right. The fact you had to make your comparison with a significantly shorter window proves ME right. My argument is you shouldn't look in the first place. That's both impossible to socially enforce and not the problem. With obvious exceptions of privacy, or legality, no one cares if you look at someone attractive. It's completely normal. You losers automatically assumed the opposite despite the context clues. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:05 PM
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What difference does it make when the intent is the same? What's the difference between a hug that lasts 5 seconds vs one that lasts 45 minutes when the intent is the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:25 PM
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Either way your eyes are still on a woman ass. Well no, there's a genuine difference between looking and staring. Those words have two completely different connotations with staring being much more offensive, off putting and unwanted. Now that I've explained this, if we change your question to "Explain to me how I can look at a woman ass in public in a non-creepy way?" It makes sense right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:59 PM
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You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:17 AM
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Explain to me how I can stare at a woman ass in public in a non-creepy way? I’ll wait. The original comment said “look” not “stare” You understand there’s a difference right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:13 AM
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I’ve heard it countless times from both men and women and different scenarios, This post is actually inspired by some random women at the dmv today who started shouting and disrespecting me and when I started to fight back she said out of her own mouth,And your arguing with a female homophobic slur No one in that story told you not to argue with women. What exactly was the point of sharing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:47 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:31 PM
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As OP asked, is there a “you-approved” way for men to complain that wouldn’t cause you to, for example, call them idiots or express apathy toward them? How about to their close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:56 PM
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I often come across people who chronically argue & they tend to have large social circles It depends on what they're arguing about and how they act when they disagree. Some people are just opinionated and it's fine, they can still be fun to be around. Think of someone's uncle who will argue about sports or the best restaurants to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:45 PM
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Would you have responded the same way if i would have said one should point out that “20% of men get 80% of women” is wrong Not the person you replied to but if you wrote 7 paragraphs about it to a completely unrelated comment, yes. Would pointing that out to would make someone socially awkward as well? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:56 PM
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Is that your kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:49 PM
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Plenty of women here act like that. I have seen many of these women tell me how therapy can't help I genuinely can't think of a time I've seen women on here argue that therapy won't help, so I don't know if I agree with "plenty" In fact if you just search the word therapy on this sub, the top 7 posts are men complaining about therapy with post titles like "Why therapy doesn't work for men and trauma dumping clarity" "The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:06 AM
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I feel like you'd be better off sending this directly to whatever woman you're upset with right now instead of making a whole post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:56 PM
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easier to impress a bad thing It's the difference between hiring an experienced employee that you have to pay more vs someone just starting their career that will accept lower wages because they're just happy to have a job. Why should dating someone be difficult and challenging It shouldn't be difficult, but your partner SHOULD challenge you imo. In the same way that you should challenge yourself to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:11 AM
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What you're saying explains attraction and initial interest, but there's way more to a relationship than just looks. Do you really believe a relationship with two people in completely different stages of their life, with different experience levels would be an even partnership? I mean dudes on this sub are constantly complaining about how women don't bring anything to the table or don't have to do anything but look pretty and you're explaining that's the driving reason behind why men like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:20 PM
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Huh? I'm not surprised that you would be confused by a description of dating. where men are expected to provide direction, protection, and stability. You're leaving out that each of those things are provided subject to the woman's approval lol How can you be considered the leader if you can be replaced or vetoed for any reason? Your entire thesis falls apart because it's missing one of the most crucial aspects of leadership, which is authority. Even today, many people unconsciously equate mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:57 AM
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Afiak, if the prosecution doesn't "cross the t and dot the i" by vetting the accusation, then it would get revealed in discovery. Charges might get dismissed. I think you've completely lost sight of whatever point you thought you were making. I still have no idea what this has to do with my original comment. Prosecutors wouldn't be brought in to handle a case until it's already been investigated by police/detectives. The lawyers focus is presenting a case, not strictly fact finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:44 PM
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It makes sense because women want to date men who lead. Courting a woman isn't leading. You're literally trying to get favorable approval of someone judging your efforts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:35 PM
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I don't think you actually understand what I said because discovery is also AFTER charges have been filed. In order to get to that point, you need to gather evidence, how is that supposed to happen fairly if the victim is treated like a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:29 PM
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A feminist once tried to pull a gotcha on me. By saying, "If women are so privileged, then why are men most leader ship roles''. And, I told her it's the same reason why men are expected to lead in relationships by paying on dates, planning dates, and courting the woman. And she was speechless after I said this. This one is hilarious because even in your own made up scenario what you said doesn't make sense lol We live in a society where men are still expected to be super confident and super ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:22 PM
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Due process in the US legal system protects the right to confront the state's witnesses against you at trial. I believe their point is, how likely is it to get to trial if the victim is treated like a liar during the evidence gathering phase of investigation? The legal system has a mechanism for punishing "true threats", what you call "trash" is a matter of opinion, I caution you to consider whether there are things typically said by women amongst each other that men might also find offensive. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:00 PM
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and regular people often try and flock to runway models much more, before then settling for everyday people. The vast majority of regular people will never even be in the same room as a runway model. Why do you think VIP sections exist? To keep regular people out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:28 AM
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How can you even bully someone in india? It's like laughing at the person sitting next to you on a sinking ship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:58 AM
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I know? As I said before, he's not in jail for similar offenses to what epstein were up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:46 PM
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Diddy isn't in jail for anything similar to sex trafficking, killing, or abusing women & children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:33 PM
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"You say don’t lump flour in, but green bananas don’t wear stickers saying they’re bitter. We don’t know who’s ripe until we mash, and by then it can be too late. You don’t put your parchment on after a bake."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:28 PM
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That also reminds me of a certain rap artist that’s currently in jail for similar offenses. Who are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:53 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever come across someone who is so obvious in how their childhood trauma affects their personality while at the same time not attempting to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:36 AM
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There were. They didn't want to talk to me. So then you did have an opportunities right? Assigns me to a group of two women. They loudly tell the professor that so not want to work with me cause I'm ugly. What do you exactly think I do here? Nothing, because this didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:56 PM
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Personally I didn't. Like at all. There were some women at work but just +40yo ladies with husbands or kid, even grandkids. Sure, some jobs/industries are just naturally going to have less women in them. But outside of that, you never had college classes with any? Never got into a mixed gender hobby? My only option is a cold approach but I'm too inexperienced, too ugly and too short to even try. Okay well sounds like you got it all figured out then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:53 PM
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But I mean you've never had women in a shared space? Like a hobby, class, or work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:39 PM
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How would you not ever get an opportunity to talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:27 PM
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You have a social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:01 PM
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Wait, so your issue is that they didn’t want you spamming their sub with 5 posts on the same topic? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:55 PM
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I feel like you're kind of all over the place, and I'm not sure what point you're trying to get across anymore. How? I feel like my point is pretty clear. As dumb as pearl is, her audience size and rhetoric makes her a legit debate target compared to shows like "whatever" or "fresh and fit" that bring on random nobodies. Disliking her as a person doesn't reduce her impact on the manosphere or reach among online viewers. But at the same time, the way in which this has happened is generally a bad …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 06:57 PM
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Yeah, but then she gets grilled over questions regarding divorce or suicide, legit male issues that we care about She talks about these specific issues all the time in her content. It's not like they forced her to defend positions outside her expertise. This is how she monetizes herself. Which turns into anyone caring about those issues as an MRA looking like a clown. This is the unfortunate result of platforming clowns in the first place. It happens to every group. Most leftists just lump anyon…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 05:40 PM
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For as much as the left will remark all day every day about how grifters like Fresh and Fit make themselves look smart by only engaging with the dumbest people they can find, leftist media figures are widely guilty of the exact same thing. Pearl was an easy target. I disagree with how you're framing this because while it's true that pearl is not a strong debater(or a good speaker, or really good at anything she does), she's massively influential and much more of a representative of "her side" th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 09:11 AM
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I don't understand the analogy. Men can't have sex with themselves (well, they can It seems like you DO understand the analogy then. How is that relevant? Because you're not blaming those men for receiving it, only women. I can't have sex with them, as 95% are straight So you can't have sex with the 5% left over because....? I can't date them, marry them, have relationships with them, flirt with them or have children with them. You can do all of those things with men, what are you talking about?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:39 AM
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How so? Because it's like being upset that some random housecleaner at a hotel won't come clean your room lol When men and providing women with everything they want? Everything you listed is also provided to other men too. Maybe it's time for you to stop asking what women can do for you and instead ask what you can do for local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:32 AM
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I doesn't seem to be that way especially here. Typically when people say social media, they're talking about youtube, tiktok, instagram etc. But even then the only reason this place isn't also overrun with the same thing is that the mods very specifically remove that kind of content and ban users that push it. One of the mods has even mentioned before that they have way way more comments that violate the rules towards women than the other way around. Besides, women complaining about men is also …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:33 PM
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most partnered women expressing how awful, terrible and lazy men are nowadays (which you can find plenty on this sub!) are in way higher number than the few men who are not joking about hating their wives. Both are dwarfed by bitter single men complaining about women though. Like it's an incredibly profitable industry on social media if you can capture this audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:02 PM
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Having your money stolen results in men being made homeless, men killing themselves, men being impoverished, not to mention they're thrown in prison if they refuse/fail. The government: collects taxes You: GOD DAMNED WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:58 PM
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Men are resentful of women because they need sex and can't access it. That's an incredibly weird thing to be resentful about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:54 PM
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"You're talking to someone who's a fountain of misplaced rage. Name your cliche; Mother held him too much or not enough, last picked at kickball, late night sneaky uncle, whatever. Now he's so angry that moments of levity actually cause him pain; give him headaches. Happiness, for that gentleman, hurts."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:27 PM
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But that comment was an example of something you'd say to a woman if you could, in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:23 PM
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Are you like this in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:15 PM
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OP doesn't strike me as the active type.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:35 PM
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They said it would be a bonus, not a guarantee. Edit: nvm, you're a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:27 PM
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There's nothing uncivil about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:37 PM
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If you wouldn't have sex with them if they were broke then yes, it's prostitution. You hope for financial gain. Wouldn't the guy be a gold digger or sugar baby in your scenario? He's seeking a "provider woman" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:34 PM
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You need an internet break. I’m serious. Try to imagine saying that phrase out loud to anyone in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:06 AM
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Then why are you spending your time in a debate sub? Go live your life dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:47 AM
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Women are also raised to care more about what they wear than boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:37 PM
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It's not about looking attractive, it's about benefiting them in some way. Any hobby that only benefits him is looked at as "problematic" because how dare he enjoy something regularly that doesn't give her satisfaction in some way. The number 1 ranked hobby was reading. Astronomy and swimming were also in the top 10, so I'm not sure your theory holds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:10 AM
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Using video games (or any hobby) as a deal-breaker ignores what actually matters in a relationship. Uh no there are definitely some hobbies that are going to make being in a relationship with that person a hard pass for me. That's perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:01 AM
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A terminal case of male pattern blindness I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:34 AM
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You're implying young men should only focus on finding long term committed relationships No, you're not understanding that the word relationships means more than "long term romantic partners" Why should'nt men do what young women are doing and also seek hookups? Nothing I said is incompatible with that. You can seek hookups, work out, go to therapy, and foster meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:13 PM
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How does that change anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:00 PM
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I’m not talking about romantic relationships exclusively. I’m talking about friends, coworkers, family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:59 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:12 AM
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Again, they are doing that for THEMSELVES You're SO close dude. I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:18 AM
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Why should men put all this effort into being the well rounded, total package "Because it will help him build good coping skills for his mental health and long term relationships." Already asked and answered. What work are women actually doing on themselves Women also go to the gym and are already comfortable going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:11 AM
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Can't you even say what you believe? Is this hard? You didn't ask lol Confidence is complicated, a person can have all the support in the world, and experience success and still feel incredibly unsure of themselves. On the opposite side, there are people that by virtue of being so used to failing on their own truly believe they can do anything because they've survived. I don't think there's any 1 perfect path that takes someone from A to Z when it comes to things like self esteem. No, I cannot p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:20 PM
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Of course Glad you agree with me. Do you think that confidence and the lack of it just appear of thin air? Or do you agree it's a result of positive/negative reinforcement? So the way you're going to back up your original claim is to give me a false dichotomy instead of just simply explaining your point? Just pretend I picked one and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:58 PM
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Do you think that confidence and the lack of it just appear of thin air? Or do you agree it's a result of positive/negative reinforcement? I don't know that my answer would fall into either of your two options. Either way I don't see how that affects my question. I asked you to explain how cockiness, being nice, going to the gym and being in therapy are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:39 PM
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They're mutually exclusive, the set of experiences that created one person are diametrically opposite la of the ones that would create another. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:23 PM
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why should be bother also being a nice therapy guy on top of that? Because it will help him build good coping skills for his mental health and long term relationships. If literally all you care about in life is getting laid right up until your looks fade and personality suffers from lack of meaningful experiences with other people, then sure I guess OP does have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:54 PM
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Literally it does. It’s a lie via omission. Omission from what? You don't have a responsibility to tell your partner every single thought that you've ever had. That doesn't make any sense. If it's something your partner specifically asks about and you don't bring it up, or you don't mention it, then yes it would be a lie via omission. Why does everyone here not want to talk to their spouses That's not what any of the people responding to you are saying. You're taking an overly hardline stance an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:27 PM
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Not telling your spouse something doesn't mean you're keeping a secret. And some issues are better handled on your own, without any of the complications a relationship will add.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:43 AM
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If he can’t tell you everything, it means he is hiding stuff from you to tell his therapist and not you No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:12 PM
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You forgot to add “with me” to the end of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:04 PM
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What does physical attractiveness have to do with riding a skateboard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:52 PM
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I just saw a viral tiktok post How much do you want to bet that getting off social media will do more to improve your dating life in six months than anything you've done in the past 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:55 PM
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If men are drafted, then women should be drafted. This is called a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:39 AM
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Women are more likely to get hurt by their boyfriends and husbands, than lonely men. Men can't be lonely if they have a wife or gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:32 AM
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If you’re attracted to someone but want to get to know them first before asking them out is that supposed to be bad or something? Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:51 PM
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Ok, but women often assume that men only care about sex just because they want to have sex. If they think/feel that way, it's probably due to not feeling the other aspects of the relationship are being given enough attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:45 PM
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I've slept with several dozen women over my life. It wasn't all that. If you don't enjoy sleeping with women, it sounds like you might prefer playing for the other team.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:26 AM
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If you ever get a chance to do it you'll understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:55 AM
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Would you like for me to post some sheets Knock yourself out. First local case i found had someone arrested for being a felon in possession of a firearm and that was somehow dropped. You are so right You're phrasing this as if you're mocking the point I made but cases like that are exactly what I'm talking about. It's entirely possible they dropped the case because it was a bullshit arrest or trumped up charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:09 AM
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Im so sick of hearing about people that have been in and out of jail 40 times murdering someone. Being arrested isn't the same as being convicted. Most of the time you hear about someone being arrested 40 times, it was for random bullshit like loitering or causing a disturbance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:24 PM
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I’m still waiting on the supposed benefits of feminism for men You haven't benefited from the sexual revolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:15 PM
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I’m not a woman. What did it prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:33 PM
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It is when it's used to try to emasculate straight men that aren't getting laid. Do you believe being gay makes him less masculine or weaker than a straight man? If not, then how am I emasculating him? It doesn't take a rocket surgeon to realize that gays have more sex than straight couples. What does that have to do with anything we're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:31 AM
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Oh, so it's just a veiled "you must be gay" insult towards the guy. Gotcha. Beyond the fact that I know you don't actually care, being gay isn't an insult, so I'm not sure why you think that was my intention. I mean the guy literally said he wishes he was gay lmao Did you give up on your stupid cylon analogy or are you still workshopping that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:33 AM
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If I say I wish I were a cylon so that I would never die, does that mean I have some questions I've been avoiding for a while now? If it starts affecting your morals/ideologies? Yes. I mean just off the top of my head I'd ask why you're so afraid of dying? Or are you just incapable of understanding a hypothetical? I don't think it's a hypothetical is kind of the whole point I was making lol How would you feel if you didnt have breakfast this morning? It wouldn't make me feel like having sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:38 PM
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You're dumb men wishing they were gay has been around since women existed It's not magic dude, you don't have to wish for it. Live your truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:40 PM
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The issue is that most women are boring as shit. Even if they're not, hanging out with guys would be more fun in most cases. Every time I see guys in this sub say this, I genuinely wonder if they have some things they need to come to terms with about who they're attracted to but I try to avoid that because it's an assumption and probably rooted in some toxic ideas. But then 2 comments later you said I do wish I was gay. So...maybe you do have some questions you've been avoiding answering for awh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:38 PM
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Show me an instance where a guy raped a teenager wasn’t prosecuted with it in modern times NBA player Josh Giddey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:45 PM
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I don't think you replied to the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:33 AM
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What about it scares you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:00 AM
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Why does she think she deserves a specific lifestyle? This isn't unique to women. Everyone believes they deserve a specific lifestyle. Did her father brainwash her with "daddy's little princess" syndrome? I don't know what you're talking about or how this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:35 PM
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I honestly thought andrew was in his mid 50s. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:09 PM
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This usually happens when someone [woman] sees a guy [fucks a guy] for a week or two, catches feelings, and then gets upset that he didn’t. Suddenly the narrative becomes: “He should’ve told me what he wanted from the beginning!” You're describing a totally different situation from a 1st date. This is a friends with benefits scenario, which is perfectly normal to start asking about intentions. If you're comfortable sleeping with someone, you should also be comfortable letting them know if you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:40 PM
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Conservative women don't expect $100 dinner dates. What are you basing that on? Conservative women don't tell the man how much is the right amount to spend as if she were a prostitute. Is that really any different than requiring them to make a certain amount of money so they can afford a specific lifestyle? The man having a good job and being responsible with money to be able to provide for a family So they DO tell the man how much they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:24 PM
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Im not going to debate with a stranger about how many women I've been on dates with. You don't have to. But it's going to make it hard to believe anything you're saying if you're not willing to share any evidence that you actually know what you're talking about. what would be the point? Please tell me. I mean it only helps to back up your points. You made the post, not me. If you don't care about trying to convince anyone that you're right, then yeah you are indeed just ranting which means you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:07 AM
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Youre telling an alcoholic to hang out at a bar 247 and just have some willpower. Its not realistic Well no, that's not accurate because the bar WANTS you to buy drinks. Those women aren't trying to get your attention. A better analogy would be going to a block party. If you're unable to go without getting hammered and embarrassing yourself, then yeah you should probably stay home. However if you want to have a social life and see your friends in those settings, you're going to have to practice …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:24 AM
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How is that is an example of "men should never approach unless he's my type"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:41 PM
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Well, you don’t become ostracized or jailed for accidentally breaking a card game rule Pardner if you break a rule at my table you better skin that smoke wagon or be prepared to pay a visit to the undertaker to get fitted for a wooden suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:19 PM
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“Men should never approach me unless he’s my type.” I've literally never seen a single woman say this online or in real life. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:15 PM
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but even in the most liberal cities in n America it's still an expectation for the man to pay, or refuse to let her pay. It's much better and more egalitarian in Europe, if that's where you live. I'm in los angeles lol and that's never been my experience. Where are you that you're running into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:38 PM
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You can take it however you like, I don't mind. Isn't this a debate sub? lol Why post here if you're not interested in defending your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:42 PM
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If women largely paid for themselves, and even paid men for it, then men wouldn't have to think about it from a business side at all, now would they? I've literally never been on a date where the woman didn't offer or insist on splitting the check. Are you dating traditional/conservative women? If you are, why are you upset at them exhibiting traditional values where the man is the provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:39 PM
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Healthy ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:59 PM
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Men she loves, dislikes, likes. That implies there ISNT A RELATIONSHIP QUALIFIER. You have a relationship with your boss, your teacher, even your friends. It exists completely independent of dating. You can love your coworker or dislike your teacher and it would still be defined as a relationship. They always worked, got educated, etc literally in the Middle Ages. We have women like Abbess Hildegard of Bingen Abbess came from a noble and wealthy family and was educated through the church. The av…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:56 PM
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Women won’t change if men asked them to be nicer people to talk to What do you think the general reaction of men would be if they were told to be nicer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:42 PM
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and simultaneously, he maintains his high n-count Would you consider it hypocrisy if the man would sleep around if he could but can't (for whatever reasons)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:00 PM
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No, there's nothing moral about your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:57 PM
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It's not hypocritical because it is 10x harder for a man to have a high body count than it is for a woman. It's respectable because it is hard. If you respect guys for sleeping with a lot of women, you're 100% a weirdo. men have to meet a laundry list of requirements The whiplash of takes on this sub between men needing impossible standards to be with anyone, and women "always choosing to fuck trashy losers" is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:56 PM
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My point was just that trump didn't/couldn't pardon tate for anything since he didn't have any federal convictions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:18 AM
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No, there wouldn't be anything trump could pardon tate for anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:35 PM
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Kevin Spacey Not convicted of anything or brought to justice. P Diddy Only convicted of a lesser charge largely unrelated to what he was accused of and may not have to actually serve time. Epstein lol cmon man. As for R. Kelly, the video of him and a 15 year old girl first came out in 2002, but he didn't face any consequences for another 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:24 PM
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Were there any beyond Cosby Cosby didn't even face consequences either. He's walking free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:13 PM
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It works pretty well when She-who-Troll jam Elliot Rodgers down our throats 24/7 as an example of a man. I have no idea what the fuck you're talking about lmao Why is it different? Could it be hypocrisy an double standards? Seriously, what are you talking about? Nothing anyone said was related to what an example of a woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:17 PM
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They didn't. They used her as an example of a woman Okay? Then why are they just randomly providing an example of a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:26 PM
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“Ada lluch is an activist for anti-woke and anti-Islam causes, and a defender of the Franco dictatorship as a model preferable to democracy” Why are you using her as an example of a progressive/feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:54 AM
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If you're going to lie, you could at least try to make it believable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:47 PM
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They learned from women. Let’s not get cute here. Women do it way way way more. You think women call other women sluts and whores, "way way way more" than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:32 PM
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I don't see how that's possible, so I'm not sure what the point would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:56 PM
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Im not avoiding anything. I asked you a really simple question that you don’t want to answer for some reason. Is a fear of external enforcement the only reason you respect people’s bodies and rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:49 AM
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I doing think I can explain my point very well without it sounding bad There’s a really obvious reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:36 AM
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Is a fear of external enforcement the only thing keeping you from disrespecting people’s bodies and rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:35 AM
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Again, you don't need the specifics to just say something more substantial than what is normally given to men. You could give me every single detail of your life and I wouldn't be able to give you what you need in a reddit comment. You have to stop trying to shortcut life. Make some friends. if you care enough to give advice, why not ask for specifics? Give me some examples, what are some specific areas you need to improve on that I could ask about? Better to risk "offending" someone than again …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:47 PM
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No, it's the opposite. His hair is non stylizable lol why do you think that? Says who? I just said it. What rubbicon would he cross that magically would make him "attractive enough" that he were not before. Well he looked homeless before, and now he looks normal. Normal guys are "attractive enough" You have henry cavil that after superman filmings just stay at home vs asmongold improving himself, are both equally attractive? I'm not the one comparing them, you are lol. I don't think it matters b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:41 PM
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There's often not even a broad generic hint at improving appearance or dress. What would that even look like? "hey you should try and dress nice and make yourself better looking" I have no idea what you look like so I can't tell you what you can improve on. If you cared at all and don't know why someone's having a hard time, why not ask for more specifics before just dispensing livelaughlove-esque platitudes? Most of the time, it's because that kind of kindness isn't returned or appreciated. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:37 PM
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Nothing more pathetic than the people who spend all their time here You've been here for 3 hours straight and made 28 comments so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:18 PM
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How am I supposed to give you grooming and dress advice over a random reddit comment? That's why the advice is generic, because it's not meant to fix YOUR SPECIFIC PROBLEMS. It's just general good advice. We aren't quest givers that can tell you "go buy these pants and this shirt and say this Reward: 1 GF" This is where it comes back to women have been saying you need support networks for that shit. Friends, co-workers, platonic women. Those are all people who would be massively better at giving…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:12 PM
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Ok, pick Will Smith and tell us all the haircuts he could have and how better it would be. You think will smith has unattainable movie star hair? they have a predermined vision of what hair do you have, the flowy hair that moves with the wind like the ones popularized with rockstars like kurt kobain and axl rose. Is this a bit? What the fuck am I reading? lol He also would not be considered attractive He would absolutely be attractive enough to date. You're coping hard if you disagree. Looking b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:02 PM
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You're just jamming two separate issues together with no evidence. What's the correlation between rejection and suicide and how is it made worse with that advice? what do you think that leads to? Why would that matter? I'm not interested in personal theories without evidence. I could just as easily say the rise in male influencer culture is causing young men to feel worthless because they don't have the same success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:43 PM
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Stop thinking that every person have the hair of a rockstar. What are you even saying? If you don't have movie star hair quality it's not worth having? They do not, pick asmongold and give him the possible beard trim and hairstyle he can have and try to convince anyone he would be attractive. Asmongold lives like a feral ghoul. If he actually committed to taking care of his body and exercising he wouldn't look like such shit. https://x.com/Asmongold/status/1099548083849961472 You're lying if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:39 PM
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Men who do this are still doing things they don’t need or want to do. So it’s not them being themselves. Why do you think they don't want or need to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:30 PM
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The advice is laughable at best, dangerous at worst. Dangerous how?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:27 PM
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He picks up pros, there's a difference. It's all on stream. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:37 PM
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so a portion of mens matches might be bots? You should re read the comment you replied to because I don't think you actually understand what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:12 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:16 PM
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For example, a 50th percentile woman, ie, a woman who is of average attractiveness, generally speaking will NOT settle for an average man, and instead wants a man who is the top 5%, and will settle for a guy who is in the top 20% under the right circumstances. You need to stop treating dating/relationships like an excel formula dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:58 AM
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You're more likely to believe an example of someone you don't know and have no idea is real? ok My friend dustin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:43 PM
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How poor does the person need to be before you would accept them as an example of what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:49 PM
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It’s funny and ironic how progressives and blue-pillers repackaged PUA nonsense with trendy words like “rizz” or “aura.” Why do you think these are terms progressives came up with or popularized? If “rizz” were real, it would work regardless of looks. But it never does. What's your evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:43 PM
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Short, fat bald men never get identified as having rizz. Stavros halkias is the epitome of what you're describing and people love his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:40 PM
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That's not what gaslighting is. I've also literally never come across that. It's definitely not a mainstream opinion in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:27 AM
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Couldn't read the 3rd article, but the first 2 don't support your point at all lol Did you actually read them or just grab them because the headlines matched your google search?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:21 PM
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Because they’re women lol How are you struggling so hard with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:22 AM
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Why would you report something that didn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:14 AM
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If a girl is emotionally neglected by every adult she interacts with, resulting in her growing up into a woman with an inability to properly show emotion and an unhealthy relationship with her inner self, we do not call that "toxic victimhood" and blame her and women in general for the way she is. We accept that she has been hurt by someone and needs help. That's somewhat true for white women, but completely false for minorities, particularly black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:15 PM
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There's no option in the report feature, to select "lied about gender" Well yeah, why would you report something that didn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:05 PM
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I think they don't do this because then it would expose that a large majority of a certain group of people have a criminal record. Real subtle. I know I'm responding to a fake account but they don't do it because it's expensive and takes time. Same reason uber tried getting away without doing background checks on drivers. If they thought they could make more money doing it, they would. It has nothing to do with whatever you're talking about. Same how they have a height filter to filter out the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:03 AM
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it's not allowed here and I did report you for it. [This user has been suspended] Well that backfired lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:53 PM
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Then why is what OP is saying wrong to you? Because it's a bullshit point? Just because some women DO give verbal consent, doesn't mean they should have to, or that not doing so is causing the situations OP is talking about. Women are the main ones who use the bullshit known as "non-verbal consent." Get better social skills then, I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:01 AM
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Just because you’ve never heard a woman say those words doesn’t mean they never say them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:22 AM
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You don’t need to read someone’s mind to see them physically crying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:19 AM
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People may call me over dramatic but rejection does hurt especially being the person that’s expected to court, to have their life together to stay calm under pressure. The truth is rejection wouldn't be so devastating for men if they did a better job of fostering other relationships and resources for themselves. Too many men make use potential gf's as their sole source of validation, so of course it's going to be more painful when they can't find one or it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:08 PM
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Think of it like banning sex education in order to stop kids from having sex which leads to spikes in teen pregnancies, conservatives then blame kids having sex on rap music or library books. The war on drugs put a ton of people in jail for small amounts of weed and crack which led to less stable homes, more poverty and more crime/drug use which conservatives then claim we need tougher police to crack down on and the cycle repeats itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:04 PM
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Wait so abortions went up, and women dying of endometriosis and having unwanted children also went up? Who exactly thinks this is a good outcome? It blows my mind how conservatives can vote for policies that make the problem worse and then use that as evidence that they were right all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:40 PM
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How do you figure? You don't think it's possible to improve on either of those issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:57 AM
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They can’t control being autistic. They can’t control being ugly. They can’t control how only a small amount of women are willing to date them. But you can mitigate and work on all of those issues. You're essentially saying "if it's hard you're allowed to give up" which is true, but then why are they complaining about it? They made their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:08 PM
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I just want sex and arm candy so other men won't make fun of me for being a sexless loser. Can they still make fun of you for other things? But men and women can't and shouldn't be genuine friends. It's unnatural. Isn't this a bit like a person afraid of heights telling everyone it's unnatural to have buildings over 2 stories tall? Do you think cavemen and cave women were interacting with each other for anything other than reproducing? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:54 PM
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No, being shady makes him untrustworthy. Gaslight much? What do you think gaslighting is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:54 PM
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Have you considered it’s because you come off untrustworthy and obsessive in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:16 AM
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LA had the absolute most whack people taking public transportation. It's because not having a car in LA is a sign of way bigger problems. Mental, financial, legal, whatever. It's like not everyone who struggles takes public transit in LA, but everyone who takes public transit in LA is STRUGGLING. Way worse than the other major cities I have been in. Never let car companies have a say in how your city is laid out. Because they're going to put freeways everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:03 PM
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A photo of a woman sucking her fingers on the bus? That could just mean you live in los angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:47 PM
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