calorum Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. Cool story bro	/r/seduction	29/09/24 09:37 PM
5	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. Well aren’t you special that way… thinking empathy is a luxury ‘so put up with me because I said so dammit!’	/r/seduction	29/09/24 07:26 PM
-9	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. Right and if my grandmother had wheels she’d be a bicycle…	/r/seduction	29/09/24 07:24 PM
-10	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. Cruel? Yikes! It’s also called empathy, trying to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. It’s not rocket science and it doesn’t have to be about women/men it’s common decency. Your normal self may be insufferable for many more and other reasons other than trying to seduce someone/anyone.	/r/seduction	29/09/24 05:48 PM
89	How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks? That works too actually lol	/r/seduction	28/09/24 08:05 PM
-12	How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks? As a woman that dates women.. just eat it.. buy them a drink see where it goes from there. $10 is a small price to pay to see if you’re dealing with an asshole. It’s all part of the game Edit: if they come up to you to buy them allll drinks, that’s a little different. Meh! Go with the guys advice where he’s baiting them that he’ll buy them a drink but never actually does it	/r/seduction	28/09/24 08:04 PM
41	College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day Game You’re disgusting	/r/seduction	12/09/24 07:33 AM
12	I took a girl home after 5 minutes (She was hot too) Also no strings sex with someone from another country where you have as close to zero chances as possible in running into them again… that’s horny happily meeting together.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 05:58 PM
2	Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you? It’s the right answer. She does this when she doesn’t want you initiating / flirting any more too. All my straight girl friends have done this at some point in time and it was always because the guy did not get the memo, according to them.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 06:53 AM
10	Morally conflicted when it comes to seducing innocent/shy girls Don’t do it at the expense of someone else. Is there any flexibility to talk about it with her and possibly do things privately so that she can save face? Be mindful of the girls that will agree to what you say because they think they can change your mind. Be transparent with them and make sure your words align with your actions. Don’t bullshit them. In general, would you be a jerk because someone else is? Would you jump off a Cliff because someone else does? The guy’s logic above doesn’t make s…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 07:29 PM
1	How to not be so easy? Is this one specific girl you have a crush on or in general? Being the initiator means you take step 1, but by the sound of it you take steps 1-10 and it must be draining. Unless your culture is one where women by strict tradition are not expected to take any initiative, and are only meant to be indirect, you need to take a step back. Step 1 asking her on a date or wanting to meet in person. After she says yes, just ask what she likes.. goad her to think about the date and what time and place wo…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 07:23 PM
1	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym You sound like an idiot. You may socialize anywhere. Gym like so many others have said is a horrible place for pick up. Try that in Japan, go ahead. Spain… well ask the women in your life whether they went to the gym and enjoyed being hit on there.. you don’t like what you hear, that’s one thing. Still doesn’t make it okay. Listen to feedback.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 04:45 PM
1	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Agreed there’s definitely nuance involved.. your comment is much more reflective of that than the post. I’d argue the fact that the gym is not acknowledged as a space where seduction shouldn’t happen or where you may just talk to each other for exercise is a red flag. Personally I would want to see a greater variety of seduction tactics and practices than what’s available. These posts get tiresome and repetitive. I would really enjoy posts where we can sort of practice openers or wholesome one-l…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:46 AM
1	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym The problem is the poster has posted the exact same content before and it is toxic advice. The gym being offered as a place for seduction as a given and not an exception is just not good! Usually most of us have had unwanted advances and most of the time we wanted to be nice and exchange workout tips so the fact that we can’t do that without being a long game, having a seed planted, or whatever, is exhausting most of the time. Sometimes it happens of course but most guys will get this so so wron…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:13 AM
5	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym The perfect girl doesn’t interrupt me when I’m in the zone.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 05:28 AM
2	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Women don’t. Don’t hit on girls. As a rule of thumb leave them alone because they are focusing on their ‘appearance’. It’s rude to interrupt.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 02:43 AM
12	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Don’t. That’s the social queue creeps ignore. Earbuds and headphones is the number one indicator people want to work out in peace and to be left alone to do their thing. No approaching to get hit on.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 09:29 PM
2	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym In my 20s? Often and I’m wlw… I’m my 30s thank goodness none and now I go to the gym more often.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 09:27 PM
96	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Ugh this again. The rule of thumb will always be do not approach women at the gym even if you can	/r/seduction	03/03/24 07:02 PM
18	Why are girls blocking me after number close? It’s probably coming off as creepy. Creeps get blocks. Needy gets ghosted. You’re getting blocked too fast if your post is what we’re going with.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 04:42 PM
3	How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless? Ok! Here’s 2 things: Learn how to dance and you know do a gratitude list. What are things that you actually like about your life right now? Start keeping a gratitude list daily and write down 5 things daily. Do not copy paste that defeats the purpose. You gotta start shifting your attitude	/r/seduction	09/02/24 03:01 PM
12	What I attribute Success with women to Ignore him. He’s so self-absorbed with the ‘revelations’ he annoys dudes, do you really think a girl in her right mind would go for that? He is mansplaining it to yous. Preachy is not seductive.	/r/seduction	05/02/24 06:48 PM
13	Note** Always escalate immediately. It’s not about escalating immediately always.. this was a booty call. It was an in-person booty call. I think the lesson is ‘Learn to identify the booty call and respond immediately.’ Best of luck next time- it’ll happen you’re a bartender :)	/r/seduction	04/02/24 10:37 PM
3	How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls? Hmm I don’t know what to tell you maybe it’s how you two communicate maybe she’s not sure what type of guy you’ll be to her girlfriends. Usually for me these things happened naturally, like we would get a party / get together going and we would invite the people we knew and people would come. We just had friends showing up. Maybe she doesn’t want to be that type of friend and she’s an introvert. Your girl friend who’s okay to be your wingwoman or your extroverted girl friends are the best candid…	/r/seduction	03/02/24 08:25 AM
3	How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls? Are you friends with her because you want her to be your supply chain? This is weird sounding like are you actually friends?	/r/seduction	03/02/24 07:26 AM
1	My brothers want your advice . 1.how do you fully eliminate neediness . Why does it happen and how to completely destroy it . 2.how do you stop seeking validation Yuck	/r/seduction	01/02/24 09:05 AM
0	My brothers want your advice . 1.how do you fully eliminate neediness . Why does it happen and how to completely destroy it . 2.how do you stop seeking validation These are the wrong questions to ask. ‘Neediness’ may be just wanting to be close to someone and that someone is not giving you what you need. Validation for men is important -that’s my understanding-. They should figure out what they need and which validation is important and how they want to receive it and they should move on from those that don’t give it to them.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 09:05 AM
3	What are the best environments to find highly intelligent, witty women? You just sprinkle yourself everywhere in this subreddit huh? Can’t help but dampen the whole freaking mood huh?	/r/seduction	28/01/24 08:27 PM