calvinjoe12 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Where I stand?		calvinjoe12	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 04:20 AM

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2	MGTOW porn! This is what the MGTOW lifestyle will do to your emergency stash. I hope you’ve disclosed that asset to her my guy, let alone signed a prenup in general. Your own R-IRA will mean as much to you as it does to me with divorce	/r/MGTOW2	27/03/21 07:38 AM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. Genuine. Burning. Desire. Don’t get into a monogamous relationship/LTR with a woman if you’re not her first option. By definition, she’s settling. If she’s settling, she’s essentially, to some extent, “out of your league.” If you are a high quality man, you won’t settle for exclusivity with a woman you’re putting on a pedestal. You treat her like a celebrity, and she’ll treat you like a fan. A high quality man has options, and one will not settle for a woman who doesn’t have genuine burning desi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 06:00 AM
32	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? I think when it comes down to it, women would rather share an Alpha than have a weak Beta as their own. Since women all go for the top minority of guys (80% of the women go for top 20% of the guys) I don’t think it’s a stretch to picture a Polygamous society. Gradually over time of course. This would lead to an eventual destruction of society itself, since 80% of the men have been faded out of the SMP, are frustrated by not being able to advance their genetic seed, and lead to an absolute societ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 05:23 AM
19	You Are On Your Own. Yep. When people say they were delt a bad card(s) in life, and some even way more so than others- they’re probably right. But here’s the thing: You can either sit around and complain about it, or you can work to make yourself better with what you do have at your disposal, despite any limitations that may/may not exist. Could be a problem that you’re obese, you’re unemployed, you can’t get girls. Those are all things you can change yourself. Also could be the case you have something you can’t cha…	/r/seduction	23/02/21 06:16 AM
4	CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get. Women date across and up, almost never down. By doing all the things you just stated, they already limit their potential mate pools to such a small group of men. Then when late 20’s/early 30’s come around, the clock starts ticking. Women need to find a suitable mate to have kids before their physical prime fades, and that’s when you have 30-somethings asking where all the good men went.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 02:22 AM
18	Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)? Women see the standard, solid guy as being that basement bum. Hypergamy tells them they can constantly do better and never settle so 80% of the women go for the top 20% of men and you have many incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 02:16 AM
22	Things you can do to become more attractive Know yourself and own it. We all have our own little differences. What’s important is you own your frame and do what you want, women will be attracted. It’s not what you say but how you say it. I’m a funny confident guy (early 20’s) and often times goofy around my friend group. I can tell you that being this way establishes social proof via my female friends wanting to hang when were all out and it attracts girls that I would be more interested on an intimate basis with. Guys can be more funny a…	/r/seduction	12/02/21 03:18 PM
1	How to properly "fake it till you make it" to success with women Yes to both, and I felt I was at least on my purpose being in school and understood the long game of me being there but now without school but also not having full time work I don’t feel like a worthy man and women are the last of my priorities until that shit gets figured out, even casual dating.	/r/seduction	21/01/21 10:38 AM
3	How to properly "fake it till you make it" to success with women As someone in early 20’s, just out of college and in the job market looking for employment, I’m not comfortable talking to women in a monogamous sense until that area of my life is covered. Just a non-negotiable for me personally.	/r/seduction	18/01/21 11:41 PM
3	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? Women expect men to bend over backwards for them in marriage as providers while women are out of their prime (and as a man enters), but said females wont give same guys the time of day while she’s in her SMV prime during years before that	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 12:54 AM
1	Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"? Notice how you recieve the most success when you’re not thinking about LTR’s when pursuing women? Keep doint what you’ve done and when you’ve found the right one (wont know until you spend a large enough sample time with her), wait for her to bring up the “well what are we?” question and go from there...spinning plates is something you should continue to do if you’re having success generally with it as a single man, then you’ll naturally find the right girl without pursuing with that LTR as your…	/r/seduction	11/01/21 06:49 AM
0	The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to. Correct that first category of traits are associated with Beta and second associated with Alpha, of course there can be mixing and matching only 1/50 people you meet will be all of just one category but those are essentially what they’re alluding to	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 10:26 AM
10	The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to. The sheer fact that women subconsciously categorize men into two cateogories and picking and choosing comes thru a trade off in each is the inherent problem with dating in western society. Why the hell would any man who a woman deems as category one and “husband” material strike an LTR with a woman who is admitadly not sexully attracted to him and is with him for his “husband material” AKA pays the bills helps support the kids and takes care of her once she’s past her prime? (Note I know it’s be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 06:54 AM
1	Where I stand? Where’s the best place to start?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 01:01 PM
1	Do men care about a women's social value? Observe how she treats those who offer no value to her personally.	/r/seduction	28/12/20 07:12 AM
1	Where I stand? I’m not thinking about women, its that the opportunities have come where girls are giving choosing signals and the ball is in my court to fully engage but inherently i think this finishing school thing while looking for work makes me feel unworthy of being with people who have their jobs figured out. That’s where i think im overthinking it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 06:57 AM
2	Where I stand? For sure thanks for the advice. My mind honestly hasn’t been on women, like if the right opportunity arose then sure id jump on it but im not actively seeking anything. Ive just been at parties or with friends of friends and girls have somewhat been attracted to me so naturally i wanna hop on it, but just dont know if my current status in life would eliminate the pursuit or attraction they seem to have for me when they meet me	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 06:55 AM
1	Where I stand? How so	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 04:22 AM
2	How much does money matter to women? How much money matters to a woman by age? (This is a question)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 04:21 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Problem is “good” and “nice” guys seem normal in a guys’ own head when they’re trying to perceive one’s self, but from a female’s perspective they’re just one of the 8 other simps in a 10 man room. That doesnt mean the women want the “bad” guy, it means they want the indifferent dude with a purpose and isn’t putting her on a pedestal. 80/20 rule my frand	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:10 AM
2	How many of you still think the answer to all of your woes is changing women? Validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 02:03 AM
4	Do you agree with this? "Women look for men with a good future. Men look for women with a good past." Women care about the present for men and rate them as a prospect as well, especially women in their early to mid 20’s. It’s a plus if you’re good for them right now and yourself (LMS wise) right now as well, basically meaning set for the future too for those men. But you can also be good for women in the present and be a “prospect” for the future and they wanna buy low on you right now. For example, could be early 20’s don’t have a specific job right now or lined up as you’re finishing school, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 01:51 AM
1	I think I’m falling out of Love If you’re 23 years old working part-time and finishing up your degree online (bc of covid) is that still considered someone with a sense of direction and still grinding? In that same situation myself and in the back of my mind i know these things are an investment but i feel like a loser and not good enough when i see my friends same age with some big full time gigs out of school	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/20 02:30 AM
2	I want to make it easy to understand, so people just point to this image instead of counter arguing with MGTOW haters for days. So is MIGTOW’s arguement against marriage solely because of the legality issues that arise when a divorce happens?	/r/MGTOW2	10/09/20 03:12 AM