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| 0 | Best way to drill shit test/ball bust deflections?Did your question really deserve more? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Best way to drill shit test/ball bust deflections?Abundance mentality. She is competing for the #1 spot in your affections, not the other way around. Self assuredness. Keep challenging yourself to do things you're not comfortable with. Hard to be phased by some girl giving you shit when you've stood up to much more serious situations and succeeded. Enjoy it. If you're not having fun while interacting with women, you're doing something wrong. What are you getting out of her company? And, above all, keep raising your SMV. Would she say that to Br… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Best way to drill shit test/ball bust deflections?It's not a race to get your response in. You're the man and you take as long as you please to respond. In fact, a 'pregnant pause' while you smirk/chuckle to yourself can be the best response. You can watch her frame collapsing while she wonders why you're not taking her seriously. But, generally, the quick-fire response you're looking for just comes from having a IDGAF attitude. It's not really about muscle memory. You don't recall rehearsed responses - you just say the first shit that comes to… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 03:18 PM |
| 28 | UPDATE - Advice: My wife's weight and habitsI added that my income, my intelligence, and very soon, my appearance are going to make me quite valuable sexually and that I didn't owe her anything in bed when she refused to accommodate. Try to not explicitly state this. It's far more powerful to leave these things unsaid. She's already going to be well aware if it's true. No need to make yourself appear callous of boastful just for the sake of your ego. Or, even worse, it can make you appear insecure. Alphas don't need to go around advertisi… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 03:07 PM |
| 2 | "You cannot negotiate desire" vs. dread game?Your last sentence really could be out of a wildlife documentary. The more I read TRP, the clearer it becomes that we're all just apes who've been born in captivity and trained to beg for treats. But the animal instincts are all still there, operating under the surface. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 06:49 PM |
| 13 | Stop your moaning and bitching...it's unattractive.I've got a friend who is pretty damn ugly. But he acts like he's the hottest thing around and it really works for him. I used to model, which admittedly gets me pretty far, but his batting average is a lot higher than mine simply because he does not give a fuck. No matter what your disadvantages are, it's your insecurities about them which holds you back more than anything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | AF/BB and evolutionary psychology question: Looks should matter more than they actually do, right?What matters is dominance. The attractive male physical traits are all just indicators of social dominance. And if you're the only guy around, then you're the alpha male of the group by default. Alpha/betaness is all relative to the environment. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 01:30 PM |
| 3 | The Five Stages of Red Pill, and how to read r/TRP textpostsAbsolutely, go monk mode. You will not regret it. Focus on yourself, cut out all the distractions, and find a lasting sense of contentment that can't be shaken by external annoyances. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 09:44 AM |
| 5 | the art of warTo me, reading The Art of War drove home the importance of knowing when not to fight. It doesn't matter how justified you are, or even if you defeat your opponent. You should only fight when it is beneficial for you to do so. Machiavelli's The Prince is also a great read and teaches a lot about power dynamics and consolidating your gains. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Take a TRP SabbaticalThere's a bit of an anger crab-pot in TRP, especially lately. We have such a high proportion of anger phase users that it's difficult for anyone to move on because of all the negativity being thrown around. I know the sub is about hard truths and breaking fantasies, but we definitely need more reminders of how much better life is when you cast off the shackles of betadom. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 06:04 AM |
| 5 | Where does mental health problems such as Depression and Anxiety lay within TRP ideology?^ This right here. TRP has helped me more with depression and anxiety than any of the "poor you, just think positive thoughts" bullshit advice you get everywhere else. You've got to take control of it instead of living under the illusion that it controls you. Most of the time you feel depressed/anxious it's because of some stupid reason like you didn't sleep/eat well enough the previous day, or you're not on top of your commitments. I'll add diet, rest and meditation to your list though - those … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Severe oneitis. Virgin. Feel like all hope is lost for me, how can I recover?I'm with Jose, you've got to make your own happiness. If you keep looking outside of yourself for validation, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. You're probably also ignoring the things about yourself you should be paying attention to. What would make you happy in your own skin? Something that doesn't involve anybody else. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 07:31 PM |
| 93 | "You missed out"I like being a late bloomer. Self-improvement is more enjoyable with the schadenfreude of overtaking all the people who left you behind at the start. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 03:47 PM |
| 2 | "TRP is too nice to men, too mean to women. Waaaah!" ... the responseObviously sensitive enough to care more about being 'right' in the face of criticism than actually doing what's best for TRP and its members. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 12:14 PM |
| 3 | "TRP is too nice to men, too mean to women. Waaaah!" ... the responseI'm with you, but hey, this is TRP. A lot of people are here because they need the obvious pointing out to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Small Testicles and TestosteroneSoy milk is a really bad one. And apparently eating/drinking from plastic is bad too. I'm sure there are others, but those are the main two I see a lot of mention about | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Going to Myrtle Beach early this next week. First trip alone that I've ever made. I'm freaking out. What are some ways to relax and make new friends?Just get talking to anyone you happen to run into. With a view to getting to know people and having a good time. This will help you loosen up and get you out of the overly-analytical mindset. Also, I've heard tinder is good for anybody travelling. Just put that you're from X and in myrtle beach for a few days. That signals you're up for some no-strings fun and partying. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Small Testicles and TestosteroneRed meat, eggs, fish, pumpkin seeds, Brazil nuts - all give you components you need to produce T. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Small Testicles and TestosteroneWhat's your diet like? There's all kinds of foods which will help boost your T levels and also a few which you will need to avoid. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I've been a nice little beta my entire life and its gotten me nowhere except being disrespected, people attempting to manipulate me, being stepped on, not being taken seriously and more. That ends today.Thinking about it, it probably makes me seem less intimidating. I get compared to James Bond a lot when I tell people about some of the stuff I've done (like I've actually been arrested for espionage by the Russians and it only gets more unbelievable from there). I guess showing some vulnerability stops them from worrying so much about me being out of their league. Never appear too perfect. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Do it for yourself vs Do it for herDo it for yourself, or do it for her, the important part is that you're doing it. Sooner or later, you'll learn the hard way why it's not worth doing it for anybody else, but at least you'll be learning. Trust me, I did it for the girl and it doesn't end well. But now I know for sure that they're right in what they say. Do it for yourself and the girls will join the ride anyway. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I've been a nice little beta my entire life and its gotten me nowhere except being disrespected, people attempting to manipulate me, being stepped on, not being taken seriously and more. That ends today.True, there's an undercurrent of confidence there. The words themselves often aren't as important as the delivery. But I'm just pointing out that humility isn't always the most unattractive thing. Carefully applied, it can actually be very effective. And it can work person to person, I got laid the other day from telling a girl about how socially anxious I can be. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Men's Love vs Boy's LoveThis happens a lot less than you probably think it does. The vast majority of people want to be led. They don't want the responsibility, they don't want to take the risk and they don't enjoy the uncertainty of being unsure of their role within a group. It's a relief for someone else to make everything simple for them. Most people will tell you that they hate being told what to do, but observe their actions instead. Guys and girls alike will cluster around people who display leadership qualities.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I've been a nice little beta my entire life and its gotten me nowhere except being disrespected, people attempting to manipulate me, being stepped on, not being taken seriously and more. That ends today.Humility is the most unattractive habit ever. Men, please. Stop that shit. I used to write a column for a local paper. The usual topic was how useless I was at any given task. It was the most self-deprecating and beta thing ever (but admittedly quite funny). The number of times I picked up girls because they read that column was ridiculous. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 07:33 AM |
| 3 | There's no limit to how badly a woman will treat a beta. My best friend is the prize heifer of betas.I swear guys like that would actually live a happier life if they had their dicks removed. They could actually focus on things that would make them happy instead of this self-imposed torture. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 05:29 PM |
| 3 | How do you get back on the horse?Just remember how good it felt the last time you got back on. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | If I make eye contact with a girl and she immediately looks away, what does that mean?That's long enough to read her reaction. If you can't, then you're either not giving her strong enough signals (she reacts to you, give her nothing and you'll often get it back) or you need a lot more practice (and possibly to read some books on body language). Give her a big smile and a couple of quick eyebrow raises. Her reaction won't be ambiguous. It may be crude, but you can develop subtlety later. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 04:13 PM |
| 5 | If I make eye contact with a girl and she immediately looks away, what does that mean?It means she's uncomfortable. Isn't that obvious? The thing you should be wondering is: is it a good or bad uncomfortable? Is she shy, or are you doing something wrong? Chances are, if you're not getting any smiles or clear IOI back from at least some girls, then you're doing something wrong. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 08:12 AM |
| 2 | The Era of PityI would be a victim if i would just whine and not do anything about it. And without action to back it up, your comment reads as a whine. Especially with the rhetorical question, the exclamations and other emotive language you're using. Even more so when I believe the things you're complaining about either a) aren't truly being said by people on TRP, or b) have no realistic solution. I consider that OP advocates a little to manning up and not whining. And I would too. Feel free to have your views… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 09:52 AM |
| 2 | The Era of PityNobody here is saying you must input into everything you're told to. Just that you are only ever going to be valued in terms of in/output. With all due respect, it does sound like you have a victim mentality when you're acting so offended over something that /u/fjhlacrosse didn't even appear to say. better man up and help women for free Nobody who know the first thing about TRP has, or will, advocate this. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 08:54 AM |
| 2 | GF called me another guys name during sex.Before that night, I had a lot of feelings for her but now I just don't care. It's funny how awesome a feeling that is. Like you've won back something you didn't realise you'd lost. And RE: your other comment. I know a bunch of people in finance who spend their money on others because it's 'nothing' to them. It doesn't make you seem like less of a beta. Also, that money disappears quicker than you think if you're not careful. Keep that shit to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Need advise dealing with the girl's BS (high school)Funny how they're never interested in being 'strong & independent' when Chad Thundercock is in town. No, this isnt her excuse not to be with me it is literally her reason to not be with anyone. 'Anyone' includes you. She would move mountains if she wanted you badly enough. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Being strong gets thrown around a lot. How do you be strong (besides physically)?The others have made good points, but I'd like to add one that's important for me: preparedness & diligence. You have an emergency bag in your car/home; cash/gold in a hidden safe; you've learned skills you may never need; you're owed favours by a wide range of dependable people; you maintain the physical strength to escape danger at any moment; you always complete deadlines well ahead of time; etc. You make all these preparations knowing that you will never need many of them, but you assuredly … | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 08:26 AM |
| 1 | When you do find your unicorn, what will happen when you start noticing the age markers (wrinkles, sagging regardless of fitness level, hoarse voice, etc?)She's not my unicorn unless she's OK with me tapping younger ass. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 04:52 PM |
| 2 | I still hate myselfI mean yeah, you'll miss some time but just think about all the betas who never find their way over here. You'll be doing a lot better than they do. More than that - OP has the potential to overtake all the people he thinks he's currently beneath. Even most guys that are good at pickup and nailing tail at 20 are going to end up catching oneitis and being a miserable beta bucks at 30. He who laughs last, laughs longest. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 09:17 AM |
| 1 | What do I do about this "Time Ho"?It's all about value man. Does she give you value? Is there an exchange? Or is she simply taking? I have female friends, some of which fit your description pretty well, but they all give me something to make it worth my while. Make sure everyone (male and female) in your life is adding to your value. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who claim to never pay for dates how do you go about doing that?I don't want to rain on your parade, but you have to have a pretty damn high SMV to regualrly get free stuff from attractive women as a man. Unless you're going cougar hunting like /u/CommodoreSillyPants suggests, then going dutch is probably the best you can reliably hope for (unless you go for ugly insecure girls I guess). I get quite a lot of free drinks/meals from women, but I still have to pay for myself at least half of the time - and I won't brag about all my positive attributes, but I'm … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 01:18 PM |
| 20 | Shit Test: "I don't trust myself to go back to your place".That's not a regular shit test, it's a comfort test She was looking for reassurance that she wasn't going to regret sleeping with you. Your initial response was OK, but you messed up with the ultimatum - that's way too much pressure to put on the hamster. They need plausible deniability all the way to the bedroom. But she's probably not going to need much convincing next time. She must be wondering what it would have been like to go with you. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guys Don't Have to Finish LastConfidence based on a misconception of your true ability isn't really confidence though, is it? Surely that's just a less overt form of arrogance. Like a 3yo who says he can tie his shoelaces when he never has. I don't think you have to claim you would have found bin laden in 48 hours to be arrogant. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:11 AM |
| 4 | The harrowing tale of the beta about to marry my plateThat depends on the attractiveness and number of sexual partners of the camels. Edit: err.. or so I've heard | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 09:19 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill -- Public RelationsFrom The 48 Laws Of Power: Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness. Perhaps y… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/15 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Negotiate and spend like a proThe transaction isn't a zero sum game - but the money is. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:56 AM |
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