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No. But biologically speaking, you are trying to look into, hormones up->ape fuck, a lot more than you should. Trying to build a damn Bible around it. Like—it doesn't take a genius to figure out that if a man looks like he won't fall down and die after running 10 minutes, he's gonna be more attractive. Just like a half dead, half starved buck, is probably not the pick of the ladies. Or that if guy follows the very basic cultural rules around proper presentation in public, and has the cultural si…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 12:41 PM
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All humans have value. Either man or woman. If you're dealing with someone who thinks otherwise. Aka, a woman who weighs you agasit what you provide and are worthless otherwise. Or a man who values you for your uterus and beauty and youth. You're dealing with trash. Ego maniacs, and emotionally stunted people. Obviously. If there are people that think like that especially in positions of power. It does mean sometimes people are treated and valued according to their bullshit standard. But that's …
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 05:01 AM
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Men hatred towards women is invisible, which makes women's hate towards men seem hysterical.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/24 04:21 PM
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No relationship is guaranteed to work out, yeah you don't know right away or even for years, for sure for sure that they are a good man true and through, but maybe one day you have good day or a good talk or he treats you right for the 500th time or whatever and you start to believe it. Or maybe the same but the opposite, and all the love vanishes instantly, that's just the reality of taking a chance on people, to try and control it beyond using your judgment is just fear. Though like, if you do…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 01:18 PM
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I have no idea how many people my exs or current bf have slept with. I'm confused about how even you'd go around knowing that. For reference we're the same age, and I've slept with less people than you have, but still I couldn't at the top of my head give you an exact number, just cause I'm not there counting them in my head every morning. Statistically speaking women fuck less random people on average, so I really don't know where this paranoia is coming from honestly. Date who you like, don't …
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 04:14 PM
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Let's not pretend that just cause it's not redpill content, it's sacrosanct. We're still all loosers venting our grievances in anonimus forums at the end of the day. Sometimes you're gonna find cringe and just bitterness anywhere. You should use your own judgment and maybe instead of building it on reddit posts, you could try more holistic understanding of politics/gender/culture and so on by reading or listening to actual scholars on the matter.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 05:05 PM
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I think men who feel comfortable being out spoken about misogyny, tend to be feminists. I think most men don't like the red pill, but also, it's not a problem they feel strongly enough about to speak against, even on the internet. Most men would be like "I'm not like those guys" and feel good about that and not care more than that. A man who takes the time to talk about it might be more aligned with feminism, but not for sure either. In the end their views are so recessive, even not feminist men…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 08:32 PM
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Empathy can be practiced and developed. If you really want to change that, it will take time, but first of all, just simply block every single red pill related content, cause that is designed to make you less empathetic towards women. Secondly, every time you catch yourself having bad thoughts about a woman, try to think of a way to rationalize what she might be going through. Yes that can lead to an "over correction" but honesly rn, if you have trouble seeing women as people with internal lives…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 06:15 PM
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They both clearly have problems. They guys is definitely a "jailbait" enjoyer, which speaks for itself on his supposed character.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 06:19 PM
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At the end of the day, they only person you're really hurting is yourself. Let's say you don't harass women or are violent, literally the only who's loosing by being an incel is you, and your mental health and you future as a well adjusted human
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:20 PM
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Dating apps are basically a sausage fest. They aren't very indicative of women tastes (or men's) cause women overwhelmingly don't use them at all. It's a very small minority of single women who do.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:41 PM
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I think it's possible that if women are not that interested, it's likely you are not that popular with men either (maybe some close friends? Mean no offense, just spit balling), so I think going to places where there are all kind of people, many different from you, your social class or even ethnic background, might be healthier than looking up stuff in a book. As someone who had some bad social anxiety, I found it helped to get out, get my close friends or coworkers to go out even if I didn't li…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:44 PM
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Women always wanted men who pulled their weight, men always wanted women who could pull their weight, farming, hunting, building, herding, preparing food, clothes and child raising, you name it, women did it. All EQUALLY essential jobs for surviving. Now it's modern times, they bring in money, they decide, same as you, simple as. You want someone you can make obey, you earn lots of money, and get someone who has none, so she has to obey, again, simple as. Unless you are literally talking about p…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 07:03 PM
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Yeah we are still animals which is why, none of what you said makes any sense. We lived in communal tribes for most of our evolutionary history. This coupling of provider/provided makes absolutely no sense, when you realize no such dichotomy existed for most of human history. We lived together, raised all kids together and provided for all in the tribe so long as everyone did their part as well, that is how women or men survive, not by picking the toughest mf and clinging to him like a pregnant …
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 09:52 AM
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It depends on a the older man. I've met men between 30 and 50 who are rizzlers, but most are antiquated, sexist assholes and creepers that women don't like at all. Imo, for women age isn't such a big deal, unlike with men, who (on average) wouldn't touch a woman 10+ years older than them with a 10ft pole, unless it's just to fuk. Older men could also be more mature, more mellow, more calm in general (like old dogs, they don't have the energy to bite no more). So that's also something to like, in…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 11:57 AM
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You clearly see the world of women and men through the lense of red pill ideology. There is no selection to keep the "genes strong" done by women, women don't have high standards, men don't date down, it's not the fault of "high value men" that women have bad experiences in general. All of that is myth making, and it's ideologically driven bullshit. I'd try to look outside this realm to find answers to problems in society or in dating in general.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 09:51 AM
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I just sampled some, so my impression is very surface level. To me he sounds like a guy who doesn't take himself too seriously and uses graphs and memes as a comical device. His comedy though is just sanitized red pill shit, maybe without the racism and a more palatable goofiness. Definitely not as hateful as some. His targets are somewhat random, it seems he sees no difference between women who are themselves doing comedy, just harmless girl fun that isn't toxic, or girls who are understandably…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 01:16 AM
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I think that generally, men who want to be married are happier married, and women who want to be married are happier married. And men who want a long term relationship but can't get it, are less happy, as well as women who can't get it are less happy. But women are gaining an awareness, especially since they are free to experiment cohabitation with men before marriage, of what actual life with a man is like, so they are able to make more informed decisions which on average leads to higher sadisf…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 12:18 AM
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The short answer is that they hate women. In the sense that to them women should be subservient to men and look at men as leaders. So a woman should strive to make a man fall in love with her, by submitting to his authority and allowing herself to be lovingly guided in all things, and in exchange the man, will allow her to have some prizes, or be taken care of by him, to the extent of his rightfull judgment, and that such care, again, the likes and extent of which should be termine by him, is in…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 11:54 PM
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The thing is women who have worked on themselves, and their toxicity exist and they are kind of rare (just like men). But if you haven't done the work, those women will not choose you as a partner. The most insecure, anxious people, people with disfunctional attachment styles, people who have trouble regulating emotions, people with little sense of duty and responsability, people who choose to fight instead than talking... Those people if they don't work on themselves don't deserve to make the l…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 09:55 AM
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Personally I stopped using them because they are tedious. It's much more fun for me personally, to cultivate a friend group, go out to the same place for a month or more, see who the regulars there are, strike conversations and maybe if someone there is my type or we vibe, I or them, decide to shoot our shot. Instead of the endless mindless scrolling, uninspired convos devoid of fun, cringely and forced on both sides, stilted. And first dates that feel like a job interview. Or feel like an inter…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 12:57 PM
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You have been talking for a month or so. There can be 2 options. Either she like you only as friend, or she wants to see if you are a match for something more serious. Probably she isn't interested in a just a fuck with you. If a friend of hers or her brother or father or mother, could see this post and see the way you talk about her, you probably respect her even less than the guys who wanted just a night of fun. Women don't want to be a tool for men to loose their virginity with, they want com…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:33 AM
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Yeah it's very traumatic, and people respond in all kind of ways to it. I for example tryed to appease my assoulter when struggling or saying no didn't work. That is why I hate the just try harder narrative. I didn't "capitulate" I was just being assoulted.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 06:53 AM
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"split our duties and chores and bills" Splitting duties, chores and bills in an equitable fashion agreed upon by both parties, is not having a maid, it's just what equality looks like. Secondly, I don't plan to have kids, and want proportional ownership of our shared properties, proportional to how much money and time we have invested respectively. Plus if he married me after a cohabitation where he didn't find me sadisfactiory, that's on him. If he divorced me it'd be fair to do, but if I inve…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:48 PM
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My criteria for a good man to marry is someone who does not need me to care for him, he is autonomous at doing his laundry, proactive in doing dayly chores (even though we all have our cheat days for chores), someone who isn't offended (or think I'm a nag) when I try to bring up a plan to split our duties and chores and bills, and just simply takes accountability when he fails to do them in time, with like a simple apology. Secondly someone who knows how to speak to me or others without raising …
/r/MensRights18/10/22 05:04 AM
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Unless they become terrorists
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 08:35 AM
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I think the Heart with the bow isn't a romantic emoji. For example I use ♥️ only for my bf, dad family etc. While I use other variations (💙💛) for acquaintances, or male friends. That's just me though. Anyway ask her. Like, she is with you for a reason. If you need some reassurances once in while it's not a big deal. If she loves you she'll tell you that the emoji didn't mean anything. Or she is a lying cheating bitch, but it's you who has to be a good judge of character, if you really doubt her …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 09:09 PM
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My bf is ok with me randomly touching his dick. I am not. Since he cares about my confort, he'll pet my knee or rub my arms instead, and give me the sexy eyes. He gets more sex that way, I'm comfortable and happy I say it's a win win.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 06:50 PM
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You do realize you are on exredpill and not one r/extremeanarcokitty or whatever other dozens communist, anarchist communities there are in this site (some of which I'm a part of) It's not like OP would be reading theory if Hasan wasn't there doing his streams, and probably getting him out of the extreme right. Progressive left or not that he might be.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 09:48 AM
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Leftist infighting never ceases to be amusing.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 01:59 AM
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I don't have advice, but I can tell you my experience in something similar. Me and my bf were a month in hour relationship (now we are at 3 years and living together). I had planned a trip to visit my ex Bf, and all my other friend as well, (we had broke up the 2 years, prior but remained in contact) in another country. My bf decided to trust me for whatever reason and accepted I was gonna go and stay at my ex's place for 10 days. He was not happy about it and I tried my best to do everything I …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 07:14 AM
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Even if all women were submissive (which they aren't), it isn't an excuse not to practice safe, consensual sex. For a non sexual example, even though there are a lot of people who litter, and not littering will make your life a bit inconvenienced, doesn't mean you should follow their example. For a sexual example, even if there are women who have consensual sex where they practice submission and welcome a male partner who is violent (like choking, hair pulling or spanking), doesn't mean you shou…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 03:09 PM
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Andrew Tate for the most part spews a more extreme version of what those young men already believe. He makes them more emboldened. And the moderates can't effectively criticise him, because the base assumptions about women and men are still the same even if more benign and gentle.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 02:38 PM
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Or they've read too much hentai.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:08 AM
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Straight Men in general find women their own age attractive. Even if the average male might have a celebrity crush that is "young" or has really good skin etc. That is not representative of how they choose who to date. Men like women who have all the good character qualities that most people regardless of gender find attractive. If you are a good person there is probably someone out there looking for you. And even then life doesn't revolve around partnership anyway. At 20 you are a young girl st…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:08 AM
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The first line of defense against guys like Tate (AKA Abusers who target women), is women and girls friendships, raising young feminists, and women having a network where they look after one another, and stick up for one another. Men aren't your saviours, especially men who aren't feminist allies. Surround yourself with people who recognize the abuse of women, not with people who try to excuse it at every turn (aka, the average man). What scares most of all guys like him, are strong women, stron…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 05:40 PM
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My single father. He hated my mom, and never let me forget it. Everything even slightly inconvenient I did was because I got her "genes". Every time he was stressed over anything, even totally unrelated to our family, to destress, he would talk shit about her, and her other kids. It was awful, and veered a lot toward misogynystic arguments too. I think he was the cause why I later became RP and learned to sell myself short. Bdw, yeah I'm a woman, reformed finally as a feminist in my 20s
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 09:20 AM
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Maybe you mute yourself because you are also trash, and don't want to be called out? As a girl you are prob trash anyway, since you don't post statistics either.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/22 09:05 AM
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Anthropologists already widely study human behaviour, yes, sexual behaviour too. And unfortunately for the RP even "olden times" have nothing to do with what RP teaches.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 07:25 PM
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You know usually the women who divorce for the "right" reasons don't go shouting it out from the rooftops to the whole neighborhood.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 03:52 PM
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If you still think that hard working women, the majority of women, decide to uproot a perfectly fine and happy marriage, with kids involved, and having to deal with courts, purely due to their primordial pussy tingling for better dick...You are still deep in fantasy land.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:40 PM
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There is nothing inherently Hypergamous about women. Women in general have a partner that makes more than them (around 10 to 20% more), because men on average make 10 to 20% more than women. If a man looks for a vulnerable woman to marry... Unemployed (or precariously employed), housing insecure, an immigrant etc, gets her pregnant, it would only follow that she is dependent and reliant on him, that shouldn't come to a surprise to anyone. Studies also show that contrary to what RP believes, a lo…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 04:44 AM
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I can't really gloss over the Nezi propaganda. This hits close to "great replacement theory", unfortunately I know a quite a bit about such theory, and it's rooted in misogyny and antisemitism, and ultranationalism. According to this theory, the global elite, which are Jews who control academia, the media, and sectors of government, used feminism to free women from the benevolent control of the nation's men. Nazi men believe women should only copulate and procreate, with men of their own race or…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 01:00 AM
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"Single, and freaking out about it" is a sad look at any age. Jokes aside, instead of obsessively looking to love, cherish and love the people you already have.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 12:25 AM
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I would love to be given a chance! I'm trying to save up for a home, and those jobs pay way more than I do now at my factory job. I have been trying to get into metalworking industry, because they pay more, I've done some courses to qualify for entry level positions, but since you are required to handle some weight and there are loud noises, employers believe women aren't very suited for it. I would really just want a chance, to have that sweet sweet 15% pay increase.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:55 AM
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It's weird, cause most times those guy friends will be super cool and totally normal friends, but that 1% of the time you hang out, they will blurt out the most delusional shit ever. Like maybe you hang out like normal, maybe you have a shared hobby or just vibe over the same fandoms etc...then all of a sudden he looks at you like 👁️👄👁️ and says "you are really the most special woman to ever exist, you'll always be the one who got away to me". And in your mind you are like "dude? We kissed one t…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 10:23 PM
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I don't know, anecdotally speaking I didn't find a difference. Women who actively looked for a relationship usually found one within a year or so. Women who kind of liked being single, or where not looking to date anyone at all, weren't in relationship regardless of being thin, or being classically attractive.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 09:10 PM
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The way you talk about people and yourself is very concerning. You are looking at this girl through the lense of a number scale of her beauty, and you yourself put her as below average? Below average according to who? The guys who are in charge of magazines? As if they are objective arbiters of beauty, as if you should care even as single bit about some other dudes opinion of how sexy the girl you like is. I really don't get it...why you have to say all this dehumanizing stuff about a girl you l…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 12:02 AM
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Oks thanks that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:47 AM
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Did you mean of all (legal) ages, or just among the ones age appropriate for you. Just curious caus that is a very high number
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:38 PM
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My bf was like you at the beginning, jealous but in a toxic way (angry, upset,paranoid). He is still jealous, but he isn't toxic about it now, but it took 2 years, and it was very hard on me too, since even a hug goodbye can become suspect to a toxicity jealous bf. There is no easy way, but the fact that you recognize you are the one with a problem and not her is the fundamental thing to start from. It will be hard for both you and her, but hopefully if you give her enough other reasons to love …
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 08:00 AM
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Doesn't surprise me, it has been studied that men are happier when they are in long term relationships. While women tend to get sadder the longer the relationship goes on.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 07:35 AM
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Yeah and most women in the old days were victims of marital rape, so what that it happens to almost all people, that's what makes it worse not better or acceptable. Wouldn't have you preferred to be befriended and asked out instead of bullied by the girls who liked you? if you can, answer this. Should we allow boys to sexually harass girls in shool, by for example touching them sexually, calling them lewd things and other such forms of sexual bullying, bacause that is how little boys know how to…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:31 PM
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I don't think all male sexual desires should be encouraged...Cause as of right now, sexuality is heavily influenced by how we see women as sexual objects. So as someone who was constantly sexually harassed by male classmates since I was 10. We should have a sexual education that shames Rape of all genders against any other gender, and reinforces positives like mutual consent. Not just because people have to be told how not to rape, but also as you say to destigmatize all aspects of sexuality tha…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 05:54 AM
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As a woman who had the same journey. I discovered the red pill through the atheist YT rabbit hole. Mostly I just tought I ought to behave a certain way...that real men liked submissive cute women so I tried to fill that mold. I was never someone particularly assertive, so I fit it well. But being submissive and not developing healthy ways to establish boundaries you will get taken advantage of sooner or later. After having been hurt, and realizing those "men" I put in a pedestal as being smarter…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 06:43 PM
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Mother's day is insignificant, that is not a day you expect to be free of obligations. And is not a holiday either.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 07:16 PM
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Even to the point of having regional meetings on father's day weekend? They don't give a fuck. That's really your point of contention, come on get real, how can I take you seriously if your double down on such an insignificant thing
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 11:58 PM
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Jack and Jill of America, Inc. is a membership organization of mothers with children ages 2-19, dedicated to nurturing future African-American leaders by strengthening children through leadership development, volunteer service, philanthropic giving and civic duty. So like seems straightforward that it's mostly about women and their kids than fathers and their kids, probably because mothers are the primary caregivers. They have chosen this way to make a difference and help black kids, it's not li…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 11:20 PM
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I think it is you who is making it a war between black men and women. All of those issues affect different people differently depending on ther class, race, gender and sexuality. However you want to spin it, men and women well being, is tied together. They build families together and the bond they make hold the whole community together. If you help one live free of injustice you help yourself also, and they will also help you in return fight the battles that concern you. black women have fought …
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 10:48 PM
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Helping working class black women helps black men also. They are part of the community black men live in, if the people in your community receive justice then it's better for every one. It's not like feminist black women haven't fought HARD for the rights of black men either. Also I don't know about you but I can care about something even though it doesn't directly benefit me just because it is the right thing to do.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 10:10 PM
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I think that talking to women asking them how many times they have been assaulted, harassed molested and stalked IRL. Or just been considered lesser because they are women, blamed and controlled just cuase they are women. Can put a stop to the view some MRAs have that goes beyond "men are also victims in specific ways" to " women are a privileged class". Having sympathy or bringing attention to male specific problems is REALLY GOOD, going so far as to say that women are privileged is just reacti…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 10:05 PM
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How is that not a factor, if we concede that money is a factor in this disparity which no study that I found concluded. You still have to split your assets and if she can't earn money that is also a factor in ruling alimony, since her earning potential differnce, which is the biggest factor in alymony allocation, is literally 0. (Bdw the study I read used education level as a variable which is a big predictor of wealth and they didn't find it to be a significant variable) The earning potential o…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 08:44 PM
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If money is the incentive, wouldn't it also make sense for the men to stick around because they don't want to pay alimony to a sick wife. Even if we concede that she has to gain from still being married to a sick man, he also has a lot to loose if he leaves a sick woman in terms of money. Why is money the deciding factor for women and not for men?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:47 PM
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Is redpill short for the human centepide of shitty ideologies? After all you consume, digest and subsequently excrete the ideological equivalent of other men shit.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 09:30 AM
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FYI women are significantly more likely to support and stick around when their husband is facing a life threatening illness. TRP is BS, you need to be blind from both eyes to believe it.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 09:24 AM
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After an abusive relationship, I took 2 years to heal, I prefere this term to "working on myself", the working on myself part came after the healing, which was just being surrounded with family and love and cutting ties with all the people who reminded me of him. After those 2 years, I started to come out of my shell again, I hanged with new friends I met through work, one time I went to a dinner with some mutual friends, and one of them held me against my will, and groped me, even after I told …
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 07:00 PM
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It you go out with a pink dress on, homophobes, male and female will find you revolting. And if you would be physically assaulted or killed for it, 9 time out of 10, it will be a man or a group of men doing it. If you bench press 200 pounds a lot of people will be impressed by it, and some women find physical strength and the physique that come from it attractive. I don't know if you have discovered hot wather with this take. I still don't know what you find so abborring about my gender, or abou…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 06:21 PM
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I don't know about other women, but I've always had sex because I wanted to touch hot nice soft pecs, butts and lips, and be filled by a warm velvety wet cock.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/21 11:37 PM
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Alright, we should teach to require everyone enthusiastic consent to everyone. And that coercion, nagging, peer pressure and emotional blackmail don't result in consensual sex, or sex adjacent activities. I'm fully in favor of teaching every single kid of every gender or sexual orientation that.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 08:34 AM
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"Not being a manipulative, emotionally abusive asshole who ignores consent cues to his own benefit make it harder to get my dick wet" some asshole disregarding feminist analysis.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 01:12 AM
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A load of nonsense, most people date someone of comparable income, and if anything women sacrifice their income to look after kids, while the men can go forward and earn more. I think the red pill gives loads of excuses as to why when you abuse women, you are not really abusing them. Cause women want to be dominated, are irrational, are excited by rape, or play hard to get, are turned off by being asked for consent etc etc... so as long as they make excuses for raping people, I don't care what t…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 10:44 PM
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Cause he said that if a woman wears makeup at work and then gets harassed she is an hippocrate to complain about it. This is just one of many absurd statements he has made.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:34 PM
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It's not like a torn work of art is always fixed either...or an item of high fashion when it's not fashionable anymore.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 07:06 PM
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I think that by implementing better tax spending it'd be partially possible. I believe that children shouldn't impact your possibilities as much as they do now. Kinds are a net positive for humanity, and they shouldn't be the burden of just 2 people, or left to starve and with no help regardless of how many people wanted them, if 2 people or none. So by redistributing the child support of really wealthy parent that honestly don't do nothing to deserve 20 000 dollars a month or more for child sup…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 08:49 PM
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There is evidence of a growing number of men, who avoid women in the workplace, avoid being one on one, avoid mentoring women. This hurts women. Being sexually harassed by your mentor also hurts women. Sexist men will be sexist no matter what, now at least they are more afraid of consequences. Wouldn't want to be mentored by someone who is "afraid of women" anyway, cause he doesn't think women are rational if he is afraid of being falsely being accused.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:26 AM
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Little things, if a person is very sensitive to every minor joke. If guy fake laughs, or is very outgoing, but treats you like NPC. When a guys goes out of his way to nit pick at you and nag you, especially I he does it as a retaliation for something you said previously. Men don't realize we can pick up why you do things. When you talk to me I'm 100% present, I notice if a harmless joke hurt you, if you are giving the side eye when I talk or touch another man, if You flirt but ignore all the sub…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:09 AM
1

Cause they have a lot of our art in their museums, like the Mona lisa. We compete a lot on food exports, like wine and cheeses. And we think French people think too highly of themselves. Are snobbish. But it's mostly just a friendly banter, not actual hatred. Even if the "Covid Pizza" stunt they pulled in March wasn't really the best, made fun of Italians cause we were the first to get Covid.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 06:31 AM
1

Bdw Italians hate French people Jk... Anyway, if I ever came to the USA I want to go to all the fast food restaurants chains in existence! We just have like 4 or 5 chains in the whole country.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 10:18 PM
1

I think every one is slightly an asshole because of the culture, I don't believe there are people who are immune to it. Some people though are just so nice and good intentioned, they learn a lot faster how to be better, than other people. But there is always something new to learn, or probably more accurately, unlearn.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 10:16 PM
1

I'd you go to female spaces they don't whine about doors. They don't care about doors, they are not making memes " a guy opened a door for me today! How insulting" it just doesn't happen. Or "a man payed my dinner! Such disrespect" it's more. "A guy opened a door for me, as a way to begin flirting and when I didn't play along, he called me a cunt" or "a guy offered me a dinner, and said I was gold digger when I didn't call him back for a second date" And I'm sorry about your experience of sexism…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 09:58 PM
1

To be sympathetic you at least need to known the basics of it. If my experience has any value, over all, non feminist people don't know even what sexism is or why it's wrong. They think that having a pay gap for women isn't sexist. Would be like the "sympathetic " white, thinking the higher incarceration of black men isn't racist...like cool sympathy dude, you can shove it up your ass, lf it amounts to just that. (Talking of an hypothetical non feminist dude, not about you in particular)
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 09:12 PM
1

how do you become a better partner to women? If you were a white guy, courting a black girl, it'd be a given that you have to learn about racism. Same thing you want to date women you have to learn about sexism. So that if you go ahead and touch that natural afro, and she acts pissed, you don't pass it off as "whatever" cause you've done your homework on racism and you know you don't touch black girls hair, full stop. But if you didn't do your homework, as a white clueless guy, you think "it's n…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 08:41 PM
1

Each one of us, has their own history, anyway, generalizing that women want to be treated badly seems creazy, not true and conspiratorial. What most women want is to be happy and fulfilled in a relationship and that can never come from abuse, even if some women don't leave, or have been damaged by trauma so that they seek abusive men out, those women are not actually happy, and will never be.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 04:32 PM
2

I haven't had this experience with the women in my life. I've had women though that thought of themselves unlovable, so they paired with guys who were toxic cause in their mind anyone better would "surely leave them if they got to know them". Talking to girls around my age (20/30) my first comment lines up with my experience, with mentally healthy women. The damaged by trauma women are a story of their own...the girl that behaved like I wrote above was in a violent home growing up.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 02:08 PM
14

No I don't enjoy to be treated like shit. In my opinion, red pillers are so afraid of girls that to deal with their social awkwardness they end up either being overly polite or overly aggressive. They can deal with the anxiety only by putting women on a pedestal and doing EVERYTHING in their power to have their approval, or they have to see them as inferior beings and try everything to subjugate them. So it confounds them to witness a guy who simply accepts that some of his jokes will land and s…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 03:47 PM
8

That is BS, by that argument, a morbidly obese woman should be able to shag the likes of Christiano Ronaldo just because she put on make up? Make up and a dress and suddenly every woman is attractive? That is some stupid bullshit right there. Thin waist, big ass, thight tits, long legs, no sags, no cellulite, no stretch marks, a baby face and calls you daddy, that is the attractive woman for the Adonis man you are comparing yourself to. But it's an exaggeration as well, not all men will never "s…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 03:28 PM
5

Men: women take forever to get ready. Also men: women just have to do the bare minimum of human hygiene to be attractive enough to get a man.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 10:56 AM
1

Yeah, I think both men and women are brainwashed to not think about consent. As a woman I was pressured since I was a kid to indulge other boys who had a crush on me, kind of like a game. A boy if he came up to me wanting to dance or have a hug or a kiss on the cheek I was incoraged to give it as a sort of "cute and kind" thing to do, especially if he brought a flower or a piece of candy. It was just "awww, look at those kids playing at being adults" but then as grown ups they are shocked if a g…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 04:42 PM
2

I've observed that in a group of any kind there are different people, some are more exuberant and maybe are more likely to jab and joke by roasting their (male) friends. There is the guy in the group that is more quiet and soft spoken and maybe it takes little to make him uncomfortable, feels left out a lot etc. On a first impression that is to me the weak and strong dichotomy, and as far as attractiveness goes, it doesn't make me go in neither direction. High insecurity isn't attractive cause i…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 02:34 PM
3

How would recording sex amount to proof it was consensual exactly? You can't prove you didn't blackmail her, you didn't coerce her under the treat of violence. What would you hear exactly? "Some unnnn,haaa" don't prove anything. In my humble opinion a conceraning amount of men are way too comfortable insisting a lot after a woman sais no, touching without asking first, or treating women's body without respect wether it's during sex or on the streets. Ranging from painful sex to catcalling. Fortu…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 10:23 AM
6

I once met a PUA guy on tinder, nice enough date, home made beer. He was driving me home and I wanted to stop to buy a glass of water. He instead A LOT to have the glass at home, so after a while I said "ok, but I'm just getting a glass of water and then going home". We arrived home, and he put on music, then tried to dance with me, when he started to touch me (bear in mind we didn't even kiss or anything) I got a way, and asked for the glass of water again, we sat on the couch, I was drinking t…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 09:40 AM
1

There are condoms, STD checks, and all kinds of contraception + abortion.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 06:19 AM
4

In my opinion women are to a degree more picky. 1)cause a lot of men, don't even try to look good, like mental energy spent on such a task is waaay lower compared to women. 2)cause women don't always or ever ogasm during sex, and at one time they probably experienced painful sex or humiliating sex with someone who didn't care about their pleasure. So they are not really desperate for ANY kind of sex, it has to be at least plesant. 3)because if they go out with a lower status man and they do it c…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 12:42 AM
11

Some masculine rings, maybe an earring, a couple necklaces, some bracelets. (You know they sell jewelry made especially for men) An expensive perfume is also nice. Wearing a shirt and nice pants once in while to impress. Honestly women go shopping cause only by going shopping and trying out new things you can develop some taste for yourself, it's not just some stupid thing stupid girls do, it's actually useful. If you don't have a personal taste, then anything you'll try will be banal. Sorry for…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 12:16 AM
6

Instead of being mad at the handful of women who have had no other choice to achieve a life long dream, but to submit to the exploitation of men more powerful than them. Be angry at the society that doesn't make women succeed based on their talent and intellect, a society that wishes to exploit their bodies through sex and coercion.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 05:11 PM
-9

A man being strong isn't toxic masculinity. It has never been used as an equivalence. Toxic masculinity in a strong presenting man, might be if he denigrates or devalues feminine men or feminine approaches to solving problems as beneath him.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 03:04 PM
3

In my experience when you get tinder, you are only showed the most hottest guys first. So as anyone whould do, swipe the hot guys first. (keeping in mind that as a thin, cute enough young woman, I can get many matches). If they show me lost of guys, many of which are model level hot, the average ones would look invisible by comparison. But if the same invisible guy and I were to hit it off cause we have a mutual friend, or we chatted in line or something like that, I would be interested in that …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/20 11:35 AM
2

In my experience and opinion platonic friendships can work, only if both don't want to take things further. The occasional invasive thought might be somewhat inevitable, but if your intention is to not fuck this person, even in the event that she would want to fuck you and is coming on to you, then you can genuinely be friends no matter the gender. As a busexual, all my friends are people who I wouldn't want to have sex with, for an array of reasons, from the lack of sexual attraction to persona…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 11:34 AM
2

Not really, cause I haven't found a person who I trust enough, or if I trusted them, it didn't turn out as arousing as when I read about it. Over all I have more realiable good sex when I control the situation, when I'm active and not passive.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 06:00 PM
3

I like to have a plot in my p*** that's why since there aren't many p*** vidreos with a plot to get emotionally invested, at least with rape fantasies you can get some sense of tension and conflict. I usually just read the FanFiction or erotic novels and if they are really good that prefer a romantic story with adventure and conflict.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 04:29 PM
10

Are you counting is this "people who were never redpill" also people like me, you you wouldn't tell they were redpill just by post history, or are you counting only people who have admitted they were never redpill? Cause I don't see too many here who have said that. Even in R/teenagers not all are teenagers, that that is why they have user fairs. We could have userflairs for redpill stages, like. "Newly bluepilled" "Detoxing" "Feminist ex-redpiller" Etc...
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 02:21 PM
15

My post history is feninist, but I was deep in the redpill for 3 years, now I have recovered. Being Ex redpill doesn't mean being redpill-lithe. I don't have to give credance to redpill ideas to be an ex-redpill. Edit: If you want something where there is a mix between redpillers pushing red pill stuff and normies/feminists trying to debunk and vice versa, maybe try purple pill?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 01:32 PM
2

Women can be monogamous, but, people are complicated. Who starts the divorce says nothing about who was the most at fault for the relationship ending or why it ended. I suggest watching a YT channel called "live abuse free" if you are interested in psychology, and phatologyes that make people of all genders toxic and therefore not able to sustain a long term healthy relationship. If a healthy long lasting relationship is what you are looking for I suggest you start to educate yourself on what mi…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 04:19 PM
1

I can tell you as a woman, that women feel love. There you go, here's your proof. Even if a majority (which is still debetable) don't buy as many gifts for their partners as men do, it is not an indicator of how much they give to them. They can be confidants, they can be caregivers, they can be support, they can be planners, they can be affectionate and sweet..unless you are a materialistic person there is no reason to hold "gifts" as proof of love. Maybe try looking beyond the classic "middle a…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 10:57 AM
1

That is, if they wa t validation from men. In fact some do it but not all.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 10:48 AM
1

Cause they don't get the physical pleasure out of sex like men would, and from cause hookups they don't get even the emotional connection that might motivate them to pursue more serious relationships, which they also can't get course they are ugly.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 10:47 AM
25

Heterosexual sex very rarely leads to an orgasm for women, so what exactly are ugly women getting out of casual sex, but being labeled as desperate, easy, and slut?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 11:55 PM
6

You can look at many different authors, not only Robert Greene speaks of power. It is still a useful tool. Just branch out as well. I haven't personally read Robert Greene, but I was briefly following someone who held him as gospel, and while I found useful tips, I also found ideas that were toxic to me. In general a quiet disregard for the idea of peace and a idealization of conflict and domination. Not in a violent way, just a preference of one over the other, while for me, both are virtuous. …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 05:03 PM
36

Don't forget all the times people, punch walls, doors, throw objects to the ground cause they are angry. Not all men do this buuuut...then don't say that women are particularly histerical compared to men.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/20 10:12 AM
12

The red pill doesn't tell you the complexities of being a woman, if anyone could, you'll need to read endless books un humanity. We women can do some things right and some wrong, understand some and some not, but that is not even just between men and women, it's the same between people in general. Women are attracted to all sorts of stuff, just because some women are with a "thug" you can't understand her and his specific dynamic and what those women get from them. Or why some women are attracte…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 11:16 AM
1

Thanks, but I don't want to find him, if I have to give this one up. As far as I am concerned, I would love it if no girl existed for the type of guy who cared about body counts, but since they do exist I hope you find her.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 01:28 PM
1

Beside the (ex) Bf thing, all other examples came from girls who I am friends with, not men who did this in hopes of sleeping with me, so it's really just a way of being. The first problem with that is that I get called mysogynistic, sexist etc. The second problem is that I can't find girls who have the same values, which leads to loneliness, depression etc. This is the type of stuff I was referring to when I said you sounded insecure. "People don't like my opinions" " I'm depressed and lonely b…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 12:55 PM
1

It has really nothing to do with opinions, it's just the way you talk that makes me think that. This post came off a bit whiny to me. Other people come off as insecure for their own unique thing, for example, they'd be talking and looking around for assurance that people are enjoying their story. Will not say if they don't want to go in the place you suggested, and it's up to you catch that and read their mind as to make them comfortable. Once you get their trust they are basically super attache…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 10:50 AM
1

I'm not talking about an extreme, housewife vs chad rad fem wearing a strap on. Just little things that most women do, maybe because we are socialized that way, to acquiesce to the wishes of our partner more ofthen than standing up for our own, but since we do put ourselves in this vulnerable position, the ones who already have life experiences with abusive bfs, have the farsisight to stay away from insecure men, because it takes a big emotional tool to cather to the emotional needs of an insecu…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 06:38 AM
1

I'm not talking about an extreme, housewife vs chad rad fem wearing a strap on. Just little things that most women do, maybe because we are socialized that way, to acquiesce to the wishes of our partner more ofthen than standing up for our own, but since we do put ourselves in this vulnerable position, the ones who already have life experiences with abusive bfs, have the farsisight to stay away from insecure men, because it takes a big emotional tool to cather to the emotional needs of an insecu…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 06:38 AM
8

Hahaha, I lost count of how many married men tried to get it on with me just in the last month. Women cheat more? Maybe they are just more successful at it, but then men pay sexworkers for it instead. Anyway, you sound way too insecure about yourself. Like, I'm not "kind of average but fit" I'm "hot" period. so is my bf. People tell me he is cute but average, but he thinks he is the hottest person in the room, that's because he likes himself inside and out, alfa. Like, traditional gender roles, …
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:13 PM
2

Poor people have it harder. No wars but class war people. A poor on the streets immigrant prostitute has it worse than a white middle class incel, who himself has it worse that a millionaire 20yo Instagram model. A poor single mother waitress, housekeeper, has it worse than a middle class ex divorced cucked beta in his 40s who has it worse than a divorced trophy wife of a wall street executive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:33 PM
4

That's why I put "high earning" alongside cute as requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:36 AM
7

I don't even know what your comment means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:53 AM
13

You know there are a lot of men out there, like A LOT, a moderately famous person isn't even restricted to the normal poll, like a small town girl. maybe not too many high earning, cute guys would like that, but there are cute, high earning "freaks" or "queer" (as used in the sense that they have lifestyles or values outside the mainstream) guys that will be more happy with another "freak" woman, such as a prostitute,instead of a young Angela (from the office) who'll probably police and hate his…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:48 AM
1

As if men want a woman who is 100% sensitive... you want to be able to discuss things without the other breaking down all the time. You want someone able to take criticism. You want someone who'll have the courage to speak to you when he has something to say. You want someone who is able to deal with his own emotions in a basic sense. That goes for men and women alike, people don't want to date children. But a man who cries at movies or is moved by injustice or struggles with harsh environments …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:15 PM
1

Dating it's hard, there are always some compromises, but there are out there people who love you for who you are, first thing is show and tell people who you are, then the people who like that will remain. Maybe. I also struggle with being a feminine woman who yet behaves in some stereotypical masculine ways. Like I enjoy pampering a man with gifts and making him look pretty, and dominating, emotionally I'm independent, don't require much maintenance. But I find you have to open your hearth and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:48 PM
2

If he wants a relationship he has to be honest about it, cause if he just goes limp for over 30s then he knows that when she hits, he has to leave, don't know how many 20 something women would then agree to date him and waste time. Maturity is a factor in a relationships'equality, maturity is the perpetual growth from child to self actualization, self actualization gives a person power, so regardless of the aesthetic aspect, if you pursue this type of relationship you have to take real steps to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:17 AM
2

So I didn't think to be a high body count, but as reading your comment, I am happy to say that I am, so I can respond. Every guys is different. None wanted the exact same thing from me, I didn't want the exact same thing from each of them, a small amount of times I got some feeling, and I regret not investing instead of moving on. All other times, some where unpleasant people to talk to others were plesant people, some just plain weird individuals. The ones that I liked wanted something more as …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:46 AM
7

They don't know how to fuck, like literally don't know, it's like teaching a child how to do a cartwheel, it's fun in a way, but you aren't getting a cartwheel that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:28 AM
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