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Social media put us in a trend of hyper masculinity and hyper femininity, so we can stand out and be celebrities in our own world. Being tall, muscular, and overtly masculine with facial hair were not nearly as heavily desired by women 20 years ago. When you have these masculine strong qualities, she knows her picture with you on social media will make her look more feminine in comparison. Before this male trend being a clean shaven, sharply dressed metrosexual was popular, men were more flamboy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:11 PM
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Let’s just say this is half of single women. Guys don’t know they exist, it’s not the girls we go on dates with or meet at events/bars because they don’t do that. If she’s gone years without sex guys might recognize her as a sexual being. The single girls we know that exist, I don’t think they would go 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:12 PM
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Every girl I’ve hung out with socially and their girlfriends. Girls on here are like just me, my cat, my vibrator that’s all I need for a decade. I don’t think they’re lying I just don’t interact with any of these girls to even know that would be the case. If that was their attitude I likely wouldn’t ask them out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:08 PM
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How do you go 4 years without some guy asking at least for drinks, do you just not put yourself out there like that at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:03 PM
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I would think it could be up to 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:01 PM
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If your looksmatch with good job says let’s go bowling and you know he wants you, do you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:00 PM
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What percent of single girls in their 20s do you think have gone 6 months without kissing a guy and just happy with themselves and their vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:48 PM
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It’s hard for guys to quantify what part of the single market are girls that we don’t know exist. It’s a lot of girls, but we’re mostly meeting girls who go out and go on dates so it’s kind of irrelevant to talk about the girls that are okay going years without getting romantic affection from a guy. We don’t get exposure to these women or think about it because they’re not giving any choosing signals or posting their butt on gram for us to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:46 PM
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To me attractive men is relative to their market. Chad or handsome man with Ferrari is usually 8+ girls. An above average guy with good career who’s smooth is 6-8/10 girls. Then there are obese ugly guys that got swag and hit up the femcels. When I think about the 80/20 rule I don’t think it’s all the same types of guys. It’s the 20% of guys that are satisfying the casual single girls market as a whole. They are attractive options to women in their range.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:33 PM
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These types of people are so hard to find in the singles world, because they are almost always taken. Escape the world of dating around. These girls that I know that hop from relationship to the next don’t sleep around much either. Seem to make for better partners from my perspective as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:27 PM
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You’re going to have to explain this more, I know many guys that go long stretches without affection. If the girl is any type that would go on dates, she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:20 PM
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Unless she just really wanted to get with that particular guy and was fine with it being casual, I think women regret giving affection in hindsight or sometimes as it’s happening in the moment. Is this what you’re saying? I still don’t think most single women will go years without affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:17 PM
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Hug from friends is not romantic affection. I would call making out as 1st base affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:07 PM
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Sure but this is more about girls who would go on dates. Also, it’s not just about sex, about affection too. Girls that are very religious still get with guys, they just stop before sex, they get their affection desires met.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:05 PM
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If he’s talking about being single and getting laid when you want like 80/20 thing, then it’s prob 10%. The fact it’s such a hassle to get laid is part of the reason men get into relationships. The top 10% of guys hang in the market for the easy access they have with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:36 PM
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Farmers are the rich in Iowa what are you talking about. I come from small town, farmers kids were the ballers. Oh you downvote me because you’re a rich farmer’s daughter go it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:37 AM
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Most players and successful people are dark triad sociopaths. Not a big surprise that women are attracted to men that are emotionally manipulative and ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:17 AM
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Wth if this isn’t a joke and you’re at least a 5/10 and not fat, you’re going to slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:30 PM
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Your company got a website? Put owner of that company. Hopefully you got a LinkedIn. You got 6 cool pics with good backgrounds? Good grief if you’re a presentable guy and want a wife this should be shooting fish in a barrel. Hinge is good because you can put your exact location, girls know the good zip codes. Hinge also got the cute girls who want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:17 PM
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Put it in your dating bio you’re looking to start a family, have 4 door vehicle, nice place. Women 31-36 esp start getting the biological urge to have a child. You put that in her head that your intentions are a wife on the women with that interest, they going to have preference to you. Players will implore on dating intentions to women, if she says she wants to be a wife and have a family soon, they just say they do too to get with her. I got a friend that was in his 40s he wanted a kid so bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:05 PM
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When guys aren’t conventionally attractive and still pull cute girls and get girlfriends, they have some swag that can’t really be taught. The absolute best thing you can do for yourself to appeal to women is be as physically attractive as you can. Being proactive and social gets you girls, just focusing on yourself and being confident and not a pushover applies to anything in life. You want a girl you’re going to need to start talking to them somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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The primary factor in any girl that got with and said why, girl said thought you were cute. When I got a beer gut no girl wanted me, I lost the gut then girls were attracted to me again. Unless you’re a beautiful man, you got to put yourself out there to girls sometimes. They’re not coming for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:25 PM
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Pretty general life advice for guys. Could work for attracting proximity girls at work or social circles, or maintaining attraction. Telling guys to look into dark triad narcissist behaviors prob not going to work unless they already are. Guys that are really focused on attraction looksmax and lifestylemax, and project to women their life is fun or interesting from a woman’s benefit perspective. Talking to women or having a social profile that says I travel a lot and stay in airbnbs, go to exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:29 PM
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There’s definitely that, if you really want her you might have to accept being an option while she sorts it out. Giving up the single girl lifestyle is an addiction to itself. Last girlfriend agreed, then year later she started going out with friends acting single, got too much and she wouldn’t quit so I broke up with her. Current girlfriend went kicking and screaming in a sense into a relationship with me. Her single friends pleading with her not to, demonizing me. She broke it off a couple tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:25 PM
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If the right opportunity arises for the okay looking girl to land a hot guy, even if it’s a quickie she might do it. Hot guys still trying to actually date around their looksmatch though. Chad still has to take girls on dates, or invite her to do something fun if he wants a girl in his looks league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 PM
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I’ve asked some hot girls this question before, and why it’s gotten worse in social media era. What they say is attractive women can get elite fun sometimes anywhere. Invited to exclusive house parties, events, tables at club, on a party boat etc. Guys who host these things if they see a 5/10 girl with 2 8/10s the guy will tell the mid girl she can’t come on the boat, can’t go into club area where celebrity is etc. The 5/10 girl expects them to bail on the party for her, and they don’t and she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:01 PM
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Girls in 20s with no kids can pretty easily get 2 points out of their league, otherwise they likely to be a pump and dump which most women tend to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:14 PM
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Only 8s hot girls can get a 10 to take them out on a date. 10 guys aren’t going to seriously date an 8, maybe date for a bit if she lucky. Girls in 20s get to date out of their league, that’s their privilege, ends up being more like a curse for many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:34 PM
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If you can get dating apps going with right pics and I got my instagram attached. Dating apps are the closest thing to magic I’ve ever experienced. A pretty girl will just show up where you want, have a couple drinks, likely come over and hop into bed with you. It’s so easy and convenient, I rarely even try to get a date in real life. I went on so many dates after my divorce, I was a kid in a candy store, dated all types of girls 20-40. Girls are usually fun, first dates aren’t awkward you’re ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:22 PM
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Without working on an instagram for years there would be no chance I slept with 90 and got 3 girlfriends way out my looks league, being off on and on apps last 8 years after divorce. Instagram is the ultimate social online validation. If you got a cool fun gram profile, girls will go out. Aside from that I can’t stand the gram, just fake faceapp look at me nonsense, people selling some service, and tiktok reels. Girls that are addicted to it get a warped sense of reality. Reddit is addictive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:47 AM
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It’s pointless to complain or come up with any theory, stats, or anecdotal evidence to support it. Natural instinct of polygamy vs hypergamy. Both sides want a dopamine rush, love, and security. That’s why it’s hard, so people going to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:36 PM
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You got this wrong, what men complain about on this sub is that most 6+/10 women who are on the dating market refuse to date men in their league. They would much rather be part of a desirable man’s harem than date a guy that’s in her league. Once she hits her 30s and all the hot guys and rich handsome men have passed her around, she will go for the betabux option to try and settle. I don’t know what percentage of single dating women this is, but it appears to be most from my perspective. Guys ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:11 PM
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Yes. However, guys that I know that use prostitutes the most are rich and handsome. Girl I talked to at a party was gorgeous, 100k job. She told me she was dating this hot guy that would get girls off seeking arrangement with friends, and play sex games with them, and pass her around. Saying only losers use prostitutes is not true at all, anyone can be addicted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:53 PM
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Guys care about looks and personality so much they will run through any red flag to get with her. If he gets into relationship he may later regret that decision. If you don’t think guys will do that I think you’re wrong, happens all the time. Just like girls ignore red flags for desirable men, they just want that guy, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:47 PM
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In the late 90s and early 2000s you would be ridiculed for years by your friends taking a girl you don’t know on a date. You just asked girls to hang or go to some party or event. Most women before would be horrified if they got setup on a date with a guy. Now we summon drivers, food to our house, and date to show up where we want. Times and preferences change. Half the girls I know are much more comfortable online dating instead of being approached by random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:09 PM
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Yep. Benjamin is her 3 star recruit redshirt freshman on the bench with potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:56 PM
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Your metaphors are gold, women searching for 5 star recruits is so true. If you don’t know much about the girl, I’m not sure how promiscuity goes into dating decisions. If you feel like she’s just been dating for 10 years then perhaps. That’s more she’s not relationship material or has a character flaw. A woman’s promiscuity is circumstantial to the situation and the guy. I have 3 friends and we were in stretches of dating, I would ask how many girls hookup the first date, range was 50-70%. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:46 PM
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That channel relevant to this sub, I like alpha male strategies for the crack up. He will also walk you through scenarios to make yourself appear not needy and more high value. How to manage your harem effectively, or get laid quicker. He doesn’t talk in scientific absolutes, interesting channel qoves but saddening about the human favoring condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:24 PM
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I find this list highly irrelevant for any girl that most guys would say is attractive, not just incels. 20lbs overweight but looking thiccy fine, weight not important. Has a kid, but is looking banging on instagram, he’ll love milfs. If you got no girls currently, this list will mean nothing to you for a girl you’re attracted to until you’re in a relationship. Then you may have buyers remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:07 PM
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They are good videos, but I haven’t ran into anything I would classify as beneficial. More depressing on how things usually work out based on attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:03 PM
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There is so much variation on what high body count is or means. To me if it was 40 guys and she’s in her late 20s, and hasn’t had a ltr that might be average or non-consequential in my eyes. The reason is, if she’s a 7+ especially she has multiple chances to have sex everyday of her life. Sometimes I don’t think we give women enough credit for sleeping with as few guys as they do. If you flipped the opportunity for sex by gender, most guys would rack up 100s of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:00 PM
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Guys don’t ask girls for hookups that he sees as a potential real relationship. He takes her out and treats her like a real girlfriend. If he really likes her, he will ask her to be exclusive nearly immediately after couple dates to lock her down. I’m just explaining how dating men with options date. Women don’t swipe right on loser guys with bad profiles. Guys don’t just look for hookups from attractive women he sees as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:29 PM
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Most guys don’t understand anything about what it takes to “sell” women for dates. Guys assume you will rate their face and look at their body and give you a ranking. That will only work for the guys that are noticeably attractive. What guys should be working on is selling a specific social lifestyle that matches her interests. In your case you want husband material, a guy needs to craft a persona that he is a ready made husband. The problem is with this, is the guy set up the profile as a sales…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:27 PM
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Start swiping right on more guys, and you’ll get less men asking for a hookup, and more trying to take you on a date and ask you for a relationship. Guys with many dating options act much different than guys with little or none.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:19 PM
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Girls only chase guys with dating options. This is OP story she’s only swiping right on high value men with crafted pics. When the guy ask for hookups he doesn’t see her worthy to court, the fact that girls don’t understand this is so laughable to hear this over and over. If you’re a guy with dating options and you see a girl on your level or out of your league, he’s not asking for a hookup, he’s asking for a date, then a relationship. Guys with dating options (that all girls want) will try to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:05 PM
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Practically virgin guys don’t have dealbreakers like this. If she’s cute with decent body and no kids, they all going to look past all of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:37 PM
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You’re either not doing your online persona or instagram right, specialist doctors can be verified online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:39 AM
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The make at least 300k in cities, don’t think they can online verify that and it help a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:17 AM
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Women are feeding themselves into the idea that their prince charming that will solve all her problems, take care of all her needs and wants, make her lust, and he’s just around the corner, another swipe, another party. It’s most all a mirage on instagram and dating apps. Guys are just guys, girls put too much on them. If the rare one does have the power to change your life. They’ll more likely use it against her for sex and temporary company. The dating world is fkn whack, any girl or guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:29 PM
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All women lie about their body count. How you going to know? What’s too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:11 PM
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Don’t ask for studies get quoted study and say no. Do your own research lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:08 PM
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You need to let women know about this, 100% agree. The desirable men left on the market are low self esteem men that have a fully collapsed ability to pair bond. The real Chads and desirable men left the station, or only on the market temporarily so hard to catch him. The female whores on the market with the fried dopamine receptors are Stacy wannabes. The girls who had a glow up later and chase the men with low self esteem and act like they so cool on the gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:04 PM
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Did you know that water freezes and is no longer wet, there’s actually 32% frozen water to 63% non frozen. Then there’s water vapor which is not wet, that’s a cloud. You can’t just say water is wet because that’s not true. Now tell me I can’t just say things and you need google proof with quoted stats. Then refuse to believe the links, it’s circumstantial and biased. That’s the Reddit “experience.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:23 PM
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You’ve gone to some crazy unnecessary lengths, if you’re rich and famous you can have whatever you want. You see that viral pic of 60 yr old Jeff Goldblum with 2 20 yr old hot blondes and one he’s choking in public. That’s so easy for him, and those girls wanted to be with him. You can simply be a hot guy with the motivation to sleep with women and do it literally whenever you want. A specialist doctor on a dating app that looks totally average can go on endless dates and have harems. Have a coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:10 PM
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Women don’t sit on them forever like guys, they will pop on, go on some dates, pop off delete. Try a different app, if you’re in a city there’s a freaking near infinite and constantly more girls always jumping on dating apps. The current active “ratio” is not reflective and not as relevant. The reality is the total number of guys and girls who use them is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:51 PM
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There’s lots of girls that want to meet cute guys and get taken on a date, you say you think you’re in the minority. What women tell me about dating apps who I know and are honest, they say I found some of the best guys to date I ever did in my life. Getting access to all these single men in my area is exciting. I want to find a boyfriend I really enjoy who’s handsome and successful. These are universal feelings. This is not to say that some women it’s not for them, some got enough bad experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:27 PM
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How you interpret everything is correct and insane. How people feel about women/men in general is intentional shock value. A guy saying all women are holes to them, they act charming to the girls they want. I do the same, I love women, I enjoy going on dates I think women are so fun. However, I say all women are sluts, if you met her and she on a date with you she’s probably a slut. The reason I say that is because people call all men sluts, women actually are too at about the same level. It’s j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:11 PM
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Women who use dating apps generally enjoy going on a date and hooking up with a guy. You are too cool for school for the number one place now where people find relationships, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:46 PM
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Women love those dating apps, they wan to meet and get with men it’s a total rush. It’s an addiction to attention, and they having a great self indulgent time with it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:07 AM
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You can be used by a girl for some food and drinks, sex, and a free hoodie as a guy. 30% of the girls I had sex with I didn’t really hear from again. I was used for some random affection and attention. How’s that any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:26 AM
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I get your point, there’s prob a lot of sex addicts that go to lengths to control it. If someone said I was a sex addict she said I had 20 partners I would laugh or maybe not believe it. A girl can enter mania and crave sex and rack up 20 guys in no time. How does a boyfriend handle it, would you just do it yourself when he didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:57 PM
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I’ve had 11 hoodies taken in the morning because they were “cold” and barely heard from the girls again. Guys can have an intense motivation to sleep with a cute girl then decides whether to date or be in relationship. Girls feel pressure to get with a guy who she perceives as having many dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:25 PM
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I know a bunch of girls that have been in threesomes a bunch, sometimes I believe the girls are really into it, guess it depends. Trying anal and video seems standard with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:09 PM
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You had a sex addiction and you only had 20 partners. That’s low end for a girl in her 30s that has dated for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:58 PM
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What did you try you not end up liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:56 PM
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Girls have to turn down a lot of men out of their league or they’d get with 100s of guys and waste a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:59 PM
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Yes having a good job is highly desirable quality for a girl to have. I’ve turned down hotter women for relationship I’d have to fully financially support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:24 PM
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You don’t have to be that muscular to be a Chad, but if you got to gym I usually see at least 3 very hot guys. I know 3 guys, girls just trying to have sex with them all time. I’m traditional handsome 666 man with a nice place and fairly fit. 25% of my dates will be my sex slave all night or all weekend. They will do whatever you want, that’s not really lust like chads, more like love bombing so they can get a desirable bf though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:21 PM
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Chad is a theory. I would say 1 in 200 guys are close enough to chads to get their ds sucked for hours and lusted over like crazy, about whenever they want by random girls. Dating apps/insta makes it easily possible for them now to keep the supply of girls going. I know guys like this, but you need it all face, height, muscles, d, looking like a male model. You can also be handsome and have a mansion and you’re higher than a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:09 PM
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I have my own place and pay own bills. If they can keep their job and money and leverage you, that makes you a desirable option. I’m prob a 7 and if I wanted a gf to do that I would end up with an okay 7. Since that option of a bill free life is on the table, my gfs are 9s. I don’t give them money, they just get to keep their own, live rent free and eat my food. That’s how guys usually get to date of their looks league, but usually going to only be 2 points unless you give her everything and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:04 PM
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If you don’t care about a girls money and just want a girl with a job, and don’t expect her to pay any of your bills if and when she moves in. You’re usually going to get way hotter chicks interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:56 PM
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Some girls are into rough sex and physical domination. Pinning them down and using them gets them off. If they are requesting to be choked they may be into erotic asphyxiation. Other girls not into this, and if you do it you will freak them out. I would say most people are into some form of sex depravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:52 PM
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You explain this well, 20% of guys can evoke instant lust in women. You can build yourself up, but you need the genetics to pull it off. If you’re not 6ft+ with 6in+ with a handsome face it’s going to be hard to looksmax, and you may never get there. Girls lust for tall well built guys with big ds. They want to be his total sex doll, most guys don’t get this primal desire out from women. I can sometimes on dates because I have a few of these qualities and I’m boyfriend material, but not to level…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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They have super high standards for men to casually meet them on a date that they’ve never met before. If they keep dating off dating apps and instagram for only guys that are desirable by instagram standards. They end up feeling like other men aren’t worth her time, the men that are actually on her level for a real relationship. I’m not sure how many single dating girls this is, maybe 30%. A lot of times it’s girls we think look cute on instagram and dating apps. You have to keep trying and keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:57 PM
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Message me and you can follow my instagram, no one believes that guys get girls on Reddit. I got my past 2 gfs in my stories they hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:34 AM
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What happens, I’ve prob been posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:46 PM
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Women pump and dump and ghost just as much as guys. When women pump and dump, they don’t think about it all. It’s their life, and they’re going to do whatever they want. Guys normally just say oh well at least I got laid. When girls get pumped and dumped after one or a few sex sessions and ghosted. The guy is an absolute soulless piece of shit fucbois, he’s sick, you don’t do that to people. All men just want to use women, be players, and are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:54 PM
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I mean what you do really, people in my city go out and have brunch, go to party, gym, watch game, drink for a few hours, go home. Asking for a friend to just hang out is too boring now, people just rather watch a show or be on their phone. That’s why getting a relationship is such a nice thing to have these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:37 PM
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Unless you’re in early 20s, hard to find great friends that are really supportive and hang out a lot. People do more event driven hanging out seems like. Last 15 years friends hang out 50% less. This is why for not just guys, girls too you get a relationship to stave off boredom and loneliness. Your girlfriend is always there for you, she enjoys life much more with you. Friendship can be great, a relationship is another level. For me, going through life with a girlfriend who lives with you makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:57 AM
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Women online go into instant attack mode if you make any comment about women. If it isn’t anything than the most glowing 5 star review about how they act then its misogyny to them. Then they will jump on you to harass and shame you about it, in real life or online. Women cannot emotionally handle men making any references to female behavior. That’s why there’s no more red and black pill allowed on social media, anything, even if it’s obvious offends women, so it must be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM
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Women physically cheat a lot more than men, it’s too easy for them, and can hide it better. They can leave their guy in their own head to pursue another guy without telling him. Then say with a straight face that’s not cheating. That’s why all the studies on google are wrong, when women cheat they don’t think it is. A woman will never see herself as a cheater. Also, especially if she’s out of town with girlfriends, finding a hot guy to cheat with is one of her hopes. Girls aren’t so much differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:09 PM
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Women try to make each other envious usually directly and sometimes indirectly. Women aren’t that supportive of other women in the workplace. Women judge a lot, slut shame. Mean girls movie most people see as an honest depiction of how awful girls treat each other. Men hate, bully, get jealous, and cut other men down too. Women do tend to get a bit more vicious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:41 PM
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I know guys that bought 50k fake followers, have fake likes, act like they are the most important person ever. Gets attractive women all the time with it. I use mine as an occasional travel log, it looks so ridic, gets me dates anytime though, I’m so glad I did it. Instagram is the cringiest thing ever, you can’t look at barely anyone’s posts and not wince. It’s 70% heavily filtered edited women showing their butts or mewing, insane that it’s actually a big deal to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:04 PM
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This seems to be an ongoing theme and my personal frustration with dating and how women view what their league is. Girls can easily get with a guy +2 out of their league, and most single girls think that’s their league. Guys can get -2 out of their league to get girls to casually date and hook up. The fact that girls don’t understand how this directly correlates to each other is why we call women delusional so much on this sub and real life. If a guy takes you in a date and you hook up and he’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:03 PM
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If you can get your online persona figured out, it’s just endless hooking up. You’re sharing with all the same small percentage of guys and friends you know who also got dating apps figured so it gets weird quickly and not fun. Dating girls are deeply confused and get upset about dating and I say you’ve decided that only 5% of guys are worthy of a date, and those 5% of guys are just happy with rotating all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:09 AM
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You can’t make an observation about women. Many girls basically 92% fully naked at this point, wearing an outfit that covers less than a bikini is the new normal. I’m not concerned do what you want ladies, you’re not under Sharia law feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:53 PM
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I realize every girl needs a push up bra and at least 1/3 of their boobs out or they can’t be in their feminine energy. In Miami girls are in an arms race to see who can wear the most revealing scraps of clothing humanly possible. It’s not yoga pants anymore it’s crack leggings where it’s just a a paper thin fabric that goes all the way up your butt. Girls just wear straight up lingerie to bars and clubs. You’re right cleavage isn’t anything it’s more about the underboob now. At this point it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:46 PM
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Yes heathen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:32 PM
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Anything with your cleavage, underbutt, or midriff out. All 3 is the slutty trinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:18 PM
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37-74 is the perfect amount of likes. I could go on for 20 minutes about how my instagram and a man’s instagram is the king of dating apps and the other apps are in its feudal system. For me it ends up being the end source of all my dates by researching girls and the cancellation of all dates. My insta has been scrutinized so much for just having some vacation pics up it’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:51 PM
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Oh man this gonna sound corny as hell. If I’m out of a relationship I’ll get more girls liking the posts, and girls coming from dating apps occasionally liking the posts. So I’ll show if out. If I’m in relationship and post then I don’t because very few girls will like it. The theory is girls will honestly go see who likes your posts when there is a count and you get less likes while in a relationship. Oh my goodness, I’m done, but girls seriously analyze your insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:38 PM
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Mods control that, I’m a disillusioned jerking bot designed for test schemes for more Reddit lurker comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:15 PM
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Seems like a legit phenomenon. Harder to get the one girl prob because you’re trying to get laid mostly, she can smell the desperation on you. I’ve wondered how are the ways girls can tell you got no girls. Then you get a girl in your harem, now getting the second and third is easy, because those girls aren’t of any consequence to you whether it works or not. So girls are more attracted to you. Then you fumble your harem and get back to 0. Now first dates aren’t working like normal, then you sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:17 PM
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When you’re on a date and you like a guy, you’re going to have to tell him you like him, but you don’t want to go over to his place. Then you should follow up with him over text, so he knows you’re not blowing him off. Wait at least 5 dates for any sex, if he makes it to that point, he likes you and likely a good dude with solid intentions. At some point you have to put yourself out there, but don’t act desperate or give yourself away too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:04 PM
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Getting a view into lives through other people’s lens is the primary draw of Reddit. You can get your memes and news anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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Women antagonizing red and black pill guys and making fun of them in comments out of the blue is examples I’d post. I don’t know what that post even is, have your man eat you out, if he don’t care, he prob sucks as a partner, oh well you chose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:26 PM
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Women’s primary desire is to have an attractive guy, or a handsome successful one. Going on apps and to keep sleeping with all the players that match that desirable profile to get his attention I think is a pretty bad idea. Then combined with instagram fomo is why I think young women’s depression is skyrocketing. Social media is fake and they keep knowingly chasing the guys who cycle through women is terrible for your mental health and soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:41 PM
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I hate being alone to heal, forget that, what a crock.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:31 PM
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That line just means she wants to be taken on a date first, then she’ll hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:56 AM
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The girl you love is the most special and you maintain desire for each other. The other is temporary lust. Girls can feel the same way for their average dude they love as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:22 AM
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I’m in my mid 40s and 4 times in my life I got the girl I’d been crushing so bad that I would melt in their presence. Got lucky and they were totally down to be my sex doll for the night. When you say I would wreck that girl that’s what you do, ridiculous making out, throat fking, eating out, keep going back to back for at least 3 hours every position I could put her in, then woke up and went again. Never forget those nights. Sex with somebody new is fun, but a real sexy girl you want so bad is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 AM
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The similar scenario exists for guys, if a girl is a 5/10, she won’t get the same feeling and reaction from guys as the 8+ sexy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:46 AM
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I’ve been friends with 3 girls that I would classify as hot, that specifically avoid hot men advances, and wouldn’t even swipe right on them. They say they arrogant and all they do is cheat. Also, when guys are jacked their hormones they put in their butt make them emotionally unstable, girls don’t like guys who cry a lot for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:53 PM
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Your story is the purpose of the post and relatable, lot of girls think there isn’t viable boyfriends on apps, esp Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:41 PM
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I think around 5% of guys kill it on dating apps, 50 girls a year going on a 1-2 dates during the week is not uncommon when matching gets easy. Hooking up can’t get any easier too, the girls just show up where you want and come over after. Girls who use dating apps or look good on instagram, are having more fun and have more sexual partners than the average guy can possibly imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:22 PM
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I don’t think this is why women on average only swipe right 1 in 20 times. I also think bad actors are reported and get their profile deleted quickly, apps go to great lengths to limit harassment and often can auto detect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:12 PM
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I got a girlfriend and was just messing around for a day, then I deleted the apps. I just wanted to see how I would match and how girls would act if my job title was General Surgeon, then I deleted. Thanks for the psa don’t report me to authorities lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:55 PM
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Anything a guy does to attract women is looked at as not being genuine or demonized by people as being deceptive. I say anything a guy uses as bait for girls is just a means to an end to get her attention, then appreciate and eventually love the real you. The guys I know that get the most girls are very social, above average looking (not hot), and have coke in their pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:33 PM
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I’ve spent 6 years working on an instagram I went from 4s and 5s dates to 8s and 9s. I’m a boring dad 97% of my life, my instagram looks like I’m a multinational GTA character, driving a boat, on a horse at the ocean, outside a helicopter etc. Just anywhere I was that looked cool I got pictures of me there. Put the best of the best pics on my gram and attached it to my dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:17 PM
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I believe most guys go on a dating app and have primary goal of finding a relationship. The guy with the perfectly crafted online persona and instagram, or jacked handsome guy with his shirt off are the guys getting most of the dates. Then girls match with the guys with the best advertising and say all men on dating apps want is easy sex. Then girls end up ignoring the 95% of guys that don’t go to all the effort necessary effort to make picking up girls as their primary hobby in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:12 PM
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I’ll just take out the top, super boring to argue stats. More curious if guys had advice. Unless she’s just always in a relationship most girls I’ve known have used dating apps, if you just want to talk about current ratios whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:58 PM
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I think those stats are misleading because I’ve observed a lot of friends who are girls who use it. They don’t have any problems getting matches and dates quick, girls just pop on when they want to go on dates, and off it when they don’t. Guys just stay on them just in case. I have no data to back this up just about a dozen girls I’ve known that have used dating apps never stay on them, just pop in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:45 PM
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I actually like Tinder for perspective relationships over Bumble/Hinge. The hookup rate on any dating app is the same for me. Bumble just ticks me off trying to wait for a girl to say hey. Hinge has the dating mainstays who have stationed themselves there. Tinder people take themselves less seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:41 PM
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I live about million dollar home and I think it helps a lot, it’s just a regular neighborhood though. I sold a home and temporarily moved into a $7 million dollar home with a city view on a mountain for 6 months, a friend was selling it so I got an incredible deal. I was single during that time and 22 out of 24 dates were in bed within a couple hours, I hit 13 dates in a row at one point. A 8k sqft luxury home/mansion is an automatic hookup dating glitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:25 PM
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Similar in total have used it ever, point noted though. People quote Tinder as being some wild 7 to 1 disparity and maybe that app is, but it’s not that great of a difference between gender that have used dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:21 PM
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I’ll update the reference omg, it’s similar. How about a comment on 95% of the rest or just want to point out one minor thing, point is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:18 PM
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Here is more comprehensive view: https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2023/02/02/the-who-where-and-why-of-online-dating-in-the-u-s/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:17 PM
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My strategy and stats are similar. I pick a casual place right by my house to get the women over easier after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:13 PM
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6’1” and I think my height is a great advantage. If I was 5’7” I don’t think I could get very many dates and girls would be less likely to hook up. You can overcome height, but I’m not jacked or handsome enough in the face to think my height doesn’t come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:09 PM
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It does below and there are others that say it’s more than half for women under 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:07 PM
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Where do you go for most dates? What percent of your dates do you get back to your place at least making out on the first date? I have been in a situation with dates if I’m out with a 6/7 cute girl, I think I’m not good looking enough for them. Then if I’m on a date with hotter 8 or 9/10 they are more likely to get with me because they see me as well rounded boyfriend material. I would rate myself a 6/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:03 PM
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I go on a couple vacations a year, having pics of me in Italy, France, Egypt etc has vastly improved my matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:51 PM
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There was a couple of guys on this sub that commented they had a 90-95% first date hookup rate. Me and 2 other friends can get date and we are at 60-70% of getting the girl in your bed within a few hours off apps. It’s of my perception I would think many girls who use dating apps are hooking up on dates they go on regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:50 PM
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Why are you such a troll, do you have ever have your own opinions, or just want to antagonize what others say because you think it’s cool somehow. Not a Muslim and not into sharia law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:50 AM
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Yea it’s startling to see so much support for Palestine and Iran from western girls where they would literally kill you for what you post on instagram alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:15 AM
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Well a ton of chicks on Instagram seem to love to support hamas, I’m like head over there and support them, they going to stone you to death immediately under sharia law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:11 AM
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Before women didn’t have equal rights they were dependent on men, so they just married one. In middle east your daughter or sister being too much of a ho you can kill her under honor killing. Sharia law etc. all designed to control women behavior. Now they free in western world, and if they on a dating app or can’t stop posting selfies, she’s probably addicted to dating. Just have to keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:06 AM
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Scarlet letters for women when she’s found dating 2 guys at the same time. You can’t stop it, women free to do what they want now. Dating girls got iuds, penicillin, and monistat, there isn’t enough downside for them to keep spinning the wheel of desirable men with all the options she desires. The cute girls on dating apps and instagram posting all time you see are addicted to dating and attention. They are in a cycle of lust and all the dreams a top man can provide. They want a trophy, a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:41 PM
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I kinda friends of friends with this guy who’s really hot and lives with mom. I know a girl who dated him, just says he’s moving out soon and coming into money with business deals. He gets girls like insane, multiple a week, hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:43 PM
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There’s too many shared experiences, you can’t just say be yourself and just ask her out girls don’t care much about looks. This is stuff every person including women would say prior to the internet. Any pill other than blue which is just normie talk, its primary goal is to give you the knowledge of the situation. If you’re taking Ls there’s tons of other guys that are too, and here’s realistic ways to get over it. Meanwhile there’s female red pill that is just straight nonsense with some girl t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:03 PM
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You can just take her out for a couple drinks, I’ve done dinners but just casual places. The way I get over this concept of paying is I pick the place by my house. If she says I’ll meet in middle or come closer to me, I’ll bail on the date, she don’t want me that bad. I pick dates I want to make out with, whether I want any form of relationship is determined later. Driving down the street to get the company of a pretty girl and she usually in my bed after, is definitely worth $30 to me. Plus you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:55 PM
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Why do people want to talk to people their own age so bad. Think people want shared cultural experiences from the past. Talking to a younger person and their perspectives on anything can be a lot smarter and insightful than you think. Date who you want, college age girls have a fun energy to them if you ask me, super easy to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:37 PM
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It’s a cavalier attitude where her presence is good, but has no bearing on you. In dating you get one, then 2, now you’re juggling 4. Drop them all back to zero now you’re vibe off and girls see your desperation. Girls sense if you’ve already got chicks, and if you are they want you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:42 PM
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There’s categories too for sure. I was flipping the girls tinder with just same photos on repeat: at beach, at gym, suit at wedding, selfie mewing with no context, drinks with friends, holding a dog. I started with a boring one at first and couldn’t get any matches. So I worked on it, one is driving a boat, outside a helicopter, at the pyramids on a camel, on hood of my car with mountain backdrop, mew selfie but my nice kitchen in background, then I have a couple shirt off photos I use, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:28 PM
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Think she going to be clued in at these points, or if you’re overtly trying your get to her place. Some girls just get with the guy anyway if she wants him, even if she thinks he’s taken, she might be down for a steal or drama. A very small percentage of guys that are in relationships use dating apps, to say that they are getting most the dates too on them is a big reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:08 PM
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There are married and taken men on dating apps, it has barely any correlation between being successful on dating apps. Maybe if he is a guy that gets relationships off dating apps so he has previous experience. Married and taken men share a house, where is he going to take her to hook up after the date. I was flipping through a girls tinder last week and reason most men don’t get matches and dates is not because they’re ugly. There is nothing interesting in their profile, I couldn’t believe how …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:53 AM
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Go to a country like Colombia as a tall handsome American, girls will come up to you and hit on you, whereas that wouldn’t ever happen to him like that in US. Hooking up is a lot easier. If you’re short and ugly guy you get ignored by girls. Most cute girls around the world got standards, but the American label on a guy helps in some other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:07 AM
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The top 5% of guys are just the most promiscuous and successful with women at the same time. 5% is smv they may be supplying different types of girls with different types of interests in guys, top 5% is not simply most physically attractive. Top 5% guys go on lots of dates and get with lots of women. That’s their main hobby is picking up girls. They I got a harem and successful pua guys. I believe in 80/20 rule, top 20% they are satisfying all types of the casual dating market interest for girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:33 PM
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There’s so many that take great enjoyment in manipulating and using others. Then they only cry foul when it happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:46 PM
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If you’re not focusing on the negativity and misogyny aspect of the red pill label. The straightforward advice that’s out there can help guys a lot. If you’re taking Ls and want to get a W that’s actually the goal of red pill. Not to sulk and hate on women that’s more mgtow. Red pill does some of that, more about motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:18 PM
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Dating has always been like this, but phones and apps turned it into dating on super crack where people seek out dopamine from people. You have access to every man in a 50 mile radius and beyond. Maybe a relationship if you can stop yourself from being addicted to the next best thing that pops up. For guys being addicted to dating is too much work. For girls it’s saying yes and showing up to see if he can satisfy her desires. Even if it’s temporary, there’s always another guy in a big city that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:00 PM
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That’s what I’m trying to explain, the men are lying to her. Women have their own forms of manipulation and lead guys on, plays out a bit differently on how she handles her situationships based on the type of guy she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:02 PM
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You’ve hit the nail on the head and this is what men don’t realize, but girls addicted to Instagram and dating apps are ADDICTED to dating, and all the attention that comes with it. Any person is going to get a hellified dopamine rush from dating around, getting affection, attention and sex. I got in a dating cycle after my divorce, and learned to pickup women later in college. I was an addict, the oxytocin dump from hooking up with a girl is better than any drug. Girls get the same rush, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:43 PM
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Most guys don’t enjoy the process to get a girl, they don’t care about hooking up, or having harems of girls. They just want a relationship. The problem is, the player guys that want get with lots of girls go to great lengths to advertise themselves. They also go to many social gatherings where single women are. Single girls see the flashy advertising of him looking jacked and attractive, or see his fun social lifestyle he’s crafted on instagram and want part of his life. They hook up with those…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:15 PM
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Yea that’s what a normal person would do. If she has a handsome tall surgeon that’s saying let’s get some drinks, or a chubby short guy with a whatever job asking. The more attractive guy gets picked by the girl. Guys do the same, it’s not “red pill theory” it’s common sense. Then they have sex with him quickly to get his attention, because the attractive successful man has many options, plus the girl wants him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:04 PM
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There is this online concept that these girls are just getting “pumped and dumped” by Chad and that’s not usually what happens. The top guys who perpetually date will have 2-3 temporary placeholder girlfriends in his harem he cycles through. If he finds a girl he likes they date for a bit. Most of the time she’s hoping it’s heading towards an exclusive relationship. These guys lead girls on that he wants her for a girlfriend, but actually doesn’t have those intentions. He’s manipulating her to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:51 PM
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Okay so according to you women’s standards have not become inflated since social media and dating apps. That most girls under 30 have use dating apps, but they don’t hookup with the most desirable men that will take them out. You know girls only talk to their close friends about the guys they’re hooking up with right. I wouldn’t know why girls wouldn’t do this, they want affection and attractive men. Not red pill, just becomes very obvious once you start going on dates with a bunch of these sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:32 PM
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I’ve been on around 150 online first dates last 7 years off dating apps and instagram, others from out at events at bars. I’ve had 4 relationships, one girl I dated for 3 years. I also work with 6 girls that talk about who they dating all the time. My girlfriend has friends that come over and talk about men and drama in their lives. This isn’t online anything. This is my own assessment on meeting and knowing lots of single girls and going on lots of dates. I also have 2 other guy friends and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:15 PM
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If you're a girl and you're at least okay looking. You can satisfy your need for affection from any type of guy you want anytime you want. The only reason a girl can't find a boyfriend is because she will only settle for men that are significantly better than them financially, high social status, and attractive. Women have always been selective, but now they have access to every man around them the balance rapidly changed heavily to make them super selective. Leaving most young men with virtuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:43 PM
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Zero baggage has no relation to she wants to leave you at some point in the relationship. If you asked her side, she’d say I messed up, not her fault and I should’ve took her back. No baggage usually means she comes to live with you and leaves her place, with nothing but her car and clothes, no bad debt, no kids, has her own job. If you give guys a choice that’s what type of girl usually want to be with. If you think they pretty too, they have the highest dating market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:33 PM
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I guess ya’ll are perfect people with perfect relationships. I loved being with her, she was stunningly beautiful and such fun and joyful personality, I don’t regret being with her. Sometimes things don’t work out like you hope. She got in her head she wanted to find her “husband” that was better than me, I told her she’s making a mistake. I can get a date and relationship whenever I want, because my qualifications aren’t ridiculous like some women’s have. She can non-exclusively date the hottes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:13 PM
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Frozen pizza is a late night delicacy enjoyed by millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:40 PM
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She has zero baggage and she’s attractive, this is how guys usually get to date out of their looks league. Doesn’t mean she’s not a good girlfriend. The problem can become what the guy is talking about, you set her living standards to a certain level and now she wants more. I’m not with her anymore, she harasses me and my new girlfriend even after over a year. She can’t get me and what she had back, so she’s upset. So it’s not a big deal, once they go don’t take them back. Grass is greener menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:57 PM
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Because she’s no great additional cost to you, it ends up being the same or lower as your kids. The money she makes I don’t need, most girls happy with cheap food like frozen pizzas and carne asada fries take out. The problem is, they become dependent on you, total house bills are pricey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:48 PM
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Lot of girls aren’t going to be in an exclusive relationship with a man if they can’t live with him for free and eat their food. Girl still works so they don’t ask guy for money and guy doesn’t buy them anything. If I was a pretty girl with options I’d try to find a man to do the same. Food used to be pretty cheap and he’s already paying the mortgage so the guy agrees. It’s still giving her too much, and girls can’t find these guys nearly as easily as they think they can, no matter how attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:34 PM
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I don’t think you’ve been observing high libido sluts in the wild and what they do, they mostly chase chads for sex. Other girls with high libido control promiscuity, and do their one boyfriend 3 times a day. That won’t be as fun as it seems after a few weeks. When you guys talk about women’s libido being such a problem. What you actually want is for girls to have low self esteem. Those girls settle. Both types exist, but I’ll bet dollars to donuts you’re going to have a much easier time getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:10 AM
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How attractive you are affects nearly every aspect of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:49 AM
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It's one of the all time "be careful what you wish for" with men. If you're a guy that develops a knack for picking up women, it can turn into an inescapable addiction. Most guys will quit the game and understand the hollow feeling inside is their soul telling them to end the behavior. Some guys push through it and eventually their ability to pair bond is basically nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:32 PM
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Real reason she becomes a cat lady is their lack of desire for men that she views as lower than her. The other reason is she realizes she’s content with being a cat lady. Guys do this too, they’re hell bent on their own perceived smv value. They think they deserve a cute girl with no kids who is perpetually always at a higher value than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:42 PM
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This keeps getting worse and worse for poor Annie. Girls don't waste nights with guys they don't want for a free meal. She'd rather stay home and watch netflix and microwave a hot pocket. Being a player and getting the chance to pick the girlfriend you want is one of the greatest luxuries in the world. If Annie is a giga stacy and has rich handsome men on their knees proposing to her after 2 dates, then she's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:56 PM
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The guy won’t give up the money until he gets what he wants, going around trying to scam guys with money not going to work that well. Seeking arrangement girls are stepping into a hopefully reliable prostitution gig. Scamming once is not how you get the bag. Anyway, all of these scenarios usually suck for girls anyway. You want to be the attractive player by a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:16 PM
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I didn't know all this, I thought she had sugar daddies or was in person taking advantage of guys. If she can get basically just an OF model situation of being a fake girlfriend to simps online that might be okay. Still can alter your perspectives on relationships and your mindset. Your local instagram model that's doing a bunch of stuff anywhere frequently is usually being a paid escort. There's all sorts of these opportunities if you're looking hot on the gram. My girlfriend was approached by …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:06 PM
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The attractive guy is in a way better position than the attractive girl and it's not close. The guy is in an cycle of ego validation and sex addiction. He can break free from it when he wants and get a girlfriend easily. There's also not a social stigma to being a player. Guys see pretty girls getting free stuff, trips, finding a sugar daddy as something they are entitled to and it's easy. It rarely works out for the girl like we think, and it's temporary to the guy providing it. They also have …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:49 PM
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They do handle it better, but women getting lonely is the primary reason women get into relationships. You get a date with a lonely girl, she needs company and she gives you the chance to snatch her. If women never got lonely many prob be okay chilling and always doing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:37 PM
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Most guys don’t take the time to create a fun cool instagram and a polished linkedin showing what a great career you have. This is the more important element than your 6 pics to make the match. If she can’t find you online, she will assume you are hiding because you are married or have a girlfriend. The guys who understand how women use dating apps, work on the marketing of themselves to design implied desirability. I would say this is no more than 5% of guys on dating apps that are getting 90% …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:19 PM
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Goes both ways in genders. Oops I did it again is about a girl emotionally manipulating a simp. Trouble by swift is about being with a guy that cycles through harems, and making the girl believe she is the one when she’s not. In dating, some people enjoy taking advantage of others they see as weaker. Causes a lot of distress by the person who this is being done to. They probably see the signs, but don’t want to believe the person you’re dating will be like this because they desire them a lot. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:00 PM
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I’m assuming she doesn’t want to go to sperm donor bank and would like to get a husband first. She don’t even have a boyfriend yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:01 AM
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35f if you want a family is tough situation. Am I missing something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:13 AM
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You’re hitting on things about the 80/20 that doesn’t get talked about. You have to want to make yourself desirable to women, only 2% of guys are born chads, the rest of 20% worked on it. If you just want to eat chips and play video games and you don’t care about dating women, that’s great. You actually want to get your soft harem of girls going and pick your girlfriend, you got to get some bait going and have a real strategy. Not going to happen overnight, takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:12 PM
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If you build up your life to above average and get in good shape, you’ll get options. Just hard to do that instantly in your 20s, got to work for it, unless you’re just noticeably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:03 PM
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Most guys go through unwanted droughts of no girl interest. Happened to me different times in my life. Something no girl seems to understand and they make fun of guys for, like you’re doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:01 PM
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Yea sure, he should’ve been working on his game finding the right thing, instead of falling for whatever girl that’s cute that latched to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:51 PM
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Certainly, you can’t change anything at scale. I got a friend that don’t get laid much, he’s smart fit looks good multimillionaire drives a new corvette. He gets into relationship and marries a girl that’s 37 with 2 baby daddies and decided to care of them. Before he married her I told him wtf are you doing?! He said I love her. I wasn’t invited to the wedding, and now they’re already going through a divorce. If he took the redpill or blackpill he would’ve understood this woman was not fixable, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:31 PM
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I’m in my 40s, girls didn’t have access to every top guy around them, it’s a lot different now. The small percentage you talk about is now a large percentage. There still won’t be comeuppance for those chasing top men until their looks are fading behavior that is the norm for today. Except if you’re a guy like OP, let them do what they want, keep your nose to the grindstone. Your time will come. Let the simps take care of all the older dating girls that chased all the chads and rich handsome guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:10 PM
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Internet gave girls access to every high value man in a 50 mile radius. Then they got insta and facetune to make them all look more attractive than they are. What has that got them? Access to guys harems in the top 5%. There’s no changing it now. Go look at the stats women in their 20s are more depressed as ever. They keep trying to get with top men and keep getting cast aside. What you do is get in shape, keep striving in your career. In your 30s when your SMV is rising and theirs is going down…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:37 PM
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You’re not in the market for a generally desirable man. Girls just resign to the fact if you looks like an attractive man, he’s likely a player. Just can’t be an eliminating factor for girls in getting what they want. She may not sleep with that hot guy if she gets the wrong signals from him, but the fact he’s been with lots of girls won’t disqualify him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:43 PM
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Men will not be impressed by high body counts unless they know them and also get girls. Normie guys didn’t personally inspect each one, so to make himself feel better he will assume most of girls he slept with were ugly sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:36 PM
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The king of dating apps is Instagram. Get cool local guys and girls to follow you. Then have them like your posts. Then any girl that checks you out on gram, you meet irl or dating apps, gets social status validation by investigating your instagram profile. Being on a dating app is not enough, once you match and ask them out, girls now want to find your LinkedIn and Instagram to see if you’re worthy of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:16 PM
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Guys with high body counts don’t go around talking about it except to other players. 97% of people are going to think you’re a degenerate that sleeps with just total sluts when you say you’re body count is anything over 50. High body count men are associated with an addiction to girls and sex. All the guys I know in the 100s are very attractive charismatic guys and sleep with beautiful women of all ages. One guy likes to play mind games with girls, one gets a girlfriend and has threesomes all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:43 PM
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I think the girl that wants more out of you, if you love her you’ll do more. The problem is with that girl, she’s now never going to be fully happy with you. You’ve given her a reaffirming loop of she complains, hassles, and not happy about you reaching your full potential, you’ll just keep doing more. You’re not mad most of the time because she just wants you to look better and be more successful. The problem with this type of girl who keeps pushing you, if she doesn’t really do anything to imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:16 PM
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The whole taken man thing is a game she plays to see what you'll do. Then something could end up happening because she played with fire. She may actually be trying to steal the man, or wants to fantasize about it. Taken men are seen as socially validated by another women and that sparks some girls interest. They want commitment more than sex from most guys. You're trying to directly correlate something that's usually more a circumstantial game she's playing with a guy she knows is taken. Guys do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:15 AM
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It's because the girl finds you attractive or not and how available she is. That's really all it is. If you're 6'2" jacked and have a model face, she's going to be very flattered. If you're short and chubby she won't. That's why guys on here have so much problems if you don't cross a general attractiveness by society standards she's going to put off by your presence and want someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:50 AM
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Obviously cold approach unless she basically seeks you out is going to be major hit or miss. Talking first dates off dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:27 AM
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I see girls as lonely most of the time of their lives. Women’s egos can only be sky high for awhile, eventually girls want reliable love companionship. If you got your own place, you’re in shape, then you’re in the top 20% of the 80/20 and you’re in the game. Unless there’s something weird about you or too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:47 AM
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If you want the types of girls you want, there’s dating apps and Instagram. Then there’s bars/clubs/cold approach. Then you ask for dates, be chill, and ask them over after the date. The unfortunate thing apparently a lot of guys can’t get any of this casual dating going, or have pua desire or ability. So then you have opportunities with girls through social circles and work. Which I think isn’t nearly as good as hunting for your own girls. Trying to date with friends of friends or work is annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:33 AM
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Maybe, I’m in a large conservative city, there’s very little discrimination going on. Me and particular I’m friends with this handsome European rich guy, his girlfriend looks like Stacey Dash, my other friend he’s handsome and successful hes dated this Ethiopian girl off and on. I’ve had a black girlfriend and Afro Latina, I thought they were hot. This girl has crossed the threshold of attractiveness I don’t think her race matters. Not to say some guys don’t want date a black girl, but I don’t p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:45 PM
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Saw your profile l, think you’re being way harsh on your looks. You’re focusing on pretty girls with light skin, not average ones. You’re clearly above any girl that would be considered average looking. I would think you got a ton of good looking guys that want to get with you, and would take you on a date if you live in a city. I’m not sure how you do this, but you really want a relationship and not just dates, you need to seek out guys who have had black girlfriends before, and not just curiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:24 PM
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Pretty easy to be charming when you pass the eye test. If you don’t and her body language is not towards you, then you’re fighting upstream with her with a turd for a paddle. I tell guy friends don’t sweat a date, she’ll decide yay or nay the moment she lays eyes on you, nothing you can do that I know of if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:24 PM
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It’s a few second glance at the guy. A woman’s body language of her attraction gives her away. Then you can mess it up with her by doing or saying anything dumb to give her red flags or ick. You also have to act interested in her and get her talking, if you just talk her ear off she’ll get bored. After you’re intimate with each other, she’ll take her guard down and pursue a guy near immediately for relationship or not. This is dating and pick up game, a relationship via social circles and work a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:56 PM
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You got to have something to offer, the guys I know that get the most sex from pretty girls and have social circles always got coke and k in their pocket. Guys on here that swear up and down they would never buy a pretty girl a drink and they half to go half. I’m like you’re seriously better than me I guess, if a pretty girl is willing to sit in front of me and give me a chance, sweet I’ll get her a few drinks no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:51 PM
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Life can be fucked sometimes is a nonsense statement. This paragraph you just wrote is nonsense. Come to some logical point without checkmarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:03 PM
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You should stop with the checkmarks, it doesn’t make you seem smarter, does the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:56 PM
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Suicide is on the rise is for both men and women. The first factor is inflation has made just living and eating as expensive. We’re being priced gouged from all angles. I used to love Taco Bell, now my meal is $13 instead of $4, so I don’t even go anymore. The dating market and a relationship is an easy out from having to be social enough with friend groups to cure daily loneliness. If I didn’t have my girlfriend I would have to do a lot more things with my life with other people. My girlfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:36 PM
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This is true, but also outdated. Girls don’t care about romance anymore, they care about you being useful and beneficial to her. Try being romantic with a modern young girl you’re dating and she’s just as likely to get the ick for looking like a simp. Guys are still into romance, girls like it when it suits their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:40 PM
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If she sees you as boyfriend material she stays. She keeps staying with you as much as you want for a relationship. I like it when the girl stays, in my experience at least half the time after first time they will. There’s a whole bunch of reasons why women leave after sex. Sometimes they just like to sleep alone in their own bed. Maybe she doesn’t want you to see her in the morning yet, or she snores. Maybe she didn’t like it, or she doesn’t want to take you seriously and has heart set on anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:03 PM
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Dang that girl in corner is going off, she’s right. If you see a girl that is cute with a presentable body. If she’s trying to look hot on gram, or on dating apps, or going out to bars/clubs. She immediately sleeps with and chases top 1% men and agrees to be in his harem for a hope of a relationship. You can never tell me different. There are exceptions, and girls don’t do it in perpetuity. Any guy who gets dates or girls a lot, immediately sleeps with most of them. Don’t matter the age, how att…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 PM
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When was this time that women wanted to get with 80% of men? As far as I’ve read with tribal and early agriculture, men hoarded women as much as they could. 8000 years ago the average guy who had children, knocked up 17 other women too. Most all guys got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:31 PM
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Yes this is reason. Gets frustrating when women have double standards with how hard they try to protect her man and keep him from straying or abandoning her. Feels like some girlfriends would box you in a cage if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:25 PM
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Girls try to date the best possible guys top down across all the apps on her phone, and every best guy she can get in front of across social circles. Women will do this until they want marriage and family. She keeps that same strategy, but isn’t likely work because she’s been dating out of her league by being a temporary placeholder girlfriend or in harems. When she has to date for real, her ego and actual dating options will hit her like a ton of bricks. Dating is fun and whatever when you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:14 PM
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Unless they were oppressed and had rights taken away. Women have never in history have wanted to get with or have an attraction to average or below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:03 PM
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Hard to tell the percentages, but it seems like by the time a girl hits 25 she will date at least 1 man 10+ years older. Some girls have strong preference to older men. I also tend to think girls don’t even think about age that much in general unless he’s under 23, if he’s good looking and got a fun life, then they go for him. Also there’s a lot of single young girls, if you want one bad enough you’ll probably do what it takes to get one. I live in a city where age gap relationships are so norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:53 PM
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Because we don’t care about science fiction worlds where women’s libidos act like men’s. There’s plenty of girls out there with very high libidos, go get yourself one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:44 PM
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Yea happens to me as well. Older women like to look down on older men who date young women. I tell them, you older women my age don’t want me that bad, I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:49 AM
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I don’t have enough security or wealthy enough for a hot 40-45 year old around my age. The fact I look like I’m 10 years younger and I’m in shape is no benefit to older women. My looksmatch and successful match my age will go out with me, but doesn’t usually want me. I date girls 15-20 years younger than me. They are impressed by my fun lifestyle and looks. Girl in her mid 20s who likes older men has real desire. Also, younger girls don’t mind my kids at all, girls my age don’t like to date men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:44 AM
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It’s not a curse, that’s how they get the successful 50+ man. If they are a milf they can play around with younger guys. If they got kids they are usually old enough to be a non factor. Attractive older women do well, they are just working in a different market now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:27 AM
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The cougars casually date the fit 30 yr old men. The older women are now in the 50s man dating world. Most successful handsome 50+ men don’t want to date that young or can’t. The older men with options choose the girls in their late 30s or 40s with nice bodies and still pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:03 AM
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Good looking women in 30s and 40s date older men who are successful, or hot buff 30 yr old men who have service or blue collar jobs. They are much rarer than a 20 yr old girl who is cute, hold more smv value. They also can get into relationships easier if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:22 AM
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Just the fact you hook up with 70% of your dates in a few hours and it’s all ages and all types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:40 AM
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I agree with all that, but charisma cannot be taught, it’s an innate attractive quality. That helps with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:56 PM
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For sure, these girls are like redpill in sense they can be a guys temporary fling for a bit, but can’t land the guy. So they seek out content to try and figure out why. Girl you’re dating players out of your league and not looking for love, you’re searching for status and a guy to solve all your problems. It’s a desperate look, guys with options see through it and play you as a placeholder nonexclusive girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:46 PM
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Unless the girl usually in relationship or has religious convictions. I just generally view most girls having slept with 30-70 men. Girls that keep saying they hate casual sex I want love, are often the same girls randomly blowing a guy and going home with him after they have a few drinks, or cycling men off dating apps. I never trust what a girl has to say about her own sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:42 PM
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The chubby guys were cool charismatic guys, one was in friend group in college and a roommate after college. They are attractive appealing guys, they just don’t look chads. They not spending money on girls. With me compared to the other 2 guys similar who never get girls. It’s looks, you wouldn’t say I’m hot and they’re not. Maybe it’s my green slightly hooded eyes, a difference in face distribution, a few milliliters of bone facial structure. Now I catch female eyes and I’m in a positive feedba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:38 PM
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Omg yes, that feminine energy pill is for the crazy girls that think they deserve to live in a mansion and be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:30 PM
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They have feelings, even the most privileged people can be depressed. Any Elliot Roger type stance is not being a blackpill. I’m blackpill because I could not barely get girls into I was 20, so I’ve been an incel before, but now I’m different in some ways. Came down to how my genetics folded out I guess. I have this college roommate and this guy I grew up next to. We’re all tall, good build, intelligent, ended up with great careers. Since 20 Im either dating or randomly getting with pretty girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:35 PM
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Not at all, the goal of the black pill is ascension and to get a girlfriend. Don’t force it by talking to thousands of girls and increasing how much you bench and think that will change your fate. Doing things or buying a bunch of stuff you don’t want, thinking it will get girls is pathetic male behavior. Don’t be a simp, be yourself. Attracting women is mostly an innate quality that a guy possesses inherently. Red pill will have you believe that women act this way so act this way, do this so wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:46 PM
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Red pill is just non pc talk about how some single women are. Content made for clicks, views, and selling alpha male training courses. Most guys want to be successful, respected, and have a bevy of beautiful women on hand. Some guys have that so why not, so let’s dream and complain about women together with red pill. There’s also red pill style content for women on how to game rich handsome men, by being in your feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:33 PM
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Incels and guys who have been players mostly take the black if they know about pills. All that Chad Stacy, 80/20, betabux, shortcel concepts have a ring to it once you’ve personally experienced both sides of the coin. I have friends having threesomes all the time and others that can’t get girls for years. They both have similar views on how girls act, there’s no reason to think girls can be gamed and you can just generate female attraction. Black pill says you are who you are, you might change, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:01 PM
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Common dating knowledge. For the dating girl to realize he saw those other girls as temporary, but her as long term. That’s a huge rush to the dating girl who landed the boyfriend. Girls assume guys are dating other girls. That’s a give in, if he’s a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:04 PM
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What girls have done sometimes with guys they didn’t want that bad in first place, and what they actually did for guys they really wanted are different. If you have strong desire for the man these things can encourage you that he is a real catch, and you need to get these other girls out of the picture. Now you’re love bombing him and being in front of him as much as you can. Once he says yes to you for relationship and you know he tossed those other girls for you, that girl will love you even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:58 PM
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Girls know when you got other girls in your place. They know when you’re not available for text or call the whole night. They get in your bed and SMELL other women been there. They see other girls hairs around. The may know people you’ve slept with, if they were attractive women, you now have her social validation. The unavailable man is worthy of a chase. That’s why when you got 0 hoes, girls know it and they don’t want to solve your problem. If you got a few girls, getting more girls comes muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:52 PM
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I would like to see the girls not express desire for the desirable man with options. Usually appears to be the opposite, some players appear irresistible to most women. If you get girls, every guy understands the phenomenon of you have 0 girls and it’s a struggle. Then you get 1, now you got 2, now you got 5. Now 3 out 5 who see you as boyfriend material know they are in a competition and are trying to land you. It’s not just confidence, I truly do think girls smell the other girl pheromones on …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:38 PM
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Common with girls you meet and know on dating apps, I wouldn’t say it’s common with single women in general. If a girl had a hot side piece and a prospective boyfriend a few times, that’s fine, but some girls that’s how they date. Guys really don’t like girls that got different standards situationally. She’ll randomly do hot guys but make a beta guy wait a month, that behavior is sickening to guys. Dating girls do it though for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:32 PM
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You don’t need to be a giga chad or be wealthy to have sex all the time and rack up 100s of girls. What you do need is the motivation to accomplish that, and have a few attractive qualities. You could be tall and have the gift of gab and pull girls like crazy anywhere. I wish for their own sanity you could tell girls that players are never “high value.” What girls come to believe is when a man becomes high value he will be a player, which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:26 PM
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Absolutely not. I don’t like girls who juggle multiple men a lot though. Some dating girls participate in dual mating strategy, of doing hot and bad boy guys on the side in situationships, while pursuing a more suitable boyfriend. Once you come to find out the girl that expects you to take her on dates, also just shows up at chads house for dick and a hot body. You want to kick that girl to the street immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:06 PM
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Basically no single guy turns down a beautiful woman for sex. This guys comment needs more nuance to be understood, I kind of get what he’s saying though. There’s slutty guys way into casual sex, then there’s guys that can get casual sex but don’t usually engage in it. Ugly guys get obsessed by something they can’t have, the power to meet a girl and have sex with her a hour later is an exciting concept they wish they could do. Either that or they to pretend most girls would never do that to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:00 PM
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If she’s on a dating app or at a bar/club, odds are she has casual sex. Women randomly fuck someone they want, even the normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:52 PM
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You still have to possess the “it” guy quality to get casual sex consistently from 2 or 3s. You just don’t necessarily have to be attractive to do it, but you need game. Big ugly girls got options for sex too, and there are plenty of guys available happily willing to give sex to an obese woman. When I think of the 80/20 rule, the top 1% are getting with very beautiful women, and the bottom of the 20% of those guys are getting with the 2s and 3s. I’m often surprised what a 3 girl can pull lookswi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:43 PM
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You should get yourself out there and get a social boyfriend. Improve your life, you’re living and doing good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:01 AM
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Definitely, your net is so much bigger in 30s, early 20s it’s just about looks and what you do for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:46 PM
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Ha I said stuff like go at night so you look better, make her come close to your house for couple drinks so easy to ask her over after. I just text one or 2 sentences on apps and just near immediately ask them out. People on this sub hate these concepts of how to pick up girls for dates. I was curious what people do, but I think too many people just struggle to get dates and get ticked off considering about what you actually do on the dates or strategy on how to land them. Maybe that’s more sedu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:40 PM
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I deleted, one was what do you say or what do you message girls to land dates. One was what strategy to you have for a successful date and what do you do on the date. This sub hates any “game” talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:34 PM
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I’ve tried dating strategy and how to land dates posts. Most people hated it, one person called me an autist psychopath, another said I hope a girl ruins your life. People don’t like talking strategy to get dates and getting women into relationship. Defeatist dating attitude and how women have it so much better is all the rage on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:10 PM
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I’m friends with a couple guys in the Miami club scene one is at 400+ partners and the other 600+ they are in their 40s so they’ve been going at it for awhile. They have house parties with cool people and sexy club chicks about every weekend. They are always getting with very hot girls. The guy at 400+ gets a girlfriend that’s down for threesomes, one time he claimed have more threesomes than regular sex. These guys are older but very fit, got money, and good looking. The first time that really …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:37 AM
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The only reason it's hard for attractive straight women is they can only be attracted to men in an instant casual way, to the men that are perceived as attractive and have a good career. The male bar for attractiveness is significantly higher than women and they refuse to recognize this. There's been studies that have shown that women find 85% of men as less than attractive. Then most attractive girls say they want 6ft tall, not fat, and 100k/yr that's there baseline. That's 0.4% of men 25-35. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:47 PM
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If they're a 7+/10 girl they get more than casual sex. They get dates, invited to parties, clubs, maybe a trip. They would rather be temporary placeholder girlfriend to a high value men then date in her league. They get treated better in some ways than the above average guys would treat her, it just never lasts and she has to share him with other girls he's dating. The other problem is she doesn't want to believe he is controlling the situation and lying about his intentions with her. They think…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:28 AM
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The modern dating girl fallacy is putting her emotional needs and love in the backseat. Continually putting on the blinders for guys that will satisfy her ego, dreams, or her lust instead. Guys don’t have this problem, if she’s on a date with you, prob 20% chance she’d near instantly be your girlfriend. If you can get dates you have power over the girls that are tired of the dating cycle and just want a relationship. Guys make bad decisions with the wrong girls too, that might take time to figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:13 AM
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Dating girls love bomb guys they want exclusive, I’ll take myself off market if I want them too. After a month or so, her true colors will come out on how much she really wants you. Sometimes she does really want you, if not you have to be disciplined dump her and go back to dating. This is the hard aspect for guys with girls in dating. I got caught up with a girl one time that could love bomb me for months, I thought our relationship was great. Then she would get bored I guess and cheat, we bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:42 AM
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That’s too much to still have a nice figure. If you love her, work out with her and diet together, and get her down to 170. People work with their partner to help make them more attractive. My last girlfriend did a lot for me to make me more presentable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:56 PM
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Is it cute face, big boobs, and fat, or just obese. The curvy chubby girls get chased like crazy, they got a whole fan base.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:37 PM
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"This is where the misconception start, it's not a losing game, people see them together and it boost women self esteem so much. And if they succeed, it's literally the best relationship they can imagine." It's a losing game in the sense there's not enough transform lifestyle, or get me connected to the social scene guys to go around. These guys date and get with the girls, but rarely if ever give the girls commitment. I'm an alright guy with a decent place. I can get dates, but I've found it su…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:00 PM
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I may have worded that wrong. Girls care a lot about great sex, tall fit bodies, and big dicks. Girls definitely want to experience lust. The difference is, they don't think about having a lack of affection in their lives like a lot single guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:40 PM
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Girls keep going top down on their favorite dating options. They want the smooth cool guys to boost their own social profile. They keep playing a losing game being unrealistic about their expectations from a man. They don't care about sex and affection like guys do, to girls it's so readily available it's not a concern at all. Dating girls only care about hot men and trophy boyfriends that give her bragging rights. She sees he self of only deserving to be with the high value man. The problem is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:26 PM
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Absolutely, you prob not be aware of these girls in the dating world. They date and leveraging men is their main social life. They get dates which leads to parties, club invites, meet lots of people via other men they dating social circles. It’s their own sex and the city show they’re playing out. Dating girls will go on multiple dates a day sometimes. If you’re going on more than 1 or sometimes 2 dates a week I think you’re a maniac. For girls on dating apps or active on instagram, that’s norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:51 PM
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Girls get dates easily, find it difficult to land a man that is desirable exclusive. Guys have opposite issue in landing the desirable dates. Some guys can’t get any dates at all and rely on other methods of interaction. Once you got the dates as a guy, you’re in the position of power of waiting for girls to chase you. Then deciding what to do and where to invest your attention. The fact girls date other men or still getting with an ex etc is just a factor that most people aren’t going to be lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 PM
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Why is stating an extreme somehow an intelligent argument to you? No one talked about ordering 20 men off the internet for an orgy. Most girls can do that though and don’t, so if that’s your point then sure. Single dating girls usually got some other things going on with other men, you have to become her top option to secure her for a relationship. That’s what makes dating hard and not an easy out, there’s other people in the mix she wants to consider and also has relations with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:44 PM
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This is how you get a girlfriend while you’re dating. They usually dating other people, still getting with an ex, got friends with benefits, or other guys they’re waiting to go out with before committing to anyone. It’s always something with at least one other guy. If she’s dating and you’re the only dude she’s dated in months or year that would be weird, not the norm. If I could find these girls in dating world and they were honest, they would instantly be at the top of my queue, it’s annoying …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:26 PM
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Situationship is being a temporary placeholder partner in a non-exclusive relationship. Most of the time one side wants the ltr and the other doesn’t. The person who wants the ltr will hang on until they realize it’s not going anywhere and bails or one side gets bored. If both sides have no intentions of ever entering ltr then that’s fwb relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:17 PM
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Yes I referred to bad actors and cheaters playing the game outside the general rules. Your strategy is sound in the game and usually nets the best result. There’s also people that are addicted and don’t want to leave the game, or more aggressive players trying to maximize temporary matching. Since euphoria and hopes are in the game, playing too long can make you depressed. So it’s best to take a measured approach and avoid bad actors as much as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:51 PM
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Dating is a matchmaking game with a bunch of players with a few different strategies. Scenarios will play out in the game before you pair your match and quit the game. There’s cheaters and bad actors in the game that can pitfall you. Most people’s default response to this is well that’s not me, you’re joking right. Girls aren’t like this. Well you’re not playing the game and have just maybe jumped in a few times. All I’m explaining is dating here, you don’t need a source to verify it. Just ask s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:46 PM
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If you are on a date with a girl, she is dating and single. What would you think is going on, she’s trying to land a man and put herself out there. Girls don’t pop out of a vacuum seal and go on a date just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:27 PM
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Dating involves situationships, unless you just get someone exclusive right away. Situationships are usually temporary less than few months, it’s different from fwbs. Guys refer to their situationships they got through dating as their harem. This is really called just dating, but because dates can come so easy now with the internet they have these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:21 PM
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If you met them and they actively dating and out with you they probably do. Most girls don’t have situationships yes, but most girls you’ll take on a date will. Weird to assume you’re the only guy she been out with in long awhile unless she specifically says.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:14 PM
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Guys end up getting the dating girl who’s tired of the situationships with guys not emotionally fulfilling her. Girls that have already been dating and are through with all their top options. These girls get tired of feeling lonely and used and want a boyfriend. If you’re with a girl and she expresses a lot of desire for you, you can just ask her to be your exclusive girlfriend. Most girls think doing more hot guys would be passé, much rather be down to be your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:40 PM
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I can’t even tell you the last time I would’ve met a virgin that wasn’t very religious. It’s not that mixed of a bag, most girls have very similar dating strategy. Find a guy you want to be your boyfriend and love bomb him. Get him to dump all his oxytocin on you so you don’t have energy for other girls. That’s what most girls do and why you’re going to get laid by most your dates, they’ve preselected you already. They use sex and their attention to help get what they want, that guy to be exclus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:59 PM
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Some guys are hedonist sluts to their core. They want a partner and to have sex with as many pretty girls as they possibly can in perpetuity. Most girls somehow can’t resist these guys that have racked up 100s of girls, because they usually fun and have a lot of attractive qualities. Normal guys who want exclusive relationships want a ho phase after a breakup. Their ego is bruised and they want to heal it by feeling affection and lust from other girls. You date and have your harems until you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:55 PM
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Why would I need a source when I dated a ton for years and I’m friends with girls who date. That’s my perception, dating girls sleep around and got situationships. Not all of them, but if you met her on a dating app or party odds are that she has dude or few she getting with already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:49 PM
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Omfg Redditors and your sources, what kinda study would this be and how could they verify results. Just because you can google it and someone put down a few stats means nothing. The source is me going on a couple hundred dates over the course of 4 years, and cycling soft harems of single women. Then the handful of single girls I work with that always going on and off the dating apps and meeting dudes out or on gram. Then my previous 3 girlfriends all got friends, they talk, single girls almost a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:35 PM
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It means the chick already got 2-3 casual situationships she’s willing to give up for you. Women sleep around with guys they may want as their boyfriend and think are hot. If there was a way to meet single girls being celebate and only date one guy at a time that would be a fantasy world that I’m not aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:28 PM
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They do want love and a boyfriend but you’re asking a lot out of a girl you met off a dating app to not already having men she getting with. Girls get with guys to secure them and sometimes just for fun. They may take a few month break from guys sometimes, but not while she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:22 PM
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If you’re meeting them on a dating app or club odds are she does. I’m not aware of normal cute girls that don’t have a few d on hand. They usually going to be better looking than you too, girls specifically go after the hottest situationships she can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:47 PM
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This is why I don’t continue to date, every girl you go out with isn’t actually single. Girls don’t have the discipline to not usually have a few guys she uses for entertainment and sex. Single girls that you would want as your girlfriend has 1-2 situationships you’re going to have get her to give up for you. They get emotional attachments to these guys, so you ask them to be your girlfriend, they prob want to, but it’s a fight in her mind to give up her other men. The girls will though most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:44 PM
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Irresistible to you Only desires you Enjoy spending time together Incredible sex Makes her own money Zero baggage Hasn’t spent 5+ years on dating market single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:00 PM
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Only famous men that are also attractive in small stretches. So no one. You could do 2-3 a week in perpetuity if very motivated and great looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:13 AM
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If you combine those 3 you get a guy in the top 2%, it’s like a parlay odds are one won’t hit. The 6ft, 6fig, 6in guy is in the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:59 AM
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I’ve been an incel or in a loveless marriage half my life, if I try really hard I can get a ho phase and find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:48 AM
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20% of guys is still a ton of sharing men. I believe it is 80/20 because anything more gets to be a logistical time constraint, most girls require dick regularly. Only 5% of guys can’t satisfy most all of the single girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:22 AM
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Goth muscle mommy is pale so it’s an aesthetic. 10/10 comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:15 AM
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Dating apps perhaps, but I’d say it’s more 80/20 real life still. Girls got to be getting d somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:04 AM
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Turning one match a day into consistent dates is a magic touch. Splitting checks and getting laid too, wow. You must have a real personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:49 AM
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The 5’3” sounds rough, but you still top 20% yourself by being part of a higher society, being smart and mindfucking girls. Recognizing types and choosing signals. You don’t some like anything like an average short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:46 AM
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I got a gut one time drinking craft beer, no girl wanted to f me until it was mostly gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:26 PM
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Where you meeting girls, the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:24 PM
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Where do you think you make it up? I do think being tall makes it all significantly easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:16 PM
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Since you’re only getting a match a day, you must’ve got some good text game. Can you give any insight on what works to say? Are you flirting on the texts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:07 PM
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Got to have examples and what demos..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:01 PM
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Social status and how much fun you have with other people I think is a very attractive quality to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:59 PM
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What you just explained put you in the top 20%. Most guys don’t go to effort to do all this, think it’s all great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:57 PM
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I went to Medellin once with friends and went out to clubs, only time in my life regular girls would approach me. I did notice the short stocky guy in our group wasn’t getting any love. The tall hot buff guy in our group picked up 2 girls at the same time and took them back to the Airbnb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:53 PM
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Same, took me awhile to get great pics so it wasn’t mid girls for dates though. Once I got my insta really going it was all cuties and hotties after that. The phenomenon that most your first dates will have sex with you would be very surprising if I didn’t go to university. I also wonder how much my game would diminish or basically be nothing at all if I wasn’t 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:50 PM
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Then what do to get dates or find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:43 PM
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Can you give 2 clear examples on what you would do to get dates from specific women. The only thing that comes to mind is the guys that always have coke and k on them when they are out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:42 PM
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Where do you get your dates from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:40 PM
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How much extra size did you get on the enlargement? Do you have your own place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:38 PM
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There is a very attractive aspect to women of being a social person. that has their own fun friend group. Guys that knows bunch of other cool fun people. Sometimes those guys look average, not tall, don’t make much money. He gets girls seemingly because other girls want to leverage his social circles with him to have more fun. Which is all basically having high social status, which is in the pillars of attraction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:36 PM
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Modern dating for guys is getting dates, putting girls in your soft harem for fun and being your sex toy, getting dates on the side. You find a girl that really floats your boat in your harem, ask her to be your girlfriend. Once you’re in that abundance mindset your best dating option will pop up for ltr. Girls have nearly the same strategy but they are chasing men and getting put in harems. Guys with abundance mindset put her in a scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:06 PM
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She went on a date and wasted a night with you, if you’re her 3rd top option so what. You’re still a top option and she prob down to get with you, don’t fk it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:18 PM
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I’m just trying to have fun and make out with a cute girl, then go from there. Why would I care about the future. I just don’t say anything about my life, my intentions in dating, or try to impress her. These can set off her ick and what you say can be interpreted any way she wants. Get her going on what she wants to talk about, and play off her. I just met the girl, she’s going to have to express passion for me to consider anything with her. I’m not chasing no woman that doesn’t really want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:08 PM
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Girls ick exist because basically every cute girl that is dating, she has her top options, and she is already getting sex. So she’s looking for an out, so don’t give it to her. I don’t take a first date seriously, I just be chill and charming, and then invite her over and get her in my bed. I picked the date because I was attracted to her, not because I believed she was my next girlfriend or wife. You do that by not setting off her ick meter by not saying much about yourself, being normal, and j…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:38 PM
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I really only see ick meters go off on first dates with girls you don’t know. If you are her top option and she is getting no dick currently she will likely not get any ick. That’s rarely going to happen. The reason girls get ick is because they have a top option that’s not you, and she has 1-2 situationships already. So instead of wanting to add you as another sexual partner, she’s more looking for something to set her off. Not messing the date up, and being the most normal charming man you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:35 PM
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Absolutely, 7s and 8s can be hard to date because they are insecure that you’re not the most attractive and cool guy they’ve been out with. 9+ girls date you because they want to, without the insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:25 PM
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Actual facts on human beauty lol. If you don’t know inherently know that tall muscular men and women with high cheekbones and smaller waist to hip ratio are aspects of beauty. Then you’re not human, or have very low observational intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:34 PM
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Ha the source is beautiful people, go look at them. Henry Cavill Jessica Alba etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:24 PM
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Men is tall, wide frame, muscular, lantern jaw, hunter eyes, smooth good talker. Women beauty it varies more, generally youthful feminine and sexual features. Big hair, big eyes, wide hips, high cheekbones, slender with thickness in right areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:39 PM
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Male celebrities have gatekeeping into another world of the highest status. Average women cannot compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:04 PM
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I’ve gotten a couple dimes, feels great, I’m above average, super hotties don’t do average guys. You know you’re more attractive than average and initiate casual attraction with women, most guys can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:34 PM
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I’m blackpill, I saw a post from a guy on incel sub back when they were allowed years ago. This virgin guy got paired with a Chad in a dorm in college. He got with 5 hot girls in one week. He said, here I am starving to death and have to watch this guy eat juicy prime rib in my face everyday. I think most guys have had that feeling, and it’s why so many guys vent on Reddit about women and talk 80/20. OP post is blackpill fact. The enemy of the blackpiller is the simp. Which I agree, we have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:56 PM
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If you’re an average looking guy pulling dimes, you possess something that the other average guys don’t. It’s not just your attitude and charisma. Could be social currency, nice place, attractive features. You have to gain a form of societal leverage to get 4 points out of your league girls lookswise consistently dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:13 PM
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Pennies? That’s Ms Connecticut. She’s a 10 hopping on yachts and going to fancy homes, being tossed around by rich men for heap loads of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:00 PM
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Middle of the bell curve is most people 5/10, end of the bell curve is very attractive people that others desire 9/10. The thing that rarely gets talked about is when people reference dating is they think about the top 10% of people that are good at it, and have very noticeable desirable qualities. Average looking guys with average jobs have never been players with harems. Average looking women don’t get to date chad thundercock, they get ignored by him. To most people having other attractive pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:44 PM
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Yea she’s a sweet chick she told me her friend showed her the game. I met her on hinge. In regards to simps, if every guy collectively said, I’m going to force girls to play the long game with me. Date me for years to fall in love without any guarantees. Then you’ll get far less women trying to be a very temporary placeholder situationship girlfriend to the top men, while he has other girls she’s competing with. The risk would be too high and she would run out of time and would be more willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:31 AM
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Well I think this post is about how girls actually rely on simps to perpetuate the 80/20 dating strategy of girls chasing the top men. I think he makes a valid point. They see simps as a bailout safety net. My gf makes more than prob 95% of working people being a kinda fake gf to simps who can’t get a real relationship. She looks like an ideal american girlfriend and they pay her on social media to call and interact with them. I get the impression that they use her because dating for them is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:09 AM
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Mostly, but there’s red, black, and players that lurk and comment to trigger the normies. This is a good sub, cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:02 AM
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Think positive to attract positive outcomes does not help women want to be in a relationship with you. Players have the most negative opinion of women usually and that somehow nets a better result. Getting a thick skin about female rejection and not giving a fuck, because women decide the moment they lay eyes on you whether they want you or not. That’s a real strategy to gain affection from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:53 AM
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This sub is not an echo chamber like most on reddit and internet, that’s what makes it good. Fun to make a post on here and see what people think and react to obvious observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:49 AM
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You know who degrades women the most by far, calls them all sluts, believe that men are superior? Players with 3+ girls currently begging him to be his girlfriend, and always has multiple girls giving him all the sex he can handle. He’s hot though, so women keep trying to halo him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:10 AM
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OP not attacking women or being misogynistic to me, he’s explaining why women have power in the dating/relationship market. He’s more putting women on a pedestal than tearing them down. Calling guys the loser simps. Why is every guy that has an opinion on women on Reddit automatically considered an autist incel? Every time I make a comment, every girl and white knight guy tells me, time to get off the internet sorry women don’t like you lol. I love women, doesn’t mean I don’t have some observati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:01 AM
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It’s an online take about the current dating market because that’s what it is in real life. Guys that can date easily have soft harems of girls they cycle through. You get a date, especially on a dating app, most girls hook up with you within a few hours. Girls don’t call it a harem, they call it a situationship. They usually either cycle through 1 guy at a time or have multiple as well. Girls do this because they think it will maximize their chances to land the most high value man possible. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:53 AM
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That would open her up to being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:30 AM
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Sure if you’re a 6+ girl 20-32, you’ve come to believe that every guy on your level and beneath you will worship you. So her focus is to continue to date and hook up with men out of your league through your 20s and hope one says yes to a relationship. She actually believes that even though the guy she’s sleeping with has 3 other girls, she will be picked, because she’s delusional. The cute girl keeps trying at the most desirable possible guy that will pay attention to her with limitless dating o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:21 AM
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Girl don’t usually approach so that’s their go to move. The look down, then head turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:27 PM
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Who tf stares at members of the opposite sex they don’t know platonically? If I’m sitting somewhere publicly like a bar, and some girl keeps looking at me to get my attention, and when I look she looks away. Then she does it again. She wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:11 PM
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This is what girls usually do if she doesn’t know him. You get stared down by the girl and they look away. Then it’s up to you to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:50 PM
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I’m in my late 30s and I try to explain how hard it is to date a pretty girl in her 30s that’s never been married. They’ve got with the hottest, most rich and handsome, athletes etc guys that would take them out. These girls weren’t being pumped and dumped, they were dating placeholders for the top 1% men and treated usually good during that time. The top 1% guys are more exciting to date. You meet these girls in 30s who been dating for 10 years straight, and they see you as some second rate guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:25 PM
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Why do you want stories? Girls who do this behavior are either addicted to dating and say and do whatever they need to justify it. They may want you for now, but don’t see you as ltr or husband material. Then they can change their minds on any position at any point in time, being a girl means you live life without logic or awareness of consequences. The big problem is the dating market is loaded with depressed sluts, men and women. They seek out temporary satisfaction and endorphin rushes. I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:32 PM
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What you’re talking about is women’s whataboutisms to support their shitty hypergamous, I’m never going to be fully happy behavior. Girls date around and cheat and have some insane vision of a man that transforms her life into pure happiness. We gave girls every single guy dating option in a 50 mile radius. Now you have a bunch dating girls running around with chickens with their head cut off trying to get with the tallest muscle guys with the biggest dicks, party boys in a social scene, or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:24 PM
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Like you want a story? One time I was dating this chick, the weird part about this is she would stay over like multiple nights in a row. So we hanging outside and this dude breaks into my house comes storming into backyard, while my kids are there, screaming and crying, wanting to kick my ass, she runs away. That was her husband, I didn’t know she was married. I don’t end up hanging with her again, the end. Girls are nuts and cheaters dude, I could tell 30 more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:55 PM
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It’s standard, nothing abnormal about your stories, every guy who dates got similar stories. My advice you can take it or leave it, is most guys who date around don’t care, they just want sexy harems, or they want a girlfriend and ask that to a girl who might want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:40 PM
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If you date around you’re going to experience other chicks dating around. This sounds normal. Either don’t care like most guys and work on your harem or get yourself a girlfriend and get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:37 PM
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Sounds like all these girls were dating around and juggling men, which is standard. Makes chicks crazy and dating girls got their ego way up their butt. That’s the dating market for guys. Don’t tell any girls you’re dating about your relationships, how long you been single, last time you had sex, fell in love, when you want to get married, how many kids, nothing. She either thinks you fuck in her head or not, even let her guess on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:32 PM
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If a girl I don’t really know or just met off a dating app is deciding to go out with me. I look at it as now it’s mine to fuck up or not. I’m so used to girls more than half the time jumping in bed within a few hours. So I act like the most normal, charming, sitting up straight, listening to what she gotta say and responding guy. I don’t really lie because I don’t really say any confirmed thing about myself on the first date. I’m normally in a relationship during my life. If I really want a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:33 PM
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I act all the time on the first date or first time out with her, trying to be a gentleman. I don’t act like a thirsty simp, but some point during the date usually when I get her more alone, I’m going to make a move and kiss her. If she pulls back or something like we’re in the “talking stage,” I chalk it up as a big fat L and go home. 3/4 of my first dates I’m making out with them at least. I’ve been few hundred first dates in my life, so that’s what I expect. I wouldn’t know how to navigate a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:24 PM
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Someone had a post recently about this video from a guy called hoemath on YouTube. Of course everyone bashed the hell out of it and said get off the internet incel. I watched it and no one mapped the modern woman dating behavior so well. Girls work their best 2 or 3 options by accepting dates and immediately entering a desirable man’s harem, usually within a few hours of meeting him. Then do what they can to gain exclusivity usually by love bombing. This rarely works and one of them ends up endi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:38 PM
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90% of the time being a passport bro means I can’t date girls out of my league here lookswise. So I satisfy this with a girl from another country, who just wants a guy to take care of her and has low standards for her own life. Passportbros often times have major deficiencies in dating that they don’t want to address and see this as an out. What happens to a lot of these guys is they are married until they get their green card, and your wife goes out and is willing to cheat on you with any guy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:22 PM
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Having your own place in the area she wants to live in, that she can possibly move into if you start a relationship. Is the number one quality outside yourself that gets you girls. If you got an amazing place in the part of town she wants to be, that will get you laid immediately. Where and how nice your place is every a guys ace card in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:03 PM
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You’re explaining the modern day dating girl juggling men, while still going on new dates. If you want to multiple women at same time and have harems, then don’t over analyze them. If you want a real relationship, you have to wait for the girls that appear really into you, love bombing you, or just keep hitting you up. You say let’s be exclusive together, no more dating, I want to be with just you. If she’s on the dating circuit she prob has 1 or 2 other guys and few other dates planned. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:51 PM
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It’s her visceral reaction to have to give up her 2 situationships, and her 3 other dates she already has planned. If you just had sex with her for the 5th time and it’s your 3rd date and she doesn’t immediately say yes to giving a real relationship a chance, pull back on her, she’s for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:42 PM
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You’re right. I would say the majority of girls who like a guy don’t act like giggly, touching your arm, stroking her hair pickmes. If she’s on the date and not being distant or rude, she prob still wants you though. Girls that see themselves as shy, cool, or queens are not so outward in their attraction to guys they desire. These types of girls don’t want to give themselves away and look easy. If you’re getting dates and you’re turning a girls attraction off it’s because her red flag and ick me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:51 PM
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Girls don’t understand that if you take a 7/10 girl with a basic office job, she literally can have sex with every man she wants, and get a very attractive date anytime she wants. If you made her a guy, now she’s just some okay looking dude with bs job. The male version of her would basically never get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:11 PM
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The 80/20 Rule Pareto Principle applied to dating says that 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men. When women are shown men to rate in a study, they rate 80% of men as “less than attractive.” The reason it’s referenced so much on Reddit, is there was an analysis of OKCupid app data by the company itself. Based on women’s likes and messages to men, it supported the 80/20 rule of dating as well. OKCupid published their data, and online it’s the go to explanation of why most men struggle with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:00 AM
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Yep that's what guys do. This is why most girls on a first date are going to clam up on you if you try to 50/50 a bill under $100. She should, you asked her on the date, she presumes he picked a place he can easily afford. She knows that guy wouldn't ask to split a few drinks if he thought she was hot. This is the reverse date situation is for guy. You take a girl out and she don't want to come to your place after. You know full well if she had the hots for another guy, she would go over to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:02 PM
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If you can do a euro trip once a year for a week, then tropical trip for a week and 2-3 other weekend vacations per year. You will fully satisfy any girl who wants to make her instagram look cool. I have a business where I get 5x points and I travel like this a few weeks out of the year with my hot girlfriend, and we go to Vegas or California with friends some weekends. She's happy as a clam about it, I'm going to travel like this a couple times a year even if I don't have her and she's no great…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:16 PM
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Most all women don't demand to live an influencer lifestyle no matter how hot or obsessed with instagram they are. However, all girls would like to do it a few weekends, and couple weeks out of the year, to travel and do some fun activities. You're probably going to need to make 100k+ to accomplish this. Girls with options are going to avoid you for a ltr if you don't appear to ever have any exclusive type fun. Girls do have strong preference to have a boyfriend that can provide this at least so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:42 PM
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If I could give men one piece of dating advice it would be give up the concept of splitting the bill on the first date. What are you going on a date for, you should be thinking about fun. I REALLY don’t believe any guy when he says if your dream girl is asking you, “when are you taking me on a date handsome?” You’re actually going to reply let’s go, but I’m not buying you 2 drinks and an appetizer, you’re paying for that yourself. If you’re doing that you don’t want pretty girls. Just pay for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:23 PM
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This is the rarely well thought out post with originality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:16 AM
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Last 2 paragraphs hit me hard, girls get addicted to what men have to offer, and they want their options. They keep spinning the wheel of dating and having casual sex, it’s a gamblers high and they keep losing because they keep trying to get with the biggest players in your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:40 PM
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I was thinking I had a couple high school gfs, hooked up in college a bunch, worked on cold approach, been married, been on 150+ online dates. My experience with women is a lot of why I get girls pretty easy, it’s second nature at this point. If you’re way behind on this, you don’t have the tools to pickup women. Practice gfs with ai chatgpt integration is prob going to be a real thing pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:02 PM
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What caused this gender swap? 20 years ago it wasn’t like this, social media and dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:34 PM
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For Chad it’s a lot easier. Also, chads often look for a relationship that benefits them. Biggest player I know hasn’t worked in 15 years. The 2nd is married to a rich woman 10 years older than him, he was a bartender and now he doesn’t work and cheats on his girl all the time. Before that he scammed girls for a living, he was a 10 rated by all girls that ever met him. You won’t ever hit a wall as a guy, it’s just the girls you get now won’t be the same in the future. I’m 44 and get the best loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:18 AM
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That and some girls are masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:02 AM
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Correct way to view the situation. I would add one caveat that some girls enjoy asshole man behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:11 AM
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It’s the difference between motivations in the girls. If you’re a hot dude you can better separate girls by their level of interest. Also, he’s hot, girls just say I want something beautiful, if he is a good lay, I’ll get a f buddy. The difference with me is I’m more just all around guy, I don’t have any great desirable quality, I’m handsome but not hot, well off but not rich, fit but not muscular. So if a girl says in her in mind, I may want him as a boyfriend, then they fuck or at least come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:49 PM
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I live in Miami, beautiful women are everywhere, makes it possible. Built a good instagram over many years. You attach it to your dating profile, I’m also tall and fairly handsome. Getting dates and girls back to your place is easy, all dating apps are hookup apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:58 PM
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Oh hell yea, do the harem if you got a chance, it’s really fun for awhile. I had a big run of girls after my divorce for a year. I was playing a Pokémon game trying to get every single type of hot girl. Statuesque platinum blonde with big tits, spicy Latina with big fat ass, black ford model, sexy persian etc. I would set my sights on something I hadn’t yet, and toss her in my harem. Never got any girl I’d classify as a 10, 8s and 9s. Now if I’m out of relationship, I don’t want to bother with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:41 PM
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Harems are taxing mentally and tiring to the point you don’t want to deal with it. If you’re on your 3rd or 4th girl coming over in a week, she expects to be entertained as well as fucked. She is a person that wants to be treated right, not just used as a sex doll. You also can’t keep most girls in your harem for long, you have to keep resupplying it, so you’re working your harem and trying to find new recruits. There are players that this is how they want it with women, they never want to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:10 PM
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I see you flipped genders, this case for women your explaining is common. The reason is some girls aren’t that great for ltr consideration, but they are still hot. Girl has 9/10 looks dating smv, 6/10 ltr smv. There’s no male version of this, your total smv gets you dates with looks and ltr smv girls in the same range. Guys can’t consistently date above their league like girls can. These very attractive girls are stuck in a quagmire of dating, because all the chads and handsome successful men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:39 PM
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Yeah your case made me think, that's as hassle free dating as you're going to get. I think dating apps are fun, but they are taxing mentally, even when you're on a good streak of dates. I can't keep girls in my soft harem very long, generally less than 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:24 PM
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That's a smart way to go about it. You're going to have to keep going until you're tired of it because you can't go back. Then consider that. The problem is you've now given yourself the hottest best girls already, your standards are now out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:19 PM
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This is not really directed at you because I don't know you. But I've had the opportunity to observe around 15 different girls actively using a dating app and with other girls. It is incomprehensible how big of a toxic ego trip they get from them. They swipe and if they get a match from a guy they really want, straight giddy with excitement. He compliments her she's smiling so happy, or laughing at the messages guy say. They match insane, it would be so much fun you know if, 90% of your right sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:07 PM
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Same thing happens with women who date too much for too many years, bitter about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:48 PM
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Yea I strongly believe sleeping around takes your soul, it’s fun and feeds the ego for awhile though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:13 PM
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I think most guys are going to get tired of this. It might take 200 girls or more, but eventually it’s going to get boring. There is going to be a girl you meet that you believe is special and you’ll give it up for the chance to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:09 PM
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There’s a good percent of guys on dating apps or by going out that can get 14 girls in 2 months. That guy went through a ton, but about 2 new girls a week is going to be a lot of effort for any guy. I don’t know if most guys can at will date deliberately like you’re talking. Most guys waiting for inquiring for opportunities, which might be better anyway. Dating app girls, club girls, girls who go to house parties. These types of people involved in a hookup scene are not representative of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:28 AM
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Women's looks and personality is what matters most to guys, doesn't matter what age she is. If a woman can support herself, then she's more than likely dating you simply because she's attracted and enjoys being with you. If you're a guy that wants a girl with a great career go for that, but I don't think that's the attitude of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:30 AM
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The top 10% of men cheat more than women, but women cheat way more than men and it's not close. I already know countless studies say differently, good luck getting groups of women to admit about how many times they cheated in a relationship. Also, a woman leaves in her mind before she leaves you, if she cheated on you when she thought she was heading out the door in a few months anyway, girls don't consider that cheating. I'm not saying women are worse than men in relationships, they just got wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:28 PM
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Strictly evolutionary speaking, modern day homo sapien females get with dudes who look fit and got a decent place. If you got those 2 things and never works out when you talking to girls. Then either you’re not socially adjusted or really ugly to look at, which is bad for the survival of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:33 PM
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Women are much more quick to call out slutty behavior in other women and make allegations about them to cut them down. She does this slut shaming because she feels in competition with her for same men in their social circle. Guys are mad at girl sluts because it takes nothing to be one, it’s more about a gender difference jealousy. Society says something about how she values herself to get passed around, female sluts have been ridiculed since the dawn of human history. Guys also don’t like cute …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:12 PM
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I saw the profile now, I was wondering after he said he had 95% date close rate, which sounded absurd. This guy could sleep with girls 18-45 no probs anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:45 PM
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Some guys that are 9+/10 and look like big male models just get girls by existing. You can’t ask them for help, because they just attract women’s eyes like an intense magnet. They just need a fun looking dating profile to sleep with as many girls as they want. The biggest players though are cool guys in a city social party scene. If you a rich and social enough to host parties in your house, and get an ongoing cavalcade of hot party girls you meet at clubs. Just knowing these guys and how many s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:35 PM
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Ha is this 1 guy. I know a couple guys like this, they were somehow blessed with model looks, tall, muscular juiced, and women say a huge d too. They are unstoppable with every type of girl of any age, one is 500+ and other is 1000+ mostly very attractive girls. One married a hot rich girl in her 40s, he has no job, and just cheats on her constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:19 PM
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Girls are socially engineered, scammed, and preyed upon by all types of guys in so many ways. There is a famous super hot guy in my city that is a known con artist. He scams pretty chicks out of money with this whole I need to finish med school routine. If you’re a 10 guy in looks, girls are mesmerized by you and will fall for anything, even just charismatic guys can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:16 PM
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The whole let’s travel together and not go on a date first is crazy to me. I know girls that do it and I guess they just f the guy and get a trip. Girls are wild for that. I just get a girlfriend first then go on a trip. My experience is 85% of dates are girls already got feelings for someone else, or they have some strange expectations of nearly instant marriage, and family. There for a free dinner and maybe they’ll hookup, but you’re not her first choice. Around 70% of girls come over and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:10 PM
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The 1/3 who don’t want me, guess I didn’t get the vibes right, or they thought I was less attractive in person. Or they actually did need to get home. Never works out if they don’t come over first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:58 PM
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Yea I do the same stuff, just when I ask them over 30% say no. I prob could’ve predicted they would be into me or not the second they laid eyes on me and the reaction. It’s like girls either want you or you don’t, not much you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:33 PM
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The one thing that would improve dating apps immensely is having a lie detector test before going out with them with 2 questions. Are you still hooking up with your ex? Do you have 2+ situationships already? So many girls on those apps are just messing around, in search for a guy in their head that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:36 PM
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I don’t think most people here are lying, most the girls on the apps are going on dates quite often, there are men out there that are taking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:18 PM
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A 3-4 girl soft harem is too much for me to deal with for more than a month. I end up not even enjoying having 1 girl leave and another show up. Good for my ego for a bit though. I have the same amount of success with girls average to super hot. I’ve had super hot ones that wanted me really bad hooked up immediately, and 5s that didn’t like me at all. I’ve never been able to distinguish differences in what type of girl is going to want me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:15 PM
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What makes your close rate so good, do you vette them out to see if down before, how do always get them over? Think dating apps are just implied hookup apps, been around 150 dates, 1/3 where they didn’t come over, didn’t really hear from them again, if you don’t escalate seems like it’s over. All 5 of my girlfriends off the apps got into my bed within 2-3 hours, some didn’t sleep with me first night, on 2nd date they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:07 PM
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What do you do on dates, are you hooking up with most of them? I do a casual dinner date then ask them over for glass of wine or joint. 1/3 not interested, 1/3 come over and make out, 1/3 jump into bed. Half down for second date. No difference really no matter which app.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:35 PM
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Never knew a guy this successful on Tinder, what’s your profile like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:59 PM
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His profile got to be different somehow. He’s getting the matches. What does he say? Most of the time I just basically ask girls out within the first few exchanges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:58 PM
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If your definition of a 6 is still fit and classically handsome and 9 is super hot then yes. Players these days of really cute girls with options need to be outliers of something or combination. For example, if you’re 666 man you’re in the top 1% with that combo, and unless you’re also handsome you still won’t just get dates whenever you want. Girls don’t recognize how rare some guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:29 PM
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4 guys I know are on T, they all think most men and I should be on it. The problem is your natural testosterone will eventually stop being produced. So you can get stuck shooting T in your butt forever. If your testosterone is low, then I do think it could benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:26 PM
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Men can spread their seed, women can’t. So men are less picky with sexual partners, women are more picky. I didn’t come up with this concept, it’s literally how most female animal species are with mating, more selective due to female biological constraints of having to bear a child. This is an evolutionary theory taught in biology class. I’m not breaking any ground here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:17 PM
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Girls wish to carry on their genetic code, same with all species on earth. Animals don’t think about it, they just inherently do. We are also animals who wish to make more of us. It’s better to mate with someone well adjusted and attractive to opposite sex. It’s encoded in all beings to desire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:08 PM
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Women are usually more picky with sexual partners, because she can’t spread her seed like men can, she gets a few chances to do that with 1 or 2 men. She isn’t thinking about her own genetic immortality when she gets with a guy casually. However sex and genetics are wound tightly together because natural selection all beings inherently abide by to continue the species, even humans. Girls don’t want short, dumb, ugly guys, because they are not as good at mating and living happy easy lives, so bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:03 PM
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No one is Chad, it’s just a concept of a guy that gets laid about as often as he wants, which is usually represented by a tall buff masculine man. If a guy regularly gets with or dates girls society would deem as attractive (Stacy/Becky), and you can easily accomplish that basically whenever, you’re some form of Chad. Normie has to rely mostly on luck and circumstance to get sex or relationship. Incel is unable to achieve any level of affection. So they are jealous of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:23 AM
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I think we have a vision in our head of the horny douchebag advertising himself like that to get low hanging fruit. Op really focused on this concept. I would say that situation represents 7% of hookups. Most players just by either dating or being where girls are, talking to her and asking her over. She agrees to be alone then you hookup. You can act however you want, she doesn’t necessarily know if you’re a player or not. Casual sex is not usually some business negotiation where you lay your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:13 AM
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It’s oneitis and the only way some guys are going to get a decent girlfriend, it occasionally works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:57 PM
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The reason the wall is a concept is because she kept dating guys that weren’t going to be exclusive with her. It’s like feeling sorry for someone for being fat when all they ate was fast food and candy bars. These girls know they are dating players, they could’ve attempted to maximize with guys that wanted to be in a real relationship with them before they were in their 30s, but thought those guys were boring and beneath her in her mind while she allowed herself to enter harems of desirable men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:22 PM
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Women go on a lifestyle, status, and trophy man pursuit for something that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:49 AM
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Obviously you haven’t been to the Middle East, it’s different, a man’s world over there. Lot of women in full covered hijab, they’re oppressed to point they have to rely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:59 PM
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In any organized society structure women chase the top men in it. It’s only when we oppressed women to the point they needed a man to live a decent life did that temporarily change. They still do this in many countries, if you give a man a woman and a family he has something to work for, but this isn’t necessarily what most women want. They are socially conditioned and especially still in Muslim countries forced into it because they don’t have rights. Western world women are now free and they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:35 PM
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Get a sexy classy girlfriend and take her around town, everyone treats you better, and other girls want to get with you. If people see when she cuddles on you, people will watch in jealousy. Having a beautiful woman is a man’s social proof and clearest sign of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:16 PM
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You want a body for a month or so, after that you’ll slowly crave their soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:03 PM
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Sure but single girls complain publicly and over every other social platform constantly about how the hot guy and rich handsome man that girls made themselves sexually available for, who likely isn’t going to marry you and didn’t agree to take care of you for rest of your life isn’t something valid to keep complaining about. From any measure possible girls run and control the current dating market. Then when guys just want a date every once in awhile and a chance, most girls are quick to ridicul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:33 PM
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I’ve not met a girl that was at least cute that hasn’t been online dating specifically going after crazy outlier hot muscular guy, or every guy she can verify career online that makes $250k+ looking up to make sure they own a nice home. Then they meet this obviously top 1% guy, sleep with him, and get genuinely upset when they are ghosted. They keep repeating this process over and over and over. Then proclaim “all men and apps are trash!” when they won’t even give one above average guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:22 PM
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I went from average height to over 6ft tall my sophomore year of college. I also looked a bit more manly. I kind of thought sleeping around was something only small percent of slutty girls did. After I was tall I just existed and had sexual options all the time with minimal effort. I no longer thought casual sex was just for easy girls, it’s for most girls. Before I was tall, I never had a girl casually want me in my life and only had 1 girlfriend ever. After the height and masculine transformat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:59 PM
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The kind hot man of character also isn’t meticulously building his online persona for years in order to sleep with as many girls as possible off dating apps and instagram. He isn’t going to the club and hosting parties with alcohol and drugs at his house to keep a supply of cute girls coming to him to get with. This is who the socially outgoing pretty girls are usually subjecting themselves to, dark triad guys with relentless promiscuity. These single dating girls come to believe the only very d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:14 PM
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Good guys don’t have dark triad traits that lot of women are drawn to. They don’t make picking up girls their primary hobby. They are much more interested in a long term relationship. There’s nice guys with good character that are also hot and desirable, they usually aren’t in the dating market for years. Dating girls don’t get much exposure to these men because they are off the market. They are usually sleeping around with players and cheaters, which gives them a distorted view of what men are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:53 PM
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All girls are attracted to the same physical features: tall, wide shoulders, lantern jaw, hunter eyes, above average size d. There’s no arm candy for girls that doesn’t fit that physical description. Guys like girls who are skinny or thick, short or tall, big or smaller butts/boobs, angular model face or feminine face. Female beauty is a broad spectrum, and actuality has preferences. Male physical beauty is the same select features, if you’re short and look weak girls don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:45 PM
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I think with me is that I’m a large man that’s not fat. Every girl wants a tall guy with big arms, that’s a girl cheat code. You can’t have a gut, got to look kinda fit. I’d never get a chick casually if I was 5’9” and skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:36 AM
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Dating apps, yea maybe. They’re not trying to help even above average guys get girlfriends, the business model would collapse immediately if they adjusted the algorithm for that. The apps support cute girls with all the matches and desirable players that will take them out, seduce, and pump and dump them. It’s nearly the same a night club business model, but with guys paying membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:11 AM
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There’s a fine threshold with casual sex with girls I’ve had. First year of college I was 5’9” I kissed 1 girl in college and slept with 1 girl ever. By end of sophomore year I was 6’1” and looked more masculine and girls would approach me at parties, I slept with 28 girls in next couple years of college and always had an f buddy, it was like living in another world. Later in life in mid 30s, I developed a gut with craft beer, no girl wanted to sleep with me. I worked out and dieted, then online…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:03 AM
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Yea I’ve been used for an atm and cheated on eventually in a few relationships, I let it happen though. My fault, you move on. Dating apps are setup like nightclubs, the business model would come crashing down even if the above average guys were finding relationships and leaving. The dating apps model survives on cute girls that are addicted to spinning the wheel of the most desirable players they can get. Girl is having fun and being promiscuous. While most guys keep paying for app memberships …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:37 PM
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In the dating world there’s been no better time to be a player. Guys on here know if you got the profile and your own place, you can get as many girls as you can handle. Dating apps have been around long enough it’s common knowledge know how much desirable men got dating girls on lock and a new supply whenever they want. If you got a great dating profile, you look at Hinge as a candy store for sex and maybe a relationship when you’re ready. Dating girls not seriously looking for a ltr, see datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:18 PM
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Dating girls always has a few guys she knows with a cool Instagram she wants to get with, or at least 10 guys she’s matched with on dating apps she’d do anything for the chance to be his girlfriend. This is what guys are competing against these days, and what’s making average guys frustrated. If you’re one of those guys that got a lot of desirability and present it well on Instagram and dating apps. You can sleep with so many girls in a short amount of time you ever dreamed possible. Gets crazy …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:46 PM
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You don’t need to flirt, I act more mysterious, just talking to her. I personally think flirting with a girl you just met is corny and gives you away. I also don’t compliment girls I’m trying to sleep with, unless it’s earrings or the color she’s wearing. Don’t make yourself seem easy, let the girl think you’re the prize. Then when you do make a move you act in a confident sexually dominant way, the girl is alone with you, she wants to submit to you. You have to assert yourself to her in a direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:18 PM
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How many people do you need to sleep with in a year to reach “community dumpster” status?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:39 AM
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If you were actually into monogamy, it’s not that hard once you’re getting dates consistently. If you’re on a date with a girl I just think 1/4 would be my girlfriend. If she desires me, sex is good, like to look at her face, and she’s a chill hang, I get her to be my girlfriend. Rosters of hoes gets old for me after 3-4 months after a breakup. I like the reliability and love from 1 girl. If you’re having problems and you’re getting with cute girls that look good in bikinis. They always got shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:24 PM
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I couldn’t get casual sex if I was short, also I got a gut from drinking too much craft beer for awhile, and no girl wanted to f me during that time. Some gym work is necessary. I feel basically like a SD, my gfs I’ve had live with me for free, I pay food/drinks, they’re getting so much free lifestyle benefit, it’s basically impossible to kick them out once they move in. I never hand them money, the moment you do that they see you and treat you differently. They have to work and have their own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:03 PM
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I make good money, most years not in 7 figures. I’m okay handsome, but I am over 6ft, not fit, but no gut. I worked on an instagram for years to reflect a cool lifestyle, that’s what got the dating apps rolling for me. Now I get 8s and sometimes 9s (cute face, great bodies) in their 20s off dating apps. I do think if I was 5’8” or shorter or had a gut, my ability to pickup attractive women would not work. Lifestyle in 7 figures should be getting you at least 2 points on 10 point scale of attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:48 PM
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I can get a date off a dating app nearly every day, and half will sleep with me. There’s 15% of my dates that would immediately be my girlfriend after staying the night on a first date. There’s 25% of dates that would take more work and more dates, but would be my girlfriend. There are so many girls that just want an exclusive boyfriend, might not be most you’re on a date with, but it’s pretty easy if you’re good at picking up girls. A hot buff Chad with his own apartment could just say I want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:29 PM
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You need to be a 7+ to get the attention of the hot or super rich guy. As far as 5 getting a 7, if you’re an outlier in height, income (150k+/yr), or social status then you can date prettier girls than you fairly consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:26 PM
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Chad that is into monogamy isn’t spending years of his life in the dating market. He gets to choose who he wants to be with, or at least the type of girl he wants. That’s why all guys want to be Chad, feel like sleeping with 30 different pretty girls in next few months, or just get a hot girlfriend after going on a few dates? For very desirable men the choice is yours. Also, if a girl is having sex with you more than twice, better than 30% chance if you just ask her to be your girlfriend she say…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:45 PM
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If you’re noticeably attractive to females, not trying to find the hottest best one you can get, or not trying to run through as much new pussy as you can. You just take what comes to you in dating primarily, no looksmaxxing, lifemaxxing, gymaxxing, statusmaxxing thoughts to achieve maximum player status enters your brain. Consuming pill content to you is a waste of time. That sounds like you, it’s a state of zen and happiness, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:11 PM
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He’s explaining the dating world and is laid out incredibly well, I think this is a fantastic video for both men and women. If you’re a guy that cycles through new dates, has a soft harem, that’s what he does, has sleeper and occasionally keeper girls. Most girls get stuck in a desirable man’s sleeper zone, and he baits her that she may become a “keeper” to hold her interest and get the best sex from her. Most guys don’t have girls always chasing him for an exclusive relationship, so it may seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:49 PM
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Biggest players I know act like women, all into drama, are emotional, romantic, think they’re beautiful in way girls do. They could look and act masculine, they’re just more in touch with and display feelings like a woman when you get to know them. Category A of effortlessly attracting women with no outside influence mostly comes down to your ability to attract female eyes. Some guys possess this to a small amount but maximize opportunities and get with 100s of women. Some guy may work on his in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:43 PM
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If a man is super rich or super hot outlier of society. Girls act however they think is best way to get his attention. You just basically kinda do what it takes, that might be playing hard to get or trying to be his sexual fantasy. These super desirable guys may leverage this to the level they have 4 girls in his bed at the same time every weekend. I’ve seen famous or super rich guy invites to girls for such orgy related activities. If you have a $20 million mansion and host exclusive parties al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:58 AM
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I believe all this too, it’s not really most chicks just the single chicks we get exposed to. It’s like women saying all men are cheating assholes. It’s the perpetually single girls on the dating apps and instagram, that us guys keep noticing. Seemingly always getting with some guy or multiple, always trying to get with the hottest or richest guy they can. I bet it’s less than 10% of girls under 40, but you just can’t avoid them in dating world, so it feels like the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:21 PM
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Guys 5’6” and under have a terrible time dating. Being big and 6ft+ is the ace card for women. It’s bigger deal to most girls than muscles, career, or a big dick. Girls really don’t want to be seen with a short man. I went from 5’10 to 6’1” my 2nd year in college, absolute game changer with reaction from girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:07 PM
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There’s no dating app that is even close to 10 to 1 ratio, Match app has more women than men. Also, the majority of women under 40 have not used a dating app, I don’t care about statistics, but you can’t just start throwing around them to make an argument. The thing is about dating apps no guy wants to admit. You need 6 good pics and a LinkedIn profile for her to lookup after she asks you out. That’s what preventing you from getting dates. Women are going to pick their best option or who they mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:50 PM
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What are you talking about, every girl gets total batshit crazy sometimes, at least the ones I date. Any girl will fuck up your life if she feels like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:34 PM
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Guys do convicted on that stuff, also it’s not gentlemenly behavior to meet a girl, get a bunch of drinks in her and have sex with her. You want to do it on the 3rd date, maybe that’s more okay, def not first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:33 PM
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Don’t give a first date more than 2 drinks, if she does you can’t have sex with her. See if she wants a joint at your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:55 PM
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Weed is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:53 PM
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What do hot girls respond to, theoretically you could get anyone you want with 6 good enough pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:55 PM
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The problem is we value female youth and fertility in accordance with attractiveness. So your average girl under 30 isn’t average, she’s above average. Young men who want their looksmatch don’t want to consider this. You have a fun Instagram where you look above average, fit, and not short you will get laid. I know guys that aren’t even good looking but they always doing something fun, hot girlfriends they get. If guys worked on their instagrams as much as guys do, girls would have something to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:35 PM
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I tell people on here to actually take some time to get 6 really great photos of yourself with cool backgrounds, have an online verifiable job on LinkedIn so she can verify you after you give her your name and number, take her out for couple drinks and appetizer and you’ll likely get laid. I’m downvoted to hell that I’m wrong, and if you buy a girl a drink you’re just supplying gold diggers. Seems like most guys just want to over analyze and wallow in misery and not do anything effective about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:40 PM
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All people want someone attractive or desirable in some form. All guys want pretty girls, the pretty girl wants something that’s not some average guy. That’s why average guys complain so much, because if a girl is youthful and average, that’s actually not average, because youth is valued highly in women. She tries to leverage her beauty and youth to find the best partner she can, and have fun in the process. I don’t know why that’s not caring about people, that’s just how mating and girls with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:11 PM
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I’m talking about dating and partner expectations, at no point did it say anything about casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:04 PM
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Guys usually put in the context of girls under 30 that can be recognized as cute or attractive. The types of girls at least 98% of guys would have sex with. These girls go on dating apps and have fun and get attention, but this fun is in a short window of their lives. We got these dating apps where cute girls get dates whenever and unless you’re in the top 5% of desirable guys, you don’t. So single guys are mad at girls about this and tell them to date their looksmatch or stop being delusional. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:38 PM
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I would guess 80% of single girls in your city are not actively using dating apps and going on dates. Nearly half under 30 never used a dating app. Most all girls don’t go to clubs but twice or 0 times a year. Most girls are not actively posting on Instagram. The problem is that’s the cute girls you’re exposed to. I guess there is possibly if you’re in the bottom 50% of attractive guys you never get a choosing signal by a girl. If she looks at you and looks away she’s trying to get your attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:39 PM
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If a girl is continuing to cheat and having affairs then yes, at least part of her would like to leave the relationship. Good sign she will if she can or file divorce papers. Guys could cheat and be mostly fine with their partner, no desire to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:20 PM
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How do girls never leave, what are you asking? There’s 5% of men on the app that weren’t Chads in high school or college. They made a ton of money, or made themselves super handsome and with muscles. I changed my job title to “General Surgeon” one time just to see, I matched like insane and I was suddenly “very hot” on girls messaging first. These guys at the top have the system gamed, they’ve now decided to sleep with every girl they can and tell girls whatever they need to hear to get them int…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:28 AM
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There’s prob a third of chicks you’re not going to get go on dates with random men or more than a couple of dates. Majority of girls under 30 have used a dating app though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:08 AM
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There’s always the obvious hair stroking, fast look away motions, looking at feet. I could tell with 80% accuracy the first second of eyes lock, there’s a gleam in eye and subtle uptick mouth movement. If I got a date and I don’t see it, I’m like ah f this chick, I’m likely not recovering she didn’t feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:48 AM
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Dating apps growth curve is over, chicks already went on 200 online dates with the most desirable guys that would take them out. Didn’t work out like they hoped for most all of them. You can talk to girls in lots of places, they still down for some attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:30 PM
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I guess there is hiv, other than that what is the risk I need to be aware of that isn’t a very minor temporary inconvenience. I got in college, I went to this free college clinic, got a test, and it felt like it was gone in 2 hrs after a shot of penicillin. I have friends that keep having sex like it’s going out of style all the time, cycling through sexual partners is their hobby. They fit, muscular, and eat healthy, that’s part why so many girls want them. Fast food and laying around is harmfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:37 PM
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I’m more like the 6’2” fairly handsome fit guy regular millionaire, I usually have a girlfriend. I can get a date with a pretty girl off apps or just message them on insta. Girls follow me and hit me up. Been on lots of dates in a few spurts of my life. If you want to avoid pretty girls that haven’t been on 100s of dates, slept with a bunch of super hot guys, or been on paid dates, chased rich guys, and done this for years. I know these rich guys and girls they are my friends, I party with them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:07 PM
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I know a bunch of guys that have been with over a thousand women. Have threesomes every other weekend. They are the healthiest looking most fit guys you’re going to meet. Girls know they sleep around, they don’t care. I got clap n gon in college and once as an adult, omg it was nothing. Slut guys already got herpes, most girls on tinder they got herpes, it’s the same thing 90% of people have on their mouth, just down there, look up stats it’s like 1/4 of people. I’m sure they take amoxicillin oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:45 PM
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What vd is people so freaked out about? You get one it barely burns, you get some amoxicillin it’s gone in a day. I’ve never had herpes, but stats say 1/4 of people got it, if a girl I liked had it, I could give af. Your girl or guy is cheating all the time, or requesting to cheat. If you weren’t swingers when you met, something is wrong. Omg people and stis, I’ve been with 100 girls, don’t even think about it, 100x more worried about babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:28 PM
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If an attractive girl wants to give nearly any guy a bj, she can. Doesn’t mean the guy wants to leave his wife/partner. Most guys just don’t turn down those things. If your girl is trying to give a guy a bj, like going out and doing it more than once. She doesn’t want to be with you anymore. She prob stay, but she wishes the guy she giving bj to would take her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:23 PM
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What’s not always true, there are sluts that just want to get with other guys, girls just aren’t usually sluts in the way guys are. I’m not talking about she cheated once and regretted it and blocked the guy after. Girls continue cheating bc they are deeply unhappy about something, might not be about her man, she may be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:04 PM
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When a girl starts cheating more than once, there’s something wrong in the relationship. Big part of her wants to move on. You could be having sex all the time. Most guys can cheat and have no desire to leave their partner. For girls, they don’t just cheat, they unhappy and think they can get better, and want a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:00 PM
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If they posting on instagram and on dating apps they advertising. She could be a doctor, elementary school teacher, or living with mom, she got assets and a pretty face she wants to do some fun elite level stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:54 PM
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If she’s not on a dating app, not on insta flashing her butt and with friends, not at a nightclub. Where is this pretty girl with nice body? These are the girls that look hot you going to find. If you find one not on insta/apps, young enough to not be exposed yet, freshly divorced, or some hot girl that’s not interested in going to a mansion party invited by her friend. Lock her down, don’t let her go out and party without you. I’m aware and know these guys that girls are their hobby, they eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:29 PM
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The ones that you’re going to see posting a lot on instagram, if you go to a nightclub they getting free drinks from the rich guys with coke and bottle service. You see a girl that looks real cute and is in a bikini on a dating app, that girl can get a date from every single very hot guy and guy with a Ferrari in your city on those apps. Guys that can’t get her and got money will try to be her sugar daddy. There also is a concept if an older hot girl that act as madames to feed the top guys in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:10 PM
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We talk so much about what top 5% of guys are doing sleeping with lots of girls. The top 5% of girls get in a man’s rotation with the guys in your city that got 10 mil homes, local athletes, they are sugar babies, or they know rich guys that are swingers and attend his open sex parties. It’s pretty standard if you’re a hot chick in your 20s, they’re not doing this everyday, but they all got friends and went out of their way to meet the hottest guys on apps/instagram and connected with friends. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:28 PM
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It’s far worse than this, if you’re just 8+ cute face looks good in a swimsuit. The type of girl every guy hopes to marry. You’ve hit the nail on the head here. There’s a feeding frenzy for all these beautiful young girls in your city by guys that are so rich, big muscular body lantern jaw, smoothest biggest dicks guys that can exist. They seek these girls out and they get them. These guys have great instagrams and a funnel of girls coming to them by girls they know that recruits girls for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:34 AM
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Once a girl starts having sex when she’s 15 she basically never stops until she’s maybe 50. She’ll take a few months break maybe that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:57 AM
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Promiscuity is at an all time high and stds in young women have doubled last 20 years. By all appearances it would appear morality is also at an all time low. Young women in competition on Instagram and dating apps for top guys. All the girls I know they all seem to either want a hot buff guy or handsome and successful to express to everyone on social media how much of a high value woman she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:30 PM
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Yea those loser guys prob suck at it. You know who doesn’t? High SMV men are freaking excellent at establishing situationships, sometimes with multiple girls, and rotating side pieces, with girls of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:20 PM
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All the losers living in mom’s basement is big reason why more young guys are single, they aren’t commitment phobic they can’t get a date. Girls accept that some high value men aren’t going to be exclusive, but he treats her well. She don’t mind too much because she has more reign to explore and not be totally locked down either. I don’t think most girls in their 30s have much interest in this, but girls in 20s will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:45 PM
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You need to factor in that girls usually date older and not younger. So if you’re 24 or under guy you’re in a tough spot to get a girlfriend. Girls 18-30 are at peak SMV. Guys peak is usually after 30. Girls are increasingly going after guys that are 10 years older, some girls 20 years older for legit relationships. This girls into older guys is rising, and it’s skewing the number of young single girls in relationships to young men more. The last part is the meteoric rise of situationships. Girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:47 PM
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If a woman under 30 is not living with a guy, she’s likely accepted a situationship with him. Some girls do that with multiple guys at the same time and still date. She would rather sometimes share a high SMV man, than be exclusive with an average one. The root cause is young girls under 30 that are not fat, most are generally regarded as cute and attractive. They now have access to all the best men in a 50 mile radius and more, with instagram and dating apps. Young attractive girls are going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:34 PM
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You tried to express an outright lie and you know it. Guys outnumber women on dating apps, but it’s definitely not 8 to 1. People go on dates off dating apps, most women can get a date whenever off them, that’s why they make so much money and are multi billion dollar corporations. More people are forming relationships off dating apps under 30 than anywhere else and it keeps rising. You said this to prob to make yourself feel better, or virtue signal for yourself and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:09 PM
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This sub is pretty cool, but needs to stop with this most women have low libido cope. It makes me cringe, what a sad thing to believe that most girls don’t routinely like man meat on top of them, dick, being kissed and adored, just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:27 PM
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You’re not bottom 50% of SMV guys then. You can be old as hell and ugly as sin, if you got money to throw around, some cute girls will have sex with you. That’s not lust, that’s paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:17 PM
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You’re talking about 0.5% of men, sure they got a wide range of pussy on total lock whenever. Guys exist with super high SMV. Those 10/10 guys will only usually entertain hot and beautiful 8+/10 girls, they don’t have the time or desire to screw the entire population of even above average girls. However, 10% of guys can get above average to hot looking women into bed easily too. The next 50% of guys can occasionally get a girl to want them. Some of the bottom 50% of guys might never be lusted ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:12 PM
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I can get a date with a cute girl with a nice body at least 3 times a week. I’m not Chad and I’m not wealthy. I live in a big city and there are so many girls on apps, I could match with thousands of them, and get a date anytime because I got a cool fun Instagram and I’m handsome. How would you know how many girls on dating apps there are? Those apps make billions because chicks use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:06 PM
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Are you agreeing? Girls lust over Chad, or they may lust because they want you as their boyfriend and think you’re handsome. Girls got libidos, they lust, they want to get railed. They just not I’ll fuck about anything like some guys are. I don’t know why this sub keeps pushing that a girl with a libido is not normal. Girls not wanting sex nearly as much as guys is the problem with dating, I don’t agree. If you’re girl in a relationship not trying to have sex regularly, she prob never was attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:00 PM
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I guess that’s my point right, but if you’re just letting money sit in the bank and you’re not doing anything fun with it, then it doesn’t help. You’re not getting your 2 points extra out of 10 without adding to lifestyle. If you’re making 50k/yr in NYC you need to 10x your salary to get the 2 points. If it’s rural Midwest, you prob just need to double it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:50 PM
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You’re bringing up a couple of topics on gaming girls that are true, but also not something a high value attractive man would do. First cars, I’ve owned every car that you can think of. I’m telling you that a girl is just as much going to have her guard up and not have casual sex with you for driving a Lamborghini. Cars don’t equal sex. For any guy, get a used $70k luxury whatever and you’re fine. There’s no pussy slayers because of a car. Unimaginably wealthy, these guys struggle with love so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:12 PM
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Just another example of a girl wanting looks first, but also desiring other things along with it. I want handsome, but I’ll sacrifice for this type of older man. I would go as far to say that if you’re just doable in a girls eyes (which is still a high threshold) and she gives you a chance, your shot to make out with her and be in relationship with her nearly as good as a hot guy. Some girls just want as hot as they can get, most girls looking for more, she may be into dark triad tattooed bad bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:56 AM
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The hot girl was just an example of how girls are looking for more than just an attractive face man with a muscle body. Whether she’s a 7 or 10 is irrelevant, these guys saying it’s 95% only looks, it’s more than that for girls. I meet girls 19-24 off dating apps, those age girls I seem to have best luck with, because they pre-selected me based on their preference to older men. My current gf of year is 20 years younger than me, she’s not a sugar baby she lives with me now, she just dates older m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:38 AM
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Seems like I’m basically the same, most guys may not get those opportunities to test out her initial attraction. Maybe have to navigate a friend zone, or she’s playing him for something and he gives in. Eventually they hanging out and she just warms up, not sure. I don’t flirt, I just get her talking and play off her. If I go in for kiss sometime in prob first hour or 2 of meeting or date and she isn’t in full embrace with me, it’s over. I’ve never recovered from that in my life, and I’m pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:10 AM
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I don’t even normally see a very hot perfect body girl with her looksmatch, generally he’s just regular or handsome. More than half the time the really hot girl is looking for things other than looks, she’s comfortable with being the pretty one. Many hot girls don’t even want hot guys, they want a businessman, surgeon, preacher, or guy that has a cool friend group and goes out to clubs. Sure they want handsome too, but who he is that’s what will flip her cookies, get her wet, and want to be with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:40 AM
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Intelligence obviously has correlation. Having your own place in a safe neighborhood and your own car is a standard baseline for a pretty girl. Her idea of fun lifestyle might be having a ton of weed available, money for takeout, and a big screen to play video games. It will depend upon the girl and what her idea of fun is and how you help share good times and help supply it. To act like girls only think about a man’s looks and marry him just because of that, is not the mind of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:28 AM
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Could be, there’s girls with low libidos, there’s girls on meds that give them low libidos. That aside, I think your average girl would enjoy sex at least 3 times a week. I’ve never got in a relationship with a girl that wasn’t near immediate interested in cramming her tongue down my throat. She thought you were cute, that attraction lessens over time but usually isn’t going away. If sex is important to you get a girl that’s attracted to you from the jump, that’s my recommendation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:14 AM
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Some girls are like that. I’ve never had a relationship where my girl wasn’t in general dtf. If a time she isn’t in mood and you are, give her a glass of wine or a joint, that’ll likely get her going. This sub really hammers home how low libido girls are, maybe I’ve done an excellent job of avoiding those I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:49 AM
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Oh if he’s fun, cool friend group, going out. Not just some loser going to gym and living with his mom. Then yea you’re right, some girls just want a party dude, even older chicks. Doing fun stuff is part of your lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:51 AM
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Small percentage of girls care about ONLY looks in a man. Status and how much fun you having, they care about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:42 AM
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I said it gets you 2 points out of 10. Looks are first and foremost with girls. If you’re a masculine handsome great body 8/10 guy AND you got great lifestyle, you’re now a 10. Girls much rather have you than the hottest guy. Looks and lifestyle now you can date models, sexy career chicks, whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:40 AM
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If a girl isn’t wanting to kiss you fairly quickly, you need to bail. You’re never going to win an argument with a girl who’s not sexually attracted to you. Sex isn’t important, passion is. If she just got low libido and yours is normal, do not date her. You marry or get in a relationship with a frigid girl, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:35 AM
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I’m always dating girls 2-3 points out my league bc of my lifestyle. I got some nice stuff and do fun things, but I’m not rich. My social status pretty low just got a couple nerd friends, I don’t go to clubs. If you’re right, maybe I’m underrating myself. I’m barely handsome and balding, but I am 6’1” 210lbs. Girls do like how big I am, I’m not fit though. I don’t think I’m wrong though girls chase guys with lifestyle. If a guy just hot, they f him and bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:18 AM
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Go on a dating app and have someone take a picture of you in your nice kitchen. Take another picture of you on the amalfi coast in Italy. Got a luxury car, sit on top of your hood looking cool. If you don’t think that gives 2 points of attraction in a woman’s eyes, you don’t know them at all. Women love comfort, fun, and security. No guy is hot enough to just take some mirror selfies and expect some girl to swoon. You need some lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:58 AM
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It’s not only good for me, it’s great and essential for humanity that women absolutely love to be adored, kissed, touched, and have their brains effed out by men they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:49 AM
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Have a decent house in nice neighborhood, newish car, a vacation couple times a year, and be able to eat out a few times a week. You’ve now given yourself 2 points on the 10 point attractive scale. That’s all girls are going to give you. If you’re a 4/10 in looks, you’re now a 6, and some girls won’t even give you that. Girls are attracted to a guy’s genetics (intelligence, height, frame, eyes, jawline, masculinity, hair etc) and social status way more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:44 AM
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People hang out with friends and socialize 50% less than they did 15 years ago. If people don’t hang, they don’t talk to girls, make out, and form a relationship. Dating apps are harder to pickup girls than a nightclub. Guys think well that’s where I have to get girls now, better work on 6 good pictures, there’s much more to it than that, and the competition is fierce for young attractive girls. Apps are where girls go to find someone better than them, they already know some average guys would w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 AM
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Why does this sub keep pushing this libido thing. I have been in a 7 year relationship, 12 year, 5 year, and prob about 6 more relationships lasting 3 months or less. At no point in any of those relationships, even right up to my exwife served me papers was my partner not interested in sex at least 5-10 times a week. A couple of my girlfriends had nearly insatiable desire for sex. Sometimes during a week with all my girlfriends we were romantic together for hours. I’ve gone 44 years of life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:20 AM
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Seems like it’s the conservative and non-political guys that get girls. Liberal guys are characterized as not being as masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:47 AM
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This is a step further, I didn’t use filters or Snapchat. I had someone work on editing my face and body on facetune. Still definitely looked like me, but better. I think the slightly hotter stare she gave me is what struck the biggest chord in getting more matches and response. I posted a couple of edited pics as stories on instagram, a handful of people replied at how good I looked in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:38 PM
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The one girl that confronted me about it still came back to my place and kissed me for 10 seconds, there was no 2nd date though. It wasn’t a full on catfish, I would say dates somewhat less successful than when I used apps before. I had better looking dates than before too, more attractive women I think are slightly harder to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:33 PM
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It was nothing, just a subtle comment I picked up on. Only a couple directly confronted, even that was just a 5-10 second exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:26 PM
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Not at all, I would say all my first dates were mostly pleasant and attractive. 19 came over and made out, slept with 12 of them. I did more dates than that because those were just the first dates. No regrets, I would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:21 PM
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They certainly don't have to, they get casual sex easy. If they want a real exclusive boyfriend they prob going to have to date an ugly or also fat man. A wealthy man with status is also not likely to choose a fat girl. There's the occasional Chad that exists that likes fat women, the 2 guys I know like that have threesomes and orgies with fat girls, but one of them is their girlfriend so it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:06 PM
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If you can easily date fat women, then you can very likely get average. Unless you just like fat, that rocks, chubs are no big for me if they got cute face and curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:22 PM
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Girls have looked at their 200+ favorite selfies enough times with filters, facetune, and perfect angle that they actually believe that's how the world sees them. They take the 6 best pictures they've taken in the past 3 years and put it on a dating app and think, wow every hot and high status man wants me. When they try and find the exclusive boyfriend, that's where things get dicey in their mind and a crisis of conscience sets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:14 PM
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Guys with options put some girls in a sleeper zone because he likes her, but not for long term committed relationship. If all guys had similar SMV I would assume guys would do this it at same rate as the handsome guy. Ability to get casual sex with no strings, and girl hoping she picks him anyway is usually a handsome guy privilege. Handsome guys get to be more picky with choosing an exclusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:40 PM
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Struggling with debt is a tough one, but if she really is into you, works, and plans to pay it off herself. Then whatever, only one of you needs credit long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:08 PM
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That money doesn’t have to matter at all, scratch it off the table, some people just really get along and want each other. She wants you bad enough, flip the whole question around, she can be the breadwinner. You literally never have to go into dating well I make X dollars, she makes Y. Just go after what you like and stop overthinking it. I know a lot of girls literally won’t even go out with a guy if she can’t verify his salary range and lives in the right zip codes, makes women miserable and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:42 PM
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If you’re handsome and smooth enough, the girl takes care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:36 PM
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If she appears to be classy, natural, and elegant. Then next to her, you can also can be recognized as an attractive fairly fit handsome man. As a couple you're going to be treated better in society, and she will boost your social profile. If you look like a slob next to her, people will automatically assume she uses you and prob cheats on you. People aren't going to treat you well, and think you have low self esteem. I think this is an important aspect of having a beautiful woman as a partner, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:19 AM
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I don’t disagree, but you’re going to have to define some logical benchmarkers for what works and doesn’t, we don’t have a caste system in US. We more generalize in western women their obvious proclivities to try and date a man in a higher socioeconomic situation than her own. Most girls openly say, I refuse to seriously date a guy that doesn’t make more than me. Some girls are going have to face the facts that’s not going to work for all girls if they want an exclusive partner leading to marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:10 AM
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What in the hell was the question then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:04 AM
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I don’t think you necessarily lose girls to hypergamy, it’s not always or even indicative of why they cheated. They probably felt like they wanted to move on. Girls are going to explore their best options, they are all queens that desire everything and think they deserve it until they get smacked in the forehead of what real dating life expectations are, and not just fkn around dating is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:02 AM
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To this day all 3 girls would tell me they never cheated on me. Girls are so good at hiding it and they can get sex super easy. I think way more guys get cheated on than they realize. You’re going to have to oppress women like crazy to get women to stop exploring their best options while they are single. Hot rich guy with a yacht tells her he wants get married to get better bjs, or enticed by 6’3” jacked lantern jaw Chad, it’s going to take a few times to learn her lesson and start re-strategizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:54 AM
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She started cheating on me after 3 years together, I don’t know what happened, she was okay then seriously went mentally ill, was a therapist and she lost her job, me, kinda everything. She wanted me back after left her and I said no. I’ve had 3 long term relationships and marriage and at some point I’ve always got cheated on. Wife it took 12 years, but it happens. Not sure if cheating is hypergamy, there is relations to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:39 AM
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Yes, absolutely. Cute girl that looks great in a swimsuit finds out hot and rich guys don’t really exist, if they do they are usually sexual degenerates. Hot buff guys fk constantly and cheat constantly, got a hot temper bc they on testosterone and steroids, so girls tend to learn their lesson in there. Girls get on dating apps, and find out the guys with the polished instagram, worked on it so he could get as many chicks as he possibly get his hands on. Cool party guys always doing drugs with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:30 AM
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There’s some in Mormon communities, you going to have to wife them up to get it. Most all girls not virgins by the time they turn 18. Girls like to get railed what you going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:22 AM
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I’m with you though that nearly every single attractive girl you’re going to meet on dating apps, parties, clubs engages in casual sex. It’s so prevalent if she isn’t incredibly passionate towards me (without sex) and expressing a lot of interest I’m 99% she getting with a hot guy or still fucking her ex. Girls like to have sex and use it in love bombing a guy, I’d never get a girlfriend if I was sure she never does casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:55 AM
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Hypergamy is more associated with countries of equal rights for women, encourage women in the workplace. Give girls the ability to be on there and explore their options and they often will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:50 AM
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Why if a girl has sex with you first few dates do you disqualify her? 30% of my online dates have sex with me first date, 50% by the 3rd date. How do you trust girls that make you wait aren’t already getting dick other places and putting you on the back burner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:45 AM
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Yea I seriously seriously believe it, lot of creepy old men with money and big houses for hot young women. Lot of simps paying for dates with sexy girls, or $300 for a bunch of nudes so they’ll talk to them. Hot girls on Instagram that got a lot of nice stuff, never posting a man, but somehow doing luxurious things in different places all the time, these girls aren’t paying for it, 99% of the time it’s not their parents money. There’s an exchange with men going on. I know these girls, an average…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:03 AM
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Any fertile woman that’s mobile I guess is at least a 3. Things are pretty difficult for the very ugly and extra obese though. Wouldn’t be most guys/girls first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:58 AM
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How’s it work they just keep getting pumped and dumped by Chads into their 40s? Or do they get real and want a family most of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:38 AM
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Hot ones that post on Instagram, randomly in expensive homes, randomly in Dubai/Italy etc. Always decked out in designer. If you’re a 9+ girl on gram you’re hit up constantly. You got hot friends recruiting you, and they get kickback when other girls show up. Every city got these girls constantly promoting themselves on instagram. I had a girlfriend that sold nudes and messaged simps on Snapchat and made $150k/yr at it. I’ve had multiple girlfriends seeing there dms saying something like $10k fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:30 AM
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Eventually girls get tired of men that won’t be exclusive with her and keep lowering until she gets respect and treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:25 AM
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They aren’t going around talking about their sugar daddies, poker games, and dates they get paid $1k+ to show up to. How do you think they travel so much, but never posting a man? A legit modeling gig? Ha $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:23 AM
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Cute girls that are mainstays on dating apps are usually going on lots of dates, cycling or juggling men, and being a ho. If you're a hot girl on instagram (and there's not a man on your page), then the girl probably at least occasionally going on paid dates or does some form of escorting. Divorce is completely awful, I've been through it. You do it because love is real and you think it could last forever and it usually won't. Women file for 80% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:29 AM
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He may get lucky with a cute girl occasionally with low self esteem. Unless he has a great lifestyle, he will be stuck getting sex from below average quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:19 AM
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If shes verifiable hot chick with no clear flaws and she wants you really bad, she’s a good hang, what more do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:05 PM
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Any 8+ beautiful girl with good body and a job is never considered settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:43 PM
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Blue pill is just people not familiar with internet dating theory. You don’t consider what motivates women to have casual sex and chase certain men. You’re blissfully ignorant to any big picture female sexual selection. Normies. Black pill says Chad thundercock just gets harems of beautiful women because that’s his god given right. Black pill says red pill makes stuff up and sets up women as to be “gamed.“ TRP lies and tells men you can be almost be like a Chad, just follow these steps. It’s int…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:09 PM
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Black pill is about the acceptance of fate. Life is mostly predetermined by your genetics and your environment. You’re born to be an incel in hopes of finding the girl who loves you. Chad and Stacy are genetically sexually preselected by the dating market. They are more free to be themselves and have others appreciate them with a halo effect. Black pill sees a guy who becomes more successful with ladies using TRP was mostly about genetics he had all along, but didn’t pull them together or was to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:50 PM
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The problem I have with it is giving the hot girl the money or buying her shoes in exchange for more sex. The moment a girl propositions such a thing to me and it’s not Christmas/birthday I can’t feel it for her anymore. Rich guys that are average and below in looks just be tossing money around right away. I’m tall and fairly handsome so I get propositioned for it sometimes, but I avoid it, if she’s in it for more than free food my mind will hate her. How rich guys get over the hump and just buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:48 PM
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Super rich guys who are not attractive absolutely do the paid harem thing often. They can find hot girls that would marry them too, I still think the majority of girls wouldn’t and would find him and his behavior deep down disgusting. I live in a nice house, cars, do fancy trips and have enough money to get hot escorts and sugar babies too. I just hate those types of relationships and despise the girls who happily do them and are willing to have orgies with these men. I get a girlfriend and she …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:09 PM
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You could have a billion dollars if you’re short fat and ugly, you’re going to have a hard time finding hot girls that actually want you, I guess some girls may get with you to be on your yacht. When you’re an attractive man and super rich that’s where it gets crazy where any girl is trying to get with you. Also, super hot girls are not often living the life you think. It’s like you’re a bottle service girl, often some form of escort, maybe OF. You’re still going to need good luck to marry the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:10 PM
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You should only be jealous of the desirable men that get dates with whatever types of girls he feels like taking out. The 5-8 out of 10 pretty girls are in the worst spot of being able to constantly chase the Chads. Giving him the best bj and sex she possibly can, only to be ghosted a few days later or thrown into his dating harem. Repeat this dating process 50 times on dating apps, and her self esteem is ruined. Only the girls that are super hot 9+/10 are in a place of luxury and can activate e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:44 PM
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You have to be at least 5 inches to be considered husband material, 7 is raising your attractiveness score by another point out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:07 AM
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At face value if you’re a pretty young girl seems like it’s fun. Except you’re on Instagram, seeing other people happier and having more fun than you everyday. You can get dates off dating apps anytime you want, you go on 200 dates with the hottest and most successful men you can get to take you out. You then get essentially used by 50 of the desirable men who rotate harems of women, none or maybe 1 exclusive relationship was formed but that’s over. You’re over 30 now, you’re not as hot as a gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:47 PM
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Women are the privileged sex for 20 years of their life because our current society glorifies female youth and fertility. Men are considered more overall useful for organizing society the economy and all types of jobs. Male beauty holds up better and sustains for longer. During Roman times male beauty was put on the pedestal and women were the second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:13 PM
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We gave girls access to every single hot and handsome successful man in a 50 mile radius and beyond. They want these guys not some average one. People hangout with others 50% less than they did 15 years ago. The dating standards for women since these major cultural events have been drastically raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:18 AM
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People really enjoy making other people jealous. If no one thought your girl was attractive you would find her less attractive, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:34 AM
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Girls want a guy she can flex on other girls and make them jealous, especially her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:24 PM
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The mentality is if no cute girl wants you then why should she.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:21 PM
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They’re still dating at this point, not agreed to ltr. If they bf/gf and he just cheats constantly she’ll eventually bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:00 PM
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If a girl got her full package man and she has sexual access to him, she will fight off some girls in pursuit to secure him. She knows how other women chase handsome fit successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:51 PM
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Be 6ft, strong, fairly handsome, 6 figure salary, 6 inches. Have a house, car, and normal acting enough for a few friends. You can now have a never ending supply of quality attractive women basically throwing themselves at you if you’d like. Take one of those aspects away to below average and you’re very likely not. Hypergamy isn’t I need to get out of poverty. It’s I need the ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:37 PM
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I clearly said you need both looks and lifestyle, hot guy outside of college living in poverty is not attractive. Your post focused so much on money, that’s just part of a guys attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:19 PM
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Women desire men that have strong attractive genetics, status, and lifestyle. In that order. Female hypergamy is still mostly looks. Her other main desires are to have fun times and eventually to have attractive, cool, and smart children. Even if she chooses not to have kids, breeding is still in the back of her mind. If you’re some weak looking recluse dork with a shitload of money, most pretty girls just going to try and use you. If you fat and ugly with great career, most pretty girls still g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:00 PM
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I want to meet the chicks on here that say you’re abnormal damaged sex crazed sociopath if you’ve had sex with more than 6 people. Like girl have you been to college parties? Have you been on dating apps and gone on dates? Those people be having sex, I don’t know what reality you’ve been living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:35 PM
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It gets confusing when she keeps wanting to hang out with you though. There can be many reasons, girls can get off by getting you hot for her in bed, then saying no. She may be wishing another guy she sleeping with would be exclusive with her, and is using you for company. Indifference is not likely, if she’s spending hours with you alone and kissing you, something is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:31 PM
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Girls in early 20s just want to have fun and experience love. They’ll play the long game with you, no immediate concerns for marriage or kids. Any guy and girl who says I’m wrong and they just have daddy issues is jealous. Some girls like older men, like some young guys want a milf. Ever been on a date with a girl in 30s and she has a bunch of questions, lists her requirements, and explains she done dating and now wants a husband? Fucking yikes, I’m not saving you girl, get me out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:22 PM
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I date usually 20 years younger, I prefer girls in early 20s. I’ll date a girl in 30s or 40s too. If you’re an attractive guy with your own place, and you’re single. You’re prob going to have a lot of partners as you figure out your next ltr. Why does every chick on this sub say you’re a liar or just getting with total whores if this is the case? I’m on a dating app just asking cute girls out, how I’m filtering for total sluts? Most of the time a first date is just yours to screw up as a guy, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:14 PM
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If you believe she devoted to you and not stringing you along doing another guy on side or still dating behind your back, then that’s great. I just don’t trust your average girl on a dating app to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:16 AM
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You see actual hot chicks very often not dating their looksmatch. Very attractive women want either a guy that is more well rounded with something to offer, or has gained a certain lifestyle social status. Hot chicks also rarely sleep with a guy simply because he’s also hot. An average girl could easily sleep with 100s of cute guys, they don’t. Girls are picky and have casual sex, but we don’t give them any credit for the total whores they could be simply for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:49 AM
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Denying a girl sex is the best move a guy can make. How you keep her interested 3 dates after you do this I’m not sure. I would say bring it the next date after you deny and let her see you naked and deny her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:26 PM
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My girlfriend and I met on Hinge a year ago and my previous girl of 6 years I met on bumble. I have sex by 3rd date to help land the girl of my dreams and show her how passionate I am for her. Takes 20-30 dates to get my girl, but I mostly enjoy the process. Girls on first dates are generally pretty nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:36 PM
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I date because I’m trying to land the best looking girl that I also enjoy spending time with. As soon as I find this girl I enjoy and she wants me back, I’ll just ask her to be my girlfriend right away. If she falls in line and drops dating apps and all other shenanigans going on, then you can start to have a real relationship. All these girls on apps that think juggling multiple men will increase their chances of landing the best man possible, and want to stay on the apps just in case, will get…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:29 PM
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I’m not saying it works out for the girl most of the time, and there are definitely girls that have sex with a man with little interest in being exclusive relationship with him. For me, girls are attracted to me I’m sure, but they looking for me to be their exclusive girlfriend and that’s why they sexually satisfy me, primarily. I’m attractive and successful enough of a guy for her to know there is already some competition for me. I just don’t know very many girls into having sex for the sake th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:11 PM
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How do you get an exclusive boyfriend off a dating app? How are you getting around not being passionate towards him, giving him attention and affection? If a girl doesn’t give me any affection early on, how am I to know she’s attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:07 PM
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You on a date with a girl, she comes back and she makes out and blows you for hour. Stays over and cuddles with you, then makes you eggs in the morning. She’s not usually being some promiscuous whore. She’s trying to tell you, I really want you to be my exclusive boyfriend and then you can have me everyday. It’s all sweet actually, no one faults girls too much for trying to get a guy she wants unless they can’t get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:58 PM
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I’ve been married twice (10 yrs and 4 yrs) and my current gf of one year tells me she wants to get married every other day. Girls hoe it up temporarily, because non monogamy leads to monogamy. Guys do the same thing to get a girlfriend, you got to express some passion to get a girl real interested in you. A girl won’t even agree to an exclusive relationship these days until she sees you naked and hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:47 PM
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She doesn’t have to have sex, and if she likes you enough and spends the night. That girl will absolutely drop everything for you, if you ask her to be your girlfriend. At least a good chance. Also, most single girls you meet in wild and dating apps engage in casual sex, not only because women love affection, but to help maintain access to the man they desire. Out of 150 online dates last 7 years, half slept with me, 30% on first date. Don’t talk to me about this “blue pill” women are so virtuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:32 PM
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If she’s making out with me with her tongue down my throat and getting naked in my bed, but wants to refrain from intercourse then fine. If she’s not being passionate and says that I show her the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:04 PM
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If a guy has a girl that’s not acting passionate and wants to take it slow, you aren’t her first option and she’s prob getting dick somewhere else. It’s not really about sex. Girl really wants you she will drop it all for you. That’s what guys really looking for in a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:00 PM
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My gf looks like a young Lana Rhoades and has thousands of guys send her money from Snap, and hundreds of guys who send her money regularly. I’ve asked her why guys do it, she says idk they think I’m hot and I message them. Most make her verify that is her on that account by saying their name sending the guys a video. I think guys fantasize about having ideal arm candy and know they will never get it. I can’t comprehend sending a girl 100s of dollars that you’ll never meet. AI prob put a dent in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:16 PM
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Majority of women under 30 have tried a dating app, they want to most desirable man they can get to take them out. Most will hookup a few times or many.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:45 PM
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Unless she thinks he’s hot or has lots of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:24 PM
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I mean it’s the closest representation of a man’s desirability is his last few girlfriends average attractiveness and elegance score. So if your last 3 girlfriends were supermodels and hot famous actresses, doesn’t matter what you look like you’re a 10/10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:05 AM
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I agree that girls on dating apps can be characterized as promiscuous, and it appears to me going on 150 online dates over last 7 years, most are. However, at any given moment a small percentage of single females are using dating apps and actively going on dates. Only half of people under 30 ever tried a dating app. I’m not a diving into stats too much here but you’re going to find out that most all people in US currently have 0 or 1 sexual partner over the course of a year. Most all girls don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:04 PM
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It’s easy to see girls as how they act in a particular situation and a time in their life they are single trying to find a boyfriend. In today’s dating app world non-monogamy leads to monogamy. The number of cute sexually confident females that are scratching lotto tickets on dating apps of handsome rich or hot men capable of a dating harem is a very small percentage of girls at any given time. That’s the sliver prism you are focusing on that you think represents society as a whole. This is howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:34 PM
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You’re stuck in the sliver prism of girls that are addicted to dating apps. Girls get excited at the chance to land the top man that will change her lifestyle and make all her friends jealous, and if she has to share him to get the chance so be it, she still will try because she’s attracted to him. Dating apps most of action going on have turned into small percent of guys trying to get with as many girls as they can. All the cute girls getting with the same small percent of guys. Dating apps are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:17 PM
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It’s not a classic harem, it’s a single man’s soft cycling dating harem. In the age of dating apps having multiple sexual partners a week is a sign for girls of a high smv man worthy of a chase. Women find him hot that other girls like her want him, she joins his dating harem of women to try and gain exclusivity with the desirable man. Doesn’t usually work, girls who are into dating does process of joining harems enough times she feels used and her ego gets shot. This is why girls complain about…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:50 PM
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Creepy is doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. This situation she deliberately tried to ruin your life because you rejected her advances. That’s the rage and revenge of a woman’s rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:06 PM
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Chick tried to ruin your life, that’s far beyond a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:57 PM
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Pickme is just the internet created concept of how women seek validation. It’s basically the same as a guy saying, I hate how beta male simps act around girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:54 PM
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You think the perceived behaviors speculated of the online created concept of pickmes are creepy, that’s what you said. I said girls are out to shame pickme girl behavior bc it sometimes works. Pickme goes against the I’m a total boss bad bitch who never chases a man that girls can’t stop sharing memes of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:37 PM
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You’re not discussing isolated behaviors you think are creepy, you’re aware of the online concept of “pickmes” and don’t like it when girls try to land men that way. Not sure why being married is part of your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:31 PM
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There’s an online war women have waged over pickme girl shaming. Girls hate it because that behavior really works to land a man sometimes. The mantras of I don’t chase I attract, I’m a queen who will never settle, I will expect nothing less than princess treatment, I will never be a pickme, it’s all coping mechanisms of a girl’s inward insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:23 PM
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Toxic partner is different from creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:13 PM
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That’s an insecure scorned sociopath, not really creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:12 PM
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Girls don’t like pickmes bc they better at picking up attractive men and more often have an exclusive boyfriend than the queens and princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:07 PM
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These sound desperate not creepy, funny list though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 PM
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Some people with autism are creepy erratic and violent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:02 PM
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So that’s low or bunch? One was for 3.5 years. I loved her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:37 AM
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Yea I’m hoping that basically with my current girlfriend of 7 months
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:36 AM
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If a girl pre selects me for a date, then lust is on the table within a few hours usually but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:06 AM
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Average girls can get into situationships with hot men or handsome men with status, the reverse basically never happens, hot girls don’t randomly get with guys that are lesser than them. As a guy you are what your girlfriends are. My last 5 girlfriends over last 6 years were 8s, like young local models or sexy career women. My girlfriends can get with handsome guys worth 100 million easy and have had situationships and dated these men. Because it’s easy for a 8/10 girl to get literally any guy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:47 AM
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I’m a 7/10 in looks with 9 lifestyle, so I can get 8s, casual sex with 5s. Really hot 9s with no baggage are usually out of my league. This feels like it’s nearly every single girl that you meet on a dating app that’s a 7+/10. She was more than happy to just be part of a harem with a 9+ highest level desirable guys, some guys you know she was just his random come over sex doll, but she expects more of you. Is the issue you know she will go back to guys better than you if she gets an opportunity …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:42 AM
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No not like porn, but if you’re not passionate for me we are never going to believe you that you’re not just having sex with someone else and putting us on ice. Because we may make for a good boyfriend, but you just don’t feel like lusting for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:26 AM
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Guys are mad because girls who date and you’ll find on Hinge, like to date and not settle for guys she knows she can get, dating guys in her league is not exciting. Whenever a guy tries to get a girl out of his league, they are either made fun of, or usually ignored. So we are jealous at a girl’s ability to get guys better than her, but the girls get sad because most of the time the guy is using her mainly for sex. The cute girls guys want as their girlfriend, can cycle through every single high…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:24 AM
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You can certainly ask a man to do that, if a girl really wants to get with a guy, she would never request that. If you’re saying this to a guy you better be passionate af with him without sex, and prove to him openly that you have no desire to be with any other man than him. Whenever a guy hears this, you just feel like you’re not attractive enough for her to want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:41 AM
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Sometimes they are bossy, doting, take care of the man, and the girl is the breadwinner. The guy is cute and lazy and just happy with his prize of cute average chick. Most of the time though you’re right, the hot guy uses the average girl for what’s she’s worth and sticks is dick in whoever girl he wants behind her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:32 AM
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Imagine if you only dated high quality hot career women, and your chicks you played around with were perfect body cuties, always something sexual about them, big boobs/butts whatever you preferred right. It absolutely would not make you happy to have to finally pair bond and settle down with a basic above average girl in your league when you hit your 30s. You prob gonna fight it until you can’t get the hotties anymore. This is happening to every 22-34 yr old 7+/10 girl these days that gets addic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:54 PM
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I don’t have a problem with a girl being on onlyfans or stripper for what they do, some of them less pro hos then other girls you meet looking good on insta. It’s really the attitude of an OF girl, once you get used to loser simp guys sending you money for no reason or being a sugar baby for old man, it warps their minds. They think they so hot too, half of time they 7s or below using heavy filters and angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:47 PM
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Same types of girls addicted to dating apps are also to insta and social status. Sometimes you got hot girl with no job, living with her parents, acts generally shitty and abusive to you and most everyone else, unless they can help her social position in life. You dump them and they get mad, then they ask why later. I’m like you’re attractive but you got nothing going for you and have a shitty mean personality. Guys with options aren’t putting up with it. They don’t like that answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:17 PM
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We both have clarified that this behavior is not women in general, it’s the girls you see always on Hinge that you take out. Every girlfriend I got off that particular app it is pulling teeth like you can’t get them to stop dating, getting with their ex, and keep fishing for their dream man date to cure every bit of their unhappiness. It’s like girl you keep coming here, you like me, stop and date just me. Once they do they can kick out of their dating addiction. As far as looks my previous gf w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:05 PM
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Guys want the prettiest girl they can get that is also a good hang, preferably no kids, and can support herself. Girls chase after the men they think can instantly transform their lifestyle and social status. For looks her man also needs to be tall, masculine, and handsome enough other attractive girls to want him for looks alone. Girls have strong desire and keep chasing guys that barely exist. Because they want their life to be perfect and make everyone around them jealous. When they can’t cuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:31 PM
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Girls can get dates way above their league whenever they want, guys can’t. Girls immediately lust it up for handsome rich or hot guys who already got a harem. He’s a guy that gets his way with pretty girls and that turns them on. Same girl make average guys in their league wait for sex. Girls continuously playing the lottery is really fun and ego fulfilling at first. Ends up in depression and thinking no guy of value will ever want them exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:10 PM
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Show me where this chart comes from. Considering men like most profiles and girls like 1 in 20 profiles this data is not adding up. Girls are way way pickier than men on swiping right than men. To show a chart and say it’s about the same can’t be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:18 PM
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First of all is your friend a girl, all girls can get endless dates. If it’s a guy, we are talking online dating hinge users here, and unless he’s very attractive, he can’t get a date everyday from dating apps with zero status. We are not discussing regular single people, we are talking about mainstays of hinge. Girls swipe right 1 in 20 times, 5% of guys are getting 90% of the matches, and 90% of the dates. 75% of guys who try a dating app will not get a single date. Most guys are completely sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:46 PM
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If you want intense lustful casual sex, where she didn’t know you existed a hour before, being 6ft+ with a large frame is going to help you a ton. If you just want a girlfriend, it’s less impactful, but getting a cute girlfriend starts to get really hard under 5’5”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:03 AM
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You can tell her it’s a 100, until she sees you with 1 hot girl in public, she will think all 100 were ugly whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:53 AM
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There are occasional very athletic girls that can really mess a guy up, but if you’re an average adult male, almost no girl is going to make you scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:53 AM
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Women swipe right on less than 1 out of 20 men on dating apps, that would be 5% for the age bracket they chose. Think about out of those just 5% how many would they actually want to go on a date with. It ends up with 2% of single guys on dating apps getting all the dates, casual sex, and harems of girls they can handle. Dating apps give girls a very limited scope of attraction, forces them to be shallow and desire mostly just tall fit attractive masculine with status type categories. When you fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:55 PM
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Blackpill believes only casual sexual interest up front can lead to a quality equal relationship, only 5% of top guys get random female affection regularly. This is what the guys want, the feeling of being a chad and be lusted for, they don’t want to be settled on by a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:12 PM
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You’re likely not at least a 7+ girl who’s dating, they’re constantly fooling around with 10 guys and handsome rich men for the shot to change their life dramatically. It’s like going to a casino for girl. I’m 6’1” fit classically handsome and got multimillion dollar home and a super car and range suv. Every girl is your type, at least will give you a chance, or will flat out do anything you want to have you. Dating is still hard bc girls are bigger players than men these days, but I can get a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:41 PM
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Girls knowingly enter situationships with desirable men that already have 3-5 sexual partners. If they are at least 7+/10 girl most girls on apps are participating in that same behavior trying to land a guy they perceive as high value or more fun than the average guy who is just trying to find a date. These attractive girls can pick a partner with a guy that has more nice guy qualities, but they want an exciting guy who’s a challenge. The problem is they never land this high smv man dangling com…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:30 PM
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If I sound like I’m complaining I’m not. We’re living in the western world where women are free to do what they want. Then guys act surprised when they date and act much like men would behave if given the same opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:33 PM
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Girls get on dating apps with 100s of hot men with great bodies and handsome high status men vying for their attention. Then guys are stupidly expecting her not to sleep with them if he’s willing to take her out and seduce her. This is like giving a child a candy bar and expecting them not to eat it. Girls want men, we all know it. Most guys are going to leap at the opportunity to sleep with beautiful women, most guys just don’t have that chance near as often as girls do with desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:24 PM
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You’re trying to build a logical conclusion to modern society that we as a species are only a few hundred years removed from. Girls are attracted to big, tall, cunning, strong, testosterone filled men because her primal brain is still that of a cavewoman who needs protection for her and her children for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:01 PM
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The single most attractive quality a girl sees in a guy is his perceived, or known ability to attract many quality genetic female partners. The single man with the most female options obviously has much higher risk of stds. This is evolutionary biology, a woman wants to ensure her offspring will have sexual options to create more offspring. If a man has zero options then her genetic line not continuing is at risk. Women also instinctively sleep with this high smv man much quicker, because they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:12 PM
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If I use a dating app, find a girlfriend, come back 6 months later. Then you see the same set of girls. You can totally assume she is addicted to dating and hypergamy. Girls don’t just date one guy, they usually date multiple for fun and then tell themselves it somehow helps their chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:01 PM
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More common women 0-7/10 look to date up in looks. Very attractive 8+/10 women date down in looks in exchange for a man’s status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:33 PM
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What’s wrong with engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:29 PM
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This sub isn’t an echo chamber like most parts of the internet. It’s subject matter that needs to be anonymous to offer a real opinion. Has girls and guys, differing viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:53 PM
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I’m in a relationship now and 90% of my adult life. Gf for last 7 months and had a 4 year committed relationship before that. I went on a ton of dates and slept around after my divorce, you would too if you were with the same girl for 10 years. When guys can they play the field, explore options, get a rotation of girls. Then you realize after dating that most of girls you go out with are doing the same thing you are. Most guys are not accustomed to opening a dating app and matching a ton and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:55 PM
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10% of first dates I’ve been on, started with the girl having a clear intention of being exclusive with me. Girls on apps are dating and having fun. When they feel it and ready, they’ll get more serious about having a real boyfriend. Guess what guys do the same thing, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:12 PM
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The most luxurious experience in the world for a guy is a cute girl giving you a chance on a date. You could give a guy a billion dollar yacht and if he can’t bring girls on it, wouldn’t be worth the hassle of owning it. I’ve been on 180 dates since divorce, 70% of dates at least make out on first date, it’s amazing, but having an adoring girlfriend is much better. I’m not mad at these cute girls on apps, they having fun in a similar way an attractive guy on the apps are acting. What do we want …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:08 PM
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It’s not a high percentage of girls, but if you date cute girls off Hinge, the odds she’s still having sex with an ex, has 2 other situationships, and is looking forward to 2 other dates this week and is likely to stay the night with one is high. 30% of online dates are getting naked in bed with me within 2 hours, and most don’t have any intention of being exclusive. Girls want guys and their power is to be players much easier than men can. I work at a company with a bunch of young girls, they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:52 PM
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Your list isn’t indicative of every girl, just a lot you’ll meet on dating apps. The problem is about dating apps is they are loaded with people that claim to not like dating, but are addicted to it. Every dating guy has been a girl that’s malicious, been dating for years and racked up 100+ cocks, been monkey branched on, and every single girl prefers tall men. If you go on 10 dates with cute girls, 1 or 2 will be actually looking for an exclusive partner. They like cycling through guys in the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:40 PM
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So does a whole lot of things, try being short, having a gut, bad skin, bald with no beard or muscles. Women think handsome men they want to get with are funny and interesting, there is no amount of interesting to overcome being ugly, unless you going to throw her money and gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:55 PM
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Blue pill is generic advice on how to find one partner. Girls are attracted to virtue, and because of supporting evidence from studies, single women don’t sleep around, that’s rare. Red pill is accepting female nature, then building up an arsenal in hopes of using it against them so they can be a player. Mgtow is accepting your options are so shitty it’s not worth supporting an obese woman with kids. Cute chicks with jobs and no kids are out of their league. Black pill is accepting your fate and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:33 PM
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Girls have zero game and if they really want a guy they will flat out stare him down to get his attention, then try to act coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:16 PM
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I think you’re a black pill disguised as a blue, just to get reactions that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:15 PM
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Being mysterious gets girls in the sack, I find very little to no correlation between interesting and having dating options or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:37 PM
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The only pitch that always works with girls is being tall, masculine, fit, nice eyes, strong jaw, and speaks with interest to her. If she’s available, it’s a can’t miss. Being a little nervous or dripping swag won’t make that much difference if she doesn’t find you visually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:29 PM
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Girl wants you bad enough they’ll meet you that night and stay the night. 2 weeks she just wants attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:53 AM
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People are really attracted to desirable and lifestyle changing people. Women flex hot guys or handsome guys that will give them the world. Men want that girl hot enough to be an insta model or pornstar that will love you unconditionally, and has never ending lust for you. The problem is, it’s the top 5% of people getting all the attention. Dating apps and insta give you access to the dream partners. Imagine a girl that loves hot guys and is forced to date just cute guys for more financial and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:27 PM
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I would say both men and women see dating as finding a trophy or at least uncovering a treasure. An attractive girl either wants very hot tall man or well rounded handsome successful man. If she can't flex her man on her friends, he's not lust worthy, or worth her time for her full commitment. Similar with men, if he can't make his friends and outside world jealous of his catch on his arm, then she's not worth commitment or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:58 PM
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This happens nearly every time with girls on dating apps. If she’s stayed the night with you, have her do it again. Wake up and demand exclusivity with her, say you are my girlfriend. If she declines, ignore her and use her for entertainment and sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:35 PM
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Hypergamy is about the woman’s end goal of marrying highest status she can get and increasing her lifestyle by leveraging a man. A man’s ability to get casual sex is determined by his sexual market value. You can be high status and have zero charm or looks to bag chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:09 PM
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If there is a difference it’s negligible, saying women aren’t as horny as men is assuming girls would be having much less sex than men desire. Which isn’t usually the case in a healthy relationship or in a casual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:38 AM
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Girl scale is not a bell curve like men rating on women, if she considers you 5/10 you are doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:19 AM
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With dating apps and insta girls got access to every desirable man in their city. What do you think is going to happen, the top guys are going to get more access to girls. There’s nothing in that list to excite any girl to the point she wants you. If you’re recognizably attractive, there’s a line of girls wanting to get with you, same as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:58 PM
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A 10/10 is an impossible number, but I live in Phx and you will see basically 10s occasionally. Some girls you sometimes see, they can’t get any hotter. They are insta, dating apps, and going out to nightclubs too. They look hotter than current miss universe or Margot Robbie to me, they exist, and guys date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:00 PM
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I would say it’s just a bit different for <24 girls. Take a hot guy that doesn’t do anything fun but lift, never goes out, shes not going to care. Now if the hot guy has a cool group of friends, apartment, car, and has parties, she will chase him for his looks and status he’s attained. Girls don’t care much about dollars in bank accounts, they care about what you’re doing with it. Any girl of any age has interest in hot guys, it’s not like they just turn 25 and switch to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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Like going to a nightclub and seeing a hot perfect body bottle service girl would be at least 9.5+. You can’t really tell sometimes off someone’s instagram alone whether they are an 8 or actual 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:43 PM
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I don’t think any girl is asking for money from a guy she wants or wants to be her boyfriend. If she’s doing that she doesn’t find you attractive or respect you. To pretend girls of any age are not attracted to a man’s status and lifestyle is completely wrong assumption though. Girls always looking for the combo of looks and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:42 PM
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I agree, if you’re getting a honest opinion and a girl calls you a 5/10, it means she’s not opposed to sleeping with you or being your girlfriend. If she says 8+/10 she thinks you’re hot and prob is asking to get with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:57 PM
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Or they enjoy the drama. These rich guys want to turn out regular hot young girls and make them his sex slave for the night or multiple nights. They may get with actual whores and strippers and do the same thing, the regular girl who wants a purse is more depraved and fun for the rich guy. You’re going to have a hard time finding the hot girl on Instagram that’s single not involved in a whole bunch of stuff. Dating multiple guys, hot fboys, sometimes escort, sugar baby, poker games, ho trips, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:39 PM
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These guys have other hot girls recruit him more girls, so he can take them out, spoil them, and get with them, sometimes multiple at the same time. These guys have been with more than a thousand women, they need more to satisfy them now compared to regular guy. It’s like Vince McMahon in a threesome pooping on a young hot girls head, he’s a billionaire and done it all, that’s what he needs to get off now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:31 PM
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These guys have other hot girls recruit him more girls, so he can take them out, spoil them, and get with them, sometimes multiple at the same time. These guys have been with more than a thousand women, they need more to satisfy them now compared to regular guy. It’s like Vince McMahon in a threesome pooping on a young hot girls head, he’s a billionaire and one it all, that’s what he needs to get off now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:31 PM
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It’s not really sugar baby what I’m talking about, they decent looking guys. Imagine you have millions, you made $10k that day, and you ask some young cute regular young girl to go out and you buy her $800 shoes. She going to stay over and give you whatever you want happily, and she likely would be your girlfriend right there. The problem is, he immediately introduced money in the form of a gift in the equation. The rich guy did it for casual fun not for a girlfriend, because getting with legit …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:17 PM
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If you can toss around purses and shoes to random chicks and you have a mansion. You’re going to get well known by the local cute girls fast, a never ending supply of girls will f a guy for some red bottoms, and you’ll be having orgies at your mansion if you want. I know these guys, it’s not real attraction, but you’ll get girlfriends too. So I agree, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:44 PM
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Yea I’ve pulled a 10 a few times, was she my girlfriend for more than a couple weeks, can I get 10s with any reliability, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:16 PM
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Girls mostly say I’m a handsome 6 or 7, I have a nice lifestyle so I get to date 8s and sometimes 9s. The hottest girls on apps or real life I can’t get out on a date. If I was a 8 in looks, I’d prob get there. When I made 20k, I got dates with 6s and maybe 7s. Looks matter so much with girls when getting her casual affection, not I have these qualifications. If you can’t get regularly get dates with single girls you rate 8+ you’re not a 8+ guy. Make whatever list you want on what constitutes av…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:22 PM
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Googling dating related studies is boring we all have done that, anybody can google any argument about literally anything to support their side of the claim. My favorite was the famous OkCupid releasing of dating app stats that was always shared on incel subreddit years ago. That top 5% of male users get 90% of the female matches and 80% of the dates. The bottom 70% of male straight users who try OkCupid will not get a single date. They released this data back when OkCupid was still a player in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:59 PM
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Guys can’t think a list of items will equivalent to top % which equals getting girls. I’ve made all types of money from 20k to 7 figures with huge house and fancy cars, then back down from there, your list don’t matter for dating like guys hope it should. It does matter in ending up finding a wife. On a 10 point scale of attractiveness, great lifestyle get you 2 points. Girls casually get with attractive men. I know 2 guys with 50 million in the bank, they are 6s, and they buy girls shoes and pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:14 PM
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The sad thing about your list is it’s indicative that you are at least in top 1/3 of men and that’s not good enough for dating. You need to be in the top 5% of men in your age bracket to control the action with cute girls. Unless your social circle is cool and hot doing top tier activities, no girl is going to care, you’re overrating friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:52 PM
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What girls look for on dating apps (in order): - Attractive face, height, and appealing body - Backgrounds in pictures that express a fun or luxurious lifestyle - Verifying your career through online search, projected income, finding LinkedIn - Does he have kids or not - Finding socials/insta, they want to see more than 6 pictures, and who follows him - Is he the best looking guy in group pictures - Level of balding - Racial preferences - Age This is all they got to go on to take an entire night…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:44 AM
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I'm not sure that being outgoing or having a good personality is a reliable factor for male attractiveness either. As a guy or girl, being attentive, engaging, and relatable is all you consciously can do. Attractiveness and having charisma is mostly all beyond your control. For guys you need height, good frame, nice skin, masculine facial features, and a fun lifestyle to easily net attractive girls. If a guy isn't possessing some or all of these, he's going to need to get lucky to land a cute gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:24 AM
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I think what I'm trying to generalize is the girl that guys want. 7+/10 attractive, under 35, no kids, matches with every guy on dating apps. These are the girls that dates whenever she wants and has fun. Every guy is vying for a pretty girl. If you're a 3/10 obese girl, dating is tough, priorities are different. Still think the 3/10 girl is looking for things to make her happy from a man, not love and monogamy. Even with the attractive girl starts thinking about a husband and kids, she's not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:06 AM
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Gender roles in dating got flipped last dozen years, didn't used to be like this. Guys want to fall in love, girls want to keep their options open. Girls are now the players, juggling boyfriends, dating for a few weeks then dumping him when they get bored. Dating a guy who's a simp for her, he thinks she's exclusive, she's cheating behind his back. Guys if they have the opportunity to become players, they did so because a girl broke his heart while he was in love with her. Now they are fboys bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:18 PM
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If you don’t date online you’re not addicted to dating and hypergamy. Which makes you much more desirable when a guy finds you. The men are trash concept generally comes in their 30s and is a disappointment that they didn’t land the most desirable men they dated. So now they have to go after lesser men and it’s not as fun as desirable men. Current dating world, girls have options, most guys don’t. Girls want the smaller percent guys with options. The guys with options are entitled cunts, some of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:10 PM
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We created a world where gender roles in dating flipped and the top 30% of dating women are generally more interested in being players. Then the top most charming attractive men are going out of their way to advertise themselves, with no real thoughts of settling on 1 girl for more than a month or so. I built up my dating profile and insta over the years and I can get dates and sex whenever, but if you want a real girlfriend it’s hard, girls mind will go kicking and screaming into the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:33 PM
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None of this tiktok/youtube/social content on navigating dating helps much. It’s not functional help, it’s people postulating nonsense theories on frame and energy. Men want a girl that resembles one of the pornstars or insta models they jerk off too. They expect that girl to immediately lust for them and drop everything, and be their loyal girlfriend with no expectations from him but to love him. Girls want a combination of the desirable factors of their favorite men that took them on a date al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:16 PM
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My point is there is mountains of never ending content on social media for women to consume, on how to help them with landing the men they desire. Women make fun of men for consuming tate red pill, when they are addicted to their own self help guru theories geared towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:54 PM
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The female version of Andrew Tate content is so prevalent now because there’s such a high percentage of girls on dating apps and attract men on instagram, that can get date and sex from handsome rich or hot men, but can’t land him exclusively. By landing the handsome rich man, they will gain nirvana. No need to work, no more anxiety, jealousy from friends, trips, purses, fancy house, and cars. They want to sit at the finish line of the winner guys and get with them and keep spinning the top man …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:53 PM
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Some women get seriously worse than any red pill. Always manifesting, mercury is in retrograde, I’m so spiritual and in my feminine energy, I know I will get a rich handsome man trying to lock me down so I never have to work or worry again. Chicks are consuming this content en masse bigger than Andrew Tate and red pill. Then they share the related content to their Instagram followers daily in stories to let them know how high value feminine woman they are. No one is being persecuted but there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:39 PM
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I’ve consumed a mountain of red pill content. They got similar info for girls on manifesting a rich handsome man and how to put yourself in feminine energy so he will want to marry you. It all might help, but it mostly doesn’t. It’s a pretty useless thought exercise that prob going to end up with you acting fake. Accept the black pill and realize you’ll always fall short to the glory of Chad and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:26 PM
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Probably but frame is a conceptual rabbit hole that has more likelihood to lead you to fake beliefs and not much different happening in terms of what you’re trying to achieve. If you got a big gut and suddenly don’t more women going to pay attention to you or maybe not because you got a slanty eye and autism. Each life experience is different and you can’t control women’s attraction to you, you can only mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:42 PM
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Yea I had 0 girls for 2 years straight and 30 casual lays another year 2 years later. What happened? I was better looking, taller, more masculine, and I was in college where thousands of single girls are. I could’ve had the perfect frame technique 2 years earlier and honed it as hard as I could, wouldn’t have mattered, I was smaller, feminine, pimples, and ugly. Girls did not respond to me. You’re wasting head space thinking that you can control what women think of you and you can bring them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:20 PM
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No red pill is accepting female nature and using it against them. That’s not likely to work, girls will see through it. Black pill is acceptance of you regardless of outcome. Black pill is not expecting a different reaction from women just because of frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:04 PM
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I’m black pill but always with a girlfriend. I enjoy the philosophy because just accept who you are. Red Pill wants you to believe x=y and it never will. The individual man experience can be vastly different. Stop thinking everything you do can change your fate with women. Money, muscles, frame is just as likely to take you further away from love and real affection. Girls see you for who you are, they have a third eye of knowledge that can evaluate you in under a minute. Change and improve yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:51 PM
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The genie has been let out and shoved back in many times already in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:20 PM
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I’ve been with 100+ girls, made out with prob 300. I know guys that slept with 500 girls, some older guys up to 1000+ sexual partners with new girls all the time. I hang out with a few guys that have a hot girlfriend and are having threesomes every other weekend. Do people just not know any of these guys, or not believe them when they say it? If you’re on a dating app meeting girls for dates. Girls dating multiple men at same time, or constantly cycling through men is the norm, not some outlier …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:01 PM
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No doubt, my friend paid for 2 abortions last year. Girl I know dated a rich guy that got 3 girls pregnant in 5 months. You’d be alarmed at how many girls are against using birth control for health reasons. It’s their natural instinct to have babies. If you plan on sleeping around with girls you meet on apps or clubs, you’re going to need a fistful of amoxicillin. You’re basically never the only guy she’s getting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:30 PM
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Alcohol and weed isn’t much better for you. Most hot girls go to nightclubs and do bumps of blow, have you not been?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:27 PM
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Have you been to literally any nightclub with a guy with a bag of coke or K? He’s very popular with nearly all the ladies. Say you got more and a nice place, they will come over to party. You show me the sexy chicks that don’t do blow sometimes and not down for some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:24 PM
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Girls are having so much fun out there. Guys don’t even know. I know 4 guys that have regular threesomes and drug fueled orgies at their house all the time. Not with whores, just regular chicks. Every girl I’ve ever known actively dating, even the ones obese or not that cute, dating and sleeping with multiple guys at the same time at some point. I lived with girls over a few summers during college, their beds were not lonely most of the time. Girls actively dating especially in apps and looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:06 PM
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She showed up because she thinks your at least cute and boyfriend material. Keeping your mouth shut, don't tell stories, don't brag, get her talking about herself and play off her. Don't be on the date too long, bring her over, and escalate quickly.
/r/seduction29/01/24 12:52 AM
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That's going to happen when a guy doesn't want a real relationship from the girl. The sex isn't worth it, you have to hang out with her and you don't want her that bad, you'd rather pursue something another chick. On the other hand if I want a girl to be my girlfriend, I'm passionate with her, have fun dates, and make her wait 3 dates for sex to keep her chasing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:49 AM
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They call them fuck boys because that’s the guys who girls want to fuck. Only when girls don’t land him in exclusive, then they get upset and call all guys hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:09 PM
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Some desirable men get addicted to new girls, may get a girlfriend, force an open relationship, or have threesomes with their girlfriend/wife. You’re more normal desirable guy scenario is to play the field for a bit, then will settle down for a very quality successful attractive woman, or hot young arm candy. Any guy with lots of options is generally going after the most attractive and fun combo girl that he currently has available to go out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:22 PM
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Less than attractive women don’t have a hard time getting dates with hot guys and rich handsome men. Attractive girls can go on a date with basically all the men that exist. We can get into what classifies a hot girl, but 6in/6fig/6ft single guy whether he’s attractive or not is less than 1% of male US population. A rich handsome single man under 40 is as rare as a professional athlete in a city. All attractive girls can go on dates with these desirable guys, but most won’t land one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:46 PM
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Sure the top 15% of men will eventually end up with top 15% of women. Except the top men will usually date 8+ years younger women. However, we are discussing hoemath dating world concepts here, not who ends up being in a multiyear relationship or married to who in the end. If you’re in the top 15% of women and you want to go on a date on a dating app, you’re only swiping right once in 20 times, you’re only considering 5% of men that are among an age range and currently single. Dating apps have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:04 PM
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A guy who is 6ft/6in/6fig combo is much rarer than a hot girl. That’s the baseline for hot girls, this isn’t even factoring in if he’s handsome or has social status. I don’t think you can comprehend how many women and how many simultaneous girls any hot or desirable man can have. Hot girls are constantly in an absolute struggle to get a man they get to go on a date with in an exclusive relationship. Most all hot girls will lose their looks before marrying a dream or even a hot regular lifestyle …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:36 PM
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I don’t know a single guy who is the recognizably handsome with social status with a big house and luxury cars that hasn’t bedded at least 500 attractive girls, but has had maybe 5 actual girlfriends, then he will marry one. Odds are never good, but these rare guys she gets to go out with can give girls all the feels and dreams that a regular guy never can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:24 PM
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Hot girls absolutely do not usually land a dream man. When they do, they also usually get relentlessly cheated on during the relationship. Hot girls are rare, certified dream men under the age of 50 are much much rarer. Hot girls in their city will go on a date with many of them, if a hot guy has a libido he will bed a thousand women easy before he picks one. If he’s a dream man with a big house and Ferrari he can have much more. 7+/10 women have access to 10/10 guys sexually a lot, but no matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:11 PM
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Hot girls have all the access to desirable men these days by advertising themselves on insta or dating apps, even the thought of these girls being with a timid unattractive socially inept man sends shivers down their spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:06 PM
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The difficult situation for a hot girl is they usually dated at least one and gone on many dates with 6ft, 6in, smooth talking, big cool friend group, great home, fancy car, masculine, muscular, taking trips, other hot girls trying to get with guy. These guys do exist in a city and a hot girl has got the experience and jealousy of other women for having him. Now imagine those hot girls having to date a regular guy because they getting older, need to settle down, and get married. These girls hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:46 PM
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Girls that are very hot, young, and perfect body, they cannot get or in an absolute struggle to get a real boyfriend. Then when they finally do it’s some old party fboy that has threesomes every weekend and will cheat relentlessly. The very hot girls have it too easy in dating, but aren’t attracted to and aren’t finding the guys that can actually enrich their lives. They usually waste their youth spinning wheels for temporary fun and pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:33 PM
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It is prob 10x harder. Your grandfather's women needed men to have a decent life and could barely support themselves. They also didn't have insta and dating apps distracting them with every possible desirable guy option possible. Girls also weren't so obsessed with status and their online persona compared to their peers and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:20 AM
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You can’t negotiate attraction with any girl, and past the point of attraction it’s just yours to mess up or not as a guy. The moment a girl lays eyes on you they will decide whether they are interested in getting with you casually. As a guy meeting a girl, keep mostly quiet, don’t boast or go on about any subject or you will mess it up, just get her talking mostly about trivial things. Once you can escalate sexually with her, you now can get her into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:49 PM
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A girls ability to attract desirable highly attractive men is strongly correlated to how she views herself. An okay cute girl can go on a dating app and having 100s of attractive men trying to ask her on a date. The problem is most of these hot men won’t be exclusive with them, and girls use the excuse that guys are just players and he wasn’t ready to have a relationship. If this happened to you as a guy with hot girls wanting to get with you and take you out, you will think you’re way more attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:36 PM
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Girls on dating apps are usually dating multiple men at same time, and still getting with their ex. If I want a girl I’m dating to be my girlfriend I demand exclusivity and follow through to make sure she’s doing what she says. If you let her continue, it will ruin the relationship you have. Girls tell themselves it’s increasing their chances at landing the highest value man. They actually just about having fun and keeping options open for other men they may desire, or using a another man to ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:30 PM
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Instagram is the king of all the dating apps and where the most action takes place. Do it right and you can just like some cute girls posts, follow her, she follows back, and you ask her out. Girls like my posts and follow trying the same thing. I know a Russian and a black dude with a huge d, they dm dick pics or does private stories to girls that follow them where he puts it on display, it works for them quite well. These guys are handsome with nice bodies along with huge rod, they get cute gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:22 PM
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Girls on dating apps will try to find anything about you online before going out. If they can’t they may bail on the date. When she sees your instagram filled with fun, vacations, hot local girls and cool guys following you. She will want to be part of your life. Deciding not only to go out, but prob best to get with you on the first date to help secure you as a partner. I attach my insta to my profile on Hinge, helps a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:44 PM
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There’s a young guy out there having a real relationship with a woman in a nursing home. Want to be with whatever girls you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 AM
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To be successful at dating apps you not only need to be tall, attractive, good body, and have an online verifiable career. You also need great photos to project this reality, an instagram filled with a fun lifestyle, and so she can see who follows you to see if you associate with cool people. Then on date you have to pay for some food and drinks her and have a joint/wine at home when you bring her over. Once you got this down, you can have as many dates as you want with every type of girl in con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:46 PM
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Nah girls usually try and monkey branch from you for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:37 AM
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Girls cheat because they would rather not be with you anymore or trying to leave you. Guys will cheat for ego and almost always wish their current relationship wouldn't end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:10 AM
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I think guys generally prefer unprotected with someone that actually likes them, but prostitution has been prevalent and consistent for very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:25 PM
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Then focus on what it would take for a girl to see you as boyfriend material. Unless you’re a golden god in looks, attractive girls are going to sleep with you because they want a relationship from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:55 PM
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Escorts prob going to destroy your confidence, they want you to keep paying, not get real girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:54 PM
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They usually can’t. If you can get a roster of girls going you will naturally become a man of desire. They can smell all the female pheromones on you and you’ll act like a totally different cocky person. Getting girls means you will get more girls. When you don’t, they know you got nobody after you and won’t desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:31 PM
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General advice from women is the opposite of helpful. However, I had a live in girlfriend for many years that had me wear a brace that changed my posture, made me lower my voice, had me grow a beard, said I was too soft looking and went to gym with me, threw away half my clothes and approved my new clothes, sent me to the barber and had them dye my gray hair, led me how to perform in bed better and give her cascading orgasms. She also showed me how to take better pictures of myself. She was abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:25 PM
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After you date them for a week it’s paramount. You’ll enjoy any hot girl for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:19 AM
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I would say the opposite, most girls by the age of 25 will become attracted to and date at least one man 15+ years older than them. I’m in my 40s after divorce and all my handful of actual girlfriends (who ask me for nothing except food and place to stay) are 20-24. It’s not normal for girls to only want to date older men, but if you’re successful, tall, and attractive many young girls will chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:02 PM
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I clearly said that you’re the exception. Also, any attractive girl has 100s of male suitors if she wants. This message is for guys with options. If you're an average guy with no options you will take care of any attractive girl that wants to settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:55 PM
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Marriage is a construct that helps female security, they definitely desire and want that, doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you, other than they see you as a suitable partner. Getting a baby is big reason, a free place to live and eat. If you go on dates you will realize some girls sleep with you partially because they are trying to get a baby from you. This happened to me 3 times last year, girls lying they are on birth control to get you to cum inside them. All traits you will find …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:00 PM
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Don't ever hand a girl money for no reason, a girl can live with you and eat your food, if you have to fully support her, you're going to have a real problem on your hands when you try to get rid of her for someone else. That being said, I'll still take the 20 y/o sugar baby, the 32 y/o who wants marriage and kids right away is totally worthless and downright scary in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:21 PM
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If you're a guy with options, I wouldn't even think about being in an exclusive relationship with girls 28-38. The only exception is if they are freshly divorced from getting married in their early 20s with no kids. They don't want to play the long game and fall in love with you. They see you as a mark and failed to get a rich and handsome man and are settling for you. I'm in my mid 40s and I'll go on a date with anyone attractive, but only get in relationships with girls 40+ or usually 25 and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:06 PM
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Churches with real religious girls might have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:50 AM
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I haven't known a girl with any level of desirability that hasn't gone through a ho phase of some sort while single. I know girls that are mormon/very religious, they still go on dates and make out with a bunch of guys. I'd still call that a ho phase, they just decided to draw the line at sex. You're going to have to put yourself out there usually to multiple men if you want a boyfriend at some point, and girls can be as big as players as they want, whereas most guys can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:53 PM
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I'm with you so much on this, it feels great for women being casual with men at the time, feeds their ego, dreams of being with someone new, and falling in love. However, if they go through a dating run and sleep with a bunch of guys, and it doesn't result in any relationship their confidence is shot. For girls the aftermath of months of sleeping around, being part of a desirable men's harems, situationships etc. end with them feeling terrible about themselves, bruise their ego, and potential de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:41 PM
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This thread is so full of truth. When girls cheat it's because they don't fully love their partner, unhappy, and usually want to leave him. Guys are cheating for ego and a new experience, not usually because they want another relationship. There is the exception of the woman who is a swinger with their partner, but that's outside the norms and rarely works out long term either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:30 PM
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That's actually blue pill mentality. An incel would say the opposite of girls, that most all available girls will get with a desirable man casually, fwb, or for a relationship. Incels fully recognize how much women love sex and use it to their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:26 PM
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Girls that are attractive can get with any guy they want at any moment. This leads them to only sleeping around with the same top 1-2% desirable men in their city. I know these top guys that are in 1000+ girls they've slept with. They get hot young girls mainly too. For some guys that got it, sleeping with new girls constantly is their main hobby and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:19 PM
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If you're an attractive man, I tend to think I'm a 7 too, maybe an 8 for my age. I can have casual sex with women during the first date from dating apps and anywhere constantly, many times very attractive girls. Girls are so receptive to advances, if you're recognizably handsome, girls in general are very easy to get with, you don't have to find slutty ones, most girls absolutely love to get with guys. If you're actually a hot guy (I know some), affection from girls is about as available as wate…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:07 PM
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This is the most blue pilled thing I've read in a long time. 1/5 of girls have ever had casual sex? I've known and been friends women for 25 years virtually none of them have never had casual sex. I can't even say this about most churchy girls I know. You have your blinders on to female sexuality it's just as voracious as men in general, and getting action from hot guys is super easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:54 PM
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This is true, but it's not a persistent thing for most women, girls can easily and may sleep with 20, 50, 200 guys, but they aren't doing it everyday or even close to most of their lives. It's a phase or 2 or 3..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:29 AM
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True, 9/10 guys can't comprehend how much fun girls are having on dating apps or anywhere in the world with random men they find desirable. Girls will go on a date and be having sex with a guy they just met a hour earlier all night long and leave in the morning like it's normal. The small percent of desirable guys on dating apps can do this many times a week with attractive girls with virtually no effort. Girls get disappointed and sad they can't land some guys they date in exclusive relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:37 PM
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Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:58 AM
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It's much easier for desirable guys to stop sleeping with women and go with one girl he really enjoys. The reason is, there's no benefit to keep sleeping around other than to feed your ego for a man. A desirable man's ego has already been fulfilled by the dozens or hundreds of hot girls he's been with easily and can continue anytime he wants. Also, girls don't improve lifestyle in almost all cases, men do. The choice becomes more difficult for modern hot girls on instagram. If you've tried datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:10 PM
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I have 3 friends who all do it though, we are in phx, it's fairly normal in la and miami. In order to date hot young girls in your 40s you will need to still be attractive, fit, and have a nice lifestyle to prevent being a sugar daddy. If you got those qualities, there are more girls than you got time for that are just in the age range of 19-21 that are also hot that will chase after you and not ask you for anything other than food. Your average young girl is not chasing 40 year old, but they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:30 PM
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Yes call me a boy that's a better term of endearment. The show is called Golden Girls. You're an internet troll, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:20 PM
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I'm not sure what rock you've been living under for the last 70 years but both sexes call even 50+ yr old women girls a lot in society. I hear women of all ages refer to their girl friends, as a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:39 PM
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I never said children once wtf is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:02 PM
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I think 19-25 clearly states that. Young women legitimately dating men twice their age is a trend, sprinkle sprinkle is more like acting a sugar baby. The surprising thing I found out being divorced 10 years ago is the 19-25 girls don't ask for anything from you, they want to pay for their own things, play the long game, and marry you after you fall in love. A girl in their 30s wants marriage and a baby right away or they need a better place for the kids they have. They more often want to use yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:44 PM
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I'm in my mid 40s and exclusively date 19-25. An ever increasing percent of young girls want to be with an older man. The younger girls (who are into that) desire you more than any woman in their 30s or 40s would. It's basically like a preferential fetish. The 19-25 girls don't want an unattractive or old looking man, I'm 6'2" and fit, when I was out of shape they didn't want me. On the other hand, guys want a hot young girl that's self sufficient financially with zero baggage. Any older guys th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:57 PM
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You can just be you mostly and get same result. Whether you're a shitty person or not has nothing to do with your level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:53 AM
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Cool paywall article. Women will always every single time go for the most attractive or perceived richest guy in a room and want him the most and put her focus on him. It's their instincts and evolutionary nature to do so. If you stand next to a guy that is clearly more attractive than you and she doesn't know either of you and the attractive guy isn't a total horse's behind, literally 100/100 times she will pick the more attractive man. I'm a good looking tall guy, but I have a friend who was e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:40 PM
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Why does this group have so many post trolls? Nearly 2/3 of men in their 20s are without a relationship, doesn't seem like a non issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:13 PM
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Girls will brag about anything to their friends without recognizing any girl that is a 4/10 could have the same situation and are getting with the same guy. Most girls can't and will never actually land a truly desirable guy, and if they do get a relationship they can't get them to stop cheating on them and proudly calling it a situationship is their cope. As a guy, any girl that says they are in a situationship makes you see that girl as a trash girl that can't accept she can't land guys better…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:22 AM
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It seems like it's not ideal, that she didn't just fall head over heels for you. On the other hand, I feel like the girls that rock your world and give you bjs for hours while watching netflix, text you good morning. That relationship always lasts 2-4 weeks. If you slowly grow with a girl, better chance it will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:42 AM
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If she keeps contacting you and doesn't ask for anything except some food and a drink, she can and likely will come around to appreciating you. There's always a better guy, girls got to get a boyfriend eventually. With a bit of time, she will love you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:17 AM
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For guys who dating apps work it's much easier to get a rotation of hot 8+/10 girls than getting one girlfriend 7/10 with no baggage. These 7+/10 girls with no kids, no pets, bad debt free, self supportive, that really wants to be exclusive is a very limited resource and in high demand by all guys. I got with 20+ girls in the last year but was pining for one girl the whole time that eventually became my live in girlfriend. She was not receptive to being with just me for a few months of knowing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:55 PM
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They don't explicitly say that, they say it with their actions on how they respond to "safe" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:16 PM
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Girls are saying they don't lust for you when they see you as safe, guys genuinely lust the same for a girl who is a safe option. Guys want to be desired just like girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:25 PM
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You got to looksmaxx too or else you're paying for the girl. A 6/10 guy with amazing lifestyle is a 9/10 in most girls eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:12 PM
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With this attitude you're going to be a fine betabuck for a boring below average girl looking to settle down by your mid 30s. Looksmaxx, make money, and get a good lifestyle with a nice home and you'll likely get dates from cute young girls. Do it now, you act like life is a long marathon, happens quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM
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Guys at 500+ will usually hang out with a lot of women, and have women as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:45 AM
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I agree with your statement, except high body count men LOVE women. If you don't care about chicks you have very involved hobbies. Player men will sleep with a hot girl with a high body count, just because she's hot and he hasn't done her yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:22 AM
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What are the main determining factors in who you hook up and girls you want as your girlfriend? For me it's generally the most attractive, least baggage, and engaging girl in my options. Some girls you take out prob know won't make the cut because they have kids, or not nice enough body, but still open to them as a girlfriend if I really like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:08 PM
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I've never met an above average looking woman that doesn't occasionally participate in hookup culture outside of super churchy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:04 PM
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Hookup culture is fun for a little bit, if you're dealing with a breakup and need an ego boost there's nothing like 5-10 casual hookups to make you feel better. To keep going has many pitfalls like lack of connections, stds, pregnancy, and it's a lot more fun to have a girlfriend who loves you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:59 PM
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Grow a beard, dye your hair, test/hgh, piece/hair transplant, botox, lift, spot cover lotions. I live in Scottsdale and most guys do these.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:02 AM
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Girls in their early 20s are flat out a lot more fun to date, they require less of you, they want to take a few years to fall in love before getting married or having babies. Early 20s girls have a more open heart to love and find life more interesting. It's not just looks at all, older girls that have done 100+ men over the course of their dating life that now want to "settle down" blame it on that its youthfulness alone. A girl in their mid 30s, never married, that has had no long term boyfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:19 AM
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Guys realize there is prob less than 2% of men have the in with beautiful/hot women all the time and also gets to choose his girlfriend. You either have to be extremely attractive, famous, or have a great lifestyle to achieve this dream. Then there is the average guy who tries, but goes without a kiss and is dying for a real relationship and hopes to get one good one. Most guys on this sub are not thinking about a "rage fantasy," they just want to get a girl and maybe some seduction tips here ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:03 AM
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For most guys it comes down to the girl is lonely, wants a new place to live, and eventually or suddenly wanting her own kids. Unless you're hot guy or got a great lifestyle chances are she's not getting excited about you to casually to get with at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:31 PM
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What's this sub about proof, there's not a study for everything in the dating world. Every barely attractive girl I know who uses instagram and dating apps is going on dates all the time, I know about 30+ girls. They also talk about a new guy they are hooking up with about every other week. Unless a guy is absolutely beautiful or has an incredible lifestyle and tall basically no guy can replicate the amount of action an average girl can get. These girls are getting constant action off these dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:35 PM
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Your average man would be alarmed at how active women are in hookup culture or cycle through multiple dating a partners in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:20 AM
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You mean famous rich movie stars and comedians that are tall and have nice bodies and a giant cock are "good" examples of female selection. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:20 AM
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Various research studies show 80% of women are "chasing" the top 20% of men, not dating. The Pareto Principle applies to a ton of things and this has been clearly shown to be one of them. Also, based on genetic distribution between females and males throughout history is also how it's been on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:17 AM
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- Girls only desire men in the top 5% of looks and lifestyle and they are mostly all willing to have casual sex with them for the chance for a relationship or fun. - All men really want to get with the top 30% of attractive girls. - All men wanting the attractive girls are always trying to get the top 5% guys instead of them. The lack of sexual attention or lack of any attention men feel from attractive women with this imbalance makes guys mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:29 PM
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I think there is more legitimate hot chicks that go out 3 times a month, then hang with friends once a week. What you're saying is a setback for some, but good percent of girls legitimately like it, because they're introverts and they don't want to deal with your social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:55 AM
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If a girl/guy has been dating the entire time and had no long term relationships or a marriage, then it's likely you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:28 PM
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You have zero understanding of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:57 AM
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Every girl that exists is going to want the top 2% of guys she has access to. The fact she currently is in the west that is supposedly better than anywhere else has very little to no bearing in women's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:46 PM
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If you don't inherently understand the concept that a 5/10 average looking girl under 30 can easily sleep with a near model looking ripped guy anytime she wants, then you haven't been on this planet for more than a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:45 PM
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Guys who have the options also usually quick to ruin their palate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:13 AM
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Nice to hear a girl admit that. Once women get a taste for the extreme in some guys they date, that's mostly what they are going to want from that point forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:21 PM
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So your theory as a guy who gets 100s of matches but can only close ~2% of them, the other 98% just chilling and doing nothing with no other guys, because they didn't go out with you. Those 100s of girls you didn't go out with are real on Hinge, and many already got multiple bfs and sleep around after a date. Why would they not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:47 PM
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You're in total denial. Top 5% of guys on dating apps are getting attractive young girls like crazy. I know many hot girls and attractive guys in it and how they are. They aren't talking a big game, it's reality, girls are sleeping around a lot on those dating apps with the top guys. Literally all of the hottest single girls are on instagram and/or hinge these days. Super easy to hit them up for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:27 PM
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You're right as the percentage of women that have actively used Hinge for at least 6 months. There is a certain breed of female that think a handsome surgeon is a near guarantee in life. These girls think they need to sleep with all the rich handsome or hot men in their driving radius, and surely one will work out. I'm sure it's fun for the girls for awhile, but for most all it doesn't work out it never works out to a relationship, and they get very upset at this reality. Thankfully for mankind,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:55 PM
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If you're a guy with a great dating profile, sleeping with girls off dating apps comes 10x easier than real life. You make a date for drinks and they come back to your place, sleeping around can't get any easier. If your dating profile is appealing enough, you can get the best looking girls in a 40 mile range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:44 PM
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Agree, 5/10-8/10 girls about as easy to get with in that range. We only think an 8 is harder because there are far less of them than a 5, and you may have less confidence around an 8 that's fairly hot. Very attractive girls that are 9s and 10s are a special category because of how rare they are and demand from high profile men in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:27 PM
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Women are celebrated for their looks in this society. Ancient Greece it would be flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:17 AM
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I stopped drinking and lifting, dropped 25lbs and got skinny within 2 months. I still got online dates, but girls didn't want to get with me and I didn't get 2nd dates. I went back to drinking and lifting and picked back up 40lbs, getting girls to go home and get with me went back to normal. I look like a wuss when I'm skinny and girls didn't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:56 PM
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You got to be a quite attractive girl to be holding out for high vale men like 6'5" investment bankers or picked to be in his rotation of girls. My parents average, they would've prob got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:59 PM
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I think guys become skewed by the girls that are actively on dating apps, which is not the majority of women. They do become addicted to the concept of landing the man that transforms their life into an insta luxury lifestyle or is super hot and buff. The 5-8s women that are on dating apps are happy being a side chick to multiple high value men at the same time and are going on multiple dates a night. These are the women causing a problem and should be avoided and ignored. When these women turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:28 PM
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I don't think his perception is off, I get a date whenever I want off dating apps but it took me years to get my profile and insta right, but for most guys they will go for a year without a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:58 PM
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You can be a really hot female not just average, and 99 times out of 100 they will be Chad's slam pig for the night and complain that all men are trash. There's a solid small percent of guys in the 100s and 1000+ girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:28 AM
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You can't let a girl take it slow with you after she's had casual with the whole hockey team. Means she don't want you that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:18 AM
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Do you have your car and house in the background, and show yourself on exotic trips. How do they know. I can get a date nearly everyday of my life with an attractive women because of that.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:40 PM
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I built up my instagram with cool pictures of me doing exclusive fun things and travels, that closes the deal from dating apps and also gets you good pictures for matches. I also try to take the best pics of myself absolute possible (taken by others not selfies) since I'm not that great looking. The dates are the easy part, most want to hook up after drinks because they want to try and secure you for a relationship.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:39 PM
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I'm a small time internet entrepreneur, drive a couple expensive cars, and live in a nice place. I'm okay looking maybe 6/10, cool beard, 6ft, early 40s. I date attractive girls of any age usually off dating apps. Current gf of a year is mid 20s swedish, great body, and pretty hot. Success matters an absolute ton if you want to casually date girls out of your league.
/r/seduction30/08/22 04:35 PM
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Women don’t need an emotional connection they need to want to get with you.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:36 PM
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Unless you are 20 years old and hot, I wouldn't even consider hitting on girls in an Uber. Your profession matters to women and using them while they taking an Uber to hit on them just sucks all around for you and them.
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:45 AM
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All guys want is someone cute, if we 80, we still dream of the cute girl that's ours, so guys are more slutty but have standards to want a girl considerably more attractive than they are. Girls are hypergamists, always wanting a guy out of my league, can get out but I can't have. This dynamic cause most guys to get virtually no dates, 30% incel.
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:28 AM
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Online dating after my divorce in late 30s turned into how little do I need to say or do to get laid. Say a few sentences on app, get a time and place, talk and have a drink for a hour and bring her over. If you discuss things like this with guys that have less than 5 lifetime pickups, you will just make them annoyed at you. This sub is interesting because guys discuss how they accomplish casual hookups, which most guys don't try, or rarely get the opportunity.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:14 PM
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I know a couple guys that slept with 100+ by the time they turned 18, but 1000 partners before they graduated high school? That's 200 new girls a year starting at 13 years old. The guys I know that been with 1000 girls had 20+ years of single life to pull that off.
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:59 PM
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Was trying to find the yt video, follows this secret cam of okay looking young guy with just jeans and plain white shirt that makes out with 38 girls in just a few hours at the club. For most girls they can get with as many as they want, for some guys if they aren't that picky and girls generally think he's cute and he's motivated enough it's basically the same.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:19 PM
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He only got with 200 partners, that's not that outrageous you could rack that up on a dating app or going out over the process of a few years if you just kept going without a relationship. There's people I know that I believe when they say their number is over 1000.
/r/seduction12/07/22 09:44 PM
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Online dating and clubs you can get a girl in your bed in less than 2 hours. If you plan on getting with hundreds of girls those are the only 2 places. If you want dozens of girls, then day game it.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:22 AM
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It's worse than this, women don't even see most guys, if you're not a desirable guy you are invisible. Seduction is for most women and the top 10% of men. Women don't randomly hook up with ugly, short, or unsuccessful guys.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:31 AM
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Married women cheat just as much as men. Older women get with younger men, it's normal.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:34 AM
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If this is a post about simping and putting girls on a pedestal, constantly thinking and chasing after them, when they don't care 1 bit about actually being with you. Then yes stop.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:21 PM
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Absolutely, just working to become more attractive women will make you more attractive to women. If you're working on your body, fresh haircuts, being more flashy etc. women in general will see and take notice. The hot brainless guy will just get with a 6 because it's easier and he has nothing to prove. It's usually the above average looking guys that have looksmaxed and lifemaxed are bagging all the attractive women.
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:15 PM
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Don't catch babies, that's the worst one.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:25 PM
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If your profile looking good to them, all the live bodies will go out and likely f.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:23 PM
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Order a seltzer and lime, no one suspects anything.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:21 PM
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I used to pickup girls 10-15 years ago in person, they are more closed off in real life these days. I think big reason is because with online dating women are searching for exactly what they want, sleeping with him immediately to love bomb and secure him. There's 5% of guys absolutely killing it online dating, I did it for 5 months and racked up 80 dates and most were in my bed within 3 hours. Having great pictures and instagram is everything. I'd do same thing just message a few times and ask t…
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:16 PM
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She's got to have some interest, but yea def.
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:28 PM
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Are you tall, do you work out, have cool friends, drive a luxury car and live in a good neighborhood? A lot of girls specifically avoid hot guys and look for these other things instead.
/r/seduction30/11/21 04:22 AM
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You have to consciously consider what it means to be attractive, you need to break the touch barrier to seduce.
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:35 AM
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You have to be hot and cold with girls you date and be unpredictable to make yourself interesting and desirable. Too much chasing girls see you as low value and run away, not enough attention they get bored and feel unwanted and get with other guys.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:25 PM
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Yea you need to have a good profile to stand out, I've been on a few hundred online dates. When I first started my profile wasn't good then I made it better. When it works you can get a date whenever you want. Most people I know these days are meeting on dating apps.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:21 PM
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Depressed? Why? Girls show up and want to get with you and have a relationship, it's the opposite of depressed if it works, it's really fun.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:18 AM
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You shouldn't take online dating seriously?? You can get a new attractive girl every single night on every app, and have many of them practically begging to be your boyfriend after the first night.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:06 AM
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Unless you work together or both have same friends, girls don't think you are trying to be friends when you meet.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:03 AM
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You sound motivated, eventually ask out any girl that is touching her hair when she talks to you. Girls are much more lonely and desperate than you probably realize.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:38 PM
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People fake it or actually do in pictures, they have an app for that called Instagram.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:39 AM
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If you’re a super hot guy and just have bathroom selfies, she’s not going to want to be part of your life or likely go out. Girls go out with a guy primarily because they are interested in spending time and having fun with the guy, think he’s handsome, he seems fun, life together, and interesting. Pictures should reflect a positive lifestyle and pleasing surroundings.
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:49 PM
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You don’t, your pictures and vids she sees say a thousand words, if she wants based on them you she will go out or at least put you in her options she will.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:46 PM
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Cool friend group, rich, or fun backgrounds, and pictures inside your house. Girls go for handsome and lifestyle.
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:30 AM
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You have to possess something they want, above average pretty girls can go on 3 dates a day easy. Pictures need to express lifestyle and your body and face clearly. If they want you they’ll act interested.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:32 PM
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I don't believe it, girls have sex quickly based on how many potential partners she thinks she's competing against. So if she thinks he's a man that is perceived to have many partners, she will have sex quickly to hopefully make the impression to get him as a potential partner, girls prize to secure a guy with many options, that's why athletes have thousands of partners, not just because of their attractiveness and money, it's because they know they are competing. There's likely 25% of girls tha…
/r/BlackPillScience12/10/21 10:28 PM
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Be the guy that gets a girl that wants you.
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:58 AM
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I think you should be thinking when you meet a girl that sticks her tongue down your throat within the first few meetings. This sounds positive though, good work.
/r/seduction02/10/21 04:57 AM
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You're probably fairly attractive, but not nearly attractive enough for women to approach you. I get compliments from gay men and get hit on by them, but I don't receive that from women usually unless I've approached them or matched online dating.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:29 PM
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I bring 9/10 dates to my place on first date, I have my own place though. Girls like to come over, be a host.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:47 AM
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Do an ugly girl to get your confidence back and build yourself back up.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:45 AM
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I think 9/10s are just as easy as 6/10s. 9s do who they want, 6 girls are always trying to upgrade.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:43 AM
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Sit at the bar and talk to someone.
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:07 AM
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Prob depends upon the city, my online dates are in my car and I take them to my place on first date. If you don't have these things I think it would be quite a bit harder. However, if you're hot enough, I've seen those guys unemployed and borderline homeless and it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:13 PM
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If you want attractive women these days, you need a car and your own place unless you're very hot. A cool social circle I'm not sure is that important, prob helps some.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:01 PM
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Nearly all men aren't desired. Yes white helps some, but you either need to be tall, masculine, have 6 figure job or be model level hot guy to be "desired." Most guys get girls with connections like work or friends and being charming.
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:15 AM
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Ask their major, talk about some weirdo there, the drinks, who she came with, literally any question to get her talking. If she doesn't stroke her hair, move into your personal space, and generally act interested, bail on her and try it again with someone else. I'm over 6 foot and traditionally attractive, I'm only going to get attraction signals 10% of the time. If you catch a girl looking at you then rapidly looks away when you lock eyes, wait 5 minutes and go talk to her to up the percent.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:53 PM
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Okay I get what you're saying, your strategy is different than mine. I'm just trying to get the hottest and most respectable girl I can get and sometimes a girlfriend. I'll close most girls first date, so I'm not concerned at all when I don't.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:49 AM
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I've been on at least 100 online dates, I agree with everything you said except number 3 having to sexually vet them. If she is willing to show up for a date at night with you, great chance she's already down for at least coming over and making out, I don't see a need for sexual advances over the phone.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:38 AM
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I think it's funny you did this, but if you can get 5 dates, then you got a chance to go for the very few girls out there that would really make you melt. I can only get about a date a week, because I only go for girls that are significantly more attractive and usually a lot younger than me. Do what you like obviously, but beautiful women to me are the real prize to go after.
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:31 PM
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I did too, I've heard so many girls talk about going on 3+ dates in a day, and I'm like wtf why would you do that to yourself, or want to. I've never heard of a guy doing more than 2 first dates in 1 day.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:50 AM
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I do want to see his instagram, if he's great looking this would be easy to pull off, plenty of hot guys can get hookups literally whenever off those apps.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:45 AM
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I respect that you tried this, a lot of girls who online date will do 2-3 dates in a night. My strategy is to pick the hottest of my matches and get her out to dinner. Then ask her over for wine/weed, I've had plenty of first dates that just stayed for multiple days. I just want the one best looking girl I can get and close her that night, I don't want to deal with that many women.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:43 AM
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You don't have to play games, you just need to be chill. I think you're not wanting to recognize the signs that a girl is into you or not, forcing it, and it's not working out. Girls initially only care about face, height, masculinity, and lifestyle quality. If they like what they see, you don't need 1 game or any game to get any girl interested in you in bed nearly immediately.
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:23 PM
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I think they just need to be clean, fit well, and look good on you. I arrive to most my online dates in white adidas pants, dark grey shirt, with nikes. Generally going to a decent, but not fancy restaurant. I wear that because I found it works the best, compared to jeans, or slacks.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:11 PM
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This is tough, first forget about your height 5'8" is okay. I can tell you there is a ton of women out there that are in the exact same boat as you and actually want a guy like you. They probably not going to be conventionally attractive either, but once you get confidence you can start building from there. Unless you are really great looking, you're at a difficult age for every guy. You need find a job where you can get friends, most people get their friends from work. Get your own place, own c…
/r/seduction08/06/21 03:22 PM
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Girls be having 3 boyfriends and still will do random hookups with hot guys on dating apps. Best of luck out there with girls who are down for threesomes.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:37 PM
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Get a girlfriend that's into girls and wants to help or go to a 3rd world country.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:02 PM
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Okay when she gets the munchies after smoking by the river for the first date, maybe head to the gas station to grab her favorite chips. I go to a decent dinner also because I like to have a decent dinner every once in awhile, it's not just for the girl. I'm telling you it will work better, but you do you.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:19 PM
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If she is a stunning blonde she can get with a 10/10 looks guy whenever she wants, I take all my dates to a decent dinner and it very rarely doesn't work, you go fancy you're trying too hard. Women love to eat and have a drink. If being as cheap as you can possibly be is your thing, no complaints good luck.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:11 PM
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Take her to a decent place for dinner, but nothing fancy, wear something casual. Stand up straight and act normal when you meet her, act like you do this type a thing a lot and it's no big deal. Get her talking during dinner don't talk much about yourself. Go in for a nice kiss after dinner, and ask her over for some wine if this kiss is decent. With these situations it's all just yours to mess up, so chill out and have fun.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:04 PM
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Happened to me too before, it's so sad women do this to a guy trying. Nothing you can do though.
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:37 AM
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You're on seduction. Drive a luxury car, live in a nice house, look presentable, and stand up straight. Unless something wrong with you, for nearly any guy, you'll get plenty of girls whenever you want if you have those things going on.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:52 AM
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Yea def, it's just as cool not having a gram at all to most women whether they are attractive or not. If a girl doesn't know you, she is going to look up every single thing they can find online about you before you meet anyway though.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:28 AM
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Insta provides social proof so you get laid immediately, it works literally every single time. Your gram prob sucks and don't have any hot chicks following you to make her jealous. So you just give her number like it's 2003 and play it safe.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:04 AM
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I've done both insta works better.
/r/seduction03/06/21 10:43 PM
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Everyone I know shares instas, it's the largest dating app in the world by a mile.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:33 PM
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If you catch a girl looking at you and she looks away fast when you get eye contact, you can wait a minute then approach her. If she touches her hair and looks to the side while talking but seems interested, then exchange numbers or instas.
/r/seduction01/06/21 03:13 PM
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Ask him a random question, if he talks to you, then say got an insta? Or, do you like coffee? That's prob about as far as you can go, girls who come on too strong freaks me out as a guy.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:37 AM
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If looking away when he looks at you, playing with your hair, and laughing at his dumb jokes doesn't work, he's probably not that into you.
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:11 AM
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I guess it depends upon where you're dating. I've only picked up girls while I was in college and dating apps as an adult, I don't mess around at work or with friends of friends. The moment you meet if she gives you and up and down and smiles, it's just yours to mess up from that point, girls want to do it as much as guys do. However, if it's obvious she doesn't exactly like what she sees (which has happened to me a lot) then you got a turd for a paddle going up a waterfall trying to seduce her …
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:36 AM
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Girls decide. When it comes to seduction, the reality is 9 out of 10 times a girl decides the moment she lay eyes on you. That's why you need to use a dating app or choosing signals to filter out who you have a chance with. From that point, it's just sitting up straight and getting her to talk about herself and play off that, don't try to impress her with words. It doesn't take confidence, just the ability to be a regular respectable guy, which does take some practice to get over yourself.
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:14 AM
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Ask someone on a date, have a simple convo, act normal, ask if you want to go have a smoke/drink at your place after, kiss. I've done it a few hundred times off dating apps, not a big deal, there's really no such thing as seduction, only looks corny when you're trying it, let attraction do the work.
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:53 PM
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For Tinder/Bumble/Hinge once you agree to the date, meet up, all you have to do is stand up straight, act normal, have pleasant conversation, then more than half the time she'll go to your place and you'll do it that night. People like to have sex, it's the primary point of the app.
/r/seduction08/07/20 05:49 AM
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If you catch her looking and she looks away when you lock eyes. Wait a minute, then go say hi to her. If she strokes her hair while you're talking and looks down here and there and responds back, then ask to exchange grams or phone numbers.
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:56 PM
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Get better pictures, where you look as good as you possibly can, also get a group photo with cute people to show you're not a loner. Then just say, Hey you have such great style :) How are you? Ask her what she does, ask her about something in her profile, then ask if she wants to go out. If you have good pictures you will get matches and dates consistently, if you put up one not so good picture you won't.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:23 PM
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This is absolute and utter bs, if he's got a strong jaw, makes 250k+, and is over 6 feet, she will put out to every guy that matches those 3 things in 2 hours and prob already has 100 times. She's not cute, and she already said she dated a lot, so she's trying to establish personal value with all this crap. God help us all from stupid female trash like this.
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