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Abuse is very explicitly defined, which is why it is in its own separate category from abandonment, which is more far more ambiguous. In some cases it can be considered explicit, such as when the victim is a dependent, such as a child, left on their own for extended periods of time unable to care for themselves. But in other cases it's subjective. Is anyone leaving their partner because they're not happy in the relationship or unfulfilled automatically abandoning them, or does there have to be p…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 11:03 PM
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They literally are not and you can actually find legal precedents stating this. But, nice of you to resort to abusive language because you can't accept the possibility that you could be mistaken about something. I'm sure you'd make a great boyfriend.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:48 PM
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Abandonment and abuse are not the same thing. I suggest you go talk to a Child Protective Services rep so you can educate yourself about the difference.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:44 PM
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It's an indication that the person is a bad person without character, but it is not abusive, no. You just simply cannot accept the definition of words, or the possibility that you could be mistaken.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:40 PM
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Yes. Abuse would be calling your wife an ugly, stupid, fat fucking whore who can't do anything right. Proposing an open marriage is being a tremendous asshole. English. Learn it. Or don't. Not my problem. Because you're not my significant other, nor would I enjoy being in a relationship with someone who likes conflict this much. I would be well within my rights to leave it.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:36 PM
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There is a difference as well between an asshole, and an abuser. Learn the definitions of words. Or don't, and continue to be an arrogant and stubborn son of a gun who is surely impossible to live with. It makes not a whit of difference to me.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:32 PM
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Omg I refuse to believe you are this obtuse. I have to believe you are deliberately refusing to actually stop and think and listen. It literally doesn't matter whether all people who are down and depressed are abusers or not. That is irrelevant. The act of forcing someone to stay in a relationship for any reason is in itself an act of abuse. If you are emotionally manipulating, guilting, calling the person a bad person, or any manner of coercion a person who fundamentally does not want to be in …
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:25 PM
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It's just such a genuinely asinine belief that I'm actually incredulous. Forcing someone to stay in a relationship against their will is abuse! The cycle of abuse is well-documented and those of us from abusive homes are more likely to display abusive behaviour in adulthood ourselves. I think based on some of the more alarming things you have said here that you are a huge red flag for emotional abuse of a partner. I really hope you mean what you say and continue to avoid them.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 09:16 PM
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I can say that you remind me of a certain ex of mine, who was verbally abusive and had a bad temper and liked to punch holes in doors. He too was a stubborn and arrogant bastard who refused to ever listen to anyone. However, not even he was arrogant enough to make up his own definitions of words and insist that everyone else in the world is wrong that they don't adhere to it. That is some level of head-up-your-own-ass. Not wanting to be with someone else for ANY reason is NOT abusive. That you d…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 09:09 PM
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No, that is not abusive. I am a victim of abuse, I've been beaten with leather belts and telephone cords, covered in bruises and called all manner of profanities. I have also been dumped by a boyfriend when I did not want to be, also while dealing with unemployment. These are not the same thing by any stretch of the imagination, and your absolute refusal to listen to anyone else and callously sling this term around even after being told you are speaking to a victim of abuse, and it's insulting i…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:49 PM
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Um, no. You actually have no understanding of what abuse is, and as a victim of abuse I actually find your characterization insulting, though I understand it comes from a profound ignorance. Not wanting to be in a relationship with someone does not equal abuse. You could say if you feel so inclined to judge that it may be a little insensitive or that the person is prioritizing self-preservation, which some might call selfish. But that still does not equate to abuse. Only abuse qualifies as abuse…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:37 PM
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I'm not sure The Notebook would hold up to scrutiny of being relatable to modern times. As much as I don't condone cheating I mean, very few women today can say they would have had no way of knowing that the love of their life hadn't died gruesomely. For most of us, thankfully, the days of war are over, and being able to find people easily is the one upside to social media. In modern days, Allie would likely not have gotten engaged to someone else to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:32 PM
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Which changes nothing about my statement. I also wasn't encouraged to become verbally abusive in retaliation because I'm a woman. Instead, I was encouraged to leave the toxic relationship, which is the correct course of action. The point stands. The people you know are encouraging toxicity and would likely benefit from therapy.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:28 PM
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Just one small caveat: the current leader of the Proud Boys is Hispanic-American.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 07:29 PM
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I don't know what social norms are like in your social circle or within your community. I can say that it is very much not the norm in general society nor within my own social circle to "give a pass" to anyone of any gender to abuse their partner, nor have I ever heard any friende say ever that "it's okay to demonize your partner." I have personally been on the receiving end of incidents of physical abuse, and at no point ever was that seen to be okay by anyone, nor was I encouraged to retaliate…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:26 PM
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Please. They're literally the same man at 20 and 30. The 30 year old has simply started to lose his hair and is trying to lock down a woman before he has to pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:25 PM
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What u/John_Oakman said is still true. It was common in the 50s for there to be shotgun weddings because people hooking up and having premarital sex accidentally conceived. The only difference today is that there would be an abortion or the couple would date with their bastard kid in tow with no expectation to have a rushed wedding before the baby comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:02 PM
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Okay, well I'm going to go ahead and respectfully disagree. Because this post isn't about how there are many people who suck, it's about how women are a certain way, and "that's why you are red pilled." As I said, I personally don't think you should bother. First of all because romantic relationships are not a requirement of life. One can be perfectly fine without them. Secondly because finding a good and compatible partner is a tough task, it can be exhausting, it can be demoralizing at times, …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:38 PM
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It's another entirely to tell them to get over it or shut them out completely. Has this happened to you personally when in a relationship?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:16 PM
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So why is it okay for people to treat their partners like dirt in this way? It's not okay, and anyone doing this is being a poor partner. This type of relationship is highly likely to break down completely without couples therapy to address this. It seems like relationships are just a vice grip of emotional torment rather than something fulfilling. And how would you know that if you've never let anyone get close enough to you to get to that level of intimacy, per your own words? I'm not going to…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:10 PM
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Jesus, "ride the cock carousel." So you've stated in your earlier post that you don't want a virgin because of the "connotations" but a woman who has had premarital sex and has had ex-boyfriends is also unacceptable to you. Also any woman who is an extrovert. Is there any type of woman whom you don't judge or think is not good enough? The thing is that you have all these preconceptions and disqualifiers, but that being the case why feel sorry for yourself about being single? It's an active decis…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:56 PM
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I'm curious. Do you think it's equally fair for women to be wary of all men, based on the fact that there are predatory and exploitative men and men who lie to get sex, or would you say that a woman like that has trust issues she should get therapy for?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:19 PM
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You're depicting a caricature of a human being. I don't know anyone man or woman who was agnostic and suddenly "found god" in their 30s. My boyfriend did struggle with alcohol for awhile, which he's since overcome, but I never have. I had half a seltzer yesterday. And he didn't really go out dancing until we began dating because he felt awkward with no one to go with. The fact is that you are judging people pretty explicitly for attempting to enjoy their lives, but don't think it's fair that wom…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:16 PM
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No, you have to toughen up, you can't complain about the world or anything else. r/antiwork and r/lostgeneration have a combined millions of followers. Are you claiming that none of these men are in a successful relationship because they have grievances with the world? You're not just wrong, but you're objectively wrong. Your perception is not gospel truth. If you don't feel safe opening up to someone, it could be that the person is not empathetic and thus not compatible, or it could be your own…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:42 PM
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Looking at your profile, I see that you made a post about how to avoid "bad women," and you classify any woman who has ever gone to a club as "bad." Where to even start with this. I was at a club just last night with my boyfriend of 7 years and a few other friends, one of whom I've known for 16 years and who has done extensive military service including peacekeeping and has saved lives. We just wanted to have a good time singing out loud to some 90s tunes, and I'd love to know why that in your m…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:34 PM
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I can only speak from my personal experience and I'm probably not as articulate or good at giving advice as some of the other users here but for me personally, my boyfriend opened up to me on our fifth date and cried and he was talking about his experiences in high school with being ostracized, and his vulnerability ultimately brought us closer together. I guess I think it depends on the topic. Dating is hell for everyone, or almost everyone, until you find your person. That's just sort of the w…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:11 PM
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Men can be brilliant, ingenious and funny, and for this reason they can make excellent platonic friends. I don't fully trust them. I feel like they are far more likely to be amoral than women, and that ultimately their every action is motivated by a deep-seated drive to control women. I generally think the rising number of singles is a good thing, for women anyway, who don't get much out of being married to a typical man. For context, I am a woman who is in a very happy relationship for 7 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:38 PM
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I would be extremely skeptical that you were telling women "by the way there's no chance I'll seriously date you" before the panties came off. You probably let them believe there was hope of a relationship developing until you got what you wanted. That's the way it normally goes, and TRP openly advocates lying to a woman's face. But it probably helps alleviate your conscience to tell yourself that "they wanted" to be treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:53 PM
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I believe an annual community survey found that the most commonly reported number of sexual partners for men here was 0. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:36 PM
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False equivalency. Women and men complaining rarely have the same goals. A woman complaining about lack of success is talking about relationship success, they're complaining that they're being lied to, used and discarded, or can't find a compatible match. She is looking for lifelong love. A man complaining about lack of success is complaining that not enough women or hot enough women are allowing him to use and discard them, for free, at will. You're talking passed each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:30 PM
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Interesting. Is it prosecuted or enforced though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:25 PM
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My bf earned less than me when we met, and he earns approximately $10k more a year now. If you were to look only at the existing facts you would say that I had refused to date a guy who earned less when that isn't the case. Women in their 20s earn more than men do, on average, and still date plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:15 PM
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So the Halo Effect is well-documented for both genders. Probably plenty of people didn't want to believe you're as big a piece of shit as you actually were. What is your point? Men like you constantly frame normal phenomena as a gendered issue when it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:13 PM
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Not being able to find free holes to use and discard is not a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:11 PM
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It's legal in Vegas and not enforced in most other parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:09 PM
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I was looking for the right guy from 18, but few 18 year old guys are in the same frame of mind, so it's pointless advice as it takes two to tango. At the end of the day, luck and compatibility don't really have a timeline or expiration date. I met the love of my life at 29; my cousin met hers at 35, after leaving a 16 year long relationship. You can't really predict these things. Life happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah, you're university-educated and childfree... you should probably move to a bigger city and find your tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:27 PM
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Well, you may be an outlier in an already outlier community: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8208578/ I imagine that makes it tough to have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:59 PM
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There is no such thing as an incel. Anyone who is celibate who doesn't want to be could get an escort, and have sex. There really are only "standards-cels." To call oneself an incel is by definition a marker of a certain kind of ideology, an alternately self-pitying, and self-hating entitled mentality, and that one has spent time steeped in the dungeons of the internet stewing in misogyny and hatred, and it is also a red flag that a man is a pedo or pedo-adjacent. There are normal single men, an…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:23 PM
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I'm referring to the males who call themselves incels, and engage with other incels online. It's pretty straightforward.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:18 PM
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They need therapy because they can't even accurately identify their problem. By calling themselves incels they imply that what they want is sex. Which you could purchase from a prostitute. They need therapy to find ways that they can find fulfillment and validation and lose their sense of entitlement. They routinely spend upwards of 16 hours per day on their toxic boards. They aren't trying anything else except sitting on their ass all day stewing in hatred and toxicity, so they can't actually k…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:14 PM
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It's no one else's responsibility to give that to them. That's what they need the therapy for, to cope with that reality.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:08 PM
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I met him on tinder back in early 2015. Back then tinder was really the only swipe app around. Bumble hadn't been invented yet. I couldn't care less if other women desire him lmao. It's been seven years. I desire and value him, and that's all that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:55 PM
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This is an implicit admission that childfree men are less likely to be red pilled, and thus make better, more loving and less sexist mates. Couldn't agree more. I noticed that years ago myself. It's one of several reasons I decided not to have kids, in fact!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:53 PM
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They provide value to their community, but they're banned from pursuing romantic relationships, so what value do they have in that context? Zero, that is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:23 AM
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A lot of them say prostitutes don't count. They want validation. What they need is therapy.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 11:19 AM
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There was literally an incel shooting in England this very year. England is in Europe. Furthermore, incel terrorists don't only shoot people. Sometimes they also stab women and run people over with their cars. Both have happened here in Canada.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 02:39 AM
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Sure, lots of women are willing to settle for these men when they're on their last egg and getting slightly desperate. They're nobody's first choice though, we all try for the liberal guys first. They can have a shot at being the beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:46 PM
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Them too, nobody wants them, that's why they're all divorced: https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-demography-of-the-alt-right. Well, the older ones are divorced. The young ones are all incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:50 PM
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Right-wingers. Lives at home with mom. Smokes cigarettes. Is in horrible shape. Has misogynistic and red-pill views. Has few or no friends, and no ambition. Listens to trash music and cannot spell. Doesn't laugh at anything/looks pissed off all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:48 PM
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I don't see the appeal of the red pill. Whatever is challenging about your life or circumstances, becoming a red piller only make things even harder for you, makes you even more of a shut-in not building real life friendships, even more unattractive for a long-term relationship. Like, why is this your cope? No offense, but have you never heard of a hobby? I came here to understand but I just find myself more confused as to what the draw is.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 08:40 PM
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Im actually autistic Okay. Explains a few things, unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 08:36 PM
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Your own words, dude. You said you would have liked a family and you don't have what you want. But rather than look within to ask yourself why you don't have what you want, you explain how everything wrong with the world is women's fault. That is bitterness. You don't see happily married men making comments like yours. The thing is, real men, good men, take responsibility. You don't. So what exactly are women missing out on? A non-catch?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 08:06 PM
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OP, have you ever stopped for one second to ask yourself what you would offer an individual woman in terms of emotional fulfillment and why she would want to devote the rest of her life to you exclusively? From what I can ascertain, no RP male has ever for one moment stopped to ask himself a simple question: "Am I loveable?" One suspects it's easier to blame externals than look for the answer inside.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 07:39 PM
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You don't have what you want and are consumed with bitterness. You can't even be honest with yourself.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 07:32 PM
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Transactional relationships have lower satisfaction ratings: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/social-instincts/202206/are-you-being-used-your-partner But go on and continue failing romantically. After all, you know everything right? And your strategy has worked so well thus far. 😏
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 07:05 PM
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If one gender looses, both genders loose. And the opposite logic is also true, which is why Norway is the happiest place on earth, according to the people themselves. Highest gender equality.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 07:02 PM
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You think men and women should not have sex before marriage but you continue to do it yourself. So you're still a hypocrite. Most people instinctively don't respect those who are incapable of practising what they preach.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 06:55 PM
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You say that you want a family. I never have, and it's at least partly because many men like you are the ones who want families. Entitled men who hate women and employ ridiculous double standards. You say that women are "ruining society" and are single-handedly responsible for fatherlessness, but multiple studies show that men are the most likely to cheat on their wives when they are pregnant or recently gave birth. Childfree men have lower marital infidelity rates. Where is your rancor for the …
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 06:51 PM
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Please stop using incel terms like chad. They are seen as crimson red flags.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:29 PM
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