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| 1 | Woman here. I stumbled across this subreddit. I have a question: Are you guys feminists?Such a similar story to mine, I’m for equality but not the feminist version.. Enjoy your life now you eyes are more open | /r/MensRights | 20/11/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | It's time for husbands to Go Their Own WayGood luck, glad it was helpful. If you have questions, feel free to ask. Take care of yourself:) | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | It's time for husbands to Go Their Own WayMy dear friend told me that it was totally normal to feel so lost. That woke me up, I went to Central America for 10 weeks, it was a breath of fresh air. The people were kind, happy and polite. Made friends and spent a lot of time reflecting. From that, I gathered my strength. My X wife even wanted me back after the divorce. But I knew that, that was no longer a logical decision , I was so much calmer. I learnt a lot, it was expensive. However the world is out there, it’s up to you to decide wha… | /r/MGTOW | 11/10/19 08:23 PM |
| 5 | The family court system - Karen StraughanThanks | /r/MensRights | 26/08/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | If you shame single mothers, you should be pro choice / pro abortionI just know these laws did it exist, don’t know how much they were used. But husbands were jailed if found, and guilty of not paying taxes for their wife’s income. You can look that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:58 PM |
| – | If you shame single mothers, you should be pro choice / pro abortionI’m pro choice, but I think you may be partially wrong. I believe in the 1800-1925 period, a man who was married was legally responsible for paying for child support and any debts or taxes incurred by their wife. This was in the states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I gave up today also, or rather, I opened my eyes.At some indeterminate point in your future, you’ll be shocked when you meet another women whose real. At least that was my experience, and it really helped put what had happened in my relationship and divorce in perspective. Keep your head up and good luck, sincerely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/19 04:45 AM |
| 8 | Lost the will to liveKeep your head up, you will make it. And from here I think it’s pretty cool how much support you can find on this sub. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Well boys, today is the dayAll the best, things can only get better now | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/19 04:05 PM |
| 50 | Toxic masculinityWow, those kids are lucky and so was the dad, but talk about powerful instincts. Incredible clip | /r/MGTOW | 07/08/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?Well I wish nothing but the best fortune in your future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?I was happy to risk my intimacy, short term, so she doubled down, she broke first. It was like a bomb went off, never seen anything like it. Painful divorce, now happily single. My lessons, don’t try to please a person who cannot please themselves, red flags are there so don’t make excuses for poor behaviour. If you don’t stand your ground, you will be walking on eggshells until death or divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?Sorry my mistake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 05:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?I agree, I find you can often put someone on the defence if you say ‘you’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?Please don’t take this the in a bad light, I’m curious? Didn’t you break up with him because you weren’t happy with the line of work he chose, because you could make an argument in today’s world that you shouldn’t judge a person on their job description, otherwise it’s a little materialistic classist or some such. If he was happy working in a factory? Was that the problem? Or did you feel he was wasting his potential? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?In my experience the best results to get my attention were simply hey, you know X, it’s bothering me because of Y. I really feel we should do X, do you agree? I’d appreciate some help or other The girl women looked me in the eye, when there were no other distractions for either of us, asked the question genuinely and calmly. I guess reading the other persons body language can help, it goes both ways. No one enjoys being criticized, so you go gently. You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?Well put | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 04:16 AM |
| 4 | What do you mean by “pleasant” when describing your ideal woman?My experience was similar analogy wise, to how my in laws and X wife gutted my home to the walls because it wasn’t up to their absurd standards. They tried to do to me what they achieved with my home (when are you gonna start a new business, why are you driving a pick up? Why don’t you drive Volvo, BMW etc...) I don’t believe this was accurate for all women, but what was interesting was that I realized many of the women were dominant in the relationship, my sister in law, smiled and said you nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Ronda Rousey shuts down women's soccer equal pay argument. "How much you get paid should have something to do with how much money you bring in. I'm the highest paid fighter...because I make them the most money"I, not sure about that, because you can easily argue that the Americans Men’s team compete against a higher international group, so all those male teams generate in the billions rather than millions when people pay to advertise on the Men’s World Cup, the reality is that many more people follow and buy merchandise from the Men’s World Cup throughout the world. I even remember a kid in a village in Afghanistan being so happy to receive Messi signed shirt, this made the news. At the moment the Wom… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Ronda Rousey shuts down women's soccer equal pay argument. "How much you get paid should have something to do with how much money you bring in. I'm the highest paid fighter...because I make them the most money"I understand, but the amount the cups bring in is what pays the players. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Ronda Rousey shuts down women's soccer equal pay argument. "How much you get paid should have something to do with how much money you bring in. I'm the highest paid fighter...because I make them the most money"Timpool on YouTube explains how much the different businesses men/women Football breaks down. Something like 6billion compare to 132 billion. To achieve equal pay would bankrupt women’s World Cup. However that’s the business perspective, which some people don’t seem to care for | /r/MensRights | 11/07/19 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Marriage minded people, how much do you worry about “divorce rape”?I never even imagined it in my wildest dreams and the real painting of the scream 😱 comes close to my final reaction. I suffered at the hands of my x-wife’s, extremely dark, malicious and extremely wealthy family. They went to court for every dime spent, and challenged everything. Finally my X agreed to walk away from the lawyers, and have a no contest divorce, however she had to push her father to sign two documents on the divorced that he would no longer pursue me after. $65k and counting in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/19 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?I wish I’d gone too a marriage class, I was very naive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?How to you know your lawyer is less experienced (weaker), than the opposing counsel? You don’t. Just pointing out that a nasty divorce can be made very complicated and thus expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?Mental health issues too, I would assume most volunteers are not equipped with this expertise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?Your not accounting for the fact that in a divorce you can have one or two people, who’ve become illogical, irrational and hostile. Under those conditions it’s extremely hard at times to come to an agreement. The divorce settlement can be used to destroy you financially if you have a weak lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?In Canada, the judge can throw out the pre-nup if it’s unfair in the eyes of the court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: is marriage more of a risk for men, or for women?TheIn my divorce, the following really shocked me. I’m on the liberal side of politics if that’s relevant, in the sense that I believe in real equality. However, after my marriage failed within 9 months, due to my very wealthy in-laws toxic drip drip, why doesn’t he start a better business he’s not earning enough, wife snaps, torn between the two. Marriage ends unpleasantly. Divorce should of been simple, but I signed a prenuptial under pressure from my father in law 2 days before wedding, our p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone find it ironic how reddit likes to shit on gender studies, but gender studies is literally what we're doing?Have any of you guys checked out the hoax papers from 2018, 3 professors submitted crazy articles, such as the dog park, and how it encourages rape culture. The fascinating part was how it was accepted after peer review and was to be printed as a leading article... These guys and girl, felt that these types of social science were suspect at best, akin to following an ideology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Keanu Reeves hover hand photo with fansWe could all return to the Victorian age, I believe higher society observed similar roles. No more hugs, no more kisses on the cheek to say hello, it’s just getting stranger. This shouldn’t be necessary for your average individual or Movie star you’d think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | "He deserved it"Yes they maybe, I’ve just never heard of hoarders escalating to knifing someone, in what appears to be a short time frame. Sure mental illness is serious, but if you’re at risk of hurting someone, then I presume ideally you’d be medicated as best as possible, or willingly or by family/SO have them entered into a mental illness facility. Also, she said He deserved It, I can read that as a sign of mental illness or weak emotional control or awareness combined with aggressive behaviour. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 03:43 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Sending men to jail for not paying child support is a human rights crisisI think it’s more about how each parent is involved in supporting the child. You could make a strong argument that it’s much more enjoyable for someone to pay your living expenses whilst you spend a lot of one on one time raising your child and building a strong connection and take care of the home, that has value beyond money 💰 or work in my opinion. Now contrast that with the possibility that the father has to work at least a 40 hr job, and he better hope it’s better than minimum wage, so that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What is your number one deal breaker?Entitled, lack of awareness of reality, screaming, yelling and gaslighting. How now interact with strangers and animals too. Dogs have a certain sense, all though it could be a false positive. A lack of general accountability in life. No empathy. However I do like humans, you know, the actually good hearted ones, I believe there’s quite a few! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Some quality father and son time.Good post thanks, made me smile ! | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Does a Man Not Being Married Impact Him in the Male Social Matrix?In the city, I don’t find this as relevant any more. I’m divorced which is so common , also common is male friends at the age of 40, who have decided not to get married.. so I don’t find it relevant impo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/19 04:19 AM |
| 36 | Faced with the prospect of reproductive Rights equal to men feminists suddenly decide that forcing someone to pay for a kid they never wanted is slavery. But only for women.This is the absolute epitome of hypocrisy, it’s amazing that people can’t see that. Quite simply, wow | /r/MensRights | 07/06/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | any famous mens rights activists that are female?Not an MRA, however very sympathetic. Check out Lauren Chen on YouTube, she covers a spectrum of issues, including gender issues etc | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | "Sexually assaulted or Raped" statistics purely attempt to make people believe there is more rape then there actually is.Maybe, but clearly not everyone is as insightful as you are on this subject... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | The Worst Thing a Man Can Have is Mental IllnessThank you, the irony is I believe I’m a much better person for passing these trials. The disbelief from come friends and some family was that 10-12 years ago there was little research available. LPHS, now has its own day and colour lol. Thanks for the kind words, all the best to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The Worst Thing a Man Can Have is Mental IllnessI’m not sure about the mental illness thing. But, I got very sick in my mid to late twenties, lost a lot of friends and my relationship. People have a hard time understanding, especially if on the surface you look well, with hind sight you can see how unfair judgements were passed around as fact. I had an obscure and very kidney disorder LPHS, it been 15 years that I lived with it. My marriage failed and part of that was due to in-laws involvement and fragile wife, wanting me to stop any pain re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:55 AM |
| 0 | I'm tied up and can't figure out what to doJust life Your life, might be hard at the beginning, but if your not at that place. It’s a very bad idea to push such a crucial part of your potential life. | /r/MGTOW | 05/05/19 05:06 AM |
| 2 | In an attempt to reduce false rape accusations, the UK government now requests alleged rape victims to have data taken from their phones for inspection - victim blaming or a good deterrent?I think this article is referring to some cases in the uk, the reason why the phones were relevant was for the messages found after the alleged rape. Such as one girl wanting to continue a sexual relationship where as the accused was not. I don’t think it’s so much a judgement akin to “look how she dressed, blah blah which is BS and has nothing to do with rape”, however if there are messages that infer all was ok during the alleged time and incident and importantly relevant, obviously not all or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 05:09 AM |
| 2 | More than two-thirds of women doing 'home duties' do not want to return to a paid jobI think in the UK or Canada, it’s something like 6-9 months paid leave for the mother and 2 weeks paid leave for the father, that’s approximate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | More than two-thirds of women doing 'home duties' do not want to return to a paid jobThat’s not what the article from the Irish paper claims though, which goes against what one normally hears from more mainstream media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 04:20 AM |
| 5 | More than two-thirds of women doing 'home duties' do not want to return to a paid jobI think one of the problems with the minimum wage idea is that it raises the costs for everyone, you will have more money if minimum wage goes up, but all goods made in that country might go up more. Quite the conundrum, I own a small business, when times are tough I will always take a pay cut first. But if my labour costs go up, so do my products... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that the MRP men only try fix their marriage after the sex dries up?Forget about the sex at the moment. I’m a guy, divorced, short marriage, there were red flags and I was to blind to see them. I feel that the state of gender relations amongst certain groups, has got so bad, that the only solution viable is the more extreme. Guys, do get taken to the cleaners in divorce more often than women do, women get custody more often than men. People are so scared of being screwed, be them male or female. I see less traditional marriages, which has less protections being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Over 30 Are Low RMVI was just commenting on my personal experience, not a criticism. Lack of understanding in real life, is always a shock . All the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 04:30 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men Over 30 Are Low RMVFor me it was the very wealthy in laws. Decimated the marriage through manipulation and constant malicious judgements. Very expensive life lesson. Thought I could save her, but nope I was to naive to reality. But love is blind, hard to see the flags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Over 30 Are Low RMVHere’s a personal and possible different take. I had less than a handful of long term relationships by my late 20’s. Got real sick, sick sick . Genetic LPHS syndrome, requires pain and nerve control. Just turned 40, and my need to take prescribed medication, destroyed a marriage and 1 other long term relationship. Illness is hard to understand in your youth and twenties, and my general experience was, that it both scared and frustrated my partners. This being something totally out of my control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Older married members (40+) - how many dead bedrooms do you see in your social circle?I know from comments that my parents at 70 still find sex and intimacy mutually enjoyable. I found it actually gave me hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 05:00 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Partners that refuse to allow access to sex in a monogamous relationship are just as bad as a cheaterIn Canada I believe it’s considered to be a type of abuse,.. Also, the reverse of demanding sex is also a type of abuse... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Have you ever experienced sexual harassment from your female coworkers?Working as a bouncer in university, had a few girls try and rub against me, and a few of those were verbally loud in their dissatisfaction that I made them wait in line. Had my ass, squeezed I guess. Had my ass slapped really hard once by a patron at the bar, the French translation of what she said as my eyes watered were, “but it was right there, and I just couldn’t control myself”, what ticked me off was it left a bruise and I’m not a thin guy. What bothers me, is that I believe to a great deg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Shaming men for preferring sexually discriminate women as being 'sex negative' is like shaming women for preferring self-assured men as being 'insecurity negative'.I agree with the virtues you attribute to the cultures are correct. However on the flip side, many Latino culture are also found guilty by others off a lot of negative machine. Hopefully in the long run, the former parts will become the more dominate and celebrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 04:47 AM |
| 3 | This is my lil guy. That’s all.Dogs absolutely rock, big or small, mutt or purebreds. Unconditional love and loyalty . My older mastiff 12-1/2 is near her time. How do you thank a friend for such love? They are wonderful creatures ❤️🙏🏼 | /r/MensRights | 10/04/19 05:04 AM |
| 2 | How long did it take you to grief the divorce?I’m about 18 months separated, still hard but that because of the pain of the divorce. You do not want to be with anyone who does not want to be with you. Yes there were food times, and it’s understandable that you miss them. Your pain is totally normal, it will pass, but divorce is very hard, in a short period of time, maybe less than @2 months you will realize how lucky you were to dodge that tank round of and X. Your life will get better I promise, focus on you, eat well, get a dog if you can… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to define what makes a man?Or when showing empathy for another’s suffering | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Truth out!!First time comment, women and men are equal, thus all people, both men and women can be toxic, Such a bad term in my opinion, toxic masculinity. I do prefer, how twenty years back or less, If a guy who was rude, etc... he was an asshole and woman who was rude, etc... she was a bitch. At least you could break it down to “people” who were in some way civil and uncivil to varying degrees according to norms required to function well in a group and or larger societies. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/18 05:05 AM |
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