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canarywocoalmine/r/seduction17/07/18 01:07 PM
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Dude, paragraphs, looking at this wall of text just hurts my brain.
/r/seduction08/08/19 12:48 PM
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This is a dumb analogy. This is like being flown to the top of a mountain and then trying to climb a small hill. Paying a hooker bypasses all the skills you need to actually get a woman in bed.
/r/seduction02/08/19 03:07 PM
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Well the reason is, you want to connect with them. The key is probably to start touching more people more often. If it helps, what this does is get oxytocin and other hormones flowing and makes people feel good. Try hugging anyone you havent seen for a while, there's a reason, or if a female friend is looking sad, has something bad happen. You can also do stuff like high over anything good that happens. You probably dont become a toucher overnight, ease into it. Especially with men, you can get …
/r/seduction21/07/19 06:25 PM
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You should have said that not thought it.
/r/seduction13/07/19 12:56 AM
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Um, that's cause our entire society is rigged to teach girls game from about 3 months old!
/r/seduction08/07/19 01:14 AM
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Dating is done by tinder for men to don’t have the nerve to meet women in real life, it’s just a form of rejection avoidance.
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:44 PM
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And there is your issue. Well 2 issues, 1. Misunderstaing and 2. Believing you know everything.
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:05 PM
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Go back and read what I wrote. I didn't say be nice anywhere. Friendly is different, its engaging people like they are already friends. Brighten up their day, make them smile or laugh.
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:03 PM
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Start being friendly to everyone all the time. Talk to everyone, female or male, hot or not. Really engage them, ask about their day and find a way to connect. If you see something to compliment on, do it, it makes complimenting people in general easier. I literally get free food all the time just because I do this. Great example in vegas I was looking for coffee. Saw a guy that worked in a cafe out giving directions. I ask about where the coffee bean was. He suggested I try theirs. So I was cha…
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:44 PM
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Dude, these are shot tests, 1. Dont answer the what's your job, at least make her guess. 2. If she asks your income either exaggerate so high she knows you are fucking with her or so low she knows you are fucking with her.
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:42 PM
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Definitely get clothing that fits well. If you wear tshirts, look for those that fit higher on the bicep to show it off better. Don't try to look young with your clothing, if that makes sense. I've taken to over dressing most people but that's my style. Develop your own. Btw, if in the US, find Saks Off 5th Ave and Nordstroms Rack. You can up your style at a discount. Btw, chicks notice shoes a lot. Get nice ones and keep them clean/polished.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:33 PM
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I'm 50, fit, dress well, dating early 30s, seeing interest from 20s. Have taken a seduction bootcamp, DM and I'll tell you who. Has helped a lot to understand female psychology. If you aren't in good shape, dress well, good hair cut, I can't recommend doing these things enough, you'll see a positive impact big time.
/r/seduction13/06/19 03:18 PM
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The poster literally doesnt understand what game is and shouldn't be posting here!
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:45 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:01 PM
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Sounds like it. Yes, took me a while to figure this out, but we get nervous speaking to really hot girls and we think they are impervious to it, or that they need a really good looking guy to have that affect. In reality their version of good looking is confident, dominant, masculine, etc. Show those traits and they start having the same reaction. You just need to move on it now, if you are interested. Keep in mind, hitting on chicks from work can be risky.
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:17 PM
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Yep, some of what this guy said. Direct works in day game but, it will polarize quickly. With this big of a group, go in as the social guy, just start joking with all of then, tease, give them a hard time. You'll see this "who the fuck is this guy" cause you seem really confident and fun. Then they'll start becoming attracted.
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:03 PM
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Honestly really attractive women get hit on all the time, but the guys are usually drunk, sleazy or come off as creepy. Do it with strong eye contact and be confident, just have fun with it and you'll be shocked. On my last 7 day bootcamp, half the guys got same day lays from day game and I only missed pulling a same day because she had to leave with her brother, literally sat with her in a bar while she vacillated about how she could get home the next day if she stayed. Shes likely to fly out a…
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:15 PM
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You are probably underestimating your impact. I've done a lot of approach workshops and when a man approaches confidently, 1. It will have a strong impact, some women get giggling, some get really flirty, some get really nervous because they are turned on and dont know how to respond, some get really submissive. 2. Some will be so into you, they actually forget they have a boyfriend, some long enough that the boyfriend comes up later, like after you bang them.
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:46 PM
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For sure. This press driven bullshit toxic masculinity wave is just going to create even more pussified men, which definitely helps the rest of us have a bigger set of chicks to select from. Ok for us, but, I feel for the rest.
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:21 PM
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I'm a white guy but I've done some seduction bootcamps and seen 5'6 Indian guys getting white, Asian, black and Latina girls. Indians are the bottom in terms of racial attraction, doesnt matter at all. Learn to game and you'll do fine. Some will be racist but who cares.
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:11 PM
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Are you not on social media? If so, put photos up about your new awesome life and let her see. (Add her ofcourse)
/r/seduction31/05/19 08:56 PM
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You're putting way too much thought into trying to avoid being rejected. Don't chat with her for hours, build a little attraction, tease her, do whatever you do and say "we should grab a drink", shell say yes or no, or something else, if she says yes, give a couple of options. If shes not available, ask when she is. If she seems uncooperative, move on, there are millions of chicks, find others.
/r/seduction31/05/19 08:54 PM
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What's with the "aweful male gaze"? I assure you, women love Male attention whether single or not and few would use the term aweful!
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:17 AM
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Physically escalated, isolated and moved her to my dorm (I was literally on campus staying in the dorm I lived in). Probably would have been easy.
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:02 AM
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Well the difference is, the other acts arent against the law. Filming someone without their consent is.
/r/seduction20/05/19 02:58 AM
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You getting permission to record? If yes, tell me how! If not, be careful, in the US at least it's illegal!
/r/seduction20/05/19 01:15 AM
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If this is the reaction, you are clearly not doing something right. Find a dating coach and work on it. I'm going to guess that your posture, eye contact, vocal tonality or fashion/style are sending the wrong message. Figure out which one it is and fix it. What country are you in btw?
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:49 PM
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Find a reason to be alone, coffee, a drink, a party, etc. Then start touching them. Read about escalation on here. Two main things are strong eye contact and physical escalation.
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:28 PM
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STOP USING DATING APS! Only about 25% of women are even on them and a good portion are just looking for validation. They get that when good looking men match with them, they dont need to meet. You're using a dating app because you want to avoid rejection. Stop doing that. Meet women in real life. Get involved in coed sports, volunteer, go to social events, pursue interests that will attract women and then talk to them. Learn about pickup from this site and materials it covers. It's fine to use a…
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:25 PM
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You need to physically escalate. This can start with something as simple as saying something funny and bumping her with your elbow, they was you might with a Male friend when you make a joke. When you are talking and make a point, touch her leg and leave your hand too long. If shes wearing shorts or a skirt, you can notice she has nice legs and caress it. You can notice she has nice nails and ask to see her hand. Then, keep holding it. Also listen to any complaints, I've had women complain of a …
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:17 PM
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Dude, what the fuck. Yes, it will cost money to improve your appearance, stop being a bitch, work on your career and pay to have your shit fixed. If you cant afford $3k for dental work then you are poor and need to work on your career before worrying about getting women. 2nd I don't have facial hair. I merely said it's an option. If someone has a weak chin or an odd shaped face, facial hair can be used to mask it. If you have big ears, grow long hair and cover. The point of my post is that men c…
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:00 PM
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You've heard of a dentist right? Get them straightened and whitened.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:10 PM
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I'd say it has more to do with peeling back layers of social influence. Feminism has done a number on us. Removes the masculinity from men and neither men nor women are happy.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:19 AM
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Nope. I'm not a tattoo guy.
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:51 PM
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I dont think you get what game means. Game is acting like a man. I'm guessing you are a natural. Many of us did what society told us we were supposed to do and it doesnt work. Game really gets you to engender masculine behaviours, which is what actually works.
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:27 PM
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Yep, this guy gets it?
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:23 PM
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Actually this doesnt make since, society does say that looks matter. The reality is looks do matter, but you have much more control over your looks. I had an epiphany yesterday, I've been lifting for nearly 2 years and doing HIIT the last 9 months. Muscles have the same effect on women as boobs have on us. Build a chest and some biceps and triceps and your attention goes up massively. For everyone reading, yes, looks matter but that includes, hair style, fitness level, fashion, straightness and …
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:22 PM
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Ya, best test is make sure the house is empty if you live with people, tell her I'm busy but if you come over night X at this time, I'll take a look. Have some snacks and wine handy. I'm willing to bet the homework never comes out.
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:33 PM
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1st of all do what you want to do without regard for them. If they have only 1 photo, they are probably fat and hiding it or they are just looking for validation, matching to see how many men will show interest in them, or they are scams. 2nd, get off online and meet women in real life. Online dating is mostly useless. Consider it supplemental.
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:30 PM
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This is really easy, women want strong independent men they can't control or manipulate. Society teaches otherwise, but society teaches what it believes should be. Attraction is a behaviour wired into us from 1,000 of years of evolution. A woman may consciously not want a certain behaviour but she can't change what her subconscious controls. Bad boys have this quality. However you can have this quality without the other bad boy characteristics. Simply put, women dont like bad boys, they like som…
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:26 PM
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Tease them, disagree, use bad language. Most men will avoid disagreeing with attractive women and tone their language down. I once used cunty in front of a woman to describe women of a certain city. She looked at me a bit, looked away, gave me time to retract, then used it herself. Later when we connected on facebook (it was before I knew anything about seduction so I didnt try to close, she was "out of my league"), she sent her phone number without me asking. I used to be dumb. When you tease, …
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:07 PM
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You need to lift heavy, eat a lot of protein, give your body time to rest, I.e., not workout the same parts every day, and sleep. You also need to make sure you have enough testosterone, get a lot of sun if you don’t already, it’ll increase your testosterone.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:52 AM
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Don’t tell her what your major is. 1. Make her guess then don’t confirm, just say not bad or something. 2. Give her shit about what hers is. 3. Switch to a more fun topic.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:49 AM
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No problem. I'm 50, (you'd never guess it tho!), had mediocre results my whole life. Figured out it was my behaviour, now I'm dating hot women 20 years younger and they dont seem to care about age. I've done a few bootcamps and it helped. You should get 3% Man by Corey Wayne, find him on youtube if you want to see videos before buying. Hes more of a relationship guy than a pua, has great info on female psychology and what you've been told by everyone your whole life is wrong. Book is worth it.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:06 AM
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Ok, do not double message her right away. Give her a day or 2, she may still message. If you text again shes going to think you are a desperate pussy and you wont hear. If she messages back in a few days, she might apologize. Just say no big deal, I was busy. You want her to know her behaviour doesnt influence you.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:50 AM
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A pussy would probably apologize. Either ignore or make a smart ass comment. I'd probably say "Ok Alexa"
/r/seduction13/05/19 10:25 PM
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Dude, in female terms, she practically walked up, grabbed your dick and dragged you off. Shes very unlikely to reset the date. Shes already stated her interest. You need to lead now. Just text simply saying that you were thinking of sushi again, what's her schedule look like. Then set the date, time and location.
/r/seduction13/05/19 10:23 PM
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People are way too concerned about appearing needy. If you're interested, you need to initiate, she won't fo it. Text once, maybe twice, if she doesnt respond, walk away. When you keep texting you are needy. Make some excuse like I misplaced my watch and when I found it, it reminded me of the time you got it fixed. We should grab a drink. Give her a day or so. If she doesnt reply make some teasing comment about a warranty on the watch fix. No response, move on.
/r/seduction08/05/19 08:48 PM
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No idea about the video but its bambi eyes, not babi eyes.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:13 AM
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It can be submission, so yes.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:50 AM
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Dude, grow a sack. If she liked your Facebook posts, she was clearly trolling it. Send her a Facebook message saying she was entertaining as hell and you should grab a drink. She will either send her phone number, agree, or disagree. If she sends her phone number, text her, suggest a time and location. If she agrees with no number, say, send me your number and I’ll set that up. If she disagrees, move on.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:35 AM
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Dude, how old are you? If she's a virgin and over 18 and had a 'boyfriend', quotes, cause without sex, wtf is that, and shes never masturbated, she either is crazy religious or has no libido, both red flags, move on.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:27 AM
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Couple of things going on here. 1. It's a shit test to see if you will just back off. 2. All attractive women have a variety of dudes, beta orbiters, friends with benefits, someone they went out with once, the neighbor that booty calls once a month, they might need a bit of time to feel you out. 3. Women hate being alone more than anything and they will upgrade if something better comes along. Ever heard the term monkey branching?
/r/seduction07/05/19 10:33 PM
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Ya, I love those ugly ducklings, beauty developed later in life so they don't realize it.
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:37 AM
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First, only about 10% of Americans are naturally blonde, so, there are many blonde men. There are more blonde women because they change their hair color. Second, most people like what they aren't, I've dated blondes, but love dark hair, so there may be some of that. Third, for me at least, it's weird to be with a blonde. I dated one, blue eyes too, which I also have, and I'd get this occasional feeling like I was banging my sister, even tho I don't have one. Fourth, while blonde women are prefer…
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:34 AM
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First, you need to ask yourself a question, what is "good looking"? ​ In your head I imagine you think its got something to do with your face. Some part of it does of course, but, there's a lot that goes into a man being "good looking", everything from hair style, facial hair, teeth, hygiene, clothing style, height, etc. Now, some of those are within your control, and some of those aren't. Work with those that you can. If your teeth are crooked or yellow, get braces, bleach, always brush and flo…
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:56 PM
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You should shoot for toned, toned is healthy, you'll look better and feel confident. I do a HIIT class and I'm surprised by how much weight some of the women can lift as and they arent bulky. Toned is sexy. 2. Dont confuse slutty and sexy. You don't have to be showing a ton of skin to be sexy, but should be able to see you have a waist, skirts are nice, don't need to require a second hairdo to wear. Show a bit of stomach skin sometimes. Learn how to walk in heels. Make sure your nails look nice.…
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:42 PM
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So probably 90% of the readers and commenters in this site are men, and most are just trying to fuck as many girls as possible. Posting in here makes it seem like you just want to have sex with as many men as you can, which as a woman is so easy you dont even have to try. I'm not judging you if that's your goal, I had a girlfriend who had claimed to have been with 100 men before me. Didn't make me the least bit nervous because I still rocked her in bed. If your goal is to just have a great boyfr…
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:30 PM
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I'm curious, what's the goal here? If you are just looking to have sex with as many dudes as possible, stay thin, dress sexy and be friendly, that's literally all the game you need. Women filter most men out, game for a man is a out exceeding the thresholds which get you filtered out. Men filter most women in, i.e., we tend not to reject women that are below us looks wise, unless you make it hard. Seduction for women is about extracting something like wealth.
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:59 PM
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This guy gets it. Women don’t like being alone, so often they have a boyfriend and then trade up. When over 50% of people “cheat” the whole idea of a loyal/disloyal dichotomy doesn’t make any sense. More like a loyalty spectrum. If you don’t think the most loyal woman in the world won’t cheat if brad Pitt falls in her lap, you’re naive.
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:08 PM
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How old are you? If you are dating and not having sex, you really arent dating unless you're 15.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:18 PM
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I'm not and I could spend more than $100 on wine, I don't. Other than being a douche, there's no reason to spend more than $15 on a bottle of really good wine. You can find something interesting for $10 easily. Just find something from a country not known for wine, Hungary for instance. It's not about the cost, it's about the experience. I once discovered a great wine at a friends party, hunted everywhere to get it. It was $6 a bottle at Trader Joes and was delicious. An experience needn't been …
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:32 AM
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If you can make the investment, try a pickup bootcamp. Usually 3 days of approaching, will get you really comfortable really fast.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:19 AM
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This is good but dont say "cheap" wine for God sakes. Say I've got some interesting wine at home you should try with me. Doesnt need to be expensive but get a varietal you've never heard of, or something aged in bourbon barrels, something so it is actually interesting.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:18 AM
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1st, stop trying to get a girlfriend. Most men dont go looking for a girlfriend. Try to meet women, get laid and filter out the ones that dont fit. Eventually they are going to try to nail you down. This is just the way it works.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:13 AM
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Question doesnt belong in the seduction subreddit cause it's not seduction.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:09 AM
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Hey guys, dont feed the troll.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:06 AM
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Combine them. If you really want to make improvements, find an instructor led hiit or crossfit class and go 5 days a week. It will be full of hot women. I would be cautious dating a lot of them, but open every one of them. I guarantee in a year, your fitness level will increase massively and 2, you comfort level around scantily clad hot girls will go up dramatically. Btw, you still need game. The body will give you more of an opening, but if you come off as beta, it's not going to help much.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:04 AM
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Coach Corey Wayne 3% man, get it and read it. Guys above that said let her bring it up have it down. Keep going out, have sex with her, let her sleep over if she wants but dont pressure. Lots of foreplay, good sex, cuddle after, it all jacks her oxytocin level up, the bonding hormone. Most likely after a few months she'll want some kind of commitment.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:54 PM
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Seems like a lot of chicks responding. What would you prefer, pretend everything is normal and break up with her the day after. Once you've made a decision, it's time to just end it, regardless of what the day is.
/r/seduction11/04/19 01:37 AM
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Why the fuck would you ask her if she's fine with it? You realize if you are making out, she's probably getting wet. She probably feels no obligation to ask you if it's ok if she gets wet.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:13 PM
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Could be a shot test. Do they tend to leave after they say that? If they were freaked out by you and felt threatened they wouldn't likely say something that could be insulting.
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:58 AM
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Men's strength turns women on the same way, nice round boobs and asses turn us on. You're already 6'3, women love tall. Forget about your face, you can't change it. Try adding facial hair, see if it helps. But yes, building muscle on a 6'3 body will do wonders. An additional aspect is both working out and having more muscle will make you more confident which women love.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:13 PM
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Show cleavage, stand close to him, touch a lot, arms, hands, other exposed skin. So easy to get us interested.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:04 PM
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Are you physically escalating?
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:02 PM
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You are clearly a beta and cant even take feedback. A little tip, telling a stranger to fuck off through the internet as an anonymous person does not actually affect them. It just makes you look like a dipshit.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:34 AM
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You really need to sort your own shit out first. I'd say she has good judgement if this is how you behave.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:31 AM
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Dude, move on, she obviously fucked up, let her play with her beta orbiters and go find other girls.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:14 AM
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It seems we have more input in our "peak". I'm 50, having no trouble dating late 20 to early 30. My age never seems to come up. But, I'm very fit, dress well, double masters, pro job. I'd say keep developing yourself and focus on what you have control over.
/r/seduction03/04/19 11:22 AM
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This is called monkey branching and yes, its standard female strategy.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:36 PM
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If she looks upset while you are talking to her friend, flirt with her friend, she'll have to compete.
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:35 PM
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You don't want her to respond well, now she knows she has competition, this is a good thing. Google preselection. If she thinks you have more women and hopefully they are as attractive as she is, shes going to try to compete with them.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:04 AM
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Who cares about her feelings? Showing you care about her feelings is probably the worst thing you could do.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:02 AM
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Yep, that's a hooker
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:43 AM
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Not sure why everyone is downvoting this guy...right with you there. Female game is in effect, getting as many men interested in you as possible, making them compete and then eliminating all but the one you want. Read Cosmo, get fit, show cleavage, act feminine, done.
/r/seduction20/03/19 01:11 PM
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1st of all, never ever trust a woman to tell you what she wants, they have no fucking clue, watch her behavior. Next, if you are interested, flirt, tease the shit out of her, make it clear you're the man and it doesn't matter what she says or thinks. Maintain strong eye contact, touch her, escalate and see what happens.
/r/seduction02/03/19 03:37 AM
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Well do what you are comfortable with, it's an excuse to touch. I will say tho that chicks seem sweet and innocent but they spend a lot of time judging people and they will totally get into itm
/r/seduction24/02/19 02:00 AM
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Nice, why is it completely appropriate that entire magazines like Cosmopolitan are dedicated to teaching women how to mon manipulate men, yet if we learn seduction techniques its somehow wrong?
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:17 AM
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Ok dude, this is easy. They call it 'escalation' cause it starts minimally and increases. My first move with everyone, men included (no, not gay, but no reason to not touch). Say something you mean to be funny (doesnt even have to be funny, humor comes with practice), anyway, say something funny and bump the other person lightly with your elbow. It can literally even be noticing something, bump her with your elbow lightly and say "oh my God, look at the shoes that douche is wearing" (preferably …
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:14 AM
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This is a dumb comment. Dont grab her boob, but no reason you cant get physical with someone you just met.
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:55 AM
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You may want to work up to this. Try going to a bunch of meetups or other networking events and just randomly meeting strangers. You get better at it with experience. Once you are comfortable with that, clubs are easier.
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:54 AM
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Dude, you literally look like a beta the way you stand in the photo. Fixing your posture will help a lot. Your chest looks caved in. Through your shoulders back and stick your chest out.
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:34 AM
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You literally didn't read my post. Looks barely matter for women. They have the good genes already, but they need to believe a man is strong enough to protect them. Good looks buy a guy a few more minutes to show those traits but if he's a pussy, it's not going to help. Read this guys post. He's disabled and killing it. Why? Cause he accepted his looks since he couldn't change them and developed the traits that turn women on and figured out that looks aren't that important. https://www.reddit.co…
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:22 AM
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Your mindset is completely wrong. In approaching women, you create attraction. Women are not primarily attracted to looks, they are primarily attracted to behaviors, confidence, dominance, strength, masculinity, intelligence, calmness, humor, etc. Fuck Tinder. Tinders biggest problem is that all the woman can see are your looks and that's what they are forced to chose by. Next, any reasonable looking woman gets swarmed by a million men. But, no one has the balls to approach them in person sober …
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:48 AM
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I don't think I'd give them credit for not being shallow, or claim that men are shallow. Both men and women are looking for indicators of good breeding capability. We look for physical attributes that indicate fertility. That's not shallow it's just visual. Women are just as focused on their own set of biologically programmed traits, confidence, dominance, strength, things like that. We are luckier in that those traits can be developed and displayed as well as faked. Women of course can also inc…
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:37 AM
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Read it and a ton of other stuff. It's too bad theres so much effort meant to portray womens behavior as not like this. Once you accept it, it changes your perspective.
/r/seduction01/02/19 11:09 PM
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What are the down votes for, theres plenty of evidence, most women will cheat given the right curcumstances.
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:54 PM
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Go read some Corey Wayne for good advice. Just because you have sex with her doesnt create a relationship obligation. It doesnt in her head either, she may disappear after one night. Have sex, st some point shell raise the relationship question and deal with it then.
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:44 PM
1

It doesnt control the subconscience, it merely keeps you from acting on it, which creates a disconnect between desires and actions. Which likely leads to mental health issues. Regardless, the final result is not a reprogramming of evolutionarily designed behavior, it's merely a buffer between desires and actions.
/r/seduction21/01/19 02:14 PM
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The "gender roles" arent socially ingrained, the are biologically programmed from 10s of thousands of years of evolution. "Society" can try and do whatever the fuck it wants, it can't rewrite wired behaviour.
/r/seduction21/01/19 01:14 PM
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That's really interesting. My first Asian just recently, date 1 was just a quick drink. Date 2 I had her park at my place (I have valet) walk to the restaurant, escalated a bit. Walked back, opened a bottle of wine, had her topless quickly, but she was having her period, so stopped when I went for the pants. Date 3, took her to a party but was at my place before, escalated, she never stopped me, had no time to shower before the party. Came home, did it again, she spent the night, had more fun in…
/r/seduction20/01/19 11:43 PM
3

My advice is think of it as practice. The first few times you meet someone it's a little weird. After a while you get good at meeting new girls and making them comfortable.
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:17 PM
1

Yes, move! Why would you live in a town of 8,000?
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:06 PM
2

Go pick up The Rational Male. His Sexual Market Value chart puts men's average peak value around 34 with a slow decline. I'm 49 and seeing interest from women even in their mid-20s, to be honest I've made out with a 21 year old and several early 20 year olds. At your age, worry about getting yourself fit and staying that way. Learn to dress well. Become interesting, travel, develop hobbies (learn to play an instrument for gods sake, wish I had!), focus on being successful, and most importantly, …
/r/seduction26/12/18 10:43 PM
1

Both women are replaceable, however the experience of successfully managing the situation could be priceless. Don't be crude and one you banged the other, remember social proof is good. They may compete with each other, or best case scenario, they may like each other and you ;-).
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:13 AM
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Dude what you are going to realize, if you arent totally creepy about it, is women are much more receptive to being approach than you think. Why not just think of it as an experiment, approach with the attitude that some good experiences will happen, some neutral, and some negative. On a recent bootcamp, I had a mediocre girl tell me quite firmly that she doesnt talk to strangers, and 20 minutes later had a beautiful woman that I approached by entering the outdoor area of a restaurant, while she…
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:08 AM
2

Wow, that answer has to be a chick! ​ First of all, do not ever ask a women if you can kiss her, like ever. I don't care how horny she is, her default answer is going to be no, even if she wants you to! Secondly, if you wait until you touch her, the only bones she will be touching, are the ones your skin has rotted off! Third, don't bring up spending the night until sex has happened. She may not even want to sleep there even if you have sex. The fact that she told you the kids are away is a good…
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:11 PM
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First of all, congrats on decided so young. You may feel old, but you're life has really just stared. Next, move to a bigger city. It will be good for your long term career, not just for picking up women. Finally, you might consider a weekend bootcamp. You'll do dozens of approaches, get really comfortable with it, get feedback on what you are doing wrong. It's expensive but will help. DM me and I'll tell you about one I used.
/r/seduction17/12/18 08:11 PM
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Ya, you're an idiot. We do live in a metoo era, so, if you are Matt Lauer and you have a remotely controlled locking mechanism on your door, you are Harvey Weinstein and using potential movie roles to extract sex or you are Kevin Spacey molesting teenage boys or Bill Cosby using drugs to molest women then yes, you are losing your job, going to jail or getting sued. If however you are a decent guy, you don't use a power differential to extract something against a woman's consent then you're going…
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:41 PM
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YOU WILL NOT FUCKING END UP IN JAIL FOR GOING DIRECT WITH WOMEN. The idea is ludicrous and posting shit about which you know nothing risks misleading other decent men. Stating your intent and sexual harassment are worlds apart. Now fuck off and crawl back in your hole.
/r/seduction15/12/18 06:13 PM
1

Thrown in jail? Time to leave the basement and stop playing video games. Unless you force someone to fo something or drug them, you arent going to jail.
/r/seduction15/12/18 03:48 PM
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If you have the guts to approach, the approach was a success, good job. Also, good job on going direct, telling her you thought she was cute lets her know right away that you aren't just interested in being friends. Now, get her on a date, physically escalate, see where you can make things go. And if it doesn't work, don't worry about it. Take what you learn and move on. Most men never have the nerve to approach. That's a huge win.
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:47 PM
3

And this guys an idiot. Balding badly, shave it an own it. If a chick shot tests you on it, "ew, you're balding". Say, "you know what causes balding?". Pause a few seconds, maintain strong eye contact and say "excess testosterone", and leave it that, see what happens.
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:14 AM
1

So keep in mind first of all, funny and sense of humor generally are 2 different things. Funny means you make her laugh. Sense of humor has more to do with dealing with life's absurdities, being able to roll with it, take defeat and keep going, fall down and laugh at yourself. Humor can also be learned unless you have a disorder like aspergers. And a style of humor can be developed. I'm really sarcastic and some women love that. Some don't. I also can do really dry humor, again, some like, some …
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:09 AM
1

Weird. Some guys are naturals, I was assuming he fit this. One of my epiphanies was using the word cunty in front of a woman to describe women where she lived. She stared at me for eternity and then agreed, and said back, "you're right, the women there are cunty". When she accepted my facebook request later, she sent her phone number.
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:41 PM
9

Get out of the mindset that time is running out. I'm 49, just started learning this stuff, dating 30 year olds. Seeing interest from mid 20s. Never too late if you are alive.
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:15 PM
3

Test that he passed with flying colors :-). One of the cool parts about being a smartass is your going to offend some of them. Standing your ground sends a powerful signal. Just grin, yep, I said that :-).
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:13 PM
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I'm still trying to get good at that, but, misinterpretation implying something sexual works. For instance, this is further into the interaction, I kissed a chick for the first time, she says "wow", I say "wow what", she says "I didn't expect that to be that good", I responded, "I'm good at a lot of things", she answered "I bet". Saw an example the other day. Chick says she can read minds or is clairvoyant, response is look at her a little deviously and say, then can you tell me what I'm thinkin…
/r/seduction05/12/18 09:27 PM
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Yes, you are probably overthinking it, but At this stage, consider it all an experiment. You're learning, so variation is good. Remember your goal is not to get any one girl but to get good at the process of getting girls Someone else mentioned be yourself. Part of that is experimenting and seeing what fits your style. I'm a smartass and really good at teasing. I'm not as good at sexualizing conversations. So I'm trying to experiment with that to get comfortable.
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:28 PM
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Excellent tips. Add: Deepen your voice and speak more slowly. Tease her Make a point of disagreeing with her on something, not something important, but something that doesnt matter, a color, a flavor of ice cream, a movie, an actor, doesn't matter, you just want to show you aren't always agreeing Use a jarring cuss word in front of her
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:16 PM
1

Dude you're a useless asshole, why dont you go sit in the corner and be a cunt with yourself. Going to report each of your posts to the moderator until you are out of here.
/r/seduction05/12/18 03:30 PM
2

No worries. I helped an x-girlfriend get a body builder she was after. She was way less pissed at me for breaking up with her after she was getting laid by him :-).
/r/seduction05/12/18 05:11 AM
2

No worries. Btw, you seem pretty focused on online. Online really sucks for both men and women. You should look for some activities to do that would interest the type of men you like. Meetup groups can be good, find some hobbies you like that attract men. Join a bicycling or running group, take classes, etc or even just go work from a coffee shop a little. See a guy your interested in, lock eyes with him and smile, hopefully he'll come over and say hello. If you are bold, approach him. Men will …
/r/seduction05/12/18 05:09 AM
2

The biggest issue is you guys are super subtle even when you think you are being obvious. Try this, tell the guy he's cute, handsome, hot, whatever adjective you like. Literally, "wow, you're really cute". Touch a lot. Grab a bicep and make a comment, assuming he has one. Caress his arm. Giggle, laugh and smile. Put something in your mouth and play with it. Like a pen in the corner of your mouth.
/r/seduction01/12/18 04:16 PM
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First of all dude, looks do matter. What RSD means is you can still get good results without being good looking. But if you are good looking and you have some skills you'll clean up. I suspect you have a few things going on that are probably easy to fix. Eye contact is huge. Make strong eye contact. Start practicing this on everyone all the time. Touch is also huge. You need to become that guy that hugs, that holds her hand a little too long after shaking it. Look for any excuse to touch, arms, …
/r/seduction01/12/18 03:18 PM
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Wow, you're helpful! Fyi, this is a subreddit where people help each other out. Try one of the subreddits for snarky people.
/r/seduction01/12/18 02:49 PM
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Might want to lose "snarky" and put feisty, fiery or spicy. Snarky makes me feel like you'll just criticize everything I say. The other three sound more flirty and have sexual overtones. Like you'll banter with me and then be really fin in bed 😀
/r/seduction01/12/18 01:36 PM
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Oh I'm sorry, did not see your profile link, I just opened the photo tied to Reddit and your hair is shot and blue. In the profile you look fine. But for sure grow it longer, you could be very pretty. Longer hair, some makeup, don't need to go overboard but definitely lipstick and some shirts that show a bit of boob. You'd probably be surprised by the difference those three changes would make.
/r/seduction01/12/18 01:33 PM
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I noticed your comment on hair length, yes would be good to grow it longer. Also consider ditching the color. I'm 49, but fit, look much younger, date in your age range. I'm from west coast US and the short hair with color and no makeup screams angry feminist lesbian. After growing it longer, if you are dead set on coloring, find something more interesting. I say that because I am not into that look at all, but a few weeks ago I met a woman who had colored hair, blue also but it was mixed shades…
/r/seduction01/12/18 03:41 AM
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So many easy things here. Touch him every chance you get. Find something broken, a printer, a stapler, whatever and ask him to help fix it. Wait until the the of the work day and say you need a drink. Find shit in his area to ask him about and hang out.
/r/seduction30/11/18 02:38 AM
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Its interesting you say by instinct. I have trouble touching when not attracted, but it just happens when I am. Not a conscious decision. I'd say agree that it's not a date. You dont have to be on a date to get laid ;-). Try these things. 1. Touch a lot and touch with increasing intensity, ie, escalate, arms to hands to small or back, hands through hair, you get the picture. 2. Strong eye contact. When you are talking with her, look her in the eye, let her break eye contact. 3. Speak slower and …
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:09 PM
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Watch and try: http://www.seducewithsilence.com/aff_launch_mobile2_sa.php?e=0&o=0&a=74&s=&campaign=0&r=0&s2=&s3=&s4=&cr=0
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:43 PM
1

Yes, dm me.
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:55 PM
1

You mean no bootcamps where you live? Where do you live?
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:46 PM
1

Find a bootcamp, itll get you out and force you to do it and get you more comfortable.
/r/seduction21/11/18 10:30 PM
1

With large Islamic populations. Also poorer and looking for a route out but with strong religious influence saying no sex.
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:33 PM
1

Did it not cross your mind that the girls in lower income countries are looking for someone with higher income to latch onto, while the girls in Japan and Korea can 1. get their own jobs and 2. find guys with higher income in their own countries?
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:02 PM
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The problem is you're looking for a certain result, don't. I'm a smartass by nature. I'm going to make a comment regardless. Sometimes the target (doesnt have to be a woman, I ran into a billionaire on the street this weekend and was making smartass comments), will laugh, sometimes people around will laugh, sometimes it falls flat. Try just making observations regardless of what happens.
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:49 PM
1

Since you didn't clarify, have you already had sex with her?
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:10 AM
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Instead of waiting for something to happen, look for any incongruity, including if she's really well dressed (you can tease: "I guess you didn't get the memo on casual day", compliment: "wow, you are really put together, do you work in fashion?", yawns ("stop it or you'll get all of us started", "wow, I haven't even spoken and I'm boring you already", "partied too much last night?"), has something crazy on her purse ("you must really be a fan of X", I opened a chick at the airport one time becau…
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:05 AM
2

Ya, like ever! Not sure why this hasn't been upvoted.
/r/seduction15/11/18 08:10 PM
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Well if it helps, this boy who was so shy he had to memorize his order at McDonalds to not mess it up, has made over $150k a year for a decade (in an inexpensive city), has visited nearly 100 countries, banged 2 chicks within 48 hours earlier this year, I'm 49 and just figuring this part of my life out, they were 32 and 33, so more than 15 years younger and hot, and too much other stuff to list. Keep challenging yourself and growing and celebrate the accomplishments, and give yourself a break on…
/r/seduction14/11/18 03:55 AM
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This is a misunderstanding of what introversion is. I've become an outgoing introvert. I still need to get away from a group, be alone to recover, but can be very happy with groups, parties, in clubs, public speaking, etc. The true defining attribute is extroverts recharge in social situations, introverts recharge more in isolation.
/r/seduction14/11/18 02:39 AM
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I just discovered/rediscovered it and I'm 49. I've been having no trouble dating women in their early 30s. I'd say your 30s have the potential to be the best, so, don't feel like that is old. I do a HIIT training class and I push it as hard as the guys in their 20s. (A lot of young men are in really shitty physical shape). With that said, a couple of big things. 1-Figure out a diet that works for you. (I'm ketogenic and it helps keep me thin). 2-get yourself in great shape and keep yourself ther…
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:49 PM
3

Dude, your written grammar is atrocious, I hope you speak better than this. If not, get some English classes and fix your grammar, it can only help.
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:51 PM
0

Um no, but the tape victim can be happy they are still alive. Just like the survivor of of a plane or car crash.
/r/seduction18/10/18 11:18 PM
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Or. At least you found out now so u can find one that won't.
/r/seduction18/10/18 11:16 PM
2

Dick too big said nobody ever!
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:49 PM
3

I'd say start simple first, its awkward when you start and even awkward with some women. I had one that I had to train not to try to break my dick. Prior guy was too small so she had to lean back to get friction, I'm not small and just felt like she'd rip my dick off! Some chicks have shitty rhythm too, just get used to that. Stop trying to do other positions until you figure out missionary. Try pulling her legs up further to get the angle right. Ignore what's in porn, it's a bit like watching p…
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:48 PM
0

Strong eye contact, dominance, I wanted to talk to you and I dont give a fuck if you like me or not, I'm the man.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:26 AM
2

That's fine, but OPs point is that attractive doesnt mean good looking and unattractive doesn't mean ugly.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:03 AM
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Try strong eye contact and touching/escalating from the start of you aren't already.
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:24 PM
2

As a pilot, that's a shit metaphor. Landing a plane is all in the approach, trying to fix an approach at the end is what kills people!
/r/seduction28/09/18 08:59 PM
1

Dude, do you know anything about Asian culture? Not Asian American, Asian. Sustained eye contact is not only not common it's considered aggressive or threatening. I know a bad ass Asian cop who has trouble maintaining strong eye contact. Do any research at all about eye contact and asians and you will find this confirmed.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:43 AM
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And you are talking about the difference between becoming a model and becoming better looking. I'll give you a challenge. Hey really fit and see how it affects how women respond to you. Yes, itll take a year or so, but just do it. Sounds like you have spare time. I'm doing exactly this, getting close to visible abs, probably reduced body fat from 16% to around 12%, and the female attention is noticeably stronger.
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:18 PM
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What do you mean by "ugly"? I would argue 90% of looks are within your control. What makes you ugly? Get fit, get a good hair cut, fix your teeth, wear decent clothing. Those things will mostly fix "ugly".
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:36 AM
9

I love the "who said anything about sleeping"!
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:21 PM
10

Pick them up and carry them to bed. The effect is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:27 PM
1

1st of all, how the hell do you determine top 1% of las for anyone? Secondly you are confusing good looking and attractive, two totally different concepts. Finally, if your friend doesn't actually have the balls to make a move on a chick, he's not going to be attractive for long regardless of his looks. In that case, the dude that did approach is at least taking action.
/r/seduction24/07/18 12:58 AM
1

True, and she responds well to that. I usually pick her up and carry her to the bedroom, which seems to really turn her on. First woman I've done that with. For context, she's 5'9, however only weighs 125 ( she used my scale one night and came out of the bathroom and proudly announced her weight :-)).
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:59 AM
1

Interesting, I do that and she responds well to it, so will keep doing. Are you a man or a woman?
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:04 PM
10

Dude, you're an idiot. Women don't have a sign on them about what they want either and half the time don't know. They are just as likely to disappear after sex a few times as they are to want you to be a boyfriend or even bring up fwb.
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:03 PM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:01 PM
1

Lol. I love how once you figure out what you were doing wrong before and eliminate, the women available skyrockets, but if you want to get rid of one without having to dump her, you just revert to old behavior and they run away thinking it's their idea!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:25 PM
1

My apologies then, there are way too many people who respond on here with no background. Looking for advice though. I'm afraid my strong eye contact makes her nervous and I'm looking for what keeps her comfortable and turns her on. His isn't about getting laid, I hardly have to try there, she's just into it. But, figuring out what makes her feel awesome. Would you recommend toning down the eye contact, or looking away when she looks away? What kind of eye contact would you use on a Chinese girl?
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:47 PM
2

I think you can use any pickup line as long as you are doing so ironically and it's clear. I may try this pinky one just for fun!
/r/seduction18/07/18 11:23 AM
2

Dude, the pinky toe one is hilarious!
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:14 PM
0

To be culturally sensitive. Do you know anything about Asian culture? I have a masters in international management and speak 6 languages. I do not however know how to adjust eye contact to optimize for an Asian woman. I'm looking for responses for people that have some expertise in this area, not opinions.
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:05 PM
1

First of all, you aren't doing the first thing I told you to do. How about a challenge. Do these things and just see what happens, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:24 AM
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First you need to ditch the "say kill yourself" thing. This self hating attitude is probably coming through. Next figure out what is causing that and start working on it. Little changes have huge impact, especially a lot of little changes. Most of what makes a man attractive is in his control. To be honest, much of what makes a woman attractive is in her control. 1st, get in the best physical shape you can. Find a crossfit or some other kind of instructor led class and stick with it for 3 months…
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:07 AM
2

Dude, if this helps, I'm 49, I just started figuring some of this stuff out. I started lifting weights for the first time in my life last year (unrelated to getting women, just to slow down the aging process), within 4 months I was seeing results, the best was when my hair stylist (a beautiful but happily married girl in her early 30s, grabbed my chest with both hands and said, "you've been working out"). At 49, I'm dating in the early 30s, I showed a pic of one to a friend and he said she was a…
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:14 PM
1

No, I tease very naturally, pretty much everyone all the time. She was super short, so I teased her about that. Not sure what else.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:49 PM
1

Find an improv class, it will help. Next, ditch the out of my league phrase!
/r/seduction07/07/18 02:06 PM
5

Well I think part of the fwb thing is to tide you over until you find another source. I had an rwb, roommate with benefits (way better, the pussies literally in the house!), and we let each other know when we had dates. Clearly we had an understanding that we couldn't bring them home, that would be weird.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:52 PM
1

Its magical. I'm 49 and I got a free dish last night at a great restaurant from an adorable late 20s waitress/bartender from nothing other than eye contact and being flirtatious. Dish just showed up and serve said it was compliments of Beth. I dont live here or I would have gotten her number.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:49 PM
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You need to sit near her and start touching her. Start slow at first, say something that makes a point and touch her arm. Say something funny, touch her arm. Say she has nice nails, ask to see them, take her hand. Press your leg against hers. If she says something really funny, grab her side. Ask if she's ticklish and pinch her knee. You're basically looking for excuses to touch and watching her reactions. If she pulls back, slow down a bit. Also maintain really strong eye contact while doing th…
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:58 PM
1

Regardless, it's been about 10 years and I've not gotten it, so, I'm good :-)!
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:04 AM
1

They dont care that much. Trust me, figure out oral and how to give a woman several orgasms and she isnt going to care. Do some research on size, and then just stop worrying about it. Women do care about dominance, confidence, emotional strength, masculinity, things like that.
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:48 PM
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Dont get hung up on it. 1. Tinder doesn't work for most people and is no indication of attraction. 2. Girls don't care that much about dick size. Fyi, I'm thick but average length. 3. I'm not great looking. Think about what makes a girl hot. It's more physical fitness than anything. So get fit. I started lifting a year ago and have noticed a change. I'd say get over needing to be handsome and worry about what you can control. Get fit, build muscle, dress well, get a good hair cut, fix your teeth…
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:28 PM
2

Oh and I'm 49, do, you've got time to figure it out!
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:01 PM
2

Ok, I'll put this for you and delete later. I started out super shy, didn't have sex until 22. Had a lot of trouble the first time. Thought I broken or had something wrong with me. I did, turns out I'm thicker than average, so didn't fit easily, took me until late 20s to get my second girl. I was still shy, so not aggressive with women and lived in an antisocial city. I eventually figured out I was bigger than average. I eventually figured out how to get girls and had some fun but moved to san F…
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:55 PM
1

How old are you? You see like a good guy, maybe I can help.
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:39 PM
2

Dont get too hung up on the alpha vs beta thing, people worry much more than it matters. Think of what I did though. 1. I dumped a chick who displayed unacceptable behavior. 2. Then, I fucked her again several times outside of a committed relationship and she was good with that. Then 3. I told her how to dress and she did it. 4. Then I taught her how to seduce a body builder she thaught was out of her league and she did what I told her. And 5. I got another guy banging her so she wouldn't get al…
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:29 PM
3

No worries man, we all have things to work through. Realizing you have a hang up means you can work on it. A few things here. Pussies don stretch out. In fact, I got my first Asian recently, she's very sweet, but she gets super wet, yes a good thing, but she's also not very tight as in I don't feel a lot. The girl who'd been with 100 guys was much tighter, I felt way more sensation with her. (Not meaning to brag but I need larger condoms or I can't get them on, so, this Asian girl is pretty loos…
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:08 PM
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But the question is, why would I care? I'm the one who's dick was inside her, she was awesome in bed, she loved to get me off. She could be thinking of supermen while she's deep throating me, it was still my dick in there, and my cum she wanted to swallow. If I were you, I'd just figure out how to get over it, enjoy the moment, focus on exploring her body, find someplace no one else has found that drives her crazy.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:29 PM
2

Ya, cause everyone has programming for 7 and after that they can't pair bond anymore, people aren't robots dude. 1. Should would initiate, a lot. 2. I'd offer her "one for the road", which means I'd go down on her the next day before shed go home and she get giddy and skip into my bedroom. 3. She was so loud I know the surrounded houses could hear and she was very shy/introverted, would get super embarrassed.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:05 PM
2

That might be tricky. I got lucky, in my example we were part of an alumni group where giving me something would allow me to tell everyone else. So on her own accord, she said she had herpes, but anally. Which allowed me to reassure her that wasn't my thing (it's still not) and ask if there was anything else I should worry about. That was a decade ago and I'm fine. Honestly I would probably go condom for sure, so her a few times and offer to do mutual tests. Ie, you'll do one for her if she does…
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:01 PM
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Nope, as long as she's disease free who cares? Had one girlfriend for at least a year that said she was with 100 guys before me. Had zero concern she was cheating, she was fun as hell in bed, very affectionate, was very proud of her bj skills. A lot of guys suck in bed. I found her g spot and no one else had. I could get her to 15 orgasms in a night, pretty sure she was not thinking of those other guys and I couldn't care less!
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:46 PM
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And you should have it. Better yourself a little bit every day. Workout, learn something new, talk to people for no reason, compliment people sincerely and just keep doing it all cause it feels good.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:26 PM
9

Dude, 1-nice going. 2-i'm 49 and after a long time with no female contact, I've done 2 of them 18 years younger and I'm filling the pipeline. Keep at it! It's great isnt it?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:37 AM
3

The best thing you can do is remove the word rejected from your vocabulary. She wasn't receptive. Who cares. She's either alone and will stay that way (as her SMV declines a bit each day), she's with a dude that doesn't have the balls to approach a stranger, or she's with a guy that is that confident (maybe 5% of the population).
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:32 AM
3

Yep, what this guy said! There's a whole lot of steps from meeting to sex and you kind of have to work through getting good at each one. Just keep working on getting better at the steps in between.
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:59 AM
1

For sure, as I've built them recently. Different order of magnitude though and much less universal.
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:52 AM
3

Read some Corey Wayne stuff. His 3% man book is great. He'd say keep dates to once per week. So wait a few days, text to see what's going on, arrange a date. Eventually she'll contact you and set the tenor.
/r/seduction01/07/18 03:16 AM
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Oh you haven't used it much yet then. Strong eye contact with a woman sends the message that you are dominant. Keep doing it, you'll feel it when it clicks. I only learned this in the last year and I'm blown away by how much impact it has.
/r/seduction01/07/18 03:10 AM
2

That's totally up to her responding That would be hilariously amazing. I'll invite you to the wedding
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:44 AM
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That's a copout. If you are facially ugly, get your body in as good of shape as possible. In college I took a class in the pool and there was a girl their, face was not great looking, but holy shit, her body was insane. I still remember it 25 years later. Any woman that devoted an hour a day to working out could achieve that, and be super healthy. Add a nice personality and she was a 10 even with an ugly face.
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:42 AM
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Hm, well I'd hit on you. 32 is a good year. You guys can look great but also be smart and interesting but still have positive attitudes. The biggest issue with women my age is they aren't fit and they are bitter. Btw, what city?
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:23 AM
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I'll give you something to think about though man. I'm 49, I will admit, I look pretty good for 49. I've only recently realized, in the last year really, that there's no reason for me to date 49 year old women. I've been dating (and yes, doing) women in their early 30s and seen interest from women in the late 20s. I've also had women near my age try to pick me up and I have zero interest. As a man, if you take care of yourself, those cute gals, they are available to you for a much longer time. P…
/r/seduction30/06/18 10:56 PM
5

In the same vein, no pun intended ;-). Don't give her your entire dick for a while. Let her think you have. Get her worked up and then really shove all the way in. I had one girlfriend, that the funny thing she would do would squeeze her PC muscle and clamp down and she'd get this fiendish look on her face like "look what I can do", then I'd thrust all the way in and her little sinister smile would disappear and be replaced by an 'oh my god, I forgot how big you are' look. It was so much fun!
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:02 PM
2

I did an exercise as part of a workshop that involved stopping a woman walking and staring into her eyes without saying anything for as long as she would stand there and then when she started walking away, stopping her again. These interactions literally lasted 90 seconds with only eye contact. It was completely insane, but as said, eye contact is very powerful.
/r/seduction10/06/18 02:04 PM
1

Dude, the chance that you'll actually meet a specific connection is low. Just start experimenting and see what works. Consider it a learning experience. Every day you'll have more. My Spanish is not great, but I had a long conversation where I got the chick to play with herself and yes, I believe she actually was. I started out only mildly insinuating sex and just kept loading it further.
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:09 AM
2

It shows you lack confidence to make a move and risk rejection, displays a lack of leadership, shows you are probably inexperienced. Not only that, avoid asking women yes/no questions. They are more risk averse than we are and their answer will default to no.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:49 PM
1

This worked really well for me recently with a chick I couldn't really get a read on. She was facing away, I came in behind and started rubbing her shoulders. Gave her a nice shoulder massage. Then, I just rotated her, and went in for the kiss. Rather than a first kiss, it was the first make out sessions, standing, after a few minutes, I backed up and walked away. Was cooking dinner for her. It was probably my best executed first kiss ever and she loved it too.
/r/seduction10/05/18 02:37 PM
0

Bad idea!
/r/seduction10/05/18 02:32 PM
3

1st: Scope out the place you are going. You want to sit next to her, not across from her, it allows touching much more easily. 2nd: Initially, don't be worrying about the kiss, but worry about creating reasons to touch, innocently at first, say something that makes a point and touch her arm, say something funny and if she laughs, touch her. Rotate your body so your legs touch, slowly get into her space. When you first meet, I'd recommend giving her a hug. If you can find a reason to touch her ha…
/r/seduction09/05/18 10:41 PM
1

Try a sun replacement lamp. Maybe $100. Helps me some.
/r/seduction04/05/18 08:34 PM
1

Get more sun. When its sunny, I'm super horny, when not, not so much. Oddly my testosterone is good, I checked while weather was bad, going to check again after a week of sunlight. I'm suspecting my libido is driven by more than just T. And I supplement D like crazy, still has an effect.
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:14 PM
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That's a useless comment. Didn't seem like a brag, he just seems comfortable with his skills.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:28 PM
2

Or pussy nip :-)
/r/seduction25/04/18 12:15 AM
3

Then stop meeting women online! From eHarmony: "Today, 27% of young adults report using online dating sites" "Men make up 52.4 % of online dating users compared to 47.6% who are women." From my experience, less attractive women use online dating and then, they get picky as they are constantly hit on by men. Get outside, learn to approach, take classes, go to meetups, find a cool gym, volunteer, take dance classes, go where women actually are and talk to them there.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:16 PM
1

This basically shows you know nothing about women. Women like good looking me, yes, and they like good bodies, yes, so do we. Women however at a subconscious (unalterable) level look for certain qualities in men that are far more important than looks. Here's a truth. I challenge you to accept it, then go do your own research to understand what it means. Attractive and good looking are two entirely different concepts in a woman's subconscious. Good looking can be a component of attractive but it …
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:54 PM
2

Well the issue here is that most of those men have settled for someone. Seddit is much more about developing the skills it takes to attract women, whether you want a wife, a girlfriend or a lover. No, getting a girlfriend is not that difficult, but, without pickup skills you are relying on luck both in quality and timing. Next, the divorce rate is so high (I've seen estimates of up to 60%) because in a lot of cases men have lost the ability to maintain attraction long term and women become bored…
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:44 PM
1

No, the idea is that looks and body do matter, but, game can level the field a bit. You should still make the best of what you have which includes working out, staying fit, dressing well, etc.
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:10 PM
5

I don't even think you need to be ripped. If you just have some muscle, they will notice. I started lifting in August of last year, have put on maybe 10 to 15 pounds of muscle, have arms and a chest now. I now catch more and younger women checking me out (I'm 49). One of the best experiences was my stylist, she's probably 30 and one of the most sensual women I've ever met (she's married, pregnant now, so, not nearly as sensual), at one hair cut, she literally felt me up and said "wow, you've bee…
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:09 PM
1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F9Z3SWI/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
/r/seduction23/04/18 09:24 PM
2

Possibly Liam Mcrae?
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:26 PM
3

Dude, you're handling the two steps forward, one back perfectly. Just keep doing that. Dont ask about sex, it'll freak her out. Next date do the exact same thing, just move until she stops you, back up, give her time and try to move forward. This took 6 months and 8 dates for one recently. With this one, the best part of sex for me was that I managed the one step back, 2 forward across multiple dates and got what I wanted (and a sweet text the next day saying she had a great time). It helps that…
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:24 AM
5

Women are less concerned with money and looks than character.
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:43 PM
3

Dude, I'm 49, have been dating 2 32 year olds, have others in the pipeline and just started learning this last year. Start now and get it down solid. No such thing as too late if you are alive.
/r/seduction22/04/18 08:32 PM
0

No, but just like women aren't impressed by men bragging, men aren't impressed by women bragging. I used to live on the west coast, and women want to pull you into passing contests over accomplishments and it's a turn off. I dont want to do the pissing contest against men, it's worse against a woman!
/r/seduction21/04/18 01:18 PM
1

Eye contact is probably the single most important thing. I play with it with every woman I meet now and have had some interesting results. Like a girl will keep walking but practically turn her head backwards as she walks by to keep your gaze. It was a pretty cool discovery.
/r/seduction21/04/18 01:16 PM
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Start talking to everyone around you, maids, janitors, clerks, people standing in line in front of you, behind you. Just comment on something, "wow, is it always this busy", "those pastries look great, have you tried those", just get people talking. Don't talk about yourself once you get them talking, just find out about them. Do an improv class. This will help you be more comfortable in random interactions, plus it's fun.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:52 PM
1

This is a great start, open everyone, even "servants", you'll be surprised at how appreciative maids and parking lot attendants are if you talk to them. I personally grabbed a beer and some food after a long bike ride. Started talking to the couple next to me. By the end they said how much they enjoyed the conversation and wanted my Facebook. Most people spend a lot of time bored hoping something will happen and you could be the one that has a really interesting conversation with them!
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:36 AM
1

Go get Corey Wayne 3% man, hes more focused on relationships and has some great ideas. I'm not a ONS kind of guy and his stuff works.
/r/seduction15/04/18 02:09 AM
1

First time for most people is not that good. My first time was awesome, but I'd been dating her for 6 months and we'd fooled around a lot short of p in v. Making out, bjs, fingering, so by the time we got to it, we were super comfortable. ONS are probably not good for newbies. Keep at it, find a girl friend or fwb and consider it practice and exploration and just be in the moment. When you get more experience, there's even pleasure in just listening to a girl enjoy herself.
/r/seduction11/04/18 01:23 AM
2

Dude don't be a dick
/r/seduction11/04/18 01:18 AM
3

I'd point out presumptuous of them that is! Probably with an obnoxious eye brow raise, snicker and "you aren't even my type".
/r/seduction11/04/18 01:14 AM
11

You need to eliminate the concept of leagues and someone being out of your league. In the same week, I've been rejected by women barely attractive enough for me to be interested and had a great time with a beautiful woman with a PhD. Female attraction is very complex, but decided a woman is in your league or not is self limiting.
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:26 PM
2

Well I had one as a FWB, so, not sure that counts with the game part, but, helped with the sex part, ie, when it's always easily avasilable you can start working on endurance, crazy positions, finding gspots, etc.
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:13 AM
1

Yep, this. Don't be what you think people want. Be yourself, be the best version of yourself and keep improving yourself!
/r/seduction30/03/18 09:17 PM
1

This is a good start. Fyi, every woman has different erogenous zones, seek them out, other guys may not have found them. I've got one girl whose ears are crazy sensitive, I'm pretty convinced I can get her to orgasm from her ears, haven't yet, but still working them. She squirms like crazy and loved it. Second girl is super sensitive on her collar bone/shoulder. I set up a slow circle from her ears and neck down to her collar bone, over to nipples, back up to mouth and kiss a while. She practica…
/r/seduction30/03/18 07:05 PM
2

Don't start by slipping your arm around. Start by touching safer places first, forearm, upper arm, when your talking and making a point. Knees, lower thigh, see how that goes. If she's receptive so far, you can give her a shoulder massage. Think of it as a slow progression where you watch how she reacts. If she reacts badly, don't apologize, just go back a step to where she is comfortable. Personally I would say don't have the end goal as sex, have the end goal as going as far as she feels comfo…
/r/seduction30/03/18 06:49 PM
46

Stop listening to what she says, do what you want to do and watch her reaction.
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:07 PM
2

No movie! Unless it's come over and watch a movie. If you want an activity go top golf, bowling, or go to an art gallery, something where you can get more physical. Movie dates are a really bad idea.
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:46 PM
10

You hold strong eye contact, sexualize conversations and physically escalate, touch a lot, flirt and tease. If she doesn't rebuff, keep moving forward.
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:29 PM
1

Billions of women, you got laid a few times, cool, move on, rince and repeat.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:59 PM
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