| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 797 | Can't tell you how many times I've had unsolicited comments about my appearance by scrotes on OLD thinking that it's a "compliment" | SCROTES MAD | candigum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:41 AM |
| 19 | The effect of the pandemic on OLD | RANT | candigum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 15 | What are your tips/strategies when you feel your inner pickmeisha selves coming out again? | DISCUSSION | candigum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Why | MALE DEPRAVITY | candigum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I turn 24 today.Happy birthday, queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:13 AM |
| 43 | When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye.Tale as old as time. The reason why men do this is to lower your standards and self esteem and validate their low efforts. Leave and block and delete immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:20 AM |
| 112 | I don't think men are capable of seeing us as humans, everThis hits the mark for me!!! I am a law student from one of the top law schools in the country and whenever I tell them that they immediately change their tune. Oftentimes I feel like I am undateable because of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid falling back into old pickmeisha habits?I want to tattoo this on my palm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Don’t be settled forI wish I have read this sooner. I had a FWB who cut it off because he detected that I have become attached to him. I was misled into finally having a boyfriend when he did relationship stuff with me - holding my hands, eating out with me in public, etc. He even told me before that he started falling in love with me. I was such a pickmeisha and now I'm on rehab right now. FWB is a lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:24 AM |
| 35 | Sis, just break up with him already!I needed this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 31 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingSupports and hugs to all the girls in the healing process | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:15 AM |
| 114 | The BarNot gonna lie 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 76 | Having sugar daddies and “sugaring” is literally underpaid prostitution from men preying on naive young girls. It’s not easy money without consequences and people need to stop glamorizing it to make it appeal to literal children. This is grooming.This is true. I have been an SB before and it traumatized me until today. Young girls, this is not a profession. Study hard and find legitimate scholarships instead of looking for old scrote men to finance your studies. Easy money is not worth it when you give up your dignity and soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:18 AM |
| 13 | Buying yourself a ring and loving yourself is trending!I love Ivana! She is so bubbly and kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 3 | I love everyone's ring pics, I decided to join in. I got myself my dream car! Taking myself and my pup hiking all along the east coast for 2021.Such an inspiration 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:04 PM |
| 16 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesThis analogy hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:24 AM |
| 6 | I present to the court Exhibit 1: Candid of La Pickmeisha and LVM in the wild.In a field no less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | FDS got me likeI am an aspiring lawyer and I aspire to be just like you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Since FDS, I have blocked about 50 men from my contacts. Good on you for knowing the red flags early! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 83 | Megan discussing why men cheat & where the ‘crazy’ label comes from...the interviewer is grinning but i’ll tell you who looks crazier...a gaslighting cheat when you delete and BLOCK him sis.I love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 9 | I wanted to hop on here and just say that I stand in solidarity with Turkish women and the atrocities they face. My heart goes out to you beautiful souls 💖🧿I saw guys doing this black and white challenges 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Pls dm me the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | This was previously posted on r/EntitledBitch, but who would want to swim in a piss-infested pool? Good on her for having standards.Sorry I'm not from the US but what does inner city kid mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:44 AM |
| 11 | First thing they said to me. Seriously?🚫👎They don't even try 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:33 AM |
| 9 | 👑AOC's👑 powerful clapback to the excuse of an apology by harassing congressmanAOC really put him in his place with such a graceful speech | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Stick to fruit ladiesThis is genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 12 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneI love your writing style. Thank you so much for identifying what a HVM is. I only knew today that there is a certain HVM for each of us, debunking the misconception that a HVM is a rich guy with Adonis features. This should be on the FDS handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | I am new here, I’m not proud of the things I’ve done. Does anyone have any advice to help me get into the FDS mindset?I am so proud of you for realizing your patterns and your willingness to change. We all start as pickmeishas. Cheers to your growth ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Imagine bragging about this sh*tWhy is he so proud of that 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 13 | Why do porn addicted men feel the need to pass comments about a woman‘s body??But she looks great though???? What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Boyfriend was gone for a week, came home and was surprised with thisThat is so cute 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 25 | Tinder over 50: the continuing amazementThe spelling alone would turn off my former pickmeisha self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”You dodged a bullet. Imagine discussing history with that scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 19 | Because they themselves know the truth.This is my dad being overprotective of who I date. He keeps telling me about girls he dated back in the old days, but when it comes to me and my dating life he'll immediately ask who this guy is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:54 AM |
| 45 | Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less.I see this with teenage girls' fascination for kpop boy bands. kpop boys are not my type but I can understand the fascination. They're clean, fashionable, and respectable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Stay Strong QueensCan I have a shirt with this printed on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | DON'T chase a manShe is such a queen! Dm me her insta pls ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Quality over quantity. 💁🏽♀️We definitely won ♥️ We learn from our past experiences and definitely will not fall for those tricks anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:21 PM |
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