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This is just sad. Everything in her mind is “in theory”. The reality is a lot more black and white. I have a boy and a girl. Girls are daddy’s girls. Boys are mamas boys. That boy will absolutely love his mother. Hopefully the mother comes around because having a son from the ages of 0-12 or so is a truly special experience.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 07:18 PM
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Nah the closest equivalent is baked goods.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 05:27 PM
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Kinda seems like it but only time will tell. I always just tell men to sleep with other people cause I ain’t sleeping with them and if they still stick around and enjoy my company and commit to me then we can talk about sex. It’s not exactly sex positive, however, it weeds out this exact situation. My poor heart can’t take being used for sex because chances are I’m not going to enjoy the first couple times anyway unless the guy wants to please me and put in that takes effort.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/26 02:13 AM
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I’ve been with my husband for almost 10 years now and here is my experience… I was 23 and he was 30. I worked for the first eight years of our relationship. We had two children together and he was a stay at home dad… he worked here and there but I was the full time worker. At about the eight year mark I realized how miserable I was and how much I was missing out at home.. finally I ended up quitting my job and my husband got a higher paying job. I now stay home and he provides and I gotta say.. …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 07:31 AM
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I love my husband and I see every day the sacrifices he makes, and that all good men make. I see husbands take great care of their wives and children. I believe men are inherently good and I appreciate that. I think we should all support the men in our lives more.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 12:31 AM
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He is being selfish. Not acting like a good leader. You are pregnant. No big life changes should occur. He’s building resentment? He needs to man up and think about his woman and his unborn child wtf. I’m sorry you are going through this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 07:31 PM
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When you share a bank account lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 04:03 AM
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It has cultural significance in indigenous communities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/25 02:54 PM
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I’ve been married a while but when i was single I just told the men I was dating to hook up with other people because I wasn’t interested in sex. That weeded them out pretty nicely!
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/25 12:06 AM
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Air bnb requires identification too. Are people stupid for using that??
/r/MensRights25/07/25 07:52 PM
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This makes me think about my 5 year old son and the world he is growing up in and it breaks my heart for you and for him. You deserve to be in public spaces just as much as any woman. Don’t let closed minded people get to you. They aren’t worth it. Hold your head high.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:01 AM
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I got hitched at 23 and at 33 we are as happy as ever. Two kids. I live quite the soft life. After being married so long the best advice I can give is that men want to be admired. Women want to be adored. So, compliment him. Men are a little like dogs. Scratch his back when he does good and tell him he’s a good boy. lol We met online dating! I tell the men I dated to have sex with whoever they want cause I’m not putting out. He still came around and told me he doesn’t want anyone else. Best plac…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 06:12 AM
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Hmm. A solid conviction in everything he does. Not easily swayed by emotions. Will take charge when he can see that I’m overwhelmed. Owned by my man? Hm. I don’t really feel like I am owned but I suppose I am a kept woman since he pays my bills.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/25 08:06 PM
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I’d say that is correct. I mean I’ve seen a lot of smoking hot older women. Also more time on earth gives women more knowledge and can make them more jaded. Kinda seems like men prefer younger women because they have less sexual experience, and also less relationship experience.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 07:36 AM
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Because in their mind if you commit to them when you have options then they’ve hit a jackpot. If you commit to them after your ‘prime’ they think you’ve settled.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 06:56 AM
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Just to focus on the post title question. Feminine would be about being. Masculine is doing, feminine energy is being. So, sitting by a river and feeling the water on your feet and allowing yourself to enjoy the sun on your back. To have the time to just sit and enjoy the world around you. Letting yourself receive. That is feminine energy. Both yin and yang are required in each person to be well rounded. Painting your nails I wouldn’t say is necessarily ‘embracing your feminine’. Maybe on some l…
/r/MensRights27/04/25 09:04 AM
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Yea this video being the first thing I saw when I opened Reddit was interesting timing. The juxtaposition of this narrators view of life vs my husbands is honestly really sad. I feel bad for the man that’s speaking like that. Men are providers in every aspect, protectors of their family, leaders, playful, roughhousing, committed, strong valued kings of their kingdom. One way men feel fulfilled is by committing to a woman and having kids with her. It’s not for everyone but many men desire women f…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 11:17 AM
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Make friends that like sourdough bread and chickens. Chances are they are at least a lil red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 12:44 AM
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Ebt can certainly buy energy drinks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/24 10:16 PM
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No…why?
/r/RedPillParenting28/01/22 02:46 PM
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More like she’s not good enough for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 03:33 PM
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Yea..ever heard of heroin my man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:44 AM
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I bet she’s hoping he will see these. She wants him to know that there’s an easy road back to her if he is still down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 05:51 AM
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Let’s be real...he’s probably being “looked after” by grandma.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 01:10 PM
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Growing up I HATED my father because he abandoned me. Now that I am grown, I realize it was my mothers fault all along. My dad never wanted to be a dad, and he wasn’t dad material in the slightest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 01:09 PM
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Or another likely scenario...he hated your mom and cut his loses so he didn’t have to have her in his life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 01:07 PM
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Even if a short woman got with a tall man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 01:04 PM
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Meditate. You will start to see the patterns that your mind works in and you will be able to overcome it by practicing mindfulness and being present in the current moment. It takes work.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:38 PM
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Don’t tell me you like Magic the Gathering unless you have a commander deck that stands a fighting chance. Tired of these fake ass ho’s that gotta ask ‘wait what’s islandwalk mean?’ FOH.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 02:54 PM
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What do you think will take place during this and why will woman suffer? I believe it will happen too but I’m not too sure about the specifics. Genuinely curious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 11:47 AM
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She wants crotch rocket, not Harley.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 06:12 PM
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It’s thankless charity work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 01:12 PM
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It’s the cheerleader effect!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 03:27 AM
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Or it’s a young family members child and she’s raising it? Or she adopted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 03:09 AM
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She’s holding a wine glass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 02:57 AM
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Hmm yea I always like play the devil’s advocate. If this woman’s husband had died I’d feel bad for her plight but of course it’s more of a ‘he stopped giving me attention when I started becoming a raging bitch so I felt neglected and abused’ type of situations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/20 12:15 PM
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Or maybe cuz she doesn’t enjoy motherhood and doesn’t want to deal with the baby phase again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 02:17 AM
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Wow great translation!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 05:10 PM
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The ‘single mom needing help’ post is linked to her baby registry. So she begged for subscribers and now she is begging for diapers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 07:38 PM
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And being able to cook and actually cooking regularly are two completely different things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 02:56 AM
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Sounds like she’s depressed.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:03 PM
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She’s not exactly jailed for 155 years. She was sentenced to 45 to 155 years in prison. She will be about 88 years old when she is eligible for parole.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 04:38 PM
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Whorephobic? Jesus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/20 07:10 PM
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Anything that starts with an H doesn’t have a cure. HIV herpes hpv hepatitis
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/20 10:01 AM
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Wow she is MY TYPE. Too bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/20 09:25 AM
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It says for children under two. I waited until my daughter was two to start daycare. It sucks and I justify it in any way to make me feel better, but deep down it makes me feel like shit knowing she’s in the care of a stranger basically. I wish it didn’t have to be this way. Either both parents work or more than likely it’s separate households.
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 11:29 PM
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She probably just made that up to make you feel sorry for her. Hopefully it’s not yours but I don’t think this is conclusive evidence that it’s not yours.
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 08:40 AM
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Excuse me..they’re not fat they’re tHiCcC!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 09:05 PM
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Feminism has made us trust women and women trust themselves lol oops.
/r/MGTOW14/12/19 01:13 PM
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The post is talking about red-pill. Not sure why they are saying it’s mgtow.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 07:52 AM
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Well ya cause usually girls can rely on their looks so they never have to invest in themselves in any way. Ugly girls need to find a way to stand out. Humor. Intelligence. Whatever.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 09:49 PM
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Not all sushi is bad for pregnant chicks. Not all sushi is raw. I know we love to jump on the hate train but there are plenty of legitimate reasons to hop on and this isn’t one of em.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/19 06:16 PM
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SEA?
/r/MGTOW26/10/19 05:15 AM
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Sometimes people date for a long time and they both want to eat out but have nothing new to talk about.
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 11:06 AM
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Female horse with a male donkey.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/19 06:33 PM
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Did you know that mules aren’t a species? A species is defined by the ability to reproduce and create similar offspring. Mules or a combination of a female horse and a male donkey. They cannot reproduce and create more mules random but fun fact.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/19 03:34 PM
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Wow facetuned to the max. The second you learn about how woman filter their face to be a little blurry to hid the wrinkles it becomes so obvious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/19 03:14 PM
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She isn’t the asshole though. She is just run my hormones and emotions like every woman in earth. She is a slave to her own mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/19 03:07 PM
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I am so sorry. That shit is not okay. Just be open with your daughters. Tell them they are not in trouble. Maybe recommend they see a counselor just to talk? (But actually cause if they open up about the abuse the counselor will be legally obligated to tell cps or the courts. ) and yes you can get dye out of their hair. You can get a ‘color oops’ from most stores that sell hair dye. Or just take them to a salon because just dying over it could have some weird tinting issues where in the sun it s…
/r/RedPillParenting30/08/19 09:48 AM
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Let me put my tin foil hat on..I really believe whoever in charge is trying to take the man out of the family equation..think about it women marry the state when they sign up for well fair or child support. Men are no longer necessary for women so when they start their ‘new world order’ women will back down. Men would stand up and fight. Yes men are controlled by women but I don’t think women are the real enemy, and women are supposed to be our little side kicks but for some reason they are indo…
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 10:28 AM
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Make women in charge because women are easier to control.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 03:22 AM
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Hey girl 💁🏻‍♀️ do you want to make 🤑$ selling essential oils ✨🌟⭐️ from home 🍸🍾 like me???! 💦💫 be your own boss babe 👊🏻🙌🏻 annoy friends you haven’t talked to since high school 😹☠️💋 go into crippling debt 🙀😪🧢 and look like a total fool? Lol ☘️🌹🌾🐉
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 03:16 AM
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Here’s some screenshots for people that don’t have Instagram account. https://i.imgur.com/fTRIJjL.jpg https://i.imgur.com/RuCbN6c.jpg https://i.imgur.com/EyV9vmP.jpg https://i.imgur.com/9O7DGbi.jpg https://i.imgur.com/oeKWc9d.jpg
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 12:10 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/B1CtL-kFOJz/?igshid=1ncaqhwr0gokc Unfortunately you can’t see the comments unless you have an Instagram
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 12:03 PM
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It’s only 5am but all these food posts. Man it’s making me hungry.
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 11:58 AM
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Seriously. Just checked out this guys Instagram page and practically all the comments are bashing him ‘how dare you do this to katy’ ‘hm waited 9 years to say this, you’re lying aren’t you?’ Guaranteed if the genders were reversed no one would be saying that shit.
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 02:52 AM
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Then you would be what’s wrong with society.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 05:14 AM
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Some of them, sure. I think the younger ones will pretend like they don’t care and slowly retrogress into a more feminine version of themselves and try their best to trick men with their masks on. Women are sneaky.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 05:56 PM
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Only thing I don’t agree with: “‘biological clock’ Where the clock is men's natural attraction to her youth.” Pretty sure the clock ticking is impending menopause.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 06:08 AM
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It’s equally infuriating and satisfying.
/r/MGTOW05/07/19 03:36 AM
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Right! I can’t even talk about our third eye, or ‘magic’ with out looking crazy. Make it a conspiracy theory and people won’t question it because that would make you a nut.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 04:17 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-YzgQ4Ks4ZQ Brothers Comatose - The Scout
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:06 AM
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The baby is still a person. It made a recovery and is in the foster system now. What’s messed up is the boyfriend she sent the pictures to isn’t even the babies father...just some dude. Makes me sick.
/r/MGTOW22/06/19 09:07 PM
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Semen demons
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 06:52 PM
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r/marriageisbliss
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 04:15 AM
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They don’t WANT to remedy this situation. Single mothers are dependent on the state. And that’s what they want...Women to marry the state and men to be slaves. And children to go to public schools to indoctrinate them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 07:35 PM
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Right. She has no accomplishments after 28 years on this planet so she latches on to the closest achievement she can..that she is related to someone that achieved something. Big whoop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/19 03:41 PM
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Yea. Just like blackpeopletwitters ‘only blacks allowed’ bs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 11:19 AM
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Tagthesponsor.com
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 03:05 PM
4

This is sad all around. Now she is looking for someone to take care of her..If only she settled down when she turned 18 instead of playing the field. She’d have someone by her side.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 01:08 AM
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Make women the ones in charge because women are easier to control.
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 04:55 PM
1

Stop talking! You’re hurting my ears!!
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 07:21 PM
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Lol she meant that she’s 174lbs PLUS a few extra pounds on top of that 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 07:28 PM
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Go with the flow.
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 02:37 AM
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What is this meme in reference to? I’ve seen it a few times and I’m out of the loop
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:17 PM
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I know what you mean. I am one of the only married ones in my social circle. It just gets old hearing them bash men.. Here’s my advice to you. Don’t date a man based on emotions alone (initially). Go with logic. Would he be a good parent? Will he compromise? Do we communicate well? Do you want the same things out of life? If he seems like a good partner then just go all in. Say fuck it and just give yourself to him entirely. That’s what I did. And now I am very happy with my choice. Being single…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/19 11:10 PM
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“You shouldn’t set yourself above her. Instead, she should be placed above you. Her experience is far more compelling than anything you’ve ever seen or done. “ Uhh......
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/19 03:10 PM
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It’s like Buddhism. Buddhism is not a religion. You can be a Christian Buddhist or an atheist Buddhist. It is a way of life, a lens you wear to see the world in a different way. It is a way to better yourself.
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 02:28 PM
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Its thot possible. 😂
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 12:09 AM
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A post wall nut job
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 03:59 PM
2

Yes. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 05:07 PM
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It’s crazy how being a men’s right activist is considered bad. It is such backwards thinking.
/r/MensRights26/12/18 03:47 PM
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I’m not sure how it works. Air traffic control type of thing? He instructed them to land.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 03:34 PM
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I didn’t ask, just thanked him for his service and gave him a hell of a discount.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 12:00 PM
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I work at uhaul and recently helped a man who moved across the states to be closer to his 97 year old mother after his divorce from his wife of 25 years. Now this man is a special man. He served in the military. This is a man that was at the pentagon on 911. He himself downed all of the planes that day. He has spent his life serving his country. It is sad because he only rented a 10 foot uhaul, our smallest trucks available to carry all of his belongings.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 11:42 AM
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Man and daughter went to an event together. During that time the son was alone at home. The mother broke into her ex husbands house and bound her son with zip ties and talked for an hour about how the father was ruining her life. Father and daughter got home and ex wife used taser on dad and zip tied him to chair. Daughter ran upstairs and called cops. Mom got mad and zip tied daughter then shot her own daughter in the head. Mom went back downstairs and pointed gun at the ex husband, pulled the …
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 09:11 PM
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PM me if ya want I’ll order you some food or something. Wish I could help more.
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 02:03 AM
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Autonomous women making independent decisions should not expect a man to finance their poor choices. And yet..
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 05:01 PM
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My mom had me and my brother knowing that my dad didn’t wanna be a dad. She left him when I was 5 and lived off welfare and child support. I love my mother but It’s hard to look back on my life with red pill lenses.
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 05:27 AM
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The difference is Ritalin works quicker and peaks sooner. Adderall is an amphetamine while Ritalin is just a stimulate. Other than that they are rather similar. I think they have the same long term affects.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 03:30 PM
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Like opening a window and fucking the night.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 05:45 PM
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How hard is it to use birth control correctly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 02:29 PM
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Men have no rights and all the responsibilities.
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 07:25 PM
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Girl you are pregnant! That’s about as feminine as it can get. Maybe wear whatever is comfortable but make an effort to do your hair and makeup? Accessories with soft scarves and bracelets and what not. When I as pregnant I was too damn tired to care how I looked but I always made sure I at least had mascara on. Congratulations on the little one :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/18 02:05 PM
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I’m a super rough and tumble kinda gal. I am super tall, don’t mind getting dirty and I don’t like being told what to do but I’m also super feminine. Not by choice lol but guys really gravitate towards me. Like ya I am independent but I also need someone to open jars for me. I laugh at my husbands jokes and I need a lot of cuddles and lovin. I think it’s just about finding a balance. Ask for help, have grace and be polite. If someone comes to your house be a good host! Bake. Be gentle with other…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 05:50 PM
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I like you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 10:00 PM
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What’s so messed up is look how young that baby is...bitch couldn’t even make it work for 6 months with the baby daddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/18 06:46 PM
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Also the chance of having a child with Down syndrome increases with woman’s age. “A 25-year-old woman has a 1 in 1,200 chance of having a baby with Down syndrome; by 35, the risk has increased to 1 in 350; by age 40, to 1 in 100; and by 49, it's 1 in 10”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 02:05 PM
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Captain save a hoe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/18 02:06 PM
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‘I’d much prefer a night in over going out drinking.’ Yea sure keep telling yourself that as you sit on your bed watching reruns of friends cuz you can’t find a baby sitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/18 02:03 PM
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Usually I wear booty shorts or something comfortable and minimal 😜 sometimes just underwear. But ya I'm too pregnant right now so im basically always in my fiancés t shirts or sweatshirts with no pants. Don't really do makeup too much once relaxing at home for the night but I get semi permanent lashes put on once a month so my lashes are always bumpin!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 10:12 AM
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Just read the article and it said that older men that wanted a child unanimously wanted a son. What do you guys think it means when a man wants a girl? Me and my man tried for a baby and we both wanted a girl. He says he only wants this one girl and no more kids. Just curious what you guys think that means...he is a super mans man too. So it confused me. He loves to fish and hunt and is a good ol country boy. If anyone wanted a son I figured it'd be him...
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 09:59 PM
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I buy him snacks I know he likes. Donuts and cereal. I don't really eat either. So, when he sees it's in the kitchen he knows I bought it just for him :) it's the little things, ya know?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:48 PM
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I'm honest from the first date. If he wants a good girl he will stick around. I tell him I will not sleep with you quickly as I have never slept with anyone quickly. I have never had a guy I'm interested in dip out from not having sex soon enough. I let him know that this isn't a game it's just the way I am. As the dates go on I get more and more open with my flirts and more handsy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 08:28 PM
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I feel like staying where you are will definitely form patterns that could ruin y'alls in the long run. He did fail you as a captain, if you really love him stick with him through the tough stuff because life happens sometimes. Hopefully he will work hard on getting a better job so you guys can move out on your own. Maybe you should think about working so that you can get out of the situation quicker?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 02:49 PM
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Ive had daddy issues and it just made me insecure. Abandonment issues. Not feeling good enough. All of these insecurities manifested in my long term relationships in one form or another. Always afraid their gonna leave me for someone better, needy, smothering, constant reassurance. Shit like that.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:00 AM
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I think it is the healthiest mindset to have. You can't raise your kids properly if you aren't happy. Living your life for someone else will leave you feeling empty. Ya, don't be selfish think about your kids. But you're not living their life. You're living your own. Your kids will do just fine. Ya many people live happy lives making someone else their whole world but OP didn't post in this sub because she is happy with her situation.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 05:02 PM
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You can't live your life for anyone but you. Not your kids nor your ex. You have to do what makes you happy. Getting back with your ex is not an option for now. So, date someone else. Sure it may be hard to find someone but there are millions of people out there and there will be someone that comes around that loves you and your kids.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 07:48 AM
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Nah an ignition interlock can't tell you where/when you can drive. It just won't start if it indicates alcohol on your breath.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/17 07:41 AM
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I wouldn't break up with my SO over being honest. His passive aggressive way of going about it is way inappropriate though.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 01:01 PM
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My fiancé isn't working right now. He's not exactly thrilled about that. Even though I work full time I still make a point to do the cooking. He has started doing the dishes which is awesome. I just feel like him not having a job and then also being forced by me to do the cooking and cleaning and other girly chores will make him feel even more emasculated. So I make a point to always make him a home cooked meal every night :) it may seem silly to some but it makes sense to me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 12:58 PM
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I can't wait for him to get home from work! Only 3 more hours. 😩
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 09:58 PM
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Awww :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 09:57 PM
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I'd just laugh and be like lol no all flirty. Not in a demeaning grossed out way. In a flirty way. I told him that although I did want to do more physically I was anxious about progressing sexually. And once we got to know each other I wasn't anxious anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 02:34 AM
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Most strangers being polite and nice to me in public. People go out of there way to be nice by opening doors for me and talking sweeter. Just more gentle in general it makes simple things like going to the grocery store a more pleasant experience.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 03:40 PM
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Travel. Meet people from all around the world.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 01:53 PM
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Some super cute yarn beanies :) thick long socks. Ear muffs. Mittens.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 05:24 AM
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Yes. Just found out last night. Took longer then expected. Not sure what to do now. Feeling lost.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 02:16 PM
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Yes I know this. There is a lot to consider! So if I choose to stay in basically committing for life. He founds out the results either Monday or Tuesday.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 01:44 AM
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I had a bad step parent as well. I do understand that I would play a big part in the wellbeing of this kid. And if I decide to step up then I wouldn't dream of resenting him This is all just so heavy for being such a new relationship. We find out next Monday or Tuesday. :0
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 08:37 PM
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I see what you are saying. He didn't cheat on me. We've been together less than a year. Doesn't make your post any less valid though. Thanks for your input.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 07:55 PM
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Because I wouldn't be raising it 100%. I'd be a step mom. Weekends and every other Wednesday kind of thing. Idk. It doesn't sound all that bad if I can get over the jealousy and anger phase.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 08:06 PM
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Oh wow that is an interesting point of view. It's kind of playing with fire though because this view gives me such hope! I hope you are right but don't want to get my hopes up too much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 07:07 PM
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I honestly never considered the fact that id get attached to the kid! That's another angle I haven't thought of. Me and SO are assuming that if I stick around that that's a long term commitment and that we would eventually marry.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 06:58 PM
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I'm 24. And I am very aware of the impending wall. I guess life is just a gamble. But there are still a lot of men that don't have kids. I don't know why having kids is such a big deal to me but it is for some reason. Hopefully that'll change as I get older.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 06:57 PM
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Are you telling me I shouldn't be chasing something better and stay with him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 05:46 PM
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If he chooses to dump me then that's his choice. These are my honest feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 05:26 PM
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He does have a lawyer but wow what you said really stuck me. Because you are completely right. Leaving would be best for me logistically. I hope if I need to leave that my emotions will let me. Thank you for your honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:40 PM
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It is hard because we've been dating for less then a year and now I am having to sit down and really think about if I want to be with him for life. Because if it is his and I do decide to stay than I will be a step mom. I am thinking about the child because I would be a mother figure. And I wouldn't just leave. I would be around for the kids life. It's just a crazy commitment to make so soon.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:31 PM
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I will and thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:28 PM
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I understand. It would be easiest to leave. It sucks to hear but it's the truth. I just really like him. I have a lot of thinking to do but I am not going anywhere till I get the paternity results. I didn't even consider all of this child support issues. This adds a whole new layer to an already super crappy situation.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:12 PM
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We've been together less than a year. I'm worried it's too soon for all of this. But I really care about him and don't wanna just dip in times of trouble. And I am definitely not doing any rash decisions till we find out. Edit: he should find out in the next coming weeks. I'm trying not to go into over drive with my thoughts. It's hard.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:38 PM
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We've been together for less than a year. That's why I would even consider leaving. If it was long term I would stay no matter what. Now I don't know. All this lawyer talk is starting to scare me. Yes we live in the us. This scares me because he is in the military so makes decent income.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:36 PM
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Oh my god. This is terrifying. I am going to talk to him immediately about all of this. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:34 PM
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I know all of this to be true :( he seems to think the courts won't clean him dry for whatever reason. He hasn't talked to the mother basically at all. Just her lawyer. He doesn't know what she wants. And I don't think he cares. He is overwhelmed with anger right now. Omg we would be so happy if it wasn't his.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 02:33 PM
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I am not worried about losing quality time nor the financial burden (it sucks another woman has a hand in his pocket though.) I am worried about my jealousy towards this other woman. That he has a special bond with this other woman and not me. What if him and I have a kid in the future? Will it not be as special since he already did this before? What if we have a son? It won't be his first born son cause he already has one. I recognize that these are incredibly immature thoughts. But I'm worried…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:43 PM
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He did use a condom. And I totally believe him when he says that. He is incredibly safe. We used condoms for a decent amount of months before we were both tested and comfortable enough to not use them. Also, he says I can be as involved as I want. He says he doesn't expect anything from me but if I want to I can help him with all of the decision making that comes with raising a kid. He also says that I don't have to be involved for years. But obviously that would be hard if he has custody.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:35 PM
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I'd say it's an unhealthy goal. Why do you want to be married so quickly? Marriage should be because you love someone and want to be a team with them for the rest of your life. You could end up with a man that you shouldn't end up with all because you were blinded by the desire to get married. A couple years down the line sure you may be married but will it be with the perfect guy? Will you regret rushing into it? Just my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 03:10 PM
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My current bf and I waited 2 months going on about 3 dates a week. He says it made him like me more because it's clear I don't sleep around. But I didn't do it to manipulate the way he feels about me. I did it because having sex with someone I'm not very emotionally involved with doesn't interest me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 02:34 PM
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Studies show people tend to look away every seven seconds on average.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 08:30 PM
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Rape is stupid. If a woman gives birth to a child that's a product of rape then she will never nurture that child as much as one that she conceived with someone she wanted to have sex with. It's a poor strategy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 01:26 PM
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Meetup.com I'm not sure where you live but the meetups around me have awesome woman's nights! Some go solely hiking, others take cooking/painting classes etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 07:22 PM
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