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That isn’t what’s in the best interest of the child, so no. And if you truly feel this way, I hope you don’t vote red.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:15 PM
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Because women give and men take, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:35 PM
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When married a husband is automatically and legally considered the father. If you want to offend your wife for literally no reason after she’s carried your child and given birth, by all means…..but don’t expect the marriage to last. This is, of course, assuming you have no reason to suspect the child isn’t yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:57 PM
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Women initiate because they have been trying to talk to their husbands and fix things for a long time prior to filing. The reasons are much more likely to be that they feel unappreciated and unhappy because they realized they have another child-like dependent in their husband rather than a partner who is supposed to help. Why would men file? They’re getting taken care of and have free domestic service, so why would they file for divorce? The men say whatever to appease their wife but make no act…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:10 AM
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Lesbians seem to always want to rush into marriage. The natural consequence of that is that they’re going to have higher divorce ratesz
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:04 PM
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I know this comment will get removed, but whatever. This group is just men who hate women trying to figure out how to get laid. Normal men who view women as people, actual whole, complex people, don’t have these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:00 PM
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Data on this topic disagrees with you. Women consistently underrate their level of attractiveness and men consistently overrate their level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:59 PM
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But that’s the thing….it’s always assumed a man is single by choice, but not a woman. A single man is envied, a single woman is pitied. Even tho data clearly reveals that unmarried women are far happier in life than their (heterosexual) married counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:47 PM
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That is patently false. Single women are given so much more shit by society than men. Just the verbiage alone, spinster versus bachelor. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:10 PM
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Because these kind of men view women as a commodity, not as human beings. They want (believe they need and/or are entitled to) sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:08 PM
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Statistics prove that when a husband gets a serious illness, wives stay. When wives get serious illnesses, husbands bail. Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:47 PM
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Yes, it’s humor. Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:26 PM
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I get why dating is hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:20 PM
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Tell me you don’t actually like women as human beings without telling me you don’t actually like women as human beings. 🙄 Valuing women for their looks only is extremely problematic all around and that’s exactly what you’re supporting with this hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:07 PM
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Of course you, as a man, believe women would only wear “sexy” clothes for the male gaze. Not all women dress for men, even if they’re wearing something men might find sexy….shocking, I know. Stop assuming women exist for your benefit or do anything for your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:42 PM
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See, this is the problem. Men assume that women dress for them, that women do everything for them and their boner. It’s extremely self-centered and also extremely flawed. Women aren’t responsible for your thoughts and behaviors no matter how much you want to blame us for them. Maybe that’s just how she’s comfortable and she is lucky enough to have a boyfriend who isn’t grossly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:00 PM
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It has way more to do with how they communicate and the vibe they have than how they look. I’ve been around conventionally attractive men who freaked me out and below average looking men who were very comfortable. It’s all in how you present yourself. For example, if you enter into a communication with a strange woman thinking she won’t find you attractive and will reject you, she will feel something is off about you probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:40 PM
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I was with my ex husband for 3 years (happily, never questioned his faithfulness) before we got married. Less than 5 years later, when I’m pregnant with our son, I found out about his cheating. Not a fucking chance I was staying!! So at 6 months pregnant I moved 1800 miles away to a new city, new job and after never having a partner during my pregnancy, I began taking care of a newborn by myself as well. My son is 9 now and his dad sees him a couple hours a week for dinner. My being a single mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:36 PM
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But it’s not true in the sense that it’ll make any difference in your life. Men are also 1000X more looks based than women are. They see a woman’s value in how she looks. What good thing does that say about man’s nature? ANSWER MY QUESTION or I’m done here. I’m starting to believe you just made up the whole uncle situation, which is truly laughable….”let me create a fictional scenario and then claim to have learned something about men because of it. Then when women disagree, I can say that becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:03 PM
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Even from my own personal experience, I have rejected the suit of a much wealthier man than my boyfriend at the time (became my husband later). Not once, but twice this happened. It annoyed tf outta me that he assumed his income would be that important to me. Automatic no. And I was happy with my boyfriend at the time. Even the 2nd time this man tried, I was single and still wanted no part of being with him. I think it’s safe to say that most women want a life where their basic needs, and that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:47 PM
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If you want me to continue discussing this with you, you need to answer my question that I’ve now asked twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:42 PM
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You think that because you want to think that. Last I checked your uncle and his “wives” are ordinary people also. And stats don’t exclude people based on their income level 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:41 PM
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Think about the richest men in the US. Hell, even just men who earn well above average….they don’t have multiple wives or poly relationships as the norm. Ivana Trump left Donald for what? Cheating!! To say most women would submit and tolerate sharing their partner if he has enough money is just silly. Sure, some women don’t care because they live separate lives, but those men most definitely aren’t having their wife live with their other girlfriends calling it one big happy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:39 PM
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I think you’re engaging in confirmation bias. What’s different in saying that most men would drop their wives/girlfriends in a hot minute if their dream girl suddenly entered the picture and wanted them? Is that men’s true nature then, to only care about looks and the bonds of intimacy and marriage mean nothing when they have the option to have sex with a woman they believe is much hotter than their partner? Men are that shallow and superficial? I’m not even sure what misogynistic thing you’re t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:36 PM
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According to statistics, 4-5% of the population engages in polyamory. And there are even less families in polygamous marriages (estimated to be between 30k and 50k nationwide). Just by these numbers alone you shouldn’t try to say anything they do is applicable to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:28 PM
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And I firmly believe the answer is no. Read every comment made on your post by a woman. And you can’t say that your Uncle’s wealth reveals women’s true nature by any stretch of the imagination. Nothing about their dynamic is applicable to the general population, period. What is the root of their dynamic? Is it religion or BDSM (assuming they’re American)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:25 PM
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Nah, definitely an unlucky thing. I’m sorry but it’s highly unusual for a girlfriend to admit to her boyfriend that she has huge crushes on other men and ask to sleep with them. I mean, you honestly think that’s typical?? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:23 PM
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First of all, a man having multiple wives isn’t the norm. So you can’t base anything typical off these people’s dynamic. They obviously all chose this lifestyle, which means either it’s religion based or it’s BDSM based. In either option, the women aren’t typical of the general population. So you can’t infer much of anything from their situation that would apply to you unless you’re going to choose the same lifestyle he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:37 AM
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I’m sorry that happened. If she wasn’t into you in the beginning, it’s likely not going to happen. Women generally know who they want physical intimacy with fairly soon, whether or not they act on it (ever). She wasn’t into you in the beginning, so it doesn’t really contradict what I said….most normal, typical relationships have a hot and heavy honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:11 AM
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You say that like it’s some sort of achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:16 PM
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Ok….cool. But that’s not what is realistic, or wanted, by most people. And I think it’s best you don’t have anymore committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:45 PM
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Here are more sources (listed within the article) https://globalnews.ca/news/4323647/lesbians-better-sex/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:44 PM
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But this study shows that women orgasm A LOT more with other women than with men. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jsm.12669
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:43 PM
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I’m not just talking about sexual satisfaction, I’m talking overall happiness in life where sex is one factor. Single women absolutely are happier than their married counterparts, but the opposite is true for men. I’m sure you can be logical enough to figure out that marriage benefits men more than women then, when it comes to overall happiness. I don’t need to list sources, this stuff is readily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:41 PM
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Whatever, man. Live in denial and delusion then, I don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:36 PM
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As if men don’t also want the “super hot hottie”?? You can’t have her so you end up with the woman you are able to get. It’s called reality. This isn’t a woman thing, and in fact looks are FAR more important to men than to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:10 PM
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Yep. My ex is 6’5. He was an asshole. I broke up with him and am now happier than I’ve ever been in my life with my current boyfriend who is the same height as me, 5’9. And for reference, I’ve never not been able to get whatever man I wanted, so either I’m a liar or an outlier (neither of which are true in reality). They simply don’t want to hear anything that doesn’t support their narrative of poor, poor, pitiful me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:06 PM
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And statistics tell us that heterosexual married men are the happiest and most satisfied demographic of men. Quite the opposite for women married to men, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:03 PM
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And this is exactly why lesbians report better sexual satisfaction with women than men. Well, those who have had sex with both, anyway. There are millions of married women out there whose husbands never make them cum….never happens when you’re with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:01 PM
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The demographic of women that reports the least amount of sexual satisfaction and overall happiness in life are heterosexual women married to men. Single women and lesbians are much happier, overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:00 PM
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That only supports what she already said, that things which are newer and risky are hotter. Stay with that side piece long term, include regular everyday stressors and things like bills and housework and raising kids, and then come back and tell us how exciting your sex life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:58 PM
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That is women subjectively rating their own partners as good looking, masculine and dominant. It should not surprise anyone that women who subjectively rated their boyfriend as more attractive were also more likely to be sexually satisfied and orgasm. It’s all mental with women. You could have 2 women have sex with the same man and come away with 2 completely different experiences based on how they feel about him emotionally. Men would also report better sex with women they find more attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:22 PM
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Not sure why you say this? There is a beginning to every single long term relationship and marriage. A beginning whereby there is a honeymoon phase and the physical side of things is much more hot and heavy. What dulls that, for women, is over time we realize this man is not safe, emotionally or physically. We can’t trust him, we can’t be fully vulnerable with him, he acts like a child, he is selfish, uncaring and/or cruel, etc, etc. Women lose attraction and the desire for intimacy DIRECTLY bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:16 PM
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Nothing like a grown man intimidated by a piece of plastic. Way to out yourself as shitty lover, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:11 PM
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These guys won’t believe actual research no matter what you say, let them believe their delusions that support their victim hood mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:09 PM
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There is so much more that goes into intimacy and sex in a marriage other than physical attraction. Is she the only one doing most of the household labor as well as the child rearing? Does she have to take care of her husband like he’s another child, picking up after him, etc? Women don’t want to have sex with men they view as making their life harder, they want to have sex with a partner who makes their life better. This is hands down, the number one reason why women are unhappy in marriages. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:07 PM
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Meh, women will look out for women and if that makes men uncomfortable, oh well. I don’t have any issue expressing my concern and voicing why I think older men would be interested in a much younger woman. If she’s aware and fine with it, more power to her. Manipulative and abusive men have long hated women who help and protect each other, nothing new there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:23 PM
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Same! It just seems a lot of these guys say horrible, generalizing crap about women and rather than validating the voices and experiences of women who don’t agree, or state that’s not their experience, they just accuse us of lying or not being sensitive enough to their plight. It doesn’t exactly invoke feelings of compassion when you’re just maligned as a gender over and over. Women have been treated like we are inherently inferior by men for millennia. The most problematic thing that still exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:30 PM
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That’s just not how women work. Our largest sex organ is our brain. Emotional connection, intimacy, safety and trust are what make for exceptional sex. Women who have had many partners all talk about how mediocre the vast majority of men are. The whole “most men can’t find the clit” joke, right? It absolutely is insecurity, but you’re mistaken and misguided about who is the threat. It’s not some rando dude, it’s her ex boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:25 AM
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Nope, it’s FAR more likely. You’re being given the correct information, you just don’t want to hear it. You watch too much porn and think it’s realistic of women’s sexuality and behavior when it isn’t. Porn is created by men, for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:21 AM
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“Advices from secure people are shitty ngl” Way to ensure you stay stuck. It’s clearly where you want to be. Incredibly self defeating mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:19 AM
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Thank you for this post!! I don’t think the guys here understand how terrifying it is to be a woman dealing with men. They can only see things from their perspective. They assume women think like they do, want the same things (but lie) and aren’t very open to hearing anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:49 PM
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Do you have any idea how many women are assaulted and/or killed for saying no to a man’s advances? If not, you should really google it. It’s terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:42 PM
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And I 100% agree with the concern regarding men 30+ pursuing 18-20 year old women. It’s gross. I’ve long believed men who date much younger women do so because they know women their own age wouldn’t put up with their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:51 PM
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Less teens are having sex, that’s true, but a huge factor is the easy and free access to porn….so that doesn’t lend credence to the “sheltered” part. It’s an interesting phenomenon. I worry so much about young people (especially girls and women) who think porn is how sex is, or should be. Scary stuff. Especially considering porn has become significantly more violent towards women since it’s mass consumption began.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:48 PM
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How could the expansion and easy access of the internet and social media mean that young people today are more sheltered and less sexually experienced than kids in the 90’s?? As a teen in the 90’s, I think it’s the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:27 PM
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I think you’re equating men finally being held accountable for their crappy behavior as “toxicity towards men”. Y’all just aren’t used to a reality where men are accountable and don’t get away with bad behavior. The world has changed, no use screaming into the void about it….,just be better. And I’m not talking about men being insecure, that’s ridiculous. Everyone has insecurities, it’s not a gendered issue. The difference between men being insecure and women being insecure is how they handle it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:11 AM
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Don’t they create their own realities tho? The treatment they get…? Look how they view and treat others? What self respecting woman would ever touch a man who promotes rape and violence against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:49 PM
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Sure, looks matter but it’s different for men and women. Men place a much higher value on looks than women do. Men refuse to believe this because they can’t conceive of something being real or true that they don’t feel, think or experience. You still don’t know if women can enjoy sex?? Wtf?! The short answer is, yes. There are factors that play into it for women that perhaps don’t affect men as much. Women’s sexuality is primarily cerebral. Men have a hard time understanding this, because again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:47 PM
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I don’t think women deny or trivialize what you’re saying. At least I’ve never met one, and I am a woman. The only part I was challenging was that women deny the fact because they perceive it as trivializing. The thing you’re leaving out (and it seems to be a common thing completely ignored in this sub) is that women are afraid of men, and quite frankly they should be. The power differential you describe makes men angry and women are often the targets. For many women they have trouble seeing how…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:02 PM
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As with many species, human women have the reproductive power. Women choose a mate, who to reproduce with, based on which male presents as the best option (generally speaking). This isn’t because men are less valuable, it’s just they have a different kind of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:38 AM
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I completely agree with you in wondering how this trivializes women’s perceived “dating value and power”…..it is value and power, like you said, and women wield it (the smart ones anyway). Of course men complain about it, OP is a perfect example, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:34 AM
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Wouldn’t that increase our (perceived or otherwise) value and power over men tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:39 AM
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Of course they don’t view women as whole and complete human beings. As for this “tingle” you speak of, it’s called chemistry and BOTH people need to feel it in order to be attracted to each other. You can’t talk about women as if they are a homogeneous group….always horny or not at all. We are all individuals, much like men are individual from each other. There might be some commonalities, but if you truly want to have a healthy and rewarding relationship with someone, just try to get to know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:47 PM
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He doubts any guy commenting who has a different reality of experiences than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:05 AM
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If they got pregnant, they got married….they didn’t become teen parents and still go out looking for other partners. I don’t think you have a good idea of what things were like before effective contraception and abortion was legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:03 AM
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