canis_lupus_arctos Archive

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2	Why do some people hate Jordan B. Peterson? TRP - many people dismiss him because once you scratch the surface you realise he's quite bluepilled. Care to elaborate?	/r/askTRP	11/08/19 04:13 PM
1	Why do some people hate Jordan B. Peterson? He regularly kicks people in their ideological balls, so that's one thing. Personally I dislike his tendency to talk about things he has no expertise in while failing to mark his views as such.	/r/askTRP	11/08/19 04:12 PM
1	Don't be a hater You're missing the point. Going around and fucking many women alone won't do shit for you if your aim is to spiritually grow. You're essentially just doing what Ferenczi would call "masturbating into the vagina". This is a deeply narcissistic endeavor, because there is no real connection there. The more insecure you are about your masculinity the higher the probability that you're masturbating into vaginas to soothe your fear of inadequacy. This dependancy can be overcome by grounding yourself i…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/19 09:10 PM
1	Equilibrium Ethics And how did you come to the conclusion that I'm doing that?	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/19 11:08 PM
2	Equilibrium Ethics Good. So you do know the deep necessity and importance of striving to know yourself and dealing with what you find. I'm glad to see it.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 09:39 PM
2	Equilibrium Ethics Let's try something else. Since this is a place men alledgedly come to in order to better themselves I will slap some sense into you. Do you think you know your unconscious drives? Do you think talking about emotions is for sissys who aren't man enough to deal with them? I have news for you. You are absolutely determined by and will not be able to do anything against your unconscious drives as long as you're not working to make them conscious and then deal with them. To think that lifting weight…	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 08:54 PM
1	Equilibrium Ethics We can assume a neurotic conflict, so most likely the patient is dealing with repressed emotions. Depending on the actual nature of the problem the patient may learn how to recognize and get in touch with his emotions and learn to adequately express and negotiate his desires. If you have read No More Mr. Nice Guy this is an example of what might happen in therapy under professional supervision.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 08:21 PM
3	Equilibrium Ethics As I said, self-esteem issues regarding gender identity are neither new nor special and on a sidenote only partly moderated by cultural influences in a narrow sense. It doesn't matter that much how exactly these issues came to be, because the way out is almost always very similar. A therapist doesn't need to provide his patients with a victim narrative they will most likely instrumentalize to escape their self-responsibility. If a patient feels that society shuns his masculine ways this is a top…	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 08:10 PM
2	Equilibrium Ethics Self-esteem issues regarding gender identity aren't that special. An actual psychotherapist will be able to help in the overwhelming majority of cases. Psychiatrists who only throw pills at you will most likely not, that's true, but let's not do a whole professional group wrong here and assume that's how every psychiatrist always works.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 07:54 PM
2	Equilibrium Ethics What are problems caused by the system in your opinion? Good thing people are free to form opinions independently of university curriculae then.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 06:15 PM
2	Equilibrium Ethics modern liberal psychiatry is not going to solve the root issues of the patients problems Care to elaborate? Do you specifically mean psychiatry or psychotherapeutic efforts as a whole?	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 04:29 PM
13	Equilibrium Ethics despite the call for us to be more selfish regarding how we operate(Narcissism-Dark Triad) If you deem narcissistic behavior desirable you are actively contributing to a world in which people are isolated, bitter and resentful. Good luck with that.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/19 03:45 PM
2	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. I like that you choose to remain open. Thank you too for a civil discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 11:15 PM
1	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. Johari-Window is applicable here	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 05:18 PM
4	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. I don't agree with your assessment and I don't agree with your reasoning. People do things that defy logic all the time. That's when you're unaware of the "logic" they're following. A pop science book on narcissism (meaning regulation of self esteem, not pathological narcissism) may prove insightful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 04:58 PM
1	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. You are denying the reality of relationship tests? People are doing this all the time. It's not even female-exclusive. It's a narcissistic game. The reasoning behind it is "A part of me can't believe that this person is interested in me. If they overcome the obstacles I put in their way, I can be sure of their resolve and commitment to me." And "I have a boyfriend" surely is one classic example of a possible relationship test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 04:13 PM
0	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. I don't know why you would say that. Context and delivery is way more important than the actual word "no". If I'm talking to a girl all night and she's clearly having fun and then at the end of the night drops that she has a boyfriend I will most certainly act on the hypothesis that this is a relationship test. And I will be well-advised to do so. Of course she could turn me down regardless, but as long as she keeps sending positive signals I will keep signalling that my interest in her is unwav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 03:56 PM
1	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. I think what's actually happening is way more complex. Asking a guy out doesn't tell us much about your behavior on the date. Could be anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 03:41 PM
0	CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent. Your answer to this is to play the numbers game? Yeah that's one minor aspect that plays a role here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 03:31 PM
1	Does anyone else feel that people they are attracted to are not attracted to you and vice versa? If you are attractive, they might get insecure and feel threatened, so they shut down. I'm just out of a 6 week-relationship with the first woman I ever fell in love with. It ended because she couldn't really accept my sexual affections which in turn would make me so insecure that I couldn't show her any.	/r/seduction	14/06/18 02:52 PM
5	I watched the film Nymphomaniac and some of the themes and events will be familiar to some here. I don't think you can press everything you come across into this narrow RP mould. The way I see it, the terms "BP guy" and "classic incel" aren't easily applicable here. Seligman may actually be asexual (or may have a stigmatizing fetish he suppressed his whole life. This concept is actually brought up earlier with another character). The point is, there are two poles interacting and influencing each other - the asexual and the nymphomaniac. In the end when she is done telling her story, she tel…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/14 09:20 PM
5	not alpha fucks? don't despair. I'm not sure if "lower your standards" is the best advice for everyone. I recently had an encounter with what I would still rate a 6 and couldn't even get it up because she just didn't do it for me.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/14 10:03 AM
22	What I learned from losing my HB9 "Don’t you dare stop gaming her." By keeping the game up and constantly entertaining her you are putting her on a pedestal. Who is she that you need to put on an act for her all the time? Who is she that you need to entertain her to keep her? She should be happy to have the chance to be with you, not the other way round. Seriously brah, the less you invest, the better off you'll be. Not sure you have the right mindset yet.	/r/seduction	10/04/13 09:49 PM