cant_fapula Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend?	cant_fapula	/r/seduction	12/12/15 11:11 PM
5	Club game help	cant_fapula	/r/seduction	24/07/16 07:31 PM
0	Gaming former oneitis?	cant_fapula	/r/seduction	15/07/16 07:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Hooked up with a good friend, says she doesn't want a relationship but seems down to fool around. How do I handle that? Keep having sex with her, keep being friends with her. What is a girlfriend? It's a friend you are close with and have sex with. I think she will get feelings for you sooner or later if you're having sex and doing cute shit together (cuddling, cooking dinner, etc). The most important thing is that you let her come to that conclusion. She already said no to a relationship so don't push it. Play it cool, or she will see that you're too needy to handle just sex and cut you off completely. You can h…	/r/seduction	24/10/16 08:03 PM
2	Cut off girl after 3rd date Kino?	/r/seduction	09/04/16 12:21 AM
1	This Is What Happened When I Finally Let Her Go... I'm not sure how I feel about meeting up again. Assuming you're doing this whole thing to move on, how can meeting up with "the one who got away" help you to move on if you still have feelings for her? My brain is telling me that it's amazing advice, but that's only because I still miss her. I feel like intentionally seeing her again would remind me of all the things I've been trying so hard to forget. Maybe I'm just not very rational, but if we're really talking about "the one who got away" and…	/r/seduction	19/02/16 05:36 AM
1	Girl in relationship You want to climb out of the friendzone while she's in a relationship? That'll mean either stopping being her "friend", or trying to take her from her current boyfriend. From personal experience I wouldn't recommend the latter, but it's up to you. Make sure you're clear on why you enjoy talking to her if you want to keep doing it. If you have feelings for her it'd be best to stop so you don't get oneitis. You might become the guy she comes to with all of her problems but none of her sex. Otherwi…	/r/seduction	15/02/16 04:43 PM
6	How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend? I definitely don't intend on pursuing. I got involved with the other girl who pulled this on me, and she broke my heart. Cheaters aren't good people. What I'm wondering is how I should react during the fact. I just feel embarrassed and have to pretend like I wasn't pursuing them romantically from the start. I'm not sure what kind of message that sends as compared to being honest and saying something along the lines of "why didn't you tell me you had a boyfriend?"	/r/seduction	13/12/15 12:45 AM
1	When all odds are against you, use this to turn it around That was really motivating, thanks. You're a strong man for not acknowledging your ex when she texted you, I think I would've caved.	/r/seduction	04/12/15 04:51 PM
1	Walk away from friendship, or accept it for what it is and go back to fishing? Amazing advice. I lost a similar fwb from getting too clingy and trying to push a relationship on her. I'll keep this in mind for the future.	/r/seduction	01/12/15 04:55 PM