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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice]	[FIELD REPORT]	cantstfu	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/16 03:51 PM
1	What to do when you disagree with his opinion about something that only affects you?		cantstfu	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/16 03:14 PM

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1	What to do when you disagree with his opinion about something that only affects you? we're not engaged but we have agreed we both see each other as good husband/wife prospects and hope we are together for a really long time. I want to show him I'm wife material and trust him. We just talked again and he seems to really be pushing for me to stay based on the fact I could probably resolve the differences- but I feel uncomfortable telling my boss he needs to fire his wife, cut back on my hours, offer up more vacation, pay me more money, and maybe not take on so many crazy clients. …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/16 04:02 PM
1	What to do when I disagree with his decision?? I'm in a similar situation to OP except the roles are reversed- I got a job offer and my BF is really encouraging me to stick with my current one. The thing is, the new job is less hours, less stressful, slightly more money, and would train me for a position that would almost double my salary that I could have in a year. I'm not even concerned about the money- I'm just so stressed and last Friday my boss made me deliver documents somewhere and I was on the road until 8pm- which interfered with d…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/16 02:41 PM
1	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice] Yeah that's definitely how I was feeling. The more he didn't pay attention to me the more I thought he was spiting me/not listening/not taking me seriously and so it escalated the importance to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/16 08:12 PM
2	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice] I'm not trying to argue, but here's the analogy from my side: Imagine you're a bartender and this customer comes in a lot so you start giving him free drinks. The customer shows his gratitude by tipping you a lot. Slowly, the customer gets used to the free drinks, but slows down on the tipping. I was essentially being the bartender saying "hey man don't you think you should tip me more?" but really a tip is something that is extra, not owed. Still butthurt though. I don't like your light company…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/16 08:11 PM
2	Bringing the sparkles back I needed to read this. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/16 09:44 PM
2	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice] Thank you :) I just hope I can do this before he realizes how awful I've been	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/16 09:39 PM
2	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice] but also feeling entitled to the honeymoon phase going on indefinitely. Rationally you know that can't happen, but part of you expects it to anyway. Yes. I mean this is my longest and probably most serious relationship and while I've always heard about how the honeymoon phase dies out, this is my first experience dealing with it first hand and I guess I just thought I was so awesome that I could singlehandedly keep it going forever. Talk about control issues. "I'm going to have to not say anythi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/16 09:38 PM
4	This is what happens when you can't hold your tongue [FR][Advice] You didn't let him go out. You're not his mother. You did a great job on realizing it but subtle things like that can continue to creep up on you. OMG thank you SOOO much for picking up on that and pointing it out! You're right. I must be doing other small things like that that are making him resent me. Like take a hot bubble bath.... alone! This has actually become my Friday night routine and I'd be lying if I said I'd rather be out with my girl friends. When you are around someone all the time…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/16 09:32 PM