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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to. It sounds like you spent a long time trying to date others but no time trying to date yourself. When you want something you come from a position of weakness. When you don't care then you come from a sense of abundance and no attachment to outcome. You don't need to formalize things in some academic/rational sense by learning specific scripts/skills/therapies, etc. What you need to do is accept yourself, enjoy yourself, and develop yourself. You'll know you're there because when you are alone you…	/r/seduction	05/11/20 09:18 AM
–	Tinder is disgusting..pathetic The bragging would probably happen even without Tinder (as can be seen by OP's story about cold approaching). The reason is simple: Guys always have to put fourth far more effort than women to have sex...so it becomes an accomplishment like anything else that's difficult...which leads to people bragging in the same way as driving a fancy car. Girls do the same thing usually but about the guy's status/wealth instead of beauty. So the currency thing goes both ways...just with different things.	/r/seduction	31/12/19 10:03 AM
169	Oh... you're 19? You're not old enough to drink. They are. And they don't wanna hang out at Chuck E. Cheese.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 10:55 AM
1	Leonardo DiCaprio Dating Boundaries So...it's only creepy if they're not attracted to you? Got it.	/r/seduction	02/10/19 11:56 PM

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