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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Male Vulnerability I have sympathy for those who have genuinely been treated like this and are apprehensive about letting their guard down, I feel little sympathy for those who read a “how to be a real manly man” kind of blog or are addicted to watching vids on how to be an ~alpha~ and henceforth see themselves as their spouses dominant protector or whatever and operate on the assumption that their partner thinks they’re repulsive for being vulnerable and advocates for not seeing your wife as a supporter. That’s o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 09:58 PM
0	Male Vulnerability I can most definitely acknowledge there are women out there who don’t like men showing emotion and vulnerability, but this idea that you literally can’t show emotion or vulnerability lest they leave you and they’re inherently repulsed by you is just perpetuating that and making it worse. Imagine raising a child with that belief?I will reiterate my point about how anyone who thinks wives and girlfriends shouldn’t be a main source of support for their Male partner doesn’t have have much respect fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 07:46 PM
3	Does anyone find that women's resting btch face and other "defensive" techniques doesn't really deter you from approaching them? Do you actually think women who are just minding their business on the street are thinking about how they look to you all the time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 04:00 AM
1	Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ? I have no idea whether I’m considered by outsiders as the attractive one in my relationship or not (because my boyfriend thinks I am but I think he is), all I know is that I’m obsessed with looking at how pretty he is. Like will legit just stare at him sometimes and wonder how he’s mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 03:57 AM
0	Male Vulnerability I’m not being rude but is seriously how you go about living your life?Never allowing yourself to express negative emotion around a significant other?Assuming they’ll leave you for being authentic and honest?Then surely they’re in love with a fake version of you? I’m being honest but it honestly doesn’t sound like you think highly of women if you can’t see your wife being a main source of support for you and assume they find you repulsive for showing emotion. Idk how you can go about life assumin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 03:43 AM
1	Do women want to be told why a guy they like isn't dating them yet? Interesting question. In the case of them liking me and us having had dated but them being put off by something I’ve said or whatever, I would much rather they just come out and SAY IT. My partner does this thing when he’s annoyed with me where he sits and broods over it for ages before actually talking about the issue and it drives me NUTS. If there’s a problem, I want to to know!I can’t cope with people obviously having a problem and not vocalising it. It makes me nervous. I’m good at picking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 03:05 AM

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