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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?		capbassboi	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:13 PM

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2	Friend and I used to go out and ask every girl at the club if they wanted to get out of there immediately, No? Next girl. Never failed This is legit why I hate so much PUA advice because you're just gonna end up sleeping with weirdos.	/r/seduction	18/06/26 09:21 PM
5	Got laid for the first time in five months, last time was with my ex, third girl in six years OP I'm in a similar dry spell and also highly suspicious of myself being spectrum coded as fuck. Your post gives me inspiration	/r/seduction	27/04/26 11:51 AM
15	How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful women Could a fellow autist lend some advice on getting over social/approach anxiety because it's killing me right now 🥺	/r/seduction	19/03/26 03:38 PM
1	What are the things that can seduced a man? A huge thing for me is friendliness. I love a woman who's really smiley and thoughtful. Importantly however, not passive.	/r/seduction	27/06/25 09:03 AM
4	The Most Attractive Male Body Yeah definitely, but I think looks aren't as difficult for a guy to have down. It's basically, shower, have a good haircut and don't be completely out of shape. For women, their looks are, often unjustly, much more important and harder to get right	/r/seduction	17/06/25 07:39 AM
3	The Most Attractive Male Body I think with women looks are far less important as a priority. Confidence and purpose goes way further. As long as you're not grotesquely ugly and you carry yourself well then it's not really anything to be concerned with.	/r/seduction	17/06/25 06:08 AM
1	Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoever Hinge is the only dating app I've gotten laid off lmao. If I had any thoughts it would probably be that more interesting personalities frequent Hinge. Tinder is much more looks focused.	/r/seduction	12/06/25 09:07 AM
9	We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for them You know it's funny the same thing happened to me recently but in the opposite fashion where she got with a taller stronger and more handsome guy than me so I'm left feeling like I'm the 'loser' so to speak; but that's stupid. It's clearly just a compatibility thing, but I have bad self esteem lmao	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:30 PM
2	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Are you one of the good ones then?	/r/seduction	23/09/22 03:16 PM
1	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2014_Isla_Vista_killings	/r/seduction	23/09/22 02:54 PM
1	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Keep doing what you're doing then, but always seek to improve. I'm no expert on this, but I know that confidence is the most attractive thing in a man, hands down. Work on feeling good in yourself and watch how your life changes.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:46 AM
10	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Take responsibility for being rejected then, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Don't just subtly lie to yourself and say if you keep getting rejected its women's fault for not even giving you a chance. Besides, if you're dropping your standards, don't you think they'll notice; and standards go way beyond looks. Rejection hurts, but you can always do something about it. This is all cliché shit I'm about to say, but get some goals, work on your physique, try out new hobbies, talk to as many people as you can…	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:37 AM
10	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value I can sure as hell tell you the answer isn't prejudicial and violent behaviour towards women.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:23 AM
12	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Oh without a doubt. Incels are disgusting human beings.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:48 PM
43	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value This is the thing, incels bitch that they can't get laid but they'd never go for a fat chick or someone with a deformed face. So they can admit to having certain standards but then get crushed when women expect the same, lmao fucking losers.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:18 PM
-16	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? Isn't that called sexual harassment?	/r/seduction	07/09/22 03:06 PM
2	How do I get rid of this bottled up frustration from being unable to attract women as a 26year old male? I’m always alone and have no one to talk to and it makes me so mad because I can’t figure it out. Just be like Alex from Clockwork Orange, that will get you laid OP (THIS IS AN OBVIOUS JOKE)	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:32 PM
12	How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested? Tinder is fucked. One of my workmates in my last place was a very handsome guy, well built good masculine build, good facial fearures and he was very confident and good with women. Had a double digits body count and was in a relationship. I spoke to him about tinder and he instantly just told me to delete it because it's a waste of time. Even he never got matches or any significant dates on that app. Tinder is not a good app for dating. The mechanics of the app are skewed way too much in favour …	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:29 PM
-2	What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t? I think it might be this thing called . . . Misogyny???	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:44 AM
1	How the hell do people do this But OP, you literally said in your post that you don't ask women out. Maybe that's the problem? Go out to a bar or a club, practice speaking to strangers, smile and show a bit of charisma and energy and try and get some numbers or initiate further depending on the vibe. Simply put, you're gonna get rejected a lot, but unfortunately this is the way of life and you have to respect how many dickheads women deal with on a daily basis and not a lot of them are going to always be receptive to flirty b…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:10 PM
3	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Oh I bet. I'm quitting porn because it's a waste of time anr energy. I genuinely do believe my insecurities with women are just porn based. If when a beautiful woman smiles at you your first thought is 'how can I fuck them' you're setting yourself up for failure in life. Really regret not having made more friends with women in my life but I'm gonna try and change that (bit tangential, apologies).	/r/seduction	03/09/22 09:11 PM
3	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Yeah, like though game seems like an appealing idea to me and something I'd like to try, ultimately if my girlfriend is super fucking cool and super fucking hot, why would I want to fuck anyone else? Realistically, it's likely a porn fantasy which has been exacerbated by the ooga booga male brain.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 08:54 PM
34	Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club. No point in getting hung up on it as annoying as it can be. Keep talking to women and you'll keep finding those who are attracted you.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 02:47 PM
1	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? Somebody's gotta wear the pants lmao	/r/seduction	06/08/22 02:31 AM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? My ex gf was a 'feminist' and whilst my time dating did sadly expose some underlying problematic views of my own, most of her rhetoric was about how much she hated men and about how perfect all women were. Got old real fast.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 02:30 AM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? I think what you're actually describing here and what is being talked about is known as the 'ick', which is basically like a black hole for women finding a guy unattractive, except it can normally be really bizarre things that give them the ick. You can find hundreds of twitter threads explaining why women have gotten the ick over someone. It makes sense really. Women will do anything or find any reason not to be attracted to someome, whereas men are the complete opposite which is what makes it …	/r/seduction	06/08/22 02:23 AM
1	Where to find girls who are more low key Lmao dude you are a model example of how not to behave to attract women, it's actually hilarious.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 05:24 AM
2	Where to find girls who are more low key So all people that like shagging are incapable of enjoying all these things you mentioned? I don't think that's true. How about you work on your social skills and try talking to as many people as possible and see what happens.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 05:19 AM
1	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach? Yeah tbh my thinking with this is to just get myself into situations where I'm conversing with a lady naturally, and from then on if I notice I'm building rapport try to physically escalate etc. But if I'm so obsessed with getting laid and I'm so insecure with women, I'm not gonna want them kinds of thoughts in my mind when I'm pushing myself WAY out my comfort zone	/r/seduction	20/07/22 12:01 AM
8	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach? Flirting is a bad one for me. I've been rejected quite a few times in the last year and I suspect the reason is every single time I didn't make my feelings clear and then asked them out on a date but there was no sexual or romantic pretext for that question to justifiably exist. In fairness, I've been working on my physique since I've started going climbing and I also have a definitive life purpose which I am devoting myself to. I know I'm not an unattractive person in terms of general profile, …	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:31 PM
2	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach? Cool man, did you do the same and just approach and not worry about the end result?	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:25 PM
3	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach? Yeah that makes a lot of sense, thanks for this advice.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:22 PM
2	QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach? Ok. Forgive me for asking, but how does this work if your sole intention going out is to get laid? EDIT: I think this is an interesting point, I'm not doubting you at all.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 11:17 PM
1	A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical Man This post is great. I actually think along the lines of what you were describing in part 3 about not settling for mediocrity. I'm a musician, and a damn good one at that. My goal is to change music forever, release culturally groundbreaking albums and be regarded as a legend in musical history. I've been told that this is arrogant by people before, funnily enough people that I'm no longer friends with.	/r/seduction	23/02/22 04:42 AM