capncck Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	I need help reading women and reciprocating compliments. Working at a strip club is messing with my head (hopefully in a good way). (X-posted from r/dating_advice) Aka don't shit where you eat.	/r/seduction	22/12/13 07:48 PM
2	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too this should be at the very top. this is exactly what OP needs to hear. when i initially read the post, the ex didnt factor in. after this comment it all makes sense.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 01:32 AM
4	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too you clearly know your way around 'da ladies' dont you? alright, well i shouldnt have generalized, my fault. however, im gathering this line of reasoning from firsthand experience, so i couldnt care less if you think youre right. there are very very few things that are a turn-off if youre an attractive guy and you frame yourself right.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 08:36 PM
24	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too 100 bucks says she's (somewhat) insecure that the sub-par performance was somehow her fault, or that she wasnt attractive enough. girls publicly disapprove of premature ejaculators, but they secretly love having the power to throw a dude's marbles all out of whack; its a huge ego boost for them. conversely, a problem in performance could be interpreted as her fault, by her. if she really feels like that, and OP gives her REALLY GOOD sex next time, he's in for good (if thats what he wants).	/r/seduction	08/08/12 07:48 PM
3	My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my life ive heard opposite from a counselor. putting your credibility with others at stake helps motivate you towards self improvement. take it with a grain of salt obviously, since this strategy would only backfire on those who use failure as an attempt to 'gain control' over their lives.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 06:59 PM
4	How to Make out And yet I see nothing about messing with their ears... After a few minutes of making out (and depending on the mood at hand as well) I like to move down to the side of her neck, give her a few smooches there, and then move up to her ear. I find that 90% of them go absolutely nuts for this. Don't kiss her ear, rather, give the earlobe a little nibble, lightly blow some hot air on her ear, or whisper something dirty. Bonus effect if you bring out your 'primal' passionate side out while you do this…	/r/seduction	30/03/12 09:40 PM
3	[FR] An impossible success and an ordinary failure You might not have blown it IMO, hit her up and invite her out in a week or two to test the waters. I have similar game problems to yours my man, but I hope my advice helps you out a bit. For this particular FR, I'd say that your failure was largely in part due to the situation you put yourself in. The problem started when you went back to their place. It's hard to be in the spotlight like you were and run good game at the same time. Additionally, as an invitee in someone's home, it's hard to st…	/r/seduction	24/01/12 06:33 PM
1	crazy regrets drunken hookup, decides it was rape. feminists encourage her to take action, how about she get some non-insane advice... She changed her no to a yes. Under all your postings you say this. If a girl says no to sex on the first date, but yes to sex on the 10th date, I bet you'd still call it rape... Because she said no a month ago. (this is all under your definition buddy).	/r/MensRights	27/12/11 07:03 PM
–	crazy regrets drunken hookup, decides it was rape. feminists encourage her to take action, how about she get some non-insane advice... Stop being so radical and emotional, it makes people roll their eyes at you and ignore your message. That woman's "friend" is a piece of shit, I agree. His actions stink of manipulation and he tried very, very hard to get laid that night. Hell, I'd say he even deserves an asskicking by the BF if he could manage it. Stop calling it rape though, because it wasn't. If she had maintained a steady 'no', then yes, it's rape. If he had forced her violently, then yes, it's rape. However, that's not what…	/r/MensRights	26/12/11 08:34 AM
1	Not sure how /r/seduction feels about comics, but this is a comic on how I interpret on how oneitis -> friend zoned. (Hold mouse over picture for witty comment) Nowhere was it mentioned that seddit is only-sex-matters, or that making friends with women is a bad thing. What IS wrong is pining after some girl who just thinks you're friends. I am not wrong when I say that doing so is an absolute waste of time.	/r/seduction	23/12/11 04:51 PM
0	Not sure how /r/seduction feels about comics, but this is a comic on how I interpret on how oneitis -> friend zoned. (Hold mouse over picture for witty comment) right? I can't believe that reply has that many upvotes on seddit. There is not much value in this relationship, actually, I can safely say it's probably lowering his quality of life. This guy probably developed feelings for his friend because there were no other women in his life for him to keep his urges satisfied. So he turns his sights to his friend, with no backup mind you. With that attitude though, I can't say I'm surprised.	/r/seduction	20/12/11 09:24 PM
1	[FR4] AFC finally made a move, kino kino kino! finger close Fingering a girl isn't a contract or voucher for sex at a later date. Hell, sex isn't even a guarantee for later sex. Did you hover around her after the finger close? I'm really interested in more detail of YOUR actions post-finger-bang.	/r/seduction	14/10/11 05:58 PM
1	Feeling bad/confused about talking to other girls. What to do? Infatuation is never good for anything long term. The only time I've ever experienced infatuation end in a good way is when it is artificially terminated, such as being infatuated with some girl on a cruise, it's artificial and it's nice, but it ends. Be careful when you find yourself in a thought process that lets your infatuation grow. It very often ends in disappointment and consequently, trouble. I'm a romantic, so I hate telling people that infatuation is not beneficial, but I don't even ex…	/r/seduction	03/10/11 08:28 AM
2	Feeling bad/confused about talking to other girls. What to do? Don't fall into the dark pits of one-itis! Why don't you keep doing what you're doing? It obviously works right? Also, don't speculate on your future with this girl, doing so only creates expectations of her, whether you recognize it or not. Next thing you know, you're gonna get mad because you're (naturally) not the only guy talking to her. Best thing to do is to sit back, relax, and don't change your life or yourself one bit just because you made out with her. Try to see it for what it is, and…	/r/seduction	03/10/11 01:25 AM
11	Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gf It seems like a lot of these guys don't understand how the dynamics of 'game' change in a long term relationship. A good man has different roles to fulfill at different times in the relationship. If they were out with a group or she were out with her friends, there's no need to do that shit. In this situation however, OP taking on the role of protector was 100% the right thing to do.	/r/seduction	02/10/11 09:46 PM
1	Trying not to mess this one up. "I don't want to come off as if I have all the time in the world, you know?" But... you do. No, actually that's exactly what you want to do man. Call me perverse but I enjoy bringing out the desperate in a girl, it's so gosh-darn cute. Of course this only works if you've got something funny/interesting to say whenever she does try to contact you.	/r/seduction	26/09/11 04:37 PM
1	How do you say "I'm still a virgin" without losing value? If it's not by choice then you should avoid the topic. If you can't avoid the topic and direct the conversation, (which is what you've been saying) how can you expect to get with her?	/r/seduction	25/09/11 06:10 PM
1	How do I get guys like you to approach me? Do what you do! Those guys are fucking clueless. In my experience, during my interactions with women, there's always that one moment or action that just instinctively lets me know what's going down later(sexytime). It happens shortly before/after the first kiss (or the kiss might be it), and often changes the whole chemistry of the remainder of the night. After that, I'm 99% confident I will fuck your brains out later, so I get even more in the zone and let the good times roll, because there's a…	/r/seduction	20/09/11 05:52 PM
–	"It appears the couple had been involved in a very acrimonious break-up and the mother did not allow him to see his son a lot... He was very unhappy at this arrangement and it appears that if he wasn’t allowed to have his son then no one could have him." I agree, they're awful. I can't help but think that this is precisely the sort of thinking that needs to be avoided in MR, though. Seriously? Granted, the guy had issues. But: "Maybe if she'd allowed him more time with their son, it never would have happened" So this behavior is justifiable? We want the general public to recognize when women are to blame for shit like DV or infanticide, instead of "oh if he didn't cheat on her, he wouldn't be in the hospital." How can we have the moral ground to…	/r/MensRights	17/09/11 09:09 PM
–	"It appears the couple had been involved in a very acrimonious break-up and the mother did not allow him to see his son a lot... He was very unhappy at this arrangement and it appears that if he wasn’t allowed to have his son then no one could have him." What the hell does a woman's custody and whether or not they want the child have to do with my comment? Both women and men go to fuckin prison if they murder their children, there's nothing unfair about it. A man killing his kid for being denied rights to see him is just as petty and wasteful as any reason a woman could have for doing the same. IT'S WRONG, and no amount of mitigating circumstances for either sex will make it less wrong. I support MRM with all my being, but this is one of those s…	/r/MensRights	17/09/11 03:46 AM
–	"It appears the couple had been involved in a very acrimonious break-up and the mother did not allow him to see his son a lot... He was very unhappy at this arrangement and it appears that if he wasn’t allowed to have his son then no one could have him." If it were the woman who had murdered-suicided her kid because the father wouldn't let her see the child, my reaction would have been largely the same. That is, unless you can produce a quote from the article supporting your statement.	/r/MensRights	17/09/11 02:20 AM
–	"It appears the couple had been involved in a very acrimonious break-up and the mother did not allow him to see his son a lot... He was very unhappy at this arrangement and it appears that if he wasn’t allowed to have his son then no one could have him." Why has this been posted here? There's nothing for the subreddit to gain from this. It's tragic, and it's news, but that's as far as it goes with this article.	/r/MensRights	16/09/11 05:48 PM
19	Tips for handling multiple girls Everyone else is assuming that this guy is actually getting anywhere with this multitude of women. He's not, he said so himself. OP, I don't have much advice except for telling you that the cycle will continue to repeat itself until YOU change. It's easy to not give a fuck when there's no girls around for a while. However, when you attract groups, cliques, sets, whatever, you don't know how to handle the attention and end up AFC'ing it. Or more specifically, you act like an AFC towards each one …	/r/seduction	13/09/11 05:25 PM
0	If men who get women pregnant without their consent are reproductive abusers, surely women who get pregnant without the explicit consent of the men should be called the same? it's sarcasm. he's trying to comment on the biased discourse that pervades almost every single women's studies class out there. So to me, your idea doesn't seem like a good idea.	/r/MensRights	24/08/11 06:36 PM
1	[FR] here's a story in the female perspective. this guy doesn't know what he wants, this means he does like you, yet he's unsure of how much he likes you (which means not that much). If he were a 'player' he would have already set up a fwb situation, but then he went and fucked it up. Don't date or fuck idiots please, there's better specimens of our gender out there.	/r/seduction	08/08/11 07:30 PM
6	Casual or leave a note... Pfffft haha. What are ya gonna say? "from the dude who smiled at you in Subway"? She doesn't remember you man. Find a less creepy way to do it.	/r/seduction	24/06/11 04:52 PM
1	How well can you control your emotional state? have another drink.	/r/seduction	12/06/11 08:26 AM
–	"He defines dead beat. And for Father's day you should beat him dead." Some people really don't deserve children. There should be an extensive battery of aptitude tests before being allowed to legally conceive.	/r/MensRights	08/06/11 05:36 PM
2	Is the moderator of /r/feminisms conducting astroturfing campaign against /r/mensrights? Anyone watch the latest Workaholics episode? The one where Adam becomes his office landlord's little bitch? That's how I'm picturing this Aerik character right now. Also, with this permanently attached to his face: NSFW	/r/MensRights	03/06/11 07:42 PM
–	Man ordered to pay £100,000 for children after ex-wife tricks clinic into using his frozen sperm. Get out your barf bags for this one. I like how that judge thought the woman was getting the short end of the stick and decided she should get 100k pounds! This is why I will never marry a woman who doesn't work her ass off. At least if shit goes south I won't have to pay 60% of my income like that other guy around here.	/r/MensRights	29/05/11 03:59 PM