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Metacappadocianhawk/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:46 PM
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And tax records, birth certificate and credit score. Gotta make sure.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:59 AM
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It's like water to them, true. But they don't want to drink water, they can afford to take water for granted. They want to drink exotic stuff, they want to be intoxicated by it, they want the mix of the sweet and the bitter, they want to drink it all despite it being bad for them. That's where we come in.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:41 AM
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I understand them and think of it the same way I do when my cat tries to open up the can but he can't. No opposable thumbs, you know. It's cute and kinda pathetic. But mostly cute.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:38 AM
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Be high value so they'll want to take you out and buy things for you. It's all about being the prize. Your resources you use for what you want to do with them. If they think you're good enough, they'll spend theirs on you. I told a bitch I liked this author and she got me his latest book, signed. Invited her to my place to take the book off of her hands, cooked some sweet and sour chicken with her as "thanks". Then fucked her.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:33 AM
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She didn't want you to think she is a slut because that would lower her value in your eyes. Now you know, and it did. Women lie all the time about these things, it's what you should expect. Would have been worse for you if she said "Yeah it was a black guy with 20 inch cock and he would fuck me in every hole and I would come 5 times in 20 minutes." You would still feel like shit. Why stir up a hornet's nest?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:18 AM
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Eh, you're done. If she doesn't go through with it because you didn't want her to, she'll think you have been mate guarding and what could have been and you will lose value in her eyes. If she does become a bartender, well, I'm intimately familiar with that because of my work and even if she is the most virtuous of chicks eventually she will suck a dick or two. And when you've sucked two dicks, what's two more? And so on. Your winning move here is to tell her you'll respect whatever decision she…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:09 AM
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This is only the beginning. Only the strongest of us will survive the trials and tribulations ahead. I'm looking forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:52 AM
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They took away my 2 hours a week show on the local radio for saying that if you aren't trying to win at life you are losing by default and " I'm not playing this society game " mindset is just you rationalizing your loser mentality. Was getting bored anyway. Actionable advice is never listened to.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:30 PM
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It's not an easy job, as with owning any other business your work is your life so expect shit to go downhill when you aren't around. It's a really good TRP job because you see AWALT firsthand and since it's your own business you get used to leading and dealing with the consequences of your actions. Being in charge naturally helps a lot with owning your shit and ordering chicks around. Oh and people think you're cool and you get to know a lot of sluts. On the other hand keeping a healthy lifestyl…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 07:39 AM
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I own a bar, shit like this happens all the time. Deeply fascinating but terribly sad. Even saw bitches dance topless on top of the table when they only had non-alcoholic cocktails.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 08:59 PM
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Yeah because you can only fuck at night. Dude you already know the answer, be a man and stop kidding yourself. Happens to the best of us, it's time to start your journey.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:32 AM
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Makes you wonder if OP is jerking off to porn at home while his ltr is getting railed in the library or park or that other dude's home.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:31 AM
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That is true. They only lose value when you have enough of both so you can start to appreciate other things.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:23 AM
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A lot of things could have happened, maybe there was someone she liked or maybe she was playing games. Too late now for all that, not worth thinking or talking about. Your only winning move is not to play, just keep no contact. Think about it, if you break your hard next then what? She wins and you already know what happens if she wins. At least you have your dignity intact so far.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:21 AM
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Had a blast last week when a fwb told me I was the only person in her life who respected her. Why? Because I didn't give a fuck about what she thinks, I tell her what is what. She knows everyone else wants something from her and keep telling her what they think she wants to hear. So she feels they aren't thinking of her as a person. I should write a detailed report about it sometime, it was quite an experience. What you said about cool characters is true, when your individuality is sourced from …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 11:13 AM
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Some people never learn.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:42 AM
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I had thought enough money to live comfortably and having pussy on tap would make me happy. I guess I am happy, but there is always more to work towards to build a better me.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:40 AM
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Yeah, doesn't matter. Ask her now.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:27 AM
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Read the sidebar, you have a long way to go.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:11 AM
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I bet she is thinking about it as much as you do while getting spitroasted by chads. edit: To be helpful, when you're asking a girl out don't do stupid crap like "sometime". Define a date and tell her. Anything except her giving you a yes or a definite date for a reschedule is a no.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:07 AM
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If she was actually interested she would give her number. She is trying to keep you around for validation but won't give anything tangible ( sex ) to you. As far as you're concerned, she is useless and is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:04 AM
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She isn't into you.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:57 AM
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Ghost her.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:49 AM
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This is what I do. Works every time. If your SMV is high they'll know you're joking and assume you get a ton of sex.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:42 AM
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Thought about it but it's easy for someone to hamster their oneitis into friendship and slip into a "nice guy" orbiter status and think that is okay. I like my clear cut way of looking at things, another guy already defined friendship in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:46 PM
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That is correct. However I feel having female friends is advanced since many newbies will think they are friends with girls they want to have sex with and that is not okay ( neither is that friendship). I always end up having sex with my female friends at some point and it goes downhill from there. I just stopped thinking about it your way. edit: I still talk to chicks whom I don't want to fuck, but I wouldn't call them friends since I won't spend any moment with them if it doesn't advance my pe…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:43 PM
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I'll defer to your experience on that. I haven't had the same results.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:40 PM
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I have friends to do friend stuff with. If I wanted friends with drama, maybe. I get your point.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:12 PM
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Which is altogether different than "enjoying their company".
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:11 PM
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Some of them, maybe. However within the bounds of this forum, words have certain meanings as it is with every social circle. What meaning they might have outside this space has no bearing on my post.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:52 PM
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Why would I enjoy her company if I'm not fucking her?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:51 PM
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It's literally what the word means.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:50 PM
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You forgot: Fart in her asshole then ghost
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:16 PM
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It's always about the women. Men exist to fuck women, it's the only biological imperative we have. You can't be a man if you aren't fucking women.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:15 PM
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Do whatever you want. If you care about her then do it in person and make it about you and not her. If you don't, then call her and do some small talk and say " Oh we're breaking up, by the way. " In your case I'd just keep going until it crashes and burns, if you told her repeatedly that you're not exclusive how can it be your fault if she thinks so? Maybe she is alright with sharing but doesn't want to admit it?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:43 AM
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You have to look out for yourself because to everyone else you are a tool to be used to get what they want. Even if another person cares deeply about you, they are still going after the feelz they get when they see you do well. It's still about them, not you. We are social creatures but we are also deeply individualistic. Every human interaction is a transaction. Don't sell yourself on the cheap.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 07:39 AM
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I'm going to another city for a business thing today. There's a girl I know who lives there. On Monday I texted her: "I'm in your area on Friday, we can get a few drinks in the evening." She texted: "I'm quite busy atm I don't know if I'll be free" So I replied: "No worries." Then no contact at all, trying to convince her is a losing strategy. I think I'll just approach someone or have fun by myself, it's a big city. Won't get bored. Then today she asks me if I'm still coming. As if I was doing …
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:28 AM
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You can either pretend it never happened and move on with your life or you can accept it happened and move on as if it never happened. It's only a big deal if you show you are vulnerable.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:18 AM
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Well put. This is slave morality at work. Nature is amoral. The crocodile doesn't care about the gazelle he is eating. Who cares if it's a baby? Croc needs to eat, so he eats. TRP teaches you how to be a hunter. It's always about if you are strong enough to take what you want. Some don't, and they make up reasons. The same reason half the asktrp doesn't really want to hear the hard answers or make up excuses for their orbiter behaviour. You can morally justify anything as long as you don't show …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:05 PM
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Best sex I ever had was fucking an ex after she got married to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 08:42 AM
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Those girls are getting side dicks all the time while pretending to be "good girls with good honest boyfriends".
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 08:32 AM
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Well done, enjoy the fruits of your labors but don't forget too much fruit makes you fat.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:07 AM
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Be better in other areas and accept what you can't change. Then work harder on what you can.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:06 AM
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Don't be most people. Be top 10%.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:05 AM
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If you can't manage to read the rules before posting, how do you expect to keep a bitch in line?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:58 PM
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Giving dick to unworthy sluts is charity. We are very generous men.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:49 PM
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Get naked and stand in front of a mirror. Would you fuck yourself? If the answer is no, you need to work harder. Take a look at your bank account. Do you have enough money to do whatever you want for the next few months and not get bankrupt? If not, you need to work harder. When you're out with your friends, observe the conversations. Do they hang onto your words and respect you and your opinions? If not, you need to work harder. TRP deals with reality. Reality is your best friend. Face it, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:48 PM
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Personal questions go to the asktrp subreddit, orbit less women read more sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:49 AM
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Now that you're out of the game and don't care about her at all ( even though you posted about her here of all places ) PM me her number so I can take her for a ride. You know you've lost when a thot makes you quit dating altogether when you're 19 and should be the most sexually active. She doesn't even care one bit, she'll keep guzzling jizz every day. Many more guys like you in the sea after all.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:59 PM
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That's it. I don't give any fucks whatsoever what happens after I die. I work to improve myself and get better because I want to enjoy everything life offers while I'm alive. Good food, fast cars, pretty women. I wasn't born rich or with great genes so I have to work for it. You don't get to choose the cards you're handed but you choose what you do with them. If you don't think there is any difference between fucking a HB9 and watching porn, you don't need to get to a point where you are fucking…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:52 PM
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I've been told by a doctor to drink soda instead of commercial orange juice. They are both bad, but soda is significantly less bad. Drink water instead, though.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:23 AM
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And I'm here because people like you showed me the way. TRP is men helping each other out. That's what men do. We build. It's hard to break out of bluepill conditioning and a lot of people here haven't internalized the core concepts but that's why we have someone posting about lifting and the basics every 15 minutes or so. Eventually it will get through the thickest of skulls. Sure there is quite a lot of humblebrag mental masturbation in here but that's also what men do. A wise man once said: "…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 08:40 AM
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You need martial arts. Lifting heavier and heavier with the fat powerlifter look is a good personal goal and commendable, but OP is right. Martial arts allows you to be really muscular AND lean while still having a lot of room for personal growth. Be a warrior/poet. The chicks love that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 08:30 AM
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Looking obviously muscular is such a good deterrent when confronting someone. I've seen this a lot in my line of work. Nobody really wants to fight a guy who looks like he can break you in half. And people become a lot more respectful towards you in every conversation when you're bigger. It's unreal.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 08:22 AM
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I firmly believe feminism will collapse on itself. Such a shame it will take the western civilization with it. However, it's not so bad. What doesn't work must be destroyed and replaced with something that does. Humanity will eventually find the balance. Not my problem anyhow, I'll be long dead before any of that comes to pass. I'm doing rather well for myself which is all that matters in the end.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:49 AM
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My advice to you is to read the rules and ask in the correct subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:48 AM
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A plate I've been doing once a month for almost a year now told me I didn't understand female nature at all. "Your mum disagrees with that statement" I told her. Then we fucked. Treat them like the teenagers they are and you will get results. Now where did I read this before? Oh right. The sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 04:31 AM
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"She seemed to like my cock while it was jammed inside her throat, your honor." doesn't sound very good, even if it is true. The director did the right thing and if anyone would know about being safe regarding rape claims it would be the porn industry, come to think of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:40 PM
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My advice? Learn to read the rules and post it in the correct subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:30 PM
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It's funny how that post explains a lot of things I have been writing/talking about in the last year or so. Definitely a good read.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 02:11 PM
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First, no moralizing. I take my cat to the vet for his vaccinations and he hates it. Obviously the needles hurt him and he's scared. I don't do this for my enjoyment, he needs to get vaccinated for his own good, and the pain and anxiety is sad but that's life. I certainly don't enjoy listening to him crying as if we're taking him to the butcher shop. Same goes with women, I apply the TRP principles not because I enjoy keeping her in a constant state of fear, I do it so I can get pussy on demand …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:52 PM
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I wouldn't tell her. And if she found out and asked about it, I'd tell her it never came up and wasn't important. Because it isn't.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:43 PM
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If you're a high value man with leadership skills, people will gravitate towards you naturally. You don't build a social circle, the circle builds itself because people want to spend time with and around you.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:40 PM
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So I was sitting at a nice café yesterday with a few friends, a weekly thing we do every thursday to compare notes and keep in touch. We had just finished our first round of coffee and a waitress comes up and asks if we want their fresh lemonade since it's hot outside. We said we wanted to try. She comes up a few minutes later and asks if we want mint in our lemonade. I said: "Yeah but don't blend the mint, you'll ruin it. Bruise a few leaves and put those in." She nodded and starting going away…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:43 AM
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You don't. You've become an orbiter, Harry. Good on you for wanting out of inceldom and we'll help! But that involves changing how you think about things. Let me explain: Telling her you thought she was cute is a mistake, you are giving validation and that puts you at a disadvantage. I would tell her she looked like she might be smarter than the average instagram bimbo. That isn't exactly a compliment and if she's interested in you she will try to qualify herself by trying to prove how she reall…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:23 AM
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I don't have the time to play games, I'm doing X at Y, wear something nice. Next if she doesn't want to.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:17 AM
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Oh boy you've fucked up. If she's working at an alcohol serving business and you aren't high value, she's not your LTR anymore. And let's be honest, if you're doing surprise visits and asking how to make her want you again: You are low value. She will be around much higher quality men than you are and who can blame her if she loses her feelings for you since you're an insecure little bitch? Make no mistake, this is entirely on you. Read the sidebar, fucking be a man and next this chick since you…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:12 AM
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Time and time again it has been said: "You can't use TRP for your blue pill goals." Sure you'll probably get her for a while, but a gold coated shit is still shit. She'll find out. You reprogram yourself to become a man capable of handling anything, then you'll see your life getting a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:01 AM
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Very true on the part if you aren't challenged you won't grow. If you're getting too comfortable in life you need to get out of your comfort zone. A man always needs to push harder, you don't know what tomorrow will bring. Your utopia today might be in ruins tomorrow, better get comfortable being uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:56 AM
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When I say I berate them I don't directly insult them ( unless we're in bed, then I'll be sure to remind her how powerless she is when I could crush her with my bare hands ). Since I have a philosophy degree and most of the bitch patrol have no idea how logic works it's very easy to get to a superior position and stay there. I'll just feed them some line about how their entire reasoning has no epistemological foundation and will continue to dismiss their feeble attempts as children playing in a …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:22 PM
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Life got a lot easier when I stopped worrying about small mistakes or obstacles and started treating them like little adventures. I was in a city I didn't know well yesterday and I ended up getting off the bus in the wrong stop. I talked to a few locals, had a great cup of coffee in a small cafe and took a lot pictures while making my way back to where I was supposed to go. Old me would have been livid but now I have much bigger fish to fry. Shit will always go wrong, it's in your power to choos…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:16 PM
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Didn't happen to me, although I took great care with my micros and used supplements when needed. Most of the problems with keto come from lacking electrolytes and if you don't get enough it will indeed be terrible.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:49 PM
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Taking care of yourself and being fit says a lot about you. I see a lot of people here being squeamish about lifting or exercise in general which is frankly retarded. In a month it won't even be hard anymore ( well it will be hard if you're doing it right but you'll learn to love it because you'll see results ) and when you can see the physical fruits of your labors you'll have to start eating better. You'll replace your hentai and fast food obsession with health and moving heavy things around. …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:31 AM
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You can save yourself and then she will have to make her own mind if she wants to save herself. And you can't do that if you didn't come to accept that there is a good chance the marriage is over. That is true idgaf and outcome independence. Can't control other people anyhow, maybe your turn is over.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:17 AM
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Very good. It's not about her, it's about you.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:18 AM
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Don't read reddit, go lift and run.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:56 PM
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Not going to read any of that shit because the answer doesn't change. You don't need to stay faithful. Do what you want. You only answer to yourself. If the roles were reversed and she was feeling less attracted, she'd be riding another cock as we speak.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:54 PM
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That's moralizing. Fighting doesn't only happen in a physical level. If you stare a man down, that's the same as beating his ass to the ground, but you don't get the law on your tail. Most people who think fighting is cool haven't been really hurt, or seen people they care about get hurt. I've seen people get murdered in the streets for silly shit like not being able to get into a club. When shit gets physical, there is always a chance that someone might die or get seriously injured, maybe for l…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:49 PM
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Depends on where and when. If I'm in my bar, I'd get the security to throw him out. If I'm out in the street and there are witnesses, I'd let him hit me and then press charges as been said. If I'm out alone in an alleyway, well I've been boxing for a few years so I hope karate is as useless as I hear it is in a street fight. Despite popular belief, fighting isn't cool.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:46 PM
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Any feminist I've fucked I've berated from the moment we met to the moment I ghosted. They are surrounded by "feminist allies" who are basically white knight soyboys that can't generate tingles for the life of them. You give them the tough love they crave and you can have some of the craziest sex of your life from the most unexpectedly submissive women. On the other hand, if you catch feels or show any weakness, you are done for.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:39 PM
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He didn't want to fuck them, he wanted them to love him. As bluepill as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:31 PM
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This post reminds me of when I had a girl lie next to me in bed naked begging me to fuck her but I didn't. On the other hand, we shared great grandparents.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:30 PM
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I bet someone is going to try and explain to his only "plate" that she is attracted to him because he is alpha and the science boys say so.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:28 PM
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You don't need to explain the ideology, you can tell your friends women are more attracted to you if you don't give them free attention. The problem is how agressive some people can be while sharing their newfound truths.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:31 AM
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While you are right, it's normal to want to "save" your friends. That's what men do. On the other hand fuck them if they don't want to be saved and forget them, of course.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:27 AM
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Good advice. Don't eat too much fruit though, fruit sugar is fructose which is really bad for your insulin levels and you will get too fat too soon. Try to eat berries and raw nuts in reasonable portions instead. Just putting it out there for the guys who think fruit = healthy = I can eat as much as I want.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 12:59 PM
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They have something else that appeals to the chicks they've been fucking. You can't really learn to think, but you can lift heavy and dress well, will make you look reasonably good. Good, reliable way to become attractive. Just need discipline.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:01 AM
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Hot air, get it? It really is clever. Yeah I'm from Cappadocia, I'm also a bird.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:00 AM
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Well done. The trick is to never take them seriously. You wouldn't judge a cat for being a cat doing cat things, but if your cat started giving you shit about non-cat things, you would laugh at her. The same idea applies to women.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:31 PM
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Good. More 7+ thots for me. None of this matters. Only important thing in your life is you. Be attractive. That's what matters. Lift, be fun to be around, and you don't need to worry about how below average girls don't get it on with average guys because of inflated self worth. It's true, but also redundant. I went to the hospital because of an UTI ( yeah I know ) and the doctor listened to my heart and sent me off to get an ECG. The ECG room was small, only enough room for the machine, two very…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:21 PM
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It's also true. Be a man and you will get pussy. Society has made it very hard for boys to grow into men, that is the problem.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:19 PM
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Being boring is all on you. Go have fun, find like minded people. You don't need to have a lot of money to do interesting things ( although it helps ) Also as long as you keep putting off talking to women, you'll never get anywhere. Oh I'll just wait till I'm ripped, oh I'm just waiting for my next pay raise, it's all just you hamstering your insecurities and not having the courage to go out and do things. So go out and do things, cut useless people from your life, while doing things you'll meet…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:14 AM
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Try to put a finger in her ass.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:11 AM
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Wasted potential, what else is new? Our forefathers built a glorious world with abundance and relatively little threats, and we've given it all away for pussy. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 09:33 AM
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If you want to fuck other girls, fuck other girls. You make your own rules, you construct your own morality. Let nobody lecture you, not in your real life, not here.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:24 AM
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Don't dig through the trash, gaming your ex is scarcity. There are millions of hot chicks out there.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:19 AM
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Lost a lot of weight with Keto. Still eating very low carb and trying to keep away from the refined sugars. I do indulge sometimes though, not with candy bars and soft drinks but with good expensive food. Important bit is not to let it get away from you, just keep it to once or twice a week and keep an eye on your macros and micros. Oh and I don't drink alcohol either. Well, more like I drink once a year because it's a tradition among our friends, but we got down from a few bottles to a glass ea…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 05:53 AM
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I get way better interactions with people who didn't see me at my worst. Halo effect is real. Most people who've known me from before don't appreciate any of my improvements.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:54 AM
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Getting higher SMV or just getting somewhere better in life is a very easy way of seeing who your real friends are. When I lost weight and starting building muscle only a handful of the hundreds of people I know supported me. Rest were like "You've lost enough weight, you'll be too skinny and horrible" when I was 20% bodyfat. What a shame.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:52 AM
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As long as you learn something from it, failure is one of the greatest things that can happen to you. Knowing what not to do is just as important as knowing what to do.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:28 PM
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Fucking your ex and/or making her a plate or sex slave or whatever is a bluepill fantasy that will only prevent you from establishing a strong frame, even if you manage to do it; the mental and emotional vulnerabilities you refused to address in such a quest is ultimately detrimental.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:20 PM
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Billions of women on this planet and you go for the one who has already demonstrated she isn't worth your time. Let me write it down for you in simple terms If you aren't fucking her but are still listening to her bs, you are her tampon. Even if you are fucking her you still shouldn't listen, but that's too advanced for most people here.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:07 PM
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Well I really couldn't give anything concrete, English isn't my mother tongue and I couldn't do the word play but let me make something up for you: Let's say there was this chick and I kept telling her to wear something sky blue. It's a thing between us. Now I might post something like " The sky is a perfect blue today, so you get 25% discount on all cocktails that are sky blue until 8PM " on my bar's twitter and obviously when she reads it she'll get the reference but won't be sure if I really …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:46 PM
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I'm talking about why the society created this blue pill, I have no interest in partaking in it. A lot of what you say is true, obviously there is no inherent value in human life or anything we do with it apart from what value we put into it ourselves. Nature doesn't care. You're either strong enough to survive, or you are weak and you die feeding the rest of the ecosystem. The laws of physics doesn't care no matter what. It's a whole another red pill. Except, if you are religious you can justif…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:41 PM
1

If you are doing something with social media as I sometimes have to do because of owning a business, I try to write something that touches to a lot of to women I'm talking with. Little things only they would notice but can't be sure of. Makes their hamster go crazy. But never go full on it, just something very small. Every time I post something, some of them suddenly decide to talk to me even after months of no contact. Hamster is a powerful thing, use it well. Remember, even if you broke up 10 …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:33 PM
1

Stop texting her. Meet up with her somewhere, take her to your place, show off your body while switching to your "home" clothes then fuck her. Even if she replies to everything you say, you're still giving her attention while you aren't fucking her. This way leads to the friendzone even though you think you are making progress. That's how you get baited. Don't be scared, escalate escalate escalate and if it doesn't work out, there are millions of more of them. Stop wasting time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:30 PM
1

Human life is important and sacred because we decided it wouldn't be good if we died, so we made it seem like a big deal so we wouldn't be dying. Saving another human is a good thing, because if everyone saved each other, chances are someone would save you if it happened to you. Evolutionary speaking, letting other men die and then fucking their women is a better deal, but we've had that conditioned out of us. Murder is only illegal because if people would start killing each other, some of us wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:24 PM
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Very true, my friend. If you have that much to say about a chick, you're too involved with her. Tl;dr of this post: The chick I'm seeing decided to fuck other guys and subtly told me, I don't want to share so I'm thinking of breaking up. Answer: Yeah, if you don't want her to fuck others, break up with her.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:19 PM
1

I usually go clean shaven since my beard growth is crap, having zero problems. It's a confidence thing, you need to have confidence in yourself. If you think a beard is going to make you a man, you'll never become one and it's a popular thing to say masculine men are bearded so most guys who can't grow beards end up without confidence. It's a feedback loop.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:07 PM
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Women and men are just different. We live in a world built by men, for women. But since most men don't understand what women really want, we have given up on a lot of the checks and controls over their behaviour in the hopes of making them happier and more loyal. Just like how blue pills think opening up your feelings and insecurities will take your relationship to the next level ( yeah it does, gets it closer to the end ) because she thinks that's a good idea, we thought giving women more power…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:00 PM
2

Just talk to people while you're doing your hobbies. Find friends in the gym, take a course about something you're interested in etc. I took some Russian lessons, met a lot of people. Some of them were friend quality.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:51 PM
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Don't say any of those things. Tell him it was wrong of you to say that and you didn't really mean it. He won't care what your argument is, or how well you present the facts. Just tell him what he wants to hear and get out. There is no point in getting into conflict because of a chick.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:50 PM
5

Don't pay for anything unless it's a reward for them doing something, even then don't spend too much. You need to train your bitch that she only gets treats when she does something really nice for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 10:45 PM
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Every woman is up for a ONS if you give her the tingles. You just need to be attractive enough physically ( Lift ) and mentally ( Game ).
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 10:31 PM
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I know a man who went through two surgeries and his wife had no idea. She found out when the hospital called their home when they couldn't reach his mobile for an appointment schedule issue.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 10:29 PM
2

They are incapable of bonding like men do. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:51 PM
12

Good for you. Anything you didn't pay for with pain and struggle isn't worth a damn.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 05:29 AM
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Hey I've had my philosophy degree for 8 years now, but I know the rising popularity of the subject so I understand why you made that connection. Wonder if we'll see any large scale results, though. Probably not for a few decades at least.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:08 PM
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I also consider myself an Anarcho-Capitalist, which explains most of my views regarding sexual marketplace. I view any human interaction as a transaction so I consider it a very literal marketplace. That man you talked about seems like a great guy to sit and have a talk with, truly ahead of his time it seems.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 02:01 PM
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Being a pretty woman is easy, vast majority are born with it. Being a quality man takes years of hard work. Good thing is you don't have to be born with it. In simple suppy and demand terms, there will always be more 20 year olds for me to use and discard when ( not if ) they get uppity. There just aren't enough men in the top 20% for all the hot chicks, even if they are well educated or whatever. They need to step up their game, but with the masses pedestalizing them, why would they? Their unwa…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:41 PM
5

The way I deal with my insecurities is to accept them, and face them. Let me tell you about something that happened to me: I was a really prissy guy, I wouldn't even sit down on a park bench without dusting it with a tissue so my pants wouldn't get dirty. Being clean and immaculate was really important to me. So one day, while out shopping in a huge mall, I had some fast food. And it didn't agree with my stomach, at all. I ran to the bathroom, did my business but it was terrible, it looked like …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:33 PM
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Most people here, especially the ones who contribute a lot are "quality men". I consider myself a quality man also, 2 university degrees, own a business, good looking and fit. Real problem is these "quality women" usually don't bring anything to the table except their good looks and pussy, and I'm not going to commit for something I can easily get by being a "quality man". They are not in scarcity, they are just leeches looking for a man who will give in to their every demand because "they deser…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:13 PM
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Reading or thinking about something isn't the same as actually doing it. Unless you go out there and practice (and fail), you'll never learn. Even if TRP is fairly comprehensive, and AWALT always applies, you need to find your own solutions to your problems with the tools you learn about. You can't fly a plane after reading 500 pages about the experiences of pilots who have flown planes.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 01:58 PM
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Yeah, as far as you're concerned nothing happened.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:05 PM
2

That is very true, and I knew it already, but made an exception. Nah, AWALT applies any place, any time.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:49 PM
2

Indeed. Set up the important stuff first, nutrition, exercise, work, school, sleep. Never cut from any of these. I prefer setting up definite times for all these, and adhere to them unless someone dies. This is important because if you start slipping up it'll all go to shit eventually. Eventually people around you will start respecting your time table, and if they don't, well they remain your friends for long.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:45 PM
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If you were fwb and stopped talking, it's like pausing a movie to me. Try to set something up, and if she doesn't flake, well, fuck her. It's not like she doesn't know what the deal is. It happens all the time, they'll get into a LTR and they'll drop the sex with you, and when they break up ( or even before they do ) they'll be back for more cock. I think of myself a service provider in this regard, like a hair dresser. I won't ask you why you haven't been around for a few months, I'll just cut …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:38 PM
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Don't make it a big deal if she doesn't, it's just dread. If she does bring it up tell her you don't ask for nudes but it's not your fault you're so popular with chicks. If she keeps making it a big deal, drop her, you don't need the drama and why be in a LTR when you have chicks waiting for you to bang them?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:32 PM
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I could get married to a 20 year old tomorrow if I wanted to. You just need money and good looks and she'll think she's the luckiest woman alive. Marriage is a terrible idea though, especially with a 20 year old. At some point she is going to realize there is more to dicks than yours however good you are in bed. Then you'll be the one getting dicked with the divorce.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:54 PM
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Back in my beta days about 10 years ago, there was this childhood friend guy my gf kept talking to. She told me he was harmless, and I was okay with it. She married him about 3 months after we broke up. He's just waiting for your turn on the ride to be over, don't get too hung up about it. Do what you can while you can, don't think too hard about what comes next. There'll always be more women for you to fuck anyhow.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:51 PM
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I honestly don't see the problem. Read Enchiridion and Meditations, you have a problem because you think you have a problem. Bad shit will always happen, even the best of us won't always get his way. You're the one who chooses what to feel, so choose to be happy instead of pretending to be happy, although in a pinch both of them are the similar enough. There is nothing wrong with being the perfect guy who is never sad or angry, I behave the same way. Even when I'm fuming with anger you'll see me…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:47 PM
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There are billions of women in the world you could be fucking, don't waste your time on porn. Improve yourself and use a woman to get your dick wet.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:41 PM
3

Your oneitis is a ho
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:40 PM
2

Very true. I pretty much replaced the food addiction with self improvement addiction. At least making best use of my personality.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:41 PM
4

Some people hate the idea of taking responsibility for what has happened to them. Some people don't want to break the chains of slave morality. You can not reason with these people, and you shouldn't bother trying to save people who don't want to be saved. Once I had a friend who was in love with this "angel". He told me how she was perfect and so innocent and special, and he was being the usual "nice guy" to her, paying for her food, clothes and education with nothing but empty words in return.…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 12:50 PM
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Can't get anywhere in life without discipline and drive. These people are doomed to stay mediocre or worse.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:39 AM
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Yep, people keep asking me how I did it, and I tell them "I don't eat sugar" and leave it at that. Weight control is another red pill all on its own. So many times people told me I was starving myself and was going to die. Especially after my bf dropped below 20%. The crabs are real.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:35 AM
1

I ate at about 70% deficit for 4 months with Keto. It helps with feelings of hunger and cravings, but you obviously can't eat above or at maintenance and expect to lose.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:34 AM
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Keto and intermittent fasting. It wasn't even hard. Did it all in 4 months, didn't feel the need to touch any carbs the whole way. Now I eat much more carefully, obviously. But lifting heavy is your friend if you like eating a lot.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:33 AM
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I used to be fat, lost 100 pounds. I know it can be done, since I've done it. Fatties have no one to blame except themselves. Turns out if you don't eat all the time, you lose weight. Who would've guessed.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:53 PM
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In this blue pill culture they lack strong father figures, so they love the authority when a real man comes along. That is like a drug to them.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:35 PM
1

Alpha men exude authority. They can't help but think the new good looking guy with the solid frame is in a leadership position in whatever he is doing. The trick of course is what the other guy said: Always appear to be in control. Even if you have no idea what is going on, pretend you have it all planned.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:22 AM
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Yep. Well done. Never acknowledge their physical beauty except when she's done something you told her to do with her appearance. Never praise her except when she's doing something you told her to do. Make sure your time and attention are always lower in supply than demand, and train the chick like you would train a child. She will bitch and complain to her friends and orbiters about how you don't care about her, but you'll still be the guy she fucks and values.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:00 AM
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Who cares? The real problem with your post is that you want to LTR this girl. Just no. It's her job to want to LTR you. You are the man. Your biological purpose is to go around fuck as many different chicks as possible. Her purpose is to lock you down so you have to raise the kids. You never ask or imply excluisivity. Plate her until she starts asking for a relationship and then you can see if she's been good in the time ( should be at least 6 months, maybe a year ) you've been fucking and spend…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:52 AM
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Great post. It's not a problem if you aren't insecure about it. If you are insecure, people will smell that and it will be a problem. If you don't have control over yourself, you can't control anything else. Meditation and internalized stoicism helps.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:47 AM
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I've said this just a few days ago: "I'm never lonely, I have myself." You'll always have to be a rock that others can hang onto, a guy who is self sufficient and isn't moved by what is happening outside of him, and who has mastered what is happening inside. That is the sad and terrible truth about being a man. That said, we all need human contact, share our ideas and passions. Without sharing our value with the world and taking what we need from them, life is pointless. This is why you see so m…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:40 AM
1

Lose the fat before you start working out hard, otherwise you'll just look fatter.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:28 AM
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She's dead to you, who cares what she thinks? Never give them closure.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:26 AM
1

I agree with all your main points but I have one objection: Food doesn't have to be boring to be healthy. Even if you don't know a lot recipes, a chicken dish that has been cooked in the exact same way will taste wildly different based on spices and which veggies you put on the side. I cook a lot of things, cooking has been a passion of mine since I worked at a chinese restaurant as an assistant cook when I was younger and I love trying different foods. I also lost about 100 pounds and have been…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 09:22 AM
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I'm never lonely, I have myself.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:08 PM
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Just keep it OLTR if you can, be okay with her fucking others if you do, though. If you can't handle that, you can go exclusive ... but that smells of oneitis to me, so you should break it off on that principle alone. Decide what you want, then act on it and don't look back. I have zero problems with how you've handled it, unless you told her you want to be exclusive, I don't see how that is cheating but I'm more amoral than others here.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:59 PM
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Classic slave morality. They don't want to put in the effort for one reason or another, and feel incapable of bettering their lot in life. So in order to prevent existential breakdown, they need to morally justify being the way they are. Then there's you, making the transition from slave to master, showing them it can be done. You would think this would inspire them, but no. They've told themselves lies about success and happiness, they can't take such a blow to their whole moral structure. They…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:51 PM
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You're near the end of your relationship, she wants to progress further in your betafication progress and since you aren't giving up on your manhood she is getting nerveous. It happens at one point or another, you can keep going and eventually she'll blow up or you can make up some imaginary shit to tell her and comfort her that way. You need to show some blue pill breadcrumbs to give her some reason to hamster staying with you, she probably thinks it is going nowhere. Or maybe she really liked …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:43 PM
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Then why are you worried? Like I said, fuck what others think, do what you want.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:40 PM
2

You need to work on your insecurities before you post in here boy, where's your frame?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:31 PM
2

I own a bar and I can confirm, I fuck the cute waitresses and the personnel will hook up etc. , there is no way to stop it. I know for a fact every bar in this city is the same. Like you said, there is alcohol and good looking people all around, it's natural they will want to fuck each other's brains out. Everyone gets "the talk" about how I'll fire both parties if their relationship dramas have any effect on their work performance. Haven't had any problems in years. This industry cycles workers…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 11:54 AM
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I'm 30 and I fuck 18 year olds. Who cares what the others think? They are just jealous that they aren't good looking enough to pull it off or because they aren't the ones getting the dick. Older women get offended when you go for younger chicks because they are hitting the wall and they think 30+ men should be their monopoly. Not me though, I don't go for grannies. Older men get offended because they are either married or have let themselves go and since they can't get the fresh pussy you should…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:47 AM
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"Is this alpha?, is this beta?" is just autist speak. In TRP we deal in realities. These are the facts: You're being a beta bitch right now She won't be around and we all know after a while someone will give her the tingles and she'll fuck When she gets used to her new life she will need you less and less and will slowly cut contact You'll be even more butthurt then than you would have been if you ended right now Plus you'll eventually get cucked so have fun with that, maybe she won't tell you t…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:07 AM
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You'll just have to live with it and get over it by fucking other chicks. We've all felt regret for giving up good pussy, but getting too emotional over it is a trap that'll dry it up. Call her up, tell her it won't work long distance and chances are if you are the one to break up you can plate her later when she's in town. If you don't break up and when she finds someone else there and breaks up with you, she'll never fuck you again because you've been so needy.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:58 AM
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Hamster hamster on the wall, who is the prettiest of them all? edit: How sexually attracted to her you are doesn't mean shit when she isn't in town to fuck, you dumbass.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:54 AM
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Feels a bit like you overreacted, but can't know for sure without details. The thing is: she is like a little kid to you right? If I put an ice cube down my sister's dress, she would do exactly what your girl did, and I'd laugh at her for being so ridiculous and make fun of her for being no fun. Cutting all contact feels butthurt to me. In your case I'd just pretend nothing had happened, and tell her I was afraid of her escalating since she can't take jokes if she asks why I blocked her. Amused …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:51 AM
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There is one advice for LDRs: Don't get into LDRs, they don't work, she will find someone else and you'll get cucked. And you are a bitch if you think she's the "one" for you. For fuck's sake the growing popularity of TRP made this place a kindergarten.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:48 AM
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Being a man is doing what needs to be done regardless of the emotional consequences. Be a man.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:46 AM
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I don't even need to read any of this: Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:12 PM
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You don't love her if she's a fat cow. That's relationship intertia and your fears keeping you hamstering about how you love her and all that shit. Get out and be a man. Again, if she is fat, only thing she's good for is sucking your dick since she's so good at putting everything else in her mouth. If she isn't going to do that, you find someone else.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:08 PM
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What I do is, even when I meet chicks I don't know too well I'll just hug them and pick them off the floor, making sure she feels the muscles. It's very effective, communicates that you're a physical guy, so when you start touching her she won't think it's weird, and she gets to feel you up and that gets her hot because you are a strong man. In this day and age most women can't help but be attracted to guys who aren't afraid of touching them.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:51 AM
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They just don't like you because they feel threatened. They had an established pecking order and now a new guy comes in, naturally they react by talking shit about you in their echo chamber. Just keep improving yourself, since it's school soon enough it won't matter at all. It just sucks when you are not top tier yet, but you aren't a bottom feeder either so people don't know where to put you. Just focus on lifting, learning and not shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:37 AM
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Who cares if she has a boyfriend. If she is willing to fuck you, she doesn't have a boyfriend. It's her job to keep her relationship, not yours. Sucks for the boyfriend, but if she's willing to fuck around, she might as well fuck you.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:29 AM
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That is a good point and I guess it depends on what kind of man we are talking about. I see the way some younger nice guys reject objective reality in favor of their delusions. It's mass hysteria and in some ways it's as if they are joining in with the female hive mind ( if such a thing existed, that is ). As they get older they are expected to do the things you've said, what's baffling to me is how they expect it from themselves. Carry the traditional male role without actually being a man. An …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 11:00 AM
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Stoicism was the default mindset for a man for a very long time. Now in the never ending crusade to make men feel and think like females, we are teaching boys how to be overly emotional and solipsistic. Of course the inherent hypocrisy in the system goes like this: As a boy you aren't allowed to play with toy guns or soldiers anymore, but if it comes to that you're still expected to die for your country, your home and your family. After all, even though everyone agrees men and women are equals, …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 03:44 AM
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Save yourself, don't care about others. There is no point in trying to enlighten others, they would sooner see you burned at the stake for going against their world views than to accept an alternative.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:33 AM
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This might be radical, but have you tried deleting it and not playing?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:31 AM
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If you're attractive with other qualities, you can get away with anything. When you have other shit going on and are high value, that's just a collection, you being cute and embracing your inner kid. If you are a fat smelly nerd with anime bodypillows, they are toys. That's how everyone views the world. It's been stated many times here, work on yourself first. Give up the Lego until you've improved everything else, you can go back after you've sorted yourself out.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:21 AM
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One of the most important lessons a man can learn is to stfu. What you say will always be used against you, so you need to take great care with your words. What you did was unnecessary, you don't need to save anyone. You already know what these people think, you don't need to stir up the hornet's nest. Let the sheep stay peacefully in their pen, don't need to rile them up. I see a lot of younger guys here trying to save the world. Not me though. I'm out to save myself.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:49 AM
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Don't worry about it. He's a pussy if he went out and threw a fit anyway. Just keep being friends and fitting in with the rest of the group, they'll like the more fun guy more than the one who constantly bitches.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:41 AM
1

Can't be stated enough. If you aren't willing to come talk in person, we aren't talking. I have other shit to do. ( even when I don't )
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:39 AM
1

Hey I need help with dusting my LEGO collection on saturday and maybe we can do something after.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:37 AM
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If she's into you get her somewhere secluded and start kissing and groping. If she responds well to this you can fuck her. Be attractive so she actually wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:34 AM
3

If they ask if I've been with other girls, I tell them they are my first. If you're obviously a player, they'll get the point.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:33 AM
4

Your girlfriend is a fucking idiot. I had this friend whose girlfriend worshipped the sun. Told him that girl wasn't right in the head. In the end he caught her not taking her birth control trying to get pregnant so he would have to marry her. Any woman who is stupid enough to buy into that new age shit isn't worth anything beyond some casual fucking, usually because they have no limits. In TRP, reality is our best friend.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:31 AM
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What did I do when I hit rock bottom? I killed myself. I decided I wasn't going to be "that man" anymore. I decided what kind of guy I wanted to be, and I took steps to become that man. It was hard in the beginning, but man is a creature of habit and after a while you become what you pretend to be if you apply it to everything in your life. I am a new man. Old me is dead and gone. While it all sucks, you are in the perfect position to make sweeping changes in your life. That is your only light. …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:14 PM
3

You're too self conscious. Get an escort or a chick you don't care about, fuck her and lose your virginity. Just to take it off your mind. You shouldn't even really care about your performance with your dick because while we men enjoy getting our dick wet, for women it's mostly a mental thing. Everyone can fuck her pussy, and unless you are Chad Thundercock you won't even be the best fuck she ever had. You need to fuck her mind. As you know women define reality as they live it and if she thinks …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:09 PM
8

That guy obviously has oneitis and is willing to do anything. Why put yourself in danger? Doing night life business when I tell people "Let's go talk about this calmly in the back room where ladies aren't present." it doesn't mean good news for the guy. It's basically a threat. Ghost him. If I was in your shoes I'd ghost the chick as well, just on account of putting me through some shit I don't need in my life. It's okay for plates to have boyfriends and other shit I don't give a fuck about but …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:54 PM
6

Impossible expectations: A warm meal, a warm hole that's exclusive, a warm embrace after a long day of work.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 07:14 AM
17

Having side bitches is normal for a man. She has her orbiters, I have my plates. I know she is talking to them about me and complaining all the time and that is okay. I know she is going to hook up with one if I fuck up, and that is also okay. She knows if she doesn't keep me satisfied enough I'll just go get some side pussy. If she isn't okay with that, well, she can try harder. I don't really do LTRs, I just have lot of best friends. I still have to keep the dread up, though.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 11:18 AM
2

You haven't really fucked a woman until you are so much stronger than her she loses herself in your physicality. They are wired to love that shit.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:08 AM
7

Her problems are not your problems. You bought a product that looked good, but turns out it was defective, so you need to return her and get a new one. Being a rock doesn't mean becoming her personal emotional tampon. You don't owe her anything beyond basic human courtesy.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:03 AM
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I tell them it would be morally wrong to pay for her food since it's demaning to her to suggest she couldn't pay for herself. Make sure you have a huge "checkmate" grin on your face.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:56 AM
13

I love myself. When I look in the mirror, I see the man I have created. All the fat I've burned, all the muscles I've worked for. The clothes I've bought with my money, the money I earned by working hard. When I talk about shit I've learned from studying, living and experiencing life, I know I've earned the wisdom through years of pain. I am what I want to be. I am what I need to be. I'm not for anyone else, so why should I care what they think? Everyone else wants to use me for their own goals,…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:43 AM
3

Insecurity is in your head, not in your penis. You need to fix how you look at yourself, everything said here about penises is true however it won't help you since you're preprogrammed to feel bad about yourself.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:40 AM
64

They are not trying to make women ugly, they misguidedly think being attractive for males should not be a priority for women. Of course this would be a stupid breeding strategy, but men in their infinite horniness has allowed females to get away with not being attractive for far too long. If you're not at the top 20% a girl can access, you are nothing. Maybe orbiter material at best. On the other hand, a man will fuck just about anything. This pedestalizing has caused some of them to think they …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 12:39 PM
5

How about growing up?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:20 PM
3

What they say doesn't mean shit. She showed up and was flirty, should gone for it. Stop paying attention to their words, look at what they do.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:19 PM
15

I've said time and time again only through struggle we can become men. Only by facing challenges and conquering them can we better ourselves. Easy life makes us weak, makes us complacent. I've watched my father suffocate to death in a hospital bed through lung cancer, 6 months after he was diagnosed. I was a philosophy graduate starting on the academic ladder, I hated talking to "ignorant" people. And suddenly, I had a bar, a lot of debt because of treatments and supplements and zero people skil…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 04:36 PM
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I agree completely. I've fucked all my female friends, and having years and years of "friendship" doesn't matter if they decide they want to fuck you. People new to TRP should realize the number one reason they aren't getting laid enough is that they aren't attractive enough. If she wants to fuck you: distance, time, your past relationship and the fact that you already have a "girlfriend" won't matter to her. That's why Chad can get away with being an idiot and you are an incel with a master's d…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 07:15 AM
9

Let me put it in simple terms that you will understand. If you aren't putting your dick inside one or more of her holes and you keep giving attention to her, you aren't in a relationship, you are in orbit. A woman is only exclusive until she finds someone better, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:43 AM
10

TRP is a set of tools crafted by those who understand the reality of gender dynamics. You're free to reject it, we don't care. By all means, go for it. It won't be pretty since AWALT but when she breaks you again and you come crawling back here maybe you'll learn wishing really hard doesn't get you results. Working hard does. edit: she is just a girl who you never even met in real life. chicks you see on the street have more value than she does. personally, if I can't get in a real life meeting …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:07 AM
1

Will masturbation make you less hungry for pussy and make you act more docile? Yeah, for a time after you come that is normal. You will get the same when you're with a woman, but obviously that is better. Will porn addiction make your life harder? Yep. It's hard to get satisfied when normal shit doesn't get you hard anymore. And when you're spending hours looking at porn, you are wasting your time. In that way it is the same thing as video games or watching tv/youtube whatever. There is much mor…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:36 PM
5

If you're important, when you enter the room they will say "hi" to you. It's simple as that.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:23 PM
2

The "good girl" is just an act. Ask any of the experienced members here, almost all "good girls" are just as whorish as the wanton slut. It's just that they don't show it unless you're the right kind of guy. AWALT.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:09 PM
2

This right here should be required reading for any of the " what to do after break up " posts.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:57 PM
62

One time while I was eating out with a FwB she mentioned how one of her orbiters was paying for an escort and how much he was paying, what a loser he was. I paid for the dinner ( which was cheaper than the escort ), and took her home and fucked her. I'm sure the irony was lost on her, but I laugh every time someone mentions paying for escorts is demeaning. Also you're a smart man. Every human interaction is a transaction.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 05:54 PM
107

Strength that doesn't come from yourself is not strength. Only the things you've earned through sweat and blood is worth anything.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:59 AM
8

Then you woke up? edit: Alright, let me be less hostile: Come on man, this reads like erotic fanfiction. The message is worthwhile but did we really need the mental masturbation?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:56 AM
2

Oh yeah, my training an 18 year old failed because she was already a slut. I meant general behaviour and life experience.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:28 PM
1

Amazingly you can actually have feelings but not let them interfere with your decision making. Decide with your brain, not your heart. Deciding with your passions is for sex only.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 03:21 PM
3

I own a bar. She probably isn't very mature or intelligent. 20 year olds will have 20 year old problems, she is still basically a teenager with very little life experience. She knows nothing. No unicorns.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:12 PM
13

I'm 30 and because of work I get in contact with a lot of 18-25 women. It's stupid to try to build a relationship with them because frankly they are very immature. Their stupid problems and yammering bore me a lot, which makes amused mastery very easy, and young pussy is pretty good. I wouldn't want to LTR one though, doing boyfriend shit with them would be hellish for me. But yeah, pretty easy game if you have some SMV and confidence, which you should because you are here. When I was in my twen…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:03 PM
2

Every day you don't improve is making you fall further behind. Not all of us were born with money, status, or good looks but quite a few people here have made it through hard work. You can too. Actually college years are the best to improve SMV because it only gets harder from there on when you're working and start to have a very static life, there will be much more resistance to your changes from people around you. Sure, you might be missing opportunities but if you don't have good enough SMV a…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:29 AM
6

There is nothing wrong with it except if you do it she will have you by the balls and she won't be afraid to use it against you. Don't shit where you eat. Graduate and then fuck her.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:22 AM
5

Yes. It'll teach you to not be afraid of confrontation, and much like lifting you'll carry yourself differently and others will be able to tell. I don't know your finances, but if you can afford it it's a good investment.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:20 AM
16

When you tie your self confidence to your outward appearance shit like this is unavoidable. It's the same for men.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:18 AM
1

Yep, every man for himself. You can only save yourself. I've learned time and time again if you solve other people's problems for them, they learn nothing and in the end you are hurting them.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:24 AM
3

Who cares what she is thinking? If she isn't fucking you but sending nudes and you keep talking to her you are an orbiter, it's simple as that. She's trying to keep you in orbit with little bits of lust. Do you honestly think a chick who sends nudes liberally doesn't fuck? I find it hard to believe.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:20 AM
3

Needy. Tell her who you are and your number, if she found you attractive she will talk to you. The way you wrote that text is a ticket to friendzone. Read sidebar, at least try to not get oneitis for a girl you don't even fuck.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:16 AM
3

Can't break a dead girl's heart.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:57 PM
3

If she isn't using your relationship as social proof and keeps it hidden, she is looking to jump on some other dicks while keeping you on the side. Women are crazy about labels like bf-gf, if she isn't shouting it from the rooftops it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:05 AM
13

Next time some chick does this LMR thing you just soft next her. When she tries texting you and you don't answer, she will know why. She is just being cold because you are responding to her texts even when she has denied sex, that is very much orbiter behaviour. Don't answer and after a while initiate again with a text and -this is very important- always act like nothing happened. Ask her what she's up to then tell her to meet you somewhere. If she flakes or she doesn't fuck at that date also, h…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:44 AM
13

As a man, you should never pursue a relationship, that's a woman thing. You get plates and over time some of them will start trying to improve their state. Only after through vetting should you decide to give in. If a girl tells me she isn't looking for a relationship, I tell them "That's good, I don't do relationships". For your situation: You already fucked up because you are needy and have scarcity mentality. You talking about "Oh I know I should let go but I want to practice" that is just ha…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:38 AM
7

Read it what you wrote. Tell me what YOU think. Ghost the bitch.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:54 PM
2

Past experience from what happens when you don't filter out your emotions from your decisions.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:40 PM
3

As a man, all of us have the power to think rationally and rein in our emotions. I realize if I get too attached it's going to be worse for both of us, and I choose not to. The vetting process is long, AWALT is paramount and I wouldn't want to get into a LTR with someone I'm not completely sure about. For why that girl thought she could do better? Grass is greener. These bitches get hundreds of prospects every day if they are popular so they have an inflated and totally unwarranted sense of self…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:53 AM
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Revenge? Don't bother. Any form of attention is validation. Constant revenge fantasies are just another aspect of oneitis. You're only completely free when you don't even care about revenge. When you let go and don't think about it anymore, they don't have power over you anymore. It's okay to use the feelings of anger as fuel for self improvement in the first stages of TRP though. edit: For this particular woman since she is family; just cut contact and live somewhere else. If you can't do it ri…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:44 AM
5

She deserves nothing. Anyway, I never buy any gifts for my plates for anything, if we're meeting on a special day for them I get some dark chocolate and a bottle of good whiskey. You can do the same. Then fuck her. Don't spend money on her, spend money on something you can also enjoy if you really want to. At least that way you don't waste all of the money.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:55 AM
11

You talk too much. Failed all the shit tests. She's just doing woman shit like trying to get you more committed. Demote to plate at best, this won't work out for you in the long run. Read the sidebar, don't make the same mistakes. Never give in to the demands for more commitment.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:34 PM
6

The simulacrum is never that which conceals the truth—it is the truth which conceals that there is none. The simulacrum is true. We're living in the Third Degree. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 03:00 PM
14

Have that shit happen to you over and over again and in the end you might reach a breaking point. I used to be natural alpha but this "unicorn" turned me into a beta in about 3 years of relationship. Then she cheated on me and left me because I wouldn't forgive her. After that I kept missing opportunities like that time and time again. At some point I started hating what I've become, seeing girls fuck everyone but me, because I had rejected them, the girls who once brought me gifts to spend time…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 02:37 PM
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You should be like a comet. When you're near her you're hot, charismatic, literally burning with passion. When you're not, you couldn't give a fuck you're just a rock floating in space. Until she's with you again. She's willing to give her number to a guy who doesn't even know her name, and you're worried that she might have a boyfriend? She's made her decision, don't pussy out now.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:50 AM
4

Used to use it to get lays when I was in a different city but just walking up to cute chicks and asking them to show me around and then escalating works better. Tinder's time is done.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:46 AM
8

You're in orbit. Burn prograde to escape.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 09:42 AM
11

Yep, supressing the internal nice guy is relatively easy but permanently killing him requires some drastic events. If she's up for it, just fuck her indeed.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 07:24 AM
2

Red is nice. Forget park, be at coffee place at -arranged time-.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:20 PM
1

I am what I decide to be. I am whatever I need to be to reach my goals. I am single minded determination.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 07:45 PM
32

Bitter pill to swallow. Well, maybe not as bad as ass-to-mouth, but still true.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:38 PM
10

He had a really big, juicy cock and she couldn't help herself.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:18 PM
11

It's just words, it doesn't mean anything. She selectively edited her memory to justify her current actions. They will do this 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:33 AM
2

Other advice is good. You're blue pilled, read sidebar and fix it. It is awkward because you're making it awkward. The trick is to make it flow naturally. After the dance lesson tell her " After that I want a coffee, let's go". If she's interested, she will come with you. If she's not, it's a rejection but since you never showed your hand so it's not awkward for the future lessons.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:29 AM
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This is very harsh but completely true. Next them when they are most "in love" with you. Makes them crazy, but you can unshelf them months or even years down the line. As long as you keep being yourself, they know they aren't going to get anything better even if they are married or have boyfriends. Nobody will give her the tingles as much as the guy who just walked out after a few rough sex sessions. Puts their hamster spinning so hard you could power a city with it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:52 PM
1

Just being able to consistently work towards your goal should make you feel more confident in life. Every time you gave up some inane crap to work on your mission is a victory. You need outcome independence, you might get that SMV increase at some point in the future, or you might not. What matters is you are working on it, you're still walking towards your goal. And as long as you do it, you are better than 80% of the people on the planet.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:45 PM
4

MGTOW is that way.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:38 PM
1

Cut all contact with chick until she gives you a time and date. If she doesn't or she flakes on that also, you know she isn't really interested. Read more sidebar. Never pursue or have only one girl in your life. ABUNDANCE.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:36 PM
4

When she starts yammering, find another girl to take your hammering.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:33 PM
2

My plates only get affection when they do something for me or after I've manhandled them in bed. If they want rewards, they need to work for it. Keeping a woman is a lot like keeping a pet. You need to restrict them so they don't do something stupid and hurt themselves ( and you ). Like pets, women learn your weaknesses and how they can get what they want from you really quick, so you need to be firm 100% of the time. I fed my cat smoked meat one time while I was having one, just because she was…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:27 PM
1

Number 10 is my mantra for all things in life. It's ridiculous how people want anything and everything without having to work for it. If you can get it without effort, it has no value. And if I want something I will find a way to get it, or get myself stronger so I can just take it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 10:31 AM
1

Find other girls. It's hard to get it on with chicks who know you to be BP. Also don't tell them you're single. If she was really attracted to you this "he is looking for rebound sex" shit wouldn't have mattered. Don't listen to dating advice from women. Read sidebar and lift, you aren't even the slightest shade of red yet.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:11 PM
1

The Blue Pill Saga continues.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:10 PM
0

You'll see.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:09 PM
7

Apha/Texting pick one.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 12:09 PM
78

Lose the oneitis and read the sidebar. If she was into you she would give sex like at the start all the time. You have no dread. When a chick starts turning down sex it means your relationship is in downward spiral. Get out of that relationship, spin multiple plates for 6 months at least. You thought you were red pilled because you fucked a few chicks for a few months and then thought you were man enough to handle a LTR. Turns out you weren't there yet, no shame in that. Start again. edit: Her a…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 12:01 PM
1

You don't need to spend any money if the chick is into you. I got a text from a girl I knew from high school and she told me she was in town and asked if I wanted to meet up. I was at the gym, so I told her to come pick me up and I didn't have much time. It all went as planned and we started walking down the street from the gym, I could tell she was very excited and I was feeling mischievous so I just took her to the underground garage of a building on that street and kissed her and we started m…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:38 AM
2

Everyone has to take responsibility for their actions and their consequences. I always show basic human courtesy but don't expect me to feel pity for the hambeast that ate its way to planethood. I don't care about you or your problems unless you are in some way important to me. Even then I will not sacrifice my mission for you. Everything worthwhile in this world has to be earned the hard way. By helping others too much you are damaging their ability to grow, how would you get gains if I lifted …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:06 AM
2

The world was very different when the previous generations figured it out "without TRP", and it'll get worse before it gets better. Don't take dating advice from a chick, obviously she is going to repeat the bluepill ideals. Also most of the time in the west it's women who use men and treat them like they are animals to be used up for resources. Why are you posting bluepill shit here? However talking to people is good advice.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:01 AM
6

So you were sexually harrassed by a higher up, but she is a woman so no easy #metoo for you. I would probably mumble something about "girlfriend" and deflect. It's important that she doesn't think the problem is with her, you must make it look like YOU can't do it because feels or some other excuse. You did well to not directly confront her, who knows what a hag can do when she has more power than you in a corporate environment.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:33 PM
2

No matter how smart she is, the hamster will keep spinning. When she is feeling, she isn't thinking.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:53 PM
3

If he kept texting you over and over when you didn't reply to him asking about plans, he isn't Red Pilled at all. You're in the wrong place. However you did fuck up, if he posted this story here we would have told him to ghost you and lose the oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:52 PM
4

I prefer to talk to people in person, or approach them in person so my physique and social skills do the work they are supposed to. Personally I make it clear that if anyone wants to talk to me, they can invite me someplace or they can come to where I am, and then we will talk. Here's my guide to text game: Have a busy enough life so you don't live on your phone, when you don't answer texts it's because you're actually out there doing shit. If she isn't willing to meet up in person, she isn't in…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 01:35 PM
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Usually it takes one to get majorly fucked by a woman mentally and/or economically to see the truth. Some of us went through years of pain and misery for the illusion to break. Some never make it. The usual story is finding a unicorn and then learning painfully that AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 10:20 AM
3

Good on you to realize where you fucked up but where is the question?
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:05 AM
3

Meditate. And keep trying. It's like cooking, just knowing the recipe isn't going to make the meal, there's still a lot of mechanical skill involved. Those you can only learn by repeatedly doing it and reviewing what you did wrong and fixing it.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:04 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:02 AM
2

Can confirm from experience. There are other girls, don't LTR any old pussy that you find.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:01 AM
2

If you know she is higher SMV then she also knows. Probably thought you would be an easy target for orbiter capture but you rejected so her hamster can't deal with it and your SMV has raised in her eyes ( That's how most women rationalize rejection ). Anyway, remember to hold frame and never look needy, the moment you show weakness she'll pull back and try to keep you as a "friend".
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:58 AM
1

As a man, you don't get to be weak. When you show weakness people around you subconsciously put you in the "female" category.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:55 AM
2

Why would you be ashamed? Anyhow, read the sidebar, you don't owe anyone any explanations.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:45 AM
4

my place at 7, I'll show you
/r/askTRP04/02/18 02:43 PM
1

I don't care about Jordan Peterson, however I agree with your final points. You only get one life and you will die alone. In the grand scheme of things you are nothing, so you might as well do whatever you want to do in life, get somewhere and have no regrets when you look back. We live our lives as if we are never going to die, wasting our time on others while hoping for a return in the future if we're lucky. Only real power you have and need is in you. Everything else is illusory, the lies we …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:48 AM
1

Yeah it is, you are overcomplicating it yourself. Talking to strippers won't fix shit unless you man up.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:41 AM
3

No, it's a red flag. Have had fwb relationships with quite a few though, they obviously know what they are doing in the sucking and fucking department. Which is all they are good for as far as I'm concerned.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:40 AM
2

Just go outside and talk to them, they haven't outlawed talking to women without prior consent, yet.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:37 AM
11

You dirty dog! Well done! I really like how you got rid of her without compromising the numbers for your company.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:32 AM
3

It's about as much as what you are doing as who is doing it. If the girl is hyped and happy to be with you she is going to enjoy sex. She'll like it more if you're in control. If you worry too much about pleasing her you are going to fuck it up. Just do your thing and be manly, you'll get better over time. edit: If you want plates fuck them hard and soft next for a few days
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:34 AM
1

Morals don't matter if she's down to fuck, she will find a way to rationalize it. Sort of the logistics, you're an adult.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:03 PM
1

I've heard from people who do keto that it helps, but you should do your own research.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:43 PM
103

I once banged this sweet innocent thing, 5 years younger than me and daughter of a close family friend, I've known her for all her life. Well, so I thought. The morning after, while cooking me breakfast she told me how she wished I took interest in her earlier because she had been with a lot of guys and after getting two abortions her womb was damaged ( I don't know either ) and she was really hoping I would still be with her even when she was like this and would have problems having a baby. Nee…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 07:40 PM
1

Come check out my LEGO collection.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:35 PM
2

You have to show the same honesty to yourself. YOU are responsible for what has happened. It was your own failures that led to where you are in life now. The sooner you accept responsibility for your life the better. Go fix yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:33 PM
2

Invite her out and start banging her, why are you waiting for her to break up?
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:29 PM
1

Your body is a tool. Your mannerisms are a tool. You can be nice and you can be nasty, both have their uses. You need to keep your tools in the best shape at all times and always be practicing their use. TRP is amoral, use your tools to get whatever you want, we don't care. Lift, Read, Game Chicks. It's hard at first, but you will learn by failure.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:27 PM
1

Why do you care if she gets sent back? If it was the other way around she wouldn't think twice. Also she's probably clingy because you are her meal ticket.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:21 PM
1

Yeah it's done. Read sidebar, start lifting. Don't need to explain her shit, learn to STFU and soft next. Use the energy you get from your breakup to become a better man.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:17 PM
1

Just act normal, if she comes on to you brush her off, kindly.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:15 PM
5

Have you tried being a man instead of acting like a woman?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 12:16 PM
1

Eh. You can fuck anywhere, it's more exciting for the girl also when you're doing it in private. You're also giving her a memory she won't soon forget if she isn't used to doing it. You just need to follow the sidebar and get high enough SMV that the chick wants to fuck you, after that you can fuck her everywhere if you apply the right kind of pressure.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:35 AM
2

Money is attractive but it's not the end all be all. You weren't attractive on other areas or you were only good for being a bluepill provider so she left when you lost that option. Women also fuck and provide for deadbeat guys with strong frames. You don't need to be rich to get chicks. Go sidebar, start fixing your life so you don't look like provider/orbiter material.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:31 AM
15

Ones who don't ask stupid questions.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:57 AM
5

I can help, I own a bar. Order a non-alcoholic cocktail then you won't look weird. Just go there and ask for it, it's not weird if you don't make it weird. You're just another customer. However it's better to have the spine to just ask for water. I used to order cold milk in coffee shops and it started a lot of conversations some of which ended in sex. Owning up to your shit is always better than pretending. People respect a man who respects himself.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:55 AM
18

I can't even tell if it's a serious question or a humble brag.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:45 AM
2

There are billions of women out there. If the one you have doesn't work for you, get another one. Never live together with a woman unless you are ( or about to be ) married. You will give up too much power for no real gain. Your girl has too many red flags, you're better off ditching her. Don't get into a LTR unless you have a lot of plate spinning experience, you won't know how to deal with women and will eventually fuck it up otherwise. Read the sidebar, lose the "weekly feedback" shit, you do…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:40 AM
91

I didn't quit telling everything to women because I wanted to extract maximum value from them. There is nothing wrong with that, but it wasn't why I did it. I didn't want to be put in a position where I was on the defensive. When you tell a chick you've been with X amount of girls before her, you'll get judged and it's never positive for you. When you tell her you're thinking about doing something, she will comment on it as if you asked, and then make drama when your final choice isn't what she …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 06:31 PM
2

You want to become a man who can come up with witty responses. If you memorize them it's going to show and people will know. There are no cheat codes.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:19 PM
4

Might be that she is looking to build a social circle before she moves there. Or maybe she is making sure those people know you are "taken" so they tell her if you do something. You didn't give a lot of information to it is hard to know what kind of woman she is. Anyhow if you're going to be away from her for a long time might as well end the relationship.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:16 PM
9

Tell her you love how she doesn't need others to compliment her to feel better about herself.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:31 AM
17

Taking dating advice from women is like taking advice from a cow about cooking a steak. A lot of women call me their friend. I happen to have had sex with almost all of them at one point and we are not really friends at all. It's just words for them.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:26 AM
2

Don't ignore them, that's butthurt. Don't seek them out either, though. Just be normal like nothing happened. Shouldn't be too hard, because if you feel butthurt about it, you lack abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:23 AM
1

It's not a school, it is your job to get yourself out of the shit hole. Sidebar tells you how.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:21 AM
32

I agree. Men built this world, and sure as shit we are responsible for what has happened to it. Blaming the women for being women is pointless.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 10:20 AM
4

I'm 30 and I sometimes take language or programming courses to improve myself ( and to meet people ) when I find time from work. Obviously I'm older than 90% of the people there but I find it intimidates the males more than the females. Usually the girls dig the older guys if only to make themselves look sophisticated and deep. Maybe you're not very good looking or interesting? Female attention is all about SMV, if you aren't near the top in the social circle you will probably get no attention.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:17 AM
39

When you tell something to a woman, you are generally telling it to their whole social circle. That's just the way that it goes, when I was around your age I imagined there was a Female Hive Mind because all of the girls in school seemed to know anything one of them knew about me.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:12 AM
3

You're not doing it just for them, you do it for yourself. As a side effect of being a high value man, you get the chicks. If you rely on the external approval of women as you say, you lack frame. At the start of my journey I thought if I lost a certain amount of weight, got enough muscles I would be desireable again and I would show my ex what she was missing. That thought was foolish, of course, but the anger and the hate fueled me long enough until I learned being a better man is its own rewa…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:09 PM
1

It's a bold strategy.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:55 PM
5

Yeah that's exactly it. If she isn't fucking you but still expecting your time, she thinks you're an orbiter. If you're giving her that time, you are an orbiter. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:34 PM
36

So she was tested and was fine before she was with you, you were tested and were fine before you were with her, and you two started fucking and now she has it. I'm not much for Television, but it reads like a House episode to me. Please post an update later because I'm curious.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:21 PM
6

No, but being in the same classes kinda does.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:08 PM
8

Just ghost the bitch. One last text is like starting a diet tomorrow, why not do it NOW instead and get it out of the way if you're going to do it anyway? Don't lie to yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:07 PM
7

Look man, TRP isn't a comprehensive cheat sheet that you can look up responses to every single shit test. There are guides, but there are no shortcuts. It's on you to improve yourself by failing. By making your muscles burn. By making yourself look ridiculous because you don't have a good answer. By looking stupid because you talk to random chicks on the street and they laugh at you and go their own way. Lesson of strength is only you can make yourself strong by putting in the effort. I'll say t…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:02 PM
2

I don't care if a girl tries to make me jealous, a girl around my SMV will always have a hundred dicks lined up and ready to go inside her at the drop of a text. Her trying to show this to me is laughable at best. If I was in a monogamous relationship and she tried something like this, I would hard next her. Caesar's wife must be above suspicion.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:48 PM
1

Read stoic philosophy and understand you don't need any of those things. You don't need an expensive place or a big flashy car until they aren't a big chuck of your income. Buy the expensive shit when you need the quality difference. You always need to make sure you can survive for at least half a year without any income if something happens. Just in case.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:43 PM
1

You see, nothing you can tell them will be more punishing than what their hamster tells them. She already knows numerous ways she fucked everything up, she is making up even more of them in her own mind. If you talk to her and tell her what's what, you're not helping yourself get over her. You're helping her get over you. Also thinking about her for 6 months is caring about someone so stop lying to yourself. edit: If you think moving on and not having the past affect you in any way is Beta, you …
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:31 PM
1

Providing for her kid also includes taking up a father role, though. Maybe she wants you to be a stay at home dad? Who knows? Not you for sure because you are smart enough to nibble at the bait but know to leave before you bite the hook. Right?
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:22 PM
10

Understand that showing affection is one of your best weapons. The trick is to show it after she does something for you. Take her up on her offer, tell her to wear something sexy or cook for you ( to make it feel like a mission to her ) then fuck her real good and then show some aftercare. You don't need to care about her feelings and you're using her for her holes but you don't need to be a dick about it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:18 PM
3

Plate, but it's not that easy. I'd get out. The thing with single mothers is they are very likely to try to trap you in a relationship because they want you to provide for their kid. So she will use every trick in the book until she gets her hooks into you. One day you get a call and turns out she's pregnant, oh well. Find out why she is a single mom, if it's anything other than "He died" just bail. Don't listen to the crazy ex-husband stories.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:13 PM
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Well also she can keep an eye on him so he doesn't get friendly with any of the hotter gym chicks.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 05:06 PM
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They want you to keep improving but only for them. And never more than what they can handle. When you start to pull ahead they panic. Some of them start improving themselves to keep up with their new competition but most are lazy and try to put you down.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 05:05 PM
4

You just talk to them man. They won't bite you if you don't sound/look creepy. There's tons of material on this. Don't be afraid of women, they are used to standing there looking pretty and men coming to them so most of them won't make any move unless you do. Most of them are even more insecure than you are. Just go around and talk to people in your classes and then start on getting your social circle bigger.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 06:02 PM
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Nothing, because when you're over it you won't feel anything about it.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:58 PM
5

Have you thought about just not using it? Just put the phone down and go do something else. Obviously, this is very simplistic and you have tried this, but no matter what you do you find yourself back on your phone or computer or whatever. You need to live a more fulfilling life. Go lift, walk around, talk to people, read books, pick up a hobby. When you don't have time to waste on your phone, you'll find your addiction to social media such as reddit or youtube disappear. Spend your time on more…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 10:07 AM
18

You don't need to be condescending. Women are every good with implications of social status. I have a sister and having been raised in a traditional family naturally any interaction with her happens in my frame. She needs to work for my approval, I don't need to care about what she thinks about me. We've never talked about this, but we both know it. I treat women the same way, and after a while they get into the same mindset, because it's a woman's natural state of mind. This is the ideal positi…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 10:01 AM
7

Why? You can't sugarcoat the truth. If that's what happened, he should be mocked. He is responsible for what happened to him. Maybe this was a seminal moment for him, standing there in front of the door after that, wondering where he fucked up. Maybe he started to look around on the internet since even though he was doing everything "right" the chicks weren't even looking at his face when he made these loving gestures. Maybe he walks among us even now, reading this topic and smiling to himself t…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:50 AM
11

Nothing has changed indeeed. She'll probably keep fucking the OP anyway, even if she takes a week or two off because of the new "relationship". LDRs are not real relationships.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:37 AM
5

What are you gonna do, masturbate looking at them? Show other people? Asking for and keeping nudes is incredibly stupid, it is basically porn and you know what we think about porn. Just go out and fuck girls instead of looking at their pictures.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:34 AM
7

Why are you seeking validation for your childish crap here? Because you know it's childish. Why do you care?
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:31 AM
6

Don't compliment them, they have hordes of beta orbiters worshipping everything about them. When you compliment them you're putting them above yourself and in the same category as those guys. Your attention is the only acknowledgement they get for being hot or clever or whatever. You have two goals, one is always making them qualify to you. Second is be a good enough man that they want to do this on their own. You should always be ( and act like you are ) some levels above them to keep their ham…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:40 AM
4

You don't care. It's not your problem if she's mad and you pretend not to know she is upset unless she tells you what's wrong. That's how you train your bitch. Your frame is weak if this makes you feel bad. If she's ignoring your texts it means you're texting her too much. Go do your own shit, man. Ignore her for a day or two, then tell her you were busy and don't explain. You have shit to do other than this girl, right? Life is too short to worry about a chick while there's a few billion of the…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:28 AM
3

She's not LTR material if she's kissing other guys while drunk, are you mad?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:22 AM
3

As a man "knowing what the fuck you need to do" is one of your best states of mind.You apply yourself to it.In your case, you just decide to not think about it, then it's a done deal. You need discipline if you can't control your thoughts and emotions.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 11:20 AM
1

Beta Bucks bro. In a LTR you are expected to provide a bit, that's just how it goes. However if you're paying for everything that's not good. If you let your woman think of you as Beta Bucks, you are going to start having problems. That's just how it goes. LTR is hard mode. If you don't have the knowledge and experience, you are going to fuck it up at some point. Even with those things you are going to fuck it up. Humans are not monogamous.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:07 AM
4

Look at you talking more than she did. She's giving you short answers while you're writing long sentences. She wasn't attracted to begin with, you gave her a lot of attention and she was satisfied. Your texts read like you think you are very clever, but that really doesn't translate well without the voice and the smirk you would have in real life.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:00 AM
1

I say this often, even if they hate you they have emotions for you and that's a good thing. Having a reputation for being a fucker isn't a bad thing. Sure, they talk shit about you but they also know you get a lot of pussy and that's preselection right there. You don't need anti-slut defense as a man. Keep doing what you're doing, if you have a reputation for trying to kiss girls on first date, the girls who go on dates with you will expect you to do that. Don't mind what they say about you, it …
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:56 AM
1

I own a bar. I say shit like this on the regular. As you said, it's easy when you're in a leadership position and everyone is looking at you to make decisions. You can do it the easiest when you don't have to explain your decisions to anyone.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:37 AM
2

You don't care if she's a plate. It's just a hole you masturbate in.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:51 PM
5

No, nobody cares. It's good to show you have opinions on things and even if the chicks hate you, it's just as good as love as far as they are concerned. If any of them approach you about what you said, tell them to talk to you about it over in your place; then fuck them. Don't use TRP terminology though, that's the neckbeard fedora thing when you do it around regular people.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:19 PM
2

In high school? You get older.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:15 PM
10

Just live with it and learn from your mistake. You say you could have easily forgotten her and moved on, but you didn't and wrote this about it and have been thinking about it for 3 days. The oneitis in your rear view mirror is closer than it appears. Don't keep trying to fuck her, you had your chance and you blew it ( heh ) so all you can do is learn from it and find another girl who is willing to get in bed with you on the off chance you might have sex.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:12 PM
2

If by letting her drive you around you lose your freedom to leave, as in you don't have the means to say "fuck you" and get out at any moment, yes. Because that means you're depending on her, and she has power over you. Otherwise making women do shit for you isn't a big deal, it's just as bad to drive her around and let her have fun if you don't fuck her afterwards anyway.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:06 PM
2

You can't have grown up conversations with women, especially if there are feelings involved.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:24 PM
5

Tell her you understand what she's been through and she should do what feels right to her about this situation. Always speak calmly. Then prepare your exit strategy because this bitch is fucking you over.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:22 PM
5

Most of time these guys know the answer but they need to hear it from someone else because they aren't confident enough yet. They'll accept the facts, ask questions and try to learn. I like those guys, it's not easy to switch how you think about everything and at least they are trying. Other times you get the guys who argue and hamster. Why Ask TRP if you aren't prepared to accept the wisdom? I'm not saying you always get the right answers, but if you are asking here of all places, you know what…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:20 PM
6

She's baiting for attention. Tell her you'd like to see her in person and set up a date. If she doesn't show up, she is useless to you. Don't talk to women except when you're in meatspace with them, if she isn't willing to come spend time with you, she is trying to leech your time with her validation bullshit. In your list of priorities, giving any kind of validation to a woman who hasn't done something for you goes dead last.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:09 PM
3

Having a boyfriend, or a husband very rarely stops a woman if she wants to fuck you. The usual shit applies, she will meet you if she's interested and you can do the usual and fuck her. Doesn't change one thing unless the other guy is better than you, in which case though luck. Don't tell your "plate" you miss her, that's unnecessarily needy. That said, if she missed you or wanted to get in contact with you she would have done it, women will go to great lengths to secure a guy who gives them the…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:05 PM
1

Take a cold shower every day. Learning to force yourself to do things you don't want to do is a very good skill that will help you in just about anything. Being a man is about doing what needs to be done. Fear is useful, but it shouldn't stop you.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:42 PM
1

Bang one, then when things go sour use the other one for rebound sex. Start with the hotter one since the lesser one will see you "breaking up" as an opportunity to strike anyhow. Doesn't matter if they are cousins, best friends, sisters or whatever, women are very amoral and will be down with anything if they want to fuck you. The hamster will find a way to justify their actions.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:32 PM
5

It's quite enlightening to see how many of your "friends" will be there for her in her time of need and how few will actually choose you. Even if she cheats and you were clearly in the right. Everyone should go through it once, just to prove how true the TRP tenets are.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:28 PM
2

Watch less hentai, it's really not that enjoyable for anyone involved.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:22 PM
1

Yeah if you've been nice to her and wished her a speedy recovery and got the fuck out it's fine. She's a plate, you don't owe her anything beyond basic human courtesy. Even though you're just using her for sex, she doesn't want to be reminded of that fact.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:20 PM
12

She's telling you to fuck her. Now you have two choices, you either fuck her and have a plate or you pussy out and she'll put you in the beta orbiter category. Tell her something like " I want you to come over to my place at 7, wear something red." Then do the sidebar stuff and fuck her brains out. When you tell her to come to your place she'll instantly know she's about to get fucked so you'll know if she's going to put her pussy where her mouth is if she flakes. If she does flake, she was tryi…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:52 AM
2

You're insecure as fuck. If you think you are 9/10, you should have no problems looking people in the eye because you're better than 99% of them. Simple as that. Go out there and start talking to people, if you are as good looking as you say there is very little you can do to fuck everything up anyhow. You'll get confidence along the way. Fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:49 AM
3

Nothing good will come of it. The sooner you get out the easier it will be to disentangle.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:19 PM
3

I have this one trick I do when I notice a girl has BPD: Get the fuck out and cut all contact with her now and forever.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:16 PM
1

First, if your story is legit; I respect you immensely, sir. It's hard to come back from such physical problems. I've known a few men who did, and they are redpill as fuck with bulletproof frames. You need a lot of heat to make steel, after all. As for Catherine, women are much better equipped to deal with breakups. She won't even remember who Greg is as long as you keep her hamster occupied and give her the tingles. If you fuck up, however nothing you've done for her will keep her from texting …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:12 PM
4

Women treat you much better if they want to fuck you. So yes it does help a lot. It even works with men, when you are attractive; people are attracted to you and want to be your friend. Who would've guessed? On the other hand, why would you want to hang out with women and chill? They talk about inane shit you won't care about. You need to get into hobbies and that will make you friends with like minded men. So you can have a conversation about your mutual interests.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:45 PM
1

You're going to crash and burn if you do it for revenge or to prove something. If you lift and improve yourself those things will probably come, but if you haven't forgotten about this chick by then you're going to revert back to your beta ways. Let me tell you what will happen: your quest for revenge will fuel you to great heights, and when you get there after years of hard work she will beg and plead for you to fuck her. "I'm a GOD, I can do anything!" you will think, but the moment you fuck h…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:34 PM
2

You dodged a bullet in the end, she probably wanted to use you as an emotional tampon. Now you know better so even if feels bad you're better off than when you started texting this chick. Read the material again and don't waste your time texting people who won't meet you in meatspace. edit: When you're texting it's really important you don't sound needy. it's very hard to do, that's why the masters say "only text for logistics". Your text doesn't sound the same as it does in your head when someo…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:18 PM
3

I'm assuming you're not a total retard -since you're in med school- and don't sent texts like this to women you've just met. If you do, well, you're fucked since you don't understand basic human communication. When I look at your message to her I'm thinking that you've known this chick for a while and she's told you that "you're nice" or some other bullshit that puts you to sleep so her robots can extract emotional energy from your ass. If that is true, then you are in the friendzone, my boy. It…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:02 PM
9

Read the sidebar, your problems are far beyond what you look like. You tell her "I'm going do to "fun activity" this weekend, join me" and if she doesn't come, you ghost her. And you go there and have fun regardless of her presence. When you say " do this or X " you're pushing her away, and that's a very outcome dependent statement in itself. What did you think would happen, genius? Is she going to jump on your dick because you pretended to be assertive?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:48 AM
5

Suffer in silence. Crying in front of a woman is in 99% of the cases a terrible idea. You are a rock. Until you learn enough to control your emotions you'll just have to fake it. You are a rock. No matter what happens in the inside, from the outside you look strong and unbreakable. Learn to be stoic, like everything in TRP, it'll help for far more than getting women naked.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:39 AM
6

How could you have fucked up something as simple as "You can't negotiate attraction" if you've been here for that long? She might have helped raise your SMV but that's at the cost of her attraction to you, because she knows she is better than you since she's telling you how to improve yourself and you are doing what she says. You're supposed to be improving for yourself, but you've let her sculpt you into her personal toy and now she's bored of you. Next time don't let a woman think she is bette…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:32 AM
2

Yeah she probably sent a similar message to all the exes she has had because she's been dumped and is dealing with the insecurity that brings. You're not special. I know it's tempting to try and fuck her, getting some sense of revenge for what she has done to you and feeling good about your self improvement. But the real improvement is looking past the tip of your dick and seeing that fucking her actually validates her. You win by not engaging, she can always find another dick to bounce on but s…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:13 AM
7

Do you know when a woman tells you to "do whatever you want" and then you end up doing what she wants instead of what you would choose to do? That's because you're in her frame. You want the same thing, but the other way around in your relationship. It's her job to say "no" and she knows exactly what is going on, women are masters of this kind of subtle manipulation. She wanted to make you jealous, you took the bait and now she thinks she has you by the balls in a committed relationship. Maybe t…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:07 AM
15

And what? He's not going to believe it, and even if he confronts her she is going to twist it around and make it look like OP is the bad guy. Even if you get a video you're looking at a potential false rape accusation. Cornered women are very dangerous and it's not even OP's problem. Many times I have warned friends about their significant others acting very suspicious and only thing I got was a strained relationship until I was proven right. Bp guys are going to take the side of their women eve…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 10:09 PM
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