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Brother, you are looking at this incorrectly. Yes we are flawed men, almost broken, no let's be real, we are so bad we know we deserve eternal hell. So what, if we know we are flawed? What takes more internal strength? Looking in the mirror and saying, I am a horrible person who needs a Savior, or the man who looks in the mirror and says I'm not half bad. Now if you followed the 'feminized' god of this world, the 'churchian' god, the god of "he loves me just the way I am" "all roads lead to god"…
/r/RPChristians31/07/18 03:04 PM
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Wow I didn't know they let eunuchs post at Askmrp! This is a first.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 12:07 AM
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Hey Numb nuts. (Betcha didn't even catch the irony there did you) I've had some other shit going on and posting stupid shit on the internet was pretty low on the list.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 12:04 AM
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I was sleeping all the time, like 7-9 hrs at night, and then 1-2hrs at work sometimes. Anxiety was pretty bad as well. For me what triggered adrenal fatigue was training with low T (less than 300) 1.5 hrs at the gym 3 days a week, 2 days a week doing cardio, and my total calories were under 2500. It was just too much volume, too little calories, and too little T. I just couldn't admit to myself that I had a problem. Ego and Denial terrible combo.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 06:18 PM
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Reading comprehension is not your strong suite is it? Plate math doesn't seem to be either, shesh. I have my own micro plates that I bring to the gym with me sometimes and our gym has 1 1/4 lb and 2 1/2 lb magnets as well.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 06:15 PM
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That's great! I started negative then!
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:00 PM
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You didn't do well at reading comprehension in school did you?
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:58 PM
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This was from labs in Mid march. -Still had the twisted nut, hadn't had the achilles rupture yet. Slowing recovering in the gym. Also note, I'm one of those hyper sensitive to arimidex (at one point my e2 fell below 6) and that ain't good at all. Total T 706, free 21.7 E2 56.6 DiTest 51 SHBG 29 Hematocrit 50.5 (not real bad, but Doc thought it was high) RBC 6.03 (4.14-5.8) T4 1.68 T3 3.4 rT3 38.1 (9.2-24.1) - it's been over 20 for year. So what I suspect that is that I got trapped in a hormone c…
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:57 PM
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DL's are my favorite as well. Nothing like picking up heavy shit.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:36 PM
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Really bad, having trouble with my E2 levels,hematocrit, and Thyroid, having to take T3 now because my rT3 is through the roof.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:12 AM
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Only if you buy me dinner first.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:09 AM
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Good Job, here's a cookie.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:08 AM
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Absolutely right! Correct, unless you're a special snowflake like me and have seriously screwed up Thyroid system. 1 RPM's are for the young bucks your right, (I'm 43) , the 1 rpm was only for setting up the 12 week garage gym cycle. Yep losing the ego, but mostly it's to encourage others that lifting heavy with a consistent program is the key to big gains, even if you have other 'issues'.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:07 AM
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And as another twist, about 2 months ago, I tore the sutures holding things downtown, and now, I have to have surgery again. I actually know what it means to have you nuts in a vice. Having a twisted testicle twice now in 1 year REALLY SUCKS BALLS. And 3 weeks ago I ruptured my achilles tendon (just had surgery 2 weeks ago) and I was at the gym this evening lifting.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:04 AM
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I was in the shower at the time, I started laughing so hard I almost fell over (because the man looks like grizzly adams, and talks like the guys from duck dynasty) so I of course I A&A a little bit but, then she amped it up and accused me of wanting to marry him too! At this point we were in crazy town so I tried to bring it down some, which almost worked.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/18 06:48 PM
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Holy CRAP! This is my wife to a T. Different family background but she constantly self sabotaging. I'm at DL 4 and in her mind I"m at DL 12. Heck just a couple of weeks ago she accused me of affair with my friend who lifts (6ft 315 bearded fellow)! I like the guy but I sure as hell ain't gonna screw him.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/18 06:30 PM
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The Christian version of crawling through broken glass is this: She's willing to burn all her 'plans' to ground just to be with you (move out of town to go to school, stay in town with her family moving, quitting her job just to spend another hour with you, etc, etc), then you know you have a keeper. Back in the day, my grandmother married and moved from England to a small town on the Gulf Coast just to be with my grandfather after WWII. I don't believe they were believers, but the rule still (A…
/r/RPChristians20/03/18 10:14 PM
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Like others have said, put you faith in Christ when walking this path. I chose this same one, and because I didn't really understand what that actually meant, I trusted myself. I told myself the next woman I had sex with would be my wife... Cue fallen man with only a spark of faith, that was lonely and horny (I had been 18 months celibate) and a pretty woman who said and did all the right things... Six months to the day we met, I'm married. Well you can guess where I wound up. Married to a harlo…
/r/RPChristians14/03/18 04:53 PM
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Look up the book Boundries by Cloud and Townsend - Scripture based, very good, helped me solidify my frame.
/r/RPChristians12/03/18 01:40 PM
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It ought to work well, last year she was reading some really shitty romance novels that had like 'werebear' shit and stuff, at the time I got angry at it, didn't even think to turn it into some 'fun'. Sometimes anger phase really sucks, it shorts out the brain.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 10:15 PM
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Man this is great idea! Gonna try it this weekend.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:20 PM
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I tore my Peck tendon off the bone on Nov. 1. (Bench 4x5 @252 lbs, last set, last rep, bad form, POP goes the tendon!) Had it repair in early January. Doc says I can re-start strength training in a couple more months now... Wanna set back your training, pull a tendon.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 08:20 PM
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Like Stoney says, tread carefully, seriously horses seem to mess with women's psyche more than any other animal. Two stories: (Wife's) childhood friend's mom divorced her venture capitalist husband. And within 10yrs lost a 3 million dollar farm and burned through $10+ million trying to keep the hanavarian horse farm going...last I heard her daughter was helping her keep her toenails trimmed because she couldn't keep up with them herself... Second Story: I know a horse chick (friend of my parents…
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:29 PM
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My first goal for lifting was to get to the point where I could OHP my wife at her marriage weight, 145lbs for reps. I hit that about 10 months into my lifting (Those last 20lbs were brutal by the way (125-145lbs)). My next goal is to get to her current weight...225lbs, for reps. I'm at a 1 RPM of 205 right now after 18 months of lifting. (5'10" and same age as you) The thing about OHP is that it takes your whole body to do it, so your squats and other lifts will have to come up to be able to li…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 11:30 PM
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ABSOLUTELY! I've been playing on 'nightmare' mode for over 12 months now. Don't do it.
/r/askMRP03/11/17 09:23 PM
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This really resonates with me. I think I also understand now when when Jack10 spoke about not keeping score anymore as well. I've got a lot of pent up anger at her, at the duplicity, at her comparison of me to a previous lover (that was a fucking ego nuker right there). But I've got to let it go.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 04:28 PM
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CLICK! Thanks Stoney, I think a block just fell into place in my head with my wife!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 07:06 PM
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That made me LOL.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 09:49 PM
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Ha! 'Preach it' Dad! I'm starting to love when the blue suppository brigade shows up to AMOG here. Just this week mine has tried to threaten me back into the blue pill harness (silly girl is trying to weaponize here used up cooch, and her being 17 years past the wall (+70lbs)...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 06:00 PM
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If you're going to be Paul Harvey, at least give us the 'rest of the story'.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 02:46 PM
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I had lots of success with Rippatoe's Starting Strength program.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 05:33 PM
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Dude! That's about twice a year around my house, she'd wake up mad as hell for me 'cheating on her' in a dream, it usually lasts about half a day, more if I engaged (like a dumbass mind you). Now all I can do is laugh!
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:03 PM
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Ok Spergatron 1000, did you forget the beer part? Acknowledge the feelz, empathize and move on. She's a big girl, if the situation warrants, let her stew in her own drama, remember it's HER drama, not yours. How you move on it up to you and the situation. I think the ass slap is more like #2. There is room for both, situation dependent.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:01 PM
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Think of her feelz like a fiberglass splinter in your forearm, hurts like hell, can't seem to find it, and the pain just won't subside. How do you fix this? Couple of ways; Dig around with a pocket knife until you hit meat, leaves a big hole, and lots of blood. Effective but messy, good chance it's going to leave a scar and hurt like hell (This is like fixing the actual feelz) Try wrapping it in duct tape and yanking it off, sometimes it works, but pulls a lot of dam hair out, wow, not feeling t…
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:05 PM
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My woman does this to me ALL THE TIME, especially around her girlfriends. I used to get really pissed, but after the RP, things became clear. The shit test in a social setting is a way for her to 'show off' her social status to other women (fucking covert comms). It's simple (in a hamster kind of way) when you pass a public shit test HER status goes up by showing all the other girls - hey I with a high value man that doesn't put up with my crap. Remember gents the word of the day, everyday when …
/r/askMRP03/08/17 04:36 PM
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Yup, hcg every other day. Take T on Thurs & Sunday. Still playing the the with E2 blocker though, I'm over respond to the armemidex (sp?). And having 0 E2 absolutely SUCKS! Found some great info at T-nation, read the stickys there, it helped me with my doc. https://forums.t-nation.com/t/trt-protocol-for-injections/132230
/r/askMRP07/07/17 09:30 PM
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I will give you a pass here because you said your T was at 329. (Your brain ain't going to work for shit) Mine was at 223 when I unplugged from the matrix, and went rambo. I got it all the way up to 300 with diet, lifting HEAVY, and sleep. Still fell asleep at work with 8 hrs of sleep. Now I'm at 700 ish, and life is BETTER. She knows I take T, I went to the same hormone doc she's going to. It isn't a big deal, right now you're thinking like a women (because your closer to one hormonally) and yo…
/r/askMRP07/07/17 08:31 PM
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Don't say. DO!!! Damn'it! We are men here we don't sit around talking about what we are going to do, we do it! In practical terms, just tell I'm going to do X, would you like to come? If she crabs, waffles, hems haws, etc, just say 'ok' and head out the door and go have some fun -WITHOUT HER. If she says yes, then go have some fun. Expect A LOT of push back and testing of your frame, what little you have. As a general rule women are boring (it's baked into the hardware so deal with it). It's one…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 10:19 PM
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No. She won't 'get it', as a matter of fact she will be 'resentful' that she had to actually work or something. Shesh. Feelz is Realz. Tattoo this shit inside your eyelids, no man who ever explained 'consequences' in a logical way to a woman was successful, EVER. She has to FEEL reality to understand it. No simulator will ever trump the 'hamster'.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 10:14 PM
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This. My wife was visiting 'fight club' just yesterday (because of my piss poor opsec in the past) and the shit tests come hard and fast and use our vocab, it's fun when she asks 'so are you holding frame?'. Don't be stupid, like me. DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 02:53 PM
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Ah! Lightbulb moment! Mine does this shit ALL THE DAMN TIME! I couldn't logic my way to an conclusion other than thinking she is nucking futs. But this makes a lot more sense. Thanks man!
/r/askMRP12/05/17 07:25 PM
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It's a TRAP! https://duckduckgo.com/?q=It%27s+a+trap&t=ffsb&iax=1&ia=images This is a Recon in FORCE.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 08:13 PM
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Start reading here: http://www.barbellmedicine.com/584-2/ (Use this for the macros) Then use this tool to help dial you in to total calories. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-topics/weight-control/body-weight-planner/Pages/bwp.aspx This is what I used to go from 264 to 232 and double all my lifts, though I still have to find the balance, I will sometimes wake at 3am starving!
/r/askMRP24/03/17 08:43 PM
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This is me and my situation (except mine has an extra 65lbs!). I'm not sure I will be married to her in 2 yrs. but I will be in a better place for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 10:15 PM
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It's kind of moot now, like I said it was a HIGH profile job, (Astronaut program with NASA.) It was a long shot, but I figured "Why Not". (I probably didn't even make the first cut simply because I was white/male/not a pilot.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 09:27 PM
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Yeah I didn't lose much weight at first, but I was carrying around so much fat that if I just dropped my calories down a little, weight would fall off, now that I'm lifting some HEAVY SHIT, the old ways aren't working. What do you mean by intensity, I've cut my volume in half (was 4x5 squats @ 80%, now I'm doing 2x5 @ 80%) but even this is too much, I don't want to lose my gainz for sure.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 08:30 PM
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These were my November numbers, Prolactin:12.8 FSH:0.9 LH:4.6 Estradiol:21.5 PSA:1.0 (higher than my 69yr old dad!) T:296 Free T:7.5 D3:24 DiHydroT: 26 SHBG:35.6 Cortisol:13.9 The 200's suck, I can look back over the last 10 years and see how my brain/health started to drop off at work...
/r/askMRP26/01/17 08:27 PM
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Yeah I would say I'm a large frame/heavy frame, I've had shit fall on me that sends most normal human to the ortho for pins. Weight is now at 224. I had a DEXA scan (dec 2015) when I was 262 lbs. Machine said I was at 42%BF!!!!! Since I'm shooting for 12% I was carrying a extra 78lbs of fat with me!
/r/askMRP26/01/17 08:16 PM
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Thanks man for that. I'll start digging. Vit D was low, take 5K once a day, bumped calcium up too, (it was low and I am a mutant when it come to bone density Z score of 3.5!) I will look into/pick up some K2 Just started adding zinc into my mornings, will look for ZMA as well. Yeah the sleep has been probably my biggest issue, my wife has been a terrorist when it come to sleep while I've been unplugging.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 06:06 PM
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The job was HIGH profile, 12 spots, 18K applied. Looks like I was too white/male to get in. Anyway I'm going to try the Clomid for a while and see what happens, the metal clarity is the biggest benefit so far. (Is this what it's like to be a woman, damn)
/r/askMRP26/01/17 06:01 PM
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Thanks man, I've had all those numbers tested (my strangest number was a super low FSH). Endo had all that info, has me on 50mg for only 6 weeks to see if it will jumpstart my system (I've a got list of labs for that time). From what the Hormone & Endo say, I should be working based on everything else. Thanks on the OHP, it was a bitch to get up there, but I started at 232 I've been governor'd at 296 for the last 6 months. It's shear will power that's pushing that bar up, my T has been a little …
/r/askMRP26/01/17 05:16 PM
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Thanks, I'm not stopping, I was on the treadmill this morning before work trying to walk up Mt. Everest. I ain't stopping for no one. (On the hormones in the water, thankfully or system is groundwater for now, but I also keep a RO filter for the water we drink!)
/r/askMRP26/01/17 04:30 PM
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Yep I thought about that early on, but because I had applied for a high status job where medical was a big part of it (where being on TRT might drop my qualifications) that I held off as long as I could without outside help. Both the Endo and the hormone doc think that the Clomid can restart/jumpstart my natural system. I sure hope it can, I feel like I'm right on the edge of getting this licked. (Plus if I ever want to have kids again b/c wife jumped ship, I can still make swimmers)
/r/askMRP26/01/17 04:26 PM
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Thanks man, the GP was not very helpful, however when I went to the hormone doc, she has about 40 labs pulled in November to test all those other 'weird' hormones as well to see if it was some other issue. She's the one who sent me to the Endo.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 04:22 PM
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Good job man! I wish I could toss mine over the shoulder, but the only way I could is if I used chalk, a weight belt and lifting shoes. (And probably another 2 more years in the gym!)
/r/askMRP26/01/17 03:02 PM
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It doesn't matter if she's eating 3000 calories of celery, it's still 3000 calories! (This is has been my issue, I'm eating good clean food, just too dam much of it.) Maybe you two can sit down with this calculator and figure out how many calories she needs daily, and this plus myfitnesspal should get y'all started. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-topics/weight-control/body-weight-planner/Pages/bwp.aspx
/r/askMRP15/11/16 04:46 PM
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One word. Bicycle. Get one, even by a cheap one at walmart, pedal your ass off with it, use it for 90 days then toss it. Quit being a pussy and asking 'mommy' for a lift to the store. Heck 12 yr old boys have more mobility than you.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 08:34 PM
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This guy has lots of advice when it comes to grooming and clothing, even has a youtube channel. It's geared toward younger men but I have found some go advice on clothes shopping/buying for my 40+ yr old self. https://www.iamalpham.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 02:16 PM
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I've had lots of success with the Starting Strength program, (even has a phone app), that plus more "push aways" from the table (and cutting way back on carbs) and I'm down 30lbs in 6 months, still have 20 to go.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 03:01 PM
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Dude, you don't want her to find this stuff while you are trying to build your frame. It gets STUPID hard then. You think shit tests are fun now, wait until she starts using the vocabulary playing her girl game with it. It's not fun. DO NOT HAVE BAD OPSEC! DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB! DO NOT LET WIFE READ BPP's BOOK!
/r/askMRP19/08/16 06:42 PM
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You are not alone at all. My mother is an Alpha widow, Dad is VERY BP. and my little sister is a sociopath, no really in a black widow sort of way. Family get togethers are some serious shit around my house. It's time to man up. Read Ian's "Man Up" http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/06/forming-proper-response-to-hearing-man.html . It is helping me prepare for the coming family reunion next month. First family get together since taking the RP. Good luck bro. And don't forget, you can always …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 06:28 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. And don't forget to lift! Deadlifts do the body good!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 04:04 PM
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Damn, man. Damn. Keep at it, this will make you (and now your son via how you are handling yourself) stronger than you can believe.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 08:25 PM
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Thanks Guys for the slap upside the head. I needed that. I reset this weekend, took care of my items on my to-do list, figured out the difference between 'time' and 'presence' (thanks BPP) and how important it is to feelz. Sunday woke up and played the 'nice' card first thing and was the one who brought the 'fun' all day to the house. Sunday evening went out on a double date with the neighbors and was an enjoyable evening, felt like myself for the first time in a while and it showed. She was 3 m…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:14 PM
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Cool Link! Saved.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 07:06 PM
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Thanks for posting this! Great place to set some goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 06:31 PM
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Thanks, I will chew on that. Sarcastic response to fuckmrp about 'character' was just that to the weightlifting comment, /sarc/ you know not being able to DL 500lbs is a character flaw/sarc/(still figuring out how to respond to specific text). The rest of his comments I'm cogitating on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 10:03 PM
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I get that, I really do. Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong, but when I finished NNMNG I really thought long and hard about monk mode and how it might get her off the pedestal in my head. No problem there, the look of disgust (like the dog just vomited on the floor) took care of the pedestal for me. I still feel like I'm in her frame, (hell in a lot of other peoples frames as well) and by cutting out that 'hook' she has in me I think I can recenter. Now it could be my T levels are too low still…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 09:51 PM
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SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET. That's pretty damn funny. Thought about it some more. Yep, Anger is about realizing I'm just a dildo in her eyes not about the denial. I've been getting denied for years, yesterday wasn't any different :) If she want's some vibrating dick she can go pull it out of the drawer, I'm retiring from that position. I've learned from the men around here (ah-hum) there is plenty of Poon to go around, the one I have isn't special. ZFG on the Gym comment, just found it funny that t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 08:50 PM
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