No, I am saying they are both at fault for having extramarital relationships. Also if someone gets drunk, and gets raped the rapist is at fault, please don't try to put words in my mouth.
I wonder how "professional victim" would look on a resume. Actually they probably wouldn't hire you for fear of lawsuits. EDIT: Downvotes, if someone could explain what I did wrong, that would help me make insightful and quality comments in the future.