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| 4 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?C’est vrai | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Do guys like when the woman initiates fwb/casual sex?It can take away from the chase, however a woman being forward and assertive / confidant about what she wants, not beating around the bush, etc; is sexy and a turn on. Being a guy, and usually being the one to always initiate, I always wind up feeling like a sick perverted creep because I always feel like I’m undesired by my partners if I always have to start things each time. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 0 | HE KEEPS APOLOGIZINGI would say abort mission. If he’s this worried over a phone call that he might’ve hurt your feelings or denied you, I can only guess or imagine what a serious situation would be like. However if that doesn’t deter you, and other than that you still enjoy talking with each other, go for it. But as far as his constant apologizing it could just be he had a really strict upbringing, or his parents : guardians were tough on him and tried to make him the perfect child while growing up. | /r/seduction | 03/09/20 11:58 AM |
| 6 | Was I too distant?I mean, 3-4 days would annoy the fuck out of me of no contact. Not a girl, but I’d definitely move on pretty quick if that’s how it was. At a minimum I usually go for a phone call every 1-2 days. It’s understandable to be busy, and not get back to someone. Just based on my own experiences, if you make it seem like you’re not putting in the perceived mutual effort your partner is gonna flake or bounce. I’ve been in a number of long distance relationships, and atleast to me everything feels long d… | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | ‘I’m looking forward we hang out again” Is it fake?It can be tough, and people definitely act like that since things like that do actually happen. On one hand if it is an actual serious life event I doubt he’d be willing to involve you. On the other hand it could just be the “nice” way of letting you go with no real commitment. However it’s comments like this that I’ve really tried to get more into reading people’s facial expressions or tells so I know if they’re being serious or not. Provided I’m there in person. Snapchat, txt, etc makes it a b… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?Yeahhhh, that would be for the best. It’s one thing if you’re genuinely interested and you can see yourself dating them. But for things like that, if you say them you have got to be clear and explicit. Especially you’re special. It can be said to friends but you have got to say it like they’re family and not a romantic interest. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?Even still, his aunt is still family. I would just chalk this up as a learning experience and give a genuine apology, and explain you thought it might work, but that feeling never came for you. Is what it is, though for what it’s worth I hope the two of you can reconcile and remain friends. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?I mean, I can see where you're coming from. You gave him a chance, that's fine. Complimenting them or giving out self-esteem boosts, that I would have a hard time with as well. Being called someone's type, and then splitting would sting. Also, I don't think meetings friends is a big deal per se; but meeting family (at least where I'm from) is a huuuuuuge deal. I mean, I straight up don't invite anyone to meet my family at all unless I've been with them atleast 6-8 months and that's still early. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to get a shy guy to introduce himself/make a move?One of the things I started doing in college that actually did help (albeit slowly) was I kept asking myself: “5 years from now am I going to regret asking, or not asking and not knowing what it could have been like?” And I’d just go down the line of questions in my head. Telling you right now, if a girl approached me and even gave me an excuse to flirt, I’d flirt. If she came up and approached me, bold and confidant asking me out. She’s definitely getting my number. Even if she isn’t my type, b… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 7 | How to get a shy guy to introduce himself/make a move?I wanna find the people that say that. And slap them with a soggy pancake. IMO the best thing you can do if you don’t wanna “make a move” per se, give him opportunities. Just make really silly plans or something for him to come hangout with you. Ask if he wants to volunteer with you at the SPCA. If you play video games at all or even table top games, this is probably even easier. You could even just like, ask “Hey do you play smash bros?” It took me years of getting rejected over and over to get… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Asking a girl to hangNot my typical strategy, the sooner the better. But I guess it all depends on what you're looking for at the moment. My personal advice, do your homework and come with plenty of shit to talk about, and a few fun ideas other than going to chipotle. I'm going to say right now, women enjoy a good conversation. In my experience, listening to understand instead of listening to reply has kept partners more interested and invested. So going for a quiet listening approach isn't bad nor is it awkward. Yo… | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: 4 Dates In & She Won't Have Sex... Your Thoughts?I didn't have sex with my girl until almost 8 months in. Then again we're long distance and I'm in the Navy. That adds a whole new dynamic. However I would say that she honestly appreciates and likes you. Just ride it out, things will happen in time if you let them. You already got the girl, just enjoy her company. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Wait, you are a Boxer? K-CloseIt's ok, knowing me scumbag brain would have kicked in and referenced either the CL killer, or something else not sacred that should not be referenced on a first date. ...this is why I usually stay in. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wait, you are a Boxer? K-Closebecause if there was she would fall super hard for me. Sorry, obligatory FTFY. IMO her falling "super hard for you" could be another shit test or a bitch shield however; in my experiences if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't and either way I shouldn't care. Just don't go out sticking yourself in crazy ;) Also I think you could have had more fun with some of her dialogue such as I brought you here to seduce you. The potential for witty one liners that could have been said to throw he… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Developed a website to display Seddits best weekly quotesI wish I had some form of constructive criticism, sadly I don't. I think the site looks nice though. /favorited | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 03:15 PM |
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