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Yeah, it is. But OP posted “just be really muscular and rich“ to rise to women’s standards as if it’s such an easy thing to do and as if women are deserving of those standards. I may be dating an 8 that in her own mind is “settling” for me but in reality I’m her equal in smv. “Normal” to her is a good looking, in shape guy who makes 80k a year. In reality, that guy isn’t “normal” he’s actually top 20 percent if not higher. I don’t think we should ask women to “lower their standards” or “rise up …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:38 PM
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You should work as hard as you can to improve yourself. But in fairness, most guys will never look that muscular in clothes unless you take steroids. I have worked out for 5 years consisntely, I look great with my shirt off but in clothes I’m an average sized guy. “Rich” guys make over 500k a year and are .01% of the population. I’d argue most of them got there through birth or were extremely lucky. “Hard work” can get you top 1 percent but most of those are hardly “rich” no amount of hard work …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:18 PM
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Well, we don't really live in a society where that is enforced anymore. But quality women still do a form of that. They don't do one night stands, and every guy they have sex with there is some form of STR or LTR progressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah, sounds like fun if you’re 16. Otherwise sounds narsassist and oversharing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:04 PM
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Or just talk to women irl, much better roi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:02 PM
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I will never understand why guys would participate in social media outside of maybe business reasons. It's literally like walking up to every strange woman you see and telling them how beautiful and great they are for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:01 PM
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I think women call this "having a type"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:53 PM
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Not sure why this continues to be ground breaking news. I used to be critical of this as well until I started being objective with myself. What percentage of tinder women would you actually put any investment into? No, not hookup with RIGHT NOW if she was in front of you. I mean sacrifice time and energy for a girl youd brag to your friends about. That’s the way women look at selecting a guy. 60 percent of American women are overweight so eliminate them all right away. I’d also refuse any woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:02 PM
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There’s no such thing as a “natural.” Men learn this through experience. If you’ve never had a girlfriend because you were ugly, introverted and fat, you’re not gonna be around many women romantically early in life. Chad was good looking and extroverted so he always had lots of girlfriends and got way more experience and now seems like a natural and “just gets it,” but I’m sure that wasn’t the case when he was 14 But with the current difficulty of the smv and the decrease in social skills of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 05:54 PM
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Depends what you’re self sacrificing for. I’d argue self sacrificing so your kids can have a good life as in nice house, good food, good school, etc can be alpha and is not slavery, since you’re choosing to to do it. But self sacrificing so your wife can drive a nicer car to drive to Macy’s every day or your daughter can have the most expensive clothes at school, that’s getting walked all over
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 03:21 PM
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“One who puts "pussy on a pedestal" is usually a male who treats women, sex, and pussy as unattainable forces, And God's greatest gift.” I literally described women putting ME on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:40 AM
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Idk lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 05:58 AM
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I can’t defend marriage. It has its risks and I’m not convinced the rewards outweigh those risks but there are ways to limit some risk But in terms of dating: there is no greater experience for a man than to have a women be in love with you. When you look into her eyes and see pure admiration, infatuation, desire and comfort it’s indescribable. In that moment you are her god, she looks at you like you are the only man that exists. Does it last forever? I don’t know, it’s always had an expiration…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:14 AM
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Raising children is one the most alpha things a man can do. Notice I said raising, not getting walked all over. Disciplining, mentoring, self sacrificing, winning the psychological warfare, and knowing how to incorporate just the right amount of comfort and softness when they really need it requires being a true alpha male to the core. Any man who raises great, respectable children should receive only the highest respect in society. My father basically raised me and my siblings by himself and is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 03:36 AM
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Exactly, in fact first wave feminisms only goal was to get the white women the right to vote. Not to get into the mans workplace, not to be treated equal to men, none of them wanted any of that. The only reason it passed in the first place was because white southerner Democrats knew it would basically double their voting block. Woodrow Wilson was the president to finally pass it (a democrat and southerner). It was the daughters of the first wave that suddenly thought being a man seemed fun and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:09 AM
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The MRA approach to try to get people to care about their problems is also a stupid approach. My grandfather always said “men live lives of quiet desperation.” It was just assumed in those times that men were gonna have to suffer and work hard and women had life on easy mode. Everyone just knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 08:50 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:05 PM
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No, and I don’t care if they empathize. They will never be able to experience certain kinds of problems men have and will always be selfish about their own “struggle.” Hilary Clinton once said “the biggest victims of war are women. They lose husbands and sons” I just dont take an empathetic stance towards women in return. Doesent mean people aren’t empathic to individuals just not the genders as a whole. If a friends mom gets breast cancer, obviously I’m empathetic. But I don’t care about the “w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:09 PM
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No, it’s not a phase. She has a casual view towards sex and always will. You will never be special to her sexually, just another notch on the belt. She is not LTR material and never will be. These women don’t deserve to get married And it’s not a double standard, lock and key metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 03:53 PM
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Yeah, clears it up. It’s tough and I still find myself wanting to be lazy but I just push through. Much happier life that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 03:47 PM
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Not sure what you mean? Are you saying its sad guys have to put in effort to have a life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:24 AM
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fat and unattractive girls think they're hotter than they are. that's about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:21 AM
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best comments on this thread...post wall women so mad that the handsome young dude with the 25 year old is actually their age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 03:11 AM
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Very accurate. Waking up at 6 am to lift, working 8 hours, doing some athletic activity or social event after, going for an advanced degree part time, setting up social outings and expanding your social circle, gaming women all the time. It's hard fucking work. But we're not hot women, an abundant awesome life isn't just gonna be thrown at you because you exist. You have to make it happen. Guys just wanna be lazy. Even young men in relationships and are good with women are way too beta. They tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:49 AM
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probably easier lol now they have money, status, and aren't as immature so more desirable for a relationship. i get invited to another wedding like every month. but i never had many friends who sucked with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:37 AM
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go out and have as many experiences with girls as possible and have those personal experiences shape your behavior. don't let your parents, teachers, or the internet replace you're own actual experience. workout, look good, develop a strong social circle, and have interests and hobbies. girls are meant to have fun with. if you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong. tease them, flirt, and be friendly and nice only when they're friendly and nice to you. don't chase girls who aren't interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:29 AM
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nah the guys who are having a tough time in their 30's always had a tough time or are divorced and depressed. most guys in their 30's are having a pretty easy dating time and it was either always easy for them or it's easier now than it ever was. every women i know having a tough time in her 30's had a much easier time in her 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:18 AM
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yeah, BetaBux will basically do anything to get laid and not be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:22 AM
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That wouldn't be a bad idea if money was no object. but if you're just well off it makes a lot more sense to have a family with a 25 a year old and pump out kids with her over 10 years. kids have a more stable family and probably cheaper in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:21 AM
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not many, most were smart and got married when they were younger. the divorced ones do ok since they already had a family and kids so just finding an attractive guy who will let them in his harem isn't too hard or a low smv betabux. but the ones that held out for whatever reason are having a tough time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:16 AM
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yeah, if he looks 40. a lot of 40 year old men who take care of themselves look early 30's. it's more appearance than actual age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:13 AM
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Yeah, people make decisions that are counter productive all the time...never met a guy of value who had a family with a woman over 35. I mean my grandpa married a woman in her 40's, but his first wife died and he was in his 60's so...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:54 PM
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That was obviously what I meant based on my post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:51 PM
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They are valueless, not to like the earht, but to the SMP. Just like how below average looking, non charismatic, low status guys are valueless to the SMP. I don't except any woman with decent SMV to choose an average guy or below average guy because he's "nice" when there are tons of above average guys who are "nice" to choose from. So I don't expect any decent smv guy to pick a 37 year old woman when there are tons of women literally the same, just ten years younger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:47 PM
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Why a high smv year old guy starting a family for the first time would pick a 45 year old. he didn't pick a 45 year old, he picked a 26 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:42 PM
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Yeah, signs of aging. I'm muscular and can grow a full beard whereas at 21 I was skinny and had a patchy beard. Oh and I dress better, but aging didn't do that. Women signs of aging, wrinkles, fat gain, and that loss of the optimistic twinkle in her eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:56 PM
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I just get bored of the same "wah women are shallow and mean: CMV" posts. I'm also constantly shamed by women my age for preferring younger. The last girl I dated all of my work colleagues were giving me shit like "make sure you check her ID" and "are you sure she's legal." She was actually only a year younger than me, she just didn't look like shit and was petite. I think men accept this shame and date women over 30 instead of realizing they can improve their looks and not have to settle with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:52 PM
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Lol those women are just trying to prove they still got it, but deep down know they look worse. Or they had gotten fat and lost a bunch of weight. Look at celebrities. Most leading women who are sex symbols are early 20's and have maybe a 5 year shelf life before being replaced by another hot 22 year old. Not many male sex symbols are early 20's. Most are around 30-35
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:37 PM
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I'm just explaining how you don't have to be top 1 percent of looks or money to get younger women easily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:32 PM
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At 40, most people thought my dad was late 20's. My mom was 29 and thought he was younger than her. Probably could've pulled 25 if the opportunity popped up. Y'all just got shit aging genetics and/or don't take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:28 PM
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I look much better nearing 30 than I did at 25 and I look WAAAAAAY better than I did at 19 and 20. I don't see this pattern changing anytime soon. Same is true for many of my old high school and college friends. Yeah, some look worse but most of them were Chads who peaked in high school and now are just lazy. Cannot say the same for many women I've known since high school or college
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:21 PM
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If you're a 50 year old man who never had kids and a family and you some how ended up "poor", you're obviously not great at decision making. and good for your junior high friend but the guy she's with is either dumb, low value, or in his 60's lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:17 PM
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They do age better if they take care of themselves. But there is a ceiling. Most men will look way better at 27 than 19. Most can look better at 33 than 23. But true, very few look better at 40 than 30. But almost no woman looks better at 27 than 19 and NO woman looks better at 33 than 23. and most women look waaaaaay worse at 40 than 30. It's not that post wall women look bad necessarily, its that they look WORSE....alot worse in some cases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:06 PM
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so he married aka chose you at 26? also he COULD have divorced you and knocked up some sweet young thing if he wanted to. just because he can, doesn't mean he would for any number of reasons. however, you divorcing him and finding a new guy with the same SMV to marry you and have another kid would be quite the task
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:53 PM
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best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:51 PM
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It is a red flag to say you NEVER want kids. But it's a red flag you both share, so it's a match Doing drugs is a red flag. But if you both do drugs, it's a match
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:15 PM
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You're getting red flag confused with your personal preference. Going out and drinking all the time is a red flag. But if I was a huge partier its a red flag I'd have too. So we'd be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:12 PM
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wanting kids AT SOME POINT when it is financially stable and you feel you've reached an appropriate maturity level and its the right situation is not selfish, lazy, or immature. not wanting kids EVER is though. as is wanting kids just to want kids and having them at a shitty time, which is totally different than what I was suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:09 PM
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This isn't on tinder, on tinder the results were pretty much the same. There aren't many women over 22 on tinder anyway unless they're low SMV These results were from bumble, hinge, and I had one friend try it on j swipe lol (those results were incredible)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:04 PM
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Most men in their 20's don't have alot of money, are immature, look young, but can be good looking. Men in their 30's and 40's have money, are mature, don't look young, but can be good looking the same is true for women but men don't care about money, maturity, and not looking young. in fact these can be negatives. women gain virtually nothing with age, the best she can hope for is her looks don't recede. men can gain a lot if they do it right, and if his looks don't recede, he'll still be good …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:00 PM
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Yes, they were looking for get married and have children, especially the ones in the 27-35 bracket. Thats why they're using the app. If they just wanted to get fucked, why would they prefer an older guy to a guy there own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:50 PM
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a man who doesn't want kids is a red flag. RPers will disagree. but it shows seflishness, laziness, immaturity, and a lack of desire to fullfill your basic evolutionary desire. These are traits I personally don't want in a partner. and traits i'd say most high SMV women don't want either. If two people are like that and don't have a problem with the same traits in their partner, that's fine they can do whatever they want. But those are still red flags. A PBD girl and an abusive, manipulative man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:44 PM
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yeah, most of the manosphere has an unhealthy obsession with fear of getting cheating on too. and dumped for chad. and divorce raped. and just getting treated poorly by women in general. i'd say manosphere men have more of a "picking shitty women" problem than anything. not seeing a woman being anti-kid as a red flag is probably another symptom of that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:37 PM
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That's accurate, I don't think older men should be LTRing 18-22 year olds. They are still mentally children. But I think women mature much quicker. The maturity and behavior of a 27 year old woman is probably equal or greater to the maturity of a 37 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:32 PM
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lol i once changed my age to ten years older just for hahas. I got like 4 times as many matches as normal, especially from women WHO WERE MY ACTUAL AGE. Nothing else was different but suddenly I was more appealing. I've had other guy friends do the same thing and report back similar results. I even went out with a few 30's women just out of curiosity and they looked WAY worse than the 20's women I date. Maybe not in pictures, but up close in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:27 PM
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No, but that woman didn't spend too long on the ride before she hit the wall. Clearly, if she has 5 kids before 50 she picked an appropriate time to jump off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:22 PM
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not really and I don't believe everyone NEEDS to, they can do whatever the fuck they want. It's just not a personality trait i'd choose to be involved with and alot of people (especially men) would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:19 PM
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Full sister, she was 35. They had two miscarriages before her. She's 6 years younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:16 PM
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You have a fair argument but any woman who had the lack of desire on parenthood that you have would be a huge red flag for me, so I'd never personally date them. Now, you probably wouldn't give a shit so it's not really a consequence FOR YOU and you're also the exception, not the rule on motherhood and families. so again it's not a consequence FOR YOU. but if another woman was in your position and at 40 changed her mind, it would definitely limit her options and therefor be considered a conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:13 PM
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I'd say a woman not wanting childen and never having any is a HUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGEEEEEE red flag It should be a red flag for men too. RPers will give me shit for that, but it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:07 PM
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True, but there's alot of other examples. We just kind of have to use celebrities because I can't say "this guy at work" or "my buddy" or even myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:04 PM
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I've met that Chad. Nice old guy. he told me his trick to get women was "i'd walk into a bar and ask every attractive woman if she wanted to fool around. I got a lot of mean yells, slaps, and nos. But I also got a lot of yeses" truly the greatest generation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:02 PM
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You make a valid point, but all of those guys aren't hitting the wall. They're letting the wall hit them by not doing everything they possibly can to keep improving their SMV. I'm biased though, men in my family don't go bald, are ectomorphs who work out, and have good style. So balding, getting fat, and dressing like shit will never really be concerns for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:56 PM
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that's true but what percent of those 80 guys is it really THAT bad? Like david beckham has a "receding hairline" don't think it's hurting him too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:47 PM
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Why any high smv guy would be trying to have kids with a 45 year old is a mystery to me, unless he himself was in his 60's or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:44 PM
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My boss just had a kid with his new wife. He's late 50's. My dad had my youngest sister at 47. Men having families and kids in their late 40's and 50's isn't that uncommon. Pretty much non existent for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:42 PM
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Bald also doesn't always equal loss of smv. If they're good looking, in good shape, successful and just shave their damn head. Bruce Willis, The Rock for example. Those post college bros probably look like shit because they're ugly and have beer guts. But like I said, most men wear their hair short anyway, you have to be seriously balding for it to be noticeable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:34 PM
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looks wall means nothing to women from the way men look at it. sex offers hold no value to them unless it includes commitment from men they really want. I'm saying the wall is the sudden decreasing of life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:28 PM
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grandpa died at 78 with a full head of hair. other grandpa is on his death bed at 84 with colon cancer, full head of hair. my hair is so goddamn thick i'll be happy if it thins out a little in 20 years. yeah, some men draw the short straw but most are in their late 50's before balding is even noticeable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:24 PM
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Not saying there aren't exceptions. And low smv guys choose women close to their age group all the time. But none of those high smv guys are choosing post wall women. They're still choosing women under 35
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:19 PM
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Yeah but that "too old" is probably 20+ years older for men. And some high smv wealthy dudes still manage to do it in their 60's and 70's. hugh hefner, mick jagger, steve martin and countless others. I'm having a tough time naming even one woman over 50 who did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:16 PM
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Yeah and if you're saying the same thing in 10 years, I'd believe you really mean that. Because if you didn't, you could still do it. If a woman said the same thing, how can I know it's true? Not like she has much of a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:11 PM
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I doubt a 50 year old woman gives a shit how many men want to fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:08 PM
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Yeah, low smv middle aged men...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:07 PM
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No, because 18 year olds are teenagers. But 40 year old men can date other ADULT women. A high smv 40 year old will have no problem dating a 25 year old in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:03 PM
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your mom clearly already had kids. I'll admit once you've had kids and lived the family life, the wall doesn't mean much. "getting dick" is never an accomplishment for women, since most say all the attention is more annoying then anything. But probably many 50 year old women who NEVER had kids or a family regret it but they know there's nothing they can do now, so they don't talk about and just buy their cat. Men at 50 who say they don't want kids really mean it. There are no 50 year old men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:52 PM
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Not saying they can't get laid. If land whales can find someone to fuck them, so can any post wall woman. Even senior citizens. I'm saying change their whole life, settle down, have kids, etc. etc. Plus every woman talks about how getting purely sex offers from tons of low quality guys is more annoying than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:41 PM
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Yeah “for a while”. Most smart, awesome men do the same thing so I’m not knocking her for it. For a high value man, you probably rarely jump off the ride “too late”. Hell Hugh Hefner did the whole “suburban Dad” thing in his 60’s. Women should just be aware it’s not the same. If you change your mind at 35, you had less choice than at 25. If you change your mind at 45, it’s too late. Even if you look smoking hot for your age
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:54 PM
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That sounds all well and good, I just hope your life goals don’t ever change. A man can do that same thing you’re doing and then suddenly decide at 45 it’s a hollow life, get married, and start a family. You won’t have that luxury most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:52 PM
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I don't really give a shit what blue pillers have to say. I do generally want to hear what purple pill, red pill have to say when they differ from my opinion especially red pill or purple pill women. I think most people with that flair want some understanding debate, not just prove a point. Redpill sidebar is a great foundation to start forming your beliefs on how to be your own man, but the actual debate always ends up being who has the worst horror story about women. None of my experiences are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:31 PM
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This whole "wah poor women just want relationships, men just wanna fuck" and the "wah poor men get used and manipulated by vaginas." Are both pretty annoying and inaccurate There are tons of situations where I've had hooked up with a girl 1, 5, even 20 times and then for whatever reason she ghosted, became flakey, or straight up said something like "i'm just not looking for anything serious." Was I disappointed? Yeah. Was I used? No, people change their minds all the time. This probably happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 03:58 PM
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