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LTR/MARRIAGEcarasaurus/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 05:01 AM
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carasaurus/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:42 AM
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This is amazing. Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 08:56 PM
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Thank you! I’ve actually read that one.... A long time ago and before children. It obviously didn’t stick hahaha! I’ll need to read it again.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 12:04 PM
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Thank you. Yes, a lot to undo here as well but I’m excited that I have a plan. We were on a cycle of me being a hateful, unhappy person and I’m glad to have a way out. Good luck to you!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 12:03 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 04:21 PM
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Left him a note saying basically what you suggested on his desk in his home office (he often goes back to work after dinner), and after he saw it he immediately came downstairs and... ahem... interrupted my shower... and then messaged me later saying “Thank you for my note it made my day”. I think you’re on to something.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 12:49 PM
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In his defense, this was at the end of fight number 14574366 of the week and I’m pretty sure he just wanted me to shut up. If I’m being honest, I started every single one. My husband is a very kind man so I’m honestly even surprised he said that to me. I’ve read that book but I think I need a refresher. Humble vulnerability is something I desperately need to work on. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 12:11 PM
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That’s very insightful. It is hard for me to accept his decisions (or rather that HE is the decision maker) but he has 100% earned that power. Yes, the advice has been amazing. I feel like I was on a very dark path for a long time and now I can turn things around. Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:45 PM
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That’s a really good point. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 10:56 PM
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That’s fair. I will tell him that tonight. I have been thinking that all day but for some reason didn’t verbalize it to him. Still learning.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 10:36 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 10:35 PM
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I’m certain that plays into it. I’ve been way too concerned with trying to match up with my husband rather than trying to be the best possible wife. I feel better today, like I’m in a better mindset than I have been for years. Thank you for your encouragement!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 05:17 PM
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That’s a great idea, thank you! Our kids have certainly taken a toll on our couple time and it shows.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 03:26 PM
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Thank you!! Hahaha, right? Certainly an interesting dichotomy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 03:25 PM
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And I just caught the “redefine winning.” I love that idea. At the end of the day, I can’t hide that I’m super competitive so thinking about changing the goal helps so much.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 03:01 PM
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Thank you so much! Printing it now.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:55 PM
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Retired lawyer here. You’re right, winning the argument means nothing. It’s totally my ego getting in the way. I can admit this all here but I have a hard time when I get annoyed. Which isn’t an excuse, it’s me being immature and short sighted. Thank you for your advice, I will do just that!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:51 PM
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I loathe feminist logic so I’m not sure how I got here but you’re right. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:52 AM
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Buying it now! Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:51 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:50 AM
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Amen. You’re right. Considering I’ve never stopped myself from saying exactly what I want, I know it’ll be a challenge but you’re right, I have to. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:50 AM
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You are so right. And I definitely don’t want my kids to grow up thinking you should treat your husband this way. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:48 AM
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Thank you all for your advice. It is very helpful and I know you are all right. I apologized and here’s what I said: “Okay. I’ve thought a lot about this. You’re right. I haven’t been the kind of wife I want to be or the type you deserve. Further, I am not acting like the type of wife that I want to model to my children and that kills me. I know my mouth is the biggest problem and I’m going to sincerely work on thinking before I speak. I’m sorry, I love you. I want to do better.” This man is an …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:45 AM
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Correct. Under DC law, "[m]ere cohabitation is not enough to establish a common-law marriage, even if reputation be added to it, but it must at least appear that the parties cohabited as husband and wife in good faith, that is, that the cohabitation followed an express mutual agreement to be husband and wife." U. S. Fid. & Guar. Co. v. Britton, 269 F.2d 249 (D.C. Cir. 1959. Cohabitate on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 09:24 PM
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Survey of marital law by jurisdiction. Only Alabama, Colorado, the District of Columbia, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah continue to recognize common law marriage. See In re Marriage of Martin, 681 N.W.2d 612, 617 (Iowa 2004); DeMelo v. Zompa, 844 A.2d 174, 177 (R.I. 2004); In re Estate of Ober, 62 P.3d 1114, 1115 (Mont. 2003); Creel v. Creel, 763 So. 2d 946 (Ala. 2000); In re Estate of Antonopoulos, 993 P.2d 637, 647 (Kan. 1999); Russell v. Russell, 865 S.W.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 02:23 PM
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I had a sneaking suspicion there'd be another one like me here in RPW :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 07:13 PM
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I had the same reaction. Hooray!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 04:41 AM
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This is what I do too. I use this chart because for whatever strange reason, being able to check things off a list motivates me :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:45 PM
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Hahah again, sounds easier said than done :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 09:52 PM
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This sounds a lot easier said than done. Any tips on being sweet?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 07:43 PM
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Apparently in my mind it is either still September or I can't count, we've actually been married for around 10 months (just counted haha). Well congratulations, almost a year :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 01:58 AM
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About 6 months
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 01:52 AM
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Hah, weird! Something in the eHarmony water I suppose :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 01:40 AM
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We met online, eHarmony FTW :) How tall he was He proposed after a year and a half, year long engagement I was 24, he was 32 I love that my husband will play harry potter scene it with me and that he doesn't take any shit from me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 04:40 PM
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