carbidegriffen Archive

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3	Five numbers in one night with this one weird trick! I first read this book in a college course about persuasion, it's a great read not just for PUA but most of it will apply for that. I'm going from memory but there is a chapter in there about perceived value. Raise the price and people will want it more. PUA equivalent, confidence increases perceived value. If people really want to geek out on this kind of stuff pick up: http://www.amazon.com/Thank-You-Arguing-Aristotle-Persuasion/dp/0307341445 Our schools need to teach more ethics and rhetoric.	/r/seduction	17/03/14 10:19 PM
1	Is anyone here learning Game while they're still in a relationship? (For the benefit of their current partner) I'm in sales. Meeting women is very similar to making a sales pitch, and if you are at a conference it is exactly the same, lots of people trying their game in order to make a sale. If you can break one off from the group you can make your pitch. The closes have a parallel: Number close is the same. Kiss close is a small sale or a follow up meeting with a higher up. F-close is a sale. Using what I've learned has given me more confidence to jump into a mixed set.	/r/seduction	02/10/13 02:26 AM
2	Is anyone here learning Game while they're still in a relationship? (For the benefit of their current partner) Want to echo this, I'm in my late 30's married with 3 kids. I didn't discover game until I'd been married for years. I discovered it on a list of books about improving salesmanship. The look I got from my wife was hilarious. I printed off the recommendation list went to the library and picked up about 4 books, 3 were total sales books but one was The Game by Neal Strauss.	/r/seduction	30/09/13 07:20 PM
10	So, just got an erection while holding hands with a girl now what? No, say "I had my doubts, but I think he likes you" or "there's nothing I can do about it, but there are things that you could do..." or "the first show is free, next time it'll cost ya" or Look down at it for a moment and scowl. Then look at her and say with a disapproving tone... "I blame you for this."	/r/seduction	04/09/13 04:33 PM
3	So, just got an erection while holding hands with a girl now what? Unless OP left out a bunch of details or told his story out of order... no question she was interested in going further. There was touching and flirting, then hand holding, then she sees winky rise, then she asks him to get in her car. I can't say how far she wanted to go but a make-out session was a lock.	/r/seduction	04/09/13 04:28 PM
9	So, just got an erection while holding hands with a girl now what? I suspect she is confused because you didn't make a move after she spotted your hard-on. If she was bothered or uncomfortable with what she saw she would not have offered you a ride. The reason for the boner doesn't matter, and she assumes that she did that. So from her perspective she thinking, I got this guy hard, I got him alone, and then he says he'll text me later... wtf? There are many things you could have done differently but that is the past, forget that and forge ahead. Act like nothin…	/r/seduction	04/09/13 04:08 PM
3	Be a fucking value giver I didn't discover PUA thing until I was happily married, so I view all this as interesting reading and what traits do I want to encourage in my sons. I also work in sales and there are aspects of seduction that can be used in sales. Back to your comment, I agree it's kind of like flirting like a 3rd grader. I worked with a girl who had a great body, she was good looking and had an education, overall 8or9/10. But she would sometimes either be down on her self or was fishing for complements and co…	/r/seduction	30/07/13 05:02 PM
2	Is online dating a good way to meet cool girls? I generally view meeting new people to have many parallels to job seeking. While there aren't statistics, that I'm aware of, for pick ups, there are for job hunting. Using any online dating is like using Monster to find a job. Have people found jobs via Monster? Sure, but not as many as have found a job through a friend or family member. IIRC from worst way to best way to find a job and the parallel that I view in meeting folks: Online job hunt = Online dating Sending out random resumes = random…	/r/seduction	22/07/13 07:14 PM
10	A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you. I've often heard this as: Unconsciously Incompetent, you don't know what you don't know Consciously Incompetent, you know what you don't know Consciously Competent You know how, but you have to work at it. Unconsciously Competent, You know how and can do it on autopilot (mastery)	/r/seduction	15/07/13 06:54 PM