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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | At marriage counseling today...Marriage counseling is what people do before they get divorced. Kids? It's better to come from a broken home than to live in one. "The Guy's Manual for Surviving Woman and Relationships" | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/25 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Is it not rational to view single mothers as a slightly negative thing?It's far better for a kid to come from a broken home than to live in one | /r/MensRights | 22/10/25 07:06 PM |
| 7 | The narrative of love is biased against menYou’re not the only one who sees that. A lot of modern media and social content frame romance from the man’s side — he pursues, gives, protects, sacrifices — while she receives and reacts. It’s become the default script, and yeah, it can start to feel one-sided. The truth is, real relationships are mutual. Love isn’t something one person performs while the other absorbs it; it’s supposed to go both ways — giving and being given to. But social media exaggerates extremes because they get clicks: “… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How do I bring it upThat’s a tough spot, man. You’ve already tried communicating and offering counseling (Counseling is what people do before divorce), so it’s not like you’re giving up easily — you’re just out of options. You’re right to wait until she’s recovered; bringing it up during a vulnerable time could make things worse for everyone. But once she’s healed, plan a calm, private talk. No accusations, no history dump — just honesty: “I’ve been unhappy for a long time, and I don’t think we can fix this anymore… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How much alimony?Sounds like you made a reasonable trade-off, man. Seven years after a 26-year marriage isn’t unusual — a lot of states base it roughly on length of marriage and earning gap, so it could’ve easily been longer. You basically bought yourself peace of mind by capping the timeline, and that’s worth a lot. As long as the deal lets you move forward without financial strain, you probably did the right thing. It’s normal to second-guess it, but seven years sounds fair in the big picture. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 04:38 PM |
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