carbondog54 Archive

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1	She is done, I can't fix this, here is my story. Narcissism is characterized by an individual's excessive concern with themselves and disregard for others. Narcissistic women are nightmares for guys in a relationship. Their disease is permanent; there is no cure. People are who they are, and they act accordingly. When a woman exhibits narcissistic tendencies in a relationship, it can take several distinct forms. Signs of Narcissistic Behavior in Women in a Relationship Not all difficult behavior is narcissistic, but consistent patterns like th…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 07:00 PM
1	At marriage counseling today... Marriage counseling is what people do before they get divorced. Kids? It's better to come from a broken home than to live in one. "The Guy's Manual for Surviving Woman and Relationships"	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 05:58 PM
1	Feeling low today 5. Don’t Move Out Right Away. Moving out can look like abandonment, especially in custody battles. This is serious, guys. If she gives you the bad news, you're not going to be prepared, and you're going to be freaked out. It's a major blow. Major. A lot of guys don't do so well after getting the news. There are way too many stories about guys turning on their wives and doing bad things. Here are five stages of grief: 1. Denial. You can't believe this is happening. 2. Anger. This is the one you n…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 05:51 PM
1	Is hypergamy a real thing or not? And what's your take on it? Beautiful women can and are attracted to guys who are less-than-good-looking. They choose them because they want a long-term relationship, with marriage and children in mind. They know these guys are less likely to cheat. They tend to stay around and are usually good fathers. Guys, if you look like a two-headed frog, you’re in luck. One of my good friends is, well, he’s a friend, so I’ll be easy on him. He looks like somebody who’s been in one too many boxing matches. His wife is gorgeous, and t…	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 07:11 PM
0	Is it not rational to view single mothers as a slightly negative thing? It's far better for a kid to come from a broken home than to live in one	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 07:06 PM
7	The narrative of love is biased against men You’re not the only one who sees that. A lot of modern media and social content frame romance from the man’s side — he pursues, gives, protects, sacrifices — while she receives and reacts. It’s become the default script, and yeah, it can start to feel one-sided. The truth is, real relationships are mutual. Love isn’t something one person performs while the other absorbs it; it’s supposed to go both ways — giving and being given to. But social media exaggerates extremes because they get clicks: “…	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 07:02 PM
1	Hi, i'm a feminist and i would like to understand your point of view Totally with you on that. “Feminism,” at its core, is supposed to mean equality — equal rights, equal respect, equal opportunity, regardless of gender. That’s something most people, men and women, can get behind. What turns people off is when it drifts into superiority or hostility — that’s not feminism, that’s resentment with a label on it. The goal shouldn’t be one gender winning; it should be both being able to live, work, and love without being boxed in by outdated roles or double standards.…	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 05:33 PM
3	How do I bring it up That’s a tough spot, man. You’ve already tried communicating and offering counseling (Counseling is what people do before divorce), so it’s not like you’re giving up easily — you’re just out of options. You’re right to wait until she’s recovered; bringing it up during a vulnerable time could make things worse for everyone. But once she’s healed, plan a calm, private talk. No accusations, no history dump — just honesty: “I’ve been unhappy for a long time, and I don’t think we can fix this anymore…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 04:46 PM
1	How much alimony? Sounds like you made a reasonable trade-off, man. Seven years after a 26-year marriage isn’t unusual — a lot of states base it roughly on length of marriage and earning gap, so it could’ve easily been longer. You basically bought yourself peace of mind by capping the timeline, and that’s worth a lot. As long as the deal lets you move forward without financial strain, you probably did the right thing. It’s normal to second-guess it, but seven years sounds fair in the big picture.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 04:38 PM