carbonhex05 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Stepping ain’t easy & I think my only choice is to resign Gold, absolute gold. I can't upvote this enough.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/24 03:03 PM
16	Do all men lack sexual boundaries? Ditto to all of this. Especially since your father is that kind of "man." In short, I recommend focusing on therapy (even if it takes a few tries to find the right person; I also have a personal recommendation if needed), self-love/improvement, and a pause on ALL dating for a while.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/22 08:06 PM
3	Worried about emerging dynamic - please help! When I was engaged, my grandmother said "be careful what chores you take on your first year of marriage. You'll be stuck doing them forever." Wow, kinda wish I had known this :/ Smart lady!	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/22 12:38 PM
8	Bringing Our Toddler to a Steakhouse That's not the point of this post, and these types of replies are becoming an echo chamber of annoying, misplaced, and judgemental criticism. Her point is the work she did internally at the dinner. She's making conscious changes in her life each day and wanted to share one of her victories here, a place that has been tremendously helpful to her, and as a result, her family. I work in Early Childhood, so I get it. Working in ECE and actually having a child of your own is COMPLETELY different. I w…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/22 12:50 PM
7	Bringing Our Toddler to a Steakhouse That's not the point of this post. Her point is the work she did internally at the dinner. She's making conscious changes in her life each day and wanted to share one of her victories here, a place that has been tremendously helpful to her, and as a result, her family. Please don't come stomping into the comments when you miss the entire point of a post. Nitpicking pieces of a post or story does no one any good, and that's not what this community is about. Your "advice" could have been phrased b…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/22 01:32 AM
3	On a break with my man and in pain At the same time I find it interesting that in your OP you describe everything as if it were only his problem and you even ask for confirmation that "you deserve better", aka someone who doesn't have doubts. Did you ever ask yourself why he seems to doubt that the two of you will manage a happy life together? If I'm understanding correctly what you're trying to convey, I partly disagree. Yes, relationships are a two way street and each person needs to take accountability for themselves and the i…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/22 04:18 AM
2	On a break with my man and in pain Also, any man who was truly invested in you would never want to be on a break or not talking for two weeks. That would crush him. I can't agree with this enough. This is pure truth.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/22 03:55 AM
2	On a break with my man and in pain Exactly! Ditto ditto ditto.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/22 03:50 AM
3	On a break with my man and in pain After reading your post, all other comments, and then rereading your post, you did the right thing by sticking to your guns. With only the information you have provided in addition to my own experience and knowledge, this guy will most likely not commit long-term for several reasons: 1) His personal & relationship immaturity - insecure; further explanation below 2) He wants to have his cake and eat it too - you pointed this out and you're spot on in what he wants; ditto to everything about the i…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/22 03:47 AM
12	The comfortable feeling of letting your man lead. "I would not call submission laziness, it takes effort to submit and to do your work in the helpmate role." I 1000% agree with everything you said and especially that bit. Speaking from personal experience here too.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/22 08:21 AM
5	Help me say no to this situationship From my POV, he wants connection/sex without commitment. No matter how nice he may be, his behavior is unacceptable. If he truly cared about and respected you, he would respect your wishes. That being said, by continuing to have sex with him, he's under the assumption that you're willing to and interested in also doing the same - connection/sex without commitment. As for remaining friends, I don't think it's possible for either of you right now without giving in to sex. You said yourself you mis…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/22 11:16 PM
1	How to handle an inconsistent husband, temper and stress Therapy, therapy, therapy. He needs a professional to help him work through this and give a proper diagnosis. Me being on the spectrum for bipolar 2 with CPTSD from past sexual abuse, this sadly feels familiar, as my sweet husband has been on the receiving end of my triggers. There's no way anyone can work through a mental illness/past trauma on their own. Time does NOT "heal all wounds." These things only get worse without treatment, and I'm sure there's more beyond this post that would explain…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/22 11:07 PM