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Oh, I'm ready for divorce, my friend. This is a perfect example of why. She will do anything to get her way. This is just her way of trying to get control back.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/18 03:01 PM
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I take it you're divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/18 01:37 PM
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My wife has always questioned my manhood. Once, when I had hurt my back, I went to the doctor who gave me some prescriptions. I called my wife from the pharmacy and told her I was picking them up. She asked what they gave me. I told her and she said, "Did they give you anything for your vagina?" That really got to me. I'm supposed to be a carpenter, a mechanic, a landscaper, a cook and a house keeper. But it's never enough for her. I think some people get used to being treated kindly and they ta…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/18 08:22 AM
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So, here's another little added bonus to the story. I work nights so on the nights I'm off, I stay up late. Tonight/this morning, she woke up around four o'clock. I sat on the couch for a few minutes, then decided to take a shower to avoid her. I was in the shower and the shower curtain opened. It was her. She just got in the shower and stood there staring at me all crazy looking. I finished and got out. I was drying myself off then she slings open the shower curtain and stands in the shower sta…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/18 09:52 AM
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Why is leaving so bad? I've read, "don't leave the house" over and over again. Why should I stay in a place where I'm completely miserable? Our kids are 19 and 14. Would the 14 year old have a say in who she wants to live with? Which is me. I'm at the end of my rope. I feel like I'm about to lose my shit.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/18 07:28 AM
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She came home today with this checklist on relationships. She told me to check each statement I felt was true. I checked nearly all of them, but the only one she's harping in is the one that asked, "Do you feel like you've lost all love and intimacy in your relationship?". She completely ignored the ones that asked if there was a history of physical or emotional abuse. Or the one that says, Do you feel like your spouse constantly degrades you or makes you feel inept? I don't understand. Was I su…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/18 09:21 PM
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She's already taken me off our joint savings account. Luckily I saw this coming and withdrew half of it before hand and put it in an account under my name. I still left her with more than half because our tax return went into that account.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/18 09:13 PM
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That's kind of where I am. My daughter says she is more afraid of us fighting than us getting a divorce. We don't fight a lot, only because I try my best to avoid it. But we haven't even spoke to each other in over two weeks. It's miserable and I hate it when we're home together. I dread the weekends because I know we'll have to be around each other. She'll be home soon and I'm dreading it. She got drunk Friday and Saturday night, which makes it even more awkward and unstable. Now I'm afraid she…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/18 07:16 PM
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Do your girls blame you for the divorce? My daughter, 14, has already told me she would want to live with me. I've practically raised her myself. My wife's drinking bothers her and has kind of turned her against my wife. She is the only reason I don't go today and get a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/18 06:39 PM
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I just wanted to add a little info. She started a new job about four years ago. After starting this job, she became "friends" with a guy at work. She would come home every day and just go on and on about this guy. They parked next to each other. Went to lunch and breakfast together. Left together. They started texting each other. She would get off of work at 2:30, yet not get home sometimes until 6 or 7. She would go in and work extra on the weekends, but only if he was working. And he would do …
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:41 AM
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I've already talked to my kids about it. My son says he doesn't want to see us divorce, but if we are miserable, then we probably should. My daughter told me she would want to live with me. That she'd be upset, but it wouldn't ruin her life. My wife's drinking really bothers my daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:26 AM
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That's how I feel. I don't see her as a wife. She's more like someone I HAVE to live with.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:23 AM
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My name is not on the title. She purchased the house just before we married. But I've lived there and helped pay for it for the last 22 years. The financial situation is okay. We make really close to the same amount, but I'm worried about if I would struggle on one income.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:22 AM
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We are all pretty miserable right now. If we all go anywhere together, no one talks. It's very awkward.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:18 AM
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Yes. My brother has been telling me for years I'm in an abusive relationship. I literally cannot go anywhere without her accusing me of having an affair. Everywhere I go I have to take one of the kids or her with me or else I get accused of meeting someone while I'm out. Recently, my work friends had a night out. After much deliberation, and coaching from my mom and brother, who both told me I need to start doing what I want, I went. She got so mad at me she didn't speak to me for two weeks. It …
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:16 AM
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