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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Also weird thing to focus on in my message bc I did make actual points which ya kinda just glossed over to argue with me about my sexual orientation? I think I've thought about it a bit more than you, thx	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:35 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Bruh I said biromantic. I can date men without finding them attractive. That doesn't even mean I can't have sex with them. It just means love is the most important thing for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:34 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? I meaaan if you're going to make generalizations about human nature, it should apply to most humans. My taste in women isn't the conventional 10/10 either, so like. I've been in plenty of heterosexual relationships. If in the queer community people can have vastly different tastes to one another, why make an assumption that hetero people's tastes are more uniform? Hell, since straight people make up more of the population, wouldn't it follow that the tastes vary more? I'm slightly overweight. So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:18 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? And in my case? Nah, it's not about attractiveness. I'm biromantic, homosexual. I'm not going to be sexually attracted to a man, or at least not to masculine traits. Honestly the more stereotypically attractive a man looks the less I'll be able to make it work	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 06:31 PM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? I'm not saying it's all equal but like... there are plenty of unattractive people in relationships. It's clearly not off limits for people who are less conventionally attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 06:30 PM
2	Female Hypergamy Punishes Men for having Standards And idk what you mean by "social status." Seems pointless and inane, something which most people don't care about much at all. I think the only people who care about social status are those obsessed with not losing their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:44 PM
6	Female Hypergamy Punishes Men for having Standards First, example doctor could have nonsuperficial values and not see the relationship as "mismatched" at all. I also think your values here are twisted. Do you really think that doctor could necessarily go into that kindergarten classroom and deal with those young children for that long? Every day? Despite being low paying, teaching jobs are fucking difficult. I cannot imagine the amount of stress a kindergarten teacher would be under, needing to keep 20 small children safe at all times. It's very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:42 PM
2	As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly. Bear in mind I'm hella autistic. Not trying to represent all women here. Just saying honesty is pretty cool imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 06:00 AM
1	As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly. From what he's told me, the guy has had many a hookup. Appearance wise I like him, but that's because I think he'd be a pretty woman and that's my standard lol, and I dont think most women share that. My guess is it works because he still sees women as people and even though he was interested in hookups rather than relationships, he still saw the whole human. Also, he doesn't get personally offended if a woman says no and he just moves on. He also makes a point to make sure women feel safe with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:59 AM
1	As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly. Literally he sent a message to the GC like "hey does anyone want to play a board game" and I thought it sounded fun. I had no sexual interest in him up until he brought it up. I spent around 30 seconds buffering after he said he was attracted to me because I legitimately had not considered it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:54 AM
1	As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly. I actually didn't! I was 100% there for the board games and just wanted to make a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:53 AM
1	The actual consequences of a woman's high N count. I'm in a long term relationship with a partner who adores me and isn't interested in cheating. He also was very "promiscuous" during a certain point in his life. He's my third partner, but I'm his... who even knows. At the very least I'm the first woman he's had sober sex with lol. I don't care how many partners he's had. He'll joke about his past sexual exploits and I'll joke about mine. We laugh and move on. Neither of us were broken by having other partners, nor do we love each other any less…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:44 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Saying this as someone who likes women. I judge attractiveness on overall appearance	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:37 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Eh, does it? I feel like attractiveness isn't a "sum of all parts" thing. Attractiveness is overall appearance, not individual ratings of different factors added together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:37 AM
2	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? The only men I can be physically attracted to are very feminine ones. And yes, I know there are plenty of women who's worst nightmare would be dating a man who looks like a woman. My current partner isn't working and stays at home, doing chores and little projects to make our house into more of a home. I'm sure a lot of women would despise dating a man who doesn't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:33 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Uhhh, two women can be the same bra size and you can be attracted to one but not the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:29 AM
1	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? I think your problem is trying to put everything on scales. Humans are complex beings and a trait I like could be a trait another person doesn't like. A person I consider a 10 could be considered a 4 by someone else. I wouldn't date most men. That's not because they're "not good enough" for me though, it's because we just wouldn't be compatible or don't click in that way. A common misconception is thinking we have some objective tier list we rate prospective partners on, when the traits we date …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:28 AM
1	As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly. I met with a guy to play Warcry. We had mutual friends and were in the same group chat. We played for an hour or so, then he told me "I find you incredibly attractive." I found the honesty refreshing and we hooked up. To this day, he's one of the most blunt, honest people I know and I find it very refreshing. Honesty is fine, just don't love bomb someone you just met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:20 AM
1	CMV: Height matters A LOT to women Some women have height preferences. Some don't. I don't understand what's wrong with a woman having a preference though? Like, is it wrong for a man to prefer larger or smaller breasts because a woman can't control that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:14 AM
17	Female Hypergamy Punishes Men for having Standards I feel like a lot of the issue here is you're stuck in this mindset of dating "up" or "down". Is it not possible that a doctor could legitimately love a kindergarten teacher? I also think this focus on income as a determined of value is strange. If someone has every quality you're looking for in a partner, but earns less than you (still being responsible with money and able to provide for themself), why would you reject them based on that? Also, part of it might be that plenty of men expect wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:07 AM
3	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. Describing women having sex with men as "paying [their] dues" is super gross btw, and is a mindset that leads to many women getting sexually assaulted by their husbands. What could a man possibly due that "earns" him sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:02 AM
2	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. My (enby) partner has a lower sex drive than me. It's not a necessity in our relationship though and my love for him has nothing to do with sex. If I get horny, I go deal with it. And I'm a woman. He doesn't owe me sex, I don't owe him sex. Our relationship is about support and care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:00 AM
2	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. If you're just looking for sex, find an FWB. Don't expect someone with a different libido to satisfy you sexually because, say, you helped out around the house or were an emotional support. If you are coercing someone who doesn't want to have sex with you into having sex, that is sexual assault. It doesn't matter if you're in a relationship with them. Sex isn't a "need" in the same way as, say, food or shelter, since you can go jerk off if you're that horny and she says no. If you're finding lon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:58 AM
0	Why can’t we be friends? Man, are the straights okay? I'm friends with people of all genders. You talk to the person about it if feelings come up and you move on. I'll only end a friendship over feelings if they aren't respecting my boundaries. I'm part of the queer community, and this idea of "you can't be friends with someone you could possibly be attracted to" is basically nonexistent there. I'm bi/panromantic (mostly homosexual tho ngl) and that doesn't stop me from having friends. One of my closest friends in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:48 AM