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Thanks for the constructive response. I understand the basics of red pill theory on an abstract level but fail to implement them IRL. I think it has to do with a certain mental weakness / lack of mental discipline. Same is true for impulse spending, procrastinating, not using condoms etc. It's strange but as your sexual market value goes up, the temptation to settle goes up as well. Should have vetted this one a bit better.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:37 AM
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Fair enough. But like I mentioned above I've never had a truly successful relationship. Couple year plus ones but they always end the same way. I'm still a sucker for romance which is why I shackle myself to women. Better to just drop this one. Why try right.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:18 PM
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Trust me I don't have a problem getting other women. I just appreciate deeper compatibility with someone. Probably just soft next her and avoid the inevitable. That way no one gets hurt. I'm already too emotionally invested for this to be sustainable. If I stop paying attention to her she'll likely just get dick elsewhere. They don't care where it comes from. Thanks for reminding me.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:17 PM
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Sometimes I sacrifice true compatibility for pussy. Too many sour relationships. I should stop looking for meaning when dealing with women but I still appreciate a deep bond with someone. In the end you get burned prioritizing your life around feelings and emotion. Plus I don't like flaking even if the alternate girl is 3x hotter. Tough spot. Thanks for the responses.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:41 AM
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Cold showers, make your bed in the morning, spend time at the gym regularly. Establish a routine in everyday type tasks and the rest should fall into line. Lists help too. Set aside time when you can go out and relax worry free with no interference. Also consider that maybe the things you're putting off aren't really that important to you.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:56 PM
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So there's really a big difference between asking her to come over for drinks vice going out to dinner / to the park / etc? I find that hard to believe. If she knows the code, isn't it all just a subtle way of saying the same thing anyway? My text game has always been weak, it's a shame one text actually matters. Anyway thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:31 PM
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Yeah fair enough. I guess I should have just asked her if she wanted to fuck instead of asking her to meet up for dinner. Or maybe the way I asked had nothing to do with it. Either way, a year or so ago I wouldn't even be asking these questions. TRP has improved my game but rejection still stings every now and then.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:10 PM
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Agree. Lately I've come to the realization that texting is passive and distant. There's no immediate resolution to questions or comments. It turns into a waiting game. Whoever sends the last text loses. Even texting to set up dates / logistics is a pain.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:42 AM
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by agreeing to postpone a potential date until next month based off her schedule? perhaps that qualifies as entering her frame. but no reason to press. maybe she is truly busy or maybe she's just playing hard to get. in my experience this is the norm. feign interest to build tension. either way, my time is precious. i'm not going to waste it playing games. i think a sept 1 text is preferable to calling her next week to try and set something up which is maybe preferable to just nexting her altoge…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:26 AM
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Been in for ~5yrs. My advice: finish college. Spend a year traveling / networking / meeting people. Find out what you are passionate about. If all else fails and you have your degree commission as an officer. The military you see in the movies and on TV is nothing like the real experience. Yes, the benefits are nice. The pay is nothing special. You will work 2x - 3x the hours one would normally log as a civilian. When you are deployed, prepare yourself for 6 months - 1 yr of little to no contact…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:25 AM
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A man should have principles. It's pretty clear that you're attempting to rationalize a set of behaviors that you yourself find questionable (otherwise why post this in the first place?). I'm not perfect either, trust me. It's hard to turn down pussy when it falls in your lap even if the circumstances are ethically suspect. Women cheat. Give them a couple drinks and they're no better than a dog in heat. But, I like to think that men comprehend loyalty and honor. Or maybe not - get your quick fix…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:24 AM
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"Depression, anxiety, and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness They are signs of having tried to remain strong for way too long.”
/r/askTRP26/05/16 04:08 AM
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Gotta stop living in the past and letting regrets about past decisions frame my outlook on things. Thing is I have hobbies, I already work out, I work super long hours (6-7 days a week), but when I have time off I can't just do nothing and relax. I have to be in constant motion these days. There's just such a huge void in my life right now. I don't want to stop and acknowledge it. If I wasn't tied down by my job I'd move and get a fresh start somewhere else. Ultimately, I'm fearful of the long r…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:56 AM
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Slowly accepting that I need to move on. Thanks for the comments. Majority of friends also agree that I should stop all contact. Shitty part is I kind of expected her to at least fight to get my attention back. But she hasn't reached out at all. If anything I'm the one that's tried to reinitiate dialogue. I guess she's got tons of options and doesn't need me around. Tough truth to swallow. Kind of thought the fairy tale about love and being faithful was real. Really want some make up / revenge s…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:57 PM
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No doubt I have some degree of oneitis. I was over invested in the relationship and am paying for it now (emotional distress, fucked up priorities, no direction, etc...). Since I stopped hanging out with my boys during this time, I've lost a good support network. Only outlet is the gym ATM. Been thinking about hitting some bars and getting numbers but the motivation's not there yet. Trying to figure out what makes me happy again so I don't have to go out and chase tail to get that temporary fix.…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:03 AM
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Thanks for replying. One other thing I've been struggling with is the concept that she cheated and it was preventable. I'm unfamiliar with a lot of TRP concepts (dread game, etc) but it seems like her cheating was as much a result of me becoming a pussified non-argumentative yes man as it was her acting on a combination of her hormones and booze. How much blame do I assign myself here? I know she made a choice to stray but by leaving random dude at her house, I kind of made this whole scenario p…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:20 AM
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