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| 2 | Do not date men who are “separated”.I’m finding it really interesting seeing your responses and I’m definitely not trying to argue with your/FDS views because there’s so many things I’ve learned here that have changed my attitudes to relationships. It sounds like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place; if I’d stayed I’d have been a pick me, but I took the initiative to leave because my daughter and I deserved better, I’ve had therapy, and really reflected on all of the behaviours I endured from my ex and now I’m low value. It w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Do not date men who are “separated”.Co-parenting has been the same since the day I left, he has her twice a week but I obviously do the lions share. We were over for a long time but it took me a good year to see it unfortunately. No, I don’t live with my new bloke and I’m purposely not financially tied to him in any way. If I want to play devils advocate perhaps a young mum who’s not divorced isn’t a huge red flag to him because It’s a product of my circumstances as opposed to anything else. Effectively what I’m getting from this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 10 | Do not date men who are “separated”.My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant (didn’t find out until I’d left) but in the UK I can’t get a divorce without him agreeing to take the blame until we’ve been separated for 2 years. I’ve since met someone else, is my still being legally married (as I haven’t been out of that relationship 2 years) a red flag? I felt empowered that I left with a 6 month old baby because I knew I deserved better but does this make me a low value woman? I went back to full time work early from maternity … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:34 PM |
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