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Fundamentals carlos1973633826/r/seduction18/07/22 11:53 AM
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Maybe she was still unsure, maybe she was self conscious she did not use mouth was, maybe she was a little bloated from something she ate and did not want to progress to sex, maybe needed more comfort. Maybe she got another guy and deciding between the 2 How many possible reasons you want?
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:42 PM
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Women like high value men. A person trying too hard, reacting too much, signals low value. A women will intuitively will feel this and not be attracted.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:08 PM
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In every job there is a guy who has more game, better looks, more money then the other guys out there. Sometimes this guy drives a 5 year old car, is fit but carrying a bit of fat, has studied a little bit a game, not a great looker but he dresses much better then the other and keeps himself groom, but still he beats all the guys at the same job out of the water. It’s the analogy used by RSD, the hot girls who fuck the manager at Dennys because he is the highest value guy there. That’s Pete Davi…
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:08 PM
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100% his coming in direct and strong on every women. Spam approaching like hell.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:45 AM
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Sit on it Wet So hard Ate it out It’s not the word as much as you say them
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:10 AM
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I would not even have a ONS with a single mom. I won’t even be polite about it, she has a child I’m out
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:49 PM
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Some women like awkward creepy guys. Use it to your advantage. I used to get stunners with less effort when I was creepy. People said things like “I have bodies in my closet”, called me a virgin and inexperienced, some teachers even asked my siblings if I have autism lol. I think I always felt like I did not fit in and people did not like me. But as I got more experienced it went away baturally
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:50 PM
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Mentioning your a virgin through text to someone you’ve never met is a vibe killer. Why is it a vibe killer? She wants good sex, not talk about personal shit. There might be a reason why you haven’t gotten laid. Bad odor, bad social skill, etc. She does not want to risk time out of her life for experience that will likely be bad. I can go on for days with reasons, but if you are not smart enough to figure it out you have bigger problems. Try seeing a good dating coach and a therapist. Your probl…
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:01 PM
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Nah bruh, she definitely did not want to have sex. You did the right thing, good boy. Well behaved.
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:34 AM
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Become chattier with everyone. Learn how to vibe well. Game is pretty much mostly rambling and being chatty
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:58 AM
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Nah bruh. I love spreading women legs too much to stop doing cold approach. If your with a girl and you don’t feel like she’s treating you right, just move on. There is more then one pussy in this planet. That’s why you cold approached to meet more women. Lol your blaming the solution as the problem…..
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:57 PM
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Increase your looks. Pay a lot of attention to the way you groom. It could make a huge difference. Dress for the type of girl you want to get, shop at similar stores they shop at. Start hitting gym. Approach women who are likely to be into you. That means women who are much shorter then you, same racial background, etc. Realize some women are just not in the right head space to be gamed. If they don’t smile or at least you get the feeling that they are starting to open up, it means they don’t li…
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:31 AM
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If you have a nice body the beach is a very good place. Game is universal so if you suck in downtown are, you prob suck at the beach.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:04 PM
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This is true. Chat rooms become a distraction and usually those guys have no game or are naturals who can’t help you.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:54 AM
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Look for “Game Global” nyc chat on telegram. It’s pretty lit but they banned me for trolling the chat leaders too hard.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:52 AM
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Confidence is #1. Always assume that he likes you even when he is ignoring you, flirting with other women, not giving you attention. Don’t be too forward. There is no need to tell him that he is cute or that you like him, that might make him feel that your desperate and below his league. Instead give him attention, look him deep in the eyes, touch him every now and then, get really close to him sometimes may sitting or standing next to each other. Also let him know it’s ok to touch you if he wan…
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:46 PM
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If a women is getting her sexual needs met it’s unlikely she will cheat. However wealthy men are usually lacking in attractiveness or bedroom skills and attract women through money. Women are very aware of their value goes down over time. They don’t want to give their young pussy years to a guy they are not attracted to. So she gets dick on the side.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:53 PM
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Move on, it’s that simple. Because your not a women you will never understand. The male equivalent is seeing a girl laughing and giving her number to another guy when your are around.
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:40 PM
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It’s basic game/evolution theory. If you want to learn more read “Revelations”, which is based on the mystery method.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:42 PM
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She wants the DNA of the alpha male but he won’t stick around to help her raise her children. That’s why attraction and comfort are important.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:40 PM
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The mistake you made was approaching somewhere where people know you. Go to other places such as parks or downtown area. If you are really nervous just don’t approach. Keep feeling that nervousness eventually it’s going to go away. Then you will get nervous when talking to women. Talk to them but don’t ask for their number eventually you will become comfortable and so kn
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:13 PM
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If you don’t want to lower your standards increase you value. Better game, more money, better looks
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:13 PM
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I doubt you find a women cool enough to hang out with as friends. Your just starved for pussy and attention.
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:56 PM
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Lol I would hate it to be a women. My whole life would be a parade of pathetic attempts to try and hookup with me.
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:43 PM
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Men get to pick, women decide. What side you rather be on?
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:58 PM
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A women’s pussy is basically her value. The male equivalent would be to call a guy incompetent at his job. She has to find a way to rationalize that her value is still high and since most women have weak frames they try to get others to join her. That’s why guys scorn you silently, we know ourselves and don’t need anyones else’s approval. That’s also the #1 reason women don’t approach guys. If she gets rejected she can rationalize that he approaches her and did not have good game. Edit: Forgot t…
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:24 PM
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Lol, people on this sub need to hire a dating coaches. I always thought dating coaches were scammers but the more time I spend here the more I realize dating coaches is an essential job for this society. Asking a women if she has a boyfriend is horrible in my ways. It’s too personal Some people are insecure about their single status It immediately puts you in the category of value/fun sucker Look online for some openers, try learning from mystery, read his books.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:29 AM
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This is why this board is so dangerous. Guys lacking social skills and common sense support each other in this kind of behavior. I hope one day a big fat gay dude hits of them the same gay the same way they hit on women maybe that way they can understand a women’s experience. They never had to experienced being in a situation where someone is making aggressive unwanted sexual advances on them because they are too unattractive for that to happen to them.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:51 PM
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Lol, you just had that epiphany?
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:22 PM
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Definitely good for social gatherings. You can have a wingwomen or you can use a girl/girls you approached as a pawn to get a hotter girl.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:27 PM
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Changing you behavior is hard. Unless you can endure months of rejection you won’t make it part of who you are. To gain more confidence improve your looks every way you can. Also go out all the time so your more comfortable in large groups of people, ideally go to the place where you will be approaching.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:55 PM
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You have never lived in her shoes so you don’t know why she said that. Maybe one time a creepy old guy hit on her and she was being nice to him. After being nice to him he would not go away and harassed her. She felt like shit afterwards. Therefor she decided if she does not find a guy attractive she would be a bitch to prevent that from happening. If a women was missing teeth, extremely bad hair, super overweight, bad breath started talking to you and making moves on you how would you feel? You…
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:24 AM
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I have a sister so let me give you some female knowledge. She’s waiting to see if chad will come through. Your basically in the back burner. Say never mind and move on. If she wises up, then go with her. That’s the most common reason. Other times he may be trying to get with her but she sees him as a friend, trying to play head games with you, she wants a quickie before the date, you never know. I don’t have the whole picture to guess what’s going on
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:37 AM
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Maintain your frame. Have things you tolerate and not. Don’t fall for their shit test and teases Guys will feel like if they don’t behave you will look somewhere else.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:44 PM
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Can you tell that your date was very boring? Think about it you took her to a park across the street that she sees everyday went around and took her back home like she was a domestic dog. Meanwhile her friends are being taken out to bars, parties, restaurants going to exiting environment. When her friends ask her where she went they would laugh at her. Let’s flip it around. Imagine you go on a date with a girl the whole time she gives you one word answers and never cracks a smile. Every time you…
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:00 AM
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Make sure while you are talking take a break from eye contact a little bit. Then look her back in her eyes. Eye contact is pretty powerful. If a girls likes you and is comfortable she will look at you in the eyes herself and won’t take her eyes off you. This usually means that it’s on. A girl who is not interested at all won’t hold strong eye contact
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:34 PM
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Increase your value and become more attractive. You can always improve dress, groom, muscles, game and so many other things. Make a rules to match her reply time let’s say she take 10 minutes you take 15 and vary it if she take 1 hour take 45 minutes.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:57 AM
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I feel like it’s a combination of reason . Does not want to be seen as slut because she wants to see you again Give you no expectations so Flirt and amp sexual tension Wants to feel like she’s in control. Even though it might seem silly just go along with it. We will never know what’s it like to date as a women.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:00 AM
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I call those women professional rejectors. They know how to reject you while making you feel good, even though most of the time they don’t like and won’t say it to your face
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:55 AM
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When a girl does that it means she’s open and looking. You already got an invitation if you don’t take it another guy will. I used to steal girls from guys when they got iois cause they too slow. You overthink over there I’m spreading her legs over here.😆
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:05 AM
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Believe me, I know your a retard and you don’t get laid. It’s hard to explain to you how you come across as retarded because you are retarded and can’t grasp what I am saying.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:41 PM
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Hey men I really suggest you get a dating couch. You don’t realize how autistic you are, you may be undiagnosed. I’ll try to share with you some social intelligence. Stop complimenting women so much on their looks. I’ll never give women a single compliments on her look, it immediately makes her see herself as out of your league. Many women with boyfriends are open to getting a dick upgrade. That girl you thought you exposed looked you like an idiot because you did not get it. And because you did…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:49 PM
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Maybe she wants a train
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:44 PM
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What app did you use? How unattractive were these women? Were they single moms? How old were they?
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:59 AM
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You can go on Pirate Bay.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:52 PM
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It has to do more with the type of intelligence you have. Some people don’t have the social/emotional intelligence to understand and attract other people. Just as you may not be good at comprehending other arts such as drawing, dancing, singing
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:43 PM
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Guys do this shit too. They can’t have fun so they become party poopers. She probably hasn’t gotten laid in a while and trying to take it out in other people.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:11 PM
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lol. 20 years ago definitely. 2022, really? You really lacking some game
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:25 PM
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Look for guys with higher social skills and self esteem. I had the same shit happen me in sales. Guys would see how easily I built rapport and they would get pissed because they were the ones who initially approached customers. Once someone has good game they get over it.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:58 PM
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Some guys just don’t get it. He really said she’s playing mind games with him. They think of marriage as soon as the touch a womens hand.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:36 PM
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You should of went right there to eat pizza. Noob
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:32 PM
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You need to become more mature. Stop trying to neg or play hard to get.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:39 AM
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Yup like 3 Jersey city and Manhattan. I also saw some coaches with students one of them was Todd.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:31 PM
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You can be born with looks or intelligence. If you have neither your fuckeddd. Sorry for the guys winning in the comment section, they are missing both.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:03 PM
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I don’t think she flaked because she met another guy in the app. I think she flaked because she ran out of cereal for breakfast and went to get some at the grocery store.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:02 PM
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Reminds me of a pack of dogs documentary I saw on YouTube. The female was in heat and even the little chihuahuas who had no chance would follow the female for weeks around the street.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:35 AM
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Trying to act like they are in control when in fact that pussy is dying for you to get inside her.
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:45 PM
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If she is really insecure, make her feel that you will be loyal to her not just pump and dump. It’s very subtle be nice, don’t say too much, look her in the eye, subtle kino even for a millisecond. Don’t do something too arrogant displaying that you can do better then her, because that will turn her off
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:12 PM
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At 69 the last egg comes out
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:22 PM
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Try to hook him with sex, flirting, affection. Little by little start tolerating less shit from him and if he does not wise up move to someone else. Maybe he is not mature at the moment or will never see you as dating material
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:02 PM
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No one can do that for you. I used to be in their NYC telegram chat and their pretty much just trying to get desperate guys money, him and his buddy IceWhite. If you don’t have the time to figure this out, do yourself a favor and don’t even start.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:33 AM
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I’m really curious why do you want to take his mentoring?
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:55 AM
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Your cute enough to give him a boner but not gf material. He prefers his current gf.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:16 PM
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Hey Adam, I think you need to pay closer attention how you approach women. Do this exercise. Talk to attractive women when you genuinely need help with something. Your not there to hit on them, just getting the information you need. I want you to notice the subtle differences between then and when you are hitting on them. I’ll tell you some I noticed. 1. I say what I need before they even pay attention. Instead of saying excuse me and standing there I say “excuse me is this going to….” I look fo…
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:26 AM
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Irrelevant. You did not go in with the full intention to get laid. There is a time to play games, and there is a time to close. It seems likes you you just need to tone down the game playing and start becoming a closer. Flirting is fun and trust me you will never lose as many opportunities as I have myself that’s why I know what your going through. Start spreading women’s legs instead of beating around the bush and playing too many games. When a girl wants to get laid don’t kill her vibe, she’s …
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:37 PM
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It seems she was there to have a good time and get piped. You seemed like a cool guy your approach was really nice. However she had to boo you off stage. Imagine this you been really exited about going to your favorites team soccer match. You are wearing their jersey and even painted your face. You show up the stadium which looks nice and all. But then you get your team starts playing like trash. They stop caring about the game, they are no longer trying to win. They are clowning around. How lik…
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:17 PM
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Approaching is one of the toughest part of game, mostly mental. A lot of time as long as your not awkward, nervous, in your head women will be receptive and super nice 99% of the time. When your out try asking women for genuine help maybe directions or your confused about something. You will notice headphones/talking to her friends does not matter as long as you have a nice vibe.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:13 PM
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Be clear just don’t do it over and over. Once you make it know that you like her the ball is in her court, if she likes you she will give you her number, become quiet, smile, ask you what your going to be doing, basically you will be able to tell if she likes you or not.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:19 PM
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If you have never been turn on by neg/tease you never been gamed properly in your life. You don’t tease guys for fun?
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:35 PM
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It’s the same the other way around. If an ugly girls setups neg correctly it will turn me on. But it’s hard to pull off and women are 100xs more clueless when it comes to game, specially the hotter they are. That’s why most women don’t even attempt to getting with a guy unless he verbally says he is interested in her.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:14 PM
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At least you realized numbers don’t mean shit. What you should aim for is a date. Compliments are unnecessary, try a situational conversation if there is chemistry ask for a date not a phone number. Want to grab drinks sometime and keep chatting?
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:25 PM
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It’s possible look into “gunwith method” also google “3-step process for getting laid a lot “ both these guys focus on same day lay as their strength. This is for daygame. However note the faster you get laid the more likely it’s going to be a one night stand. The guys who spend the least amount of time before getting laid tend to have 0% retention rate, however they hook up with more women.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:28 PM
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There are 2 ways one is jump in and face rejection head on, until you no longer care. 2 is progressive desensitization. Start by going out to busy cities. When you need help looking for direction or you are at a store always look for women who you find attractive. Then you can try giving them a compliment, something simple “thanks your pretty helpful”, or “I really like you glasses/sense of style, by the way, what store you usually shop?” whatever genuine compliment you can come up with that fee…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:26 AM
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When a girl does not like you she will look for any reason to reject you. You could of said 100 girls that’s too much you could of said none she would of said she needed someone who is more experienced. In this situation a pickup artist moves on, unless she makes it up. Learn some game there is ton of info out there.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:58 PM
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“I think my height is the reason I don’t get laid” Same person “Let my try to hit on someone who is 2x my size and height”
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:26 PM
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It makes you more attractive ONLY if you actually offer value attractive/funny/fun.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:48 PM
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Not true. If there was actually attraction you can overcome things that happened in the past, or wait for a good opportunity, such as she does not have any suitors and becomes more lonely/desperate. However it’s usually easier to find a new women then try to fix the old. That’s why when PUAs make a mistake or miss their window, they move unlike guys who are not good at approaching new women. Once a women forms opinion of you, it’s hard to shake off so you will be doing lots of work.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:43 PM
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So you sleeping with at least 10% of the women you approach? So right now if you go out and talk to 10 women you will 100% get laid?
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:53 PM
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Telling a girl you don’t want a commitment is like a girl telling a guy she does not want sex. Remember you can always change your mind about relationship status. Women do it all the time when it benefits them why can’t you
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:59 PM
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You are very lost. You don’t even realize how true my assumptions are. Talking about calibration, I haven’t met a direct gamer who has not made me cringe yet. When your game is good enough that your able to get dates, you develop very high sensitivity for bad game.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:26 AM
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I’m just trying to help you. I won’t even try to argue because to put it simply your just dumb. Do some self reflection ask yourself “Why do I have such a hard time getting dates?” You can start from there. Only you can get yourself out of your lonely existence
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:47 AM
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It’s very apparent that you have very low social intelligence because you have been kicked out of multiple places. You should leave this board and talk to a live pickup coach, because even direct game should not be getting you into trouble. A dating coach will explain to you why your such a creep, maybe you are not taking social cues and being too persistent as a result. Also maybe you have poor hygiene, style, and grooming which a coach will help you with. Guys like you give the pickup communit…
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:26 AM
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The best way I can explain indirect game is think of a time you really needed help with something. You asked a women for help you kept asking question and making statements back and forth. The conversation keeps going and it starts changing from the initial subject and starts getting more personal. When you are about to leave you ask her if she wants to meet up some other time. Basically you never told her that she is beautiful, made it obvious that you were hitting on her, and you never asked f…
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:58 PM
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Eye contact could be by mistake, but if you catch a girl looking at you multiple times that’s a definitive sign she’s open to meeting new people and is in a social mood. I’m usually very indirect but at that point I would just go up and introduce myself, no stupid pua compliments needed.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:48 PM
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Give me 1 benefit for direct game besides being short of time. Indirect helps the women warm up to you It’s more natural Let her get a feel of your vibe before rejecting you Does not make her feel like she’s out of your league Anybody using indirect game complete blows direct gamers out of the water. I’m talking about proper indirect not “where I Starbucks, I’m kidding I just thought you were cute” There is 0 reason to bombard a women with compliments. You can use the most indirect line ever and…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:15 PM
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Lol your so autistic you do t realize the way your acting conveys that what I’m saying is true. That’s just one example, you probably saw one of my comments somewhere else. In that picture I was just giving a summary but I’m my other comments I go into more detail. Just admit it your starving for attention and blabbing stuff from other people with real game. You’ve done 8k approaches and still need to borrow game from someone who rarely approaches? That just goes to show the intelligence level b…
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:13 PM
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Buddy everything is documented. Talk so much shit then copy’s other people game to get attention from hot post. https://ibb.co/2kzkHzd
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:42 PM
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“The greatest compliment is imitation” This guy literally copy pasted the advice I gave him in his last post, and he talked so much shit to me in his last post too lol. But I’m proud of you, at least your learning game from your daddy.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:12 PM
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Bruh what did I say? This guy spends all day on this board, the irony
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:12 PM
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What do you expect from a anonymous board? Groundbreaking advice on how to pickup women? Take your own advice and direct your energy to talking to real women instead of spending all day trying to make a hot post.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:09 PM
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There could be a few reason She was not attracted to you She was not serious about dating The guy activated her anti slut shield I just ignore what white knights say because why? Because if she is interested she will come through. Had a conversation with a girl over the phone. Said some stuff and the white knight said that’s not how I’m supposed to talk to a women. You know what the girl said next? “When can I see you?” Week later she was at my place
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:17 AM
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Lol what did I say?? You don’t want real answers. Keep fantasizing brother. Hope when you get that model pussy your whole life transforms
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:11 AM
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Nothing wrong with being autistic. I’ve already met tons of high performing autistic people online and one in real life. They all think the same way, because they watch pickup gurus talking about how he picks up models. There is no way of combining them to lower their standards, and once you finally think you pump some sense into their brains they come back the next day how they are planning on improving their instagram because models are attracted to guys with nice instagrams. It’s funny becaus…
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:03 AM
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And this guys is the result of spending too much time on Reddit and pickup forums. His mind has been molded so hard I guarantee he has to be some type of undiagnosed high performing autism. This is a very common way to think for autistic people in the pickup community. We had a pickup group and this average looking autistic guy would always chase after models, then became bitter against women when everyone was spreading women legs but him. After that he stopped hanging out with us and found othe…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:29 AM
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Lose weight, those arms have quite bit of flap. Get better makeup and hair. I think Rihana style will suit you well. Lighter makeup, do something about those dark eye bags. Take better pictures, men in general like women who smile, you straight face makes you look sexually desire-less. Straight face work on some women but just not you. Get better clothes, you look old because of your outdated style. Your breast look quite sloppy as well, maybe get a lift?
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:47 AM
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My sister does the same thing to guys. She tells guys her x did “xyz” which is a complete lie. Also she constantly send multiple guys pics of what she’s doing so they all start inviting her to places and working hard to win her over. It’s a pretty good manipulation tactic and it seems to be working on OP. Everyone has baggage. It’s just some people are better at packaging them then others.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:12 PM
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Move on and get some game.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:02 PM
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Depends what your looking for. Are you looking to get laid as much as possible, or your looking for women who are into you as much as you are into them? That’s the way I would see it. Todd is very pushy. He would text women who flake on him multiple times, until finally they went on a date, because in his mind he had nothing to lose. But I think if you are looking for a relationship someone who starts flaking on you views your as lesser value at the moment.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:41 PM
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Alcohol Excuse yourself to restroom when you come back pull yourself next to her Ramp up kino small hand touches Change venues
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:14 PM
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Learn some game, keep pushing yourself to approach. She let you down easy because she might have felt you were an inexperienced/nice guy.
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:52 PM
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Maybe she was hoping chad would come through or she just got horny and reached out to you. Women could be like that at times, one day they don’t want to see you the other they are bored and need someone
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:18 PM
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Hey men what ever gets you and other guys to approach confidently, it’s all good. I find it hard to believe an idiot like you has over 200 lays. I’m was annoyed just reading your post, so I can’t imagine women talking to you in real life. Your the type of guy that makes me cringe when I hear talking to a girl. I’m very sensitive to bad game and I’ve done very little cold approach actually. It makes sense why your a phone number bandit, if you stay a little longer she will just grow more annoyed …
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:35 PM
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100% guarantee your one of those spam approachers, 300 women to get 1 lay. I’ve met a lot of guys like you, and even after they they get laid they have a 0% retention rate.
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:13 PM
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Anyone who does street approaches does not keep track of that number, I just do what I feel comfortable with and understand. If the girl is not attracted/is taken/ is not in the mood for flirting/ has no natural chemistry I’m getting blown out. I can do 40 approaches in a month and get nothing. While another month I’ll be too busy with dates after 10 approaches.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:52 PM
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There are benefits of being indirect 1. It warm up girls to you. Most women are not going to be in a flirty social state when you approach them. 2. It takes less balls to do the approach which makes motte likely for you to approach. 3. It prevents the girl from thinking she is higher value the you after bombarding her with compliments. 4. When you use a routine over and over you don’t even have to think which allows you to focus more on delivery/vibe and her body language. 5. It gives girls a ch…
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:29 PM
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I would not shit so much on the indirect method. The example you mentioned about the “latte” tells me your not using indirect game properly. Indirect is very hard specially if you have to write material. Most people are better at improvising because that’s what they’ve done their whole life. When you see a girl with a latter your ask “What is the best coffee shop around here” because that makes you look like you are actually looking for a coffee shop not bullshitting about what she’s drinking. W…
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:59 AM
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You said you haven’t had success with women. That means you never experienced a women’s sexual side or seen the things that women react positively to. If you have never experienced something it’s harder to grasp. When something is harder to grasp it puts you at a disadvantage because you don’t know where to start, and often have to get yourself out your comfort zone so that you can experience things.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:59 PM
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First off I’ll tell you, you are at a very big disadvantage. I can tell you women love flirting, being teased, have guys make move on them, but unless you experienced all these things it will be hard to believe. Best advice I can give you and you may not like this is to game women who you feel are below your league. They will give you positive reinforcement because they are easier to attract. As you confidence in game increase start approaching women you find more attractive.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:37 PM
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You have two options. Either develop your game or develop a good social media. Women only care about your social media when you are lame and are not attracted to you. So when they ask you for social media think of it as an indicator of disinterest. She’s trying to see if you have any other value since your not providing much. And unless you have some dope traveling pictures, cool parties with friends, some lavish lifestyle, you ain’t getting shit
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:56 PM
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Social circles where your not exposed to new people are trash. Good social circles are things like rock climbing where you constantly get exposed to new people and it’s very easy to get a conversation going. Another good social circle is finding 2-3 cool ass wingman and go out and have tons of fun. Not even trying to get laid just genuinely have fun. Some groups of women will want to join you guys because they want to have a good time. You can also throw small BBQ and invite some women you guys …
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:51 PM
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When someone cheat it could be for many reason. Most common one is they are not really that attracted to their partner and find someone else who they really find sexually attractive. It’s like a drug to them. They can’t stay away from someone who turns them on. To get a girl to cheat you need to be very confident, charming, have some game. Sometimes the girl will actually do all the work you just need to give her a little window.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:44 PM
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Careful taking advice from a women. They can only talk for themselves and have never cold approached a women as a men. A lot of guys are seduced with the idea of throwing 1 or 2 lines and getting a girl. When cold approaching you want her to get a feel for your personality build some sort of genuine cone connection. If she likes you she will talk to you and not rush to her nails appointment. Also don’t be direct to the point. Most women are not going to be in a social mood and might blow you off…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:46 AM
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Also I am not sure the quality of these women. But I don’t think that anyone who can get a date in real life is going to go online to meet people.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:16 AM
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What date? Bro she’s ready to be bent over. Invite her for drinks at you place or grab some pizza down the street
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:59 AM
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Here is the truth if they are attracted to you Yes. If not No. I was flirting with a girl from my home country in the Caribbean and she was super into me. Another who did not have same cultural background try flirting with her and she became very uncomfortable. I’ll break this to you right now. Most women are going to be annoyed by you. They will say who is this weirdo talking to me. But there will be women who are super happy and into. Now you make the choice, not approach and don’t bother any …
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:55 AM
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The advantage of cold approach is that you can attract women by your personality and presence. Some guys have better chance online then in real life. I knew a guy who would approach 20 women a day and maybe get 1 number if lucky. Online he’s been able to get a few dates although I don’t think he full closed any of them.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:48 AM
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Have the most boring conversation til she gets bored and wants to leave. Don’t kick her out, some women have huge egos and might falsely accuse or try to get you someway.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:27 AM
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Take advantage of it. Use it as motivation to go and talk to girls and try to seduce them. Make it a fun chapter in your life. But if you want to be less horny I suggest stop looking, reading, or listening to anything sexual. Masturbate when you feel really horny.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:00 PM
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Yes but the reality is that most men are on average making around 40k a year. Still being intelligent guy who is ambitious is very attractive to women as well, and will make you stand out around guys who make same money or only slightly more then you do
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:12 PM
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Yes you are low value. Value is not just your job but your level of intelligence/looks/confidence/humor. In order for you to be considered high value you have to be much better off then the other guys around you if we are talking strictly finance. Don’t use you learning disability as an excuse. I know it’s easy for me to say. But by your writing I can tell you, that your not completely dumb. Just like you work hard on your writing skills you can work hard on getting a better job and the dating l…
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:04 PM
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Start taking care of your self, dress well, eat healthy, go to the gym, keep good hygiene and grooming. After that start going out every weekend, and talk to other women. You will be building the same connection you had with her with other women if you put yourself out there.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:08 AM
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It’s like a comedian asking “are people aware of the skill we need to be funny” above average social skills demonstrate higher iq which is a attractive trait. Some are aware others not
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:58 PM
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Be very casual about it. Say, “excuse me,” and wave your hand in front of her. Stand still, don’t lean in, don’t get in her way, keep at least 4 feet of distance from her. Make sure you are loud enough so that it’s very clear you are talking to her. Keep looking at her as she walks by and say excuse me again in a calm manner.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:17 PM
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Are you into day game, if so do you approach direct or indirect?
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:47 PM
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From my experience there could be 2 reasons She would feel slutty going to your place. Because she deliberately went there for sex unless you set it up correctly. She wants to keep you around to take her on dates. And a little kiss is a reward so you keep coming back. Gauge how much she reciprocated you affection to see where she falls. Keep meeting new women always till she proves herself
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:40 PM
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