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I would bet my house on the fact that your sister is very ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:53 AM
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Women care about looks just as much, if not more so than men, but they are also more willing to date people they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:14 PM
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I see extremely clear distinctions between class politics and identity politics, but if you can't see it then we'll have to agree to disagree. I recommend you search out some leftist econimic literature if you want to have people smarter than me explain it better. Also saying people change religions and class all the time, I don't think you are debating in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:22 AM
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How is it an arbitrarily drawn line in the sand when I literally gave you where and why it exists. I dont care at all about identity politics and don't demonize people in different economic classes. I am wealthy and hang out with a lot of wealthy people, we are not actively oppressing people or causing microagressions. I am against our current way of measuring output and organizing labour that fucks us all over (including you more than me). If you don't see how that is different then I would say…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:58 AM
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No because it's not based on something immutable like race or gender, it's based on people extracting wealth from workers. Also yes the level of wealth accumulation in certain people is definitely considered oppression. No society survives economic inequality like we have for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:28 AM
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But a lot of liberals totally ignore the economic oppression (often because it benefits them) for the easy race and gender arguments which divide us more. Intersectionality just distracts and ruins any hope of a united movement by compartmentalizing us and turning us against eachother. Look what happened to occupy wall street. We are all in this together against rent seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:23 AM
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I think most men would trade the slight risk for the massively increased desirability in a millisecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:13 AM
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That sub is what red pill should be. Would solve their problems soooo much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:10 AM
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Going to chime in here and say that you are capping and lonely men are almost university derided and made to feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:07 AM
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They also frame the struggles of our society through the lens of racism and misogyny when those things pale in comparison to class and capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:03 AM
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You can be a pro-worker socialist leftist who is against all the identity politics that bog down the movement. Social beliefs and economic beliefs do not have to be intertwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:01 AM
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How so? Most conservatives live in rural areas which have far higher rates of obesity than urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:22 PM
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I dislike salary too but the vast majority of well-paying jobs are not hourly. I honestly don't know anyone who gets paid by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:58 AM
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Pretty much every white collar job is base salary + maybe a yearly bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:36 AM
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Usually the smarter, funner, and more fit you are, the farther left your politics lean. So it makes sense the girl you are describing doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:33 AM
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Rich people are not socially conservative, at all. Especially the women tend to be the most performative woke people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:25 AM
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Interesting, that's pretty far from my experience. People still partied a lot but also dressed well and hit the gym 5 days a week. Now 6 years out of uni guys are starting to get overweight and lose their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:51 AM
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I'm going to agree with the other guy then. I have been to hundreds of parties and nights out at the bars and not once, ever have I seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:48 AM
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I have seen plenty of people on this forum suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:41 AM
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What universe do you live in? Most guys I know figured out style in university and were at their most physically fit. Why do you think university aged women hook up with university aged guys 95% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:32 AM
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With attractive girls or ugly ones though. That's the big distinction here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:28 AM
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Literally doesn't exist. But they can get casual sex with ugly overweight poor women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:27 AM
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I'm sorry about your experiences but saying that showering daily and being respectful are most women's only requirements is such gaslighting. Literally every guy I associate with easily clears that bar by a massive, massive margin and plenty of them struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:04 PM
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I know plenty of dudes with all the attributes on that list who struggle with dating. Lack of romantic success does not mean you have a shit personality and its condescending to ugly guys to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:40 AM
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Yes? I only know like 2 couples in my entire peer group where the women is several rungs more attractive than the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:32 AM
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We feel the same way about women here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:42 AM
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Lol why are you trying to make that sound retarded. The American middle class did have way more purchasing power post ww2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:37 AM
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Isn't # of partners going down?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:29 AM
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And you don't have to be an incel to understand this. I've had plenty of partners but still see how big of an issue it is among people I know. One person's poverty can (maybe) be overcome through individual efforts. Systemic poverty is a systemic issue, not an individual failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:29 AM
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Yeah unless you're talking "8 figure net worth rich" then pretty much everywhere in the western world should have enough high-earning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:34 AM
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Balding is 100% genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:30 AM
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Idk, the previous way resulted in a lot of divorce, abuse, cheating, and resentment. Maybe the current system will result in better relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:22 PM
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Makes sense it would be more prevelant there. I lived in Toronto and the blue/white collar divide was huge. Probably because of the finance money and trade jobs were mostly immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:39 PM
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Class is not perfectly correlated to income. Also blue collar caps out a lot lower than white collar generally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:32 PM
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In a big city or in like Lethbridge
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:30 PM
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Fat chicks are massively easier, don't worry its just reluctantly red's thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:29 PM
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Focusing purely on your appearance with stuff like working out, taking fin for your hair, fixing any acne, and facial surgery will help you find a partner more than red pill. Communicating openly, sharing household responsibilities, and letting your guard down will help you have a healthier relationship than red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:59 AM
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Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:45 AM
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Chicago Toronto and Brussels. I've said this on this sub before but I've never encountered the short/fat/ugly guy who can hook up with attractive women just with their gift of the gab. Highly anticipating the encounter though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:31 PM
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Its not people watching its actually going out with groups of people and interacting with new people in social situations. You think I would have come across a guy who gets attractive women with just game at least a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:02 PM
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Yeah I agree with that. Just don't agree that game alone will allow you to bag dimes. Whereas you can with just looks or just status
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:32 PM
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Yeah being to 100s of parties/bars and never seeing it once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:30 PM
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You need to have top 0.1% game to get laid with attractive girls without the other two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:54 PM
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I was really socially stunted growing up (probably because pops wasn't around much) but late puberty blessed me with a nice face. I've been part of "popular" cliques since then and hanging out/partying with pretty, high status people will blackpill you pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:42 PM
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Test scores for everything are way higher than they were in the 70s and 80s across the board. And there is more art being created now than any point in history by far
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:06 PM
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Last two years of college and first two years of career are probably the best time to find a long-term partner. If you haven't found someone by then you should reassess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:20 PM
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It definitely has worsened social skills but the last few generations have improved creativity, tolerance, and intelligence so a decent tradeoff imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:11 PM
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As a person raised upper class this is accurate. No way I can compete against the work ethic of 2nd gen immigrants. But I was able to take some pretty big career risks which have paid off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:59 PM
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Counter argument is that you can get girls without chasing if you are high enough value, so it is still kind of a "cope" as they say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:54 PM
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As long as you aren't too picky this is a fantastic dating strategy. Worked perfectly for me. I would just caution you that except for drastic changes in yourself, the attention from women won't really change change just by virtue of being older. (excpet for girls desperate to lock bb down.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:44 PM
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As a guy I am guilty of this and its actually one of the things that this subreddit has helped me understand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:39 PM
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It's not like getting laid should require an investment though. I was always more focused on sports, school, and building my business and had no issues getting partners just living my life. Meanwhile I have friends who spend 80% of their time chasing a girlfriend with no luck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:26 AM
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I've only lived in colder climates. Maybe that's the key
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:21 PM
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Where are you seeing this? I've lived 29 years on two continents and its very rare to see. And I know I'm not the only one on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:13 PM
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Plenty of boring women out there who would be fine with a boring guy though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:10 PM
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Because Amber Heard lied does that invalidate the whole #metoo movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:07 AM
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Except for both the political parties...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:51 PM
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Americans are some of the most right leaning people on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:04 PM
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Except liberals have been winning the societal debate for the past 300 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:02 PM
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Rule 11 no incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:35 PM
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An ugly man with attractive behavior is still not not attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:14 AM
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It makes sense, we are super segregated by class in North America. The only way I meet people without college degrees is through sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:48 AM
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Most women don't fuck people they wouldn't date though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:43 PM
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Yeah I've been to probably over 1000 bars/parties in my life and not once ever have I seen a short ugly dude killing it with the women in the room
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:27 AM
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Just getting a significant other of the blue when they least expect it doesn't really happen for most guys though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:19 AM
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If people were realistic about themselves then this sub wouldn't exist and no one would be single
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:33 PM
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I agree, it is really easy to see when you are growing up. But look at all the people on this subreddit still denying it. I suspect they weren't socialized as much as a teenager and young adult
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:28 PM
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So date smart hot guys then? Unless you are forced to pick between intelligence and looks which means you didnt really have the choice in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:08 PM
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Every country in the world has rural people who farm and work hard in shitty jobs and factories. You could replace workers in South Dakota with workers from North Macedonia and not skip a beat. Literally all the innovation, entertainment, and technology that makes America a world power comes from the big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:45 PM
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Agreed. Not sure why we're comparing Vienna to Akron. Men in New York, Chicago, Toronto, etc take way better care of themselves then dudes in the German countryside
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:12 PM
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I see way more fit people in America and canada than europe. A lot more out of shape people too thiugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:08 PM
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Yes these guys are certainly peak men: https://youtu.be/zk6rSPnLOLE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:07 AM
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Why do you think men care only about looks? In my experience women care more about height and good looks whereas men are more likely to take personality into account
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:32 AM
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Agreed. I appreciate my girlfriend so much more after seeing some of the vitriol from women here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:30 PM
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They mainly just hate men and this is one of the places outside their sub they can openly do that in front of a male audience without being downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:43 AM
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This comment just shows you don't hang out with hot men lol. The shit I have seen some girls do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:53 AM
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Really? I see good looking dudes with average girls faaar more than the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:45 AM
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In a lot of expensive cities it's a sign of wealth to live with your parents. Because it means your parents are rich enough to afford a house in the city
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:28 AM
0

Depends where you live. In financial centre cities almost every guy is fit and well dressed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:24 AM
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Went to a big state school too. Plenty of low SMV guys around. You probably just didn't see them much outside of class
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:24 PM
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Many many men just straight up don't have sex outside of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:21 AM
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A lot of the issues in this sub would be solved if both genders didn't just date the most attractive person possible without regard for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:58 AM
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Idk about that. I know a lot of fit, social guys with good jobs who still struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:58 AM
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Get in line haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:22 AM
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The black pill is literally that hot women refuse to date ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:36 PM
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Definitely a part of it, but also heavily depends on where you live. Coastal educated people in their 20s will be in great shape (better than in berlin & Paris from my experience) whereas in rural southern states people are unbelievably obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:35 PM
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Same. I think we make the mistake of thinking people on this forum are more normal then they are in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:51 PM
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Black pill is more controversial on this forum than in real life CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:15 PM
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Yup I am jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:26 AM
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Yeah the gen Xers on this sub are so far removed from young person dating that they might as well be in retirement homes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:31 AM
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Yeah that stuff definitely helps. I've seen ugly guys get casual sex too, but pretty much always only with ugly girls which is why I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:18 AM
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What do his FWBs look like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:58 AM
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Yeah I was going to say that only people that don't go to bars/clubs say looks don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:49 AM
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Congrats man I hope you guys have a great relationship. Don't get me wrong a good personality really helps with some girls but you are also probably better looking than you think :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:35 AM
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OP I think you make some good points especially about different people having different deal breakers. However I think there a couple key parts missing. First is that people's "looks threshold" usually scales up the more attractive you are, not randomly distributed. So an 8/10 girl is much more likely to have strict looks requirements than a 3/10 girl. Also it's been pretty well documented that how good looking you find someone impacts your perception of their personality. That being said the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:13 AM
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People can get more attractive or, more easily, way less attractive. But unattractive to attractive is pretty much impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:03 AM
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80%+ of women marry a guy less than 5 years older than them. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships And a lot of the large age gap marriages remaining are from religious communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:51 AM
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I think women would be the limiting factor on what age they date, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:47 AM
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Among guys I know its the exact same. Most common number is probably 2 aka guys who can't have sex outside relationships. A bunch at 5-15 who were able to have a few fwbs and short relationships over the years before settling down. And a few at easily 50+ who can basically pick a girl out of a crowd at a bar and go home with her with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:10 AM
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I dont think it really affects your smv for either gender unless you are literally famous. It does affect the education/job of your potential partners though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:48 PM
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So obvious when people on this sub watch too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:42 PM
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Okay you cannot act like women dating men 7-12 inches shorter than them is the norm. You could people watch at a busy metro centre and not see a couple like that for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:27 PM
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I mean I'm all for shrugging off societal norms and dating who you want but the girls I hang out with and want to date are not the kind that do age gap relationships. Whatever reason you want to ascribe to that is your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:45 PM
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I'm guessing the person you are replying to is an affluent young professional in a big city. I'm the same demographic and literally no one I know is dating someone more than 2 years older or younger. If someone in our social group brought a college kid as their +1 on a night out it would be pretty shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:35 AM
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Yeah if your job doesn't give you 200k+ Instagram followers or 200k+ dollars then women dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:53 AM
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Not sure what you are trying to say here. There are plenty of kind young men who have their shit together if you want to date those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:10 AM
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Same. For me it solves the "is she viscerally physically attracted to me" question right away. Which lets me focus more on developing the relationship without that insecurity nibbling at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:31 AM
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Men will get horny from looking at a fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:19 AM
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Never seen any average looking players irl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:44 AM
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I'm a lil autistic and I can still read these pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:18 AM
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Thank goodness for this too. If game actually mattered as much as red pillers think I would be fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:46 PM
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Reddit (not this sub) is probably the worst for this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:43 PM
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Just funny that you are going for the most basic trope in existence of "even when it's the women's fault, it's the men's fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:24 PM
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I was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:23 PM
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Top 20% is not based entirely on looks, but all top 20% men are good-looking. I would say fairly objective. Within 30 seconds of meeting someone you can tell if they do well with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:19 PM
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Agreed. Never the women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:09 PM
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Everyone I know dates within our social group, which is 20-something young professionals. Max I've seen is 23 year old dating a 28 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:18 AM
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This is why I take fin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:29 AM
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Curious about the demographics of women who date older men in this thread. I'm a 25 year old who has a professional job and lives in a big city and you would be a laughingstock if you dated someone 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:27 AM
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I'm in my mid 20s and I have literally never encountered a girl dating someone over 30. Where do you find these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:19 AM
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They need to be attracted to you, that's by far the biggest part. They also need to feel comfortable with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:18 AM
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Giving a girl attention and affection is great, but not even close to enough to have a sexual relationship with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:47 AM
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Lol I need to meet some of these guys in real life and learn from them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:41 AM
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Do well with hot women or ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:10 AM
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The number has increased substantially in the last 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:06 AM
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I have a normal life, job, girlfriend and I agree with what a lot of this sub says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:04 AM
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This does not happen lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:03 AM
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More like redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:01 AM
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That's probably what she is saying. Guys here way overestimate non-physical stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:55 AM
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If they are sleeping with other people I would assume they aren't that into me. And I am not into people who aren't into me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:25 PM
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Depends which college you went to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:34 AM
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It looks easy for you because you only see the successful attempts. Survivorship bias. Bringing home randoms from bars is not going to happen for most guys so the ones who even attempt it are going to have a much higher % for success
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:05 AM
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Not a model but decently above average sure. I just feel like under TRP framework guys like me should be doing a lot worse than we actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:56 AM
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I'm anxious and shy and I still do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:47 AM
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Depends if the 5'10 white guy is decent looking himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:46 AM
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Since most (not all) of red pill stuff doesn't really matter/work, I would say slightly higher than the regular population of men. So like 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:13 PM
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True thanks for sharing. I believe it, I just never see it irl so maybe it's a cultural or socioeconomic thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:44 PM
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No douchiness I'll take your word for it. Just trying to figure out if there's a common thread to all the reddit women who claim to date ugly guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:23 PM
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I know, reddit is hilarious about this. Where are y'all hanging out with people that don't shower or get haircuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:46 PM
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Are you hot or ugly yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:44 PM
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Lmao same. Guys way more charismatic than me do say worse with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:27 AM
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Do you actually believe people care less about women's issues than men's? We literally can't even start the conversation about gender-specific issues for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 12:04 PM
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Lol 97%...more like 99.99%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:07 AM
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Dont mean to be rude, just dont see fit girls dating fat guys very often
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:31 PM
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Naw look around at all the guys dating hotties. Way more chiseled jaws than flirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:17 AM
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Are you heavy yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:54 AM
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