carlosvives Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	TRP theory proves right, yet again		carlosvives	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 01:20 AM

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6	Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll. If I knew the answer to that I’d be a very powerful man haha. What I usually do is if it’s been more than 2 or 3 weeks I call one of my booty calls and set something up. That puts me in a good headspace and lets me take pressure off myself. However, this summer I was in a new city for an internship and was in a 2-month long dry spell but my thing was mostly focusing on making new friends and just being myself. Once I had a good group of friends it was only a matter of time and I was back at it.	/r/seduction	14/11/17 04:24 PM
30	Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll. Had this exact conversation with my friend last night. My thought was that, just like in sports, if you get on a cold spell it’s easy to get into your own head and your overall game suffers. But let’s use soccer as an example, once you score one goal after a dry spell or make a nice run, your confidence shoots up again and you’re back in your element and can stop thinking as much and just react. Same deal with talking to girls/people in general. If you can be yourself and get in a groove/good mi…	/r/seduction	14/11/17 04:09 PM
7	3 secrets to meeting quality women in your city... Basically visualize who you want, then visualize who she would want, then become (more like) that person and do things that that person would do.	/r/seduction	13/09/17 04:06 AM
3	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Lol good to know, thanks for the tip! I've noticed the same as well (obviously a college senior will be more interesting than a freshman, etc). I guess like you said it just comes with time, trial and (many) errors haha	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:38 PM
5	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. Great post, sincerely appreciate you sharing! I'm 22 and relatively new to the "seduction game" but I'm starting to have some success (at least growing from where I was a few years ago). My observation would be you seem to have developed a good sense of identifying the unique features of another person quickly (correct me if I'm wrong). My question would be did you always have this eye/observation ability or was that just another skill you developed in your travels? Thanks again!	/r/seduction	05/08/17 08:16 PM
1	Snapchatting? Definitely. A friend of a friend visited my university a year ago and had a Bf at the time. A few weeks ago I commented on her a random Snapchat story of hers and were silk talking every day and she invited me to stay with her for a few days before going back to college. Best case scenario: hangout with her and sex and stuffs. Worst case scenario: she never responds and you move on. Sounds like a great risk/reward situation to me	/r/seduction	05/08/17 06:32 AM
2	4 Rules for a good conversation Yes and no, each conversation is different and some people like to ramble about themselves more than others. It's all about the mood so if the other person seems to be having a good time and you're genuinely interested then it won't feel like an interrogation.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/17 10:46 PM
24	How can you express your sexuality without being creepy but not asexual with a girl? Some of the best advice I've ever gotten in my life is this: the only difference between creepy and romantic is how the girl perceives it. A box of chocolates and a bouquet with a cute note coming from one man will get him the best sex of his life that night while the exact same thing from another will get him a restraining order. It's all about how she perceives you and as long as your not stalker status, you can always take baby steps and escalate the sexual tension. Different strokes for diff…	/r/seduction	24/07/17 06:00 PM
3	4 Rules for a good conversation Questions, questions and more questions. Anything to keep them talking. Who, what, when, where, why and how? And after a response to each try to build them up without coming off as unauthentic.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/17 05:54 PM
1	In which I share how I've gained more energy in my life and recommend actions so that you may do the same. Most of my free time comes in between classes and work. After class I go straight to the gym, then dinner, then homework and then I might relax with some friends or read/journal before bed. Keeping it in my back pocket would be a better way to update it in closer to real time, but I like having it as my nightly routine because it's not an electronic device so it helps my brain begin to shut down and get ready for sleep (whereas tv or reading on a tablet/computer will keep you up).	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 07:48 PM
1	In which I share how I've gained more energy in my life and recommend actions so that you may do the same. As a student with 1 year still left before earning my degree (civil engineering) with a substantial amount of workload during the week, do you have any suggestions to fill my time besides the gym? That and reading various books have been my two main pastimes when I'm not relaxing/partying on weekends and late at night. I have a ukelele that I want to learn to play but I always seem to never have enough time to pick it up and begin learning until later at night when my roommates are about to go t…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 06:33 PM
3	A list of things every man should be able to do How do you learn to "hack travel"? I'm a student who doesn't have much financial wiggle room at the moment but will in the foreseeable future( training to be an engineer, good internships and job offers already in place with ~1 year left in school). Additionally, what if you like to smoke a joint/have a drink while reading a book when you have down time? Is this bad? I feel like learning to not do these things in excess is the key. Thanks for the post!	/r/becomeaman	28/02/17 04:39 PM
10	Are you proud of your father? Very proud to be my father's son. This man came to the states when he was 18 from Colombia and made it from community college to a PhD in Plasma Physics. He married my mom when she was 21 and he was 26 (I think?). He turned her from a going nowhere sociology major with a 2.0 in to a nursing student with straight A's. The man never pushed sports, per se, but he always took my brother and I on hikes and worked his ass off to make the good money he's got and still works out an hour a day, every day…	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/15 09:27 PM
1	TRP theory proves right, yet again Very true and that's what woulda happened had her two roommates gone to be instead of sit up all night on the porch and had to walk by us to get to bed/came in ever so occasionally to get water. The struggle to bone was real that night.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 07:30 PM
-2	TRP theory proves right, yet again Seriously doubt it but why do you say that?	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 03:39 AM
-5	TRP theory proves right, yet again Haha, maybe in a few years but I'm still a poor college student. Bout to throw the shit away outa some cup noodles though.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 01:29 AM
1	"Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmen I agree. For some people who abuse it, it's for the worse and it can really mess up the chemical balance in your brain. But for others, it can be almost a remedy of sorts that allows you to see life through a very, very different perspective. Reflecting on my trips have helped me make decisions that vastly improved my quality of life. LSD helped me turn my life around and I will be forever grateful to it for the role it played in me becoming the person I am today.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/15 05:42 AM
3	"Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmen Back in my high school days, I was quite the little player actually. However this one girl tied me down and looking back at it, it was completely obvious how dumb I was for even starting a LTR, but I digress.. Anyway after about 6 months she cheated on me on New Year's Eve with one of my neighborhood buddies. Beta ass me was so whipped back then I actually took her back and tried to work things out for a month or two before realizing how big of a waste of time she was. I then suffered severe bet…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/15 09:43 PM
1	Lesson learned: If a woman asks how much you make, break it off ASAP. Interesting. My brother got hit by a car a few years ago but won't get the money til he's 18. I'll definitely talk to him about using it wisely. Thanks for the advice and good luck with your stocks amigo	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/15 07:59 PM
1	Lesson learned: If a woman asks how much you make, break it off ASAP. Fellow engineering student here in a similar situation but I have a sizable scholarship and my parents cover the rest. I'm wondering how it is you're making money (good money I assume) and how you know you'll be able to buy your own place before 25? That's damn impressive and no to say I don't work my ass off but god damn dude, good on ya.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/15 08:48 PM