carlyraejessie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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22	What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”? my ex always said “sammiches” or “sammich” instead of sandwich. 30 year old man. revolting. also, he wore those old balance sneakers dads wear with bootcut jeans that were 2” too short. makes sense that his mom straight up told me i was too good for him at his birthday dinner 😂 glad i listened to her!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/21 10:14 PM
0	Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates? equality doesn’t mean “split the bill,” it means both men and women have the agency and ability to ask someone on a date. whoever asks for the date should pay, that’s basic manners. also, splitting the bill is SO unromantic. if you pick up this tab i’ll pick up the next one, etc, but splitting is something friends do, not something you ask of a potential romantic interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 09:24 PM
1	The separation between the blue pill and the red pill is the belief in love true love is real. true love does not need to be unconditional. if you hurt the person you “love” or become someone who is not like the version of you they fell in love with, they have every right to not love you anymore. also, soooo many people don’t want kids, so why would we care about genetics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:08 PM
1	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. that’s true for YOU. my last boyfriend and i never had sex bc he was asexual, and that’s not related to why we broke up, it worked for both of us. but the whole point of this thread is: don’t compare how long someone took to consent to sleeping with you to how long it took for them to sleep with anyone else. there are a million valid reasons someone would want to wait, and comparing yourself to other men is pointless and will only hurt you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 07:55 PM
1	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. i mean i agree with that but that doesn’t mean you should be dating solely with the intention of sex. if you just want to hook up then go on tinder and be up front about that. but dating and a relationship is about SO much more than sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 12:19 PM
3	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. if you’re waiting for marriage, then your concern is not “oh damn she fucked this other guy after 2 dates but me after 10 dates, that’s unfair to me” it’s “this girl had sex before marriage, we clearly have different value systems”. duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:50 AM
4	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. so ur only dating for sex, got it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:07 AM
4	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. why are you thinking about other men? women aren’t algorithms, sometimes we just need longer. men are the same. just chill	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:06 AM
4	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. a) no one is expecting you to know this, bc it doesn’t matter, bc you should listen to the wishes and consent of women you’re interested in, not compare yourself to other people. b) sounds personal! a lot of projection happening here	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:01 AM
3	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. you wouldn’t, which emphasizes my point. sometimes i trust a man enough to sleep w him on the first date, sometimes it takes 10. no two people are the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 01:59 AM
0	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. yes, i understand that, i went to business school. but economic principles are about numbers. dating/human behavior and psychology do not always follow principles. and as i said, sometimes i have wanted to and felt comfortable hooking up with a guy on the first date, sometimes i have waited much longer. sometimes it had nothing to do with my interest in that person, but just that i hadn’t shaved or cleaned my apartment or had plans after or what have you. ultimately, why would you try to compare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 09:35 PM
0	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. dating does not follow economic principles bestie	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 07:53 PM
5	The Effects of Sexual Timing on Marriage Relationships. women are not cheeseburgers. relationships with different people will develop at different rates, sometimes sex happens in the first couple dates, sometimes building that level of rapport/trust takes longer. if this is a problem for you it shows all you value from that woman is sex, which is gross, and sounds like YOU have the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 06:45 PM