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I guess I'm trying to understand why her having a good career translates into men not being functional adults?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:58 PM
-1

I don't think the woman wants a six figure alpha male, I think she just wants a partner she doesn't need to remind to clean up after himself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:46 PM
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That I think men think they want to be needed until you ask help for the same thing multiple times and they get feed up and don't wanna help again. Or that they just ask and ask for help and don't let them rest. So do they wanna be helpful or needed or not?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:16 PM
-6

I understand that but a lot of men complain that their wives always ask them for help, an example, with their cars and they lash out all 'when are you going to learn?' 🤷‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 11:40 PM
-7

I thought men liked women who know how to deal with shit. Don't they always complain about how they nag and need them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 04:27 PM
5

👏👏👏 Exactly this. You say you love learning so try getting into hobbies you could monitize if things go sour. I definitely suggest doing a personal finances course. I don't blame you for wanting an easy going life after everything you went through but it's always smart to have back up plans. Best of luck, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 01:43 PM
6

He has to be in their lives, that's their father. I don't have children but I can totally sympathize with the pain of having your nuclear family dream be shattered and by someone else's actions but please, let me give you this perspective. You're not just a mom, you're a woman too. Your kids will eventually grow, leave and make their own lives. You're allowed to leave a relationship that's not fulfilling. You can try marriage counseling but he has to step in HARD.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 04:39 AM
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I don't know what exactly you're getting from this marriage. Wanting to be married is understandable but it has to be a worthy marriage. It is not your fault. You're having sex 4 times a week with twins? Also putting the effort to lose weight, cooking lovely home made meals. You seem a supportive, committed and considerated partner, your husband...not so much. I understand leaving is harder as a SAHM and the heartbreak of "breaking" your family if you separate but believe me, it is not on you. I…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 02:56 AM
4

There should not be porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:03 AM
3

What classifies as a trashy woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:49 PM
3

Don't get discouraged, if he's a great guy and makes you happy, what's two years? :) Wishing you luck!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 07:11 PM
13

I personally wouldn't date a man younger than me but I feel like a 2 year age gap isn't significant, even my parents married and were together for 20 years and my mom was older for two years too!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 04:06 PM
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I don't understand why I got down voted lol. Those are just my boundaries to sex. If they are ok with it we can keep seeing each other, if they don't, we don't and that's it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/23 03:21 AM
1

No. And the men I've been FWB I also like to know them first before letting them hit. I have an irrational fear of having sex with a guy and then he turning out a jerk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/23 02:20 PM
-8

I also make guys wait three months, what's wrong about it? 😭
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/23 02:12 PM
3

It is not unreasonable. There's men who don't want kids but still enjoy to take care of their wife.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 02:29 PM
47

This is NOT your fault. You're a victim of DV. Your husband is an abuser. Try reaching out for a women's shelter.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 01:41 PM
9

That's one of the things I realized growing up. I love my dad, I know he would do anything for me but he had this idea of us (children) receiving him with food and a not messy house which is fair but not until I remember that my whole life my mom worked and did household chores. So...why does that apply to him and not her? I call him out and now he pulls out his weight more. Kids start to realize their family dynamics aren't good when they grow up. 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:18 AM
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Specially when they see their mom actually trying to connect with them so they know it's possible. This men don't care about their family just wanna be the head of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:06 AM
11

No men in that video could answer a question about their kids personal life. And they act all pikachu face when they are alone in their old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:37 AM
2

I'm not having sex with someone before dating for three months and if they say anything remotely sexual to me in less than five dates I'm ghosting them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:45 AM
0

I think the overfamiliarity might be husbands not putting their weight on the household. If you see someone not picking up their clothes, telling them to do stuff because they don't do it by themselves, not taking care of their appareance, etc. The attractiveness is going to die. Really hard to want to fuck someone who you feel like a mother to. Measure happiness? I would say intimacy, yes, but not sex perse. Hugs, kisses, flirting, deep talks. Those things keep the flame alive. Counselors say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:13 AM
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I did. You said that basically, sex is a measure for intimacy and how they feel in the marriage. There's plenty of people that are unhappy within their marriage and have sex constantly because it's good and that's probably the only thing holding things together that doesn't mean they are going to last. Shit, there's even people that still have sex with their spouse and are cheating. So sex consistency =/= happiness on a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:49 PM
4

It's incredible how you say that women fail a marriage just because they don't have sex constantly. If they are mothers, attending the house, raising children, cooking, cleaning, all of the mental and physical labor of the household falls on them and you wonder why they aren't jumping their husbands bones? It's a joke in media that men forget anniversaries. They don't take out their wives in dates, buy gifts, compliment her yet it's woman that fail at marriage. Yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:38 PM
6

"the happiest women are women married to men" fuck women in a same sex relationship I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:35 AM
4

Do men settle and lower their standards if they reach certain age? Like y'all okay with marrying someone you aren't obsessed with?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/23 08:18 AM
1

I thought shut up rings were that. They propose and get married because the woman was insisting and the man clearly doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:49 AM
1

People want experiences and a easy going life, specially when they are young. There's a lot of commitment and obligations that comes from being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:22 PM
3

But you wouldn't approach a woman who looked like that, would you? And it's controllable if she wants to. If she doesn't want to lose weight nor shave herself, most men would leave her. Ok, fair, nothing wrong with that but why are they acting as if they don't care about physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:54 PM
3

Would they date an overweight unshaved woman because of her morals and ethics and great heart? No. They're delusional. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:07 PM
1

Well said. I don't think I would even respect a man that goes to strip clubs or buys OF.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 03:59 PM
1

I don't think I would even respect a man that goes to strip clubs.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 03:56 PM
1

That's true, marriage is vulnerability. Best thing is to truly know your husband, have standards and cultivate a good support system.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 02:57 PM
4

Oh, it's not that a marriage with two working people it's going to do better than one with a SAHP, but in case things do go sour, if you have a job you'll have means to survive. SAHM can be very vulnerable if you don't have any income to fall into. It's just about being safe.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:20 AM
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Every lawyer advices to have your own income, so.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:12 PM
1

I would never date a blue collar and it has nothing to do with money more so with the fact that because they work such a physical demanding job they all expect you, their partner, to cook for them, like their lunch for the day and when they come home for the food to be ready and served and that doesn't sound like a dream to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:23 PM
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There's also a delete post from her where she founds out that he was planning to cheat on her. :(
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 02:35 AM
5

Exactly. And they almost always go to third world countries for women who they know would choose them for financial reasons. So, basically they paid thousands for having a wife. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:42 AM
4

You mean they ask for help? For people around them? That just happen to be men? If they didn't have a father you'll make fun of them. Women can't never win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:51 PM
4

It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. The porn addiction is evident and he's not doing anything to stop it or treat it, now ask yourself, can you live like this 10, 15, 20, 25 years more? Can you give up sex? You're not even 30 so I assume you are far from putting your sex life in a coffin.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 10:07 PM
1

Well, now you have no provider in sight.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:22 PM
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Well, isn't that a good thing? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:27 AM
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Not to be a bitch here but let's put it this way; if she's feminine, is in good shape and a great homemaker in top of being a working and established woman, doesn't it look like he's better off with her? And if she's not all of this things that you listed as your qualities then they clearly don't matter to him. He has a girlfriend now. You made your choice. You moved on and made your life, he did the same. Maybe try to rekindle things with your ex fiance?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 04:38 AM
4

This has to be a fucking joke lol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 12:14 AM
12

I'm going to be honest to you, there's no sugar baby that isn't doing sexual favors. Best case scenario, you are like FWB relationship where you are attracted to him and you like his personality and he pays for your expenses but a man who would just pay you to exist without sex? Yeah, they don't exist. Most sugar babies claim they don't because it might be embarrassing for them but that's the true. If you want to go down this route please take care of yourself and be very careful. It can end up …
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 11:28 PM
3

I can understand that being falsely accused constantly of something in a relationship it's going to cause severe damage but if your wife has concerns about you cheating because let's say, you have been coming home late, you haven't been going out together as much, overall a change in attitude, I would say it's not that out of nowhere. If OP suspected because of that I think it is shitty that the husband just left.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 11:00 PM
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You thought he was cheating and he just left? That's weird. I think most husband's would have try to fight that they weren't cheating. Maybe he wanted an excuse to leave?
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 04:47 PM
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I'm not even sure that's a high body count. It seems reasonably giving your age.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:24 PM
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