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When a feminist describes her ideal man, she will describe a slave, to her and her ever growing needs/wants/whims.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 09:53 PM
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None of my male friends (nor I) do this. Not sure the quality of people he’s spending time around?
/r/MensRights19/07/25 07:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/fV8YldywoLA?si=NFjyqvhiAgIBoX_7
/r/MensRights23/06/25 12:20 AM
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Did you happen to see Bill Maher’s most recent on air push back against this? It’s on YouTube, and it’s amazing!
/r/MensRights22/06/25 10:42 PM
13

Love ignoring women like this! It’s like dropping the rope in a tug of war match. Once you drop the rope, there’s nothing for them to do? Their existence depends on someone sparring with them.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:09 PM
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It’s just another thing guys are better than girls at! /s
/r/MensRights09/03/25 06:23 PM
4

Not having a job, nor contributing to society.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 11:44 PM
3

Yes, agreed. Never let anyone manipulate you or “reward” you with sex.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:17 PM
8

Gender reveals are dumb. They are always about mother just wanting to be seen, again. No dad cares about having a big and complicated reveal event.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 04:15 PM
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So she basically just lied to her coworker. It wasn’t fine, and people aren’t allowed to have personal preferences that she doesn’t agree with.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:55 PM
3

Just because your pussy is all stretched out doesn’t mean I’m small.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 06:09 PM
15

Men aren’t entitled to a woman’s body…and women aren’t entitled to a man’s finances!
/r/MensRights21/07/24 08:20 PM
17

Easy answer, they avoid work. Therefore there’s nothing to improve.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 11:33 AM
4

Most people will insult when they have nothing to say in support of their argument/side. It’s easy, lazy and always shows that person’s feeling threatened. I see many women doing this when asked to explain themselves.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 06:30 PM
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I’m much more happy NOT being married. Have any of these women actually spoken with an unmarried (free) man before?
/r/MensRights24/06/24 10:43 PM
8

Western school systems are set up in such a way that females do better. Boys are active learners and need to work with models, girls can passively sit and retain info. And as far as maturity goes, in my experience…girls/women mature up to a point and then continue to act like girls the rest of their lives.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 02:55 PM
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Yes!! And, she gets the $2k, after it’s been taxed. So you’ve essentially have had to earn $2300 to get her that $2000. (Depending on your tax bracket). And she doesn’t have to claim it as income either. It’s free money for her. Men get double and triple screwed on these matters!
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:11 PM
5

Hahaha!!!
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:40 PM
62

Using their line of logic, there needs to be more female garbage collectors, roofers, ditch diggers, asphalt layers…essentially all the stuff the bottom 20% of men have to do.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 04:54 PM
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It’s always women who body shame other women. By and large, women use shame in their social interactions, not men.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 01:09 AM
30

It’s the WNBA!? I don’t think we are losing any story that people would even want to hear about! lol
/r/MensRights16/04/24 10:33 AM
159

When I attended church for Mother’s Day, people would meet women in the parking lots and give out flowers, big signs to welcome moms, and the sermon would be about how mothers and women, are such great and wonderful people. We should respect and honor them more. When Father’s Day rolled around, nothing of the sorts happened and the sermon was “men/dads…you can do better.” Always.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 06:13 PM
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Yes, they’re the most protected species in the planet.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 11:27 PM
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Yes. It’s a shame tactic. Women use shame a lot.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 01:15 PM
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Yes! This, this is the way!
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:40 PM
6

My how the turntables have turned.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 01:24 PM
13

Yes. Men have intrinsic worth and value, apart of what they can provide others. All humans do.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:31 PM
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I have never seen a women sit down and shut up at the same time?? I think it’s them who can’t multitask.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 06:38 PM
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No doubt!!
/r/MensRights20/01/24 11:28 PM
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For sure!! Or single dads…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 10:24 PM
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Yeah…never thought about that caveat! lol.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 09:47 PM
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Yes! I agree 100%. It is criminal on so many levels. Courts and judges also financially benefit from child support. Lawyers. Everyone but the father, and most of the time…even the children.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 05:12 PM
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I cannot understand how putting someone in prison would help rectify the child support debt they have? Wouldn’t they just go further into debt? And then almost assure them of not having any gainful employment after getting out of jail? Seems utterly nonsensical and heavy handed.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 03:03 PM
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Jesus H…these entitled women are spending the money their partners/husbands work for, on these festivities. Of course men don’t have time to do all the decorating and present buying!? The women don’t spend the time working to bring in the money to takes to live let alone buy gifts and decorations!?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:50 PM
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You should do whatever the fuck YOU feel like doing my brother in Christ.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:48 PM
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Jeda Smith is a disgusting human being who is manipulative and abusive.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 04:19 PM
6

This is very thorough OP, many thanks!!!
/r/MensRights04/12/23 09:36 PM
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Most successful women these days talk about their vagina. Boring!! Come up with some actual interesting idea.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 01:03 AM
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Yes!! I believe that cancel culture is a direct result of a feminized society. It’s a very female way of controlling an outcome, using collective shaming techniques to ostracize an individual.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 01:09 PM
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Not sure if it has freed us from this!? So many men still stupidly take on this role. Women say they can provide, but in reality, they really don’t want to.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 11:16 PM
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Because equality is choosy. Ain’t no feminist fighting to reroof a house in summer, or unclog a toilet pipe or pick up trash!?🤣
/r/MensRights19/11/23 05:08 PM
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Most men in the world aren’t circumcised. Just in the US and a few other countries, ie Israel. We chose to not have our son circumcised and wanted to leave that choice up to him.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 11:37 AM
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They used to be a place where men went to work out and socialize and connect with other men. Now they are more co-ed. But, men need those spaces again.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 11:32 PM
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Women keep invading men’s spaces and then getting upset men are there??
/r/MensRights09/11/23 09:19 PM
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Good. They suck.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:24 AM
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I wish I could claim women as dependents on my taxes…because they truly offer very little. Much the same as children.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 09:54 PM
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Even the very devices they use to bash men on!? Oh the irony.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 03:04 PM
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When you don’t want to be challenged, you create an echo chamber. When you don’t seek the truth, you create an echo chamber. When you don’t want to think, you create an echo chamber. Thus is modern feminism.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 02:51 PM
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Very interesting. It does come from the Semitic area, and means “so be it.” Hence, it’s use all throughout the Old and New Testaments. It’s not even an English language word.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 06:51 PM
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In the US, we had a chaplain at one of our National Presidential Forums, end his prayer with “Amen and Awomen.” Amen, isn’t even an English word!? lol. 🙄
/r/MensRights24/10/23 06:12 PM
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We need to codify OP’s post. That was amazing!
/r/MensRights21/10/23 03:04 PM
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True story! Just read any book by Thomas Sewell!
/r/MensRights08/10/23 10:13 PM
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Women like to “fix” and “tame” men. That’s why beauty and the beast is considered female porn.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 12:35 AM
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Men make most of the money and women spend it!
/r/MensRights27/09/23 11:30 AM
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I think cancel culture is the result of an over-feminized society. Women tend to use shame and canceling on a micro social level far more than men. And now we are seeing that on a macro level.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:50 AM
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Men are also actively leaving the workforce…because of lack of opportunities, lack of promotions and choosing to not marry and carry the load of raising a family. Has nothing to do with how great and powerful women are.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 05:26 PM
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This is a good filter for men! Ironically, it’s helping men see how incompatible they would be with such women. And how miserable their lives would be if they committed to a future with them.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 11:18 PM
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Higher rates of homelessness. Higher work place death rates. More dangerous jobs. Higher military death rates. Family courts biased. Alimony and child support. Paternal fraud. Parental alienation. Are just a few more…it’s truly sad.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:29 PM
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Women traditionally use objects in domestic abuse situations. These can and do inflict much more damage.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:27 PM
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This just confirms that most women have no clue to what they are doing in life or dating. Their “godlike” status in society is eroding before their eyes. Men are growing tired of catering to their every whim…and paying the price for doing so. A man has a choice to like something or not. She will only try to force him into agreeing with her, or she will cancel him.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 02:10 PM
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He should divorce her and file for alimony!
/r/MensRights26/07/23 09:43 PM
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So I married an axe murderer…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 01:32 AM
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She’s dumb.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 01:14 AM
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Wow! This took a lot of time putting together. No doubt. I’ll be sure to read and source for years to come. Many thanks OP!
/r/MensRights28/05/23 08:04 PM
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We need “Anonymous” to expose this group!
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:44 AM
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Christina Hoff-Summers has lots of good articles, YouTube’s and books about this myth. She is a first wave feminist, who truly believes in equality and actually stands up for men as well. Here’s an article she wrote: https://assets.ctfassets.net/qnesrjodfi80/2lC4ZMGBBaaAO8U26IOIc6/7c7b0d9c794405a39d8705ce2808e0c1/sommers-the_myth_of_the_gender_wage_gap-transcript.pdf
/r/MensRights18/05/23 12:29 PM
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Divorce is an industry. A corrupt one, for sure. Judges line their pockets with $$.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:40 AM
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I would argue that it’s not just poor men who are oppressed by society, and social norms…but 99% of men have been oppressed. Who is sent to fight wars and die? Young guys and men. Who worked as slaves. Young boys and men. Whose lives were absolutely expendable? Young boys and men. Most men have never had a “fair lot” in life, and just because they were “males” didn’t help them much…but many times, served to hurt them, because women were more sheltered and protected. Plus, there have been many wo…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 04:50 PM
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“Men were never oppressed”…is absolutely untrue. Do explain where you’re coming from? And please give examples of how men have never been oppressed.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 04:39 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised if she did a tik tok dance in front of his bed to “raise awareness” for his suffering?! /sarcasm
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:56 PM
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Very well articulated! Thank you.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 12:33 PM
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People like to be right and like to be wronged. It gives them a sense of identity. Though, it’s a false foundation.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 08:10 PM
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Lawyer up!
/r/MensRights11/04/23 06:19 PM
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I wished I had coined it, but all credit goes to Noah Rothman, and his book “The Rise Of The New Puritans”. It’s so well researched and written, give it a read!!
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:43 PM
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These Neo Puritans are taking the fun and joy out of recreational and relaxing parts of life by politicizing them; ie: what’s going on here with Bud Light.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:20 PM
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She/it…that’s awesome!! Please keep us up to date how your life will change.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 10:01 PM
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Are the calls recorded? That would be a great place to start…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 10:45 PM
2

There ought be financial consequences for posting in that group!
/r/MensRights18/03/23 05:36 PM
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I remember those days of church attendance. Even their message to men and women on Father’s Day vs Mother’s Day. Moms, “you’re amazing and brace, we love you, here’s a flower to show you.” Dads, “you can be better, man up.”
/r/MensRights16/03/23 09:21 PM
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There is a pattern of women trying to define for men, what masculinity is. We need to raise our boys to understand that no one gets to define you, except you.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 12:12 AM
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Would no longer need women??
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:23 AM
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Good for you for making your needs and boundaries known!! That takes courage. And I think you’re being absolutely reasonable in the request.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:34 PM
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I would LOVE for men to dismiss women. And truly go their own way. They would freak out. Women need make attention and affirmation far more than we men, need it from them.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 12:54 AM
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The main principle is to not allow women to define masculinity nor to allow them to tell you what you (as a male) can and can’t do.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 11:51 PM
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This is insecurity speaking. I’d hate for her to think she represents women. And she certainly can’t speak for men. Therefore, this is solely her opinion. And opinions are like assholes…everyone’s got one.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 12:28 AM
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I remember Chris Rock talking about this. If women want to date a man who is stronger, taller, smarter, with more money…then men are getting women who are weaker, dumber and poorer. So, why are we (men) settling for these types of people. They are literally parasites.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:00 PM
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Yeah…far too many variables!!?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:54 PM
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So…most young women are dating older guys?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:10 PM
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Boff…but, more so the article. :)
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:41 AM
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Yes, feminism keeps girls from growing up into responsible adults who have to face consequences for their actions.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 07:25 PM
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This is assumption and projection at its finest…and worst!
/r/MensRights09/02/23 01:45 AM
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This is absolutely unacceptable!! The idea of “believing all cops” is as ridiculous as “believe all women.” People lie. People deceive. People take advantage of the power they get from the system. And it needs to change. Tell me what policies to vote for…to make reform. Tell me which politician will stand for change. I’ll invest my time and attention and money there.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 12:08 AM
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This seems to be more about her, an adult who is unable to handle criticism or deal with her own insecurities, than about him, the 17 year old son.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:50 PM
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Yes, find a lawyer ASAP! The courts are not on your side. Also a paternity test should be demanded from your lawyer. Protect yourself my friend!
/r/MensRights03/02/23 01:36 AM
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It’s not a state policy, but rather a “best practice” most urologists abide by. In some cases, there are actual forms that have to be signed by the wife/partner. I actually spoke with a urologist about this tonight at a party. He confirmed that the hospital he works for doesn’t have a policy about this, but in practice, he would never perform this without a wife’s consent.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 02:21 PM
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Projecting, yet again. 2 for 2! 👏👏👏
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:58 AM
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You’re definitely projecting a lot here. Also, In many states and many medical practices, a married man can’t get a vasectomy without his wife’s consent.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:36 PM
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I’m dating a girl with no uterus…best decision I’ve made too!!
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:35 PM
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That’s definitely assuming a lot and also a lot of projecting. And that you understand the cause of his divorce. It wasn’t because of the baby. It was many things and he was very noble in trying to make things work out. Truly went above and beyond for years. But in the end it didn’t work.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:34 PM
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most people trust those who they are married to. I mean, why wouldn’t you if they have been trustworthy all along?! I don’t think the responsibility is on him at all. It’s easy to see in hindsight. And it would be like she stole all the money from the bank account…and then blaming him for not considering that could be an option…and should have had all his money in his account alone!? People don’t get married to live separate lives. But because they wanted to share their lives and that sharing is…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:29 PM
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True story!
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:25 PM
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Well, he trusted his wife. And never supposed she would have done that. Also, in many practices around the country, a man can’t get a vasectomy without the wife’s consent.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 07:28 PM
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He did want kids…and had two. It was the third that he didn’t want. Also, many don’t realize this, but many doctors won’t perform a vasectomy without the wife’s consent.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 02:02 PM
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In many states in the US, the husband needs the wife’s consent to get it.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:22 PM
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He’s since gotten the snip. But most people don’t realize that in many states the husband needs the wife’s written consent for him to get a vasectomy.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:21 PM
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I disagree. Marriage is built on trust. And he should have been able to trust his wife. This sounds a lot like the blame is on him…which is far too common these days. “The man should have known…”
/r/MensRights31/01/23 11:57 PM
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She’s my favorite!
/r/MensRights29/01/23 12:34 AM
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Usually it’s women who can’t land a man that tell other happy and satisfied women what to think and how to feel.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 01:18 AM
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This is a great video! Can’t wait to buy and read the book!!
/r/MensRights08/01/23 11:25 PM
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God bless this man!!
/r/MensRights02/01/23 08:01 PM
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Human trash.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:26 PM
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“Obviously there’s been no crime…” Wtf!? He just said she entered his house and took his gun and ammo without him knowing it consenting!!? And she told that cop!
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:31 AM
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Yes. And added to some kind of data base.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:21 AM
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Women are wonderful effect. Look it up on Wikipedia. Society has more empathy and compassion on women than men. And men are often very overlooked and ignored. Especially when they are in need.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 11:34 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to share this! False accusation, false DM claims and false (lies) of paternity, are all too common. And women aren’t held accountable nor are there any real consequences for this kind of behavior. There’s a time coming (soon) whereby things will change radically. Even starting with sharing these truths you just did!
/r/MensRights16/12/22 06:46 PM
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“When one gender is wins, both genders lose.” Dr Warren Farrel
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:09 PM
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Yes! And you mean “fiction movies”, right!? 🤣
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:10 PM
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Was she the one interviewed on The Red Pill documentary?
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:43 AM
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Assume she will pay for her own dinner out on a date.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:11 PM
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Needs to state that this is for British citizens only.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 09:46 PM
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We never had our son circumcised. We were living overseas (outside of the US) at the time and every other man/boy wasn’t circumcised and loved happy and full lives. We wanted him to fit in as he grew older. So glad we opted out of this.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:42 AM
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Music too loud to hear JP clearly…
/r/MensRights16/09/22 11:42 PM
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Agree 100%!! What value do these women/sex subscriptions actually provide??
/r/MensRights12/09/22 12:04 AM
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Marriage in the modern world makes little to no sense for a man. It’s a risk.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 05:19 PM
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Can you provide an example? That would help a lot
/r/MensRights30/08/22 01:44 AM
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You’re a great husband/father!! Kudos!! I would share with her that research shows that men connect by doing things together. Rarely will men just sit and talk, like women do over coffee and scones. Men like to interact over hobbies, activities and the sorts. This is a growth opportunity for her. I wouldn’t rule out a licensed marriage and family therapist…because there also might be something far deeper going on as well. Best of luck to you! Don’t lose you in the marriage. If she fell in love w…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:54 PM
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When one is no longer accepted, they will burn the entire village down. - African Proverb
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:27 AM
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Bill Burr
/r/MensRights14/08/22 12:18 PM
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This is not the case, especially in the military. Often of a women accuses a man of anything sexual, he will spend a year being investigated and often end up suffering a court martial. He loses everything. My gf is in the JAG in the Airforce and sees this on a weekly basis. She is deeply saddened for those men. While the woman gets to go on with her life, protected.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 03:13 PM
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Ask her to define the patriarchy and how it has tangibly hurt or oppressed women? And offer true stats that under said patriarchy, men die in war more, go to jail more, lose custodial rights to their kiddos more, lose rights to their paychecks, become homeless more, pay more in taxes…etc. sounds more like entitlement than anything else.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 02:48 AM
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