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| 71 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”They say in sales, never ask a question they can answer no to. Plus, "can I" will trigger everyone's inner first grader "I don't know, can you?" If you're asking to sit at a table/train seat with them when there are other places, it's going to be insta off putting, you need to do it when there are no other seats. If you're sitting next to them on a bus etc, ask if they're saving the seat for someone and be cool when they say yes. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.And you, I have little doubt | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 09:36 PM |
| 2 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.Therapy is actually something everyone could benefit from | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 09:35 PM |
| -2 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.It's ok if you don't know how to use that phrase, you tried | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 08:38 PM |
| -13 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.Lol, look who heard big words and decided to use them. In her mind, he clearly is the posterchild for regret, he has to be for her to feel better about what appears to be an impulsive (and yes agentic) choice. That doesn't in any way mean it was proper, and that just because a woman says yes the man has to go through with it. What he has is a fundamental lack of respect for their ages and futures. And you're reading comprehension needs work, I said nothing about him protecting her feelings, I ca… | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 07:53 PM |
| -16 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.It's not about the age difference, it's the actual age. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 07:42 PM |
| -36 | She had sex with me in the first date and now regrets it.She is avoiding you, your face makes her think of regret and it always will, you took something from her she only thought she was ready to give, and now she has no idea what to do with all of those feelings and you are the poster boy for feeling shitty. Congrats. 16 might be the age of consent, but anyone with even an average understanding of people knows that's way to young to make big choices like that and anyone with even a little decency knows that 2 weeks isn't enough time. You need to do b… | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 07:31 PM |
| 20 | What do you guys think of Jon Anthony and masculine developmentAny dude posing on a car should be an immediate red flag 🚩, that level of insecurity isn't going to offer much. | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 10:01 PM |
| -3 | How to find a wingman?Hire a girl to hang out with you, there is no better wingman, makes you look like you have value, eases some of the inherent tension. Two guys together is a red flag, a party girl who knows when to dip is an asset. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset.Hermaphrodite imagery is common in history, nothing to do with fetishizing the penis. It goes back the the mythology of a split, or that the ultimate expression of human security, power and purpose is in combination of male/female. The Phallic symbol has definitely been corrupted as a tool of dominance and control, the stabbing sword more than the guiding staff if you will, and for many it becomes an important part of identity, but I think you're misreading the room in many ways. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreWhich is not what I said. I'll spell it out. A vast majority of the world's population does not live in America and has seen steady improvements in thier standards of living and over all well being. Vast. Even in the cranky west, things are over all better in measures like health, safety, access to food etc than they have been ever before in history. Just because a few people whine on the Internet does not mean the world is generally unhappy. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymorePsst... The US hasn't really been around all that long, and is in no way representative of reproductive activity through history worldwide. Even Currently we are only at around 5% of world population, that's a bad sample size. I'm bad at math, but 2.5 percent ( half of the US is male) of the population of the world reporting no sex starting in recent history (2020) seems to be pretty close to what my actual made up number was. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach women at Bars?Don't. Women can smell that miles away, it's very off putting. Go to the bar to have fun, start having fun, invite women to join you in said fun. Do you enjoy bars? Do you go by yourself? How sad do lone men look sitting in bars scanning the room for approachable women? If your just going to bars to approach women, it's creepy, have a better reason for going to that particular bar and work from there. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreMakes sense, his mom did his laundry too. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreAgain, pretty Western. If you living in a remote village in Africa let's say, and someone gives you a way to guarantee clean water and a pill that keeps your children from dying from malaria, how sad are you about inflation? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreThe only real Game :) | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreThis is why people have to resort to "game", they can't have conversations or even bother to look around the suffer world, behind interested and interesting. There are literally studies, surveys and research projects on life satisfaction and happiness being done on a world that is much bigger than it was when Thoreau was living as a hermit in the woods making pronouncements about what most males in the world were experiencing. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreAgain, your generalizing Western male experience which is neither majority or historically reflective of human experience. The earth is bigger than Western Europe and the US, I researched a globe once. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:38 AM |
| -2 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreYeah, HDT had a great t shirt quote, but that's not reality. He didn't even know most men. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreYou don't think 10,000 years is a long time? During that 10,000 years the population exploded, someone was getting lucky, and it wasn't one of of every 17 dudes. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreMost. Justify that statement with worldwide statistics please. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreYes, but we've been post agricultural for a long time and that number is much higher | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreNegging all the tens in thier mammoth hides for not having enough bones on thier necklace. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreThat's not even close to accurate, the human race wouldn't be here if that was the case. Maybe Neanderthal had some mad peacock skills that just pulled in the women around the watering hole, but I doubt it. People aren't much different today. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:23 AM |
| 12 | Just do not think its worth it anymore98% of all people have never used "Game" and done just fine. Maybe there's a percentage of people who need tricks to get people interested in them, and you're not one of them? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | anyone know why girls stop responding mid textShe's bored | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Scored a number on the bus. When should I call her?That's fine, but when you call outs to invite her to a specific place at a specific time, not just " Out" | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Scored a number on the bus. When should I call her?When you have something specific and cool to invite her to. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:43 PM |
| 4 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough.What's brilliant is that the book that started it all "The Game" unintentionally ends with this message. The girl Neil falls is love with is immune to all the "tricks" and that's what makes her desirable to him. His "Game" is, in the end, completely useless in attracting the one he really wanted. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Seduction "culture" has ruined many interactions with girlsAll of the testimonials you read from the "Greats" are usually self testimonials or other guys fawning over thier routines etc. Where are the women saying anything nice about these guys? Seduction culture is a hack to get into certain spaces and places with a very specific kind of woman, usually one suffering from self esteem issues on a biblical scale. And while certain guys with even bigger esteem issues find that acceptable, any man with any sense of his own value had better things to do and … | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not like rational men?There are healthy ways to have arguments that don't involve labeling either side as right/wrong etc. Once you start labeling, all your going to get is sadness. Men traditionally have power and authority that women don't in so many ways, even in relationships, not earned, but granted by social structures, etc. The minute you try and label her approach and claim high ground, you've lost, even if you win. I think that's a vibe women can feel. The question could be restated "Why don't women like con… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not like rational men?Are you using "rational" to mean winning arguments? Are you the rational one and the woman irrational because she disagrees with you? Most guys who pride themselves on being rational ( me) also come across as pretty condescending and lacking empathy in the search for the rational solution to anything, and that's not only a turn off, but it's very frustrating. When you take the "rational" position, your almost always reframing there other person as illogical and wrong, and no one wants to feel th… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Crush that rejected me over neediness is strangely kind to me. What to do?I don't mean scare as in horror movie scare. I mean in the sense that you're going to really send a lot of the wrong signals if you pursue her now. If you read about the great seducers and ladies men in history they never went straight out their target. They appeared in their social circles. Or they dated their friends. They let that person see them in their best light rather than going straight up to them. You seem like you have a lot of confidence issues and if she's really worth your time you… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Crush that rejected me over neediness is strangely kind to me. What to do?You posted a whole lot of "I'm not sure" . Wait until you are. Do something else. See ten other people, then circle back. Break the obsession, and see if it's actually even something you want, then when you've got some perspective under your belt, decide how you want to go forward. In your state of mind, your only going to end up scaring her, but if she's at all interested, you walking away will draw that out. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Crush that rejected me over neediness is strangely kind to me. What to do?Bail | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | accidentally went from grasshopper to jediThat's only a cool story if she shows up. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on buying a new bed that won't creak when I'm having sex?Clearly you think the nation of Japan is still in college, but I'm telling you some have graduated and continue the tradition. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on buying a new bed that won't creak when I'm having sex?Box spring and mattress on the floor :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else noticed how a lot of popular music is about needy, low value mindsets and behavior?James Blunt, "You're Beautiful” is the anthem of the perpetually needy , low value male. | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | When I ask if she has a boyfriend, what "kinda" mean?Exactly this. Do you really care? | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 03:19 AM |
| -2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Saving this, solid truth! | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Shared this on a couple forums but this come off as needy to you? I’m trying to improve my text game. Rarely on tinder and felt enough rapport was established to ask for her snapLittle needy | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 01:11 AM |
| 2 | had my first foursome but made me realize something.Millions of case studies will disagree with you, people do hit upon "the one" all the time at first meetings. Something in thier energy, thier outlook, thier smell, presence, whatever will instantly place them advice the rest. You can disbelieve, but it happens all the time. Love grows out of that. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:18 PM |
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