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cartmaninfit/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:56 AM
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I suppose we have different values/viewpoints. If I'm going on a date with someone I'm looking to give them an honest chance as a person and am not viewing them as an "option". Also the one date happening basically right after the other is also very weird/disrespectful. If you had a date and felt like it didn't click that's one thing but just scoping out your options and then taking the "best one" doesn't suggest that you value your partner too much as a person (at least to me). Then again your …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 10:38 AM
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Morally I'd say you are being a "shit" person but then again people hold different values. Perhaps try imagining you hitting it of with someone and being interested in them and then finding out he has 3 other "maybe" things going, but still wants to see you so he can have an easier time deciding which one he wants (sounds like a person with a great character... the fact that you seem unable to fathom what might be wrong with your behavior also speaks volumes)
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 10:11 AM
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What's your diet and exercise routine? This can also heavily affect your sex drive
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 07:29 PM
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Yes women like dick and that's Hella gay
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 10:47 PM
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Sounds great, good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 01:05 PM
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Hmmm he probably only sees washing his hair and telling him you appreciate him as showing affection (the other things are nice but perhaps he takes them for granted ?) How does he react when you do those for him? How often do you hug cuddle kiss etc what would you like more of? It's hard to say having only your side does he seem checked out to you, or perhaps he's just gotten "comfortable"? Lasty I would communicate my feelings (try to not sound accusing/desperate might be hard considering the t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/22 08:05 AM
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Not nagging isn't showing affection/love.... How do you encourage him are you making sure he feels appreciated? What is entailed by "all that" it seems like not nagging and letting him do things are your definition of showing appreciation?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 10:31 PM
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He sounds a bit stressed/tired. I wouldn't try to push him to do things with you, but rather help him relax tell him that you appreciate all his hard work etc. try to make him feel relaxed you shouldn't seem like an additional thing he needs to take care of. Make him see you are there to support him if he feels loved by you he likely will reciprocate. You already seem to know this but losing the extra pounds will probably help the physical attraction as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 12:34 PM
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Have you tried working out? Getting more toned and losing some fat will make you look/feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 06:07 AM
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Not a big deal I'd say men like to look. I think you should keep in mind that physical attraction isn't exclusive, you can find both your bf and herny cavile, (inster "hot" guy name here) attracrive. And I think that should be the mindset with which you approach your thoughts. As for "confronting" him about it I wouldn't recommend it. Maybe bring up the topic of models/influences if you wanna talk in that direction. But don't beat yourself up over not being the only women he finds physically att…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 12:54 PM
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What kind of exercise do you do? Did you cut out all liquid calories. Are you asking any medication? Are you eating enough protein. Also if it looks like you are fmgetting more toned and not losing wheight you're likely putting on a bit of muscle.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 03:06 PM
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Seems like you have a lot (too much) on your plate. You also probably shouldn't idolize the idea of a family magically fixing your issues, relationships shouldn't be used as Band aid to attempt to glue our broken pieces together. Try working on yourself first (what makes you happy what can you do to improve yourself how do you get in a better mental state) and then try to focus on building a family. Also try making friends get a hobby that involves other people etc. you might not be invited to t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 10:08 AM
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It's just the internet/human nature if you have a bad reputation people will tear you up given the chance.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 01:32 PM
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Hmm I don't know if it's possible for you but how about reviewing your opinions in your head and going through them unbiased and then share them with your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 11:18 AM
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If they pay they want to be more than friends
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 06:15 PM
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"girls" here I think refers to the contrast of women. Mature vs immature
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 09:44 AM
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Baking, reading, sports, drawing for example. But basically just something you (think you'd) enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 10:22 AM
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I believe what she's referring to is the "bad" choice feminist women seem to make in men besides their values (and/or more "good" men existing on the traditional side than the feminist one). Judging by your tone you are also one to talk about bitterness...
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 07:28 AM
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For me at least I need to be (physically) attracted. That's enough on the base level then the other factors are more important.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 08:36 AM
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Kinda hard to open up again once you've been badly burnt. Will take a lot of time and reassurence. You could also talk to him about how you feel and your uncertainty about his feelings (shouldn't make it feel like pressure though). If you can't sort things out you can consider breaking up, but it's definetly a long process after a bad breakup/relationship to open up again.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 07:12 AM
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Also to show my point (which you didn't ask for since your so open about being wrong) men know how they treat women and other guys men also know how guys act around women they are attracted to now the question is whether you know how men act better than men know how they act.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 11:04 PM
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Yes and you don't even consider the possibility of it being true since you already know it's not, so sharing your point is really just to inform other people that preferential treatment based on sex doesn't exists thank you for that really opened my eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 10:57 PM
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If you are a decently attractive female chances are they have. It might just be "normal" for you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 06:18 AM
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Does he try anything to get his libido up? Does he work out eat the right food enough exposure to sublight and sleep etc. Would he be willing to work on these things if they aren't great rn? Do you/he mind if you take care of your sex drive yourself at times? Does he ensure you you are attractive is he active during sex etc. if you feel unhappy you should communicate to him why and what he can do better (if it's realistic/within his power) If it's not something you (both of you or either one) ca…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 11:02 PM
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Maybe use your thought capacity to figure intuitive things out yourself will definitly help you in the future. You don't know to what extend women are capable to do so, and no you are not looking past your biological drive you are still very much bound by biology you can only partly surpress/overcome it (foe example you are still bound by what biology deems attractive and many other things to varying extend)
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:47 PM
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Are you dumb? You are an animal you have instincts one of the most basic instinct is to reproduce, you are attracted to people you want to reproduce with, aka women are attracted to men that have qualities that warrant the ability to be able to raise a child this has nothing to do with "wanting" a child it has to do with instincts aka biology you only have so much control over them women usually less than men.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:13 PM
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It's called biology good sir it's not something they are conscious of most of the time
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:07 PM
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Being under stress and sleeping bad will lower T levels so he should probably work on that
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 12:20 AM
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Could be evolutionary explained. The ones that didn't like girls sleeping around got to reproduce while the ones that didn't care got weeded out since their partner/partners reproduced with whomever
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:48 AM
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Did anything about you change/did you do anything that could impact his attraction to you?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 11:10 AM
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It's a response to females sexual strategy that's all there is too it
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:57 PM
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Being fat is an inconvenience to those around you and tax payers. It's a very irresponsible and selfish "choice" so I can't say I'm okay with people being fat but I can't change them therefore I have to accept it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 11:43 AM
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Men usually don't care for female friendship unless they have ulterior motives. Perhaps you should try to be/appear more attractive not sure if that's the kind of friendship you are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 04:10 PM
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How so?
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:17 AM
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Read the title again
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:55 PM
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No that's a statement not an argument... Saying marriage is a massive risk for men due to divorce cord and law bias is an argument
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 08:01 AM
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Oh welp forgot it's a save space where people don't have arguments for their opinion my bad.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 11:01 PM
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And that's a good thing. Till men have some security in marriage and society.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 10:26 AM
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are you lacking muscle mass or muscle control/efficiency?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:20 AM
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My respect for being decent enough not to ghost
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:44 PM
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Most men don't have it better also women in the west have it way way way better than the avarage western men, the problem and that's what upsets a lot of men is that feminism only looks one way and that very superficial critizizing inequality in outcome not considering the circumstances
/r/MGTOW19/01/20 05:11 PM
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Yes that's why you go and bitch about it in the west and make your bitching about women in the west while hailing islam
/r/MGTOW16/01/20 04:09 PM
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Oh I see that actually helps me thanks!
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:27 PM
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Well I do get that but I recently got the urge for actual emotional connection im not looking to just fuck around (in the literal sense) don't know if you can relate to that. I wouldn't say I'm easy manipulated just if I make a real emotional investment which I haven't done yet it would be nice to know that it is mutual and whether it can even be mutual or whether I just shouldn't do it at all because it can't be mutual
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:07 PM
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I didn't knew telling me how pathetic I apparently am is offering advice/providing anything useful to this conversation if you are referring to the other comments I like to engage in their arguments/showing them my point of view
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:55 AM
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Well yes but if I wanted to have an emotional connection I couldn't with the knowledge that it wouldn't be real (shes trying to manipulate me) that is my issue...
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:52 AM
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Very creative mature and witty what a 10/10 comeback how pathetic are you honestly? I've heard better insults in my elementary school
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:43 AM
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Idk if I can honestly because it seems so shallow and manipulative...
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:41 AM
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Big strong masculine man I see Or just a wanna be alpha who lacks intellect doesn't look good has no cunning is short and frustatrated that's why he needs to lash out to strangers on the internet cause he can't bare his petty existence?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:30 AM
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Hmm kinda I gues but how can I when I know/suspect it's fake it's kinda like learning snata isn't real but you pretend he is, also social media have me a very bad image of women the things they say and admit too when they are anonymous on the internet... How can I go back to a lie once I know the truth? I can't bend my mind like that... though I still hope for an exception I also don't want to use my knowledge to manipulate women as they often do with men I don't think you can build a healthy re…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:02 AM
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If im disposable and replaceable than how can I have an emotional connection? It will always scratch the back of my mind that she doesn't truly love me and as soon as I stop being of use I will be tossed away (this goes both ways ik) and I would not be okay with that I'd rather keep to myself than being "lied" to and replaced discarded when I'm not good enough/comfortable enough anymore when there are better (materialistic and physically) available options. The thing you describe couldn't fulfil…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:26 AM
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I don't think many men overcome their biological programming not even in the mgtow community, you most likely still are competing with other man /trying to be better than them, and you are trying to be somewhat attractive to women you still have a sex drive and longing for "love" but it's also male biology to stay away from women that we don't see fit to carry babies aka women only after money/women that sleep around. Also it wasn't an unusual thing for many men to get no women since women alway…
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 09:06 AM
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