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Inner Game cartrav/r/seduction13/12/21 12:24 AM
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are you on dating apps? That's a start.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:27 AM
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yeah Im honestly intrigued now.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:27 AM
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we'd have more to talk about if that were the case
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:14 AM
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that thought occured to me the longer ive been on reddit tonight
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:13 AM
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I'd say find a favorite bar or cafe that you like and are super comfortable at and invite dates there. know the menu, the vibe, the music, maybe get chummy with the bartender. make it your spot. this will ease your anxiety, and if the date is bad, at least you're at your favorite place.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:08 AM
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I admittedly shouldn’t have been so quick to say “goddamnit.” I’ve never thought about if I would date a virgin.
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:56 AM
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23 why lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:55 AM
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Apps. Sometimes parties or bars
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:49 AM
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Yeah I wanna see where it goes. I have a feeling he’s not really dating around and I’m going on dates, which is fine. Like he hasn’t made any conversation about what I’m looking for/what he’s looking for.
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:47 AM
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Like it’s all in the eyes, for me anyway. If I’m talking to a guy, sure we’re making eye contact, but if I’m INTO him, I’m looking at his lips too. This guy I’ve liked hooking up with.. we just kind of look at each other and it’s on. It’s subtle I guess. And body language is key. Leaning in, leaning towards one another
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:45 AM
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Oh interesting! I love flirting. And being touchy. Especially when I drink. In fact, I hate going out and NOT having someone to flirt with or touch. So yeah, I think the best advice is if a girl compliments you once, like says “I like your shirt” you could be like “thank you! No one ever says anything but I love hearing that” .. that’s not super direct I guess.. but I feel like it’s a start
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:42 AM
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well, i've been thinking about this. and yeah, i'd want someone to be direct with me and tell me what they like. but like let's say a guy I was seeing really liked words of affirmation and I gave him one or two compliments. I would then think he could say something like "hey, I really like when you compliment me." but with me and this guy, he hasn't really done something where I could be like "I really like when you do xyz, can you do it more." AGAIN, only two dates in y'all. so we might be digg…
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:30 AM
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well i intend on dating multiple people rn.. although its tiring. I think i wanna give him some more time
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:25 AM
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being pretty sexually assertive. I mean one of the two guys like we just have sex, nothing else. which isn't want I want, but at the same time it's pretty mindless and easy and fun
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:22 AM
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yeah, he kisses me but his timing is like off. and his "lean in" is even like rushed and a little odd. I wouldnt mind showing him the ropes. he's gonna be out of town for like two weeks now though.. so the momentum is gonna dwindle for sure. and i'll probs go on more dates
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:18 AM
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Its a fine line. I think if your "game" is to manipulate, than you're innit for your ego. and that's pretty easy to see right thru
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:17 AM
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lmao. I'm not one to be apprehensive around. I just dont think he gets the vibe.
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:16 AM
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yeah, id like to see what that's like, if he even gets drunk. I dont know if he gets super twisted ever
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:15 AM
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Not because of what you said for the record
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:51 AM
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End things?! Shit. I am literally constantly accused of not giving guys a long enough chance. I’m really annoyed now.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:51 AM
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Wait lol which part
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:50 AM
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I don’t think that’s the vibe quite yet..
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:44 AM
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Yeah you’re right. I should be more open
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:43 AM
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Yeah I’m trying to be patient and he’s opening up a little more each time. I just like someone who’s more assertive and knows what he’s doing. THAT is attractive to me.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:38 AM
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No no. I just went on two dates with this dude in the last five days. He hasn’t made a single advance. I have two dudes who I’ve fucked in the last like 3ish months. BOTH I shouldn’t tho. Its very transaction-y
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:36 AM
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I think I’ll just wait and see. I don’t just want him sexually. I need to get to know his personality more. I already have my strictly sex boys. Who also kind of suck.. but they’re good at sex.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:20 AM
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Really?! We’ve only just kissed. And it wasn’t even that great but there is potential. And like I love taking pics but I have to feel really sexually into someone to want to share them
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:11 AM
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Game is sooooo necessary in my book. Like I am so attracted to a guy when he knows how to seduce and play his cards right.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:09 AM
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Omg you think he’s a virgin?! Goddamnit 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:09 AM
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Okay nice
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:57 AM
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Yeah… this feels very pressuring to me. I mean yes, she could say no at any time, but you were really persistent. Especially with the dog stuff and then driving her towards your house without asking her first and waiting for her to say no. Not cool, bro. There is no need to have sex on the first date anyway. There are so many times women will give consent even when they don’t want to. I (f23) have and afterward, I feel like shit for having sex when I didn’t want to. So many of my friends have be…
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:12 AM
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As a woman I really respect this. I hate when guys can’t sense that I’m disinterested and then they start piling on the texts. It makes them 10x less attractive, and I was already on my way to being less attracted to you. You’re just digging your grave deeper. Less it more, and dating is truly a game. It’s not about being manipulative, it’s simply about being tactful to get what you want.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:18 AM
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you’re so right
/r/seduction27/10/20 04:47 AM
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I (21F) feel the same. I miss having a crush. Someone who, when they text me, I light up. When my mood goes from 0 to 100 in minutes. I haven’t had that in about 2 years. And when I thought I had it last, it was actually just anxiety because the crush wasn’t reciprocated. That’s what I want most: a crush and to have it be reciprocated.
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:51 PM
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would love for someone to post this but for how to know if a guys not that into you..
/r/seduction07/03/20 02:10 PM
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No prob! Good luck! And to get the ball rolling, just casually reply to one of her stories if she posts. Then she’ll likely casually reply back to one of your stories and then itll snowball into you two making plans ☺️
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:16 AM
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From a girls perspective, she likely followed you so that’d you’d follow her back and so then she’d feel like you have an interest in her thereby making it okay for her to have an interest in you. You following? That’s kind of what I’d do anyway. (Maybe it’s manipulative??)
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:02 AM
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Hi! I’m a girl and I would honestly love it if a guy made eye contact with me in a grocery store or coffee shop or anywhere really and actually initiated conversation after that initial glance. I think you can meet people anywhere, you just have to read the situation and go for it. Im kind of a romantic and just want to have a meet-cute in a book store or on the train or something...
/r/seduction10/11/19 02:42 PM
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These things have only just started this week tbh, They’re all very new so who knows where this is all going. I just don’t want it to be a waste of time with any 5 of the guys because I’m genuinely engaging and interested in all of them. As far as attracted to all of them, idk that’s another question. None of them are my ideal physical type which is unfortunate and makes me questions why I’m even doing this. But having a few going at the same time keeps me from putting all my eggs in one basket …
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:31 AM
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That’s really interesting! The one that texts all the time, we just sext all day long and talk about sex. The one I text sporadically I think is the cutest and sanest of them all but it’s too early to know for sure. But because I have about 5 boys that I’ve been texting all week and I don’t respond fast at all because there so many in rotation and it gives a great sense of control. And I don’t get as anxious anymore about people not responding to me right away because I’m sympathetic to it.
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:55 PM
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No! I disagree! I think continuous chatting is so fun and important for maintaining good rapport on and offline. I chat with my boys all day long and it's the best. And then we facetime too! Continuous texting is how you form relationships, platonic and otherwise.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:20 PM
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