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I moved. Left that town and went back to my hometown where my family and real friends were. My child was in college so could visit him when they were able.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 11:21 PM
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I wish there was a place where I could poster her pic and a pic of the cheating dude for everyone to see
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 12:55 AM
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Now pass a law that if divorce is caused because of adultery she gets nothing! I coulda used that
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 12:41 AM
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Dude I was 56 now 65. Its good
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 07:16 PM
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It takes time. I was up and mostly down for about 2 or 3 years. Now 10 years later I can look back and realize it was for the best. I’m actually doing better than ever. Retired and enjoying family, friends and life
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 03:19 AM
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I was 55. Been some the most prosperous years (10) of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/25 02:23 AM
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You got screwed. I would argue that you should get your moms lake house. You mom left it to both of you assuming you were staying together!
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 03:13 AM
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Meds.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 03:53 AM
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Yes but divorced at 55. If I was 40 I might rethink that
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 10:40 PM
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Had a friend do that with a russian girl. Same result. Yes you’re probably fucked
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 02:52 AM
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It does get better but it takes time. Its a scar that never goes away. Many of us have been where you are and come out better people. Ending your life is not the answer. Its the ultimate selfish evil act. Finding new things to do and people to do it with will go far. Go talk to a professional before you do something you and those who care about you will regret.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 01:41 AM
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You’re not starting over you’re moving forward. Take care of yourself. You’ll be better off eventually.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 10:53 PM
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Don’t do it bro. Most of us have been there. Get help. A good lawyer. Pick yourself up and move better. She sounds like a piece of crap. You deserve better
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/23 03:34 AM
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Nope
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 10:58 PM
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What is SA? I think I need some of that!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 12:13 AM
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Maybe you think you two will get back together. I was ok with mine because deep down I thought that. Until I found out later she had been seeing someone. Good luck. Not gonna be fun.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 12:08 AM
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Excessive drinking helps nothing. Its destructive. Take care of yourself so you can think and act logically. It’s hard at first. Sleepless nights. Weight loss. Can’t focus at work. Go talk to someone - a therapist. It takes time. I was able to take a job transfer and move outta town closer to family. I needed that support. You’re gonna win this, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 08:59 PM
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You get used to it. But even with them its never the same as when you were married and you spent holidays together as a family
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 08:39 PM
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Please don’t hurt yourself over a woman. Many have been in your shoes. You have to move forward and keep taking care of yourself. I couldn’t eat, sleep or focus. Took meds to help and some counseling. It takes time. Get into something else. You’ll meet other women.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 12:21 AM
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“Everything ends badly or it wouldn’t end”
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 05:56 PM
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I was in a toxic marriage. Wife was nice one day, cursing the next, threatening our son. Gave my son anxiety and panic issues. Probably need to get out now. Cut the ties.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 11:58 PM
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Marriage is great with the right person.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 06:51 PM
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Sorry to say she’s probably cheating on you. With no kids and no mortgage shouldn’t be hard on you financially. Starting over at 31 shouldn’t be too bad
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 02:29 AM
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I was married for 20 years. It wasn’t great but was always physical. She cheated. Divorced me 7 years ago. I’ve accepted it, moved on but I’m still not over it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 06:19 PM
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She probably met someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 09:53 PM
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Mine got the bigger half
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 02:53 AM
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I stayed in a dysfunctional marriage for 20 years so I could be with my son. We’re divorced now, he’s 24 living on his own and he and I are closer than he and his mother. I don’t regret staying
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/21 03:58 PM
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I remember lawyers would do uncontested for $500. I also know someone did his own. Of course had to pay to file papers Im sure
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:51 AM
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3
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 02:50 AM
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Everything is negotiable. But probably not
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/21 01:41 AM
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Its different for everyone. Ive seen people remarry after 6 months and stay together with no issues. But yea most people probably aren’t ready
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/20 06:31 PM
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Eggzakly
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/20 10:32 PM
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That diet helped me in the past too
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/20 10:28 AM
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Believe me, venting helps. Stay strong
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/20 11:57 AM
2

Sorry man. Divorce sucks when one wants it and the other doesn’t. Hang in there
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/20 03:39 AM
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Sounds familiar. You should be negotiating with her right now. Don’t let her get anything more than legally allowed
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/20 11:37 PM
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My ex was committing adultery and the guys ex knew but never told me anything. Look, I divorced and left town at 55 low on funds. Five years later Im much better off. You can do it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/20 01:47 PM
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Sell the house and move
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/20 11:37 PM
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Anger directed towards the right place or person is not all bad - Tony Soprano
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/20 10:41 PM
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In short - probably if you let a judge decide. But try to work these things out between yourselves
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/20 03:23 PM
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No longer hurting sad or sleepless anxiety. But the scar is still there and always will be I guess
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/20 05:16 PM
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Hang in there. It takes longer than a few months. All you can do is move forward in life. Mine was 20 years, one kid and I found out after we separated she was seeing someone. Chose him over me. 5 years later it still bothers me but the pain is finally gone.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/20 01:49 AM
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