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| 2 | CMV: Men don't protect women, they protect their honorI also don’t see how this getting any discussion with some of those warped statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 22 | Do poor men have an easier time with women?Absolutely not. Poverty greatly narrows the prospects for men. While some poor men may do well, I assure you a great number of them are suffering greatly in this area. Deeper down you go the worse it gets. Take this from George Orwell's time in Paris: Tramps are cut off from women, in the first place, because there are very few women at their level of society. One might imagine that among destitute people the sexes would be as equally balanced as elsewhere. But it is not so; in fact, one can alm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 14 | What leads to greater inflate or unrealistic expectations: porn and sexual imagery in the media (for men) OR zocial media, online dating, and "access to Chad" (for women)?Total layman's opinion: Social media is just not good for people in general, that's always been my assessment. It's a 24/7 comparison with people who will have better lives than you. When people dangle superiority over us in person, we often take it as a sleight. When we compare ourselves to others, we often focus on what we lack instead of what we have. Social media zeroes in on both and then ramps it to 11. Not many are wired to compile such information in a healthy manner. Pornography seems m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Is the War Bride Effect Real? I.e. women are programmed to adapt for their conquerors?Humans adapt to survive regardless of their sex. The destruction of your tribe leads to a new dangerous reality which would require sacrifices to continue to live. A cursory glance at the hell of prison would show that men, also, will go to great lengths just to ensure survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 19 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?As far as online dating goes, which is basically just pictures, I have a belief that many women are married to men they would not have swiped right on, yes. This speaks more to the essence of real attraction and a flaw with online dating IMO, but it is one of the stranger things to realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that in r/deadbedrooms its mostly women complaining they dont get enough sex?I think it’s just an internet thing. I actually remember a time when that sub was seemingly all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | If traditional gender roles were so good for women, how come it is almost exclusively women who want to abandon them in favor of equality, while it is mainly men who support them?Male gender roles keep the lights on. People are SO blind to how the human male body is fed into labor to keep civilization going forward. Labor and draft riots are battles against those gender roles. You’ll never see a full fledged war on male gender roles. The sacrifice is completely necessary and we all know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 05:25 PM |
| 6 | "Lack of economically attractive men to blame for decline in marriage rates, study suggests." Is the hype overblown?The majority were drafted. However, most of the 'combat' units were volunteers - usually a man who wants to be there is considerably more combat effective than some guy who was yanked out of going to, you know, live his life the way he wanted. A lot of people volunteered to land higher paying roles, at least that's something I recall from a few books. Basically a "I'm probably gonna get drafted, might as well make it worth my while." Drafted men usually worked logistics or were even rotated thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.I imagine most people with legit piles of money and social status are not on wonky phone apps to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 11:04 PM |
| 2 | If women only cared about money, why are more wives out-earning their husbands?Women are out earning men early in life and have been for awhile now. There’s really no choice in the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 01:47 PM |
| 7 | The Promiscuity of Modern Women is OverstatedPeople focus on the extremes of the spectrum. I also do not think the average person is particularly promiscuous, but if the “average person” to you is Instagram models and Tinder users your perspective is gonna get warped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 12:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.This is actually what I thought people meant by 'the wall', that there was an impending loss reproductive viability combined with a loss of attraction compared to the horde of growing people coming to replace us all. Just reading this thread it seems like there really isn't even a consistent definition of the 'wall'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Did porn raise men's standards?concentration on pornography in literature come again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 02:27 AM |
| 12 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"Slightly adjacent to the topic, but I feel like the word "entitled" itself is way overused and mostly used to belittle or devalue someone's complaints. I very rarely come across anyone who genuinely feels entitled to anything, much less sex or relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 12:30 PM |
| 13 | Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple?Never seen it work. I think both partners need to have headed into the relationship with the "poly" stuff already on the table. It seems very improbable that both partners want an open relationship and just didn't tell the other until after monogamy was already established. Much more likely to have one partner want it and the other acquiesce in hopes of salvaging the relationship. It's poison to the foundations upon which the relationship was first built. Thus, the relationship inevitably dies. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men are more likely to help you or hurt you?Violent crimes are almost exclusively committed by a small group of men who then go on to repeat said crimes until caught and punished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Has dating in the past 10 years become easier, or more difficult? Why for either case?I see a lot of studies here that basically state what many people intuit on their own: average women are having their egos inflated and attentions divided; in a "world of equality", men are having their confidence damaged by the disappointing fact that they are still largely measured by what you do moreso than who you are. The collisions of these worlds makes for a lot of unhappy individuals. You can also see this in women pricing themselves out of the dating market. As they reach higher social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What does it really mean when some very good-looking women claim “men never approach me”?I very rarely see anyone approaching anybody in public. I'm talking like I can count the instances on one hand. People in general are not really interacting in any sense, not just when it comes to seeking relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/19 07:50 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most women severely underestimate the work men do in the gym and overestimate the gains.Yes. My cousin played college football with players who went to the NFL. He said that at a certain level everyone is on something. In the NFL it's basically looked past so long as you don't go all in like David Boston on the horse meat. And yes this is pretty true of any sport, especially where the elite level brings with it the potential for great monetary gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 03:56 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Most women severely underestimate the work men do in the gym and overestimate the gains.No like I mean everyone in general, including people who exercise. Having large mass with low body fat takes very serious dedication that most people really do not grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 03:23 AM |
| 32 | CMV: Most women severely underestimate the work men do in the gym and overestimate the gains.I agree in part. I think most people in general don't understand how much effort it takes to get ripped - that is, lots of muscles with low body fat. Like the guy from Tarzan, he said he ate chicken and broccoli for like six months straight and little else. Many people also severely underestimate how many such bodies are fueled by steroids or PEDs of some sort - I'd wager the majority of men in "300" were on some sort of enhancer. But I disagree that it's even a huge issue. I really don't think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 12:14 AM |
| 2 | The Gender-Bending of Male Storieslaughed at this pretty hard and I'm afraid to click the "continue this thread" button | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 5 | The new gender gap: 28% of men have not had sex in the past year while only 18% of women haven'tI used to work remotely in popular coffee shops for about three years. In that time I saw a whopping two times men hit on women. Other than that it's like the sexes just weren't interacting at all. Totally anecdotal but to me it was always a bit strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Are guys really afraid of being accused of harassment, or is it an excuse due to fear of being rejected?Dude, kids can get totally screwed up over things far, far more innocuous than this. You're being callous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Are guys really afraid of being accused of harassment, or is it an excuse due to fear of being rejected?You're on a forum that discusses a lot mental issues and interpretations, and you can't rub two brain cells together to see how blasting a child's life into the public sphere over an innocuous act is very likely to completely damage him? What the fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Are guys really afraid of being accused of harassment, or is it an excuse due to fear of being rejected?Not for those involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: If men believe that women's movements are effective, why don't men have men's movements?Men do, they're called labor movements. If things are particularly bad, they're called revolutionary ones. Social movements are usually the domain of the people who have free time to fret over such things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 03:16 PM |
| 11 | Why is being taken care of and provided for not seen as a privilege?But housewives often control family planning and finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How valuable do you think Tinder/Hinge/Bumble's internal data is?This was my thinking as well, and from a business perspective I'm still shocked that OKCupid ever released data that was outright damaging to bringing people to using their product. It's also why we'll likely never see any remotely honest data like that again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | "6 figures" and no gut isn't really all that high value or impressiveWell this was as thorough as it gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever noticed that there's few "how to get laid" articles outside the PUA/manosphere community?I think it's a tautology - any such article would be condemned as part of the manosphere lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do people online flex like they’d immediately dump/next someone for even the smallest transgression, when we know most people aren’t like that irl?People say things they don't actually mean all the time. Bring in a stranger's story and the listener's own projections and that probably ramps up even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 11:51 PM |
| 7 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?Men often complain about women being too subtle, but ironically men have an enormous amount of non-verbal communications between each other that I don't think very many women even realize is happening. It's kinda hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 06:12 AM |
| 11 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.Sex is a non-factor. Anybody can learn it. Anybody can also not learn it. Having sex in and of itself is not learning it. You can have awesome sex with someone who was a virgin just a month ago compared to horrible sex with someone who sleeps around like crazy. People in general usually want someone with not many partners in their past. Once you start churning through people you almost always grow cynical or 'bored' or whatever else. There's a reason relationships that start with inexperienced p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 10:56 PM |
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