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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Strip club	Fundamentals	cashincheeeqs	/r/seduction	14/12/24 10:09 AM

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3	My relationships do not last longer than 3 months. This guy knows his stuff. Exactly right. Something I’d like to add though is the game doesn’t stop even if she likes you for who you are. Women want to ride that emotional roller coaster until death.	/r/seduction	13/11/25 03:00 AM
3	How often do you guys get approached by women Congrats my friend. You should feel lucky. I get the same stares and sometimes they’ll come and start conversation. It’s been maybe 8 months since I’ve had a girl ask for my number though.	/r/seduction	10/11/25 02:13 AM
4	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? Ever seen someone say some cheesy ass lines that would never work for you? And you’re sitting there confused. “How tf did that work??” Yeah, this is why. It’s not about the words, it never was. How do people have sex without speaking the same language? How did they have sex when there wasn’t any language? It’s about the exchange of energy. Always has been. You can make women go crazy. That’s why I stopped. It’s too much power and not everyone deserves it. Most people would wield it like tyrant k…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 10:44 PM
1	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? Correct. However the prerequisite for that is living a life of purpose. Not idolatry of women.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 10:32 PM
3	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? “Yeah OP just keep trying man! I don’t know what you’re doing, it’s clearly not working, and you’re clearly not happy with it, but KEEP doing it! Yeah!! Hell yeah!” You’re correct. Trying to get women DOES work. If you don’t idolize them and remain true to yourself. This is where the traits that women find attractive in the first place come from. Women are not as visual as we are, they are mostly attracted to your mind/behavior. This is what I’ve been establishing. It starts with your mindset. O…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 10:32 AM
28	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? No. I’m not telling him to not care about women. What I’m telling him is to change his mindset towards women. This part is for OP I get it. Getting rejected sucks, nobody likes it. It feels like YOU yourself have been attacked. When you idolize women, their opinion starts to become overly important. I’m not surprised it was after a break up. Youre trying to “make up” for your ex, or replace her no? You base your own value on how successful you are with women. After enough rejections or lack of r…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 10:05 AM
82	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? “For context: I go out to the bars/clubs nearly every weekend just to pickup girls ~(but also try and have a good time with my lads)~ “ Stop lying to yourself with the parentheses. That is cope. You already said it. You are going out specifically to try and get women. That’s the exact reason you’re not attracting them. They can feel that kind of energy and it turns them off instantly. Your goal should just be having fun. Enjoying the moment. Sex is something that happens, and is another part of …	/r/seduction	09/11/25 06:53 AM
1	I’m a loser in high school and no girls like me Well it’s not your looks I can tell you that for a fact. You’re a good looking kid, your mind is just messed up right now. That’s about the BEST NEWS you could get man! That means you can CHANGE and get the results you want! BAD NEWS: You absolutely cannot think about women right now. You are not ready. You need to get your mental health in order first. Unfortunately you are not attractive or rich enough to have a “shit” personality be ignored. Not being rude, that’s just the truth. Only the Jus…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 03:46 AM
3	how do I have a one night stand with a cougar 19 male Couldn’t tell you. I’ve never seduced one they always end up seducing me..	/r/seduction	01/11/25 03:32 AM
21	How to pick up girls at a bar? Absolutely do not ask for sex right away 😂 at least not with your words, do it with your body language. You’ve got a great foundation, you’ve clearly got balls, and you have conversations easy. Start implementing touch into your approach and conversation. Instead of interrogating her, ask her to dance. If you notice she likes the song “Do you like this song?” “Sweet let’s go dance then” Or if she says no “Let’s go get a drink until they play something we can dance to” When you start heading towa…	/r/seduction	13/02/25 03:27 AM
1	Confidence is higher but still rejection is high You’re on the right path man. Do not ever go back. I would suggest watching Psychacks on YouTube about female psychology. Watch one or two that you think will help. And then go practice. You need to discipline yourself on the videos tho. You don’t want to cram your brain with so much information that you’re just analyzing the interaction, rather than actually interacting. It’s just like learning anything, you can’t jump in on expert mode and expect to have success. Learn how they think first, th…	/r/seduction	08/02/25 11:05 PM
2	Confidence is higher but still rejection is high Also. I would forget about “getting numbers” in the club. That’s like the very last option in the club. The women don’t want to waste their time with that shit! They’re trying to fuck!! Ask her back to your place, or a friends, literally anywhere that’s inside. Let’s say you get her number? You text her the next day. She wakes up regretting her night. Automatically, you get grouped in to that regret, even if you didn’t anything. No reply. Time wasted.	/r/seduction	08/02/25 10:23 PM
1	Confidence is higher but still rejection is high I’m glad you said that because I was also going to mention this. I’ll reiterate. Confidence is just a piece of the puzzle. Granted, it is probably the biggest piece. But it is just one piece out of a 100 piece set. Yes it’s going to make a big difference, and you’re going to see change. But there are still other pieces that need to be laid out in order to get the full picture.	/r/seduction	08/02/25 10:11 PM
4	Confidence is higher but still rejection is high Only thing I could guess is that you’re making it too obvious that you want to smash. That’s why she asked if you were an ally. The saying usually goes “Friend or foe? State your business” Try doing a soft rejection before asking for the number. Find a girl, dance with her for a few songs and then walk away. Say “thank you for the dance, I had a great time. Hopefully I see you again.” Walk away. Go find another woman. She’s either going to exchange contact info right then and there, or your chan…	/r/seduction	08/02/25 10:07 PM
0	Girl is neutral towards me– How do I make her want me/escalate with her without trying too hard? Everybody wants to be desired. Let her know that you find it incredibly easy to look at her, and that you’d like to spend more time with her. She’s either going to be for it or against it. Just be yourself man, it’s clearly working. Now something to keep you grounded. When you find yourself getting nervous, plant your feet firm in the ground, take 2 quick inhales, and a long exhale. See how that works	/r/seduction	06/02/25 09:59 PM
10	Is this a good idea for how to respond to rejection? Delete this post. This is incredibly stupid. A woman can reject you. That is the risk you understand you’re taking by approaching. That does not mean you get to make her feel like shit for not wanting to sleep with you.	/r/seduction	06/02/25 06:39 PM
3	How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place? You know brother I wish I could remember but I don’t. This was at least 3-4 years ago. It could’ve been a number of things, but we’ll never know because she’s married and I’m not a homewrecker. I just try shit and if it works it works, if it doesn’t then I try something new. Some like it rough, some gentle, some fast, some slow. MOST women like a combo of ALL. And what they like changes all the time with their mood. So that’s why there is not a single answer to your question. You as a person, ha…	/r/seduction	05/02/25 08:07 PM
11	How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy? You’ve already lost. Eghhhhhh‼️ Respawn and go again. Youre getting diminishing returns on your xp right now. You were getting 100xp/ sec by talking to a receptive girl and flirting with her. You were stacking wins here and there, learning. But now you’re getting 1xp/sec because you’re wasting your time on a girl that doesn’t want you. She’s going to make it impossible. You can say the most magical shit and it won’t matter. You’re not going to learn anything. The only thing you an do is use your…	/r/seduction	05/02/25 05:12 AM
22	How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place? Does she let you grab her inner thigh? Then she’s probably ready, or she’s close, so close to the point where you asking her back isn’t going to affect anything. At least that’s always been my indicator. And so what if she says no? She’s just going to say no. And you guys are going to continue having a good time. Unless she’s weird and gets offended, then that’s on her not you. Back off from touching her until you start making her laugh again and then you can start touching her again. Get her ar…	/r/seduction	05/02/25 02:59 AM
21	Why just why are we so scared? Fear and doubt my friend. Fear of failure. Doubt of success. You can’t win anything in life with those two mindsets. You’re on the right track, fear and doubt are Satans weapons.	/r/seduction	04/02/25 09:02 PM
7	How long were you able to keep a FWB? Forever. I have her soul	/r/seduction	03/02/25 04:03 AM
13	What are your go to pick lines for approaching women irl or in dating apps “You look just like my last girlfriend! because I would never want another.” Now this next one is a bit more advanced, so I don’t expect you to be able to just go out there and do it. pulls out forklift cert card “That there says that I’m a professional at moving loads” She ate that one up, to be fair though, she went to trade school 😂 But let’s be real. Pick-up lines are not magic. They’re literally a joke bro, that’s it. They “work” because women like to have fun, and pick-up lines make them l…	/r/seduction	01/02/25 08:24 AM
2	How to attract beautiful girls as a short guy? This is a very broad question to a very complex answer. I wish I had the time and energy to write the book necessary to give you my full breakdown, but I don’t. So I’ll say this. It is never you “doing anything” as in, it’s not you making the decision to have sex. It is always, or at least I hope it is always, the woman’s decision to have sex. Attraction is subjective. There is basic human instinctual attraction, physical attraction, like a healthy body, status, and resources. And then there is …	/r/seduction	27/01/25 05:50 PM
2	How to attract beautiful girls as a short guy? Same as any other height guy. I’m 5’6”, never had an issue attracting 8-9’s	/r/seduction	27/01/25 03:29 PM
5	Met a customer from work on dating apps, not sure how to proceed. Bro she doesn’t want to hold your hand, she’s giving you so many chances, and you’re about to blow them. Do some damn research, find a spot YOU like, have a time and place ready, and set that shit up bro. Tell her that YOU found a place that YOU would like to go to, and you want her to come at “this” time. how many dating sites does she need to match you on before you believe she’s interested? 😂 Also, completely forget the dating sites, don’t bring them up in conversation. Just shooting yourself…	/r/seduction	29/12/24 09:22 AM
0	Makeup equivalent for men I’m not gonna tell you how to contour your face, bro. Now be careful, because you’re wandering dangerously close to what could be called “The Land of No Return” In other words, this is an incredibly gay post	/r/seduction	26/12/24 06:36 PM
1	I (27m) don’t have an Instagram account. Thoughts? Understandable, it can be used as a powerful tool to sleep with women though. If you have a huge following on social media that’s almost instant social proof for them and will bypass a lot of their shit tests. I just find the social media mindset/lifestyle to be highly unappealing and causes more division in society due to hyper individualism. Which is incentivized by the lottery of viral fame.	/r/seduction	14/12/24 12:24 AM
3	I (27m) don’t have an Instagram account. Thoughts? Good. Consider yourself lucky. Social media is a plague on the mind and therefore society. I find that women like it when you don’t have social media or are inactive, anyway	/r/seduction	13/12/24 10:25 PM
1	24M I Feel Like I Should Be Doing Better With Women Than I Am - What's the Verdict? So it’s not a hack then	/r/seduction	13/12/24 12:56 PM
3	How to get out of the friendzone? Something that you need to understand very early on is that women talk. Anything that you do or say isn’t just for her to see. Her friends are going to hear about it, their friends are going to hear about it, etc.. Right now you’re being talked about in her group chat and how she has rejected you multiple times but yet still, here you are. Now is your reputation, and ultimately, your chances of romantic relations with other women worth this ONE girl? Then sure, go for it, spend your life chasing…	/r/seduction	11/12/24 10:55 PM
1	Women using seduction tactics on you. What other reasons do you neg	/r/seduction	11/12/24 01:43 AM
2	Seduction through Exercise You should take a step back from the relationship until you can handle being just friends. What you’re doing is the beginnings of predatory behavior and will only set you up for failure. “If I do this + this, THEN she’ll have NO CHOICE but to love me!” And then when it doesn’t happen, you get pissed off. She has made it clear she wants a platonic relationship. You have given the illusion that you’re okay with just having that as well, but in the shadows you’re scheming on how to “win” her over. …	/r/seduction	10/12/24 08:48 PM
1	Women using seduction tactics on you. Nah. Negging is used to deflate one’s ego. Women shit test just for the fun of it. (Not really, obviously to test confidence) they just wanna know “is fire still hot?”	/r/seduction	10/12/24 02:53 PM
4	Women using seduction tactics on you. Seduction is using the rules of the game to your advantage. Eg; most women are attracted to status. So I will take her to a nice restaurant where they know me by name, to show my status. Manipulation is creating a false reality/illusion in the hopes of gaining something. Eg; I will lie and tell the beautiful girl at the bar that the owners at the nice restaurant know me by name, and we can go there after our night of fucking.	/r/seduction	10/12/24 02:50 PM
1	Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive? I don’t know if I’d say it’s seductive. Us men are just horny bastards, and if a woman is being straight forward, clear and concise… we’re thinking “HELL YEAH!… wait this is too good to be true, right?” Not “oh my god she’s so attractive and seductive”	/r/seduction	15/06/23 12:20 AM
1	Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth." Definitely don’t talk to her about it lol. It’s something little and not harmful, if you talk to her about it you’re gonna make yourself look like a soft little boy. Unless you’re fine having that image of course, then by all means, ask her what she meant by it.😂 probably just means you’re still young and say some stupid shit sometimes, it’s all good we’ve all been at this phase, there’s a difference between actually being funny and just being laughed at	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:16 PM
6	Things were going great, then she withdrew. What do I do next. Didn’t care to read it. Let her withdraw. Always just let them withdraw. Why stress when can happy?	/r/seduction	29/09/22 12:51 AM
2	Do women like a myseterious guy? Yes but most guys don’t know how to do it. It doesn’t mean be overly quiet and don’t engage in conversation. It means that they don’t know your whole story, don’t know your opinions on every topic, and basically they just don’t know for sure if you even like them! Mysterious means they’re always guessing either what’s on your mind or what your next move is, they’re nervous, but in a good way. The points above make them nervous. Women are mostly emotional, they want a rollercoaster. Sometimes sur…	/r/seduction	14/09/22 06:03 PM
1	Any recommended books to destroy neediness? To add onto this, a lot of people think that books are going to magically fix them. Thats not how it works. Unfortunately, you have to go out and put in the work. Put the books down and just live life the way you want to man, it’s really that simple. Not always easy, but it’s always simple! Good luck dude! :) 👍🏼	/r/seduction	12/09/22 09:45 PM
2	Any recommended books to destroy neediness? You don’t need books, you need to set some goal and ACCOMPLISH them, fill your life with goals and aspirations, big stuff as well as little stuff. Start working out for starts and you’ll gain a little confidence boost right there. After that keep yourself busy with some sort of purpose and you’ll develop that confidence and ultimately instead of depending on your partner for your happiness and sense of security, you’ll have your LIFE to provide that for you instead.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 09:35 PM