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cashmere338/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:12 AM
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DISCUSSIONcashmere338/r/RedPillWives01/11/24 07:40 AM
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Thankyou for your offer. This is really kind of you. I feel sick and tired of bringing up this issue again n again. I feel, he doesn't give a damn about it anymore. He is repeating it again n again. U are right, I am from a conservative family and they will ask me to let go since there is no cheating involved. It was just a causal meetup. So, the only option I have is to detach myself, be numb and live a loveless miserable life withdrawing from him altogether. Also, focusing on my goals as I am …
/r/RedPillWives02/11/24 08:43 AM
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Yes I am Muslim. So, I should involve family? I have always kept things private between us.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/24 02:18 PM
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You are right. I know its not physical cheating. But ofcourse she is important, that's why my husband met her and that too on a bis station. She also came there to see him, so obviously he is important for her too. I know my husband is physically attractive. He is a 9 and that girl is also pretty. She is also 9. So it's impossible for one to not be attracted emotionally. I am unable to understanf why would he meet her? Why call her there? What might he have said to her.
/r/RedPillWives01/11/24 12:54 PM
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By ridiculous u mean I am wrong?
/r/RedPillWives01/11/24 08:05 AM
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I mean i was kicked out fr being inactive.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 11:00 PM
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I feel im too controlling aswell.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/21 09:52 PM
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I want to be less vocal about my insecurities and handle my aggression in an elegant way.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/21 09:46 PM
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Hi. What happened to the discord server?
/r/RedPillWives18/06/21 11:45 PM
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I am glad to inform everyone and you it was tough bringing him to a point where he could understand things. But after alot of mess and dirty fights its better now. He is listening and understanding. He agreed to minimise his talking to friends of opp gender and I am doing the same too. I cant deny the fact the analogies i read here and the advices people gave me on how to call him out helped me in argumentation logically. It has been a recurrent issue and i hope it wont be anymore. Hey, do u mea…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 10:38 PM
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Ummmm thanks that was nice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 01:33 AM
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Plus thanks to u and all who actually give some argument one can use.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 01:31 AM
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Thankyou so much. No I never did anything like that at all
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 01:30 AM
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no i dont intend on breaking up or divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 01:23 AM
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How do I make him understand he is wrong when he cant fight his narcissistic behaviour? I dont know if he was taught this his whole life. I feel so helpless at the moment. I wish I was someone who was not really bothered by these things. Damn its hurting me so much and yet he says he cant do anything about it. He cant even answer to most of my questions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 12:19 PM
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Thankyou so much.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 12:13 PM
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I understand how bad jelousy and controlling behaviour can be in a relationship. I changed myself some time ago and I complied with his need to make friends, his excuse being utterly baseless. I asked him we need help and he thinks its a shame at this stage because we havent even moved in yet and we need HELP. I think its better if we get some right now. But I dont know I married this man I spent five years dating with just to see him act as god of this world of mine. I cant even negotiate? My t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 12:12 PM
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No we havent. We will move in together in october or september hopefully. Right now we only meet occassionaly in our drawing room and go out once in a while. Because we both are studying yet.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 03:31 AM
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I never knew this thing is diagnosable, thankyou so much it really has made me understand his behaviour. I brought this up to him and I am waiting for him to read the article and improve his behaviour in our relationship. Thankyou again.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 03:27 AM
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Thankyou so much first of all for a thorough response. I never want to break my marriage ofcourse. I hate this advice given by people over here too. I mean I already know things are bad and I want to fix thats why I am here otherwise I would be filing divorce right. Secondly I understand you were just generally telling me how things go with male and female friendships. But in our culture this is not even possible because my contact with this guy is only via texting or calls on whatsapp. We discu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 03:11 AM
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But i like ur idea of having quality time without any friends of me or him. This might help us though.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:16 PM
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We are not living together yet though. We havent moved in together.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:12 PM
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I agree 100% I see a point here i can use. What about his college friend that he would even meet at 9pm outside hostels in the ground just to talk about something i just remembered this now. When i said how its not the right time he said its totally normal because there were other people too. But hey i know its not the best choice either. What if u had done this? Then he usually shuts me up by saying she has a boyfriend. I dont need to worry. But what about the jelousy i feel? I read here under …
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:05 PM
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First of all thankyou so much for showing empathy. I really needed that. I talked with my research teacher today who listened me properly and told me how this is a male dominated society i am living in and if i keep on fighting for my rights i wont get any instead i will just break my marriage. Also that i need to wait sometimes and see how things go and maybe have a conversation when he is in good mood. He also told me to do as he says and mold myself the way he wants only then i can be happy. …
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 06:58 PM
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I m unable to look at his face even because of the resentment i am feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 06:42 PM
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Yes you might call it that but to be honest I want to be okay with him making friends from opp gender but then that should be allowed for me too. If its wromg for me it should be wrong for him too. He thinks i m competing with him but this is just me asking for fair standards and acceptance from him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 06:19 PM
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Oh yess. Back then when i was someone who would not let him make opposite gender friends I was his worst enemy who would not let him socialize and fucked up his social life. I cant tell you what i went through during that time when everyone i told about his new venture of making female friends they all warned me of something fishy might happen. Literally everyone from repill too validated me. He then bashed me for the bashing he got here. He was not ready to remove that girl M from his instagram…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 06:14 PM
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Ofcourse i get it the double standards are because hey im a saint and i can have platonic friendships with women and the guy u are talking to is a devil and u are not safe with anyone at all. Cant i decide that? I am mature enough to know who is what. But i dont know how to communicate. How to make him understand. Last time i know how hard it was to cut his frnd off who he was talking to behind my back and told me only after one whole month when their frndshio started fading off. I think he thin…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:39 PM
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Obviously he was bored of me thats why he wanted to make friends right? To have a part of his life to himself where i was not involved. Now for my assurity he wants me to join his discord and game group to see for myself what its like but i know i will feel jelous and angry
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:32 PM
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Vibed meant 'good non flirtatious platonic to the topic chat.' He offered me to see his phone after he checked my whole chat thread. No msg was deleted and he didnt object anything but didnt like it either. I understand he is possessive but all im trying to say is it really hurts me too when he talks to other girls specially this one girl from bis college who is not even his classfellow. Well that is a physical friendship right? Since they see each other in campus and call and talk too. How shou…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:30 PM
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I know. Calling him out worsens things. I cant control anger and these double standards just are a breaking point for me. I dont understand if he claims he loves me then why would he not treat me as an individual person. I have no right to any opinion in his view.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:24 PM
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I know but its like he cares but he doesnt wanna give up what he is doing so he avoids such discussions no matter how much his silence fucks me up..
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:21 PM
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Nooo. When i say he is not hitting on me i know he is not. Because i know when a boy does that like there was this other guy from the same exam who knew alot so i wanted to get some help for next time n that guy was really weird even after i told him im married he still kept saying things like we shud hv met earlier. I blocked him then and there. Physicality is not even a factor here. Since i never plan to go out with this guy. Thats my boundary. Its just we have same career path so it might hel…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:16 PM
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Listen to me. I dont know what do u understand by vibing. To me it meant we were on same page regarding oyr study technique and preperation level. He didnt make me feel awkward by being extra nice. No he never flirted with me at all. Whats hypocritical is he chooses for me while i cant even have a say in his life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:03 PM
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There are group chats and personal chats aswell. i dont know how often that happens since i refused to see his phone despite him offering. Because last time I did that I was a wreck because I know its only gonna hurt me because he wont admit how unnecessary his friendships are and how he shouldnt get involved to the level he did in past. So i dont see a point in seeing his phone when i cant judge and make changes. He also followed one of the girl on instagram. She is pretty though.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:00 PM
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