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But if they were men, and a subset of men acted like them, they would be not seen in a good light among men. If a man drank out of the toilet and ate off the floor, he too would not be seen in good light. Why is it then that my puppy is allowed to do these behaviors and still be cute? If anyone is bitter or angry at a puppy for puppy behavior, they're wasting their time, no matter how well-behaved they were told the puppy was. If you have broken the illusion already, you need to break the anger.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:07 PM
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I'm well versed in diet and lifting You can be well versed in TRP and everything else but it doesn't mean shit until you actually do it. Nobody goes around saying "I have the potential to make millions on the stock market." Either they are making millions on the stock market, or they're not.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:59 PM
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Probably the easiest situation to convey is the beginnings of the surveillance state, e.g. the unveiling of PRISM by Snowden. The interesting part isn't so much the implications of such a widespread program, but rather the players in the whole mess of things. Involved are a number of governments of countries (even those which transcend Five Eyes), a ton of commercial partners which own the telecommunications and technology industries right now. How many hands did this information go through befo…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 08:20 PM
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As with anything, it's likely to be a play into the divide and conquer technique. It's like politics: the small people get distracted by the "key issues" and argue amongst themselves. Meanwhile, the big boys make huge decisions that nobody really talks about. For example, a deadlocked congress plays right into the belief that the government is unable to operate smoothly and nobody can take advantage of the system. Plays right into the feeling of powerlessness (and lack of understanding of the sy…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:49 PM
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Right, but TRP is full of people who will, at most, end up a nice shade of purple. Creating a 5 billion dollar company takes someone who is as red as red can be. The hilarious thing is that the board members for CNN and other major corporations are probably "redpill" to the bone. Yet, they don't need to 1) talk about it or 2) watch fucking youtube videos or 3) post on a forum. They have money, they know how to powertalk, and they control power with ease. Just like the anchor, they're disgusted b…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:12 PM
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I swear there's just too much that doesn't add up about it for me to just start laughing this off as some guy being a fake. It would appear this is the desired reaction the video wants from you, and I don't trust what I see on TV at face value. I read through your post. Good discussion. Kind of. I'm not trying to attack you here, because your post was valuable for me to see some possible behind-the-scene mechanics here at play. Especially your tone. You clearly showing some anger towards the anc…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:20 PM
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It's not complaining. It's bragplaining.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:31 PM
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Just because something had a positive outcome doesn't mean it was applied in an effective way. You can go double your money in vegas by betting it all on black. If it works, it doesn't mean you had a good strategy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:36 AM
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You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize? [Takes a bite of steak] Ignorance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:53 PM
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No. You have made yourself a mentally strong person. Those things merely helped.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 11:58 PM
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Military guy here. I think it's no different than any other environment really, except everyone is a bit more type A. And I do think there's a huge difference between "type A" and alpha. It actually gets really weird sometimes. You might have a higher ranking guy (like a platoon sergeant) completely chewing on a squad leader (sergeant or SSG), and that sergeant will basically bend over and take it (beta as fuck). But he'll turn right out and dish it back out on the squad in a definite alpha mann…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:17 AM
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And if he doesn't, $400k in the bank. dat SGLI doe
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:02 AM
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Military guy here. Last minute before-deployment proposals are far too common. And surprise surprise, she always cheats before he gets back home. It rarely works out anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:20 PM
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I think it's an intuitive thing rather than a straight quantitative evaluation which you're seemingly asking for. It's one thing for good eating / exercise to fall off the priority list for a short while if things are hectic. It's another thing to have 3 chins and the bitch is still stuffing her face with donuts on her lunch break after she's eaten her main meal. Source: woman I saw at work yesterday who is getting married in the next few months
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 05:07 PM
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The difference is accountability. "I have a clinical illness" leads to people using it as an excuse for their state of being, mostly because it's uncontrollable. Someone who is really fat might actually have a harder time losing weight, but if they feed their hamster the idea that they can't change it due to genetic makeup, they won't try as hard. Which leads to a vicious cycle of "it doesn't matter what I eat, I'll still gain weight." You see where that's going. Same works for crazy. "Sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:13 AM
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If somebody acts crazy as a default state, it's more than safe to assume that there is an underlying psychpathological disorder. If someone weighs 300+ pounds, is it safe to assume there's a hormone imbalance dictating their dieting patterns instead of culture/personality?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:58 PM
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This happened with airborne school, but not with the first iteration. Which is where the problem hits us. The prototype women group are the ones who can bust their ass and get max scores in PT, even beating men in pure numbers (e.g. they can do 100+ push ups in 2 minutes...). The groups that follow with the "you go grrrrl" mentality can't compete on a physical level and get hurt. When your statistics start sliding to where an insane amount of women are failing the school, higher HQ sees it as di…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:50 AM
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I wonder if she would still be better off having all her engineering training PLUS the combat training the other have. This is actually a good question, but realistically it doesn't make sense. Special Forces guys are the do-it-all guys you're imagining. Hell, the SF medics are trained similar to physician assistants and sometimes they can get pulled into hospitals to learn surgical techniques so they can do them in the fucking field. The engineers assigned to the teams are not only combat engin…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:46 AM
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The only true way to improve yourself is to accept yourself for who you really are. Otherwise you're not improving the real you.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:18 AM
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Any business structure needs a large amount of clueless and incompetent workers to do the menial tasks. Yes, this also includes a zone of less-intelligent doctors and less-intelligent lawyers, as well as people that are incapable of manipulating and navigating the system.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 08:39 PM
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What you've done is bitched about having the take a leadership role and expected that the other group members do it themselves. And you gave up your power by trying to be democratic, but in reality is makes you weaker than you already are. Eventually they simmer down and after 10 minutes of inane gossip we're now 20 minutes into our meeting without even mentioning the task at hand. Does a manager at a company go on a forum and bitch about his employees coming in late every day? If you want them …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 08:37 PM
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My impression would be that if she is not up to the task, the men in the unit have one more person to keep safe but who can't help to protect them in return. Seems to decrease everybody's safety. I never left the base when I was deployed, but I can provide some perspective here because I was part of the "one more person to keep safe." But before we talk about that, let's clear up some misconceptions. There aren't really front lines anymore (I imagine there were during the 2001 invasion of AFG an…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:47 PM
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During WW2, 75% of men admitted they intentionally did not fire at the enemy. For those more interested in this concept, "On Killing" by Dave Grossman (LTC, ret.) explains the psychology behind it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:20 PM
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I think it's similar to women in the gym. Introverts can learn social game, but it just comes less naturally and requires more effort for the same results.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:11 AM
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True, but portrayal in the media has changed. Which actually multiplies your point, in that he's actually idealizing a past that never existed.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:53 AM
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If they can't get an athletic frat guy, none of their friends can.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:41 PM
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I skimmed the rest of the comments and got the vibe that you can't "plug back in." Except that idea is completely false, because I did it. I broke away from beta earlier this year. I hit the gym, looked good, my confidence went sky high, and I understood how to gain respect from those around me. I was spinning multiple plates and loving it. I understood that All Women Are Like That. And then I met a "unicorn" and decided to give up the alpha life. And for a short three weeks, I plugged back in. …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 07:43 PM
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In Africa $60+ is pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:15 PM
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I don't doubt this at all. But consider this thought: once upon a time, men were not relegated to merely learning in the context of an institution. They had to seek knowledge themselves through unusual means, and some even just said fuck it and ran experiments and came up with the knowledge through research. My point here is that if you were relying on a bureaucratic institution to maximize your learning potential, you were probably already on the short end of the stick.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:37 PM
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Everywhere else on TRP: Always be improving, keep trying new things, constantly be learning ITT: You're in med school, quit learning new things, stop trying to gain knowledge outside of medicine Personally, I agree that you focus should be on medicine, but "30 minutes a day" spent doing something else (programming for example) makes it clear that programming isn't your main priority. So I say go for it. It'd be no different if you said "I spend 30 minutes a day learning to cook something new." G…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 10:38 PM
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Here we are again, taking women's words at face value on TRP. Isn't that why we're here, to quit falling in that damn trap? Intended outcome Tell me, dear sir, what is the intended outcome? I know what you think it is, because you've heard what they've told you it is. But what is the intended outcome really? Oh, right, it would be more plausible deniability on the females' ends and making it easier to access true alpha males (e.g. hypergamy). How "Yes Means Yes" fuels hookup culture QED fueling …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:14 PM
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As you both raise your own SMVs you will become a stronger couple Your post is spot on, but I just wanted to highlight also that this will be achieved by being a successful leader in her eyes. If a male shows a male friend how to lift, that male will be grateful and think "I am appreciative of what he has done for me." It will be different in the female mindset, such that she will think "he has lead me down the correct path; I am being effectively managed by a capable leader." This, in and of it…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:16 PM
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Shit, thinking back even further, you're a descendant of a long line of alpha males who succeeded at the mating game from the time of our species' first evolutionary leap into sexual reproduction. Think of all the shit they have collectively been through. And even before that, they successfully asexually reproduced via binary fission. Still pretty exciting.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 01:23 AM
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I don't think you understand how this works, man. The family has an investment in their daughter, not this cuckolded shitlord of a groom. If their daughter fails at acting responsibly, what does that say about the family that raised her? The self-preservation hamster runs at light speed. I was raped, and I didn't tell you in order to keep you safe But you were clearly enjoying it in the video... They slipped something in my drink That's foolproof. Or, this too... Don't use my rape as a weapon ag…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:14 PM
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I was moreso implying that yes, as a man, you will probably get shit on by your family. But if a female did the same actions, she would likely be supported and encouraged by members of her family. Some people are just shit I agree, and I'm an acedote of a non-shit person that came from a shit upbringing. But we're not talking about anecdotal evidence here, because it's grossly unreliable. Not only are people born with a certain set of genetic traits which predispose them to certain behaviors (fa…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 02:31 PM
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You're right, currently families are so unsupportive of women who divorce rape their rich husbands. Pussypass isn't a real thing. /s
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 11:51 PM
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It says more about her peer group than her family [Her baby boomer dad is] the worst Her peer group and the stuff she is allowed to do are second-order effects from how her family has raised her. And you agree with this statement considering you just blamed the father too.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:07 PM
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6 months into the marriage he starts sleeping with he he Not she. He. That one little letter drops a ton of accountability.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:10 PM
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Let's think about this for a minute. If this woman cheats on the eve of her wedding, what does that say about the people closest to her? E.g. "everyone in her family." Hint: nobody will care, you will get fucked, you lose.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:42 PM
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I'm really seeing a huge fundamental lack of understanding coming from you during these two posts. Let's talk about this. You mention getting women as a motive, but then you mention getting women as an incentive. Here's a helpful blurb I just found which might better separate the two in your head... There really is a difference between incentives and motivation. What an incentive is ‘I am going to pay you to want what I want.’ And as along as you pay people to want what you want they do it. The …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 09:34 PM
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I wish there was an easy answer. On a personal level, I usually end up directing a conversation towards talk of future dreams and accomplishments, and throw in a question along the lines of "if you could either work or stay at home and raise a family, which one would you prefer?" The "stay at home" is always preferred by women I've talked to, though they claim it's not feasible for whatever reason. This next thought won't be directly helpful, but you might be able to use it to give yourself hope…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 05:39 PM
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Improving SMV is of course mostly for yourself I don't think you're reading into OP's post, because it's a fairly complex thought and you seem to be stuck on surface level and this sentence confirms it. OP is merely distinguishing between those who improve SMV for themselves, and those who improve SMV in order to get better women. The differentiation here is the "in order to." Both men will, by definition, get better women by improving their SMV. But they approach the situation from two differin…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 05:11 PM
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its like hiring someone to pretend to like you Wait, are you describing marriage or prostitution?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 04:06 PM
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Most men on TRP aren't going to lose $100 mil on a divorce, so that's really anecdotal.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 04:04 PM
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I'm not saying that it's easy, and I'm definitely not saying that I can do it either, but theoretically there is a way to do it. And if we do it correctly, then it will not be viewed as synonymous with misogyny. I think that eventually there'll be a tipping point anyway, sort of like what we've seen with men. White collar in the office becomes the norm to be successful and unhappy men seek enlightenment through TRP like things. Eventually, when enough single women in their 30's feel washed up an…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:50 PM
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Good call. I'm not even religious but I came off sounding like a religious nut. I'm going to reword that.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:21 PM
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There is no point in shoving their faces in it, any more than they should look down on men for being nature's guinea pig. We are what we are. Try to be the best you, as an individual, can be. And only allow people who do the same to be close to you. That sounds so very laissez faire, but it's a dangerous path and here's why. Feminism is currently pushing the idea that women can and should go forth and seek great careers which cause much stress, and while doing so delay childbirth and completely …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 05:28 PM
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Icyhot39, you're absolutely right. From the dawn of mankind, we've actually be interested in a deeper desire. To have meaningful conversation with the most interesting one. In fact we see this in all mammals. They aren't seeking the best sexual mate, they're just seeking the one they're most emotionally compatible with! :) :) :) To be clear, just for you. Your hamster is running a million miles an hour to try to give further meaning to every girl you've had oneitis for. But strip down every exte…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:25 AM
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What I mean is, I think I want a circle of mates who get that bitches ain't loyal or, indeed, shit. Who you can compete with, without anyone getting buttblasted when they lose. This is a nice theory, but ultimately not how the world works. Sometimes people, even men, have emotions and lead with emotions rather than logic. Pretty much everyone gets oneitis at some point.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:13 PM
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They don't like it, they love it. You'd divorce and remarry more often if it came with all of the benefits afforded to women.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 10:50 PM
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Why do people trade 30+ years of independence for a semi-stable marriage that might leave them feeling devastated? Same reason. Check out Erikson's psychosocial stages of development. Intimacy vs isolation is nearly two decades. It's not an exact science but it gives great insight into why someone would think like this.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:49 PM
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People come to TRP because they're beta and can't figure out on their own how to escape their hole. A majority still can't do it once they're explained how. Really, think about it. TRP is full of betas who are still beta.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:39 PM
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It must be just as hard for the professional male athletes that found out later in life that they were actually women. Wait, who am I kidding. They wouldn't be professional male athletes. They'd be terrible.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:22 PM
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Rape and murder should be illegal. Why aren't they?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:15 PM
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It's amazing to me that TRP can provide in-depth analysis any other feminist word vomit, but when it comes to anti-cat-calling, everyone gets up-in-arms about their rights and whatever else. But here's how I see the situation as it stands.... Any other time, we say "look at their actions, don't listen to their words." Like a woman putting up last minute resistance. It's a test to see if you'll push through it, separating beta from the alpha and giving her plausible deniability for her hamster. W…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:10 PM
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Have you ever actually done this? Usually provokes a hamster running at lightspeed: "you just want her for yourself."
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:23 PM
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It might be anecdotal, but it doesn't mean it's not happening. And my statements of safety implications carry over to collegiate and professional levels. I just think we haven't seen the safety rules roll out to those levels yet.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:34 AM
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My point focuses on the fact that a "fit" life (defined by external, meaningless things) might actually lead to shit genes. This includes genes which predispose someone to diabetes, heart disease, etc. We run into a problem -- as a species -- when the ones who are the "fittest" in society are the ones which are least fit physically, and set up future generations for failure with weak genes.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:31 AM
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But biologically, this still makes sense. But only because we've had a Darwinian shift of what's prioritized for offspring. The offspring's quality of life is a function of the mother's quality of life. If the mother's in danger, the child will be in danger. If the mother is living comfortably, the child will live comfortably. Makes sense, right? But the Darwinian shift messes with that. Because the most beta guy with shitty genes could be making millions of dollars, and making it an attractive …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:42 PM
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The top 10-20% would be the status quo. Alpha and beta wouldn't change, it would just be a shift. A good shift, none the less, but we'd still have the division. Because of basic biology.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:14 PM
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If you take this analogy into NASCAR... Yes, it does make sense to add extra protections to a driver. Instantly I'm thinking the window net (after Richard Petty's crash at Darlington way back when) and HANS/Hutchinson device (after Earnhardt's death). But, yet, drivers still end up with serious injuries and deaths on the track. Why? Because you're racing a fucking car at 200 mph. 300-pound men, who are intensely conditioned athletes, are running at each other at a dead sprint. No shit someone's …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:11 PM
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Not only is it a waste of time and mental energy, but you're outside of your zone of control. It's better just to analyze it yourself, find out what you can change in the future, and shrug off anything that you don't understand as just being a function of her behavior (e.g. variables). "What do I do wrong" translates to "what can I do to please the girls next time." Which means you're still thinking BP, when you need to be thinking "what can I improve about myself to make me more awesome for me?…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:44 PM
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The way I look at it is that she's probably trying to assert her dominance, or at least try to re-evaluate her status in comparison to the alpha. Dogs do this all the time. Imagine a group of dogs where the beta tries to eat from the same bowl as an alpha. The alpha growls and scares the beta off. The beta is asking, "am I allowed to do this yet? Can I get away with this?" The correct response for the alpha is to remind the beta that no, it is not yet your time. I'm still in charge. In a career …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:14 PM
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"You want to make an omelet? You've got to break some eggs."
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:59 PM
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You think you closed the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:42 AM
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I'll quickly reply with some advice which might work for you, but it's really just a mental block. I think what's going on here on some level is the thought of "if I ask her for her number and she says no, I won't be able to sleep with her." So already, you're considering the interaction with an objective. If you met a guy in class and you thought he'd be interesting to talk to again later, would you be worried about getting his number? Hell no, you'd be thinking "I want to have further contact …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:05 PM
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The company I currently work at can't fire a middle manager because she's a woman Have you ever considered the fact that she may be valuable to the company in a middle management position? It sounds as if she is.... easy for the higher management to manipulate causes strife and discourse among subordinates gives an even greater plausible deniability to upper management Let's especially talk about the third bullet, because PD is key for upper-level sociopaths versus mid-level clueless. As you say…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:20 PM
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If you read carefully, I said that men keep useful and diverse men in their life. Whereas the traits women are looking for the traits within men that drive AF/BB. If you want to attract women, you'll get their mental attraction by either being manly (AF) or being a collection of traits which they've chosen to be important in providing (BB). Since we're not on TRP to attract women to us so that we can be BB, it would make sense for the overall conclusion to be "act manly." To put it in more simpl…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:37 PM
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I'd say the three different "categories" you listed shed some light into what the girl is looking for in that particular partner. Men do it too in their friend groups. Often, they'll have all different types of friends. Some might be great with money, some might be gamers, some might be into medicine and whatnot. Chances are you didn't walk around thinking "I am looking for a friend with X trait" but rather you met them, clicked, and thought "as a friend with X trait, they would be good for Y re…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 01:35 AM
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You're a real internet superhero. I'm mirrin.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:48 PM
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is this you?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 02:30 AM
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Except that TRP isn't really a place to "rib" each other and insult for no reason other than your own show of dominance or whatever. Take that shit out of here, go back to 4chan or whatever other shithole you came from. You're literally just shaming him and not providing anything constructive to this discussion. You're no better than the soulless women who seek to bring down the beta male. TRP seeks to help the beta male break from that life and transcend into taking grasp. You're not helping th…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:35 AM
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Right, basically nobody actually in your personal business.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:09 AM
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You do understand that if every man does this civilization will cease to exist? Clearly civilization did not exist before government-stamped marriages. Great point.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:10 AM
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Which one of these weapons has a round in the chamber (red status) versus just a magazine inserted with no round (amber status)? That's right, you can't tell. Now, which one of these couples went through their government to get married and make it "official"? Once again, unable to tell. The only people that would know would be the people that get told what's actually going on. Amber status is code for "go to red status if you want, but we can't cover your ass if you have an negligent discharge."…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:05 AM
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Asperger Syndrome? You've got to be fucking kidding me. I'll start off saying that more than one of my friends has suggested that I sit somewhere on the ASD, and my Myers Briggs tests as an INTJ. That combo makes perfect sense if you're into that metapsychology. But here's the thing, does it fucking matter? I'm not here to come and talk about our mental health system created such a clusterfuck of a diagnosis as ASD (or even the fact that Aspergers was removed from DSM as of the most recent editi…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:43 PM
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The goal is to have a woman as a Chief of Staff by 2020ish timeframe. Same reason why they let women into Ranger School for the Army.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:09 PM
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But why wouldn't they? If you were offered $5 or $10 for free, would you even consider taking the $5?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:55 PM
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This guy isn't looking for advice, rather he is looking for validation from TRP that this is a good idea. And he's going to ignore/hamster any post that doesn't give him that validation.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:27 PM
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Sadly, plenty of people pay even more than that...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:30 PM
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If she got drunk and then got behind the wheel of a car and killed someone, would it still apply? "Oh, she's just 18. It was just a silly little mistake! NO HARM DONE LOL!"
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 09:27 PM
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And if anyone can think of a good example, the woman is either lying about her comfort or she has given up all hope of hypersocial behavior.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 11:59 PM
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The military cultures bitching and complaining and not being able to do for yourself I'm also in the mil so I can speak from experience here. It seemed like 60-85% of the people who enlist do so because they were raised in that environment, i.e. poor with no one to help them out, show them how to budget, show them how to eat cheaply, show them how to succeed in America. So of course, not many people that I interacted with while on AD were of any quality in terms of self-determination, drive, and…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 11:20 PM
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If you remained a virgin or have a low partner count, you might find a high-value man to marry who values the restraint you displayed, and statistically your marriage is more likely to succeed. "Low partner count" doesn't apply here, just focusing on the virgin part... I'm always a bit puzzled by this concept when it comes up, because one of the points often reiterated by TRP is the act of dropping a woman if she won't put out. If an alpha is looking to sleep with as many woman as possible, then…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:29 PM
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Do you think the fall has to do something with the disolution of the Empire of Japan after WW2 and the following occupation by Allied forces? I mean, GA MacArthur had this to say about Japan in the 50's... The Japanese people, since the war, have undergone the greatest reformation recorded in modern history. With a commendable will, eagerness to learn, and marked capacity to understand, they have, from the ashes left in war's wake, erected in Japan an edifice dedicated to the supremacy of indivi…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:41 PM
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I agree, but him doing it and then us saying "he shouldn't be prosecuted for that" is the kind of thing that women do. Like if they don't get offered enough salary.. "I deserve more money than this." We can work to change the culture but it should be of no surprise to anyone (including the employee) that people were upset when he used gender stereotypes in a negative fashion. Just saying "he shouldn't be punished so severely" really isn't doing anything except intensifying the viewpoint of the f…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 04:10 AM
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Not the best decision on his part. He needs some situational awareness.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:03 AM
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Listen closely, my child. You have two options here. Your first option is that you can ask me to change how I talk to people on the internet. Or the second option is that you can change how you react to what people say to you on the internet. With which option are you more likely to see results? This applies to all things in life and it is a core TRP value. When women mock you for your "sexual desires" you can either spin it around in your favor, or you can ask them to not be so mean :( because …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:18 PM
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It just doesn't feel right at all. So do you have the same problem with double speak, then? Would you prefer if every male-female interaction consisted of.. "Hi, I'm Costafarian, and I would like to have sex with you." "Hi Costafarian, I'm a girl and I would like to have sex with you as well." mocked Mocked as in the words that come out of a woman's mouth? Did you miss the part on TRP where you're supposed to pay attention to how a woman acts, rather than what they say? Shit, kid. You might as w…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:27 AM
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Generally when someone on TRP says "hey, stop doing X" you should realize that you're doing X. I don't know the_red_scimitar but I'm guessing he's not here to call people out for things they're not actually doing. How would that benefit him? Quit hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:22 AM
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beginning of their life So for these people, the manufacturer forgot the glue at the factory but the product still shipped. Nothing we can do here. For everyone else, we need a touch-up of glue every now and again to make sure the product stays functional.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:04 AM
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What, do you got your period?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:21 PM
2

Women will always get indigent when you qualify your preference with something that is not them. (This includes women with good curves but is not aware of how good she looks. If she thinks she's pure fat, she's going to be afraid that you're not attracted, and will shame you for your preferences.)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:33 PM
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The ones who are all belly probably have a high level of cortisol and thus have developed Cushing's-like symptoms. It's an illness. Probably why it's not attractive. (Yes, obesity is an illness too, but I think 90% of men will all agree when a curvy woman looks good over Cushingoid fatty.)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:12 PM
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I agree with your distinction here. When "just be yourself" comes from women, it's more like they're saying "you're a beta, just accept it." But on TRP, you have to be okay with where you are right now, and that applies at all times. On day 1 at the gym I couldn't do dumbbell curls with 25 pounds. Female JBY would say "you don't need to go to the gym, girls will like you how you are." But TRP's JBY would be along the lines of, "that's good that you've started to work towards progress. Maybe next…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:05 PM
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Corporal E-4 One is rank, one is pay grade wat
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 04:04 PM
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For girls you know: pay attention to tampon wrappers in the trashcan
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 04:56 AM
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I think there's a big difference that will eventually play an important role in feminism. And here's how. If it's truly a blank slate, that means the leaders are responsible for instilling values into new humans. That means when brainwashing fails and we still get abusive men, it was a result of the mother who raised him (or more likely, it was a result of the abusive man that was still somewhat involved in the kid's life. But when fathers are 100% removed, it will still point hamsters in the di…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:30 PM
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blank slate After a conversation with a feminist the other day, I don't think it's a "blank slate" issue. Most people (feminists included) readily agree to the fact that there's heavy biological and hormonal influence in human behavior. However, the driving point for my feminist friend was that humans "have the cognitive ability to transcend their primal desires." That theory is more reasonable (though still ridiculous) as it doesn't completely shit on nature versus nurture. It also works with t…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:41 PM
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I'm willing to bet that she has slept with the "several very nice, respectable men," but she just hasn't "felt that spark" for anything serious. Your grandma may be withholding knowledge of her sexual activity to you. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:07 PM
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tl;dr: your grandma is spinning plates
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:40 PM
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If the tables were turned and the man said to the woman "My ex was abusive," the first thing the woman will think is this guy was weak enough to let a woman control and abuse him. She's probably instantly downgrading him from alpha to beta if she hasn't already. There's no reason why we can't do the same: downgrade to a next. That girl has no self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, and also constantly plays the victim card. Next.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:17 PM
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There's plenty of RP/BP examples in actual reality. Why does everyone need to constantly validate in using fiction (and terrible fiction, no less)?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:28 PM
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I decided to take another minute and add a more objective examination of things. I said "Nothing good is going to come of this." but there actually are some good things which could come out of females in "front line combat roles." So let's discuss them. And if anyone has any more to add, I'd love to hear. Good things: 1) Coalition females to interact with local national females 2) Gender equality and political correctness 3) ....That's all I can think of. So let's hit the first point. From this …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 12:29 AM
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Is female presence really destructive of the unit dynamics? As a fobbit here, I will say that my XO (male) and NCOIC (female) were both punished in-theater because they were sharing the hospital's tactical operation center as lodging. What if it were a female and male as foxhole buddies in the field? Would that be fraternization too? It's against policy for them to be in close quarters but it's politically incorrect when they aren't allowed to be. And what would happen if there was one female wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 11:50 PM
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Trinity: And when he found me, he told me I wasn't really looking for him. I was looking for an answer. Also, Kid: I mean, you're the reason I'm here, Neo. Neo: I told you, Kid, you found me, I didn't find you. Neo: You saved yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 10:53 PM
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Army here. From what I understand about the regression of Airborne School standards was this: The first batch of fresh females were the ones who could actually compete with (or even do better than) the male standards. If you've ever been in the mil, you've seen these women though they're few and far between (out of the 300 female students I saw in AIT, maybe 1 or 2 females fit the bill). This set the stage for "yes! Females CAN do it too!" so the next round are the ones that maybe can meet the s…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 05:18 PM
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Check yourself. Your frame is out the window. It wasn't so much the age thing as it was the way you stated it. At least that's how I do it, but I'm only 20 How does this sound different from... This is how I do it, and I see results. I'm not even 21 yet. Or not even mention the age thing at all. You're trying to make a point that it's irrelevant. So why did you include it? e: You can keep hamstering away or take something away from this exchange. Your choice.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 11:43 PM
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In a sense, ethos does not belong to the speaker but to the audience. Thus, it is the audience that determines whether a speaker is a high- or a low-ethos speaker. Violations of ethos include: The speaker has a direct interest in the outcome of the debate (e.g. a person pleading innocence of a crime); The speaker has a vested interest or ulterior motive in the outcome of the debate; The speaker has no expertise (e.g. a lawyer giving a speech on space flight is less convincing than an astronaut g…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 11:32 PM
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Never try and get a women. If you're doing it right, women will try and get YOU. Hmm.. Okay... let's see where he goes with this. You're 25, you don't NEED a lot of sex, and every year you get older, it will get easier and easier for you to get pussy Sounds about right, true for me so far At least that's how I do it, but i'm only 20. LOL NOPE.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:32 PM
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If a guy can't maintain frame in that type of situation, then it's a sign of weakness on his part and it's something he needs to recognize and work on in order to better himself as a man. In this day and age, most definitely. If a man knows without a doubt that physical abuse towards his S.O. will land him in jail or some kind of trouble, he's making a huge mistake by choosing to partake in that behavior. He is not maintaining situational awareness. It might have been a fine option a thousand ye…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:01 PM
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I'm going to reply to you assuming your post is serious. If that's what you really got from my post, it went right over your head. And that's why you don't have a firm grasp on the dynamics at play in the abusive relationship situation. And honestly, most men don't exactly understand what's going on and why. There's a way to explain it and hamster (what the group at the conference does), a way to explain it and understand (what I do, having been there), and a way to explain it and blame the syst…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:13 PM
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If I see a lion in the woods, I'm going to perceive that as an immediate threat. Why? Because I've seen what lions can do. Maybe it was a friendly lion. Maybe I just generalized. Maybe I don't give a fuck, because I'd rather be alive. It doesn't mean I insulted the lion, it means I used logic and reasoning to make an educated guess about the situation.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:33 PM
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For the most part, I was generalizing based on the situation being discussed. Regardless what your 2014 political correctness guide tells you, it's okay to generalize. If we were talking about socioeconomic status (SES), I'd just as soon say "low SES people don't have opportunity to escape poverty, and they just live their lives in a spiral of poor decisions." And you'd probably say "some low SES people have tons of opportunity!" And those people, my friend, would be the exception. I'm not talki…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:02 PM
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It's quite unfortunate, but that's the way things are, so what can we do about it? I spent a few hours reflecting on this question, and I think I've come up with an answer. On TRP, we all might write about how this is a terrible tragedy for men in America and the court system is bias and blah blah blah. Is it all true? Well, maybe, but it's irrelevant to my point here and now. On a microsociological scale, this wave of feminism can be viewed in a positive light to benefit men. Generally speaking…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:51 PM
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Prepare the downvotes, but here goes. I can really understand the mindset of the woman in the controlling, abusive relationship (man abusing woman). It is definitely a vicious cycle. I was in a "woman abusing man" version, and I played that same game for almost a year. Because I'm not hamstering about it anymore, I can identify/explain a few things about the situation that are somewhat true... 5—Husband uses “negs” (her words, not mine) and isolation to destroy woman’s ego and cut off her social…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:11 PM
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they exist, but the chances of getting one are low Exactly. It would be dumb to say "this next ticket I purchase is the big winner!" How the fuck do you know? Probability says it's not. Though if you buy it and expect nothing and you do win, tomorrow you can say "it turned out to be a winning ticket." If you meet a woman and you think you won, chances are that you just haven't lost yet. At the end of that relationship you can determine if you won or lost. And if that's truly a unicorn, "end of r…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:39 PM
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Do you want me to punnet square this shit? Fine, I will. If you're too fucking dense to understand the punnet square, here's the short version: AWALT. Just going off the basis of "which school of thought has the best result for me," a firm belief that AWALT will benefit you 100% of the time. Do we need to say more? edit: wording
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:20 AM
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I don't think he's trolling as much as he genuinely doesn't think AWALT. He's holding out hope for that unicorn. It's out there.... I swear.......NAWALT
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:04 AM
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Good thing you are here to show us the golden way, yuanhua. We were lost on our path, thinking AWALT. But now with your excellent demonstration, we have realized that NAWALT. Thank you kindly.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 03:39 AM
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Maybe while you're making all that money, you'll also find your unicorn. TRP isn't really the guide for the most perfect situation, but rather it's a guide to make the best out of the really shitty situation which is the real world. You can come here and say "if I do everything right, the girl won't leave me AND I'll provide!" but you're probably just setting yourself up for disappointment more than anything, man.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:57 AM
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I don't think it's so much that the two roles are mutually exclusive, I just think that they tend to be. Imagine a woman who knows she can nail a really good looking alpha who also pulls in 250K a year. Do you think she feels like she could nail a 'better' alpha who pulls in 300K a year? 500k? Damn straight. Also, if she takes your money while she pursues the higher-level alpha, you are now the BB. Is it possible to be the provider and the alpha? Probably. Is it likely to last? Doubt it. She's a…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:46 AM
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Possibly turning this into an LTR because she seems very worthy Whoa whoa whoa. You haven't even fucked her yet. Slow down, cowboy.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:43 AM
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I hear you. I saw this on the front page before you posted it to TRP. I got to maybe 10 comments before I simply had to leave. Like this... all my wat. I haven't noticed anyone else saying this (forgive me if I just missed it while skimming)- he told you to get out of "our house" correct? Is this a shared rental, something you two own...? This is the point where you need to decide if you're going to fight for it or just find another place to go. Be strong though. When you come back to get your s…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 10:01 PM
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Replace "shotgun" with knife, baseball bat, cricket bat, cement block, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 08:33 PM
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I wasn't exactly clear, but by "you" I meant it directed towards the girl. I'll fix.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:38 PM
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Hey man. We've all been there. But only few of us have been here.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:20 PM
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He had a lot of other great qualities, which I why I stayed with him for so long. I'm just in total shock that he is really like this. I told her that he always talks this way, and she shouldn't take it personally because he is basically sexist I don't know where I'm going with this, really. I just want some feedback on the whole situation She's just looking for validation e: formatting, wording
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:08 PM
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begging like a dog Did you try just giving it to her instead of asking?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:02 PM
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Here's a tip that seems obvious but may not be. Buy clothes that fit your form. I can walk down the street and pick out a hundred guys whose shirts are too big for them. Not gigantic, but just one size makes a difference. Which one looks better? Obviously the right! This shirt is way too baggy for this guy. Now how about this T? See the difference? This might be a little too tight. This looks hot. Not. Hit me up if you have any questions. I just bought some new shirts and I've noticed an instant…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:05 PM
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I honestly do feel bad for the guy. I think in a way, we all feel "bad" for the betas, because most of us on TRP were that way at one point. So we can empathize. And we can think, "man, that situation SUCKS! I'd hate to be that guy." But we're not that guy anymore, because we've put ourselves on a pedestal now and we look out for #1. Where would we be if we took a step back and said "I need to consider his and her needs before my own"? We'd be the beta! The white knight! If she wasn't fucking me…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 05:52 PM
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It's just that the effort to make someone's life good is so little that it might be worth it. tips fedora Merely everyone on this subreddit was bluepill until they discovered TRP. We went looking for TRP and we found it. It wasn't written on the semen we were slurping out of our GF's vaginas. No he doesn't know him, but is helping him really that hard ? Of course he can keep her for some easy sex, but as I said, it's up to him. Again, tips fedora. You have yet to tell me how this improves OP's l…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 04:27 PM
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By "full postal" I meant "kills them both (OP and girl)." "Shown him some RP basics here and there." Hey bro, just so you know, I fucked your future wife, but don't worry. I'm going to make you a better man out of it, because she's a cheating whore and you're dodging a bullet here. Thank me later! Did you miss the part where this dentist has been trained all his life to be a beta provider? TRP preaches learning via self-improvement. This BB has had everything given to him. In fact he's not even …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 03:24 PM
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The BB hamsters and casually mentions it to the girl. She plays it off and stops sleeping with OP. Or the BB goes full postal on both of them. OP isn't invested in BB's future. Even if this guy was introduced to TRP, what would change? He's going to be a dentist and he is getting a full ride from his parents. He's never going to appreciate alpha traits because he's stuck in a beta/provider situation. What's always top priority on TRP? Number one. And it's in OP's best interest to keep this slut …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 02:14 PM
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Having been in a somewhat similar situation described elsewhere in the thread, I'll offer some perspective. Beta actions are what got me in a situation where my wife had no respect for me and hit me as she saw fit. That was my responsibility to rise up before it escalated, and I didn't. I fell short. Though once she started laying her hands on me, I really didn't have any options, and I was in a situation similar to what Kubomi is describing. If I had "pulled a superman-alpha out of my ass" then…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 03:24 PM
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When I was beta and married, my wife attacked me and I called the police. The police officer laughed at me because I couldn't defend myself against a woman. In hindsight, I'm laughing at myself too. When I couldn't control my woman or put her in her place, I didn't know what else to do other than call the police. This guy probably feels the same way. I doubt he'll ever figure it out though.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 11:35 PM
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gold digging cunt Kind of redundant there, don't you think? If I am worth millions/billions of dollars, I would probably keep in mind that anything I say to a "gold digging cunt" might end up on the media and I should watch my mouth. Or maybe we should go with your apparent strategy of just trusting the whore to do the right thing? He is only human and he is going to make mistakes, yes. But now he must pay for those mistakes. And that mistake is not covering his ass. Oh, also he could have just …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:10 AM
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I'm not implying that he doesn't have the expectation to privacy on a phone call, but I am saying that it's way too easy for that bitch to record it and send it out to the rest of the world. Nobody would care if they heard me say those words, but I also don't have billions of dollars riding on my comments. She's definitely not right to leak the phone call, but would you expect anything more from such a gold digging whore? Sterling didn't cover his ass. Before the blame train even leaves the stat…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:32 PM
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Via a digital medium, nothing is private.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:42 PM
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It also cost him his "marriage." http://abcnews.go.com/2020/abc-news-exclusive-shelly-sterling-eventually-file-divorce/story?id=23673962 But we should have already been expecting this move from her.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 03:00 PM
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You have to ask yourself why, though. My social tendencies will also be cyclical, usually in parallel to some amount of oneitis I'm feeling. In that case, maybe your anxiety is partly some form of performance anxiety. Perhaps you felt fine because you basically rehearsed enough for the performance, but you never actually felt any more confident in your underlying skills. Instead of improving yourself for the purpose of sex, try to improve yourself for the purpose of improvement. As I said above,…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:52 PM
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I second this. Porn gives you a fucked up perception of how your sexual encounters should be: you're a really ripped guy with a 12 pack and the girl just spreads her legs and you're golden. Real life isn't like that, and you're having problems understanding how to get her to spread, and it's a point of anxiety for you. Take some time and work on your strengths (body, hobbies, everything) and you'll start to get sex easier. And the easier it gets, the more confident you will become, and it won't …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 03:26 PM
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Good advice. Not only does lower weight lead to bulkier results when done correctly, but also reduces the potential for injury. Imagine dumbbell curling 40 lb compared to 20 lb. I can keep form better much longer with the 20 lb.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:29 PM
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It sounds like you have oneitis for your sister. And I wrote that before I even read the last line.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:59 PM
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