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36, never married, no kids. A series of long-term relationships, 2 of them leading to periods of co-habitation lasting a few years. Never even got engaged. After my last relationship ended 2 years ago, I decided to GYOW and things immediately became clear. 6 figs, own house, own car, peace and quiet 24/7. I like my hobbies (music, DJing, tech, gaming, cycling) but keep fairly minimalist and the house is pretty spartan. I'm glad I escaped marriage and kids; I'd never even remotely consider dating…
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 09:24 PM
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Que the Tinder profile with "I have 3 children and they come first, they are my WURLD" (if she has had children from Chad). Then the obligatory "NO HOOKUPS, NO GAMES" and calls for "something real/serious", the profile picture from the neck up, and bonus points for the puppy dog/fox filter with the perfectly smooth skin, large eyes and ears. If you match with her, you had better be 'witty' and clever and impress her!
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 02:45 PM
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Beautiful and inspiring post, thank you so much! This part particularly hit me: " I could be married right now, and miserable, cooped up in some house outside Philadelphia with my ex-wife who is an ugly person, inside and out. I'm not. I got away. I'm never coming back. I love this life, and it's not for sale." 35M here and I spent this morning (Sunday) snoozing my alarm from 8-11am, star-fished in my bed, in my house and deciding if I should work on my latest music project or catch up on laundr…
/r/MGTOW27/09/20 04:33 PM
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enjoyed the article, thanks for the post. I look forward to continuing this lifestyle - GYOW :)
/r/MGTOW24/09/20 08:06 PM
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35 here. I think for me it has been a combination of chilled out libido and then my rational head overtaking my dick when it comes to decision-making. "Opportunities" my former self would have taken up 10 years ago to get action are now veto'd by my brain: think of the potential consequences, risks, worse-case scenarios. At the least, I just don't have the energy or motivation to go out of my way for some action when the hook-up may result in unwanted emotional attachment and expectations (from …
/r/MGTOW14/09/20 02:45 PM
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This exactly. Growing up in a conservative community I never understood why people would simultaneously bring up how apparently awful marriage and kids are, while also doing that exact "hardy har har" laugh and making light of it. There is some sort of 'prestige' to being a 'family man' and we're expected to just take the negatives that go along with it. Regardless of our own happiness! Then people look at you like you're nuts when you are 35M and unmarried w/no kids. Like the burden is on me to…
/r/MGTOW03/09/20 04:21 AM
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And in addition to all that's been said...is that...is that the COMIC SANS FONT?!
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 02:17 AM
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Have worked in a clinic. Saw an odd trickle of women (some married) coming in while husband's away on deployment for "STI/STD check" ... huh. It kept happening and happening and I was in denial about it for a few years before I started to expect it. Go your own way -AWALT
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 02:13 AM
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If you can't handle X Y or Z then *sniffle/snort* SWIPE LEFT! Nyehhhhhhhh >(
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 02:53 PM
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if only the system was even remotely fair
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 03:13 PM
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She was 4th richest woman in the world as of late April 2020. For marrying/divorcing... easy trip to the top!
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 02:28 AM
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35M. Mom is a traditional Asian mother of whom I'm her only son. You can imagine the heat I get for being GYOW. Where's the girl? Where's the kids? Nope. My Dad's cool as hell with my choices. Pretty much "you do you, I love you no matter what."
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 03:26 PM
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What a 'prize' to bend over backwards for .... gonna get right on that. *gag*
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 03:26 AM
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All that for a 'prize' loaded with years of accumulated baggage!
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 03:32 PM
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It's crazy how similar this is to my house. I have my PC with studio monitors/music production hardware (and software) in my living room, my TV on a stand to the left and a guitar and keyboard beyond that. You'll often find a German Pilsner nearby as well. It took me a long time but I managed to evade marriage and kids and finally found my own way and the ultimate peace. Stay strong, brother, the world is your oyster
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 07:00 AM
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As I read, I was holding my breath ... "He treats me so well ... I'm missing the excitement" and THERE IT IS!
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 06:26 PM
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Welcome! They say they don't recruit, just wait and watch us file in. Happened to me recently as well. It's a great place to be and the future is bright
/r/MGTOW15/08/20 06:34 PM
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35M, single, child-free. I work in healthcare and live way, way below my means. Modest ranch style home in a city with low cost of living, plain clothes, basic furniture, a PC good enough to play games and make music on. I put earned money in savings and conservative investments and 'splurge' on nice things once in awhile. I travel, go to music festivals, help friends out, and wish to retire early and circle the globe a few times. I believe in experiences more than physical 'things' when it come…
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 02:58 PM
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Thanks for the share, really enjoying this. Hits the nail on the head!
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 05:45 AM
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This is so true. Took awhile for me to get redpilled and once I did, I looked back at all my relationships and flings. Mentally took sex out of the picture and asked myself, "would you have spent all that time/energy on them then?" Answer is a resounding NO. No hobbies or interests, just clung to me for whatever utilitarian/superficial reason and hung around until I had enough of their shit.
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 05:43 AM
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This is amazing and should be framed and up on my wall
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 04:21 AM
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Yes, this! Once I started to do the acid-test (how interested would I be in her, how much time/energy would I invest in her if I took sex off the table?) they quickly ALL became extremely boring. Wouldn't want to hang out for so much as having lunch together. ZzZz
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 10:21 PM
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is that ... is that a talking hole?
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:03 PM
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You are handling the pressure quite well! My mother is a very traditional Asian woman who fully expects a wife and kid out of me oh, 10 years ago (I'm 35). She actually emailed me today (this comes weekly or so) again expressing her deep disappointment that I haven't followed the life script yet, and how all of my cousins/other family members have. As with you, I've long accepted her disappointment and will continue to. Too bad for her to not just accept me as-is, because she's not getting ANY '…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:01 PM
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35M, have had long-term relationships with it all: cucked, used for money, constant arguments, near-entrapment, but most of all, a consistent pattern of happy when single, miserable/lonely when dating a woman. Arrived at the exact MGTOW mindset completely on my own and found my way here. Now, working a healthcare professional job with an income to match, own house, own car, saving, working out, and looking towards a bright future doing just what I want.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 05:26 PM
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"but how can I trust her again?" You don't.
/r/MGTOW04/08/20 08:06 PM
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Loved the read. It's true. Right around 30, I realized I genuinely just dont't like the company of women, and all the effort and drama involved in getting a good lay now and then just wasn't worth it anymore. Now I am working hard on what I want and GYOW'd
/r/MGTOW04/08/20 02:10 AM
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Agreed. 35M and spent my entire life slowly coming around to MGTOW on my own terms and from my own experiences. Was introduced to it recently and saw how it was quarantined. I braced myself. Then after lurking for a few days, I couldn't believe it! Every. Single. Conclusion/realization I'd made on my own was laid out here word-for-word. I simply didn't have names for all of this stuff (Chads, beta bucks, monkey branching, the 'wall'). I found a community of like-minded men who were in a place wh…
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 11:04 PM
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Hahaha, amen, brother. I love your writing style, keep spittin' truth!
/r/MGTOW29/07/20 06:44 AM
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Well put. I am 35 now and gone my own way for over a year (not looking back). Busy working on myself, hobbies, stoking friendships with other men (mostly also child-free, wife-free), traveling, relaxing. The idea of pursuing women face to face or online is so soul crushingly boring and unappealing to me now that it never remotely crosses my mind. It did a few years back but over time slowly and surely faded away and gave way to reason.
/r/MGTOW28/07/20 03:44 PM
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She looks like her neck threw up, festered in 110 degree heat for a week, got infested with maggots, solidified and petrified, then the resulting mass slumped over and that became her head
/r/MGTOW24/07/20 03:01 PM
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Great post. It brings to light and articulates everything I've seen/experienced in my bluepilled past. I'll be saving this one!
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 08:54 PM
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She actually very recently confided to my parents that she wants to. However, to sum it up, the dilemma is the "stay together for the kids" situation :/
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 01:36 AM
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He remained simp'd to death after the marriage, as he was before it. Yes, he SHOULD have been working on himself but he has been too bluepilled to see any light. If they divorce (I suspect soon), I can only hope he changes, but I don't have much hope.
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 06:44 PM
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Brother-in-law (40 yrs old) worked very hard to court my sister back in 2008. Lost a lot of weight, started school, acted like a gentleman. After marrying her, he's spent the last 11 years gaining some 100 lbs, hasn't worked a single minute, and has become the most insufferable, useless sack of garbage the world has ever seen. Doesn't even clean or help with the kids and nobody can stand to be around him for more than 10 seconds. But hE gOt ThE wOmAn
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 02:49 PM
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What IS that thing on the left?
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 02:47 PM
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Same. It's been a slow, steady decline in attraction over the years. Much of it from how ugly they are on the inside. It completely overshadows any face-value attractiveness and makes you just want to run the opposite direction.
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 02:46 PM
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I work in medical. We had a huge surge of the name Niveah ("Heaven" spelled roughly backwards) back in the early 2010s. One time in the ER I had a Mom come in with 4 young children and I kid you not: Aiden, Braden, Caden, Jaden. I wanted to fucking throw up in my mouth.
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 02:31 PM
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It took me almost two decades to personally arrive at the MGTOW solution on my own. After simping for women in and out of serial monogamous relationships, close calls with marriage/kids, I finally broke free and have never felt better. Found this sub weeks ago and it has validated every single value I've come to hold. To. The. Letter. 35M and free as a bird, thank you ~
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 08:14 PM
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Very well put!
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 06:54 PM
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35M here, been single and red-pilled for about 3 glorious years. Never married, never kids, never will. Every single one of my male friends from High School and College is simped out and married with kids now. I can't see any of them anymore, they're all drifting away quickly in their "magical" blue-pilled world. I made the effort to visit an old friend 2 weekends ago near my home-town. We went out for lunch and I asked him how the married life was; his wife just had their first child 3 months p…
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 06:33 PM
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