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Well, if she's interested, you are already attractive to her. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction08/08/18 08:08 AM
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I wish I had your problems. But on a serious note, how sure are you that the girl who is coming back will go out with you?
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:50 PM
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Honestly, just dump online dating. It works for only a fraction of men. When you have a disadvantage like this, you're much more likely to meet women in real life.
/r/seduction23/07/18 08:18 PM
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How long have you been living in your current country? You could say something like "I grew up in Pakistan but I moved out [x] years ago and I've been living here ever since." Then maybe mention something nice about your current country and why you like it there. When you reply with just "Pakistan", it's a closed-ended reply and doesn't leave room for any more discussion. Add some more details in your reply.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:15 AM
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I think the key here is the second sentence in the OP. He says to follow his advice if you're already an Instagram user. It pretty much means that if you're the type of person who enjoys using Instagram, you should actively follow girls (and make them follow you) too, in addition to your existing social circle. Sometimes people may never think of this idea, that you should be adding girls you meet to Instagram too, instead of just getting their phone number.
/r/seduction28/06/18 04:25 PM
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You are out of touch with how people use IG these days, and maybe social networks in general. Lots of people never make phone calls but they check their FB or IG all the time. She doesn't have to actively go to your profile, she will see your posts while scrolling through her feed. Also, girls are more likely to give their IG than their phone number, because they can always block you and/or unfollow you if things don't work out.
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:48 PM
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What if the conversation doesn't go there on its own? A lot of girls, even if they are attracted to the guy, will not venture into sexual conversation territory on their own. I'd say OP's advice is good to use as an excuse to bring up the topic. From there, it's easier to talk about it in a more natural way. Nothing happens naturally when it comes to pickup. Your habits are all learned from previous experiences, including what to say, what not to say, how to say it. Body language doesn't develop…
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:11 AM
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Act like your petting a kitten I guess now I know why it's called pussy.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:05 AM
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Of course they don't care if you're getting laid or not. But indifference is different from actively facilitating your failure. Hiring hot girls is a marketing strategy, nothing wrong with that. If you're the type of guy who likes to dance and have fun in a nightclub environment, you're going to pull girls, as simple as that. You're not going to be somehow be "denied" that by the nightclub owners, which is what OP is arguing. Clubs are not for everyone. I'd argue that if you're not an extrovert …
/r/seduction07/06/18 12:56 PM
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How exactly are the nightclub owners preventing your success with women?
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:21 AM
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Agree so much about the demography point. People underestimate just how big of a role demography plays in meeting girls. Once you get out of university, you realize you have to work 10 times harder to have the same active social life.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:49 AM
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Are you in college or high school by any chance? The need to approach women becomes more necessary when you get older and no longer have the advantage of a college atmosphere to meet people. It becomes a lot harder to keep friendships and social life alive once you start working, because everyone just becomes confined to their office and home. In that case, you do need to do something "special" to get a girlfriend, or even keep a social life at all.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:47 AM
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The top voted comments are a shitfest. Either jokes or useless advice. OP, read some of the less upvoted comments, especially the ones about providing him with resources for self-improvement.
/r/seduction16/01/18 05:28 PM
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Yeah, you have to look past appearances for genuine friendships. Once you become friends with all kinds of women, they might have other female friends you might find attractive. Don't have the attitude of "I will only consider this woman as a potential friend if she is attractive".
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:32 AM
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Agreed, maybe he's depressed. Texting takes minimal effort, while going over to someone's place needs actual effort - the type of effort which can be hard to gather during depression.
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:42 PM
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Exactly. If the only contact you're having with her is by texting and you haven't even gone out with her, then texting her a lot is going to make her lose interest because you are seeming needy. But if it's someone you have gone out with many times and you both like each other, then texting is necessary in today's world. Everyone has a smartphone and social media accounts. The whole "never text her for conversation, only text for planning meet-ups" is outdated advice.
/r/seduction06/05/17 04:17 AM
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"Well I didn't want to say anything" You need to say this with a smirk, it will probably make her laugh.
/r/seduction03/11/15 10:24 AM
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Obviously he has low self-esteem and thinks his needs aren't important or that he doesn't deserve to get his needs fulfilled. Many people do not get a lot of love and attention and care as a child, so they think they must achieve lots of things in life and please others in order to be loved. They don't grow up with the healthy experience of getting their intimacy needs fulfilled, just like other human needs like food, safety, education, etc. Assuming you were not homeless or something in childho…
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:23 PM
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What exactly do you mean when you say you can "get" girls? It might not be an issue to have casual flings with women even when you don't have other friends to do stuff with, but if you are going for a more serious relationship, you would be a lot more prone to becoming needy because you don't have your own life consisting of activities with male friends. I have the same issue and reading the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" helped me get immense insight into why I (and many men around the world) have…
/r/seduction10/09/15 02:53 PM
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Is this from the book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy"? He wrote very similar stuff in his section about why men seek approval from women. Must-read book btw, I learned about it from the further reading section of "Models". and I feel I have learned more from this book than "Models"
/r/seduction08/02/15 08:40 AM
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